Karen wanted children and when she found out Tom had a vasectomy, she flipped. She wanted to stop the wedding, but the invitations were already sent out. Read "Little Girl Blue." Tom wanted her money and was cheating on her. Notice Richard's sarcastic "Oh very happy, never felt better" and his watchful eye over Tom.
Richard put a gag order on Tom Burris, which is why he has kept out of the public eye since Karen's death. He was afraid Tom was going to write a book about their marriage.
Tom---1:15 "Just watching her work and enjoying her profession..." Yeah, right...more like taking what he could get, every penny, from her profession!
Karen looks good here, and she sounds happy. I believe with all of my heart that if she had married a good man, who truly loved her, she would still be alive today. O.J. would have been a better husband then this jerk!
I am sure he's a good husband to Karen... ROFLAO.. Oy.. I have read Little Girl Blue.. That statement by the interveiwer is just so ironic now knowing the full story... God Tom was a real peice of work... I could give you all the details but that would ruin Little Girl Blue for you all.. You simply have to read it for yourselves..
@mylittlebuckaroo i've heard that many times. and it was one of Karen's biggest fears -- being used by men because of her success. she feared gold digging men. then this jerk comes along.
karen needed a guy that would have wrapped his arms around her and never let go,encourage her to eat,therapy,see the real her...its sad she never found that person.none of her husbands were sympathetic to her disorder.
Wow, I feel like such a loser... I didn't know she ever got married! who was her husband? Even at 10 years old I loved their music and it still brings a tear to my eye... 33 years later. I can't believe anyone would leave bad comments! Even if you didn't like their music you would have to admit they had talent! So they weren't tattooed freaks that played heavy metal, they were real musicians and a woman with an incredible voice that has stood the test of time. I better stop now.
Its a great shame the marriage didnt work it might have saved her. We will always miss this beautiful lady with the amazing voice. And we need to cherish the memories and keep that wonderful music alive.
i am glad genuine fans are leaving respectful message on thischanel. i had to disable messages on my own one, as so many brain deaders we releaving dumb comments, about a unique ad talented individual.
I agree with Dingalingring....imagine how it would be in a house with someone you love suffering so in her own complicated way of Annorexia?
Poor Karen ánd Poor Tom.
It must have put such a strain on the marriage.
And considering how In Biography by Ray Coleman it is being told how Karen could be a 24 year old grandma....no matter how cute and lovely and talented she was to us fans, no one knows and need to really know what Karen was like at home?
I was a neighbor of Richard's, and he actually is quite warm and funny in person. For some reason he has always looked awkward and uncomfortable on camera, though.
Lol----Richard is always so serious----"Maybe you should come to Japan to find your girlfriend?" Richard---"Well, I got one." That was just a joke Richard! Lol.
It was amazing how Karen got herself back into shape and looked great for her wedding. Unfortunately, this was the last time she would look this good. After this, she would return to her old anoretic ways and lose another 30lbs or so.
This marriage was Karen's last hope... when it failed, her health took a dramatic turn for the worse.
BTW, Karen's abuse of thyroid medication in the early 80's contributed more to her death than the anorexia did.
@ DannaRoseAguilar- I don't think it was Karen and her then-husband's busy schedules that drove their marriage apart. I remember reading how he and Karen had been over at Karen's parents' house one night, and how the husband came storming down the stairs shouting, "You can have her!" (to Karen's parents). That was the end of their marriage. I think they broke up because Karen's illness was too much for him to handle.
In all fairness (and let me start by saying I am a huge fan of Karen Carpenter), Tom Burris had no idea what he was getting in to with Karen's illness. No one knows for sure what happened. Tom Burris has never capitalized on his involvement or marriage with Karen and never has made any public statements for money or otherwise. A person with an addiction of any kind goes to great lengths to hide the disease. Many factors contributed to Karen's illness. We'll never know for sure.
The reason Tom has never said anything about his marriage to Karen is the fact that Richard and his parent's at the time of her death had a gag order slapped on Tom to keep him from talking about it. The fact is all we have to go on when it comes to Karen's marriage is what her family has said... Sooner or later its all going to come to light and we are going to get the "true" story about Karen's battle and her personal life..
Karen looks good here. If the marriage was a happy one, Karen might have beaten her illness, with the support from those she loved----her family, her husband-----but she did not have a good marriage and Tom was insensitive and unsupportive. That is why she went downhill in 1981-82.
Good Husband??? Tom? to Karen?? DUH!! I hate that guy! He never TRULY loved Karen...I'm glad that only the furniture was left for him and not the money and things of Karen...(-:
If the marriage failed, it was because of Tom Burris. You can see he's not that happy here, and there's no love in his eyes for Karen. Richard never really liked Tom from the very beginning. It was alleged that Tom dumped Karen at her parents' house one evening after going out for dinner, and told her parents "You can keep her!" Poor Karen. How sad.
Oh Karen still look good here,she was so pretty and seem to be very happy like in her wedding day. Nobody knows what's the real reason of their early break up, only the two of them but If I were Tom I will never Karen let go. You can see on Karen's eyes and smile how she loved Tom, but I can't see any traces on Tom like Karen's do. I don't know if he really love Karen. Yes, after the mariage failure Karen's start to become worst.
WE MISS YOU MY KC, how I wish you're still here with us!
Karen does look pretty good here..has some weight on her. It wasn't long after this that she really started to lose weight and had that awful perm. I think the marriage was probably a sham from the start. They are making nice for the cameras here. I imagine Burris had to compete with Richard and his demands on Karen to be part of the Carpenters. Remember, her solo album was shelved earlier this year.
Karen indeed looks so happy here.Well at least for once she was indeed happy.But i also think the failure of her marriage all the more coz her to be anorexic.
wow, thanks for this! Never knew of its existence. KC looks so pretty & happy..with color in her cheeks & even a bit of weight on..and must have been very recent to the marriage. Tom looks very calm & relaxed here and seems like a nice guy, but Richard looks pained with arms folded in defence.(which is sad to see) The marriage only last a year, and KC went very suddenly downhill in '81...the question is if she were so happy here, WHY?
When one of Karen's previous and most promising relationships (I forget which one) had begun to blossom, she went into a downswing at that time, as well....
Funny how the interviewer phrased her questions to Tom, like "what are you doing to Karen in the future"? and to Richard, "you should come to Japan more often to find a girlfriend"! Lol, he stated he already had one. Never seen this one before, thanks for posting.
Karen wanted children and when she found out Tom had a vasectomy, she flipped. She wanted to stop the wedding, but the invitations were already sent out. Read "Little Girl Blue." Tom wanted her money and was cheating on her. Notice Richard's sarcastic "Oh very happy, never felt better" and his watchful eye over Tom.
LittleBastard38 8 months ago 3
Richard put a gag order on Tom Burris, which is why he has kept out of the public eye since Karen's death. He was afraid Tom was going to write a book about their marriage.
LittleBastard38 8 months ago
Tom---1:15 "Just watching her work and enjoying her profession..." Yeah, right...more like taking what he could get, every penny, from her profession!
mrshinyshoes 10 months ago
Did Karen's huband just say that he was going to watch her work, and enjoy her money???
Tracevidence1 11 months ago 2
Karen looks good here, and she sounds happy. I believe with all of my heart that if she had married a good man, who truly loved her, she would still be alive today. O.J. would have been a better husband then this jerk!
Tracevidence1 11 months ago
I am sure he's a good husband to Karen... ROFLAO.. Oy.. I have read Little Girl Blue.. That statement by the interveiwer is just so ironic now knowing the full story... God Tom was a real peice of work... I could give you all the details but that would ruin Little Girl Blue for you all.. You simply have to read it for yourselves..
Carpentersfan2003 1 year ago
There is a new book called, "Little Girl Blue:
the Life of Karen Carpenter" that finally tells the whole story. It is a must read. thanx for the video
kcrcbest 1 year ago
If you want to know about the real Tom Burris, read the new book "Little Girl Blue" by Randy Schmidt. The guy was a ^*^&*!(&ing con man.
mylittlebuckaroo 1 year ago
@mylittlebuckaroo i've heard that many times. and it was one of Karen's biggest fears -- being used by men because of her success. she feared gold digging men. then this jerk comes along.
oranger2525 1 year ago
All smiles, but they were'nt happy.....:-( RIP Karen Carpenter....so young and too soon.....
lancemckellar 1 year ago 4
This is the best I've seen Karen look post 1977. She really lost weight - a ton of it, shortly after this.
steveatl40 1 year ago
very sad....
aitch3 1 year ago
karen needed a guy that would have wrapped his arms around her and never let go,encourage her to eat,therapy,see the real her...its sad she never found that person.none of her husbands were sympathetic to her disorder.
Angeejackson 1 year ago 11
BTW, where is Tom Burris?.
fkoff99 1 year ago
Richard's response, "Oh very happy; never felt better" sounds pretty insincere, lol. I don't think he liked Tom at all.
sponge2 1 year ago 3
if her husband really loved her, he would do everything just to make her get well, wouldn't he?
but he doesn't love her. he loved her money.
Karen was too beautiful and special to the eyes of people and she doesn't deserve him. she deserved someone better.
chijeii 1 year ago
Wow, I feel like such a loser... I didn't know she ever got married! who was her husband? Even at 10 years old I loved their music and it still brings a tear to my eye... 33 years later. I can't believe anyone would leave bad comments! Even if you didn't like their music you would have to admit they had talent! So they weren't tattooed freaks that played heavy metal, they were real musicians and a woman with an incredible voice that has stood the test of time. I better stop now.
uglybob6666 1 year ago 7
@uglybob6666 beautifull comment there bob
CMCHRYSLERVALIANT 1 year ago
Its a great shame the marriage didnt work it might have saved her. We will always miss this beautiful lady with the amazing voice. And we need to cherish the memories and keep that wonderful music alive.
fender1000100 2 years ago 4
God! I really hate Tom! Everytime I see hime..
So sad for Karen:( We miss you KC!
rouselonline 2 years ago 3
She looked good!
vaccavo 2 years ago
i am glad genuine fans are leaving respectful message on thischanel. i had to disable messages on my own one, as so many brain deaders we releaving dumb comments, about a unique ad talented individual.
wilhub 2 years ago 3
I agree with Dingalingring....imagine how it would be in a house with someone you love suffering so in her own complicated way of Annorexia?
Poor Karen ánd Poor Tom.
It must have put such a strain on the marriage.
And considering how In Biography by Ray Coleman it is being told how Karen could be a 24 year old grandma....no matter how cute and lovely and talented she was to us fans, no one knows and need to really know what Karen was like at home?
r.i.p. dear Karen. we Fans miss you too.
.....
Jenot59 2 years ago
I was a neighbor of Richard's, and he actually is quite warm and funny in person. For some reason he has always looked awkward and uncomfortable on camera, though.
mylittlebuckaroo 2 years ago 3
Wow, you indeed are very lucky man!
Lamenta88 2 years ago
really? can you tell more about it?
Nixe1007 2 years ago
OMG REALLY !?
Daisymaniac129 2 years ago
so sad
000HAPPYSK8LOVER 2 years ago 2
Lol----Richard is always so serious----"Maybe you should come to Japan to find your girlfriend?" Richard---"Well, I got one." That was just a joke Richard! Lol.
mrshinyshoes 2 years ago 3
Karen was far too good-looking and unique for the likes of Tom Burris anyway. She could have done better than him.
Dingalingring 2 years ago 32
I agree. Karen was an artist, complex and unique. Tom was too stiff and boring for her. She needed a lumberjack type. Lol.
mrshinyshoes 2 years ago 4
It was amazing how Karen got herself back into shape and looked great for her wedding. Unfortunately, this was the last time she would look this good. After this, she would return to her old anoretic ways and lose another 30lbs or so.
This marriage was Karen's last hope... when it failed, her health took a dramatic turn for the worse.
BTW, Karen's abuse of thyroid medication in the early 80's contributed more to her death than the anorexia did.
JP5466 2 years ago 2
Really? wow i didn´t kown about the thyroid meds .... i just knew she took diuretics and laxatives
AggieFrid 2 years ago
they look great..but sadly they were divorced.They were both too busy..
DannaRoseAguilar 2 years ago
@ DannaRoseAguilar- I don't think it was Karen and her then-husband's busy schedules that drove their marriage apart. I remember reading how he and Karen had been over at Karen's parents' house one night, and how the husband came storming down the stairs shouting, "You can have her!" (to Karen's parents). That was the end of their marriage. I think they broke up because Karen's illness was too much for him to handle.
Dingalingring 2 years ago 3
In all fairness (and let me start by saying I am a huge fan of Karen Carpenter), Tom Burris had no idea what he was getting in to with Karen's illness. No one knows for sure what happened. Tom Burris has never capitalized on his involvement or marriage with Karen and never has made any public statements for money or otherwise. A person with an addiction of any kind goes to great lengths to hide the disease. Many factors contributed to Karen's illness. We'll never know for sure.
aaflyer98 2 years ago
The E documentary said Tom Burris was a spendthrift (with Karen's money) after he married Karen. Richard confirmed it.
infinera06 2 years ago
The reason Tom has never said anything about his marriage to Karen is the fact that Richard and his parent's at the time of her death had a gag order slapped on Tom to keep him from talking about it. The fact is all we have to go on when it comes to Karen's marriage is what her family has said... Sooner or later its all going to come to light and we are going to get the "true" story about Karen's battle and her personal life..
Carpentersfan2003 2 years ago 19
She looks healthy and pretty here!
DNchap1417 2 years ago
She looks pretty as her healthy self as shown here.
DNchap1417 2 years ago
Karen looks good here. If the marriage was a happy one, Karen might have beaten her illness, with the support from those she loved----her family, her husband-----but she did not have a good marriage and Tom was insensitive and unsupportive. That is why she went downhill in 1981-82.
mrshinyshoes 3 years ago 3
Good Husband??? Tom? to Karen?? DUH!! I hate that guy! He never TRULY loved Karen...I'm glad that only the furniture was left for him and not the money and things of Karen...(-:
sisterlead02 3 years ago
Has anyone ever noted the resemblance between Tom & Richard?
kennyone2006 3 years ago 7
I was just thinking that, myself!
dianed1962 2 years ago
...supposedly the rat took a lot of money from Karen but I cannot prove it.
earcandy2008 3 years ago
Thank You, Karen. Love from Oslo, Norway.
troskeland 3 years ago
If the marriage failed, it was because of Tom Burris. You can see he's not that happy here, and there's no love in his eyes for Karen. Richard never really liked Tom from the very beginning. It was alleged that Tom dumped Karen at her parents' house one evening after going out for dinner, and told her parents "You can keep her!" Poor Karen. How sad.
mrshinyshoes 3 years ago 6
It was 1981
sneyder69 3 years ago
Tom doesn't look as loved up as poor Karen.
Richard looks Hot!
Welencier05 3 years ago 5
Hahaha, I was thinkin' the same thing xD
VickyTyler 3 years ago
Oh Karen still look good here,she was so pretty and seem to be very happy like in her wedding day. Nobody knows what's the real reason of their early break up, only the two of them but If I were Tom I will never Karen let go. You can see on Karen's eyes and smile how she loved Tom, but I can't see any traces on Tom like Karen's do. I don't know if he really love Karen. Yes, after the mariage failure Karen's start to become worst.
WE MISS YOU MY KC, how I wish you're still here with us!
rouselonline 3 years ago 6
Still missed after all these years....there will never be another KC
R.I.P. Karen
bigzebb 3 years ago 4
kAREN SPIRIT WAS HERE
=)
nakluts 3 years ago
Thanks for sharing this. Notice how Tom seems relieved and flashes a smile when Richard says they have that all worked out.
no1cfielder 3 years ago
i think he was laughing at Richards dominance. maybe.
eclecticfire73 3 years ago
Do the all of you think Tom to be handsome?
I do not look handsome for my Japanese sense. . . . .
I do not see the microphone curve ball in man's looks, too. I think that Terry Ellis is handsome alone.
shinjunks 3 years ago
Karen does look pretty good here..has some weight on her. It wasn't long after this that she really started to lose weight and had that awful perm. I think the marriage was probably a sham from the start. They are making nice for the cameras here. I imagine Burris had to compete with Richard and his demands on Karen to be part of the Carpenters. Remember, her solo album was shelved earlier this year.
Very sad.
steveatl40 3 years ago
Karen indeed looks so happy here.Well at least for once she was indeed happy.But i also think the failure of her marriage all the more coz her to be anorexic.
faithcesari 3 years ago
wow this is a new one for me, thank you for this! :)
whitelives 3 years ago
wow, thanks for this! Never knew of its existence. KC looks so pretty & happy..with color in her cheeks & even a bit of weight on..and must have been very recent to the marriage. Tom looks very calm & relaxed here and seems like a nice guy, but Richard looks pained with arms folded in defence.(which is sad to see) The marriage only last a year, and KC went very suddenly downhill in '81...the question is if she were so happy here, WHY?
eclecticfire73 3 years ago
When one of Karen's previous and most promising relationships (I forget which one) had begun to blossom, she went into a downswing at that time, as well....
no1cfielder 3 years ago
She looks beautiful in this clip, and very relaxed and happy.
NostalgiaBob 3 years ago
Thanks for posting this rare interview.
It made me sad to watch Karen so thin, from her bulimia, and to know a few years lated she died, so sad, a great talent.
Paulosoy 3 years ago
Thanks for the RARE video!!!
GPK5050 3 years ago
Funny how the interviewer phrased her questions to Tom, like "what are you doing to Karen in the future"? and to Richard, "you should come to Japan more often to find a girlfriend"! Lol, he stated he already had one. Never seen this one before, thanks for posting.
kboyzrock 3 years ago