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  • You are super special and awesome !!! =)

  • i love trees so i moved to the oregon coast wilderness....awesome

  • Thanks! But I got to say... I feel the same as you in the sense that people need to just see each other as humans and disregard religion, race, money status... Can I ask, have you ever felt like you were lost or felt like something was meant for you to do?

  • Did u meet yur twin flame? Rock on sister starseed, we are finding our way home.. Good Vibrations and oddities from the seeds of life. Namaste

  • Interesting vid ( : 0)

    I'm starting to think of more she said now

  • rock on my sister

  • You are the sun and moon and stars, are you

    And I could never run away from you

  • Leija if you're reading this, are you aware of twin flames ?????

  • Yah... very similar logic for myself... Me, Myself and I are thus far, the most compatible person's in my environment, so I've really no interest in looking for anyone, but if i'm to be with another person, some time in this life, then the divine consciousness that they and I may share will manifest the relationship~ Blessings and Nama'ste~

  • its only been sun for 1 week this hole year where i live :P sort of depressing

  • whiskey+doobie+car=fail :P

  • Heal the breach dude drink Whisky, smoke a dubee AND hug trees

  • you won't find someone like that because you impose those things which is a wrong concept,you have to accept things as they are.

    and you care about others think,either you realize it or not that's why you made this video as an explanatory note. it's ok..

  • piss off .... saurian clown !

  • LOLZ People hug trees cuz it causes your bio-electrical energy to flow the tree and it's bio-electrical energy to flow though you. People who think it's weird don't know basic scientific principals of energy flow and that it can actually benefit your health lol If I saw you do that all I would think is that's the hottest hippie I've ever seen lol

  • It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.

    - Jiddu Krishnamurti

    ;)

  • @supercell42 lol i saw that in the Zeitgeist movie

  • stumbled upon one of your health-related videos with your husband and then made my way to this video. i couldn't agree more! i also define compatibility in four main aspects: mentally, physically, emotionally and, very important, spiritually. i used to struggle a lot with the fact that i'm single because i really wasn't finding anyone that i was attracted to on all levels and the suffering didn't go away until i internalized the concept of working to become even *more* of what i want to attract.

  • Though I agree that having sex is healthy, there's a huge distinction between pleasure with conscience and pleasure just for pleasure's sake. I've met a few sexually addicted guys who have never known intimacy in a real relationship, would rather keep skimming the surface with a lot of different partners. Sex with deep love is totally spiritual and can become a powerful vessel for alchemic heart fire energy that is better than orgasm! Go deep with someone for real pleasure.

  • This is a really aweome message. There is so much pressure on people to be in a relationship, it's like people judge them as not being stable. I am 21 and don't have a boyfriend. I was in a relationship for 4 years and everyone tells me I 'need' to get back in the game. And really, I just feel like I am learning so much about myself and will have so much more to offer when the time is right. But it really does hurt when my family laughs at me for being single even when they are so unhappy

  • im so happy i found this video..i definately needed to hear this just getting out of a really abusive and negative relationship..its like I knew everything you were saying and it resonated with me..but hearing someone else say these things just clarified it

  • You sound exactly like me, I'm trying to find someone like you.

    Not very easy when your 19 in this society when all the girls your age are only about getting drunk, and having sex.

    Happy to hear you found someone that aligned with your soul. :)

  • there es many people like as around the world my weird's thing

    I was at sleep on the floor !! a rat pas by lick my ear, to me was ken I pas by

    I was 16 years old, ;-)

  • Congrats on your marriage :)

  • I was thinking a few days ago that maybe I am being too picky, That I should just settle for something lesser because lately I have met pple. that I cant really see myself with. I am patient and maybe is not the right time right now. God/Source knows when my other is supposed to come to my life. Thanks again for the video.

  • After listening to your video here, It amazed me that I am actually looking for the same thing. You hit the nail on the head about spirituality. For example I cant date a church zealot that condemns, judges and is critical of other because of their fixed beliefs, Just an example and I was thinking about this a few days ago. I am sure I will meet the right person when I am ready as well. Hope you already meet the person. Very wonderful u know exactly what you want.

  • wow i need to find someone like you, or should i say someone like me =)

  • I hear u! Everything ur sayn hits so close 2 home, congrats on getting married!

  • Can i marry you

  • HI five for not worrying about what people think and living life from authenticity. Go girl, and spread your message to the masses. I'm over the fake people and this fake dysfunctional world.

  • I'm 22. I don't have a husband planned (I have a bf). What you are looking for is exactly what I want. Its so cool to hear you found it. That means I can too, right?

  • How did you know I used to make forts when I was younger? Have you been spying on me?

  • i hope i can find someone like you one day! You're a fascinating young lady. Very bright and terribly precocious. I concur with everything you say....how refreshing to hear these words coming out of a woman's mouth. Blessings. I'm a new fan. xoxo

  • I cant wait for the day when every girl has the opportunity to spiritually open like this and is not conditioned from birth to be controlled and closed minded. They would be alot easier to find ;) keep up the great work Leija.

  • Are you still single?

  • @MrNibiru10 she's been married for a year.

  • great wisdom sista! glad your wish came true! ;)

  • I hope to find a woman one day like this. beautiful, intellectual, artistic. There are none like her in NORTH CAROLINA :( YEEEE HAWWWWWW.

  • there are many things I agree with you. Wish I could talk to you on one on one basis

  • True Video by the way.

  • Damn I want a chick like this. like exactly .... or maybe somewhere close .

  • I felt completey centred and at peace! Everything I wanted to feel but wasn't experiencing during the church service, I was getting during my time alone under the tree. And yah, I was alone..I was fleeing from the service in tears and nobody, none of my fellow 'Christians', bothered to come out with me and ask if I was ok, probably because they didn't want to 'look bad'. At that point, I started to realize that organized religion probably wasn't for me...Now I'm pretty much convinced it's not :)

  • You have inspired me to express my authentic self in a little story I've never mentioned to anyone before....First let me say that I've never hugged a tree; however, I get where you're coming from...They can be amazingly calming. I was at a Summer church service in a big tent and I'd just about had enough. I'd had enough of being preached at with 'fear tactics' and was feeling depressed and needed to get the heck out of there. So I left and sat under a tree by a pond, took in the nature and

  • u have the wisdom of someone who has lived 1000 years in a smoking hot 24 years olds body. god bless you...

  • I just know you and I've already fallen in love with you ....your outspoken personality is exquisite...

    you are just full of passion and that is really wonderful...love&peace...chauu­...

  • it made me feel better after i watched your video..before this ,i was so confused with the thoughts that were running on my mind.. i was so covered by my insecurities..actually i have just experienced a break up. my first time.. though it did happened 2 months now but still his thoughts and also the pain is still running and bothering me, reason why i feel so insecure seeing someone, or seeing my friends with their partners..i just realized, i have to be single for the meantime, to know myself

  • i wish i could have found you first :(

  • i had a rare experience in the relationship department of my life. I always felt this emptiness from lack of girlfriend, and the way i got outa this mode of thinking is when i was 25 i finally got a GF & it completely removed that emptiness in me! The unique part is even when we broke up in 6 months, that void never came back, because i now have that experience. She actually forever completed me, even after the relationship ended. Point is some people just need that 1 experience to feel whole.

  • You're very right about people being afraid of being alone. DO not be afraid, remember that you have yourself, which is the most valuable and most important thing in the world. I think that people that are afraid of being alone, lack creativity. Create hobbies, do things that you like; discover what you are capable of doing without being in company with another. We all have the capacity of being creative, you just have to not be lazy. People do not complete other people, nonsense! Solitude, me!

  • This vid in the creator's context is right on the money, I'm single and have been since 2009, living life to the full and evade the bs. It doesn't get much better than this. It's difficult to find people who dont want to hold you back and stop you from being you with 'relationships'. And I dislike using that term because of what people associate with it which is; Comfort, Control, Co-dependance, and the inevitable Collision(s). It's why they call em C4, in the worst cases, something will blow up

  • @MrZangetsu468 the laziness of comfort overlooks the detriment of control, sparking the flame of co-dependance, igniting into the 'Collision'..... BOOOOOOOM!!!

  • You are a great person

  • we are (relatively) complete monads, and still incomplete as dyads. Impossibility of achieving full potential as singles. lacking efficiency and effectiveness. Biggest wealth/success factor is marrying right person. take away restaurants and supermarkets (surrogate mates) and number of male bachelors likely go down (cf Richard Wrangham). The household and home economy, young people don't think about this much now, if we don't make fam we should serve in greater capacity the world like st paul

  • I love you =) now im extra happy to be single & a virgin = O

  • Good advice about being able to be honest and open (even though evil people can exploit it ...).

    She's a pretty amazing young lady, though I wonder if she has sufficient awareness that there really are some seriously bad people in the world. May The Good Lord protect her and all of those like her.

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  • This is really a great video and an inspiring message which cheered me up right now. I'm so happy for you! And here's another evidence: it really works to be just happy and in love with yourself and the perfect mate will just show up :)

  • Emotional Intelligence.. i like that word.. :)

  • Hmmm... this girl truly believes shes crazy and she believes it's a good thing!

    I love it!

  • u just described the type of guy i like. Unfortunately i have never seen these qualities in anyone in my town. it seems hopeless to meet even a friend who share my intrest and care about thier morals well being. i dont mind being single either ...there just so many facinating things to know n i never stop asking why.

  • Ur so awesom! :D I dont rly know what sincronicity feels like,but i feel...connected i guess,like in an emotional way.I dunno,you just make me feel rly happy! :D

  • You were honestly my dream girl...o well...glad you found a good mate....wish i could find some one like you...ladies im single and pretty good looking lol

  • I like this better than "Lightworkers, Starseeds & Rejection" because that video I didn't understand the new age lingo you used. And in this video you are talking about something more down to earth stuff about being single. And I agree with you on some level about, people are not truely themselves today. When young guys are hanging out with their friends drinking & drugs ect., they put on a act. So they seem like they are cool and though,and like they are some kind of mobster/rapper with juice.

  • I think the same way. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life then to be with a person who isn't like minded.

  • I feel exactly the way you describe in this video. And Im so glad that I watched it to see there are others who feel like me. I feel happy on my own but sometimes I start to worry because I always feel this subtle pressure from my family to find someone. And it's killing me. I feel encouraged now to just ignore it as you say. Thank you for this message! Life will provide when it's the best time.

  • ur not single anymore lol i just so that wedding vid :] it was so cute

  • great message Leija!!!

  • @Mystery207 yeahhh man

  • thank you, great message.

  • Nice video

  • I made forts all the time when I was a little kid. I thought I invented it, I would love to go inside and it felt cool to be in a small closed space. Cats like to do the same in a way, they alwasy go into bags or boxes and just sit in there.

  • Thanks for sharing this video. It´s so nice to see that there are people in this world who have the same spirit - connection with themselfs and to see what they what to attract in life. I´m happy you have found a person with you can share your world and live in peace and surround by nature and love. Good job!!!

    Greetings from Spain!

  • i know what you meant then..i am like that now..it's interesting that everyone thinks that it's "abnormal" to be happy being single and the only way to be "complete" is to be in a "relashionship" . lol it's almost funny to me.. thank you for sharing :)

  • Argh, I wish more women in the world were like this.

  • You are such a strong light it is an honour to be able to watch you. Obviously you are beautiful physically, but your inner beauty really really shines through. Thank you for posting these videos. Lots of Love!

  • This is a very good video and helps me clarify thoughts that I have and it runs along lines that you have talked about. Though I am quite a bit older that you,I too am happier now and more contented being myself and relationships are a complication that seriously jeopardize my evolution.Perhaps it will be seen as selfishness but focusing on singing, reading voraciously and studying languages

    and science and metaphysics seem to be more fulfilling than looking without.THANKS

  • Leija - I'm currently single and what you were looking for in a partner is actually a lot of what I am looking for in a girlfriend! Either it's a coincidence or it's because we're all one. :>

    I enjoyed your video very much. Congrats on finding a great guy!

  • I first saw this video when I was getting out of a rough relationship with someone. And it inspired me to start doing things for myself, and actually loving who I am. And that is what I'm doing right now! It feels really good, I'm starting to enjoy my own company, and not being so afraid to be "alone". You learn a lot about yourself when you actually take time to get to know yourself :). Thank you Leija.

  • you are sexy wish i could kiss you

  • You are sooooooo awesome!! I don't believe you are "weird" at all and I think that when we feel a bit different, just because we decide to swim against the "school of fish" in this life, we discover our unique self. I see it as going head on against the status quo of what has become a sick society no matter who we bump heads with. More power to you :D and in sharing your thoughts and ultimately sharing yourself. Thank you!

    Namaste~

  • wow those are the same reasons i'm single!!! Apart from i'm not half as beautiful as you are... LOL

    Im pretty damn weird and the feel i just couldn't have a 'normal' relationship... (the idea of going to the cinema and going on dates n stuff seems so false to me) Oh well ! xD

  • I WANT A GIRLFRIEND

  • Im almost 24 im a single male and ive rejected allot of people, even men lol not as common though thank god. I find the idea that things want to fuck me disgusting sometimes lol . I sometimes feel a lot of resentment by the obligation this world makes your feel when it comes to relationships and i don't want to rely on another person for happiness. Its annoying that people expect me to have to have a relationship but to be honest i think it annoys them that i don't care.

  • I have the same feeling that you do about being single! If only I could get my sister to see it the same way

  • The pressure to enter a relationship is called the sex drive.

  • You're single because you choose to be.

  • You really odd . But good message .

  • Hugging trees is weird?.. no, watching television and paying bills is WIERD! - We live in a world where the sane is considered insane and the insane is considered sane.

  • omg You sound like me! I've always been the weirdo around here~lol

    I'm 50 & been single for 10 years cuz I haven't found anyone with the qualities you've mentioned but being single isn't bad because I don't "need" anyone to complete me. My son's always saying I'm too picky but I refuse to settle for anything less than what I deserve, so when the Source decides it's time for me to have one, I know it'll happen but right now I'm HaPpY being single :-)

    Yeah for the Singe life~ Live Love Rejoice

  • You are wonderful. I wish i knew more people like you.

  • hahaha you make me smile everytime i see your videos not a whole lot of open minded people like you in the town i live in...this is exactly why maybe im single and a lot of people are pressuring me into getting into a relationship or have sexual relations with different people but i just don't get that feeling to do those things i feel like i haven't met the right person

  • Finally, somebody that understands what I've been trying to explain to family members and even some of my friends! Just because I'm "Single" doesn't make me less of a person! People look at me like I'm nuts for saying that! I feel as a young woman, there's absolutely nothing wrong with being single. I'm not going to date any guy that asks me out, I have standards and I'm not going to change them. By the way, you look like Kate Hudson.

  • i can feel you

  • You are drop dead beautiful.Hey i live in mississauga close to toronto.Maybe ill run into you one day eh.lol .Let me see if the law of attraction really does work .lol kust kidding.buta ya your videos are inspirational to say the least .Thanks for you bright smiles and colourful personility.

  • omg i love your energy ! you remind me of who i once was ) : ill find her eventually lol

  • I concur. I am single. But I actually like being by myself. I can do it. I'm fearless. Sooo, now I CAN come across the right person and be intact within myself and won't swallow up another person. I actually think marrying late (if you don't want kids) is a good thing. You have time to develop yourself. Yes, like you, well I HAVE to meet someone with spritual self awareness.

  • "It is very romantic to say that now that your special

    other has entered your life, you feel complete.

    Yet the purpose of relationship is not

    to have another who might complete you;

    but to have another with whom

    you might share your completeness."

    Neale Donald Walsch

  • Felipe iz a lucky man...

  • You're very wise for a young woman and it sounds like you implemented the Law of Attraction to find your husband through being positive and grateful and appreciating all that you are. I am on a spiritual path and currently manifesting my life partner the same way. Thank you for reminding everyone that there is no shame in being single and being yourself!

  • @magicalsugarcookie

    Oh dear, your story is quite sad. But through all this pain you can make a difference in someone else's life. If you are interested in starseed energy healing that can peel through and clear some of the psychic debris please message me.

  • So so true, you are beautiful and wise soul and Im so happy you've met your twin flame!! Lots of love and blessings :D xx

  • Society has disconect from me because what I believe and who I am. Im a transexual. I cast reliegion,politics,corperation­, and everything. Im going to the mountains and hide from from the world I live in. I feel everything is wrong and the people are heading the wrong direction.

  • I'd fuck u

  • Leija, you are awesome. Thank you. I'm going to listen to this video every time I fall off the wagon and start defending my truth to ppl. F@#! it. I'll just speak my truth and let it land how it will. It's not my responsibility how it lands; I'm only responsible for saying what comes to me. Thank you.

  • I feel like we are really similar and I would loveeeee to meet you. I think we could have wonderful conversations. Congratulations on meeting Phillip by the way! <3

  • i hug trees to i feel so a live when i do it and i like feel the trees energy

  • this sums up me. thank you for sharing!!!

  • i am amazed by you,i am 38 years old and it is so good to see you being so young and so mature.I wish more young people would have such a attitude.Thank you!!I am russian and i live in Kelowna,i am single just for absolutely the same reason you are talking in this video about.I am so happy I am not alone.Thank you,thank you.I read Anastasia books 10 years ago,at that time no one in Canada was understanding me.Now young people like you reading it and leaving it?WOW.

  • Oh my gosh, I've just seen your video - marriage!! Wow that was quick lol - I'll make sure to watch this video ALL the way through teheheh!!

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  • @xXBlackxRebelXx I'm really big on expressing my emotions & completely accept my husband for his feelings/ emotions. When I say emotional maturity, I'm referring to the level of awareness someone has about their emotions. So many people out there run on automatic & have no awareness of why they react to certain situations the way they do. Having emotional maturity means knowing it's ok to express emotions, but taking full responsibility for the emotions, not blaming others, etc.

  • @LeijaTurunen Emotional self-aware... does that sound like what you meant?

  • @LeijaTurunen Emotionaly self-aware... does that sound like what you meant?

  • @xXBlackxRebelXx being able to control your emotions is a part of being more mature

  • @shanghi300 and you think I didnt know that? or denied that?

  • I love you Leija! You bring peace, love, and support to all of us who are in the same boat as the way of disconnection of society has come to. I'm very expressionate! I always get judged for wearing my feelings and emotions on my sleeve, but you know what...Thank you for reinforcing how I already felt...I just don't care. There I said it! :) Anyways, I'm almost 22 years old at the end of the week and I'm still single and enjoying life! I'm not going to settle for less. Picky?! I don't think so.

  • @blueyedlash You sound JUST like me! I was always judged by people for... well, basically being myself- wearing my feelings and emotions on my sleeve, and for NOT settling, but boy am I glad I ignored those people! By being true to ME, I manifested my twin flame! So definitely sis*star, you have the right attitude and I KNOW you will meet that special person when the time is right. :)

  • @LeijaTurunen Hi great videos.. has anyone told you before you look like the singer from The Green Children? If you havent heard them you totally should. peace and light

  • the world needs women like you! yay! much love!

  • Indigo here..just discovered you :D love what you re saying...many similitudes with your interests..Much Love Ariel

  • You look like Kate Hudson

  • @Unekwu89 yeah :)

  • This is so cute and so true. I was weird 2 (still weird) was not looking for a husband , partner or lover and found ‘my weirdo’ . The true is that before he even open his mouth I knew he was my partner in life, I knew his spirit… crazy? …hey! I’m a weirdo remember? My weirdo and I, Weirdina , are now almost 30 years together and the connection is stronger than ever. BUT a relationship does not complete anybody. You have to keep on investing in your own growth .

  • wow everything you looked for in a partner I am looking for too! This is exactly the kind of person I'm looking for, what you're describing. Here's hoping (please universe!) I find my own Phillip :)

  • Hi Leija, are those your paintings in the back? I like the colourful one alot.  Hugs.

  • Love your posts ~ Leija ~ ♥●•◦▪◦•●♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥●•◦▪◦•●♥

    Just so cool how u say that phrase "emotional intelligence" thats something i can relate to so much, i also love my own company , sometimes ppl dont quite get it. :)

  • Love your posts ~ Leija ~ ♥●•◦▪◦•●♥ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ ♥●•◦▪◦•●♥

    Just so cool how u say that phrase "emotional intelligence" thats something i can relate to so much, i also love my own company , sometimes ppl dont  quite get it. :)

  • I'm 23 right now, have very similar viewpoint on life (I think you are much more clear than I am, so I am very much inspired by your clarity) .. and I am truly happy to see your present where you have exactly what you wanted. Just wanted to say that you are wonderful person and I am thankful to have attracted you in my life. :)

  • so right. the universe never asked us to settle. Dancing to an ever higher vibration.

  • What a awesome vid :D

  • I love my own company too for sure. Im the only one who speaks my language lol

  • ahhh when not looking, so happy just being you...like attracts like, then wow.......

    congratulations!!!  ONE LOVE :)

  • Your not single though! I'm confused!

  • @bob2me2002 not anymore sigh!

  • I can relate totally with what you're saying here almost a year ago. Hopefully things will go as awesome for me as it did for you on the love side of tings. Still, it's pretty good just enjoying life alone to. Why rush things. =)

  • you obviously havent found somone who you clicked with the true person that you love will like a mirror image a friend a foe a lover a friend.... 1111 to you my friend :D

  • I never comment on these things but: YOU ARE DEAD EFFING ON. I'm tired of people trying to set me up all the time because they're worried that I'm lonely, as if I'll never truly be happy without a man in my life. Puh-LEEZ! As if I couldn't find somebody on my own if I seriously wanted someone in it. I'm having a ball running around doing whatever I want now and being happy with just ME, thank you very much! When will I ever get this time again??

  • Leija I would LOVE to talk to you about relationships... I have some questions for you.. can we communicate somehow?

  • @goddessofdivinity Sure dahhhling! Feel free to email me... or maybe we can skype sometime! :)

  • @LeijaTurunen how one can really skype with for advice and guidance?

  • @goddessofdivinity Sadly, my dog moofie has left me for that butch he-dog samson at number 59. What I've learnt from this encounter? Don't feed your man woofie yum yum from walmarts they give him terrible wind and can cause eruptions in the middle of the night. Never yell fetch in a lingerie dept as you can end up with alot of grief and lawsuits.

  • Good for you Leija! Don't compromise in a relationship. It's not worth it. You deserve someone on your level. They exist. You're right, when the time and place are right you will find him, and he will find you. Being who you are will ATTRACT the right person. There will be a lot of men who will mainly be attracted to your physical appearance, but you have the wisdom to see beyond that. So, you'll be fine.

  • Well, Congratulations Leija! I have just learned that you got married today! This must have been your "intention" video, as it was made only less than a year ago. Your "hubby" appears to be exactly what you ordered from the Universe. I'm happy for you.

  • Forgot to tell you, I just heard this video called "Quantum Jumping" great cd's. The message was to change something in your environment, not exactly feng Shui, just go with your on rules. therefore, get rid of that LONELYLADY THAT LOOKS LONELY AND ANGRY IN THE BACKGROUND,get a beautiful or paint a beatuful picture of lovers. Get the idea, this will help you shift.

    blessings,

  • I do all those things, ALL, yes I still have a problem on people critique of me, I hate "gossip". Well, i think change something in your environment, I see you have good taste, something that represents romance, good relationhsip, symbols of spiritual connection.

  • stay empowered :) i love this messagee

  • YOU ARE AWESOME!!!!!!

  • P.S. I'm the first one on the list if you search for me on Facebook, at least right now. I'm male with a beard, picture looks like I have yellowy skin, FYI :)

  • Cool cool...add me as a friend on Facebook! I lived on a self-sustaining farm for 5 months on the Big Island as well and I'd love to return and maybe find a place in Waipio within a few months. I could definately use some wwoof contacts if you have any also! I will totally make you an amazing raw food dish and personally deliver it to you if you could hook me up with some worktrade :) Nice words of wisdom by the way, very true. Jody Schultz (Facebook!!!)

  • Is Turunen your real name? The former lead singer for the band Nightwish is Tarja Turunen.

  • I soo agree and your so awesome!! Where have you been all my life!? :)

  • Wise words little sister :)

  • its ok be my friend i'll be your men hold my hand love me make me a men make me into a supermen cuz only the love of a women can set me free and take me from being a boy into a men cus you aint a men until a women really loves you with all her heart a love so great that transforms mere men to superhero

    chorus:only your love can save me now only the love of a women can redeem me now