I agree with that. A lot of people can pass well and get on with their lives and can stop caring about trans issues. It's sad how even transgendered people can lack empathy for others in the same situation they used to be. It's like a poor person that makes it big so decides to become an Objectivist or something.
I completely agree with u about people once their not in need of the support from others to strengthen them mentally for their transition, they wash their hands of the negative aspects of being transgender. U're proof that not everyone will do this, but not everyone has your support or resources to substain an ongoing opposition with the prejudices people have for our community. So try if u will to understand them. Switching gears, I don't know who Morgan is but she is very sexy, be sweet, Mya.
You are so Naturely. Everytime if I see your Videos here on Youtube my Hart gos on so as I know you an So Long time LOL! You Are an Beatyfully Person Thanks for your Videos Thanks for it Very much. You are one of the Persons they gives me he Faith in me to made my Transition. Kisses I send to you in America from Germany. You are an so Beautifully Person! Makes more so Great Videos
i get that alot too, when people find out im trans that ALL they want to talk about... its so annoying thats NOT what i am all about! its not that big of a deal!
Hi, I'm happy for you that you are happy. I'd really like to know, when you go out do people always treat u as a regular girl, or any ever suspect you are TG and treat you differently? You must be in a very special position, being a woman who was not socialized as a female as a child, not taught to have a low self-esteem like girls often are, if you know what I mean. <3
Hi,my name is Shelly. I'm a MtoF transgender and I just found your blog. Well found a few days ago. I have to say I do love it. I also live in Utah, Layton area. While I don't live full time I do gey out often and hope to go full time in a year or so. While Prove is kinda like colorado city, Utah is not so bad. I had no problem finding as I call them "anti-boy-otics" and "girl-gezics". Dr. Riley is a sweety. Hope to hear from ya, love your vidios. Shelly.
they r stupid ya u talk about it ut u talk about other things 2 and talking aout trans is an important thing he needs 2 keep his mouth shut if he is just e like that
btw ur gorgeous i love ur hair and i want that hat lol
totally agree! Most trans people I've heard from (heard from that is, those who share online) are super talented, smart, interesting people with alot of character. Nice bum grab..lol
Haha I agree. But how about these appples! Talking about transition not being a dominant part of your life, makes it even more a part of your life! oh noes vicious circles. :) Love ya bitch.
Hey Erin, I agree, I don't really get why people don't try to help people in the same situation...I mean, they know how hard it is...that's why I have my vlogs, just to be another face out there living and existing and having a normalish life. We trans people can be so invisible.
It's always been my biggest effort to go on living and NOT make this trans thing everything in my life. It's even in my channel description :p
Great viedo. It's definitely important to remind the world that one aspect of a person does not define the person. Be it gender identity or expression, sexual identity or expession, religious affiliation, sense of nationalism or patriotism, what sports team you root for, which band's posters are all over your room... No one would expect a person to define themselves based on the lattermost categorizations anyway. So why the former? Why are people so hung up on gender and sexuality?
is it me or is grishno's voice a lot higher than hers use to be? i could swear its higher.. i have heard that getting that sort of srs is great for feminization, larger breast, decreased muscle and increased fat and also voice change too. :D thats what i have heard!! :D greart job gerishno./. :D
Erin: your most defining aspects are clearly that crazy-ass face with all your psycho expressions while ranting about this and that. please do put a bag over the camera and tuck in your tounge b4 u trip. also, your favorite bar is soo gay. go beat these ppl with a pool stick.
with love from the K-man ::shouts out from your favourite place, LI::
I've always seen that there's more to your life than being trans. I remember the videos of you and your family and I could tell how much they mean to you and that you cherish your relationships with them so much. And, I love that you help others in your community: I'm sure they greatly appreciate it.
Sorry Erin, I kinda disagree! I transitioned in Y2K and have been stealth ever since. That wasn't a deliberate tactic but transition was easy(ish!), I passed kinda effortlessly and simply lived my life as the girl I am. And the longer I'd transitioned then the less trans became a relevant part of who I am. I didn't transition to make a statement on gender politics or be a trailblazer for others - but simply to be comfortable as the woman I am....and I don't think there's anything wrong in that!
no need to be sorry, everyone has their own opinions and that is good. mostly this was specifically geared at people who put down other people for being openly trans. I have come across a few people like that who get really rude towards me and say im not a real woman because i talk about being trans... mostly that is what this was about.
It's important that people have a right to self determination, whether they are stealth or openly trans, and we should respect each others choices. But as a stealth woman I've actually had a lot of abuse chucked at me online and at conferences & campaign meetings from people who say I've sold out the community, that I'm Cis-sexist, heteronormative etc. And thats sad... people should respect my choices as I respect theirs. Glad you clarified that tho!
I hate it when trans women blend in to society and don't want anyone to know who they really are. They are only making it harder for those of us to follow. Society needs to know what a trans woman looks and acts like if they are ever going to accept us or feel comforatble around us. And besides why would I spend my whle life trying to get out of this closet I live in as a man, only to run into another closet as a girl and not want anybody to know who I really was. Kind of defeats the pupose.
oh I know how you feel about people thinking there is only one "thing" to you. its like people who will only ever talk to me about being a lesbian, as if that is all that makes me me. *rolls eyes*
Hi Erin....very well put. Being Trans is not the be all and end all. It does however,mean that we are twice blessed ! Despite the grief, we experience a lot more of life than so many other people who don't go through this. We should be proud of wh we are.
Hope you and Morgan have a great time in Connecticut... Hope it's not as hot and humid as the city.
you are disgusting and a shame before god
nikeb00ts 8 months ago
I agree with that. A lot of people can pass well and get on with their lives and can stop caring about trans issues. It's sad how even transgendered people can lack empathy for others in the same situation they used to be. It's like a poor person that makes it big so decides to become an Objectivist or something.
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WILLIENO7 11 months ago
...You realize that just because you cut your balls off and wear girl clothes, you're still a guy? Just a weird one?
givewarachance117 1 year ago
I completely agree with u about people once their not in need of the support from others to strengthen them mentally for their transition, they wash their hands of the negative aspects of being transgender. U're proof that not everyone will do this, but not everyone has your support or resources to substain an ongoing opposition with the prejudices people have for our community. So try if u will to understand them. Switching gears, I don't know who Morgan is but she is very sexy, be sweet, Mya.
NMYCORNER 1 year ago
adorable is the right word for you. bless you!
princeshewi 2 years ago 3
charisma---not orientation---is your defining trait,lady!---Own it and keep workin' it.
djnross 2 years ago 3
You are so Naturely. Everytime if I see your Videos here on Youtube my Hart gos on so as I know you an So Long time LOL! You Are an Beatyfully Person Thanks for your Videos Thanks for it Very much. You are one of the Persons they gives me he Faith in me to made my Transition. Kisses I send to you in America from Germany. You are an so Beautifully Person! Makes more so Great Videos
tranny1985ger 2 years ago
gosh I love your eyes
gabriele12345678 2 years ago 2
i get that alot too, when people find out im trans that ALL they want to talk about... its so annoying thats NOT what i am all about! its not that big of a deal!
its like talking about why you were born a guy!
who cares!!!
Konverse13 3 years ago
you're so cute
claireyypoo 3 years ago
HAHAHAHAHA...3:05
timeIezz 3 years ago 3
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dude what are you doing
IvanSorath 3 years ago
you are so adorable! i think i am in love!
vrjimenez 3 years ago 5
@vrjimenez ...youre gay.
givewarachance117 1 year ago
Hi, I'm happy for you that you are happy. I'd really like to know, when you go out do people always treat u as a regular girl, or any ever suspect you are TG and treat you differently? You must be in a very special position, being a woman who was not socialized as a female as a child, not taught to have a low self-esteem like girls often are, if you know what I mean. <3
sonia989 3 years ago
Hi,my name is Shelly. I'm a MtoF transgender and I just found your blog. Well found a few days ago. I have to say I do love it. I also live in Utah, Layton area. While I don't live full time I do gey out often and hope to go full time in a year or so. While Prove is kinda like colorado city, Utah is not so bad. I had no problem finding as I call them "anti-boy-otics" and "girl-gezics". Dr. Riley is a sweety. Hope to hear from ya, love your vidios. Shelly.
shellycarlson66 3 years ago
I totally showed the end of this vid to sam and lucy and they were frickin jealous
GLBTQcommunity 3 years ago
Random comment, but I just want to feed you.
fugazi0311 3 years ago 2
they r stupid ya u talk about it ut u talk about other things 2 and talking aout trans is an important thing he needs 2 keep his mouth shut if he is just e like that
btw ur gorgeous i love ur hair and i want that hat lol
peace!!!! ^-^
xxToxicNectorxx 3 years ago
totally agree! Most trans people I've heard from (heard from that is, those who share online) are super talented, smart, interesting people with alot of character. Nice bum grab..lol
TGkaren 3 years ago
Haha I agree. But how about these appples! Talking about transition not being a dominant part of your life, makes it even more a part of your life! oh noes vicious circles. :) Love ya bitch.
icecoldbath 3 years ago
Don't think of an elephant
grishno 3 years ago
shit! foiled again! i'll get you next time gadget!
icecoldbath 3 years ago
Hey Erin, I agree, I don't really get why people don't try to help people in the same situation...I mean, they know how hard it is...that's why I have my vlogs, just to be another face out there living and existing and having a normalish life. We trans people can be so invisible.
It's always been my biggest effort to go on living and NOT make this trans thing everything in my life. It's even in my channel description :p
~jamie
ps. You're absolutely beautiful!
fiddlejamie 3 years ago
good point!
snipncody 3 years ago
nice rant :)
gothique11 3 years ago
You are really pretty, btw. :) Love the way you do your hair.
xxthread 3 years ago
Great viedo. It's definitely important to remind the world that one aspect of a person does not define the person. Be it gender identity or expression, sexual identity or expession, religious affiliation, sense of nationalism or patriotism, what sports team you root for, which band's posters are all over your room... No one would expect a person to define themselves based on the lattermost categorizations anyway. So why the former? Why are people so hung up on gender and sexuality?
xxthread 3 years ago
wow... this was a while ago... :-P
GLBTQcommunity 3 years ago 2
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you are ugly
tomruss64 3 years ago
Put up some pics of YOURSELF if you're so gorgeous! Twat!
pgy002 3 years ago
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your face is ugly
chorusstar10 3 years ago
is it me or is grishno's voice a lot higher than hers use to be? i could swear its higher.. i have heard that getting that sort of srs is great for feminization, larger breast, decreased muscle and increased fat and also voice change too. :D thats what i have heard!! :D greart job gerishno./. :D
jessykapop 3 years ago
You know I've noticed that in the videos after Bye Bye Balls her voice does seem a bit higher.
fugazi0311 3 years ago
yeah, I noticed that too. The transition seems to be really working well. congratulations!
Ronnoco16 3 years ago
I think your a nice person who just happens to be trans and that nice person is the result of many things like you said.Especially Morgan.
1948mmm 3 years ago
wow you are such a woman I like your smile and eyes
TheDareDevil7 3 years ago
Erin: your most defining aspects are clearly that crazy-ass face with all your psycho expressions while ranting about this and that. please do put a bag over the camera and tuck in your tounge b4 u trip. also, your favorite bar is soo gay. go beat these ppl with a pool stick.
with love from the K-man ::shouts out from your favourite place, LI::
LItransguy 3 years ago
I've always seen that there's more to your life than being trans. I remember the videos of you and your family and I could tell how much they mean to you and that you cherish your relationships with them so much. And, I love that you help others in your community: I'm sure they greatly appreciate it.
-Annie
annbgc 3 years ago
Yes, so come to the trans-feminine drop-in group when it starts back up in October. :P
KudouYusaku 3 years ago
Would love to but unfortunately it's on the wrong side of the Atlantic Ocean for me!
Still, I may be visiting NYC next year...
fluffademus 3 years ago
Sorry Erin, I kinda disagree! I transitioned in Y2K and have been stealth ever since. That wasn't a deliberate tactic but transition was easy(ish!), I passed kinda effortlessly and simply lived my life as the girl I am. And the longer I'd transitioned then the less trans became a relevant part of who I am. I didn't transition to make a statement on gender politics or be a trailblazer for others - but simply to be comfortable as the woman I am....and I don't think there's anything wrong in that!
fluffademus 3 years ago 2
no need to be sorry, everyone has their own opinions and that is good. mostly this was specifically geared at people who put down other people for being openly trans. I have come across a few people like that who get really rude towards me and say im not a real woman because i talk about being trans... mostly that is what this was about.
grishno 3 years ago 2
Ok, I see where you're coming from now :-)
It's important that people have a right to self determination, whether they are stealth or openly trans, and we should respect each others choices. But as a stealth woman I've actually had a lot of abuse chucked at me online and at conferences & campaign meetings from people who say I've sold out the community, that I'm Cis-sexist, heteronormative etc. And thats sad... people should respect my choices as I respect theirs. Glad you clarified that tho!
fluffademus 3 years ago
All right, grrl! Let's be proud of who we are!
JulieADriver 3 years ago
I'd pinch her butt too. Morgan, you're too cute!
And Erin, your skin is ridiculously flawless. What's your secret?
mhtothee 3 years ago
I hate it when trans women blend in to society and don't want anyone to know who they really are. They are only making it harder for those of us to follow. Society needs to know what a trans woman looks and acts like if they are ever going to accept us or feel comforatble around us. And besides why would I spend my whle life trying to get out of this closet I live in as a man, only to run into another closet as a girl and not want anybody to know who I really was. Kind of defeats the pupose.
pyxylover 3 years ago
oh I know how you feel about people thinking there is only one "thing" to you. its like people who will only ever talk to me about being a lesbian, as if that is all that makes me me. *rolls eyes*
GottaLoveMel 3 years ago
Wait.....you're more then trans? You totally lied to me....I'm SO hurt!! ;)
Hope you had a great time. Can't wait to see you when you come up this way.
unmeasuredinstances 3 years ago
You Rule! You could not be more right!
Rejoice in who you are, not the labels that people assign!
charrett1 3 years ago
cool hope you have fun here in new england
ShellySummers 3 years ago
Hi Erin....very well put. Being Trans is not the be all and end all. It does however,mean that we are twice blessed ! Despite the grief, we experience a lot more of life than so many other people who don't go through this. We should be proud of wh we are.
Hope you and Morgan have a great time in Connecticut... Hope it's not as hot and humid as the city.
Take care,
Dawn.
oneexile 3 years ago
thats so freakin true...:) much love beautiful
freakinbunny 3 years ago
im sure theres alot more to ur life other than being trans....u both seem very fun people! i love u vids...annie xxxx
rockybabes1234 3 years ago
RIGHT ON!!
110% right on!
pigpen7471 3 years ago