Don't Ask, Don't Tell

[miuwu208able]

Thank god we have woman like you! Your a life saver I am in the navy and didn`t have the time to tell the step kids the do`s and do nots but the kids are true & as we see in life that kids know more than they let us belive. Today I am divorced and the kids are doing great. You have a very special gift there COOLMOM. Thanks again.......

[ame6603]

Just tell her drummer boy isn't going to have enough money to buy her a nice house, like her daddy bought you. And tell her if she doesn't get enough money from her first marriage, she can always try again.

[charlovesyou42]

I guest you just told your kids ....... they will see this

[CPVinish]

I feel so sorry for your husband!  Stop talking and go clean the house!

[nelson11111]

coolest mom ever

[alf2424]

to live with you woman you would have to be on drugs or drunk all the time ,or  get a second job or grounds for divorce !! one way or the other you would have to go !!

[Breeslave]

Hi good advice and I love your sexy feet!

[hipnotic71]

I really enjoyed to see you in some cargos for a change, although your great all around

[maxwest333]

since you tried it, they are going to be curious. Explain the science of it, and stress the negative aspects, because they will find information on the positive aspects of it. Alcohol is far, far worse than that.

[cuervo1957]

I think it's better not to put in their minds that you know there is a possibility that they will actually partake in smoking a joint. They will take it as if you will understand as long as they follow your instructions of what to do if they happen to light one.

[theaggravator]

I told my kids if they get caught with drugs or get a DWI while under my roof, I would cut off their hands. Today I'm proud of my kids - both graduating college with honors and getting their masters, then plan to teach - and their prosthetic hands really didn't cost all that much either.

[SnapeAngel]

@theaggravator LOL nice one

[Nidonemo]

Truth is better I believe, if they are so bold to ask you don't need to say everything, but you could say "Yeah, Mommy did some stuff, but I won't go into detail"

Or keep it basic with a "Been there, done that, trust me it sounds a lot better than it really is" I mean that's a lot more honest than the paranoid parent seeming unrealistic and swept up by the media.

[4aseer]

good approach