QUESTION: Why didn't the doctor know how sick your fetus was? Did they miss any routine testing or checking on it? They didn't see it's condition on a sonogram? When you said you had had NO leaking wasn't that a clue that this birth was dry? I am so sorry you and your baby had to go through that. I wonder what they would have done if they knew it was sick, before you delivered?
@Musicpassion418 No everything had looked fine on my u/s but i didn't get a late stage ultrasound (i was so healthy so there was no indication i should have had one)...I'm not sure what they could have done but possibly schedule a c-section a couple weeks early...as it was he was born at 38 weeks. they may have taken him at 37, idk. I know it would've caused massive massive worry...so may have caused more harm...he's doing fantastic now. He's awesome!! Will be 2 yo late July!!
hey there, i've been watching some videos of normal birth at hospital and waterbirth at home. It seems like those who deliver at hospital was making less painfull screaming unlike those who deliver with water birth method, why is that?
I absolutely hated touching stroking or rubbing during my labor... I could not tolerate the lady touching my head LOL You did GREAT.. but i wouldn't have let anyone touch me LOL
what's the big deal about non medication? Woman are giving birth to children for so long without it so.....Where I live it's normal and even without the shouting.
Tip: push with your abdominal muscles, not with your head!
Every time I go down to birthing for equipment or paperwork (im a neonatal nurse) and walk past a room with a lady labouring like that I ALWAYS get goosebumps. There's no sound like it.
most people can't beleive my dr let me go almost 2 days in labor all because i wasn't dilating. i only dialated 3 cm in those 2 days, i had horrible back pain labor at that
Regarding some of the users that said bad things about you, I am so happy for you and i just wana tell you this congratulations and may you're child grow happy healthy and strong God bless you!
I HONOR YOU TO GO THROUGH THIS PAIN WITHOUT PAIN MEDICATION. I NEED MY PARTNER TO SEE THIS SO HE CAN LEARN WHAT I AM GOING TO GO THROUGH AND TOUCH HIS HEART TO START BEING RESPONSIBLE. NO JOKE I AM SO ANGRY AT HIM I AM AFRAID I MIGHT BE SCREAMING I HATE YOU I HATE.
@SOLISyAUILAR2012 I def feel u, sometimes guys can be so Insensitive to our needs only because they've never walked in our shows.. congrats tho mommy. and what ever you're going through with him hopefully the joy of you alls child will help it subside.. stormy weather never last long...
You did great job here! I was 100 times louder than you when I had my first baby. It does hurts like... ah! It is really painful! Congrats on your baby!
I hope you beinville don't have a wife! a woman deserves a slap for not keeping her mouth shut as she goes through pain you can't even imagine?! have some respect.
Actually no, I DARE you to say that to someone in labour. I hope it gets you a smack in the face, and everyone will see you act half as brave as this lady for half the pain, guaranteed
@MySmoothie1775 One IV. It was "in case of emergency" because I had a previous c-section so am considered high-risk (for uterine rupture during labor). Course that didn't happen, but what you see is an unused IV "start".
@Bienville25 I hope you never have the privilege of having a child then. YOU go through childbirth and act cool and calm. Oh wait, you can't. Because you have a dick and only act like one.
@Bienville25 Well her husband's obviously better equipped than you are to deal with a very natural reaction to the immense pain of childbirth. Jeez, some men do find this childbirth thing very upsetting, don't they?
@Bienville25 u think thts loud wow (u got no guts man) so insensitive too . i trust tht u won't b in the room whn ur wifes givin birth. You're such a jerk ...men like u give all men a bad name!
Get that poor woman off of her back, it's the worst position you can be in when you're giving birth. Talk about making it harder than it has to be, like holy shit.
My first child birth was like this but I did not have trouble with the pushing. I was screaming while I was having my labour pains and when the doctor broke my water. its really uncomfortable and when I was 17 I found the labour was the worst. I was up 48 hours with no sleep and I finally was able to push at 2:00 feb 27th and 17 minutes later my daughter was born
@lindanfrie I agree with jjandjake. Pregnancy is different for everyone and she is doing this naturally with no pain killers or nothing. This really helped me cause i am pregnant with a girl and due anyday. If you every have a baby and decide to do natural it make hurt a ton or it may not even hurt. But if you have another baby after your first it be so hard you will scream at the top of your lungs. I think you owe an apoligyto jjandjake. I sure don't think i could do that.
If you don't like it then why watch it then take the time to post rude comments? I think you did a great job and it was refreshing to see a video that wasn't all roses and perfect and it did not sugar coat how most labors and deliveries are. Good job and congrats on your new little one :)
this is a beautiful reminder of what women go through to bring life on this earth. i myself do not have any children for the time being but watching this video reminded me of what a beautiful experience childbirth can be. my mum who has four of us (all natural birth) would often noted that the pain seems to disappear the moment your child is born. those being insensitive to your video or action in it obviously has not been though childbirth or has a different way of dealing with pain. cute baby
@lindanfrie I uploaded this one. Youtube is for videos. Maybe you should simply not watch the videos you don't want to watch...and let others watch whatever they might want to watch...just saying.
@lindanfrie get what? refer back to your comment. I responded to your question - I uploaded this video. Then I told you that youtube is for videos, not music. I just wonder why you would watch it, if you don't want to... then, take the time to make an insulting comment
@lindanfrie Actually my daughters were with me to welcome their baby brother into the world, and one of them was 10 at the time. Tell me, why are you still here and talking to me?
@jjandjake well ... having pain , blood ,screaming its kind of educational.Im sure your daughters enjoyed the moment when they saw you in great pain and seeing blood...
@lindanfrie As I'm sure you already know, in spite of your insults, I brought them so they could meet their baby brother as soon as he was born. The pain is just a real part of child birth. Why do you apparently have some need to insult others? A great many women have thanked me for sharing the video. While pregnant, I sought out videos of childbirth - to help me prepare mentally, to inspire me.... You are obviously offended, but no one is making you stay or watch, so feel free to move on.
@jjandjake She is obviously a troll, no one can possibly be this idiotic. The woman is a trouble seeker, don't give her what she wants. She is a child crying for attention from mommy even if it's bad attention. Thank-you for the wonderful video! You did an amazing job and are an inspiration to women who want to give birth naturally, including me who is 37 weeks! Lots of love!
@lindanfrie Well I was 4 years old when I saw my baby sister being born! that was 20 years ago! the best time of my life! love babies. children ever since!
@jjandjake yea ... but u uploaded this one. Youtube is for videos. Maybe we should simply not watch the videos we don't want to watch...and let us watch whatever we might want to watch...just listening.
for the ppl saying she is dramatic or faking it?? Wow! Watching this reminded me so much of my own experiences.. What part of 'pushing a 7 lb baby out of your body' is exaggerating?? It's painful as all hell.. I was able to manage the pain until transition labor and then I thought I was gonna leave my body! But it is worth it.. and I still think med free is better.. Like this woman said.. a woman's boy is made for it.. epis increase risk of c-sections and other medical intervention.
OMG How did you do this without meds????.;o( .Im about to have my first child in July and Im scared to death!..was it more pressure or pain that you felt???..I hope your baby is doing excellent he looks adorable!
@staceyt981 well...ur body just kinda does it whether you're on board or not, LOL. Remembering that every woman who has ever became a mother has done this, and that it was all for him (little baby boy) helped a lot. It was pain and pressure. It may have been worse considering I had no fluid, tho didn't know it - plus his ab was swollen to larger than his head with fluid which had backed up. 'course that is not normal. Main thing is to not feel afraid of it (easier said I know). BEST 2 U!
how long did it take you to give birth? some people say it is faster for moms who have epidural and some say it is faster for moms who choose no meds. My doctor says not to try natural for the first baby, but I really would like to have him without the epidural if possible. I also want the birth to go as quickly as possible. I really don't want to be laboring for literal days which has been the experience of most people I know.
@msaphrodite23 well the hard (more painful) part of labor lasted about 6 hours...though I started having "different" and "real" contractions early that morning (he was born nearly 11pm)...so technically it was an all day labor, but the "active" most painful part was about 6 hrs. You could always just go as long as possible without the epidural, rather than waiting to be at 4-5 and just agreeing to it at the magic number...who knows you may make it all the way through no prob. Best wishes to ya
@msaphrodite23 Don't be discouraged by your doctor's ignorant advice. ANYONE can do it natural the first time around.good luck and hope its very fast!
@katita171981 Believe you can. Know that your body knows what to do and surrender. If you have fear you will have pain. "I hope I can have a good delivery" is a negative thought. Tell yourself you will and really believe it. Birth is normal, natural and safe. Trust your body and your baby! That is all!
stop saying shes dramatic. the birth of a child is naturaly painfull , everybody feels pain different, when she had that much pain,let her. God bless your child!
@melliebsweet77 maybe it didn't hurt that bad for you. For me, it did (as you can tell). My baby swallowed all the fluid, but could not urinate it back out (which would be the normal process to get his kidneys and bladder "practicing") so he was born with all of the amniotic fluid inside him, backed up into his bladder and kidneys. His abdomen was swollen to larger than the girth of his head. The size of an infant coming out that area - I would expect it to hurt - it just makes sense.
@jjandjake I am sorry if my comment seemed insensitive. That was not my intent. I am sorry that happened. Sometimes abnormalities happen in pregnancy. I hope you and your little one are doing well! I just worry what people who don't know about normal birth think. It is hard to change peoples minds when they see videos that don't explain the whole picture. Now I understand.
@melliebsweet77 I had my previous child without any meds too, and even with my fluids all in tact, and everything "normal", I would still say it hurt. For others, it may not. People are different and experiences are different.
@melliebsweet77 Sweetie, just because it didn't hurt that bad for YOU doesn't mean it's not going to hurt that bad for someone else. Every woman is different and I would think as a WOMAN you would know that. My mom said her contractions felt like cramps. When she arrived to the hospital her babies took no longer than 2hrs. I don't know not one person who delivered a baby within 2hrs of getting to the hospital. So like I said before, "every woman experience is different".
@suzi71375 I am not your sweetie. I understand we are different. I also understand that we perceive pain in different ways. Most discomfort and pain comes from fear. I don't know what your mom has to do with me commenting on a woman who chose to put up her video giving birth. I am entitled to my opinion. Why do you feel you need to be so bothered by my comments for a woman you don't even know. I didn't attack her video. Why are YOU so angry?
@melliebsweet77 First off, I wasn't angry I was bothered by your comment because it came off completely insensitive. Me bringing up my mom's story of childbirth was to show you that she didn't have that much pain and every women is different. I guess some people need to have better reading comprehension because that was pretty obvious as to why I brought her up. Yes, you are entitled to your opinion and your opinion can't be what everybody else's experience was because...
@melliebsweet77 it was just your "opinion" on how you experienced it. Just in case you don't understand, an opinion is just something based on how "you" feel about something, it's not "fact". Your comment made it seem as if her experience should have been the same as yours and that's incorrect. Maybe you should think before you respond next time. You should have just stated your experience wasn't that bad and your sorry hers wasn't the same as yours was.
@trishamoos I am full of sense and I understand the way the mind works. I am not full of anything other than experience and I know how birth works and the way we perceive "pain". I am entitled to my opinion and if one puts up there video for all to see then one must except the perception of that video. I wasn't in the room nor did I know all the facts. So I can say what I think. I have a mind of my own, and I choose to use it how I feel. You don't have to agree with me either!
CystFlavored I don't usually wish pain on people but hope you get a kidney stone that you have to pass then you will see how "not painfull" child birth is.
@CystFlavored: What an outlandish, uneducated response from a true misogynistic individual. You should show some more reverence for those, like your own mother, who have tolerated the difficulties of child birth. I don't know what YOU do for a living, but I doubt you could hold a physical or intellectual candle to some women out there. I am by no means a hero, but surely I am no wimp. I am a mother, a retired cop, a bodybuilder, and now a Geologist..what are YOUR credentials? Some men...
God bless you and your family. You are a wonderful mom. I will pray to Lord Jesus for your little one. God protect him! I can hardly wait to be pregnant and have my baby in a natural manner. Pray for me, too, please.
great job!! I due in a week with my second I hope I can go all the way natural I hated not being able to walk after having my first one for hours because of the epidural!!
@24piciana I experienced that with one of my earlier births too - I was numb in one leg for 6 hrs as I was tilted to one side when the medicine was being administered, so it too real heavy down one side. It is real nice to be up on your feet immediately...taking care of yourself and your baby - amazing really.
May your child be filed with Life,happiness, and love ^^ may you and your family have joy and may the sands you walk on are warm, and the breeze gentle to your soul ^^
Oh man mama, that looks rough. I'm so afraid of being drugged during birth, I've heard way too many horror stories. But, of course, have heard many horror stories of natural birth. I'm going to give hypnobabies a try. What an accomplishment to have had a natural birth! Congratulations!
@AnotherDay2010 Oh I wish you all the best. You'll have to let me know how that goes. Hypnosis really intrigues me and I know it works for some! People have crazy dental work done with just hypnosis. Hope it goes well!
@jesmaryam1 all day long - contractions started early that morning- but it started hurting around 5pm and got more intense from there on out - he was born that night at 9:52pm.
=o omg god damn it i dnt wanna deliver lol =( why cant men have babys maybe thell stop being hoes
SuperMeri2010 1 day ago
It hurts real bad...gurl I feel yw
1718saywhat 3 days ago
honestly she's a strong woman, I know the kid will be a powerful one ...
franyub 3 days ago
Im gunna bite a pillow when i have my child. concentrate on pushing the kid out as fast as i can.
Bitesyouhard 3 days ago
QUESTION: Why didn't the doctor know how sick your fetus was? Did they miss any routine testing or checking on it? They didn't see it's condition on a sonogram? When you said you had had NO leaking wasn't that a clue that this birth was dry? I am so sorry you and your baby had to go through that. I wonder what they would have done if they knew it was sick, before you delivered?
Musicpassion418 3 days ago
@Musicpassion418 No everything had looked fine on my u/s but i didn't get a late stage ultrasound (i was so healthy so there was no indication i should have had one)...I'm not sure what they could have done but possibly schedule a c-section a couple weeks early...as it was he was born at 38 weeks. they may have taken him at 37, idk. I know it would've caused massive massive worry...so may have caused more harm...he's doing fantastic now. He's awesome!! Will be 2 yo late July!!
jjandjake 3 days ago
@jjandjake So glad to hear it! TY. Much love to you and your son!
Musicpassion418 3 days ago
what is all of that yellow stuff?
Manderzrox123 4 days ago
@Manderzrox123 Vernix, the coating that keeps baby's skin healthy in utero.
jjandjake 3 days ago
@jjandjake oh. ok thank you.
Manderzrox123 2 days ago
no do l don like crazy
wbe699 4 days ago
should have gotten an epideral
apesweedurmom 5 days ago
@apesweedurmom yeah, I thought the same thing a few times!! :)
jjandjake 3 days ago
hey there, i've been watching some videos of normal birth at hospital and waterbirth at home. It seems like those who deliver at hospital was making less painfull screaming unlike those who deliver with water birth method, why is that?
nadya2001144 5 days ago
@nadya2001144 I have no idea. I think it's just so different for each person, along with their pain threshold and their reactions... hard to say.
jjandjake 3 days ago
I am so glad that the husband was being supportive.
KingCheetah24 1 week ago
Wow NEVER doing this!!! but PROPS!!!! I would have slapped anyone rubbing my head haha
voguee2 1 week ago
how is jackson now he should be over 2 right :D
Flukeerr101 1 week ago
@Flukeerr101 He's 1-1/2...he's really doing great. Still followed by docs closely but doing really good, thanks!
jjandjake 1 week ago
I absolutely hated touching stroking or rubbing during my labor... I could not tolerate the lady touching my head LOL You did GREAT.. but i wouldn't have let anyone touch me LOL
saphiremommy 1 week ago 2
I would have loved to switch bodies with her at this exact time in her life so I can experience the giving birth experience.
Brookssee821 1 week ago
Wow it reminds me of mine..total experience that u will neva get anywhere else..
dontchange91 1 week ago
what's the big deal about non medication? Woman are giving birth to children for so long without it so.....Where I live it's normal and even without the shouting.
Tip: push with your abdominal muscles, not with your head!
nienkenienke10 1 week ago
Every time I go down to birthing for equipment or paperwork (im a neonatal nurse) and walk past a room with a lady labouring like that I ALWAYS get goosebumps. There's no sound like it.
LilLaura86 2 weeks ago
OMG! whyy GOD WHYYY i dont want to be a woman :'(
5SuperMeme 2 weeks ago 2
@5SuperMeme me too -.-
177ALWAYS 2 weeks ago
@5SuperMeme
I feel you sis >.< Sucks
Nicole39859057 4 days ago
most people can't beleive my dr let me go almost 2 days in labor all because i wasn't dilating. i only dialated 3 cm in those 2 days, i had horrible back pain labor at that
1020ali 2 weeks ago
How many hours of labor were you in hun?
jesmaryam1 2 weeks ago
@jesmaryam1 It started early that morning so in all, like 15 hours or so, but the "active labor" (i.e. painful labor), was about 5-6 hours.
jjandjake 2 weeks ago
Regarding some of the users that said bad things about you, I am so happy for you and i just wana tell you this congratulations and may you're child grow happy healthy and strong God bless you!
MiRoNeL2 2 weeks ago
...I think I'm just going to adopt.
ErisFae 2 weeks ago 10
I KNOW HOW SHE FEEL TRUST ME
lisabeharry26 3 weeks ago
I HONOR YOU TO GO THROUGH THIS PAIN WITHOUT PAIN MEDICATION. I NEED MY PARTNER TO SEE THIS SO HE CAN LEARN WHAT I AM GOING TO GO THROUGH AND TOUCH HIS HEART TO START BEING RESPONSIBLE. NO JOKE I AM SO ANGRY AT HIM I AM AFRAID I MIGHT BE SCREAMING I HATE YOU I HATE.
SOLISyAUILAR2012 3 weeks ago
@SOLISyAUILAR2012 I def feel u, sometimes guys can be so Insensitive to our needs only because they've never walked in our shows.. congrats tho mommy. and what ever you're going through with him hopefully the joy of you alls child will help it subside.. stormy weather never last long...
msmime35 2 weeks ago
I am next in about 1 week and days. I be shouting to my partner I HATE YOU I HATE FOR ALL THE THINGS YOU DID TO ME!
SOLISyAUILAR2012 3 weeks ago
i was screaming with her
MrJoshua0023 3 weeks ago 2
You did great job here! I was 100 times louder than you when I had my first baby. It does hurts like... ah! It is really painful! Congrats on your baby!
BebaDK 3 weeks ago
FREAKIN HELL I'VE NEVER SEEN ANYONE GO THAT RED!!!! :0
THEEPICPIGEON 3 weeks ago
I was a natural birth and after seeing this I have a whole new level of respect for my mother... it takes a brave person to go through with that...
Byukuu 3 weeks ago
No pain meds? Ok no natural birth for me then...
Frenchcanadian100 3 weeks ago
I hope you beinville don't have a wife! a woman deserves a slap for not keeping her mouth shut as she goes through pain you can't even imagine?! have some respect.
Actually no, I DARE you to say that to someone in labour. I hope it gets you a smack in the face, and everyone will see you act half as brave as this lady for half the pain, guaranteed
Charbraa 3 weeks ago 2
@Charbraa tell em.lol
msmime35 2 weeks ago
I'm like traumatized dear god
lilsammyondeck1 4 weeks ago
Idk it hurts
koenman5534 4 weeks ago
Ir a héroe. I cantar hace kids that malea so sad. I would gave. Anything ti become a mom
monika16064 4 weeks ago
Damn i hate the new sound when you like a comment!
Octrox 1 month ago
Very Brave Women!
Jolissa08 1 month ago
and tht is why I will always want a c-section
iLaLaLoveYou12345 1 month ago
If it's medication-free, why does she have 2 iv's n her hand? -.-
MySmoothie1775 1 month ago
@MySmoothie1775 fluids not pain meds duh
Jenrafoxfairy 3 weeks ago
@MySmoothie1775 One IV. It was "in case of emergency" because I had a previous c-section so am considered high-risk (for uterine rupture during labor). Course that didn't happen, but what you see is an unused IV "start".
jjandjake 3 weeks ago 4
Good lord! I would have slapped my wife if she carried on like this. My ears are bleeding!
Bienville25 1 month ago
@Bienville25 good thing all you have to do is stop the video or x out.
jjandjake 1 month ago 14
@Bienville25
how inconsiderate !!!if you had to undergo this tedious process then would have realized how painful it can be.....ass !!!!!!
2010zas 1 month ago
@Bienville25 Then you would be an insensitive ass wife abuser. Try pushing a football out your rectum, then judge!
2degucitas 1 month ago
@Bienville25
News flash, wiseguy - childbirth is apparently very, VERY painful.
frachris87 1 month ago
@Bienville25 I hope you never have the privilege of having a child then. YOU go through childbirth and act cool and calm. Oh wait, you can't. Because you have a dick and only act like one.
cmartyn88 1 month ago 2
@Bienville25 let's see you go through a natural birth and not scream
nugy2005 1 month ago
@Bienville25 ...this woman is having natural childbirth with NO meds...
SaskBlade 4 weeks ago
@Bienville25 Well her husband's obviously better equipped than you are to deal with a very natural reaction to the immense pain of childbirth. Jeez, some men do find this childbirth thing very upsetting, don't they?
whozafeard 4 weeks ago
@Bienville25 u think thts loud wow (u got no guts man) so insensitive too . i trust tht u won't b in the room whn ur wifes givin birth. You're such a jerk ...men like u give all men a bad name!
Jenrafoxfairy 3 weeks ago
@Bienville25 You probably don't have wife who delivered her baby naturally! Stupid comment under the video where women brings life on this world!
BebaDK 3 weeks ago
you're great i know how it fell damn hurt... but anyway congrats coz u have a baby...
aisyahla86 1 month ago
U R a Hero
moghimiiman 1 month ago
You can't breathe while you're screaming. Poor Dear, but good job nonetheless.
cafeaukitty 1 month ago
MOTHER!
sarvajeet87 1 month ago
Get that poor woman off of her back, it's the worst position you can be in when you're giving birth. Talk about making it harder than it has to be, like holy shit.
jmmlk1987 1 month ago
Good on you to do natural
emmie1796 1 month ago
Poor lady
emmie1796 1 month ago
I felt I had to push when I saw that you did it, haha! I'm not pregnant, but still I followed up and began pushing - a strange feeling! ;)
Anettehc 1 month ago
what was that yellow stuff
marrcie1 1 month ago
@marrcie1 vernix - it's stuff that covers and protects baby's skin in utero.
jjandjake 1 month ago
My first child birth was like this but I did not have trouble with the pushing. I was screaming while I was having my labour pains and when the doctor broke my water. its really uncomfortable and when I was 17 I found the labour was the worst. I was up 48 hours with no sleep and I finally was able to push at 2:00 feb 27th and 17 minutes later my daughter was born
blackcat445577 1 month ago
I really salute you, western ladies ... this video shows 3 things to me :
1> A very basic truth of life --- irrelevant of you like it or not.
2> A courageous lady who knows the meaning of life.
3> A lovely couple.
I wish all my Indian ladies get the same courage like you.
chiranjit7 1 month ago 11
@chiranjit7 Thank you!
jjandjake 1 month ago
@chiranjit7
today artificial delivery of baby is made a fashion among indian womens by those money starved doctors ,gynacs,...
they dnt care abt the health of such emotionaly weak women who is going to suffer the worst pain in her life,
punkshking 1 month ago
and why did you block me?
are you afraid of me?
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie no I just didn't think you had anything of value to add here. But you obviously feel otherwise cuz here you are again.
jjandjake 1 month ago
talk cheap bitches
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie I agree with jjandjake. Pregnancy is different for everyone and she is doing this naturally with no pain killers or nothing. This really helped me cause i am pregnant with a girl and due anyday. If you every have a baby and decide to do natural it make hurt a ton or it may not even hurt. But if you have another baby after your first it be so hard you will scream at the top of your lungs. I think you owe an apoligyto jjandjake. I sure don't think i could do that.
kbudde10 1 month ago
@kbudde10 Thank you.
jjandjake 1 month ago
If you don't like it then why watch it then take the time to post rude comments? I think you did a great job and it was refreshing to see a video that wasn't all roses and perfect and it did not sugar coat how most labors and deliveries are. Good job and congrats on your new little one :)
lmjrsangel 1 month ago 2
@lmjrsangel Thanks!
jjandjake 1 month ago
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR NEW BUNDLE OF JOY :)
THEZEBRALUVER12 1 month ago
@THEZEBRALUVER12 Thank you so much!
jjandjake 1 month ago
this is a beautiful reminder of what women go through to bring life on this earth. i myself do not have any children for the time being but watching this video reminded me of what a beautiful experience childbirth can be. my mum who has four of us (all natural birth) would often noted that the pain seems to disappear the moment your child is born. those being insensitive to your video or action in it obviously has not been though childbirth or has a different way of dealing with pain. cute baby
seygirl1 1 month ago
who da fuck uploads this?
youtube is for music , not for fucking painfull births!
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie I uploaded this one. Youtube is for videos. Maybe you should simply not watch the videos you don't want to watch...and let others watch whatever they might want to watch...just saying.
jjandjake 1 month ago 17
@jjandjake its disturbing if you dont get it.ok?
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie get what? refer back to your comment. I responded to your question - I uploaded this video. Then I told you that youtube is for videos, not music. I just wonder why you would watch it, if you don't want to... then, take the time to make an insulting comment
jjandjake 1 month ago
@jjandjake tell me , would you show this video to a ten year old?
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie Actually my daughters were with me to welcome their baby brother into the world, and one of them was 10 at the time. Tell me, why are you still here and talking to me?
jjandjake 1 month ago
@jjandjake well ... having pain , blood ,screaming its kind of educational.Im sure your daughters enjoyed the moment when they saw you in great pain and seeing blood...
lindanfrie 1 month ago
@lindanfrie As I'm sure you already know, in spite of your insults, I brought them so they could meet their baby brother as soon as he was born. The pain is just a real part of child birth. Why do you apparently have some need to insult others? A great many women have thanked me for sharing the video. While pregnant, I sought out videos of childbirth - to help me prepare mentally, to inspire me.... You are obviously offended, but no one is making you stay or watch, so feel free to move on.
jjandjake 1 month ago
@jjandjake She is obviously a troll, no one can possibly be this idiotic. The woman is a trouble seeker, don't give her what she wants. She is a child crying for attention from mommy even if it's bad attention. Thank-you for the wonderful video! You did an amazing job and are an inspiration to women who want to give birth naturally, including me who is 37 weeks! Lots of love!
intelligentbanana 4 weeks ago
@intelligentbanana Thanks so much! Wishing all the best!
jjandjake 4 weeks ago
@lindanfrie Well I was 4 years old when I saw my baby sister being born! that was 20 years ago! the best time of my life! love babies. children ever since!
coppersulphate002 1 month ago
@jjandjake yea ... but u uploaded this one. Youtube is for videos. Maybe we should simply not watch the videos we don't want to watch...and let us watch whatever we might want to watch...just listening.
mr339839 1 month ago
@lindanfrie Itunes is for music.Youtube is for VIDEOS.
creamsodaistasty 1 month ago
@creamsodaistasty its disturbing if you dont get it.ok?
lindanfrie 1 month ago
He's gorgeous
FMAfanFMA 1 month ago
@FMAfanFMA Thanks!! We agree!
jjandjake 1 month ago
for the ppl saying she is dramatic or faking it?? Wow! Watching this reminded me so much of my own experiences.. What part of 'pushing a 7 lb baby out of your body' is exaggerating?? It's painful as all hell.. I was able to manage the pain until transition labor and then I thought I was gonna leave my body! But it is worth it.. and I still think med free is better.. Like this woman said.. a woman's boy is made for it.. epis increase risk of c-sections and other medical intervention.
MsKBrennan 1 month ago
I had 3 w/o any meds .. Intense!! Hurts like hell but atleast you have more control over your labor and delivery..
MsKBrennan 1 month ago
OMG How did you do this without meds????.;o( .Im about to have my first child in July and Im scared to death!..was it more pressure or pain that you felt???..I hope your baby is doing excellent he looks adorable!
staceyt981 1 month ago
@staceyt981 well...ur body just kinda does it whether you're on board or not, LOL. Remembering that every woman who has ever became a mother has done this, and that it was all for him (little baby boy) helped a lot. It was pain and pressure. It may have been worse considering I had no fluid, tho didn't know it - plus his ab was swollen to larger than his head with fluid which had backed up. 'course that is not normal. Main thing is to not feel afraid of it (easier said I know). BEST 2 U!
jjandjake 1 month ago
@staceyt981 And baby is doing AWESOME, thank you! (though not a baby anymore I guess...at 17 months old!)
jjandjake 1 month ago
thanks for the info!
msaphrodite23 2 months ago
how long did it take you to give birth? some people say it is faster for moms who have epidural and some say it is faster for moms who choose no meds. My doctor says not to try natural for the first baby, but I really would like to have him without the epidural if possible. I also want the birth to go as quickly as possible. I really don't want to be laboring for literal days which has been the experience of most people I know.
msaphrodite23 2 months ago
@msaphrodite23 well the hard (more painful) part of labor lasted about 6 hours...though I started having "different" and "real" contractions early that morning (he was born nearly 11pm)...so technically it was an all day labor, but the "active" most painful part was about 6 hrs. You could always just go as long as possible without the epidural, rather than waiting to be at 4-5 and just agreeing to it at the magic number...who knows you may make it all the way through no prob. Best wishes to ya
jjandjake 2 months ago
@msaphrodite23 Don't be discouraged by your doctor's ignorant advice. ANYONE can do it natural the first time around.good luck and hope its very fast!
creamsodaistasty 1 month ago
LOL
pusslad 2 months ago
I bet you wish you had the epideral lol
exavaris 2 months ago
it's good to have a supportive partner, now, isn't it?
UpAndLeave 2 months ago
This is makin me scared
Alishbarockslol 2 months ago
looks like she is fake crying
Alishbarockslol 2 months ago
SHE SCREAMS SO WIERD! IT MADE ME LAUGH
Alishbarockslol 2 months ago
@Alishbarockslol People in pain make you laugh? I suggest therapy.
creamsodaistasty 1 month ago
OMG! My due date is dec 28'11 and Im hoping for a good first time delivery. Little bit scared of the pain! Good luck go me :)
katita171981 2 months ago
@katita171981 Believe you can. Know that your body knows what to do and surrender. If you have fear you will have pain. "I hope I can have a good delivery" is a negative thought. Tell yourself you will and really believe it. Birth is normal, natural and safe. Trust your body and your baby! That is all!
melliebsweet77 2 months ago
good
krishnachaitanyagali 2 months ago
it takes a REALLY strong woman to do what you did, you girl!!! prayers to your son:)
MsTinkerbelle87 2 months ago
@MsTinkerbelle87 Thanks!
jjandjake 2 months ago
The screaming only makes it worse! I had no meds, and i was supper calm, at my first.
lavidaesunamuerda 2 months ago
@lavidaesunamuerda good job!
jjandjake 2 months ago
@jjandjake Women are champions, all of them!
lavidaesunamuerda 2 months ago
stop saying shes dramatic. the birth of a child is naturaly painfull , everybody feels pain different, when she had that much pain,let her. God bless your child!
Vanessa8076 2 months ago
Why did you not have any fluid? And I had my baby at home and never made a sound. It doesn't hurt that bad!
melliebsweet77 2 months ago
@melliebsweet77 maybe it didn't hurt that bad for you. For me, it did (as you can tell). My baby swallowed all the fluid, but could not urinate it back out (which would be the normal process to get his kidneys and bladder "practicing") so he was born with all of the amniotic fluid inside him, backed up into his bladder and kidneys. His abdomen was swollen to larger than the girth of his head. The size of an infant coming out that area - I would expect it to hurt - it just makes sense.
jjandjake 2 months ago 2
@jjandjake I am sorry if my comment seemed insensitive. That was not my intent. I am sorry that happened. Sometimes abnormalities happen in pregnancy. I hope you and your little one are doing well! I just worry what people who don't know about normal birth think. It is hard to change peoples minds when they see videos that don't explain the whole picture. Now I understand.
melliebsweet77 2 months ago
@melliebsweet77 I had my previous child without any meds too, and even with my fluids all in tact, and everything "normal", I would still say it hurt. For others, it may not. People are different and experiences are different.
jjandjake 2 months ago
@melliebsweet77 Sweetie, just because it didn't hurt that bad for YOU doesn't mean it's not going to hurt that bad for someone else. Every woman is different and I would think as a WOMAN you would know that. My mom said her contractions felt like cramps. When she arrived to the hospital her babies took no longer than 2hrs. I don't know not one person who delivered a baby within 2hrs of getting to the hospital. So like I said before, "every woman experience is different".
suzi71375 2 months ago
@suzi71375 I am not your sweetie. I understand we are different. I also understand that we perceive pain in different ways. Most discomfort and pain comes from fear. I don't know what your mom has to do with me commenting on a woman who chose to put up her video giving birth. I am entitled to my opinion. Why do you feel you need to be so bothered by my comments for a woman you don't even know. I didn't attack her video. Why are YOU so angry?
melliebsweet77 2 months ago
@melliebsweet77 First off, I wasn't angry I was bothered by your comment because it came off completely insensitive. Me bringing up my mom's story of childbirth was to show you that she didn't have that much pain and every women is different. I guess some people need to have better reading comprehension because that was pretty obvious as to why I brought her up. Yes, you are entitled to your opinion and your opinion can't be what everybody else's experience was because...
suzi71375 1 month ago
@melliebsweet77 it was just your "opinion" on how you experienced it. Just in case you don't understand, an opinion is just something based on how "you" feel about something, it's not "fact". Your comment made it seem as if her experience should have been the same as yours and that's incorrect. Maybe you should think before you respond next time. You should have just stated your experience wasn't that bad and your sorry hers wasn't the same as yours was.
suzi71375 1 month ago
@melliebsweet77 wow you are so full of it!
trishamoos 2 months ago
@trishamoos I am full of sense and I understand the way the mind works. I am not full of anything other than experience and I know how birth works and the way we perceive "pain". I am entitled to my opinion and if one puts up there video for all to see then one must except the perception of that video. I wasn't in the room nor did I know all the facts. So I can say what I think. I have a mind of my own, and I choose to use it how I feel. You don't have to agree with me either!
melliebsweet77 2 months ago
@melliebsweet77 You're lucky it didn't hurt that bad! how long was the labor?
creamsodaistasty 1 month ago
CystFlavored I don't usually wish pain on people but hope you get a kidney stone that you have to pass then you will see how "not painfull" child birth is.
ashleykae86 2 months ago
Women are so amazing! Unlike men women are just sooooo awesome! Whoooo go girl friend
Chubzbunni 2 months ago
o_O OH MY GOSH AND I'M A GIRL WATCHING THIS AAAAAAAAAAAAAH i'm only 17 years old xDDDD
Giratina4857 2 months ago
lol, youre the most dramatic human being i've ever seen. man up ffs!!!
CystFlavored 2 months ago
@CystFlavored yes because you've seen everyone else in labor and pushing a child out.
jjandjake 2 months ago
women are all wimps, they think that child birth makes them heroes because men can't experience the same.
How about something simple like a hornet sting, it barely phases me but every girl I know that's been stung by even a bee screams like a bitch.
CystFlavored 2 months ago
@CystFlavored: What an outlandish, uneducated response from a true misogynistic individual. You should show some more reverence for those, like your own mother, who have tolerated the difficulties of child birth. I don't know what YOU do for a living, but I doubt you could hold a physical or intellectual candle to some women out there. I am by no means a hero, but surely I am no wimp. I am a mother, a retired cop, a bodybuilder, and now a Geologist..what are YOUR credentials? Some men...
MrJtboy123 2 months ago
@MrJtboy123 Good thing (for him) that I did not approve his other response to the video!
jjandjake 2 months ago
God bless you and your family. You are a wonderful mom. I will pray to Lord Jesus for your little one. God protect him! I can hardly wait to be pregnant and have my baby in a natural manner. Pray for me, too, please.
aalexmary 2 months ago
@aalexmary You got it, and thank you for the kind words and prayers! :)
jjandjake 2 months ago
Omg
Brittanystar35 2 months ago
CHILDBIRTH.... SO EASY, A WOMAN CAN DO IT.
combatcurtful 2 months ago
wow i could never do that kudos, im almost 18 and pregnant with my first, just found out last night im sooo fearfull that i cant do it.
glambertlover507 2 months ago
VISIBLE MOTHER AND FATHER, IS VISIBLE GOD. GO MUM GO.
yeihanaporrak 2 months ago
great job!! I due in a week with my second I hope I can go all the way natural I hated not being able to walk after having my first one for hours because of the epidural!!
24piciana 2 months ago
@24piciana I experienced that with one of my earlier births too - I was numb in one leg for 6 hrs as I was tilted to one side when the medicine was being administered, so it too real heavy down one side. It is real nice to be up on your feet immediately...taking care of yourself and your baby - amazing really.
jjandjake 2 months ago
@24piciana me to im due on the 23
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I want a natural birth, I don't care about the pain, it's worth it.
Jesicka89 2 months ago
@Jesicka89 They say that the pain that you have by that is a real nice pain.
nboc778 2 months ago
Was it really painful?
Idaten001 2 months ago
@Idaten001 yes...but well worth it
jjandjake 2 months ago
@jjandjake Yup, that's what my mom told me..."it's hard work but it's worth it."
shawnaisus 2 months ago
Wow!! rock on! My mom had both her kids without any drugs. I am pregnant now and I am scared I will not be able to do it without the drugs.
Mobee211 2 months ago
Baby has same birthday as me, albeit 15 years younger, haha :-)
overeighteen18x 2 months ago
May your child be filed with Life,happiness, and love ^^ may you and your family have joy and may the sands you walk on are warm, and the breeze gentle to your soul ^^
0XHakuYowaneX0 2 months ago
@0XHakuYowaneX0 Thank you!!
jjandjake 2 months ago
eww (no offence) what is that yellow stuff?
44PuppyDog 2 months ago
@44PuppyDog Vernix - a waxy like coating that protects baby's skin when they're in utero
jjandjake 2 months ago
Oh man mama, that looks rough. I'm so afraid of being drugged during birth, I've heard way too many horror stories. But, of course, have heard many horror stories of natural birth. I'm going to give hypnobabies a try. What an accomplishment to have had a natural birth! Congratulations!
AnotherDay2010 2 months ago
@AnotherDay2010 Oh I wish you all the best. You'll have to let me know how that goes. Hypnosis really intrigues me and I know it works for some! People have crazy dental work done with just hypnosis. Hope it goes well!
jjandjake 2 months ago
How long were u n labor?
jesmaryam1 2 months ago
@jesmaryam1 all day long - contractions started early that morning- but it started hurting around 5pm and got more intense from there on out - he was born that night at 9:52pm.
jjandjake 2 months ago