You have it spot on! Dating men, for me, is not a problem. I don't normally meet men in my 'real' life, therefore I've turned to online dating sites. Unfortunately, the men I meet are all pretty much uninteresting and don't really stand out from the crowd in any way. He needs to be different and engage me, right from the start. I don't, btw, consider myself to be very attractive but men have said that I am. It only takes that one special man, to make me sit up and take notice, not a multitude.
This sounds logical but unfortunately logic is not something that women understand, especially attractive ones. And thats why most attractive women are only interested in handsome retards with the personality of a horny pitbull.
Oh hell no. Attractive women have to deal with losers. Since every guy wants a beautiful woman, a nice looking girl gains the attention of all men. And it is not lways good.
I don't want to sound snooty or self centered, but i must say I think I am an attractive woman, And at my school it seems like all the so called "popular girls" are all of the pretty girls, and most often they are the bitchy annoying girls. They have it easy because guys just drool over them. It gets really sickening...
No, attractive women do not have it easy. I know from experience. Many attractive women are sought for one thing only. You men should know what that is. But men, if she is smart enough, she will know the difference between a guy that just's after her for one thing and the gentleman that truly appreciates her for who she is.
So you’re saying that she’s often such a stuck-up, picky, and frustrated bitch that guys can’t stand her for too long and eventually give up. Then she prowls more clubs and bars looking for other victims to put-down and reject. Ya … I can believe that. Good Video!
Isn't it a form of communism to not allow women to openly charge men money for sex? America is supposed to be a free market society built on capitalism, but if a women tries to sell her pussy in the open, she is penalized. Hypocritical?
I'm a dumpy, fat, middle aged man. If I woke up tomorrow as a beautiful woman, I'd totally become a high dollar whore. Imagine how much money a hot chick could make by charging ugly men for sex. Millions.
Speaking as a very pretty woman, I'll tell you what I'm looking for in a guy. Someone that is honest ( not married and lying about it), clean ( no drug or alcohol problems), makes his own money ( just like I do) and who has a sense of humor and treats others like he wants to be treated. I think most women on here would agree that's what they are looking for in a man.
It all depends on what you “suppose” is attractive – which is sometimes just flash and face paint.. So what happens? Thinking there’s always another guy around the corner, they excitedly play the field until their looks start to droop and they’re not sweet 16 anymore -- they begin to lose their power to attract. Then they look up youtube videos and leave comments like: “What happen to all the real men out there?” not realizing that they’ve all been married off. … Sad, really. That’s life!
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Arkady, so it all comes down to this question, how do I make her APPRECIATE me? How do I stand out? How do I give her the benefit of the doubt that I am a good guy with good intentions?
@MrCassanova08 Be honest and truthful, believe me it will show through.... There are so many freaks out there, it will show, Don't be needed, clingy, demanding, controling, be willing to be helpful and kind. Yes there is a difference, and it does show.
Yes beautiful people have it easier! This hot looking blonde at my work gets better treatment from Management, and upper Management...and people flock to her, but me? I get made fun of by most people, but do I care? No, not really because I'm there to do a Job and give it 100% and my advice to everyone is love yourself the way you are...I know it's hard because you want to get noticed so much, but having a few friends that are always there for you is what matters most.
What no one seems to realize is that women are in a position to actually NOT appreciate the attention they get because they get it too often. How many men can brag with this luxury? No one will fucking convince me that too much attention is worse than getting no attention and having to always be the one giving it.
What has a worse effect on the self-esteem: getting so much attention that you feel good but get a little tired of it, or not getting shit and feeling unappreciated?
from a young lady here. yes indeed I consider myself attractive and single. I meet many guys and they have and interest in me but I dont. I get easily turned off by guys all the time. If a guy more my type not just physically but overall would have something interesting to offer I would definetley do all I can to keep him close :). Usually opposite of what I do most of the time with alot of guys lol. take care
all the ppl saying out there that pretty girls have it ''easy''?? im like WTF? there have been SOOO many times ive been stood in bars/clubs with my friends having a great night out laughing at chatting as you do when all you do is get horrible hostile stares from catty V jealous women when they know nothing better than just to stare and talk about you all night lol trust me it happens ALL the time!!
@juiceyjayne1 It's not that you have it "easy." I don't think anyone has it EASY. But in a few aspects, you have it easiER. I would consider having to spend less time to look good as having it easier. It may be one aspect, but that one aspect makes a huge difference in a person's overall personality and self-esteem. And if you lack self-esteem, it affects ALL parts of your life. If you're pretty, it would be easy to laugh off the haters, because you know you have something they don't.
all the ppl saying out there that pretty girls have it ''easy''?? im like WTF? there have been SOOO many times ive been stood in bars/clubs with my friends having a great night out laughing at chatting as you do when all you do is get horrible hostile stares at catty V jealous women when they know nothing better than just to stare and talk about you all night lol trust me it happens ALL the time!!
Meeting men at a a bar? I'd never go to a bar to find great guys!
If I want to meet a policeman I'll go work at a police stations! If I want to meet a lawyer, I'll go work at a law office! Meetting men at a bar??? Not a great place to great men! Just my opinion!
Women hate when I say this but I've always said that beautiful women have it easy in life. I told someone that if I was wating for a cab in the rain and attractive woman was waiting just a few feet away; I'm boned. Remember that hot teacher with blond hair who had relations with one of her students. her defence lawer said she is too pretty for prison. I don't think she served a day; but If I had sex with young girl I be strung up to the nearest tree. Finally Casy Anthony, enough said
there was this girl i saw at school i instantly loved her she sw me too she smiled at me and she liked me too but i never asked her out cuz i didnt know how to handle the situation cuz it felt weird approaching her while she was talking to her friends and now she will be changing schools and i will never see her again I FUCKED UP MY WHOLE LIFE !!!! ; ( ;( ;(
I can tell you myself that i've been approached by many many men (n i'm still young) and went on quite a few dates yet i have rejected 99% of them in some way or another. Yes i'm still single. and that is because i choose to be. You are right, majority of the guys i've met are a disappointment. They are either jerks or "nice" guys who i just don't have chemistry with. Overall they are very indecisive, immature (even the late 20s), and not alphaly for me.They don't seem to be worth my time and me
There is another thing htat makes life difficult for attractive women, they are shunned by their peers, friends hate them with every breath they take, and men try to also dominate them, because if their insecurities... the list is long, great video my friend
really what you are saying then is that ugly girl get it easy as they cant tell bad from good, but it actualy harder, dont u ever hear prity girl saying iam so bad at picking men and if a ugly girl doesn't know what man is better isn't she at a disadavantage nto eht prity girl who can judge better???????????
Well, girls DO end up CHOOSING the jerks who are ballsy enough to approach her. Then they complain about it. Trust me, I can understand why being the "nice guy" is of course not attractive at all, just as a girl's not attractive just because she's "nice." But girls complain that jerks wanna get in their pants before getting to know them, but when a more decent guy talks to her, she uses her "bad boy" to go scare him away then she gives him the conceited smile indicating "leave me alone :)"...
I guess a shopper has other problems as they have to except more responsibility as they did have a choice so it is not the worlds fault on that one. But a lot of these women blame men. You chose and did not think it though rationally.
But it is better to have money and be able to exchange for fruits that may be bruised than to starve. If you fail as a hunter and gather then you will starve. That is way there is the double standard. If a hunter gets fat he has skill to back his gluttony.
That is like saying a shopper has it as hard as a hunter and gather. You have to bust your ass to get meat as a hunter. To be a shopper you even have the convenience to pick what fruits and meats work to your standards and assist. A hunter has to settle to practice and if he want to eat.
Read a bit more into evolutionary psychology, to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do.
In the mate selective process called natural selection, the more attractive female has it "harder" in choosing a mate (more options more rejecting) but a much easier time attaining men who display higher statistical indicators of survival value. It may hurt an ego or 2 (men and women) to actually learn the cold scientific truth behind this kind of thing.
Read a bit more into evolutionary psychology, to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do.
In the mate selective process called natural selection, the more attractive females has it "harder" in choosing a mate (more options more rejecting) but a much easier time attaining men who display higher statistical indicators of survival value. It may hurt an ego or 2 (men and women) to actually learn the cold scientific truth behind this kind of thing.
How about reading a bit more into evolutionary psychology to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do and why generally in the mate selective proccess they have it harder but an easier time attaining survival value... It may hurt many peoples ego (men and women) to actually learn the truth behind the sexes natural selection
attractive women and women and general don't have it easy. For example when a woman does NOT want a man, and she tells him "I'm not interested" he might still flirt with the girl or even follow her around and expect her to still see him in a romatic or sexual way........there's a pressure on us women to be interested even if we are not, its like we can't have standards lol......but men do have it really really hard no doubt
After 2 divorces,"love" is just another word used to get you to fork over money. Like a car sales man trying to seduce you with the sunglasses pocket, and that new car smell. Its all a buch of shit to try to get you to transfer your wealth. Women = whores...
@Soranita Thanks dude, and let me guess, you have been married for less than 2 years? am I correct? Are you and your wife still in that infancy mode? no kids yet????
@ispepteid1 I'm a female, not sure why you think I'm a man. I know many couples that have been married for 20+ years with kids so maybe there is just something wrong with you or the women you choose.
@ispepteid1 Since when is being a third grade teacher easy? Of course you didn't mean to get the words "easy" and "unimportant" interlaced knowign that education is the platform for compeition on an international level. And that teachers are more than babysitters teaching Tommy how to read. School is where individuals can form educated opinons and learn to develop themselves as a whole before commiting to being an "other- half" thus being jaded against the world when hubby leaves them.
@ispepteid1 If women AND men would stop allowing their love lives to define them them maybe we would have less marrying for money, less tolerating unfullfillng one-night stands just so that someone will smile upon our baggage, which some people thrust into waiting hands to show the world just how unlucky they have been at love. But you of course , ispepteid1, beign the educated individual that you are, probably frown upon that behavior.
Women got it easy in America. Just by the chance that they were born with a vigina, they could marry up and become a millionaire. And dont give me you're shit: "Oh Women are 40% of the workfore" Yeah, thats because 40% of america's jobs are EASY. Like running a hair solon or being a 3rd grade teacher. And dont give the crap: "but women are in the military and policeofficers" Yeah, they are in the MILITARY, no the front lines, and they are patroling Beverly Hill's retirement community....
@ispepteid1 You're an idiot, mate. Get an education. Women are graduating at a HIGHER RATE from the toughest universities in the country into the most skilled, demanding and stressful professions such as the medical and legal professions. This is not to say that men do the easy work either - gender does not specify difficulty of employment. Why don't you focus on bettering yourself and your own education before you woman-bash.
I'm 6ft 6 155lb and of average looks, but my partner is absolutely stunning and gets hassled on a daily basis by those "jerks". She says that she loves me because guess what! I'm different! I couldn't be happier :)
@kristuxle She "loves" you because you are "different". Yeah, let me guess, you have some sort of mult-generational successful family buisness? She probably didnt pay 2 sh*ts towards you untill the day she discovered you had some sort of financial asset...
It depends on what you, as an individual, define as 'beautiful'. My own experience with woman is that the more beautiful the woman, the less she cares about another man's feelings. She just goes to bars and have drinks and meets guys who are interested in casual sex. Only in one place in the whole world have I met a beautiful woman, who's not only beautiful with make-up, but even more so without, who actually cares about the man's feelings. These women are rare. At least that's my experience.
Beautiful women have it easier. They can get away with a lot more. Most people assume because they look so good that they have no sensitivity and that everyone should accept it. But they have it easier when it comes to jobs (even ones they aren't qualified for). But companies are suckers for image, it's 2011. They have it easier in relationships because they can be really mean to a guy but because they know they are beautiful, it will take twice as much for a guy to break up with them.
I totally agree with what this guys says, and frustated at the guys that I have dated lately, because they are jerks. I am attractive, and agree the jerks dont care about being rejected..
@mettabee It is sometimes truth, but not all attractive women want that. You can't just put all attractive girls in the same category and say "been there, done that". There are ways to tell whether a girl is an interesting, charming and enjoyable girl or just a sexy bitch.
Yeah, I know that boys like me, but the only guys with the balls to ask me out are assholes who try to impress me with stupid shit and talking bad about other guys. what's up with that? The conversation is always "look at me, I'm so awesome you should totally like me." Seriously, one guy I met at a college thing was like "yeah, I'm going into law" and the way he said it was like "yeah, I'm way better/smarter/gonna be richer than other guys".
Yeah I definitely think very attractive females got it bad sometimes. They're hated on by other females because of jealousy or whatever reason. Just because they are really pretty they are automatically "stuck up." And some guys won't even have the courage to talk to them. It's annoying.
@fuegofuego25 but it also be that some get annoyed by guys and sorta back off to have space? because i see a pretty girl at school, but i dont get why she's so shy and not socializing with guys at all...
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away before getting to know you!
@tamara6359 OMG THANK YOUUUUUU This is my problem with guys RIGHT NOW...I am JUST NOW getting to know a good guy who is also very confident (that type is rare let me tell you). Usually the confident guys who approach me are JERKS and PLAYERS and not really my type or up to my standards. It makes me not want to date sometimes and end up not liking guys haha . The nicer guys are too shy and don't approach and I won't do it, so it's hard. JUST ASK US GUYS lol
@tamara6359 OMG THANK YOUUUUUU This is my problem with guys RIGHT NOW...I am JUST NOW getting to know a good guy who is also very confident (that type is rare let me tell you). Usually the confident guys who approach me are JERKS and PLAYERS and not really my type or up to my standards. It makes me not want to date sometimes and end up not liking guys haha . The nicer guys are too shy and don't approach and I won't do it, so it's hard. JUST ASK US GUYS lol
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away before getting to know you
@tamara6359 i fallow you on that one..i know it because of experience and honestly am sick of it too they dont get to know me and just wanna get in my pants...and based on what he said about non-attractive girls/women i have a close girl friend of mine that most of her relationships are better off than what ive been through with guys
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away...sick of it
@ayom91 I say, decent is good. But seriously, if you think about what arkady said, it makes perfect sense. I mean I have a crush on my friend and I don't think she knows it yet but she keeps telling me about all her guy problems. Most of the guys approach her due to her looks. Nothing more. And then I meat up with these guy and ask theme about their stance. Most of them answer, in a way, like this: "Looking is free either way."
Respond to this video... So in other words gorgeous women want rich, buff, athletic studs? They sure stand out from your average guy. This is something I already freaking found out...THE HARD WAY. Looks like I'll never have a beautiful woman...
cont* It isn't easy for women either. We get scared too as no one likes to be rejected for any reason. Another thing is see if she is there to dance and let off steam or if she is hunting as well. Watch her for a little bit and you will be able to tell. Knowing her intentions for being there will help you hit or miss. And even if she is there to only dance, she may have some amazing friends to introduce you to or who knows what the fututre holds for her intentions either ;)
It may be true that many men stare but that is where it stops usually. The more attractive we are the LESS men come up to us. They are scared or think we are taken or other things. I will dance with anyone as it is just a dance and I will talk to any man who has the guts to talk to me. The talking ends though if the guy acts like a cocky jerk though. My tip is when you see a beautiful woman..go talk to her. Yes go talk to her because few if any will and it gets lonely. It isnt easy for women.
@akwolfsong What you said is true because sometimes it is intimidating to talk to A drop dead goregous girl and most of the time it seems like those ones are already taken, not looking for a boyfriend, or are stuck up.
They sort of have it easy but if you look at it they dont have easy lives..they are probly more prone to temptation and thus have affairs or attract a man who only see her looks and drop her when she start losing her looks.
@helleigna You're making it sound like the expectations of intelligence, integrity, and self control should all be lowered for attractive women, just because theyre attractive. They don't have easy lives because they're more likely to get hit on, and in turn have less control of their actions? They make their own choices, so don't be blaming their looks if they can't see the superficiality in a guy and end up marrying him.
@JAXANDA but we get hurt and get dumped too. there are just some women out there who manage to protect their egos better than the others, like soem men too. i dont think there is an advantage. cause if we turn 60 and our husbands are 60 too, the men have more advantage..its like they dont really age.
that is really wrong. The beautiful women of course have a lot more easier time when it comes to relationships.They need to do nothing but show up. The more confident guys WILL approach her anyway and her job is to reject all the guys who do nor appear interesting enough and pick the one who does...
Totally agree. Pretty girls really don't need to try to be smart or know how to conversation, it is the average and below average who actually need to develop a peronality.
@688Freddy TRUE BUT you forget to add that the confident ones are usually (not always, but a good amount) the JERKS AND PLAYERS of the group. The guys who think dating is a numbers game and feel they are too good and probably just want sex b/c the girl looks attractive/hot. The nicer guys would think she's taken or not interested. So not, in the edn, it's not that easy. Apparently I'm a great catch at 22 and a virgin, but still no boyfriend, just guys that want in my pants lol
@688Freddy How do you know what it's like to be an attractive woman "Freddy"? You clearly consulted no females on your take of what it must be like to be a female. "Need do nothing but show up" and look pretty = attracts guys who don't look for substance in a woman and are likely to treat her badly. "Reject the ones who do not appear interesting enough" do you again mean ones who are not players? Players are the most interesting, they are also the most harmful. Think before you post.
OK advice but fuck loking at videos to have this guy tell u what to do till u compile a long list and stress urself on if ur following the right steps or not. just be yourself and if they dont like it fuck them. Girls are not to be put on a pedastal and the pathway to them is not filled with 250 rules that if you break, youre fucked. Nah, Be yourself no appologies. And btw this guy's vibe and voice is a little creepy "That looks like a heavy read..what its it" lol yea nice one pedobear
@UCantHandleTheTruth3 You are right dude. While he has good advice it is just far too much to take in. Meeting girls is not rocket science! End of the way just be yourself and go talk to her. Remember that the act of approaching her will already make you a winner because you will have no regrets - you will not go home thinking about the missed opportunity and what you could have done. If she rejects you think of it as an opportunity to meet a better lady and move on. So just go talk to her!
And if you don't know how to start a convo with her then use an opener like this which can be used in ANY situation - view his 'Great pick up line when nothing else comes into your mind' video.
Thaat video has the best opener to use because it shows that you are direct, confident and know what you want. So just go for the kill and you will have no regrets.
You give great advice Arkady but it can just be a bit too much.
Sorry, your really confused and your giving men the wrong advice. When an attractive woman drunkly stubles into a bar (oops i mean delicatley walks in), she is looking for the most blinged out attractive guy with her drunk vision. It's not not rocket science to know you will never find a decent woman in a bar...GO TO ANOTHER LOCATION, IDIOT.
@ERAofMS u must hav fucked up ur romance pretty bad eh? u r just a complete fag. if u don listen 2 him, u r at loss n fuck off. i knew most of the tings he is saying but the oni difference is he is KIND enuf to share but i m NOT!
Your basicly saying unatractive women will be less picky because we have to take who we can get, like if some guy walks up to us were just going to pick the first one that comes along because we can't do better. Really beautiful women are picky because most beautiful girls not all can be shallow because they know they are beautiful. Less atractive girls get to know the guys for there hearts not there looks. Most guys pick the beauties because they let there junk rule they're head, its sad.
@ChaosControl1997 That is true. I also think that most marriages do not last because most of them are based on physical attraction. A pretty face can hide an ugly heart.
I've been approaching like 5 girls that I liked but that aren't that "hot" or that attractive really, and then I tried one that I really found beautiful. turned out the last one worked the best.
i like this video you make many good points. Okaay but what i need is a video to teach me how to go up to very attractive guys coz i always get very nervous with hot guys or even guys that are not necessarily good looking but beautiful inside... i guess my fear is that they won't like me because they seem so much better than me... i guess i feel like i'm not good enough or something.. like why should they want me theres probably better women out there.. any advice?
@nicool722 Always and always be yourself and don`t try to be someone else. It's normal to fear , but think about it , that person is just like you , have the same weaknesses and strengths (mentally speaking) and he would react the same way you would. Before you take any action, imagine how would you feel if a guy that you like would do something nice to you , what would be your reaction? This same principle applies to guys. My point is, do and act the same way you wish others to act around you
@JXJ1326 I have a Lady of five years now. We watch porn together. Women don't all suck. just the ones dumb enough to date guys based on one nite out at a club,etc. A good trusting relationship takes time. If she's healthy enough and likes you enough they all tend to be horny all the time even better. Go for marathon super doopers,or save it up for fireworks extravaganza nite in the sack. much better then one night stands i think but then again those are better suited for acquaintances.
women still suck. you're much better off dating a girl thats already a friend or jerkin it to porn. because if you do a lady they always make you pay or lock you down like a prisoner of love. porn is better then a women. sad but true.
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As an moderately attractive, average-looking woman, I am offended that you assume I can't appreciate a nice guy as well as a good-looking girl. I mean, the fact that I don't look 10/10 stellar is bad enough.
@NeverMind88888 what this guy is saying is true. I am a prettier than average girl and many guys pay attention to me, but they are the guys I find unattractive, shallow and not very bright. And whenever I see a cute guy with an interesting personality, he never approaches me, only look at me really fast and then look away. What I'm saying is the facts in this video are absolutely true, except for an exception of probably a couple "attractive" girls, who are probably sluts anyway.
Dude from your lips to their ears. The last guy I dated was so horribly boring I was angry when I left never to return. He kept saying 'You're so beautiful' You're so nice' and 'You're so sweet' WTF!!! That's all he said the whole time. How many times did I ask him to turn the music on? Wtf? I was so bored I had to make up fantasies in my head. I mean really you can't even talk about something? Anything?? The weather? WOW I better hold onto all the interesting people before they disappear.
@abby495 The problem is that nice guys have a limited perception of being "nice". They are afraid their actions will be perceived as bad, so they stick to the plain, uninteresting, keep-it-safe attitude. This is what these two terms, "Nice guy" and "Bad boy" create. They are the most convenient and effortless way to explain what girls want, but there's a misconception there. When people hear the word "bad", it's perceived as badass. "Nice" is perceived as polite and maybe plain.
If you're with a nice guy you have to be super confident because everything he does is like to get your approval. So you don't really know what he really feels or thinks so it is kind of creepy. But that's ok it is better to have it in the open and understand it first.
People tell me I am attractive, but I have only had one boyfriend since I moved out (I wasn't allowed to have boyfriends when I lived at home) and no guys talk to me...
I agree, I'm considered quite attractive and the number of rubbishy guys I've been approached by has been phenomenal! I met a guy who was primarily not attractive to me, but within a week, i saw that he had many attractive qualities (and turned out to be someone truly sought after by women - I later learned). I fell in love with him, but he happened to be leaving the country and not looking for a relationship. We talked, got close over more than 6 months, and then, it was over. Still upset...
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harboee 4 days ago
You have it spot on! Dating men, for me, is not a problem. I don't normally meet men in my 'real' life, therefore I've turned to online dating sites. Unfortunately, the men I meet are all pretty much uninteresting and don't really stand out from the crowd in any way. He needs to be different and engage me, right from the start. I don't, btw, consider myself to be very attractive but men have said that I am. It only takes that one special man, to make me sit up and take notice, not a multitude.
summersun2828 1 week ago
This sounds logical but unfortunately logic is not something that women understand, especially attractive ones. And thats why most attractive women are only interested in handsome retards with the personality of a horny pitbull.
Mement0o 1 week ago
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HAHA personality of a horny pitbull.
monteoly 1 week ago
Are you telling me having options is a bad thing???
You are so fucking retarded I don't even know where to begin.
MrHav1k 2 weeks ago 2
@MrHav1k are you talking to me??
itsniquenique45 1 day ago
Oh hell no. Attractive women have to deal with losers. Since every guy wants a beautiful woman, a nice looking girl gains the attention of all men. And it is not lways good.
itsniquenique45 3 weeks ago
I don't want to sound snooty or self centered, but i must say I think I am an attractive woman, And at my school it seems like all the so called "popular girls" are all of the pretty girls, and most often they are the bitchy annoying girls. They have it easy because guys just drool over them. It gets really sickening...
1123awesomeness 4 weeks ago
No, attractive women do not have it easy. I know from experience. Many attractive women are sought for one thing only. You men should know what that is. But men, if she is smart enough, she will know the difference between a guy that just's after her for one thing and the gentleman that truly appreciates her for who she is.
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So you’re saying that she’s often such a stuck-up, picky, and frustrated bitch that guys can’t stand her for too long and eventually give up. Then she prowls more clubs and bars looking for other victims to put-down and reject. Ya … I can believe that. Good Video!
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lawshorizon 1 month ago
Isn't it a form of communism to not allow women to openly charge men money for sex? America is supposed to be a free market society built on capitalism, but if a women tries to sell her pussy in the open, she is penalized. Hypocritical?
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
I'm a dumpy, fat, middle aged man. If I woke up tomorrow as a beautiful woman, I'd totally become a high dollar whore. Imagine how much money a hot chick could make by charging ugly men for sex. Millions.
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ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
Speaking as a very pretty woman, I'll tell you what I'm looking for in a guy. Someone that is honest ( not married and lying about it), clean ( no drug or alcohol problems), makes his own money ( just like I do) and who has a sense of humor and treats others like he wants to be treated. I think most women on here would agree that's what they are looking for in a man.
debjean63 1 month ago 2
Press 2 repeatedly xDDD
Also very good vids bro! Keep it up.
papiezguwniak 1 month ago
It all depends on what you “suppose” is attractive – which is sometimes just flash and face paint.. So what happens? Thinking there’s always another guy around the corner, they excitedly play the field until their looks start to droop and they’re not sweet 16 anymore -- they begin to lose their power to attract. Then they look up youtube videos and leave comments like: “What happen to all the real men out there?” not realizing that they’ve all been married off. … Sad, really. That’s life!
lawshorizon 1 month ago
The BIG question here is WHY is an attractive girl still single? She must be as picky as Hell!
lawshorizon 1 month ago
@lawshorizon No. Sometimes it's because she's an annoying, hateful cunt.
ebonics4everyone 1 month ago
So you're saying women have it harder because they have MORE OPTIONS?!?!!!
That's the most retarded shit I've ever heard. That makes no fucking sense. Seriously, kill yourself now fucktard.
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BillTheTrainer 2 months ago
HAHAHAHAHA, what a hilarious video
acoueuoca 3 months ago
Arkady, so it all comes down to this question, how do I make her APPRECIATE me? How do I stand out? How do I give her the benefit of the doubt that I am a good guy with good intentions?
MrCassanova08 3 months ago
@MrCassanova08 Be honest and truthful, believe me it will show through.... There are so many freaks out there, it will show, Don't be needed, clingy, demanding, controling, be willing to be helpful and kind. Yes there is a difference, and it does show.
pigpenthecat 1 month ago
@pigpenthecat please check your inbox
MrCassanova08 1 month ago
Yes beautiful people have it easier! This hot looking blonde at my work gets better treatment from Management, and upper Management...and people flock to her, but me? I get made fun of by most people, but do I care? No, not really because I'm there to do a Job and give it 100% and my advice to everyone is love yourself the way you are...I know it's hard because you want to get noticed so much, but having a few friends that are always there for you is what matters most.
Love Yourself.
EricSchwin22 3 months ago
What no one seems to realize is that women are in a position to actually NOT appreciate the attention they get because they get it too often. How many men can brag with this luxury? No one will fucking convince me that too much attention is worse than getting no attention and having to always be the one giving it.
What has a worse effect on the self-esteem: getting so much attention that you feel good but get a little tired of it, or not getting shit and feeling unappreciated?
Ridiculous!
BigDog91527 3 months ago
this explains why my best friend and i have such VERY different experiences with guys
SaltwaterAir1 3 months ago
@SaltwaterAir1 Inbox me, I would like to listen to your experiences if thats cool with you. Im just a regular guy here
MrCassanova08 3 months ago
@MrCassanova08 I can't inbox you, you have friend lock.
SaltwaterAir1 3 months ago
@SaltwaterAir1 sorry, check your inbox
MrCassanova08 3 months ago
Thank God I'm Pretty
Every skill I ever have will be in question
I love Emilie Autumn.
kipkayify 3 months ago
I would generally agree. Many guys are intimidated to ask out attractive women, though the creeps aren't.
df393 3 months ago
from a young lady here. yes indeed I consider myself attractive and single. I meet many guys and they have and interest in me but I dont. I get easily turned off by guys all the time. If a guy more my type not just physically but overall would have something interesting to offer I would definetley do all I can to keep him close :). Usually opposite of what I do most of the time with alot of guys lol. take care
prettypink2100 4 months ago
or just pick the one with best car nowadays, init? :-)
Rank000 4 months ago
all the ppl saying out there that pretty girls have it ''easy''?? im like WTF? there have been SOOO many times ive been stood in bars/clubs with my friends having a great night out laughing at chatting as you do when all you do is get horrible hostile stares from catty V jealous women when they know nothing better than just to stare and talk about you all night lol trust me it happens ALL the time!!
juiceyjayne1 5 months ago
@juiceyjayne1 It's not that you have it "easy." I don't think anyone has it EASY. But in a few aspects, you have it easiER. I would consider having to spend less time to look good as having it easier. It may be one aspect, but that one aspect makes a huge difference in a person's overall personality and self-esteem. And if you lack self-esteem, it affects ALL parts of your life. If you're pretty, it would be easy to laugh off the haters, because you know you have something they don't.
ImaginarYxGoddesS 4 months ago 4
all the ppl saying out there that pretty girls have it ''easy''?? im like WTF? there have been SOOO many times ive been stood in bars/clubs with my friends having a great night out laughing at chatting as you do when all you do is get horrible hostile stares at catty V jealous women when they know nothing better than just to stare and talk about you all night lol trust me it happens ALL the time!!
juiceyjayne1 5 months ago
Meeting men at a a bar? I'd never go to a bar to find great guys!
If I want to meet a policeman I'll go work at a police stations! If I want to meet a lawyer, I'll go work at a law office! Meetting men at a bar??? Not a great place to great men! Just my opinion!
sultryable2 5 months ago
this is what you call the law of the jerk
and the law of the geek and nerds :D
CariagaXIII 6 months ago
Women hate when I say this but I've always said that beautiful women have it easy in life. I told someone that if I was wating for a cab in the rain and attractive woman was waiting just a few feet away; I'm boned. Remember that hot teacher with blond hair who had relations with one of her students. her defence lawer said she is too pretty for prison. I don't think she served a day; but If I had sex with young girl I be strung up to the nearest tree. Finally Casy Anthony, enough said
ptg700 6 months ago 12
as a less than attractive girl, yes, yes they do. believe me.
zepalom 6 months ago
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there was this girl i saw at school i instantly loved her she sw me too she smiled at me and she liked me too but i never asked her out cuz i didnt know how to handle the situation cuz it felt weird approaching her while she was talking to her friends and now she will be changing schools and i will never see her again I FUCKED UP MY WHOLE LIFE !!!! ; ( ;( ;(
agony202 7 months ago
fine chicks are not that easy! cuz they know they look good! lol
MikeEppsComedyTv 7 months ago
I can tell you myself that i've been approached by many many men (n i'm still young) and went on quite a few dates yet i have rejected 99% of them in some way or another. Yes i'm still single. and that is because i choose to be. You are right, majority of the guys i've met are a disappointment. They are either jerks or "nice" guys who i just don't have chemistry with. Overall they are very indecisive, immature (even the late 20s), and not alphaly for me.They don't seem to be worth my time and me
yl0125 7 months ago
@yl0125 Give me a break. You're too full of yourself. Calm down, your probably not that great.
MartinFire13 6 months ago
There is another thing htat makes life difficult for attractive women, they are shunned by their peers, friends hate them with every breath they take, and men try to also dominate them, because if their insecurities... the list is long, great video my friend
TheAriark 7 months ago
really what you are saying then is that ugly girl get it easy as they cant tell bad from good, but it actualy harder, dont u ever hear prity girl saying iam so bad at picking men and if a ugly girl doesn't know what man is better isn't she at a disadavantage nto eht prity girl who can judge better???????????
ultimate8pac 7 months ago
Well, girls DO end up CHOOSING the jerks who are ballsy enough to approach her. Then they complain about it. Trust me, I can understand why being the "nice guy" is of course not attractive at all, just as a girl's not attractive just because she's "nice." But girls complain that jerks wanna get in their pants before getting to know them, but when a more decent guy talks to her, she uses her "bad boy" to go scare him away then she gives him the conceited smile indicating "leave me alone :)"...
slowrunn3r88 7 months ago
I guess a shopper has other problems as they have to except more responsibility as they did have a choice so it is not the worlds fault on that one. But a lot of these women blame men. You chose and did not think it though rationally.
But it is better to have money and be able to exchange for fruits that may be bruised than to starve. If you fail as a hunter and gather then you will starve. That is way there is the double standard. If a hunter gets fat he has skill to back his gluttony.
WEH1123 7 months ago
That is like saying a shopper has it as hard as a hunter and gather. You have to bust your ass to get meat as a hunter. To be a shopper you even have the convenience to pick what fruits and meats work to your standards and assist. A hunter has to settle to practice and if he want to eat.
WEH1123 7 months ago
So then how come I see a lot of beautiful women with bummy guys that have a ghetto look to them?
TheNewRiflemanBob 7 months ago
Read a bit more into evolutionary psychology, to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do.
In the mate selective process called natural selection, the more attractive female has it "harder" in choosing a mate (more options more rejecting) but a much easier time attaining men who display higher statistical indicators of survival value. It may hurt an ego or 2 (men and women) to actually learn the cold scientific truth behind this kind of thing.
themaniusedtob 7 months ago
Read a bit more into evolutionary psychology, to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do.
In the mate selective process called natural selection, the more attractive females has it "harder" in choosing a mate (more options more rejecting) but a much easier time attaining men who display higher statistical indicators of survival value. It may hurt an ego or 2 (men and women) to actually learn the cold scientific truth behind this kind of thing.
themaniusedtob 7 months ago
How about reading a bit more into evolutionary psychology to better understand why attractive women reject more men then less attractive women do and why generally in the mate selective proccess they have it harder but an easier time attaining survival value... It may hurt many peoples ego (men and women) to actually learn the truth behind the sexes natural selection
themaniusedtob 7 months ago
It's sad but attractive ladies get mannnnny jerks after them and very few nice guys. It sucks!
greenbutterfly101 8 months ago
attractive women and women and general don't have it easy. For example when a woman does NOT want a man, and she tells him "I'm not interested" he might still flirt with the girl or even follow her around and expect her to still see him in a romatic or sexual way........there's a pressure on us women to be interested even if we are not, its like we can't have standards lol......but men do have it really really hard no doubt
thickjai18 8 months ago
After 2 divorces,"love" is just another word used to get you to fork over money. Like a car sales man trying to seduce you with the sunglasses pocket, and that new car smell. Its all a buch of shit to try to get you to transfer your wealth. Women = whores...
ispepteid1 8 months ago
@ispepteid1 LOL you seem bitter.
Soranita 8 months ago
@Soranita Thanks dude, and let me guess, you have been married for less than 2 years? am I correct? Are you and your wife still in that infancy mode? no kids yet????
ispepteid1 8 months ago
@ispepteid1 I'm a female, not sure why you think I'm a man. I know many couples that have been married for 20+ years with kids so maybe there is just something wrong with you or the women you choose.
Soranita 8 months ago
@ispepteid1 Since when is being a third grade teacher easy? Of course you didn't mean to get the words "easy" and "unimportant" interlaced knowign that education is the platform for compeition on an international level. And that teachers are more than babysitters teaching Tommy how to read. School is where individuals can form educated opinons and learn to develop themselves as a whole before commiting to being an "other- half" thus being jaded against the world when hubby leaves them.
jrsweetea 7 months ago
@ispepteid1 If women AND men would stop allowing their love lives to define them them maybe we would have less marrying for money, less tolerating unfullfillng one-night stands just so that someone will smile upon our baggage, which some people thrust into waiting hands to show the world just how unlucky they have been at love. But you of course , ispepteid1, beign the educated individual that you are, probably frown upon that behavior.
jrsweetea 7 months ago
Women got it easy in America. Just by the chance that they were born with a vigina, they could marry up and become a millionaire. And dont give me you're shit: "Oh Women are 40% of the workfore" Yeah, thats because 40% of america's jobs are EASY. Like running a hair solon or being a 3rd grade teacher. And dont give the crap: "but women are in the military and policeofficers" Yeah, they are in the MILITARY, no the front lines, and they are patroling Beverly Hill's retirement community....
ispepteid1 8 months ago
@ispepteid1 You're an idiot, mate. Get an education. Women are graduating at a HIGHER RATE from the toughest universities in the country into the most skilled, demanding and stressful professions such as the medical and legal professions. This is not to say that men do the easy work either - gender does not specify difficulty of employment. Why don't you focus on bettering yourself and your own education before you woman-bash.
SuGaRuSh14 7 months ago
@ispepteid1 Yeah, running a business and dealing with children sound like easy jobs /sarcasm
DontShakeItUp 7 months ago
I'm 6ft 6 155lb and of average looks, but my partner is absolutely stunning and gets hassled on a daily basis by those "jerks". She says that she loves me because guess what! I'm different! I couldn't be happier :)
kristuxle 8 months ago
@kristuxle She "loves" you because you are "different". Yeah, let me guess, you have some sort of mult-generational successful family buisness? She probably didnt pay 2 sh*ts towards you untill the day she discovered you had some sort of financial asset...
ispepteid1 8 months ago
maby if women knew what personality was the divorce rate wouldent be so high
legend956 8 months ago
ambitions? or aspirations?
emericasguy6589 9 months ago
Women are attracted to money the most if you wave money infront of them they'll do anything.
AstonVilla82thebest 10 months ago
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cant be anymore true than this! great explanation!
urcraving 10 months ago
cant be anymore true than this! great explanation!
urcraving 10 months ago
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1.say your name 10 times
2.say your moms name 5 times
3.say your crushes name 3 times
4.your crush will KISS you on Friday
***this will work if you post it on four videos if you dont Friday will be the worst day of your life***
Punyass500 10 months ago
thank you , i was so happy to listen and hear this!!!
sophiabella70 10 months ago
It depends on what you, as an individual, define as 'beautiful'. My own experience with woman is that the more beautiful the woman, the less she cares about another man's feelings. She just goes to bars and have drinks and meets guys who are interested in casual sex. Only in one place in the whole world have I met a beautiful woman, who's not only beautiful with make-up, but even more so without, who actually cares about the man's feelings. These women are rare. At least that's my experience.
Errol246 10 months ago
@MrMorri32 LOL!
alreadycrowning 10 months ago
Beautiful women have it easier. They can get away with a lot more. Most people assume because they look so good that they have no sensitivity and that everyone should accept it. But they have it easier when it comes to jobs (even ones they aren't qualified for). But companies are suckers for image, it's 2011. They have it easier in relationships because they can be really mean to a guy but because they know they are beautiful, it will take twice as much for a guy to break up with them.
Grapes428 11 months ago
I totally agree with what this guys says, and frustated at the guys that I have dated lately, because they are jerks. I am attractive, and agree the jerks dont care about being rejected..
giddyuppaintpony1 1 year ago
What do i do if im hell ugly and have a million freckles? i believe i asked that in another vid
TheFiresteel 1 year ago
688Freddy comment about beautiful women is so true.
robnewman8 1 year ago
Different = attractive and rich !!!!!!!!
mba2ceo 1 year ago
Man, after watching a few of your videos, I have that huge boost of confidence and approaching girls suddenly seems so much simpler and easy.
I can't thank you enough for making these videos.
Quartrez 1 year ago 2
i think very attractive women know what power they have and want either a guy who is just as attractive, or has a lot of money, or both
mettabee 1 year ago 2
@mettabee It is sometimes truth, but not all attractive women want that. You can't just put all attractive girls in the same category and say "been there, done that". There are ways to tell whether a girl is an interesting, charming and enjoyable girl or just a sexy bitch.
Quartrez 1 year ago
Yeah, I know that boys like me, but the only guys with the balls to ask me out are assholes who try to impress me with stupid shit and talking bad about other guys. what's up with that? The conversation is always "look at me, I'm so awesome you should totally like me." Seriously, one guy I met at a college thing was like "yeah, I'm going into law" and the way he said it was like "yeah, I'm way better/smarter/gonna be richer than other guys".
Asking the girl out is the guy's job.
AE901213 1 year ago
Yeah I definitely think very attractive females got it bad sometimes. They're hated on by other females because of jealousy or whatever reason. Just because they are really pretty they are automatically "stuck up." And some guys won't even have the courage to talk to them. It's annoying.
fuegofuego25 1 year ago
@fuegofuego25 but it also be that some get annoyed by guys and sorta back off to have space? because i see a pretty girl at school, but i dont get why she's so shy and not socializing with guys at all...
onionsoup32 1 year ago
Lot of attractive women always have avg joe.
Avanaih 1 year ago
this is sooooooo true
dreamlandlover 1 year ago
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HamedTD 1 year ago
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away before getting to know you!
tamara6359 1 year ago 56
@tamara6359 OMG THANK YOUUUUUU This is my problem with guys RIGHT NOW...I am JUST NOW getting to know a good guy who is also very confident (that type is rare let me tell you). Usually the confident guys who approach me are JERKS and PLAYERS and not really my type or up to my standards. It makes me not want to date sometimes and end up not liking guys haha . The nicer guys are too shy and don't approach and I won't do it, so it's hard. JUST ASK US GUYS lol
punkofmudd 11 months ago
@tamara6359 OMG THANK YOUUUUUU This is my problem with guys RIGHT NOW...I am JUST NOW getting to know a good guy who is also very confident (that type is rare let me tell you). Usually the confident guys who approach me are JERKS and PLAYERS and not really my type or up to my standards. It makes me not want to date sometimes and end up not liking guys haha . The nicer guys are too shy and don't approach and I won't do it, so it's hard. JUST ASK US GUYS lol
punkofmudd 11 months ago
@tamara6359
soooo true! they just want in your pants when you're pretty/hot. Plus, if you're accomplished too, you become intimidating even if you "dumb down."
ronibstylista 11 months ago
@tamara6359 So true!
anikadiamond007 10 months ago
@tamara6359 being prioty help but there sare side affects so ur wrong, pritty women are just better at judging men
ultimate8pac 7 months ago
@tamara6359 Seriously, Beautifull women have it easy.
sephizinho 7 months ago
@sephizinho Are you a beautiful woman?
KeeKo432 6 months ago
@KeeKo432 No
sephizinho 6 months ago
@tamara6359 why should want to know you? you were born to suck my dick nothing else
TheSUBGAMER 5 months ago
@tamara6359 you talk as if you know ;-). there are cons to everything i guess, do u think the cons of hotness outweigh benefits?
Outoftheclique 3 months ago
@tamara6359
You attractive women have the easiest ride in life of all! Fuck you!
CleverDjembe 3 months ago
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away before getting to know you
tamara6359 1 year ago
@tamara6359 i fallow you on that one..i know it because of experience and honestly am sick of it too they dont get to know me and just wanna get in my pants...and based on what he said about non-attractive girls/women i have a close girl friend of mine that most of her relationships are better off than what ive been through with guys
STI07250 1 year ago
I think you got it right. Attractive women most of the time attract jerks because jerks are way too experienced in dating scene and seem to care less about rejection. More decent guys I think care more about rejection and thus do not approach attractive women. And attractive women will be less likely to approach guys expecting them to come along. Whoever thinks that being pretty helps in life, you are wrong!!! girls get jealous, men wanna get in your pants right away...sick of it
tamara6359 1 year ago
@tamara6359 are you telling me you'd rather be unattractive than be attractive?....
ayom91 1 year ago
@ayom91 I say, decent is good. But seriously, if you think about what arkady said, it makes perfect sense. I mean I have a crush on my friend and I don't think she knows it yet but she keeps telling me about all her guy problems. Most of the guys approach her due to her looks. Nothing more. And then I meat up with these guy and ask theme about their stance. Most of them answer, in a way, like this: "Looking is free either way."
gd567890dA 1 year ago
Respond to this video... So in other words gorgeous women want rich, buff, athletic studs? They sure stand out from your average guy. This is something I already freaking found out...THE HARD WAY. Looks like I'll never have a beautiful woman...
AManofWit 1 year ago
cont* It isn't easy for women either. We get scared too as no one likes to be rejected for any reason. Another thing is see if she is there to dance and let off steam or if she is hunting as well. Watch her for a little bit and you will be able to tell. Knowing her intentions for being there will help you hit or miss. And even if she is there to only dance, she may have some amazing friends to introduce you to or who knows what the fututre holds for her intentions either ;)
akwolfsong 1 year ago
It may be true that many men stare but that is where it stops usually. The more attractive we are the LESS men come up to us. They are scared or think we are taken or other things. I will dance with anyone as it is just a dance and I will talk to any man who has the guts to talk to me. The talking ends though if the guy acts like a cocky jerk though. My tip is when you see a beautiful woman..go talk to her. Yes go talk to her because few if any will and it gets lonely. It isnt easy for women.
akwolfsong 1 year ago
@akwolfsong What you said is true because sometimes it is intimidating to talk to A drop dead goregous girl and most of the time it seems like those ones are already taken, not looking for a boyfriend, or are stuck up.
alreadycrowning 1 year ago
@alreadycrowning Next time you see one..try ;) You might be surprised :D
akwolfsong 1 year ago
@alreadycrowning You forgot one thing, IS looking for a boyfriend but she has like a freakin impossible standard.
gd567890dA 1 year ago
this guy has so many points.... Its very true!
Mercuryrose86 1 year ago
AND WHAT DID YOU STUDY TO LECTURE US??????????
mister0wrong 1 year ago 2
Thank you.
PedacitoDeCiel 1 year ago
They sort of have it easy but if you look at it they dont have easy lives..they are probly more prone to temptation and thus have affairs or attract a man who only see her looks and drop her when she start losing her looks.
helleigna 1 year ago
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@helleigna HAHAHAHAHA you are a girl
MitchKid432 1 year ago
@helleigna You're making it sound like the expectations of intelligence, integrity, and self control should all be lowered for attractive women, just because theyre attractive. They don't have easy lives because they're more likely to get hit on, and in turn have less control of their actions? They make their own choices, so don't be blaming their looks if they can't see the superficiality in a guy and end up marrying him.
plusmin09 1 year ago
if there frustrated, they find any guy and fuck. this is bullshit, women have it easy, and they still take advantage, but whatever good for them
JAXANDA 1 year ago
@JAXANDA but we get hurt and get dumped too. there are just some women out there who manage to protect their egos better than the others, like soem men too. i dont think there is an advantage. cause if we turn 60 and our husbands are 60 too, the men have more advantage..its like they dont really age.
helleigna 1 year ago
that is really wrong. The beautiful women of course have a lot more easier time when it comes to relationships.They need to do nothing but show up. The more confident guys WILL approach her anyway and her job is to reject all the guys who do nor appear interesting enough and pick the one who does...
688Freddy 1 year ago 15
@688Freddy
Totally agree. Pretty girls really don't need to try to be smart or know how to conversation, it is the average and below average who actually need to develop a peronality.
SkinnyGirl125 1 year ago
@688Freddy TRUE BUT you forget to add that the confident ones are usually (not always, but a good amount) the JERKS AND PLAYERS of the group. The guys who think dating is a numbers game and feel they are too good and probably just want sex b/c the girl looks attractive/hot. The nicer guys would think she's taken or not interested. So not, in the edn, it's not that easy. Apparently I'm a great catch at 22 and a virgin, but still no boyfriend, just guys that want in my pants lol
punkofmudd 11 months ago
@688Freddy How do you know what it's like to be an attractive woman "Freddy"? You clearly consulted no females on your take of what it must be like to be a female. "Need do nothing but show up" and look pretty = attracts guys who don't look for substance in a woman and are likely to treat her badly. "Reject the ones who do not appear interesting enough" do you again mean ones who are not players? Players are the most interesting, they are also the most harmful. Think before you post.
SuGaRuSh14 7 months ago
thanks a lot arkady i think that's a huge help
yairoka 1 year ago
so thats why that cheerleader said yes to prom with me few months ago!
simpsonstewie 1 year ago
absolutely right.
thaiacapepe 1 year ago
OK advice but fuck loking at videos to have this guy tell u what to do till u compile a long list and stress urself on if ur following the right steps or not. just be yourself and if they dont like it fuck them. Girls are not to be put on a pedastal and the pathway to them is not filled with 250 rules that if you break, youre fucked. Nah, Be yourself no appologies. And btw this guy's vibe and voice is a little creepy "That looks like a heavy read..what its it" lol yea nice one pedobear
UCantHandleTheTruth3 1 year ago 4
@UCantHandleTheTruth3 You are right dude. While he has good advice it is just far too much to take in. Meeting girls is not rocket science! End of the way just be yourself and go talk to her. Remember that the act of approaching her will already make you a winner because you will have no regrets - you will not go home thinking about the missed opportunity and what you could have done. If she rejects you think of it as an opportunity to meet a better lady and move on. So just go talk to her!
Boutross18 1 year ago 3
And if you don't know how to start a convo with her then use an opener like this which can be used in ANY situation - view his 'Great pick up line when nothing else comes into your mind' video.
Thaat video has the best opener to use because it shows that you are direct, confident and know what you want. So just go for the kill and you will have no regrets.
You give great advice Arkady but it can just be a bit too much.
Boutross18 1 year ago
@Boutross18 U got it bro..thumbs up
UCantHandleTheTruth3 1 year ago
Sorry, your really confused and your giving men the wrong advice. When an attractive woman drunkly stubles into a bar (oops i mean delicatley walks in), she is looking for the most blinged out attractive guy with her drunk vision. It's not not rocket science to know you will never find a decent woman in a bar...GO TO ANOTHER LOCATION, IDIOT.
ERAofMS 1 year ago
@ERAofMS u must hav fucked up ur romance pretty bad eh? u r just a complete fag. if u don listen 2 him, u r at loss n fuck off. i knew most of the tings he is saying but the oni difference is he is KIND enuf to share but i m NOT!
jj385064 1 year ago
I didnt think of that, well put there liver lips.
FreeBlago1 1 year ago
that is sooooooooo true!!!
monswat 1 year ago
Your basicly saying unatractive women will be less picky because we have to take who we can get, like if some guy walks up to us were just going to pick the first one that comes along because we can't do better. Really beautiful women are picky because most beautiful girls not all can be shallow because they know they are beautiful. Less atractive girls get to know the guys for there hearts not there looks. Most guys pick the beauties because they let there junk rule they're head, its sad.
ChaosControl1997 1 year ago
@ChaosControl1997
This is correct.
MrHav1k 1 year ago
@ChaosControl1997 That is true. I also think that most marriages do not last because most of them are based on physical attraction. A pretty face can hide an ugly heart.
RetroJenny 9 months ago
This guy talks alot of sense.
jayske4848 1 year ago
damn it works!
I've been approaching like 5 girls that I liked but that aren't that "hot" or that attractive really, and then I tried one that I really found beautiful. turned out the last one worked the best.
so this advice really works. thanks arkady!
ofnir123 1 year ago
i like this video you make many good points. Okaay but what i need is a video to teach me how to go up to very attractive guys coz i always get very nervous with hot guys or even guys that are not necessarily good looking but beautiful inside... i guess my fear is that they won't like me because they seem so much better than me... i guess i feel like i'm not good enough or something.. like why should they want me theres probably better women out there.. any advice?
nicool722 1 year ago 2
@nicool722 Always and always be yourself and don`t try to be someone else. It's normal to fear , but think about it , that person is just like you , have the same weaknesses and strengths (mentally speaking) and he would react the same way you would. Before you take any action, imagine how would you feel if a guy that you like would do something nice to you , what would be your reaction? This same principle applies to guys. My point is, do and act the same way you wish others to act around you
TheoO18 1 year ago
@JXJ1326 I have a Lady of five years now. We watch porn together. Women don't all suck. just the ones dumb enough to date guys based on one nite out at a club,etc. A good trusting relationship takes time. If she's healthy enough and likes you enough they all tend to be horny all the time even better. Go for marathon super doopers,or save it up for fireworks extravaganza nite in the sack. much better then one night stands i think but then again those are better suited for acquaintances.
gr8indasack69 1 year ago
women still suck. you're much better off dating a girl thats already a friend or jerkin it to porn. because if you do a lady they always make you pay or lock you down like a prisoner of love. porn is better then a women. sad but true.
gr8indasack69 1 year ago
@gr8indasack69 "ok correction"porn is better then an ugly women that doesn't like alil fun"
gr8indasack69 1 year ago
@InThisLight99 shy is a lack of confidence and drive. awesome quality...not!
gr8indasack69 1 year ago
this is true!!! In a way, if you are ugly, then you know a guy likes u for you!
xpssh 1 year ago
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thesheaja 1 year ago
this guy must be getting barreee girlsss lol
morhys23 1 year ago
Amen baby!
EricaYE6 1 year ago
its never easy when it comes to love!!! lol, its just as hard for beauty's as it is for geeks!!!! :) lol
and its all down to peoples misconceptions!!! they either 'jump to conclusions' or make assumptions about people...
t7hope 1 year ago
@arkady39 man, how you know all this emotions shit?
you are really good at it!!
MRkallek91 1 year ago
As an moderately attractive, average-looking woman, I am offended that you assume I can't appreciate a nice guy as well as a good-looking girl. I mean, the fact that I don't look 10/10 stellar is bad enough.
leopardseals 1 year ago
@NeverMind88888 what this guy is saying is true. I am a prettier than average girl and many guys pay attention to me, but they are the guys I find unattractive, shallow and not very bright. And whenever I see a cute guy with an interesting personality, he never approaches me, only look at me really fast and then look away. What I'm saying is the facts in this video are absolutely true, except for an exception of probably a couple "attractive" girls, who are probably sluts anyway.
Fattymaccy 1 year ago
Dude from your lips to their ears. The last guy I dated was so horribly boring I was angry when I left never to return. He kept saying 'You're so beautiful' You're so nice' and 'You're so sweet' WTF!!! That's all he said the whole time. How many times did I ask him to turn the music on? Wtf? I was so bored I had to make up fantasies in my head. I mean really you can't even talk about something? Anything?? The weather? WOW I better hold onto all the interesting people before they disappear.
abby495 1 year ago
@abby495 The problem is that nice guys have a limited perception of being "nice". They are afraid their actions will be perceived as bad, so they stick to the plain, uninteresting, keep-it-safe attitude. This is what these two terms, "Nice guy" and "Bad boy" create. They are the most convenient and effortless way to explain what girls want, but there's a misconception there. When people hear the word "bad", it's perceived as badass. "Nice" is perceived as polite and maybe plain.
NeverMind88888 1 year ago
If you're with a nice guy you have to be super confident because everything he does is like to get your approval. So you don't really know what he really feels or thinks so it is kind of creepy. But that's ok it is better to have it in the open and understand it first.
abby495 1 year ago
WOW very true.
Tokidoki4Me 1 year ago
i am sure that you get things because you are attractive.
garycalgary 1 year ago
you're right, the pretty girl stays home alone Saturday night because guys assume we're all booked up, when we're not, for that reason
saddlerackcowgirl 1 year ago 2
People tell me I am attractive, but I have only had one boyfriend since I moved out (I wasn't allowed to have boyfriends when I lived at home) and no guys talk to me...
KaraLorinne 1 year ago
but it's so intimidating even if there is a spark
FreeeeS 1 year ago
is he reading a text?? )))) where is he looking?? ))
MarcelLazar 1 year ago
very true......wish more men would understand that
butterfly182709 1 year ago
I agree, I'm considered quite attractive and the number of rubbishy guys I've been approached by has been phenomenal! I met a guy who was primarily not attractive to me, but within a week, i saw that he had many attractive qualities (and turned out to be someone truly sought after by women - I later learned). I fell in love with him, but he happened to be leaving the country and not looking for a relationship. We talked, got close over more than 6 months, and then, it was over. Still upset...
lusciousphilippa 1 year ago
hahahahaha I think you're "the one" ;) hahahahahaha Are you Toooorkish? What are you?
ElshaynezsOnlineGF 1 year ago
so true
you know your stuff man!
keep it up
reowreow11 1 year ago
I totally agree with you arkady39!! I read an article on this the other day and the doctor said exactly what you did!!!!! Great job. xx
TheOrientalGal 1 year ago
Im an amateur body builder/drummer at berklee college of music, and I havent been able to get a date in three years. What is wrong with me?!
jshields01 1 year ago
It's just attractive women, ALL women have it easier than men.
papilon86 1 year ago