White Mothers with Biracial children

[MsBadass1983]

i have five mixed race children,3 girls and 2 boys and they all have different textures to their hair but i do no how to do their hair.but when people say black people can do a mixed race childs hair why would you assume that when black people have different hair to mixed race people?

[TheNubian1985]

I agree. Leave all mothers with biracial kids ALONE. I am a black mother and my son's hair is out of control. It's super soft and curly and he's almost 4, it grows fast and I can't keep up with it!! So all mothers with biracial kids, whether ur black or white...don't get bothered by negative comments by white or black women, just do ur best for your precious one.

[2hottric]

look at angelina joe how she be having that poor child hair looking a hott mess but im about to talk about black people and there kids i hate to see girls hair in a damm rubber band stop putting them damm rubber bands in those kids hair it takes it out hair balls people and i love my president i do but those lil girls hair be looking a hot mess now i know people like the first lady and angelina can afford a hair dresser if white women have to go to a black women then do what u got to do

[ismaithleat]

why is the caring of a type of hair so important?, my mother is white and father is black and hair has never been an issue...we either keep it short or grow afros (well some of us can grow afros and some can only grow semi afros or loose curls should I call it)...but then again maybe if my parents had daughters as opposed to 7 sons the issue of hair might be more relevant since women seem to make it an issue

[besmart78]

@ismaithleat cus there hair can fall out or break terribly stupid white trash lady

[worknmommyest08]

im a white mom with mixed kids... i have 2 daughters and i hook they hair up... anyways i feel you i cant stand when a person says something and they dont live the life of a mother with mised kids... dont think you know until you live it boo... Go smileyousee

[leswatchingvideos]

I am sick of people thinking that if a person doesn't coat their mixed kids hair with grease and put clogging oils on the scalp it's not "taken care of".

[GhettoNerd88]

My mom don't technically have straight hair but she doesn't really know how to take care of her own.

[kiessey]

I just watch it by curiosity...

What to say, for me people should not be concerned about how to look after "bi-racial " hair because biracial child can have 2a to 4b hair....

Anyway I don't like all this stuff concerning biracial couple children or whatever. Maybe because I don't like the term race and I think it shouldn't be used anymore.

It is all about hair and how mothers deal with that's it whatever your ethnicity.

[destinyinlove93]

this is so right...im biracial and my mom is white...she cant do hair lol. but i hate it when people ask her why your children hair look so bad...mines dosnet...but my sister is younger and my mom doesnt want to get her a perm....but i like your hair and keep talking girl

[xXnatigurlXx]

youre completely right. btw youre such a beautiful woman!

[flizzleFlopper]

You're exactly right. There is no single way to care for a biracial kid's hair and oftentimes black women will try to treat a biracial kids hair like their hair and it doesn't work that way.

Every biracial kid's hair is different. We have 3 girls and 3 different hair textures. Only a parent knows how to best take care of a child's hair, regardless of race. And remember they're kids. You can put it in a ponytail or afro-puffs and be good to go.

[rayeovlight]

@flizzleFlopper

you are so right. my daughters have 2 different textures one is a deep wave the other is beautifully curly. on my oldest daughter oil straightens her hair and on my younger daughter it defines her curls

[kimbo6258]

Smileyousee, this is a real topic and you addressed it logically, thank you. I love your videos. You and your husband are so good together. Thank you for keeping things real and entertaining!

[jalilma]

as long as my children are well taken care of, loved, and respectful.. should be all that matters. just because im white doesnt mean i dont know how to take care of their hair...somedays are better than others though, for the record why isnt it such a big deal when a white mom has her white kids hair looking all types of messed up? why is it just us moms with biracial kids that get looked down on? just wondering.

[jalilma]

as long as my children are well taken care of, loved, and respectful.. should be all that matters. just because im white doesnt mean i dont know how to take care of their hair...somedays are better than others though, for the record why isnt it such a big deal when a white mom has her white kids hair looking all types of messed up? why is it just us moms with biracial kids that get looked down on? just wondering.

[camcomp1]

Quit tyring to be white! How could you NOT know how to do blac or curly or straight hair when you have blac hair?!!!!Youre a damn idiot!

[JannyDaBrat]

Learn how to spell

[2fine4u2hav]

You should also make a point to clear up the fact that NOT ALL Black or Biracial Mothers have a natural gift for doing hair!! Everyone thinks that just because a woman is Black she automatically knows how to do braids and cornrows in fancy hair styles. I am biracial and so is my daughter. We don't do hair in this family. We prefer to comb, wash, then comb again, condition and then wear it loose. So many Black and white people act like we are just naturally gifted at doing hair!

[2fine4u2hav]

To me hair is hair. For me I find tight braids and SOME hair styles that are tight to the child's hair to be unfeminine. I like hair loose and a little freer. With bows and only a few. I don't like to see Black children/Biracial children with tons of barrettes in their hair, Beads etc.. Also you should clear up the fact that it's a stereotype that ALLL Black females KNOW how to automatically do fierce and different hairstyles. Some of us are terrible at doing hair. I know I am!!

[FeliciaNorton]

HELP! I am a native american chippewa and my husband is black..we have an 18 month old son and i have no idea wat to do with his hair!! His hair is long and is very fine but is really wavy and curly and so he has this huge afro! I dont even know what i should or could put into his hair..It is so frizzy and messy i just have no clue how to care for it..my husband refuses to let me cut it cause he wants it braided when he gets older but wat am i spose to do with it right now! It looks terrible..

[AlwaysLoveStacy]

Why do people assume that Bi-racial is (white and black)?? My son is puertorican and black.

[MaDuke]

@AlwaysLoveStacy Puerto Rican? that's a nationality. Any skin color can come from that country, so to say your son is Puerto Rican and black, wouldn't make as much sense as me saying i'm i'm half white and half American...

[Misswf]

I'm a biracial mother and before our son was even born ppl were making comments and jokes on me not knowing what to do with it. Well he's almost a year and his hair still looks just like the hair of a white person, but brown/dark blonde As the years go on continuing to classify people will grown even harder. When will we stop classifying and start loving all! We're all mixed if you think about it. Were all different but why cant we really embrace it??

[amanda789101]

im gonna be an aunt of a biracial baby =] im so excited :D

[wallacelanda]

good video

[briarts]

As a multiracial person, I think it depends on the particular mother. I've see some white mothers who clearly don't know what to do with the hair, but my friend's white mother always knew how to take care of her hair. Also, my mother is black and when my sister and I went to live with her, she had no idea what to do with our hair.

[JordansVlogs]

im biracial and it seems now a days whenever you think of biracial kids you always want to ask about their hair or judge them by their hair biracial people are more than just their kind of hair nobody asks how they grew up or how smart they are its just all about hair

[eshemae]

well first of all it has nothing to do with being biracial when it comes to hair lol. Its mainly all science and blacks have all kind of hair textures because if you knew anything about history are genes are mixed with different races period it all comes to if you know how to do hair or not.

[kenyianFiasco]

Coming from an afrocentric prospective, I disapprove of biracial couples. The racist system allows the white parent to come in contact with the child to continue the inferiorization process.

[obdiane]

I think you meant interracial couple....not biracial.

[briarts]

what inferiorization process are you talking about?

[empressoffrance]

I am sure every biracial couple will take your prospective into account now if you have anything meaningful to say, hmmmm?

[TwoHands777]

also bi racial. call them children with a african american mother/father and a caucasion mother/father. though even african american sounds bad i dono double edged sword i guess

[TwoHands777]

i dono but saying mixed people sounds wrong. maybe implying we were so different in the first place?

[cobolt04]

some biracial and mixed people also have black people hair. i know this one girl she literally has black hair texture and all.not all mixed people have their own hair texture you should pay more attention in the world.Some mixed people don't have good hair some of them do it really depends and comes down to the mom and dad and genetics.

[Bazompora]

The hair of mulattos is different from the hair of whites AND blacks, yes.

But you don't need to have a medicine cabinet full of treatment products; simple shampoo works on our hair too!

Yet the issue indeed comes with keeping the hair in any shape, as it isn't tight like the hair of blacks, nor falls in place like the hair of whites; combing it every day can be a pain, literally.

[empressoffrance]

Er, beg your pardon, not trying to be rude but the word mulatto went out with slavery, please do me a favour, coming from a bi-racial woman, and do not use it. It is very offensive.

[mssexappeal1]

I feel like you have a point about the hair, because I'm not good with hair, and if I had a biracial child, I might be confused in what to do. And I'm black also

[sexyleog7o]

I've been doing hair since i was 8 yrs old. At 8yrs I was frenchbraiding my own hair with the use of 2 mirrors. I'm white and my son is biracial but he is a boy so I don't have to do much. My friend Kesha (she's black) loved when I used 2 wash her hair and blow dry it and grease it, straighten it, braid it, the whole 9 yards- it would put her 2 sleep lol... her hair was past her shoulders and pretty thick and very healthy hair.. there are def. diff hair types but I'm familiar with both

[arronnov]

For the most part African women aren't going to have a problem with doing African texture hair. Its in their dna and genes. It comes natural. Its what they do!

[katjrobertson]

@arronnov Biracial hair does not have nearly the same texture as the hair of a black child. I have four biracial daughters and they all have very silky hair. None of their hair will hold braids, twists for any length of time. Their hair MUST be done every morning or it looks horrible. Most people assume black women will find caring for biracial children's hair easier than white women, but most biracial hair is not like white or black children's hair. It's very much its own type.

[ADEFOLAKE]

I agree with you because my mother had no clue how to do my hair when I was a child and she doesn't even try to mess with my daughters hair.

[rnljs1]

I am white and I have half black children. I never had a problem with their hair. I did feel like everyone was watching me closely. My black friends gave me great advice!

[ladyj386]

Thanks for this hun! I'm a mom of biracial children also and I'm always afraid if I go out and my daughters hair isn't right someone is going to say "OH NOOO WHAT DID THAT WHITE GIRL DO TO THAT BABY'S HAIR:" lol

[EbonyNewsChannel]

Try a gel by ECO-styler.... the olive oil one, its in a green tub.. YES we know ya'll struggle with the hair! LOL. My god daughter is mixed ( we don't know with what, she is adopted) but her sister knows how to shellack, smack & smooth it down so that not a hair is loose, not even on the edges) It looks painful though, as her sister is HEAVY handed .The gel is great at defining the curls without stiffness.

[EpidosisBiou]

Races should not mix.

[fuzzitumz]

excuse me? you ignorant mother fucker. go die.

[katjrobertson]

@EpidosisBiou LOL You are an idiot. Please do not procreate. With ANY race.

[unshutoptic1]

@EpidosisBiou...You should not breed..Please don't bring any more dummies in the World...

The cycle of hate needs to be stopped...

You might call it live for your race, but it's just hatred disguised..

[empressoffrance]

The cycle of hate needs to be stopped, I agree, we will start with you, how's that?

[empressoffrance]

The topic is hair. You are absolutely correct, hate needs to be stopped, let's start with u. Fair enough?

[a2thep7887]

I am the white moher of 2 mixed daughters, my oldest ones hair is very curly but it has a soft texture to it. I love her hair, I just keep it very conditioned and moisturized. I hate when ppl (mostly blk ppl) say shit about her hair, in a negative way! Theres nothing wrong with her big curly hair as long as its detangled and moisturized! there are mono racial women who would pay to have hair like hers. Yea idk how to braid and do more ethnic things w/ her hair but i dont think its necessary.

[AfreeQueen]

Well, my mom is black (as am I) and she couldn't do hair to save her life. My sister and I went out looking crazy until I learned how to do my own hair AND my sister's hair at around 10 years old.

There is a white sis on Youtube here who has black daughters (adopted, I believe) and she is absolutely a PRO at doing their hair. From Cornrowing to box-braiding. She's one of my favorite subscriptions because she didn't give up an get lost.

Smile, you're right! NO judging here.

[MamaTrina]

Yes, I love that lady. Your talking about Katelynlyn (not sure if I spelled it right). She's fantastic. Being a (former) cosmetologist and having a very multi-ethnic family, My radar is always 'ON" when it comes to little girls hair. I cannot recall a time when my mother did not groom our hair very well. It was a surprise to me to realize how many Black mothers didn't care for their children's hair properly. However, I do think more White mothers struggle with bi-racial hair care.

[MamaTrina]

Hispanic & Asian mothers of bi-racial children are also more inclined to seek out instruction for their daughters' hair -looking well groomed & cared for. Some of the children I have worked with are now teens or adults with long, healthy hair. Many White moms initially resisted 'help' from a (percieved) Black woman. They have great love & pride for the childs hair texture & don't WANT her to sport a stereotypical Black style (braids & "GREASE"). Misconceptions. That has been my experience. ;D

[stgard5295]

I am a white mother of bi-racial children. I did have trouble with my daughters hair so I consulted a proffesional, now I know what I am doing. Just as you have to go to school to learn math or science we have to learn hair. Who taught you how brush ur hair and ur teeth? Your mom! No one knows everything but we make it happen.

[ashleyyycooper]

I never really thought about having trouble caring for my child's hair. Of course, I do not have a child on earth right now. Just a son in Heaven. Depending on how our kids' hair comes out, I will probably just have the salon braid it for me.

[alexsoutherngirl9561]

well its just not white mothers that struggle with their biracial childs hair my hair is curly and my mom always struggled with it and im not biracial. I know lots of black/latinos and black/asians who parents dont really struggle with their hair but just needs some advice on how to maintain it and keep it healthy

[alexsoutherngirl9561]

i have curly hair and im not biracial

i have have numerous numbers of friends who are black and latino and their mothers have no problem with dealing with thier hair although they have hair that is curly, straight, dry, natrual, etc

i dnt get the what your trying to say i mean its just not white mothers who have to care for their biracial childerns hair

[BiracialGirl1977]

PART4:MrThebrilliantoneut And YOU also said: "you have right to comment" you should have said .... You have "a" right to comment or "the" right to comment. looks like someone should go back and finish school before they criticize someone's use of proper English; it seriously looks like you are lacking in that department.

[BiracialGirl1977]

PART3: MrThebrilliantoneut P.S. you said: "Nigger have nice hair too" (which i can't even believe you said that ) however, shouldn't there be an 's at the end of that because you are talking about a group of people not just one LMAO.

[BellaNapolimia]

I am white and my kids are mixed raced,I have learnt how to braid my daughter's hair,even cornrows.

But I have to agree with you,some white women do not know how to braid or even which product to buy for their kids hair.

It's all about learning in life.

[707thetruth]

i like this vid

good you stick up for mothers of biracial children even the white mothers,

i know many poeple would just laugh at the white woman for having biracial children.

[MrThebrilliantone]

The woman is showing off that she has a birracial child. Nothing more. She is showing off that she is married to a white man and has a child with this man nothing more. What does she mean unless you have a birracial child you have right to comment. I am white, and I have seen nigger kids with nice hair what does she mean? Nigger have nice hair too. She is a show ppl that's all. SHE IS HAPPY SHE IS MARRIED TO ONE OF MY PPL.

[lenoko]

so what's your problem??

[snoops71]

You sound like a TOTAL moron. "Nigger"? You like throwing that crap around, don't you?

[Ironone333]

Care "for" your hair, proper english. You look proper can you start speaking proper english. No one "cares their hair." They care for it!

[MrThebrilliantone]

My man!!! you are right dude this monkey can't speak English to save her life. Yeah you will get the thumbs down but F*ck it.... I agree with you totally. She is trying to be American. White American at that. Island monkey.

[BiracialGirl1977]

PART1: MrThebrilliantone: OK!! here we go, are you serious? You just made yourself sound really stupid. You are over here talking about how someone doesn't speak proper English and YOU can't even SPELL. There is only one R in "Biracial" as to her trying to be American why do you say she isn't American?

[18tweety]

shes from jamaica you douche bag.

[MrThebrilliantone]

This monkey is backward. I am with you on this one dude.... Her husband is blind.

[brebre1920]

so what iron! u know what she meant! u figured it out didnt u?

[MrsWeena]

Can you not be so critical?

Moving on,

I can totally 100% relate to what you're saying. I'm bi-racial and my mother is white. My hair is more tangly and nappy than the average black womans' hair. My mom was horrible at braiding so all the girls would come up to me and say "how does your mom let you walk out of the house looking like that?" Of course i was offended that they were making fun of me & my mother, but I just said "she's white. she has no idea how to braid." It rlly sucks :(

[snoops71]

They are used to the "wash and wear" hair.

[EbonyNewsChannel]

lol.."how does she let you walk out the house looking like that..." well, mothers usually ARE the ones that put your look together and do your hair or tell you, " You ain't goin' nowhere with me lookin' like I don't feed or bathe or groom you..go get a brush and come back here..hurry up I can't be late for work!"

[TheLovelylove]

I agree with Mastricht. There is a more honest, natural love between BW and WM than BM and WW. It's not about being racist or jealous or at least not for me. They usually look really uncomfy and when they r with d kids, they barely hold hands or ignore d kids. As for d hair, whites will have a hard time doin' mixed kids hair, it's not a crime, just won't come natural at first. Blacks hair come n so many forms while whites r usually diff. forms of fine hair. We deal with more diff types more.

[efuhktual]

all the biracial children in my family have always been shipped off to the fully black members to do their hair.....ALWAYS. my daughter has "biracial" hair you can say, but she is fully black. i have been doing hair for years and i can not stand doing her hair because it gets tangled really fast. and i have done hair professionally. my best friend has a biracial daughter and she is clueless as to what to do with her hair BUT SHE TRIES. and she does good. some woman dont even want to try

[julieluvpink]

it was obvious my mom (white) could not do my hair. im still trying to figure out the best way to do my hair. my sister got lucky she has a different type of hair, even though we are both biracial.

ive had black people do my hair before, but it was so hard to keep up with it, and too expensive.

so im searching new ways to tame it.

you are definitely right each person's hair is different.

my sis gave me tips on how she does her hair, but we have different hair.

[xbabiiA2oo7x]

im having a biracial child in november

and im dreading the hair part when they are older.lucky i have friends who are black and really good at the braiding. im happy that they are takin their free time out and teachin me how to braid and style before my little one arrives.practice makes perfect =D,and people shouldnt judge you just because you cannot braid your childrens hair. sometimes people need to think before they speak out. and aint the haters ever heard of Hair Braiding Salons? LOL!

[hotdrumchick]

I also think that women with BR children (or white women with Black kids) SHOULD take it upon themselves to learn how to do their kids' hair.

I've seen too many cute kids walking around looking like Buckwheat about the head, when their moms could have spoken to friends, relatives, looked on the Web or something to learn how to style and care for the hair.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

I kinda agree with this.

[BoomSelekta]

Um, white people are used to dealing with white people's hair. Straight hair. Sometimes slightly wavy or loosely curly hair. But...kinky/curly biracial hair? No.

Black women on the other hand, are very much used to dealing with this hair texture; in their own hair, their nieces/nephews/cousin's hair, and even if they work in a hair salon, etc.

It's just common sense. I'm speaking about MOST cases here...and in MOST cases, white women are clueless with their "biracial" children's hair.

[bajabenca]

LOL. I like you. We could be really good friends in real life, lol.

[MsKaupili]

@BoomSelekta i am white, i cant stand when i see mixed kids who dont have a clue nor do they educate themselves or put forth the effort. it takes love, time, devotion and patience. I have done black hair (mostly mixed kids but different grades of hair) and i can hook a head up! kids can be cruel, and i know I dont want my baby looking all crazy for kids to tease him. highly recommended: Mixed Chicks products, especially the leave in conditioner, i swear by it. found in salonsor online

[mastricht]

Oh just for the record, I am not against interracial relationships.

I am a white male who has a strong attraction to both black women and asian women. I am happy for Smiley Mouse and her family and believe she is hot.

But again, I believe that most of the time when it is a black male/white female couple it is usually not about love and physical attraction. It is about getting recognized like these atheletes or to try and get back at the white man for past history.

[verybadtongue]

mastricht you are a typical racist.Please don't make mixed kids.

[rdokoye]

I can point to many highly desirable White Women with Black Men. Stop being spiteful and vindictive, keep in mind that your prejudices views do not and will not ever change reality.

[mastricht]

I know I am biased but in my opinion, most of the white women who have biracial kids are either fat with low self-esteem or they are trailer trash and act ghetto.

And many black men end up using them and they abandon their kids and wives just like with black women. Than they blame society for causing it.

Marriages between black women and white men are more likely to last then black men with white women.

I am sorry, but I believe that many black men have bad intentions.

[rdokoye]

That isn't true; Black Women have the highest divorce rate in America.

Black Men on the other hand have one of the lowest divorces rates in America, (below the National Average).

Black Men also have the lowest widow rates in America, meaning...a Black Mans other half is less likely to die than with any other man. This can mean a great many things.

[jianniestrong]

I know this is like 5mths past. But check the cenus. Blk men /wht women marriges are most likely to divorce then blk women /wht men...

[rdokoye]

On the other hand, Black Women have the highest widow rates in America, meaning, their husbands are more likely to be killed or die than any other woman. (Maybe dating and/or marrying criminals have something to do with that stat).

Black Men are also less like to be separated. So I have no idea where you're getting your information from.

Source:

Blackdemographics . com

[sharlylpn]

my mother was white married to my black dad and she was never fat or ghetto. she was southern, sophisticated and feminine.

[ShotCallz]

Well I have mixed feelings because Tyra pissed me off on this topic. First was the good hair aka white people hair. But like everyone else already said its about learning or even asking questions, going to the hair spot. I think natural oils and extracts and such is the way to go for anyone's hair...Live Learn and make sure your child doesnt look a mess (not that Sam does, but it was a general statement)

Love and Respect

[MUSTSEEVID]

ohhhhhhhhhhh kay smiles i was at macy parade and there was this white woman with biracial kids ... and the two girls hair was jacked up. ok little girls hair whether they are black , white , asian what eva you can put bobo's in it ..slick it into a pony tail and put a barrett i know she know hwo to put a ponytail cuz she had a ponytail ...their hair was standing on top of their heads like scare crows

[MultiEAH]

Some white mothers who have half black biracial children are not used to styling hair with a different texture than theirs. Some white women style their biracial children's hair very neatly and in a healthy way. That still does not give people the right to judge them based on how they style their children's hair. How immature.

[smileyousee]

I agree 100%.. Thanks so much for sharing

[MUSTSEEVID]

a barrett , braid it...something.

[chicagolowe]

Remember when you mix African with any other you hair can be tight curls, wavy nappy,its going to have a curl pattern.

This is my opinion but this subject is a old one nothing new or special.

Smile you know I'm not being mean. It's natural it's just hair.

Caucasian women have a hard time learning about "our" hair. But they will and have to learn.

[chicagolowe]

Hello Smile!! It's just hair,We learn to manage our hair. "Our ' meaning people of color. So-called bi racial people have been around since the days of Noah,Black people come in millions of shades and all our hair is different textures, you must explore products,like perm,

natural oils,braids etc.creole,high yellow, light skinned, Half breeds,Dominicans,Latins

some Jewish men,and some Italians,Remember when you mix African with any other your hair can be tight curls, wavy nappy,its part2 next

[smileyousee]

Thanks for sharing chicagolowe..

you really had a lot to say about this topic..

[EvieE1002]

It doesn't matter the race. I have two friends both with biracial daughters, one black, one white. My black friend's daughter's hair always looks a mess. My white friend's daughter's hair is always neatly braided and styled (done by her mother) so you're right. People shouldn't judge. Although some people could at least look like they've put forth more of an effort

[smileyousee]

Thanks for sharing Evie

[SugarShandy]

Homey...there are some sisters who can't comb their kid's hair...we all have to learn, there is a white lady on YouTube (katelynn) whom I learned to really get good a cornrowing from...open yourself up to the universe and it will share with you...

[smileyousee]

Thank you for sharing SugarShandy

much love to you

[FUTUREallstarzWif3y]

lol thanks.. im due in july.. and its a boy.. im really excited for him to get here.. but nervous at the same time because im also starting college in fall... it will definatly b an adventure to say the least!

[ShotCallz]

Girl you got this! Smart and Beautiful! Everything Will Be Ok and turn out the way its supposed to

Love and Respect

[smileyousee]

Hi gloryus :)

[DannacaLynn]

Amen sister girl!! I was DEF clueless on how to care for my daughters hair! I FINALLY (at her age of 7) know how to do some cute stuf with it, but forget getting it flat enough! lol Its HARD!

[smileyousee]

Hi Dannaca!! how are you sweetie :). I thank you soooo much for sharing your thoughts on this video because i know you have a beautiful little biracial princes :). Both your babies are soooo gorgeous!

[nitedancer4499]

I agree with not judging people but i do have an issue. Fathers & men in general also have to take an interest in this area! Marriage is a partnership! No it is not easy sometimes but women sometimes have so much work to do when raising kids that men need to get into the act of "Parenting" and that does include 'hair care'! Love the video! al

[smileyousee]

YESSS!!! I agree

[myjrpics]

Ironically some black people assume that it will be easier to care for a biracial childs hair than a black one. I was one of those people. The first time I tried to do one of my lil mixed cousins hair I left her looking like a greased wild thing lol.

[smileyousee]

You had me cracking up when i read the end of your comment. You are so funny hehehehe.. I laugh because I know what you mean and I have been there.. LOLOL..

much love sweetie

[TonyN737]

Well I can't speak for others, but I just put TeeTee's hair in pigtails and let it be, and my wife Shana makes TeeTee's hair look soooo cute! She puts a cream product in it, braids it up all nice. I let her have that 'wild-woman' look and make her wear a t-shirt that says "Daddy does my haor" hahaha :-)

[smileyousee]

AWW!!! Too cute daddy TonyN737.. You are such a great daddy to your little princes..

[CYaya88]

Yh my sister in law, doesn't have a problem with my nieces' hair. All hair is different, like my hair is different to my younger sister. Its not always a race thing as people have highlighted in the comments. But my sister in law does like it when I braid her hair and I did recommend a few products which have worked well on her hair.

[smileyousee]

Your sister in-law is lucky to have you:).. Thank you for sharing your comment sweetie

[piepie0903]

Once you learn which products and ingredients work well with different hair types, especially your biracial childs hair, it can make things so much easier.

Just as you have experimented with different shampoos, conditioners and hair care products on your own hair; you should also experiment to find the best hair products that produce the best results for your childs hair... You are right, people judge when they don't have the facts.

[smileyousee]

YES!!! YES!!!! Thank you sooooo much for sharing.. Thank youuuuuu

much love

[piepie0903]

You are very welcome... Keep the interesting vids coming... I love em :-) :-).

[FUTUREallstarzWif3y]

I agree.. im expecting my first child in July and he is biracial.. and although a boy may b easier then a little grls you never kno ow their hair will b. I'm already doing research on what to do and what products to use.. if any

[smileyousee]

Preach it!! Good for you.. I remember doing the same thing when I was pregnant with Sam.

much love:)

congratulation on your pregnancy

[EssenceOfTruth]

I dont qualify as I dont have any children or know anyone with biracial children...but, can I throw in that you and your look beautiful? Cause you do! ^__^*

[smileyousee]

Hi sweetie-pie!! You can say anything you want :). Thank hun for the compliment.. I appreciate it

love you sis

smiley

[smileyousee]

That is my point exactly!!!

[rstyree]

I see alot of children except asian children ( that is some easy stylin hair) anyway I see alot of children of all colors that look like the person runnung the comb was blind.LOL

[smileyousee]

when i was a young girl My grandmother did some crazy hair styles in my head hehehehe... My grandmother was one of those that you would be wondering if she was sleeping when she was styling my hair hehehe..

[LaluvJaC22]

Thanks for making this vid...I hate judgemental people period.

[smileyousee]

Thank you sweetness.. I do too sweetie

[cameraboi1229]

a question for you: my girlfriend is black and she says that texturizers work better for biracial peoples hair than for black people. Her experience using extra strength relaxers has led her to this conclusion. But I wonder how we would keep our childrens hair healthy (and managable :) with as few chemicals as possible. I like to use natural cleaners, detergents etc in our home and the use of lye and other chemicals on our children seems contrary to that lifestyle. What do you think works best?

[smileyousee]

If i ever have a baby girl I would do my best to not use any chemicals in her hair sweetie.. I would go for the natural products..

[smileyousee]

to be honest, my step daughter was one of those child that got her hair relaxed with chemicals by her mother so it can be more manageable. Cameraboi when i met my step daughter she had the most beautiful hair ( long and curly).. and after the use of chemicals it had completely damaged her hair. it is more manageable but it is never the same as before. I don't think her mother knew what to do and when we got her on holidays I took her to a stylist because i too was clueless..

[callmeservant]

I think black or white if you have a biracial child you have to learn how to care for their hair. Biracial children have mixed type hair where its almost like a mixture of their parents hair put together so you just have to experiment with different products to see what works best for your childs hair. Its trial and error or us(all races) to learn how to do our own hair as women so the same way we learned how to take care of our own hair is the same way we have to learn how to care for theirs.

[smileyousee]

PREACH IT!!! PREACH IT!!! They are people in the world who is not that sensitive to such great point of view. I know of someone who is being nitpick on by the way she care her child's hair. I am not sure I could have done better callmeservant. People can be so mean..

[herlandria]

Me and my fiance plan on having kids one day and as a black women I think I would be able to handle it, but I may be totally wrong and at lost of what to do. My best friend is biracial so I may need her help lol or just throw so braids and bows in it or brush it back.

[smileyousee]

I know what you mean herlandria! Yes be of support to each other...

[smileyousee]

Hi Kylako!!! Thanks for watching sweetness!!

you are most welcome :)

[wagechi29]

there are soo many children that need love and a home. i think it is silly to only focus on a child's hair. life is about learning and loving as we go. thanks for sharing ur thoughts

[smileyousee]

i agree 100%

[smileyousee]

when I met my step daughter she was about 3 and her hair was curly and hard to manage. It would get even worst when I would wash it :).. I have noticed that her mother permed her hair to better manage her hair

[balance512]

I agree. I am biracial, when I was a child my hair was fine and wavy, so my mother had no problem taking care of it. As I matured my hair became thicker, and it was hard for her and me to work with! I wear it long, the biggest thing I think is moisture, and being gentle. Black and biracial hair is more fragile and prone to breakage. My sons have gorgeous hair, we use organic coconut oil, they say it penetrates the hair shaft. BTW, your hair is pretty in this style. You're just so cute!

[smileyousee]

Thank you so much for sharing balance512. I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experience.

Thanks for the sweet compliment about my hair :).

much love to you honey.

smiley

[fredalala]

it's no different than angelina jolie not doing her african child's hair. i'm sure she has a personal stylist for her child's hair. so i'm sure everyone has other resources to help their child's hair. Whether it be a friend, hairstylist, or family

[smileyousee]

I hear you fredalala!!! Thank you so much for sharing..

much love

[fredalala]

You're welcomed! :) I did not know your daughter was your step-daughter. I was wondering why I didn't see her in some of your vids, just seen the l pics of her. She's gorgeous! Tell your husband he makes beautiful kids as well as you! :) And he'a a cutie too! :)

[smileyousee]

yes fredalala she is my step-daughter :). I love her to death. I am not able to get her in my videos because she lives with her mom out of state. we get her on holidays.. We hope to get her soon for the summer. Hubby was flattered by your compliment to him. I do agree with you, she is gorgeous. She look soooo much like my husband. if you saw her mom you would agree..

[Talljim01]

Some people complain about anything. I mean if the hair is kept clean and brushed or combed, its a silly thing to point out. Not you I mean but the people who are complaining.

[smileyousee]

Talljim01 agree with you.. You know I talk to you all about things on my mind. A friend was picked on about how she is caring for her biracial child's hair. isn't that silly. I guess my point is, people are trying the best they can and don't judge.

[michtenn16]

i cant even comb my own hair sometimes lol.i dont judge lol

[MissPrettynCurvy]

I struggle with my hair, and my daughter's hair. I NEVER let her walk out the house looking a HOT mess UNLESS she is on her way to the beautician...her auntie...LOL! :-)

[smileyousee]

Missprettyncurvy I know what you mean.. I struggle too honey. You had me cracking up with you when you said " I NEVER let her walk out the house looking a HOT mess UNLESS she is on her way to the beautician...her auntie...LOL!"

[smileyousee]

LOLOL!!!!

[AVTPro]

I hear about the topic. It's touchy. It's not a broad paintbrush.

[smileyousee]

I knew its a bit tochy to talk about this but i had to.. My friend that told me that she get picked on by the way she does her biracial's child hair.. I think it is so sad that people would do that because she is really trying AVTPro.. Anyways handsome thanks for watching :)

[Ajsproudparents]

I'm not a mother of a biracial children, but I am a VERY proud aunt to three, two being female, and I'm shocked in the difference in their hair, and I DO struggle with my oldest nieces hair, but over the years, and talking with my sister in law I have managed to get better. Their mom was out of the picture for a bit, so I had to learn. I must admit, they are usually done in ponytails, LOL but they love to have it straight. I love them, and think they are SO beautiful!! Even if they rock a puff.

[smileyousee]

Thank you ajsproudparents for sharing your experience. I was struggling too :). I am sure your nieces are soooo beautiful.. Thank you so much again for sharing

[jasonmit]

As I understand it children's hair in general all seem to be very different.....no matter the ethnicity.

All I know for sure is I have a hard enough time with my own hair. The odds are our kids' hair will end up being too long and crazy like mine tend to turn out.

After all, there are far more important things than hair. Like their diet. lol If their diet is be like mine, they'll be sick all the time.

[Peachis911]

honey i know how to comb my kids hair and i know how to care for it as well

[smileyousee]

:) great Peachis:).. I had a hard time at first with my stepdaughter's hair.