brigitte dale #419 maybe you seem creepy

[PimpinFAR]

I'm a creep and a weirdo

[deathrider46]

was she said grooming something told me she was going to say something about greasy hair. I love greasing up my hair to bad a lot of chicks don't like that kind of stuff

[lidiluvu]

Omigod kudos for the "long fingernails and greasy hair" bit. I flippin hate it when guys don't have those things going for them.  *shiver*

[TempestaRiggs]

So that is what all that bling bling bullshit is about, "Peacocking"? Guys that wear that stuff look really stupid.

[yourfriendthenerd]

"Maybe you've been out...toiling. And that's--cool.

[iceangel39]

im in love

[Tweek5470]

Nice vid, but you are completely missing the point of PUA, or maybe the guys you are seeing are missing to point, anways i dunno :P the point of PUA or peacocking, negging, etc is for a socially awkward person to be able to follow certain guidelines to the point where they are doing good in social situations and able to build self esteem in order to get their life straight, and take it from a guy whos been there, we are alot more creepier before we learn PUA (the right way!)

[TeKfromsuicide]

I'd say I'm creepy, not because of how I act, my brother and me are very similar but he's never had any problems getting girls. I think its because I'm not as good looking as him. He can act like an idiot and girls just flock to him, i act the same way and she gives me "creepy face". He's cheated multiple times (he's with his ex's sister right now), but women love him. I have good intentions, I wish I had the looks to back 'em up...

[dpoma]

I find tons of great clothing at the second hand store, just have to go often!

[jjccccc]

you no what is really creepy, your mouth i noticed you have bad teeth on one side and try to cover it up with your lips, which are the first thing i would get fixed when you go for plastic surgery. Oh and by the way as you go through life looking for a partner who is without fault, i would fix your own faults first, you may get a date but you would be dumped real fast with all your pathetic hang ups what a pretensious looser

[watsuanmokksha]

peacocks are ok -it's natural.. some in fact fashion the nuetral shades of silver, black, blue and grey.

[Malba420]

some of these comments are really creepy

[spacelingokc]

You remind me of Zooey Deschanel from Elf and the Happening.

[CasualDaveDotCom]

you say "creepy" like it's a bad thing

[whitefloweret]

Grooming is a big one. If I can smell you a few feet away, there is no chance.

[bonethugznharmony420]

you are amazing

[dazzmin]

surprise! i'm still behind you lol

[CRobin11]

I am a creepy guy who occasionally gets called a normal guy, so these tips really help.

Thanks Ms. Dale.

[whitefloweret]

you're not kidding!

[SeeBillyRun]

youtube comments can also become creepy... observe, by adding the letter 'z' to the end of ladies this "comment" will instantly become creepy...

"Hello, ladiezzz..." .... see creepy.

[vinniebeckman]

Ohh...that is creepy...

[SeeBillyRun]

I watched the documentary 'Food Inc.' on Friday... and learned that companies like Monsanto, Tyson... oh, and genetically modified chickens are even creepier!

[gregair]

What ever happened to just being cute, funny, and yourself to pick up girls? Flashy outfits, and obvious pickup lines get you no were but a few dollars short after buying the girl a drink and then getting blown off. Us men can`t be that stupid, can we?

[virtualval3]

ROFL :-D

[LSOD666]

It's a good thing my girlfriend likes creepy guys. Hahaha. You see, when I first meet a girl, I whip my cock out and demand a good sucking.

[xmetamorphosisx3]

lol

[imyyz4u]

Why do most girls talk like they are all that or deserve to be treated special? The reality is most respond best to the guy who grabs their hair slaps their face and forces them to their knees... I'm just myself and treat everyone with respect. I would rather be alone than put on an act.

[athriaxo]

Your scripts are awesome ... who is writing that stuff for you? It all seems so very inpromptu but yet it must be so perfectly premeditated ...

[Winky395]

you must be new around here

[athriaxo]

New around where? Is there some weird cult thingy going on I was not aware of?

[Winky395]

heck yeah man join the cult of Ms Dale

its a way of life

[daisytree1]

thanks! so... 2 things... I don't have a writer, and dont' worry this is not an orgy

[athriaxo]

I bet youre just realy good at editing so it looks as if its all on the spot first try around ;-)

[OwlLove214]

We just got some new recycling bins!!!! :) WOO!

[linked2gether]

So basicly being myself is creepy? I mean my nails arent long theyre trimmed and Im not greasy, but seriously this is why the divorce rates are so high. We (men) have to "act" a certain way for women to like us. When we start just being ourselves they lose interest and....peace.

[JAMMAN1701]

What about a t shirt that says ''Hug Me'' is that creepy?

[FreakAlert2008]

A bit scripted but nonetheless entertaining. Though I prefer Nathalie Tran

[JulianoChannel]

heheheeh Thanx for the tips Brigitte..... I'll try to make it work for me to find my perfect girl...

[bulkfull]

That was so funny because its true! like your videos!

[apx5777]

are there seminars on how to meet women???!

[thekeithjohnston]

Your the most beautiful endearing adorable woman in the world....oh wait, was that creepy?, oh well

[pepperfairyxox]

so true.......

[IamNotTheMoon]

Oh, yeah? Oh, yeah? Well, I think women who own yappy little dogs are creepy. Dogs were created to guard the gates of Hell, not to walk around all day at the end of a rhinestone-encrusted leash!

[kittenstomper]

Oh boy, so many of those are eerily true... I didn't know it was called "Peacocking", but now I have a new catch phrase for it :)

[gyefinger]

that was interesting--i had no idea about the peacocking thing--I will try and tone it down:)

[daanisch]

heeeyyyy, majority of the social skills people learn from in life (with this generation) are from movies and tv shows. what do you expect. you're personality is teh result of some writers view on the world. imo

[CatchFlipsidE]

Great video, Brigitte!

[pinksheetmillions]

The natives are restless.

I really enjoyed the humor of this video. Quite a few hidden gems of comedy in this video Brigitte.

Thanks, can I have a cupcake next video, I promise I've been a good boy, no creepy's anymore for me, promise...

:)

I like the used clothes Ebay thing, I'd like to find a few of those old duds too.

[MWSBD]

what about gross back hair?

[daisytree1]

thats' usually not visible at intial meeting. hopefully. no open back shirts, please, guys

[Saraswatifan]

Girls know too much. What to do?

[KrazyRawb]

Darn it!!! Back to the drawing board!

[livealoha84]

hahaha so I guess us guys are creepy until proven otherwise huh? and not to take sides (after all I want to be "fair and balanced" like 'fixed' news {foxnews}), but how is the guy asking to "seal the deal" creepy? what guy, no matter how "nice" you think he is not trying to sleep with girls? It's basic biology, some guys are just being more subtle about it and some are really jerks about it, but all guys (gay or straight) are naturally like this and that's life...

[livealoha84]

oh and good video by the way...plus don't confuse creepy guys with guys that are nervous around the girl(s) they like (i'm just saying)...

peace...

[pinksheetmillions]

Right on livealoha84

Sorry I'm a guy disclaimer. And you know what we think about every 15 seconds.

We can't help it that's how we're wired.

Any girl I've been in a serious relationship with NEVER complained.

[pinksheetmillions]

Geesh it a "kinda joke", you didn't need to thumbs me down.

[pinksheetmillions]

reply thingy don't work, WHATS UP WITH THAT!?!

AND the thumbs up/down thing is aweful setup, you click thumbs down because its got a green positive mark next to it, You'd expect the red negative mark near the thumbs down NOT next to the green positive.

It's NOT intuitive.

So very many have wrongly been rated on You Tube.

[pinksheetmillions]

jiangyingzi-right on! So true! I've had girls creep right on up to me before and I thought back on it I realized, yes, I was prolly a bit creepy too, but it was fun for both of us, LOL. Of course the girls were adorably creepy, always.

[pinksheetmillions]

Sometimes guys may do what seems creepy to girls but it's just a pathetic attempt to seek kindness. I know, odd, but true.

It fits into the "Guys look for their Mommy's traits in a woman they think they could get serious about" realm of things.

So forgive some of those guys, just because they do one thing kinda silly doesn't mean they're completely moronic.

Of course some of them could be truly creepy but I'd say if they tried to reach out they will probably grow out of it. JMHO

[michaelhbf]

Hey.. not sure if you need that little microphone if you're going to yell at us that close to the camera :) in a nice way, of course :)))))

[daisytree1]

i know, but otherwise you can hear my computer's fan and it's super annoying :)

[shadow0fth3night]

Right before i watched this i was cutting my nails while watching one of Joaquin Phoenix's last movies.

[byronhiggs]

Once upon a time there was a video blog titled 'Anonymous' which had an hilarious 'Dance Off' gag. Viewers laughed till their sides ached.

Are those times gone? Forever? Let it not be so!

Less creep - more dance off gags

peace be with you

[Vuji222]

dido on the long finger nails thing.

[joen0411]

Not to complain, but I think a video telling girls what not to do to seem creepy would be fair.

PS. What happened to ABCFamily?

[ScoutUTube]

Actually, Joen0411 has a point. Episode #419 doesn't seem to be populating to the ABCFamily site. Has something changed?

[daisytree1]

Yeah I'm not sure what happened over at the ABC Family site. I blame technical difficulties.

[dspid2404]

If you have to make eye contact 16 times, doesn't that mean you have to look away 15 times? Wouldn't that seem to be rude?

[DannysCam]

i buy old cars does that make me green? since im not buying new?

[DannysCam]

MJ was creepy

[Blargaldalien]

Hello,Brigitte.

I do have an objection to the message T shirt.

The only offensive one is the "I'm With Stupid (with arrow)" Depending how the man orients himself in your universe,THAT would be creepy. I see the constant "dance of not being arrowed at" going on all during the meeting.

The dog greeting can be swung by the man. He could wipe greasy chicken tallow in his hair,repulsing you, (grooming) yet making the dog love him.

What a mixed signal.

[CommentorX]

Blargal, when going to a Dog Area, I like to keep a few soft, chewy dog treats in my front pocket. Because, let's face it, if Brigitte's dog is excited about what's in my pants, maybe Brigitte will be too.

Creepy? Who, me?

[Blargaldalien]

Classic example.

Keep up the good work!

[pinksheetmillions]

LMAO CommentorX

[TheyROutThere]

Peacocking FTW! hahahaha

I got major swagger yo.

[talktal]

your videos end so suddenly. its like a ramones song. maybe you need an outro

[paul02144]

Great advice! :-)

[daddysoulmanrich]

do a story on crazy woman

[Invisiblejohn1]

honestly i don't like your dog .......

this is my opinion and i'm free to put anything i want here.....by the way thaaaaaaaanks for the advice

[JAMMAN1701]

I always hear the ''do nots'' what are the top ten things women want to see and hear from a guy when they first meet in a club or bar?

great vid, 5 stars :)

[CommentorX]

JAMMAN1701, I can give you the Top 5:

1. Money

2. Money

3. Mo money

4. Nice car

5. Did I say money yet?

Seriously, though, just be yourself. No, scratch that, most guys are assholes. Be a nicer version of yourself. And leave the Khaki shorts and vertical striped shirts at home, you look like a zombie who died at the Gap. Oh, and bathing involves soap and water, not soap and cologne.

[athriaxo]

Haha you know whats funny is that GQ said the same thing recently some behavioural scientists found out that girls do want to marry "up" but hide this behind other factors that seem more moraly acceptable to them like good, clean appearance and manors but if a very rich guy with bad manors comes along they all love it ... if a poor guy does the same thing they call the police ...

[CommentorX]

Athraxio, what amazes me from your comment is that some scientist somewhere felt the need to test whether women like men with money. What's next on his agenda, testing if men like to look at bewbies?

Science: helping mankind by proving the blatantly obvious.

[athriaxo]

Well I think its about the fine tuning ... we need to test everything out so we can see different aspects of the human psyche we did not understand before and I am sure some smaller discoveries where made during this study that might not be important to you or me but maybe to the next generation of behavioural scientists ... and maybe ... just maybe we might someday learn to understand women ... you see freud was obsessed with the female psyche but never unlocked it even the slightest bit.

[EricJaffa]

Good suggestion.

[jewscantbepirates]

but I'm a creeeeeeeep

I'm a weirdo

what the hell am I doin' here?

i don't belong here, ooooohhhhh, oooooohhhhh

[stf337]

Let's talk about cars - lotsof manboys like to make them look cool to impress girls - I used to do it too, but in hindsight they are probably only noticed by other manboys.

[RAMKING61]

Oh, I'm supposed to be looking at her EYES! I was looking a little lower.

[TruTV]

if she doesn't find you attractive, she'll think you're creepy. let's face it, if you're good-looking, you can get away with a lot more without seeming "creepy."

[heyimtomato]

@TruTV cough edward cough cough cullen cough

[funeralsong34]

There is a flip side to the coin for women as well.

1)If a guy says hi or talks to a women that doesn't mean he is interested or hitting on you.

2)Wearing stripper cloths and wondering why guys don't respect you annoys us guys.

3)Clingy women have been creepy ever since the movie "Fatal Attraction" came out. Calling a dude 7 times in an hour makes us think your gonna cook the family pet.

Alot more but running out of room..lol

[Triwood1973]

Maddy deserves a pat for being your first line of defence against creepy guys.

But just to be fair, ladies can be creepy too.

[daisytree1]

so true!

i would love a list of ways that girls can be creepy!

[Triwood1973]

I guess an analogy of the ultimate creepy girl would be that killer spider in the film 'Arachnophobia'...cocoon her interest feverishly by surppressing potential competition from the surrounding area...but obviously with him none the wiser :P

[EricJaffa]

Years ago when I was in high school, a girl in my high school told me that she photographed the meat-packing district of Manhattan.

I wasn't a vegetarian at the time (I still ate steak), but I was still creeped out.

[zwetan]

really ?

the one who played with her very long nails like she gonna cut me with them

the one who kept laughting at anything

the one who are so stressed out and keep talking and talking to avoid the dreaded "silent pause"

the one who keep touching you and flirting, insisting her bf is away and she want to party

the one who drive crazy fast, like she was in a rally

the one who said she used to cut her arm with scissors telling me she thought she had spiders under the skin

I got more ...

[MadSmokerBBQ]

Does this mean I should shower once a week whether i need it or not? :-0

[nrgins]

Maybe the dog's more interesting than the girl.... Just sayin....

[bearhuntaa]

oh yea and fellow guys dont follow her advice...just be urself

[bearhuntaa]

u talk about the weirdest shit ...ur creepy

[HarveyHopkins]

youre immortal

[joefileman]

Would it seem creepy if I had an invisible dog leash gag and pretended my dog was unruly, pulling me, and getting frisky with her dog?

[nomenclaturetube]

But I have long hair, and if it isn't a little bit greasy it flies all over in the wind, greatly increasing my creepiness factor.

[sosarah]

Maybe you shouldn't have long hair. Maybe you can experiment with different hair products. Maybe you can just mention to every girl you meet, "If you are wondering why my hair is greasy, it is not that I am creepy but because I don't want it to flow in the breeze." Maybe you could wear a hat while it is windy. In any case, any greasy hair is SO much more creepy than any amount of hair-flying-in-the-wind. (In my opinion)

[kensuke0]

Who in their right minds would say that?

[zwetan]

I have long hair too but to avoid them flying all around I either attach them or wear a baseball cap

but then the girl would say something like like "why don't you detach your hair ? you should cut them"

hint: girls love to change a guy appearance: hair, clothes, etc.

[l00t1]

"Eeeew long finger nails!! Go away you creep!"

Yes.. You really have a point there.. Guys with long finger nails are gross!.. Ew.. If I even think of it I begin to gag..

Girls with long finger nails are very attractive though!

(SARCASM!)

[Kelo25666]

peacock sounds like the male camel toe.

[sLeepPastNooN]

Long fingernails on HUMANS are rather disgusting. Unless you are a classical guitarist there is no excuse for nails that extend beyond the tip of the finger. (even then you're pushing it) IMHO, there is a direct correlation between the length of the fingernail and the amount of grief that person will cause you.

[ConnorFlockSpeevage]

:) Word of the week : Peacocking haha. I'll try and not put all of those things into use then :)

[JERRYBOLAK]

good advice, very cool

[bikenik]

How do you meet someone and make a good impression by standing behind the person?

That's just stupid behavior.

What about greasy fingernails and long hair? I would assume that's as creepy as the inverse.

[Cassi84]

These are all so very true. Watching from behind and not moving makes me want to move away! Reposition yourself so it's at least from the side! But behind brings on the same fears of the man walking behind you at night on the street...I'll go for the taser bro! :) And touching on first meeting is really off-putting, if we haven't hit it off at all, the second meeting is also a no touching time.

[sunnboots]

"Maybe you've been out...toiling." Hahaha. I love your vlog, Brigitte.

[ScoutUTube]

Sunnboots, Sunnboots, Sunnboots....

Don't use the word "vlog" with Brigitte... cuz she just hates that!

[sunnboots]

Whoops! Haha. Thanks for the heads-up. :P

[billyrobertstv]

you just said "vlog" WOOPS!

[ctoma7]

FIRST!