Hun you are fine compared to me if you seen a 10 year clip my life you would be like wow he's really messed up...=/ social anxiety isn't even the right title for me..
I found your video quite interesting to watch, made me think of myself as I have aspergers syndrome, although it is a lot different to anxiety but has some similarity with the social things, I don't do too great with people most of the time and always only have one or two close friends rather than a lot.. - I guess I'm concerned about what people think about me a lot too, I used to obsess with working out a lot but not so much any more and always think carefully on what I wear around people
And it's bad because when I'm getting anxiety, I find myself talking to myself in my head a lot and when that happens I tend to not pay attention to my friends are doing or talking about and that's when the anxiety comes, all the thoughts are just making me feel like a complete utter loser :/. And it seems that the thoughts that go through my head are all me being very self conscious and I find myself wanting to leave but I just can't...Like I'm glued. It sucks :(
Social anxiety is tough, I've never been diagnosed with it but I've done a lot of research and do find myself feeling awkward around people I don't know. Mine usually comes out the worst when I'm smoking marijuana, and I've had it to the point where I feel like I'm glued to my seat, all eyes are on me, I'm super tense and any little move I make looks dumb. Plus I can't control the pitch of my voice or how my voice come out. It's really frustrating...Does adderal help with social anxiety?
you're beautiful.. you really are. And you have a lot of guts to be talking to the world! I know u asked for no comments but you are amazing. Well i think that im getting social anxiety. :P well yeah, you're an inspiration to me :)
I just didn't eat enough, and I would restrict myself to how much food I ate each day. I was skinny and hungry looking at the time. But I long conquered my eating disorder. Well, if anyone wants to share their experiences with me, be my guest. Cheers!
But I have been much better since I moved. Anyways, where eating disorders are mentioned in the video tags, when I was 12 and going on 13, I had abit of an eating disorder.
I have dealt with Social Anxiety myself, and it was terribly painful. Right up until last month when I moved to a new home, I was having it rough. And there were times when I was going to hang out, but I pulled out of my plans due to Social Anxiety.
@paledreams I am trying to reply to the "you dont look like a person with social anxiety".... looks can be very deceiving... I garantee anyone who knows me would look at you like you were crazy if you said "he has social anxiety".. but I do and its hard....life in general is hard... in high school and college, i sat in the back corner of every class.. i dread making simple phone calls... never want to go to parties, never make eye contact, fear talking to strangers..the list goes on..
just try to be urself in social situations, you have a great personality of what i can see from this video.. i used to have the exact problems as you are talking about and then i realized it was just because i wasnt being myself.
Omg! I know the phone thing. And I can ramble once I a wile :) I did last night. You have to put ur self out there. Then u overtime get comfortable, or more comfortable. :)
@MagnesiumAlloy don't take me wrong, but are you taking depression pills and other things like xanax ? because i hear lot of people taking those things and feel almost everytime like a zombie and feel weak . . . and who take those take this will never cure that thing and cost money for nothing . . . well its my opinion i love help everyone you know lol =)
00Thinking back. On my life now I can see myens with " problems with social anxiety disorder or SAD
Began to raise it's ugly head when I was around 6yr.s old. My family had just moved ldfrom California to tTexas we we're a a group of 10 children and 1 other to come 6 yr.later I was the 5th. One down the middle child.
So i just created a youtube account to respond to this video. As soon as you mentioned feeling awkward even around some friends and having racing thoughts filled with insecurity along with having difficulty with starting a conversation, I related to that strongly. Ive struggled with this for a while and Ive almost come to a conclusion that Ill always be this way...but hearing that others struggle with this problem and treatment actually works gives me hope. thanks for sharing!!
It always seems like the people who look and sound the most confident, are the ones who suffer the most. People don't expect it from you. Personally, I don't think you look unconfident in any way, There's no reason for you to be. You're totally attractive, and you seem well spoken. But often, it's the same case with myself. I can easily engage in conversation with strangers and other people, but I face these mental blocks time and time again. Drives me nuts.
I used to suffer from SA and u do not look or sound lik u have SA to be honest and I'm not jus sayin that I'm bein honest. To me u seemed like one of those outgoing girls. Goes to show u can be skinny but If u beleive ur fat in ur head no matter what anyone says u will always beleive ur fat. Hit me up ppl I kno how to overcome SA and all that ;) dnt be shy.
Please go to my channel and see my testimony. I used to suffer from anxiety, panic attacks and agarophobia. I have been set free for over 5 years. No meds, no "panic away" or "linden method". You can be set free too and it won't cost you a dime. GOD bless you all.
I use to have TONS of friends but then over the years I developed this fucking social anxiety and I basically only see them on Facebook or talk to them on MSN or email. I always make up excuses if they want to hang out. I screen all of my calls and keep my ringer off even. My best friend fucking betrayed me last year too and I had a huge falling out which didn't help at all.
I don't ever feel like leaving the house either. I just like staying at home. Got lots to do, and I can't get it done if I'm goofing off in some noisy bar.
I don't have social anxiety I don't think, but I have romantic anxiety for sure.
Not sure if I posted a comment on this video before. If I did it was a long time ago.
i was just thinking EVEN BEFORE YOU MENTIONED THE SHIRT that it was a cute shirt ;) but we are our own biggest critic. i know i over criticize myself waaaaaaaaay too much. and i do the same thing with asking people to hang out "wanna hang out!?" (please dont say yes, please dont say yes...) and *slap* to your cheating ex
Yea you dont seem to have SA... Only because you speak SOOO confidently and sure. You sound like you have racing thoughts, like me... which can SEEM like many different anxieties!
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haha well i know what your saying about all those social situations, also i was gonna tell you , you look cute and as i was typing it you said not too , haha but im still gonna tell ya !
i barely answer the phone either. it makes me feel like a bad friend sometimes, because my frineds will ask me "why dont you ever answer the phone?" =/
P.S. i love Diet Coke too, but have you ever tried Coke Zero? its delicious!!
Hello, My adive is take tablets called propranolol for anixley and panic attacks, good to have brown paper bag when you starting to feel ill, and when you are outside other tip is wiggle your toes mean dont faint etc. Hugs Kisses Love Gizmo xox
I noe this mite not hep much but wat help me lived a more fulfilling life is this quote by Dr Suess " Be who you want to be and say what you want to say because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!" Also cut down on the soda and anything with caffeine because it contributes to anxiety. Hope u're progress will improve =)
I know how you feel about going out and being social. While I don't deal with any eating issues I do struggle with a lot of anxiety, depression and struggle with self- injury (always self-conscious that people are staring at my arms if exposed or wondering why the long sleeves if it's hot out).
What helps me to go out and be social is planning in advance, if someone calls me up last minute to go out somewhere it's just not gonna happen.
Ugh I have the same social anxiety ! I get the hives all over my jaw and neck. I never answer the phone. The list goes on and on. It's nice to know I'm not the only one !
I totally understand how it feels.. and your anxiety.. But the good thing that still you are trying, you go out a lot of times, you have friends,, and you always look nice in your videos.. Sometimes i feel same as you or feel like not talking to anyone at all...
Did you ever go to City Bible Church in Portland Oregon? You look very familiar to me. I dont mean to sound weird. Im just wonering. And I so know what you mean, I invite people to hang out and then either hope they say no and cancel if they say yes. ive had intense social anxiety since I was 11. :[
I get very frustrated when I am meeting new people and I know that I can completely relate to them and what they are saying but I just don't know how to get it out because of my anxiety. I miss out on making friendships all the time. It makes me sad. Before my eating disorder and social anxiety I was meeting people and making amazing friendships all the time. Now I'm just hostage to my insecurities. I hate it. :o(
I have social anxiety disorder so I have to deal with the social anxiety all the time. I have a lot of phone anxiety too I think. I know what you mean on your profile. I want to be happy and having to go through what I have to is definitely not part of it.
Good luck on overcoming and achieving what you want.
wow i totally relate to this so much with the whole like people talking and just saying awkward things and lol i did that with SVU on Netflix awhile ago isn't it just great? :) Just thinking of you and hoping things go well for you tonight and that you hear something soon for treatment
When I first opened this I immediately thought 'what a nice top' lol and how you have great arms! I don't comment all the time but I love your videos. I find myself laughing along or really resisting tears because my empathy is so strong.
I hope this doesn't sound patronizing but you're really brave going out with your social anxiety. I hope you had a great night :)
Hope everything went well when you went out tonight! I know exactly how you feel about changing 50 times before you go out in public haha. Its quite pathetic. good luck with getting into treatment!
Hun you are fine compared to me if you seen a 10 year clip my life you would be like wow he's really messed up...=/ social anxiety isn't even the right title for me..
carguy05vids 2 months ago
I found your video quite interesting to watch, made me think of myself as I have aspergers syndrome, although it is a lot different to anxiety but has some similarity with the social things, I don't do too great with people most of the time and always only have one or two close friends rather than a lot.. - I guess I'm concerned about what people think about me a lot too, I used to obsess with working out a lot but not so much any more and always think carefully on what I wear around people
kingjosh1876 3 months ago
And it's bad because when I'm getting anxiety, I find myself talking to myself in my head a lot and when that happens I tend to not pay attention to my friends are doing or talking about and that's when the anxiety comes, all the thoughts are just making me feel like a complete utter loser :/. And it seems that the thoughts that go through my head are all me being very self conscious and I find myself wanting to leave but I just can't...Like I'm glued. It sucks :(
donkeylips88 4 months ago
Social anxiety is tough, I've never been diagnosed with it but I've done a lot of research and do find myself feeling awkward around people I don't know. Mine usually comes out the worst when I'm smoking marijuana, and I've had it to the point where I feel like I'm glued to my seat, all eyes are on me, I'm super tense and any little move I make looks dumb. Plus I can't control the pitch of my voice or how my voice come out. It's really frustrating...Does adderal help with social anxiety?
donkeylips88 4 months ago
you're beautiful.. you really are. And you have a lot of guts to be talking to the world! I know u asked for no comments but you are amazing. Well i think that im getting social anxiety. :P well yeah, you're an inspiration to me :)
CoolstKatrEvr 4 months ago
@CoolstKatrEvr thank you so much! I really appreciate that :)
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stripthatfatweightlo 5 months ago
You change a lot. He he
MrTransam1987 6 months ago
i know how u feel :(
drewmightplaypiano 6 months ago
I just didn't eat enough, and I would restrict myself to how much food I ate each day. I was skinny and hungry looking at the time. But I long conquered my eating disorder. Well, if anyone wants to share their experiences with me, be my guest. Cheers!
RPSteve 6 months ago
But I have been much better since I moved. Anyways, where eating disorders are mentioned in the video tags, when I was 12 and going on 13, I had abit of an eating disorder.
RPSteve 6 months ago
I have dealt with Social Anxiety myself, and it was terribly painful. Right up until last month when I moved to a new home, I was having it rough. And there were times when I was going to hang out, but I pulled out of my plans due to Social Anxiety.
RPSteve 6 months ago
i have SA also, but its been getting better. you are really cute!
xGambit11x 6 months ago
You don't look like a person who has social anxiety. You look like a person who has lots of friends and is social much
pugs321 7 months ago
@pugs321 yeah I know I look like that... makes it more difficult to deal with.
paledreams 4 months ago
@paledreams I am trying to reply to the "you dont look like a person with social anxiety".... looks can be very deceiving... I garantee anyone who knows me would look at you like you were crazy if you said "he has social anxiety".. but I do and its hard....life in general is hard... in high school and college, i sat in the back corner of every class.. i dread making simple phone calls... never want to go to parties, never make eye contact, fear talking to strangers..the list goes on..
Philwelican 1 week ago
it is your sub concious thats fucking with your head. once you understand it you'll be good to go.
PriceIessCharm 7 months ago
my depression is killing me slowly
kucoru16 8 months ago
@kucoru16 mine is killing me fast
MrTransam1987 6 months ago
just try to be urself in social situations, you have a great personality of what i can see from this video.. i used to have the exact problems as you are talking about and then i realized it was just because i wasnt being myself.
TheGuragro 10 months ago
Omg! I know the phone thing. And I can ramble once I a wile :) I did last night. You have to put ur self out there. Then u overtime get comfortable, or more comfortable. :)
italiaguy77 11 months ago
eating is soo much fun!!
HanzDampfz 11 months ago
your to cuit to have social anxiety
younggunner90 1 year ago
you look so sexy and chill. if we met in RL, i'd tao you LOLjks
legend2kill 1 year ago
you seem like a confident social person i wouldnt believe you had SAD
lxbnhmm 1 year ago
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MagnesiumAlloy 1 year ago
@MagnesiumAlloy thank you! I'm glad you can relate. anxiety is tough!
paledreams 1 year ago
@MagnesiumAlloy don't take me wrong, but are you taking depression pills and other things like xanax ? because i hear lot of people taking those things and feel almost everytime like a zombie and feel weak . . . and who take those take this will never cure that thing and cost money for nothing . . . well its my opinion i love help everyone you know lol =)
mortdepeur13 5 months ago
I saw your chair in the back move on its own!!!
777DNAGENESIS777 1 year ago
00Thinking back. On my life now I can see myens with " problems with social anxiety disorder or SAD
Began to raise it's ugly head when I was around 6yr.s old. My family had just moved ldfrom California to tTexas we we're a a group of 10 children and 1 other to come 6 yr.later I was the 5th. One down the middle child.
if57 1 year ago
ur so hot i cant believe u have social anxiety
555456931road 1 year ago
So i just created a youtube account to respond to this video. As soon as you mentioned feeling awkward even around some friends and having racing thoughts filled with insecurity along with having difficulty with starting a conversation, I related to that strongly. Ive struggled with this for a while and Ive almost come to a conclusion that Ill always be this way...but hearing that others struggle with this problem and treatment actually works gives me hope. thanks for sharing!!
MscollegeGrl19 1 year ago
It always seems like the people who look and sound the most confident, are the ones who suffer the most. People don't expect it from you. Personally, I don't think you look unconfident in any way, There's no reason for you to be. You're totally attractive, and you seem well spoken. But often, it's the same case with myself. I can easily engage in conversation with strangers and other people, but I face these mental blocks time and time again. Drives me nuts.
jainsworr 1 year ago
I used to suffer from SA and u do not look or sound lik u have SA to be honest and I'm not jus sayin that I'm bein honest. To me u seemed like one of those outgoing girls. Goes to show u can be skinny but If u beleive ur fat in ur head no matter what anyone says u will always beleive ur fat. Hit me up ppl I kno how to overcome SA and all that ;) dnt be shy.
TwiSteDxMeTaLx91 1 year ago
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PureGraceEvangelism 1 year ago
SVU is fucking awesome! lol. hope you get better with everything. Having SA sucks.
mavs2147 1 year ago
you're not alone!
kikomemi 1 year ago
I use to have TONS of friends but then over the years I developed this fucking social anxiety and I basically only see them on Facebook or talk to them on MSN or email. I always make up excuses if they want to hang out. I screen all of my calls and keep my ringer off even. My best friend fucking betrayed me last year too and I had a huge falling out which didn't help at all.
jazzmatik 1 year ago
I don't ever feel like leaving the house either. I just like staying at home. Got lots to do, and I can't get it done if I'm goofing off in some noisy bar.
I don't have social anxiety I don't think, but I have romantic anxiety for sure.
Not sure if I posted a comment on this video before. If I did it was a long time ago.
theboombody 1 year ago
omg you do exactly what I do lol. I almost never leave the house and when I ask people to go out I hope they will already be busy
softlyserenademe 1 year ago
Yeah S.A.D sucks.I have it too and hate it SO much. :(
17ResidentEvilFan16 1 year ago
I can tell you now, you do NOT have social anxiety. You are just insecure.
mindrise666123 1 year ago
yu? with SA?? Never would have guessed. by the way, i like the way yu did yur hair up
MegaDreamer88 2 years ago
i was just thinking EVEN BEFORE YOU MENTIONED THE SHIRT that it was a cute shirt ;) but we are our own biggest critic. i know i over criticize myself waaaaaaaaay too much. and i do the same thing with asking people to hang out "wanna hang out!?" (please dont say yes, please dont say yes...) and *slap* to your cheating ex
BlinkinFirefly 2 years ago
Yea you dont seem to have SA... Only because you speak SOOO confidently and sure. You sound like you have racing thoughts, like me... which can SEEM like many different anxieties!
adamlewis723 2 years ago
Racing thoughts are a sighn of AADD
Anyone who goes out, goes to the gym and goes to internships does not have SA
Real SA can make you stay in for weeks.
I find that people who wear there hair in a Pompadour are often conceded.
TheGeneticMutation 2 years ago
social anxiety comes in many different forms and levels of severity. don't be such a dick haha
mookie150p 2 years ago
Your right little mookie, I may have overreacted.
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TheGeneticMutation 2 years ago
haha well i know what your saying about all those social situations, also i was gonna tell you , you look cute and as i was typing it you said not too , haha but im still gonna tell ya !
ukclub 2 years ago
i barely answer the phone either. it makes me feel like a bad friend sometimes, because my frineds will ask me "why dont you ever answer the phone?" =/
P.S. i love Diet Coke too, but have you ever tried Coke Zero? its delicious!!
smartiipaantz86 2 years ago
Great vid
I can relate to alot of what u said hang in there and bestrong
Bestrong4 2 years ago
Hello, My adive is take tablets called propranolol for anixley and panic attacks, good to have brown paper bag when you starting to feel ill, and when you are outside other tip is wiggle your toes mean dont faint etc. Hugs Kisses Love Gizmo xox
darlingtester1982 2 years ago
I noe this mite not hep much but wat help me lived a more fulfilling life is this quote by Dr Suess " Be who you want to be and say what you want to say because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind!" Also cut down on the soda and anything with caffeine because it contributes to anxiety. Hope u're progress will improve =)
wdflee 2 years ago
I know how you feel about going out and being social. While I don't deal with any eating issues I do struggle with a lot of anxiety, depression and struggle with self- injury (always self-conscious that people are staring at my arms if exposed or wondering why the long sleeves if it's hot out).
What helps me to go out and be social is planning in advance, if someone calls me up last minute to go out somewhere it's just not gonna happen.
And Law and Order SVU rocks.
Jive180 2 years ago
Ugh I have the same social anxiety ! I get the hives all over my jaw and neck. I never answer the phone. The list goes on and on. It's nice to know I'm not the only one !
I'm on celexa for it, but it's still there.
brandycobb 2 years ago
I totally understand how it feels.. and your anxiety.. But the good thing that still you are trying, you go out a lot of times, you have friends,, and you always look nice in your videos.. Sometimes i feel same as you or feel like not talking to anyone at all...
hib1986 2 years ago
i always got a huge pile of clean clothes in the corner of my room from the times i get anxiety about what im wearing.. and im a guy
HalfSharkGator 2 years ago 4
Did you ever go to City Bible Church in Portland Oregon? You look very familiar to me. I dont mean to sound weird. Im just wonering. And I so know what you mean, I invite people to hang out and then either hope they say no and cancel if they say yes. ive had intense social anxiety since I was 11. :[
daisymaesgonegrey 2 years ago
nope I'm not a church person. and I haven't lived or really been in Oregon since... 2004. so who knows :) but I dp LOVE Oregon!
social anxiety totally sucks. my friend just invited me out for coffee and board games and I'm stalling/trying to get out of it? ugh
paledreams 2 years ago
I get very frustrated when I am meeting new people and I know that I can completely relate to them and what they are saying but I just don't know how to get it out because of my anxiety. I miss out on making friendships all the time. It makes me sad. Before my eating disorder and social anxiety I was meeting people and making amazing friendships all the time. Now I'm just hostage to my insecurities. I hate it. :o(
Bittersweetblissful 2 years ago
that unfortunately sounds exactly like me!
paledreams 2 years ago
I relate to this so much. I always feel extremely anti social, but then when I'm in a social situation I just want to get out of there. YEAHHH SVU.
elisarecovery 2 years ago
I have social anxiety disorder so I have to deal with the social anxiety all the time. I have a lot of phone anxiety too I think. I know what you mean on your profile. I want to be happy and having to go through what I have to is definitely not part of it.
Good luck on overcoming and achieving what you want.
NeroMaddox 2 years ago
wow i totally relate to this so much with the whole like people talking and just saying awkward things and lol i did that with SVU on Netflix awhile ago isn't it just great? :) Just thinking of you and hoping things go well for you tonight and that you hear something soon for treatment
Jalynn99 2 years ago
thanks I totally appreciate it! and wooo SVU! :)
paledreams 2 years ago
hate hate talking on the phone! and the clothes changing gets really out of control. good luck tonight, can't wait to hear how it went!
waterandapples 2 years ago
I know how you feel. Let me know how it goes. Use lavender, it calms the nerves.
ivy1872 2 years ago
When I first opened this I immediately thought 'what a nice top' lol and how you have great arms! I don't comment all the time but I love your videos. I find myself laughing along or really resisting tears because my empathy is so strong.
I hope this doesn't sound patronizing but you're really brave going out with your social anxiety. I hope you had a great night :)
MissShrinkMe 2 years ago
thanks I really appreciate that! <3
paledreams 2 years ago
Hope everything went well when you went out tonight! I know exactly how you feel about changing 50 times before you go out in public haha. Its quite pathetic. good luck with getting into treatment!
A1710001 2 years ago