fling a ding ding

[frigiggle]

WOOP WOOP go the aussies :)



[elledrowxxx1628]

this is cool... im new just came out and now i understand what i had with that girl ugh.... now i understand her

[662so662so]

a detour is if you're going somewhere and take a different path. to deter is to discourage or in other words the word you are trying to say .there is a difference. i love your videos your my favorite beaver. im working on coming out to my close friends i just turned 17 and listening to your advice is helpfull. thank you

[Maria29493]

I live in Sacramento and it snowed WTF

[slouise92]

im so jealous of you right now, i do live in Australia and its beyond HOT :'(

so hot that the power has gone out so no one has aircon

nice vid btw :)

[hadx19]

The poor men I'd done that to... :\

Warm and toasty in Bangkok. Although yesterday we were at 25 (Celsius, that's about 75F?) and finding it coolllllld!

[Lamentin1]

Aw well, weather changes a lot in Canada, so we like to talk about it. It's a passion!

-Damn it's cold this morning, isnt it?

-Yep...

-It will be cooler tomorrow anyways

-Yep...

[blacksnow42]

i really liked this video :)

[elohelreh]

i wish i was a lesbian!!!! being a gay man is lame...

[XE03andME]

haha wanna trade sexuality?

[elohelreh]

so does that mean i'm a lesbian in a man's body and you're a gay man in a woman's body? off to the surgeon we go! 2 for 1 maybe?

[Decktrio]

lol, why would you say that?

[XE03andME]

haha hidk wtf i am im a lesbian trapped in a womens body but i wish i was a gay guy maybe nah im happy with me but it might be fun to have a penis for a day hmm idk

[elohelreh]

give me a clitoris and i'd be happy. =)

[XE03andME]

hahaha mmm clits

[soaks77]

Did you know cats have 3 eyelids? Haha you're so excited about that info, good one.

[chiller461]

even in the united states in WI its been 8 and a wind chill of -15!

[GoodnightQuietCity]

i love how all the weather comments are from canadians

[AmandaWiddifield]

dudes.. -30 with windchill in Canada... dont complain! lol

[JordmanKNOWS]

My girlfriend and I text each other all day morning to night. Haha XD The only exception is when we're together haha.

[xxxlelxxxmooxxx]

We do attract like magnets... That's so true.

Great video and advice AJ.

x

[XanxiuZ]

From my experience, flings are very difficult to maintain in the lesbian world. I've had experiences where I've been very clear that I'm not looking for anything serious, she agrees, then it gets all complicated. Flings are hard.

What do you mean when you say "my next girlfriend is going to have to be a vet"? What about Melody?

[faeriebutch]

it was -10*F earlier this week.... just normal december weather in Montana

[paul20072007]

In the straight world, a problem many guys encounter is that even after making it clear that a fling is a fling, there's always that woman who thinks "I can change him". Have you encountered this presumption in your community?

[lievling]

I live in Brazil, so it's hot! Summer is just around the corner.

What's your cat's name?

[lovewontchange]

amennnnnnnnnn to everything you said. hah.

[SecludedSpaces]

Actually, it's been freakin cold here too. Not the normal Australia, well that's in Victoria anyway.

And when I date, you can't pull me away, for at least a while. I used to just date for a while, but now that I've grown up and almost in my 20's I can't anymore.

[overainbows]

Hypocondriac cat! LOL

[OutSideDeMatrix]

Non committal flakes.

Sad.

Most who subsribe to something like this are just people users.

Very few can do something like this in a healthy, non flakey user assh*le way.

Let alone all the sexism and objectifying.

[TigrisCalmer]

I 'live in Australia where it is super hot right now', and I am super jealous of YOU xD. It's too hot damn it! We've been getting into the 30's and 40's.... in degrees celcius, that is -__-

[magicdollar]

@TigrisCalmer I also live in australia...but in melbourne...it's been like 25 or less here.

not as hot as i had anticipated for this december D;

[ksmith1860]

What do you mean your next girlfriend is gonna be a...!?! That's sounds like flingin' to me and Melody should kick your a**! :D

[AskAJanything]

knowing melody, she'd laugh....i dunno if she's watched this video yet, she';s been busy with finals...hehehe...

[irissiri907]

my girlfriend is pregnant...

what now?

[britkimberlylegere]

ahahahha,

"I have like.. so much cat fur on my sweater.. and it gets on my face..."

xD

[AskAJanything]

just a play by play of my life.

[ilikegrapes25]

im in milwaukee its -14 out

[InfraSonicoCR]

"we date like it's the last person on planet Earth" hahaha loved loved loved it!

[AskAJanything]

it's true!

[filthyveganpunk]

30 degrees... you're lucky! it's freezing here in chicago.

[XxCAMISAD0xX]

Last night, over here in Colorado, it was -8 degrees.

[PerfectInWeakness89]

Lol .. I just realized .. That Aj.. Comes out of the closet weekly. Goo AJ =D, Really good Vid...Props Aj ..*thumbs up*

[AskAJanything]

that's how i roll!

[PerfectInWeakness89]

Ahaha.. Rock On Aj. =D Rollin' pro ...yo? =P

[Leylaashley]

What the hell are you doing in that closet! =o get out of there xD I kid

[babyteethxo]

"i hope that makes sense...i've had alot of coffee"

hahah :]

yeah, flings suck, i'm a chronic fling-er. BUT i'm finally feeling ready to get into "serious dating"

this week has really helped me in figuring out what i'm looking for.

thanks for all the advice aj!

[buggsywuggsy101]

haha im in the Bahamas ... nice and warm lol

[ashdem19]

oklahomos ROCK!

[stake0utt]

when i turn on your videos my cat always comes running to curl up on my lap.. coincidence? i think not.

and he's so into it the whole time hahah.

[erinIQ]

WAIT......

..........

........

they have pet emergency rooms?

oh and i always get picked on because i've only dated 4 people, and all of my lesbian friends have dated over 10 people, my current girlfriend has had 17 girlfriends and 4 boyfriends. THAT'S CRAZY TO ME! i don't get why I'M getting picked on xD

[jrotcwolf09]

wait.. "next girlfriend"??? something happen to the roller derby hottie?

[CaptianMajic]

i was thinking that D:

[landofozjay]

Lol your so awesome. I love starting off my day with watching your vids. You think 30 is cold your definitely spoiled try this part of ks. We have been getting continuous snow for 3 days inches piling up, schools closing, its madness lol.

[bri101ify]

I relate to this! Had a situation a few years back where I thought a fling had actually become a relationship due to the length of time the whole thing had gone on for. She didn't and I got burned in a big way. And, like you said, it did indeed lead to all the "crazy ass lesbian drama"! LOL I learned from it though, and since then have always made sure to determine what IS going on - a fling, or a potential relationship. Wish I'd seen this before that happened! Very cool video and great advice.

[dempeo4ever]

im in italy and im freeziin too lol

[carbon4807]

weather. wish i was in california there. its negative 10 here and we have over 8 inches of snow :(

[jaysyntax11]

the weather is so not okay o.O

cold weatherr<33333

40 degrees, my shoulders are getting toasted :P

[lindseyclark08]

cats have 3 eyelids?? weird.

and yeah, there are no oklahomos. well, maybe like 3. or 4.

[ObscuredThoughts]

Im an oklahomo!

[lindseyclark08]

@ObscuredThoughts yeahh!! we should start a club.

[ObscuredThoughts]

Haha well we already have a few lol

[RainbowBright777]

well I live in Alberta, canada and its gotten down to -30 with the windchill this week :( brrrrrrr

[lozza2462]

Id rather the cold than the hot weather happening here in Aus at the moment, when its cold you can cuddle up with like millions of blankets and stuff but in the heat, well, you can only get so naked and your still sweating and sticking to everything and ice packs dont stay cold real long :( lol

[MainelyButch]

LMAO...you wanna talk about cold!? Try Maine right now! BRRRRR. Lesbians and flings....riiiight, one person always gets more invested and the drama begins! I too tried it when I was younger, no dice, always ended up making the girl cry and crying girls are my weakness! Great video!

[pamileez]

I DO live in australia!!!...Aj how did you know...

[DAVETYIOP]

Oh you complaining about how cold it is. You just have it way too easy.

[coffeehead02]

I do not feel bad for your 30 degrees. I live in Alaska and we're lucky if we get a high of 30 right now. So there.

[HardCandyJane]

Lovin the hair mate... yeah, it is about 42 degrees celsius here (107 degrees f).... BAD! :)

[rocknrollcraver]

Ladies, you should make Beaver Bunch shirts through District Lines! They're a great company for shirts, and I know I'd buy a v-neck representing you guys!

[rebelgurle]

You know what's a really good question? how do you date someone taller than you and still be the butch one. Ya know what i mean AJ?? How do you approach that shizz man? hahah, email me back or something. Stay warm! <3

[AskAJanything]

Melody is taller than me, we don't even really even notice anymore, you just deal with bigger things :)

[woweq]

lesbian just can't fling ;) and seriously - eeeeverything depends...

[princessmorganza]

I 110% agree with you!!!!!!!

[marisolvelazquez218]

i completely understand where your coming from w/ the whole "flinging" thing. you won't always find have a medium w/ what both of you want outta the relationship. but hey, in the end it'll make you a stronger person.

i actually wouldn't mind having it be in the 30's right now.. i think i'm starting to get used to the weather here in Portland, OR. the lowest it's been here is 13 degrees.

[green845]

where i am we got more than a foot of snow

[edgehaedjr]

Your NEXT girlfriend?! You and Melody are no longer together?! :O

[AskAJanything]

We are fineeeeee....i was just sayin' :)

[edgehaedjr]

@Phew, you scared me. And it has NOT been that cold AJ. :P Plus, my room is always 3° colder than outside. :P

[AskAJanything]

When I get off worm at 6:30am you'd better believe it's in the high 30s in long beach :)

[edgehaedjr]

OK, I give you that. Plus, as you said, you live two blocks North of the beach so, OK.

[mandymay123]

FamousFaster23 is from my neighbor State awesome. I am from Indiana. 10 degrees here -15 wow cold. Windy here 30mph wind gusts and it is blowing snow.

[mandymay123]

Haha i mean Foster*

[xtifanatic]

Thats happening in my house right now. My roommate decided flinging it with three girls would be a good idea but now shes dealing with a shit storm

[FamousFoster23]

I live in Illinois too! There isn't that much snow where I'm at, mostly ice. -15 with the wind chill :(

You want your NEXT gf to be a vet? Hope your CURRENT gf doesn't hear that. Yikes! Haha.

[itsmandydammit]

It snowed 25 cm in Quebec today AJ, you're lucky haha

[adri92239]

SOOOOOOO FUCKING COOOOOOOLD :)

I LOOOOOVE IT!!!

I live in the San Fernando Valley (I think that's what it's called) in Northridge.

I LOVE the cold. but my hands are RIDICULOUSLY freezing though, it's weird.

[pmoore4]

there are not even 5 gay people in my town. There's 3, 2 are guys, 1 is me (girl)... this blows..

[leggsXinXaXtopXhat]

its been like -cold as hell degrees here.

[jsweet83]

pets know how to push are buttons.she's probly just mad at you and wanting atention.i live in illinois we have 10 inches of snow and it;s suposed to get down to -3 .

[lozza2462]

haha I wish it was that cold here is Australia, its been rediculously HOT at like 43-45 degrees celcius

[mandymay123]

Hey lozza i live in the USA where i don't know what celcius is. So just being curious how many degrees is that here?

[lozza2462]

yea sorry uh 43-45 degrees C is 109-113 degrees Fahrenheit :)

[lozza2462]

approximately, that could be a little off with my somewhat half assed conversions lol :)

[reaface]

australia is hot as shit right now

working in a pizza store is not fun

[HEIBAOSHEN]

Honesty, gay or straight.

[adri92239]

Is it not obvious? or do you just have a bad gay-dar? (please don't take offense to that. I really am just honestly asking)

[HEIBAOSHEN]

I'm not asking if she is gay or straight. In regards to the topic of gay flings, I meant it is just as imperative for straight relationships to be honest about their intentions of being loving or casual.

[HEIBAOSHEN]

There is always room for better gaydar though.

[singlechick27]

Thats nothing it was -15 below with -35 wind chill here. the weatherman is esxcited cuz our high will be in the 20s

[JephProductions]

Aahhh, I'm so jealous! i'd give anything for it to be 30 degrees durning the day here in utah, I think today's high was around 15! hah.

[kkelseyspaa]

I live in Kansas and it is currently -6 fahrenheit and there is a foot of snow on the ground. I have to walk to class every day... it's not fun

[viciousandchaotic]

its pretty cold here -3 actually (that's 27 in fahrenheit), and its not supposed to snow for the next week, everyone here is like 'wtf?'.

anyways, great job AJ. love your cat haha!

[TeganES]

right now im warm in my bedroom, but last night i went out with wet hair at about 0 degrees F. My hair froze solid, it was hilarious.

[TripnSlide]

haha I know, AJ, I know, I'm just cool like that on Twitter.

just kidding. lol

great vid!

slash it's snowing here in Toronto - like finallly!!! not that I'm enjoying the cold.

[kayjaykoolaid]

AJ....don't telll the other beaves but you're my favorite:) haha

[AskAJanything]

secret is safe.

[kayjaykoolaid]

score!

[eggme12]

does anyone else find it ironic that AJ does videos "in the closet?"

[AskAJanything]

i think its funny.

[mandymay123]

Agreed AJ your awesome!

[jessiono]

My town...consists of 10,000 people. That may sound like a lot on paper, or here, but it really isn't lol it's a ghost town. AKA, NO GAY PEOPLE!!! I have been through 8 girls though lmao but they live in different towns. It'd be nice to live somewhere that has a large gay community. Like the fkn L word! haha where's the Carmen to my non-slutty Shane? :(

[kayjaykoolaid]

I know a tonnnnn of gay/bi men, but I know very few lesbian/bi women. I only know like three les girls. its kinda weird, but i know how you feel

[jomamamymama]

It's been cold in arizona too!

[QuixoticXmischief]

Where I live it's still in the high 90's... and it sucks. :P

[raspberrylucky]

Definitely had a blizzard this week. In Arizona. But Flagstaff is fake arizona.

[seespockrun]

i'm in australia, but i hate the heat... want to swap? :P

[Yes2Espresso]

you don't know what cold is until you've lived in wisconsin... it definitely hits colder than -40 degrees including windchill during winter.. :) I would kill for 30 degrees as being cold..

[mabindaby555]

For us in Colorado , 30 degrees is not that bad for this time of year. Today got down to -17 degrees at my house.

[weeheehah12]

I live in New England.

plus I had a snow day =]

b.t.w love the video AJ

[punkchick23]

3:37... Freudian slip? haha

[lizrem]

Haha seriously, the whole vid I was like; "uhm, she must've had a loot of coffee.." and when you sait it, I could noot stop laughing.

Aj this is one of the best vids you have made in a long time! So much funny adlibs. Great advice too ;)

[iaminlovewithdorian]

two butches and a fem...THREESOME? lol

[Anigust]

Next girlfriend? What about melody? =(

[AskAJanything]

all is fine with melody...i was figuratively speaking...

[Anigust]

Yay!! This makes me a very happy baby beaver. :3

[overeighteenaccountf]

haha I live in sydney and I'm jealous of your weather! we should swap!

[peeclvjewel]

holy shit this video was awesome! you're funny!

[katyanngarcia]

yay im the 1st aj its frost conditions in fresno ca!