:) wish here are more black females in Hong Kong, I go LKF (an international drinking and partying area so I can meet more people from other countries) almost every weekend and just dont see that many black girls around, all I see are black guys white guys and white girls of course asians too, I really want to try dating a black girl to see we it will work out, I do feel we are sharing something similar, something that I dont know how to explain................ :) thanks for your Video :)
I think that this is an issue with a number of interracial relationships. Perhaps the boyfriend has experienced this type of thing in the past, which is why he's wary. I think that the two of them need to have an honest, serious talk about their relationship, because it seems like there are some deeper issues here.
Honestly, many people don't marry outside their race not because they are not attracted to the person of another race, but because they don't have the same culture, which causes conflicts in relationships. So, I think the asain guy is lucky and should be happy that the girl he is with not only is attracted to him, but is very open to understanding his culture which will make the relationship stronger. I'm a black girl and I have been in an intercultural relationship before so I know how it is.
@026april I agree with you. The asian guy should feel lucky. I personally would be sad if my future girlfriend was not interested in asian culture. Also, some girls are interested in asian culture, but not asian guys. I think THAT is even worse xD
I see what you guys are saying though. :) I would talk to the boyfriend, but I don't know how to get ahold of him, or if he even wants to be contacted. lol :P
@EmIlY72912 Ah, I see the situation better now. Has the girl addressed this yellow fever issue with her bf yet; more specifically, about guilt-tripping her into something she doesn't even believe in? The problem is that we know so little about the asian guy that it is really hard to give good advice. Only that girl knows about the struggles between her and her bf and perhaps why he keeps acting the way he does. Are they still together? If so, this trust issue may be worth resolving.
@icysparks2007 From what she told me she said she has told her boyfriend many times that his accusations are not true, but he still doesn't believe her. I agree that I would be able to give her better advice if I could sit down and talk to them both, so yes that is a problem. She said they are still together, and she wants to continue the relationship if possible, and I guess that makes her a better person than I am lol. I wouldn't have the energy to chase my tail like that.
I agree with your friend that I probably should have given the girls boyfriend more consideration. I told the girl in this situation that it would be great if they could resolve their trust issues, but that I don't think I could continue a relationship like that knowing my partner had doubted my love in the past. I guess the way I see it is AMWF pairings already have to defend themselves enough already.
To claim that a person has a fetish or unusual attraction to someone is humiliating, especially when the person accusing you of this is someone close to you. Or more importantly in this case, when the accusation is not true of the person being accused. I don't think him labeling her as a girl with yellow fever is going to have positive effect on her self esteem in the long run. The fact that he would put her through that, I just don't think its worth it.
its definately possible for someone to fall in love with the culture before she falls in love with the guy. ive always been in love with asian culture and that led me to my boyfriend but i dont love the culture to the extent that i would just date someone because they were that culture.
:) wish here are more black females in Hong Kong, I go LKF (an international drinking and partying area so I can meet more people from other countries) almost every weekend and just dont see that many black girls around, all I see are black guys white guys and white girls of course asians too, I really want to try dating a black girl to see we it will work out, I do feel we are sharing something similar, something that I dont know how to explain................ :) thanks for your Video :)
ihavenoacount 7 months ago
@ihavenoacount Thanks for sharing your thoughts =]
icysparks2007 7 months ago
I think that this is an issue with a number of interracial relationships. Perhaps the boyfriend has experienced this type of thing in the past, which is why he's wary. I think that the two of them need to have an honest, serious talk about their relationship, because it seems like there are some deeper issues here.
TheSapphireEmpress96 7 months ago
@TheSapphireEmpress96 Agreed
icysparks2007 7 months ago
Honestly, many people don't marry outside their race not because they are not attracted to the person of another race, but because they don't have the same culture, which causes conflicts in relationships. So, I think the asain guy is lucky and should be happy that the girl he is with not only is attracted to him, but is very open to understanding his culture which will make the relationship stronger. I'm a black girl and I have been in an intercultural relationship before so I know how it is.
026april 7 months ago
@026april I agree with you. The asian guy should feel lucky. I personally would be sad if my future girlfriend was not interested in asian culture. Also, some girls are interested in asian culture, but not asian guys. I think THAT is even worse xD
icysparks2007 7 months ago
I see what you guys are saying though. :) I would talk to the boyfriend, but I don't know how to get ahold of him, or if he even wants to be contacted. lol :P
EmIlY72912 7 months ago
@EmIlY72912 Ah, I see the situation better now. Has the girl addressed this yellow fever issue with her bf yet; more specifically, about guilt-tripping her into something she doesn't even believe in? The problem is that we know so little about the asian guy that it is really hard to give good advice. Only that girl knows about the struggles between her and her bf and perhaps why he keeps acting the way he does. Are they still together? If so, this trust issue may be worth resolving.
icysparks2007 7 months ago
@icysparks2007 From what she told me she said she has told her boyfriend many times that his accusations are not true, but he still doesn't believe her. I agree that I would be able to give her better advice if I could sit down and talk to them both, so yes that is a problem. She said they are still together, and she wants to continue the relationship if possible, and I guess that makes her a better person than I am lol. I wouldn't have the energy to chase my tail like that.
EmIlY72912 7 months ago
Hey! Thanks for the video response! :D
I agree with your friend that I probably should have given the girls boyfriend more consideration. I told the girl in this situation that it would be great if they could resolve their trust issues, but that I don't think I could continue a relationship like that knowing my partner had doubted my love in the past. I guess the way I see it is AMWF pairings already have to defend themselves enough already.
EmIlY72912 7 months ago
@EmIlY72912
To claim that a person has a fetish or unusual attraction to someone is humiliating, especially when the person accusing you of this is someone close to you. Or more importantly in this case, when the accusation is not true of the person being accused. I don't think him labeling her as a girl with yellow fever is going to have positive effect on her self esteem in the long run. The fact that he would put her through that, I just don't think its worth it.
EmIlY72912 7 months ago
its definately possible for someone to fall in love with the culture before she falls in love with the guy. ive always been in love with asian culture and that led me to my boyfriend but i dont love the culture to the extent that i would just date someone because they were that culture.
brahmancheerleader1 7 months ago
@brahmancheerleader1 Thanks for sharing =]
icysparks2007 7 months ago
awesome vid keep it up bud!
treshnefix 7 months ago
@treshnefix Thanks :D
icysparks2007 7 months ago