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  • Oh! you are so pretty,smart and classy

  • Im not racist but I hate most Asian guys. Most of them are very cocky and rude. When I was younger I used to get along with them fine but as I grew up I saw that how they are

  • @EssenceOfTruth I love asian men too sexy as hell.

  • @BonusCivis I heard there's ghetto girls lots of them in the U.S lots on east and west coast.

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  • dude this is soo true i am living proof that asian men can like hispanic women one my mom's mexican and dad is korean plus i think my mom's family has a thing for asian men cause one's married to japan another to chines. I also know a japanese man who is married to a black woman and they have a beautiful little girl.

  • Gackt is a sexy beast! Just sayin lol

  • nice i m from asia can u marry with me

  • i dont care color,just got feeling on her.

  • I love them to wish I could meet one. I'm a carmel color 5'5 lol!!! Seriously Asian men this black lady loves u!!!

  • Ok my woman is black but has Chinese eyes so she's my black n beautiful china tea cup

  • I love my asian woman. SHe aknowledges the fact that a lot of their culture including martial arts came from africans. Hell even buddha was African. Check his peircings and hair. Love my beautiful China Girl!

  • you have pretty white teeth

  • I did not care what my family thought, coincidentally, they think its interesting, but my normally goofy father is perhaps the most favorable, since before he met my mother, he dated a black woman himself. For me, a black woman is the most attractive, & genuine, and even if they're ghetto, they're still usually smart & to me, with my boo, it was total score cuz she's all of the above & classy too! :)

  • I am pary Japanese & Native Indian, I love black women. I actually lievd in the inner city in Massachusetts, my boo did not live in the inner city, & she is from Raleigh. We are perfect together. She is smart, so am I. We both love each other a lot. I like ur video.

  • OOOH yes girl Bruce Lee is off the chain. Sigh fine chinese man. I love all his movies. Sadly I wish to have movie collection of him well at least I can watch movies of Bruce Lee on tv.

  • Count me in sistah I'm attracted to asian guys too. lol...

  • Good video. Cool I'm from North Carolina too. :) I got love for black men and asian men. Honestly I've never been in a relationship with an asian guy before. I'm willing to be open minded and give it a try one day. LOL. I know lots of people not all but some are consider being judgemental toward others who are involved with people outside their race. Love is love doesn't matter what color you are..

  • @missladylove100 i am too :D

  • We have a lot of asian women dating black guys in bay area for person who made comment about wanting to hear about black men and asian women. In fact my neighbor is filipino which is asian and she dating a black guy. My coworker is Asian filipino and married to black guy and has a son together, and they live in a huge house with her Asian parents who totally accept them together like family.

  • Also Asians and Africans in ancient times uses to do a lot of trading a long long time ago so their culture more similar than you think FYI

  • Im ispanic, and I REALLY like black women!!! I love the color! 

  • "i have a taste for all men" AMEN!!

  • OMG! You made me laugh when you talked about Bruce Lee. I felt the same way. I always wanted to marry Bruce Lee. He was so sexy god rest his soul. Asian men are so beautiful to me.

  • I totally understand what you mean I am a African American woman from Harlem and I have always for some reason "surprised" people of other races (whites specifically) because I don't look or act like the stereotypes they have ascribed to black women.

    My hope is that some day when I meet a person of another ethnicity that they won't be surprised that I am not loud, rude, lazy, or unable to speak properly because they won't expect me to be that way in the first place.

    Nice video!

  • I have a question, why do people date outside their race, and I want the truth not that "because they love each other mess". Im really curious.

  • @warrenkeith360 They do it because its ordained by God himself. He said be fruitful and multiply. He never said anything about sticking to our own kind. And if you don't believe in God, its because it has now been scientifically proven that in order to survive and evolve, it impossible not to combine our dna to produce and prolong our lives without melding together. To stick to the same gene actually weakens the genes after a while, not strengthen them.

  • @EssenceOfTruth Oh i guess that makes sense.

  • @EssenceOfTruth ..non-black People from cities dont realize that on average Black Women from the South and Suburbs are classier in general.

  • @EssenceOfTruth ..The more important lesson from the guys stereotype of Black women is that maybe we need to improve the conditions for our Black Urban citizens so that it would be more common to see a Classy Lady Like Black Womaninstead of the hooded out hoodrat that planted the seed of the stereotype in his mind to begin with. All of our little girls should have the ability to grow up to be classy princesses like our Women in the South and Suburbs.

  • @EssenceOfTruth Whats wrong with fixing Urban Blight that creates such Ghetto Women? Its in all our interest no matter the race or gender for all our Women of color to be civil ladies that all Men find appealing. I wouldn't want a knuckleheaded Woman either.

  • @warrenkeith360

    Check it, why do you date any one of the opposite sex to begin with? That's your answer. I'm korean and I got me nubian princess and I am happy as hell with her. We connect on levels I have never achieved with other korean counter parts, mentally and physically. Yea I said physically and I meant what you are thinkin, pervs. Simply put.... because we love each other.

  • @The909Tennis

    mmhhmm...alright.

    No use throwing a spark in water.

  • @warrenkeith360 Or bc the both of them wants to search for a diff love!! Like me there are black women in the world that wants to date out of our race bc itz who we r. We want somethin diff in our lives. Everybody is just diff in there own way!!! :)

  • @gdsculturelover so what you are saying is that people just want different people because they want something different...that doesnt seem like a good reason now does it.

  • @warrenkeith360 No i cant really explain it it's just that like i said b4 everybody is diff in their own way with diff interest, taste, lookz, etc. Im glad everybody is diff and encourage interracial dating!!!!! :)

  • @warrenkeith360 Why not? It gets boring to date the same race over and over again. Need some diversity, spice up your life! Dating the same race is just fine but dating out of the race is also a beautiful thing because it shows that despite color, race, and culture people can look past those things and love each other just for being themselves. It also shows that you are not confining yourself to only date your kind, and that you are not afraid to go outside your comfort zone! :D

  • Gackt is the sexiest Asian man ever? TOTALLY AGREE :D

    But Donghae from Super Junior (Korean) is LOVE too. Check it out! :)

  • When you say "black and asian share history"....well that line is becoming more true than ever into the 21st century. China and Japan are now Africa's primary trading partner, not Europe like it was 50 years ago.

  • interesting video. Asian dude here in predominantly black country.

  • u have really pretty teeth...mine got knocked out. boohoo

  • @DontaySmith1o1 just ignore them. A Hispanic or Latino once called me a dark skinned white boy.(he was joking of course) and an friend of mine kept saying that if I was black or not because how I talk . Bottom line, don't stress out about it.

  • @MegaMichiee ikr??

  • i'm glad you made this video, cus people at my school, (which is in a mostly white district) say that i'm white because i dont talk...how can i word it "Black" as they would say. i use mostly proper language, and i hate it when they say i'm white or and oreo. any advice?

  • bi rain

  • YAY!!!!!!! Bieng BLACK and bieng able to SPEAK ARTICULATELY truely DOESNT make me WHITE or AN OREO. :3 *proud to be a black chick*

  • Dis Soul Sista sho nuff gonna have dat moo goo gai pun in wid her black-eyed peas.

    You go Girl!!!

    All of a sudden I caught a crush from Chinese Food. I wonder if Mama Woo's Purple Pagoda is open today?

  • Why did you have to bring up Gackt. JESUS. I agree with you, also with Bi.

  • It was good that you shared that with everyone. I am a latino male that lives in the southwest in Tx and its the samething over here, i have met alot of bad women and alot of great women of all races : )

  • Thank you! Everything you said is so true. Sometimes I find it hard to find a balance-being black and having love for all races. ^_^ Haha!

  • Alot of these black girls are cute the ones that like asian.i notice.Im asian I would date you EssenceOfTruth.

  • Lol i like that, pointing at urself black women right hahah

  • Your hair is so beautiful in that video I need to watch your video.

  • Harlem women specifically are the ghetto type? That in itself is a stereotype. Nobody wants to be lumped in to a category based on the gender, race or geography. I'm a Harlem native still living in Harlem and I'm one of the last women anyone would refer to as ghetto. I recognize that the comment didn't originate from you but I just wanted to address it in case no one else did and dispel any negative stereotypes while that was the agenda on the table.

  • I'm asian guy and i find black females attractive... duhhh :D

  • @aznjimin gawsh why do you have to be in america? come to england then lol !!!

  • Well said sister. You'll find a man you really like no doubt (if you don't already have one). You're a very attractive girl, down to earth, and intelligent. Cheers.

  • i prefer asian guys over white guys anways there ok

  • interesting video... will have a look at the other one... thanks.

  • Is it just me, but I have never seen a Asian Man and Black Women together.

  • I am a black woman and I love ALL backgrounds my top 3 are Black, Asain and Latin

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  • why is it all "black women asian men"???

    Where is the black men asian women??

  • @yourtube1234567 Well, let me answer your question with a question: Why would you type a comment like this on a video dealing with black women and asian men and not on a video dealing with black men and asian women? Why in the world would I talk about asian women and black men when I was making a response to an asian male about Black women and asian men? With all due respect, your comment carries no wait for this particular video.

  • @EssenceOfTruth

    My question pretty much answer your question.

    Because there is ONLY "Black women and Asian men" videos in ever video, expect 2 I think and I think those are joke videos.

    That's why I asked that question.

    I want to hear about black men and Asian women.

  • @yourtube1234567 Well, I am very, very sorry. But, you won't hear about it from me. lol. Especially if you ask in the way that you did. You sounded almost as if you were frustrated and unjustifiably took it out on me as if I could make you happy if you forced me. I'm sorry, but asking me that question won't make you feel any better. If you want videos like that, why name make some yourself? Maybe that will prompt people who feel as you do to do some themselves. But, dont yell at me about it,ok?

  • @EssenceOfTruth I Love you speech, you are Brillant, it seems like someone, wants you to say something negative and i love how you stay positive bysticking to your ownmoral code of sticking to YOUR very own subject, respect.

  • @yourtube1234567 because asian woman and black men are not rare as asian men and black woman

  • @yourtube1234567

    Asian women are highly motivated by either money or fashion.

    White men have both.

    And the kind of Asian women that find rap/hiphop fashionable, you DO NOT want.

    They are usually complete trash.

  • @yourtube1234567 I am a black man married to an Asian woman. I am a nerdy engineer my swagger is like

    -50 making me uncompilable with most black women.

  • @enyawix

    Kinda sucks then..

  • @yourtube1234567 Asian woman are much more feminine white or black women. They make very good wifes.

  • @enyawix

    Oh, No, No. I'm talking about your "swag" not your girl.

    If I'm not mistaking, "swag" means how a person dress. And since your "swag" is negative fifty...that's pretty damn depressing..lol sorry.

  • @yourtube1234567

    In the los angeles area i see more black men with asian women. Im a Mix black chick I am dating an asian man and i get some weird looks

  • @yourtube1234567 ikr ahaha

  • @yourtube1234567 It's not about black men all the time. Go to the search bar, and find the vid you want.

  • @bandis522

    ....8 months ago....

    Imma stop there.

  • @yourtube1234567 - that's a whole different combination. AMBW is truly one of kind, and unique.

  • @kennywoo206

    Not really..

  • I like how you articulate this... I want an asian man too lol :D and you mentioned my ultimate crush... Bi <3, if I ever go to Korea I would stalk him.

  • do you!

  • I agree with you...but Gackt really? XD! 

  • P.S. I totally care about the type of Asian guy I get. I am not desperate and will not settle for just any Asian man.

  • Fine as wine lol

    Ain't nothing wrong with the truth, I want an Asian man too. I'm becoming more and more attracted to them, possible because I watch a lot of Asian films, and love love love their music.

  • ha ha i like the way you talk shawty I'm asian mah self and sub

  • Hi. I have a video up on my channel supporting Asian guys. It's just a teaser but I'll make more videos in the future about similar topics. Please help me promote my video and channel! Thank you. Peace & Love! <3

  • Black women have been getting love from even well known white, Asian, and the now so-called 'hapa' men for a while. Tommy Chong is a 'hapa' his kids are all from his black ex-wife, Russell Wong's eldest (or only?) child is half-black from his black ex-girlfriend, Kim Fields was married back in the 90s to a 'hapa' called Johnathon Freeman back when she was in Living Single, and Mark Paul Gosselaar a 'hapa' from Saved By The Bell dated Lark Voorhies in real life back when that show was still on.

  • @jrmetmoi Really?

  • @Alyn08 Alyn08 if you're talking about all of the Asian or Hapa (half Asian and half white) relationships that have Hollywood connections and have black women in them, then the answer is yes. Really. On the internet somewhere is a picture of Russell Wong's half black daughter somewhere and she must be 19 by now.

    The internet also has a pic of Lark Voorhies & Mark Paul Gosselaar together on a beach from back in their Saved By The Bell days and they dated for 3 years.

  • @jrmetmoi Well, shut my mouth! lol How did I miss that? I think it's cool. I forgot about Tommy Chong and his daughter Rae Dawn Chong (at least that's the one that I know of).

  • Lool I love your video it gives me hope that maybe one day an Asian guy would be attracted to me. See, I'm African American female and even though I'm mostly drawn into all kinds of men/races...lately I found myself drooling over Asians, partically Koreans lol.

    Maybe it's all those K-pop videos that I have been watching recently but I find them to be sweet and yet sexy. I just hope one day if I ever get to date a guy it isn't because he's Asian but because I like him for him and vice versa.

  • OMG!! Great posting!! And I got to second that YES on Bi Rain . He is cute!!OMG!!

    I have got to change citys!! I've got to head South!!!

  • Hi! Good job on the video. Do you watch Korean Dramas? I have a post about it if you want to look me up.

    I'm responding because I agree that Bi (Rain) is fine. I got hipped to him through the Korean drama "Full House". But for some reason, as fine as he is, I think he's gay. Maybe its the weak kisses.

    Nevertheless, I too find Asian men attractive, and I guess its because of those dramas got me used to looking at them. You need to check out Gong Yoo, who is finer than Bi.

    Great job!

  • @WellDamn24 Hey! Thank you for responding and yes, I watch K-dramas. Trust me when I say...he is ALL man. ALL MAN. lol! TRUST ME.

  • @WellDamn24

    I definitely think that Bi Rain is not only not VERY HETEROSEXUAL, but waaaaaaaayyyyy finer than Gong Yoo, in my opinion...if you watch his videos he surely does seem like a man who knows his away around a chick or two xD...can't deny that smile and that bod!!! lol

  • @WellDamn24 Damn i hope he isnt gay cause that mess up te thoughts in my head about him.

  • Over generalizations happen in all races. But uh - I'm Asian, I've only dated black women, but the racism I've faced have been more from black people than white people. Doesn't scare me from black women - but the truth is, it's all about CLASS. If you're not middle class, your culture is going to be different.

  • @rockodubbz if VA is durty south, NC is shonuff Durty South

  • @bakerboisp lol

  • girl i love this video, ppl really need to break this stereotype, and when you get your asian man make sure he has a brother for your sister here lol xx

  • @shenzhenprostitute den wtf am i hoe? lol "pacific islander" i gueessssss lol

  • I LOVE TO FUCK WHITE WOMAN ASIANS ALL KINDS BUT MOSTLY LOVE THAT BLACK GIRL THE MOST :D

  • I dated a Filipino man (for 5 years) and he had plenty of black people in his family (through marriage). I think people make judgements on people because of who they surround themselves with. If you hang around ghetto black women, you will look at all black women that way. If you hang around with educated successful black women, then you will have a more positive outlook on them. I've met racist white people, but I don't assume the whole race is.

  • I am Chinese and I love you too!

  • Im jamaician and indian . & I LOVE filipino guys they are so sexy . Interracial dating is beautiful

  • asians and africans is a good look

  • And Also I know I sound like Im ramblin but...I have a beautiful asian friend and she has taught me so much about her culture and her beliefs. So that makes me love her race and want to delve deeper into my own.

    And as far as you fallin for bruce lee at 2. I fell for jason scott lee when I was 7 so I understand what you mean. They are Hot honey and i wouldnt mind gettin my hands on one of them or any other asian man,lol.

  • @lovelygoldensparrow Yes Jason Scott Lee needs to come back from the dead quick quick. Just because he played a dead man in a movie, doesn't mean Jason should just stop showing up everywhere else.

  • @jrmetmoi Lol,he still does movies actually. I think they just might be independent films and that's a damn shame. Hollywood needs to wake the hell up and look into putting him some action films..and romance,sweet mercy yes,Romance!

  • Girl I completely agree.

    I am a mixture of different backgrounds. Hawaiin/Brazilian/-African/Ame­rican and I am so proud and blessed to be from those backgrounds.But Im considered a black female b/c of my outer appearance (and of course there is Nothing wrong w/that) ppl expect me to be Ghetto acting,dumb or whatever ridiculous stereotype. I completeyl agree that Acting "ghetto" Does Not make a person black and Talkin "properly" does not Make a person White.

  • hello essences oftruth, you sound like me and yes i love bruce lee also, i also love china men asian men and hopefully soon the right one will come my way..

  • lol hello, you sound like me i love bruce lee too and from this day i love asian men

  • @RiaStarLite Screw Ironjackal. Black women are sexy,great in the sack, and take no shit. You tell them Ria!

  • @rongarvin You agree with Ria yet you yourself are in fact racist against asian people. Most asian guys like black girls but they usually don't like us. Oh well.

  • @CTU4105 He's a hypocrite.

  • @10CherryCola dat sucks shawtyyy i love black gurls. im filipino :)

  • @rockodubbz lol I live in Tampa as well (worst drivers in the world lol) , and both sides of my family are from North Carolina and Georgia. Georgia to me is the heart of the dirty south so I technically agree with her that North Carolina is” part of the dirty south." & I applaud all Black intelligent women such as myself and Essence for being attracted to Asian boys, and being proud of it.

  • @AnimatorSydnay yeaa definly da worst drivers haha but yeaaa i love black gurls :) my fav.

  • @10CherryCola Some people are just closed minded, but when given the chance to know someone, they will often change their mind. There are lots of Asian guys out there happy to date a nice black girl trust me. I'm not single but if I were, I wouldn't mind a fine sista that's for sure :)

  • @rockodubbz Sniff* You didn't have to shoot down my southern pride! *cries*

  • @EssenceOfTruth lolll im sorryyyy i jus had 2 say ittt

  • Here's the truth, girls. It's very difficult to find anything SOLID on the internet, but it does happen. I've dated three Asian guys since the age of fourteen (saying a lot, since I've only had five "boyfriends" and only two actual relationships). My last boyfriend was Chinese, his parents living in Hong Kong. You may get racists, but they're not who you're looking for anyway, so don't worry about them. There are Asian guys out there who like Black girls. Just like any guy, if he likes you...

  • @IronJackalTw if you hate black women, don't date any. problem solved. :)

    Personally, I find racism to be the biggest display of ignorance in the entire world. I hope you and you Asian American father can find love in your heart for all mankind, one day. Until then, God bless your children. It's a shame the type of viewpoint they'll be raised from.

  • not enough black men? get an asian.

  • Gackt is ....delicious *Q* And I like this video ^u^/

  • I want a Asian guy or Indian guy i don't care which one.. I want my damn kids to have Nice hair!

  • @helltoyoung

    I'm Indian and my cousin brother is married to a beautiful Somali girl.

  • i want to date an asian man but im scared to approach them because im not sure if they will be attracted to me and "most" of them are a lil more conservative lol how do i approach one of them? lol i want an asian man too lol!!

  • II love bi rain and i am an african teen from new york

  • Hi Essence. I just wanted to let you know that I really liked this post&I'm glad you addressed this issue. I am a sistah from nyc who has found new love w/an Asian guy & he is the kindest, sweetest man I have ever met! Yes, there are many stereotypes out there involving Black&Asian men but I think that's why when they come together as a couple it makes for a strong union. And, as a sistah, I also refuse to submit to all the negative stereotypes constantly surrounding Black women.

  • Speaking the truth!! Gackt and Bi Rain are so yummy! Just like oreos...mmm oreos ~_~

    Mad props from Greensboro, NC!

  • Yeah you tell them ^_^

  • i love black girls, i rather be with a black girl instead of a white girl for sure

  • @FullBloodedHmoob ew why sometimes black girls just got too much attitude me included im mixed with asian nd like i cant understand why u would wanna be with sum1 like tht

  • your a smart women and very beautiful xit took me a long time to get arms like billy zane lol (demon knight coment you wrote) you speak with a passion thats hard to find .the man that you meet will be a lucky one .

  • i had a recent bad experience, i only like very nice cute, slim, cute, smart, black girl.. i met recently, she was really great.. but she was christian fanatic, she keeps talking jesus this and that.. she said im sad because i dont care about gods.. it was so annoying.. i dont like religious fanatic.. well im buddhist but im free thinker. im not interested to gods.. but black girls are religious fanatic?? is there a free thinker of black girl??

  • @haikousei Honey, there are religious fanatics of every race, creed, color, and country! Don't let one bad experience taint your whole view.

  • @haikousei not everyone of any race is very religious. and actually, most black people have roots in Christianity, but not every black girl you meet would be overly fanatical about it. some would have very little interest in religion at all. if you're attracted to black girls, there's one that would fit your style more out there. don't count them out because of one bad experience. :)

  • @haikousei

    Sorry about your bad experience. People like that are really annoying, I know. Don't worry, not all black girls are like that. I consider myself to be Christian, but I'm really open-minded. I like learning about other religions and don't try to push Christianity onto others. My friends are pretty much the same that or they don't care about religions at all. So keep looking! Don't give up! (^_^)

  • Because, Mexican culture is so closely tied to family and tradition, I am very drawn to East Asian culture, which has an abundance of history and tradition. In my case, I have found that when it comes to looking for a relationship or friendship with an East Asian (Chinese/Korean or Vietnamese), communication is essential. I've noticed that when a westerner makes a genuine effort in learning an Asian language (In my case Mandarin or Korean) the feedback received is very positive.

  • To me, Zhao Wei is the 'most' attractive and beautiful Asian woman I have ever seen; however, that is just infatuation anyway. I do know where you are coming from. My personal preference is Asian women, and like you I also find some aspects of Chinese/Korean culture, which could be considered culturally compatible; primarily in traditions. Unlike most American countries, Mexico was colonized far before the U.S or Canada and we also have aspects of Pre Hispanic tradition in our culture.

  • I understand your viewpoint. I am of Mexican American descent and am very drawn to East Asian women. On my channel, you will find that I have a few videos of my favorite female celebrity in the world who is 'Vicky' Zhao Wei from China. The first time I became aware of her was from a Chinese movie I bought, and my attraction to her was instantaneous. Soon thereafter, I discovered that she is a singer, so I began listening to her music, which I thoroughly enjoy.

  • @thetruthisundeniable I can understand what you are saying. But, I do have to beg to differ on the small amount of asian males with black females. There are ALOT of Am/Bf marriages and relationships and I can prove that with the amount of black female asian male groups out there. lol! But, I see things changing alot and the latest statistics say that asian and black relationships are on the high rise.

  • @thetruthisundeniable Ok...well, what exactly are you trying to say? lol.

  • my first love was David Bowie!!!!! age 4

  • Thank you for this video girl! Its so refreshing to know I am not allow. Cause I am addicted to Rick Yune and Wil Yun Lee. They are FI-ZINE. I was rooting for them in James Bond. I love GACKT too

  • Actually black women and asians males had already been married to each other when chinese men were shipped to america on railroad construction. So history was already there. Due to back then we re not allowed to marry white folks. So if asian or black dislike each other it's kinda like hating themselves.

  • Being biracial, it's impossible for me to date within my race, especially since each biracial person has different amounts of each race in them. I look very different ethnically from other people with the exact same mix. I have to go for pure love and I'm glad I do. Good for you for dating for love and compatibility. I have the yellow fever myself too now and then, but my bf's Slavic. Ukrainians are soooooooooo sexy.

  • I wish you all the best in finding your asian man. That's the way it is supposed to be. As people we should not be restricted to our "race"; rather we should be able to explore and select whoever our inclination leans to. Good luck! Unfortunately for me, I am attracted to all girls and this makes my head hurt because it makes it hard for me to decide who to select.

  • @mrkijohnson Heheh! Boy, do I know how you feel about that! It gets hard for me, too, sometimes. I love all my men, I really do and if you were to put all of every race in front of me, I would have the hardest time choosing who I'd want to be with as well. Don't worry, it all calms down in the long run. LOL! But, thank you for being so open-minded. You don't know how many black men have called me out of name because I have love for all colors and not just my own.

  • Thanx for this video!!!

  • im black "jamaican" and i love asian guys amen.