The Secret to Getting along w/ Others.

[GeneralStoopKid]

Anorexia?

[guitarrookie1974]

when u smile too much peiople think ur stupid....

[shapour88]

no shit

[MuddyTonic]

good POV, very astute, thx for the insight !

[MrBeautifulba1]

Powerful Fantastic Gigglin' Hootenanny Energy into Your Present Moment NOW !!! Yes !! You are evolving into True Freedom and Greatness. Yes !! These thoughts are NOW bringing You closer to Gorgeous Beauty, Love and Understanding. You are choosing to read these words which is causing You to Flow into a Higher State of Being. Yes. It is Happening NOW. You are Strength.

[aniis2003]

I hate my boss because of the way she talks and acts! Now Im not rude to her I always show mutual respect ! Im trying to stop hating her! So in my case its not about smile, cheering up, hugs ..its about "getting along" with the way she acts and talks! I obviously cant change that ...shes 60 years old! Im sick of hating her because I have to deal with her at work :( I desperately need help ! I dont know how i will act of this goes on! btw shes rude, ugly, and will not smile whats so ever!

[marocconit]

do to others what they do to you ;)

[Bradfordbloke]

psychetruth, it sounds like your just stating the obv!

[xhtfrbkyun]

@Bradfordbloke The Rule of Three or Karma Phala seems to be happening to every one who ever hurt me for the past 15 years. It's almost like the movie "Final Destination" only no one is dying, just getting hurt or damaged equipment. It may have something to do with doing unnatural things and hate.

[VictorMusicUK]

Your videos are very touching and encouraging, keep doing what you do, i,m very sure your touching many lifes, God bless you :)

[euheide]

You can't get along with Islam. Islam is an intolerant extremist political party hiding behind a religion.

[funnystarchild]

This is not true. I always treat people good and they just treat me like crap.......

[Arcadia453]

Why can't I find a girl like her?

[cyphter]

Thank you for sharing your reflections and wisdoms with such genuineness! Blessings, blessings!

[walodia69]

this is so stupid, so oridinary ...

[meowtrox]

gay

[friedsters1234]

fu q asshole

[chronosinnerdemon]

This is really really good. This is the best information.

[rokutygrysa]

agreed, positive will be pulled or dragged down by negative more easily than the other way around. if you are happy (and that probably happens once in a while) and at the same time you'll meet someone negative, he or she will probably much easier pull you down and make you feel unhappy that you could lift them up and make them happy.

[mossberg451]

always smile to others

[PiplupTheTorrent]

Sorry, I don't really understand what ur saying, all i can hear is greavy da saddie liek da vai..

[KommenSieSpielster]

Thank you for your observations. I couldn't help but smile!

[iRunWithMyWerewolf]

treat other the way you want to be treated!!! and it'll all work out somehow :]

[iRunWithMyWerewolf]

Your beautiful. good input.

its a nasty world today.

[fatimahkhanom07]

in the beginning: ooooooowaaaoooo

[1852738]

Thank YOU/ Keep it UP.............

[videocruzer]

as soon as you see the frequencies of energy you will feel them more around you.

[LabRat6619]

Its not that easy. In UK people are terrible (yes really). Disrespect seems an automatic part of everyday life. People ONLY show respect when they WANT something from you. OR you have power over somebody else!

The idea of giving love to other people and NEVER getting anything except a smile seems like too much of a long shot?

You live a pretty woman world, thats a great place to be . In a working MANS world its vicious and nasty!!

[longshotpictures]

This is kinda like a Photoshop flower it looks great, but doesn't match the real world. This world is a nasty place man some place you wave hi to them...they'll kill ya!

[ofcelticblood]

When you see someone without a smile, give them one of yours!

[pongman]

Caroline has a very lucky husband. Thank you You Tube for putting this on my Recommended for you list.

[pongman]

Lol, I favorited this video. Now back to the real world of dog eat dog. I wish Caroline would work in my world and see the uphill battle I face everyday. Hmmm I could use an angel on my shoulder but lately its been the bad angel I've been listening to. Sigh, I think the world is doomed. If only there were more people like Caroline in the world. Caroline for President!

[Larkvall]

Ya, I am sure he gets lucky!

[pongman]

Lol, Larkvall

[alphadot]

I would like to know something if you have a video about it please tell me, but what about taking things to heart too much and over reaching in a negative way upon everything, i am always on the brink of tears i don't know how to take that breath and just be strong

[markcruiser64]

I have to work with a "good ole boy" type at work who has at one time almost took a swing at me. Walmart won't fire him though. He always tries to find fault in anything I do.

[voicefromthegrave]

You want to discover people's hate and jealousy? Be the new kid in high school with no friends who is liked by all the girls like. It's 6 years later and I still hate people.

[k1a1t1h1y1]

dont let what happened to you in high school be the focus of the rest of your life. When and if you go to a reunion you will see what that jealous and hatred towards you has produced in them. I bet you have a lot more going for you then they do.

[rambo1235]

This is commen knowledge

[asiantrolls]

I don't like most people, I like animals.

[popgunusmc]

it sounds good, but there are alot of people who's belief system doesn't allow them to be kind to others.

concerning the quote "those who live by the sword die by the sword" well before they die they will rule by the sword.  If you do not stand up for your personal rights you will be seen as easily enslaved.

[translationwiz]

Now, who, couldnt get along with this sweet little lady. ??

[toltec19]

kindness can charm a snake from

[asdftube]

Quran 10:36. But most of them follow nothing but fancy: truly fancy can be of no avail against truth. Verily Allah is well aware of all that they do.

[opaz79]

Islam is different because by "brother" they mean fellow believers, not baby birds, others or straight up men.

[psychetruth]

In most religions "brother" is a reference to the idea that we are all children of God which makes us all brothers and sisters from the same divine father.

This is why priest and nun in Christian religions call one another brothers and sisters.

But yes, the term in Islam is probably most commonly applied to fellow believers.

[asdftube]

The Secret to Getting along w/ Others is to understand them too.

don't say things about people based in suspicion, probably and most commonly!

Quran 49:12 12. O ye who believe! Avoid suspicion as much (as possible): for suspicion in some cases is a sin: And spy not on each other behind their backs. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Nay, ye would abhor it...But fear Allah. For Allah is Oft-Returning, Most Merciful.

[xhtfrbkyun]

@psychetruth The Rule of Three or Karma Phala seems to be happening to every one who ever hurt me for the past 15 years. It's almost like the movie "Final Destination" only no one is dying, just getting hurt or damaged equipment. It may have something to do with doing unnatural things and hate.

[asdftube]

The term brother in Islam is applied to: All human and believers.

Islam teach to have a sound heart, you can't have a sound heart if you hate people. You may hate his doctrine but you do not hate him, you wish and pray for him that he have a right good life.

Quran 26:88. "The Day whereon neither wealth nor sons will avail,

26:89. "But only he (will prosper) that brings to Allah a sound heart;

[VainAppointed]

You have good mothering genes suitable for lots of children.

and lovely hair smelling nice.

In a nutshell you are sexy.

[daveearly161]

I agree. What you do to others (anything) will come back to you. It's called acceptance and comfortability. I've dealt with all types of personalities and I feel that people are going to do what they want to do. The aura of an individual can show there the person can go in life. The essence of morality can transcend into different sections. Also, people that minimize other are the same ones who be at home in their room by themselves crying they ass off because of there emotional setbacks.

[kitygurl12344]

you seem REALLY high

[potpagan]

Two things:

1. You're very pretty. Gwynneth Paltrow and Nicole Kidman ain't got nothin on you. :)

2. Ok, it get it: Be nice to other people. The video could have said the same thing in about half the time. I was hoping for more info along the lines of "How to win friends and influence people." As it was, you just said the same thing over and over.

[catgumart]

Or you do not look freindly, like when you are concentrating, or the sun is in your eyes, or if you are trying to get emotional equilibrium. but to smile would be dishonest, Im pro being positive, but positivity doesnt necesarily mean cheer, or smiles, we need to be honest, and true and have emotional freedom and flexibility, being overly kind or nice on an individual basis can make a person spread themselves to thin, thats enough for now I think you can understand what I mean.

[catgumart]

The Golden Rule is great Im all for it, but there are other dynamics in in the social sphere, there is a need to have flexibility in our emotional spectrum, we cant go around smileing all the time we are more complex than this, we need to be able to show diapproval, be a ble to critically think, and we cant be blackmailed or coerced into beeing sunny and cheerful at all times, a lot of expressions are neutral and organic and not necesarily bad or good but people can say "you dont look happy"

[MCCOLM1982]

U ARE SO CUTE

I LOVE YOUR YOUR VIDEOS 5*

[xJaysrox]

I love your vids, the way you talk and give information makes me learn a lot and remember a lot of it afterwards; thank you very much for your effort!

-Yaser

[dreamdanni]

thanks for telling the secret. Now that I know I'll apply it.

peace

Danni

[Boomerang1970]

Love you concept,Allways Treat People The Way You Want To Be Treated.I Live by That..

[anyalis]

ur cute

[suarez976]

That's true. But unfortuately there are people in the world that no matter how nice you are to them, they will not treat you with any respect or kindness. Which is the point in natalie's video about 10 energy zappers, one of them being not being around destructive people.

[mobiltec]

"But unfortuately there are people in the world that no matter how nice you are to them, they will not treat you with any respect or kindness."

Let's change that quote a little so that it represents the truth a little better... How about...

But unfortuately MOST people in the world, no matter how nice you are to them, will not treat you with any respect or kindness.

I choose to limit my relationships with other people. Most of them are not worth my time or respect.

[YourOasis97]

i dont find that to be true. however, if people are destructive and overtly negative and no matter how much u try, they dont wanna change their attitude, then let them be and go your own way. ive always found that if u do smile at them and wave or just say hi, give a compliment, and especially when u hug them, they respond back in kind. :]

[JohnnyOU08]

Should you really follow the golden rule if you are a sadist?

[psychetruth]

You mean, "should you really follow the golden rule if you are masochist."

[psychetruth]

And you answer is, If you want people to treat you like shit, treat them like shit.

[cjcreativemarketing]

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[xtravisbicklex]

Lovely video :)

Thank you Caroline

[newperson2]

Great video.

[sexybabe2008]

the sound at the beginning really nerves but I like Caroline's talk...thank you! :)

[wizaardo72]

Beautifully simplified and so lovely said. Thank you!

[wadeyou]

Thanks for posting this video! I was looking for something inspiratonal for my religious practice today on YouTube, and thanks to a couple of these PsychTruth videos, I found it! I greatly respect that the video is available for free distrtibution without any commercial purpose.

[superarild]

the problem with this theory is dopamine, witch makes you feel better if you manage to make yourself think that you are better then someone else, so you see, humans will always try to be better then others.

[psychetruth]

I have several friends that don't have a compulsion to be right by making other people wrong or don't feel that belittling other people makes them more important. They are mostly well educated professionals. When a person is truly self confident he doesn't give a shit what other people think.

[YourOasis97]

amen.

[Juggaloserialeater]

Im an atheist. so all that stuff comes from common sence produced by my brain not some archaeic text full of dead philosophy..

[psychetruth]

You just said "all that stuff is common sense" that comes from my brain, not some archaic test full of dead of philosophy. So is the information common sense or dead philosophy? Also, There are far more people in the world that believe in the bible than atheists, To call it a dead inaccurate. Church attendance amongst university student's is at an all time high right now as well.

[Juggaloserialeater]

I said it is full of dead philosophy not everything in it is dead. and there are alot of answers for the second one. and how many people out of all the christians actually belive the bible to be 100% true..including all the evil and creation story..

[psychetruth]

The majority of Christians do not interpret the bible literally. You would be surprised how much wisdom exist in religious scriptures from all world religions though. Part of religious thought includes ideas about living a successful life and dealing w/ other people. Like anything you study, it's important to take things that are workable and separate them out from things that don't work.

[Juggaloserialeater]

correct, that was my point. I do not need a book to teach me empathy. There is now proof that we do not get are morality from religion. So I do agree with you there are alot of good things in the bible. But alot of, in my opinion evil and immoral things as well. It is good if you cherry pick.

[msintrprttd]

i love that you posted this! it seems like the easier route to want to hurt someone who treats you badly, i'm glad there's someone who seems to believe otherwise.  thanks for the videos! i'm happy to listen to your vids, it seems to simple because they're simple morales, but we get blinded when we feel like we're wounded.

[niceAswift]

maybe u shud re-edit this video... ur mouth and speach is fuxd

[psychetruth]

not my editing it's YouTube's conversion process. The LiveVideo version is perfectly in sync. The link is posted in the video description.

[yorbestfriend]

may be you know the right way.... nice video

[blackflower75]

Whatkind of owl is that at the end it looked amazing ?

[psychetruth]

those are called snow owls. :) Yes they are very beautiful.

[blackflower75]

Wow...thx

[YourOasis97]

i love snow owls, their so pretty and cute. :] i also love the ending to most of the vids here, with the classical music. which one is it? i love that music.

[magicalpossibilities]

Awesome video!

[katherineconner]

Thanks, very inspiring.

[MontysMarket]

brilliant. i am going to try tthe extra positive thing today. It must work because look how lovely and bright she is. Just hearing her talk makes me feel happier. x

[Maxell303]

awesome video

[U2Love]

you are exactly right.

[Satyakrishna]

Im real glad to have come across this today.

[sRowTL985]

When you feel friendly and in a good mood, not everybody will have that same feeling when you say hey to them. Some of them will stay in the mood they were in.

[EarlyMist]

go girl.

[JoMcEwan]

Thankyou :)

[nG370]

Hi, just wondering how a person that follows the rule: do unto others..., deals with cruel people. Can a good person return cruelty to the cruel to protect their good life? Should we maybe just hope that love will change a cruel person so they don't continue to disrupt the peace with the pingpong ball effect? I think sometimes cruel people will not respond to love and we have to protect what we love. N

[JoMcEwan]

I dont think returning cruelty to a cruel person would protect or solve anything. It certainly will not help change that person.

[nG370]

Hi,doing unto others as you would have them do to you is not a statement concerned with the outcome.The video was suggesting that I see how being kind causes kindness in others.She said being cruel produces cruelness in others.If a person is cruel to me then to follow the thinking I will be cruel to them.Should I be outside the bad,but,inside the good cause/effect,deterministic,rea­lities?The reactions I produce in others should be of little importance if I am to not react in kind to cruelty.

[blackflower75]

Good point ng370....perfectly put.

[mofunnow]

Real nice, it's nice to find something decent in the daily diet of bad news and bad intentions. I bet if more people acted like this we might eventually have less bad news!

[maboarritchie]

i hate mousetraps poison better

[nivek192]

This is 100% spot on. I have read a lot of stuff on social animals and why certain species prosper by living in social interdependance. Getting on with people is essential for our species to survive. Its just common sense really.

[TJay9000]

This video made me happier today :-)