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  • i love the bridge of this song :3

  • i've read your info and i have to say you're amazing person and i it's amazing how strong you are just make sure you don't let your friends and yourself down ever again! God bless :)

  • I'm so happy :) The world got to complicated, only all the small things can save the world now :) Like a smile, and a hug, and somebody to have FUN with. it doesn't matter which person that hugs you or smiles to you, or what person you laugh with, it can still make your day :) And if the whole world should laugh about something, they should laugh about everything. The world is too serious :) Make the world a better place, and smile :) laugh, and hug :)

  • Your overflow has touched my spirt. May the love of God and the grace of Christ and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you.

    - your sister in Christ, Sarah

  • @thomasbowersox I read your info box on this video and your story really touched my heart. I love God just like you and I have been feeling pretty seperated from the Lord lately. From what I have read I can tell that you have alot of faith in the lord, especially at our age (im guessing your about 16/ 17. Im 16). Once a serving brother was giving a message about how when we rejoice in the lord, our spirit is filling with his life and sometimes the people around you are touched by that overflow.

  • link to photo at 0:20 please :D?

  • I swear this song is built for gay people <3 'do you fear the expression's on the faces we don't know' Homophobic people who are afraid to understand :-(

  • i have been with a girl for 10 months. got her pregnant and she left me.. you know, sounding as crazy as it is. i felt torn, considering i was going to be a father and was going to have a beautiful baby girl or boy there in my life... 2 months later i got a call from her mother saying she got an abortion.... my life seemed to be over at that very point. my baby was now no more and my dreams and hopes were then lost. Depression kicked in shortly after.. though my friends were there for me.

  • Wow, watching all these sad stories, of people so long, makes me SO greatful of what i have. I'm 15, I have a beautiful girlfriend and we're in love, and weve been together for almost 3 years, and yeah, we have our ups and downs, and i get depressed, but it's nothing compared to things that have happened to some people...

  • I have a long story, but I don't want to tell it. people are so judgemental. </3

  • i cut myself and im not emo.. its one of the few ways i can actually get the pain out... it helps me feel better.. sure they say use ice cubes... i need to feel like i am taking the "bad blood" out...

  • lol,no more updates ):

  • i pissed off my bf while trying to make things better and now apparently i'm single. my friend came up to me in the hallway and said "omg im so sorry about you and gage(bf)" i was like "wtf r u talking about?" she said "holy f i thought u knew im so sorry he said he was gonna break up with u" thanks for nothing love u but u dont know and probally wont ever. idk if im single yet but either way i will be soon. D': FML

  • :( my ex gf sent this to me after the first time we broke up and it made everything better. I miss her so much . But she moved on and has a bf . Laurel taylor wadley if you read this I just want you to know im still in love with you and I wish we could try again

  • Stop being a Emo. Enjoy the party that's called life. ^_^

  • @TheUltimateMilkakuh not everyone has it as great as you. just a little FYI there for you.

  • @psychomonkie3 u think i have it great? Oh please stop Kidding :D

    And what means FYI?

  • @TheUltimateMilkakuh It meanw "For your information", btw you're right, whole lotta emo and teenage emotions in here.

  • Greetings and God bless! Check out itsc1988 for a POWERFUL youth perspective of God, right in the USA's Sin City (Las Vegas)!

  • I love Secondhand Serenade....and I'm only 11.(:

  • Yes don't worry I've just gone through the same recently except he told me he was no longer physically or emotionally attracted to me anymore....it hurts but like u I've turned to God and claim victory in his name because we are worth something. Maybe not to the person we thought we loved but to God because he died for us...loved ur stories and lets me know I'm not alone =] good luck

  • thomas, im sorry you've gone through all this. this really touched me. (the description) while listening to this song.. im sooo sorry. i hope all is well with you. you seem like a really sweet and caring guy that any girl would be lucky to have. feel better. lovelindsay- -3.

  • Magnumjade just try to tell her how yuh felt for her I been through the same thnqw

  • as stupid as it may sounds i'll always remember the sentence from a buffy episode when dawn said: the hardest thing in this world is to life in it..... it always makes me cry cause its so true!!! what else can you do?? YOU NEVER KNOW HOW STRONG YOU ARE UNTIL BEING STRONG IS THE ONLY CHOICE YOU HAVE!!! to everyone who is depressed or stuck in a bad situation it gets better with friends, love, some rock'n'roll :), and god of course!

  • Secondhand Serenade ROCKS....!

    Thumbs up if im right!

  • wtf

    

  • I've not told anyone I listen to secondhand serenade, they're my own private pain relief

  • Wow. Your caption is really amazing. I think its great that you're really open about yourself and that you want to help. good luck with your girlfriend :)

  • Its been almost two weeks since me and the guy broke up. and he told me to listen to this song last night. i started dating another guy kuz i thought it would help me get over him but its not helping. i have been down and upset since he broke up with me. and in the song it has a picture quote and it says "you think you can break my fckin heart and still tell me you love me" i said oh that happened to me and he asked me what i told him that quote and he stopped talking to me. what does that mean?

  • @xxxrawr16lovexxx Probably means that he's just gonna take the fact that you're done with him. I'm a guy myself. And if he truly does love you, those words were "Like a Knife" (another seconhand serenade song) to him. But if he truly did love you he would also never give up, and he would fight forever to keep you in his life. So he's probably just trying to leave you behind. Trust me, if anything happened between me and my best friend (a girl) i would try forever to keep her in my life.

  • @thomasbowersox You have an very interesting story. I'm going kind of a rough time i guess you can say. me and this guy dated and were serious then he dumped me he told me to look up this song and i cried kuz i thought of him. he tells me he still love me but he wont date me. what should i do? i get so frustrated sometimes, and idk what to do. i care for him a lot.

  • @thomasbowersox, you're 18 now? so how's life?

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  • God is always there, even through the toughest times, my girlfriend of 2 years left me for my best friend and they've been together for a few months now, it still sucks but I know God is always with me and watching over me, so no matter how hard things ever get I know I can go to God for comfort and help, and I hope you can too. Things like drugs, are never the answer and in the end they can only hurt more than they help, I hope this helps, even a little bit.

  • wow amazing story, and he is right god does know what you need ,when you need, and he will never give you more then you can carry

  • my boyfriend got mad at me cuz of many things i did dat he didnt like :((

    i was down for almost 1 week

    he didnt reply to my sorry messages and he seems he like another girl

    :((

  • I read what you posted and wow only if I could belike that with my walk.. everyone is lead astray and yes some do stupid things.... But we all no that god is there and rememeber we don't need another prson to make us whole.. He is our everything.. even if some don't see it :) I love this song and I like what you wrote thomasbowersox

  • I was going to ask my friend out but then I found out my best friend was going out with him.. I hate my life

  • @frogbuddy3 don't hate your life. c: trust me, it isn't the end of the world. i promise.

    just tell him how you feel, even if your best friend is going out with him. and well,

    if things don't work out, just know that he's not the only boy in the world.

    .. everything happens for a reason.

  • @LitttleMissLexii TELL TO HIS BEST FRIEND'S BF THAT SHE LOVES HIM? what a shmock, they're best friends, they're not supposed to do that for each other, how dare you suggest such an evil thing?

  • when i told my bestfriend i was depressed, she didn't believe me. she thought i was just sad for a moment, what she doens't realise is that im really depressed, for 4 years now. i just need a hug;/

  • thOmAs wHaT a cOoL stOry?!?!?!?!?

  • I read the description box and almost cried. Sounds exactly like me except i dont turn to God for much even though i should :( 

  • ...Im torn between doing whats right and what feels good. I listen to this song purposely to bring me down further when Im already feeling like giving up. I dont know how to get over myself...

  • My name is Donae. Im a 21 yr old male. I dont have a problem with a lover. I think I have a problem loving myself. I have all kinds of blessings in my life. And when I look at my family history, Im really supposed to be the one to do something life altering for my family, but I i hate responsibility. Ive always been above average in smarts, but Ive always taken the easiest classes to avoid responsibility. I went to college for 3 yrs, got an associates but I dont want to go any further...

  • ah...fuck i have a story in my lovelife and its about a beautiful girl that break up w/ me cause she said that im to shy to kiss her but im just her ex......then the girl that i was making with something dont mind what im doing for her...

    What can i do? can u help me???

  • I have this video downloaded on my phone I had to let go of my ex he cheated on me an in rge same process I lost a best friend I don't talk him much...

  • This song is amazing great video :)

  • about a year and a half ago i would listen to this song and many others by secondhand serenade and it would make me really depressed because my girlfriend had just broken up with me. i didnt think i could get over it but i did and now i have a new girlfriend who ive been with for 6 months and i have never been happier and now i can listen to this and smile. to those who are in the same poistion as i was, dont give up trying to find that special someone becuase you will

  • @ilikecheese107 lucky,same thing happened to me,my new girlfriend only lasted 5 months...lol,but good luck with her,and btw i like cheese too

  • @ilikecheese107 Thanks, bro! This comment gives me hope :)

  • looked at the top rated comment, soo i opend the description and then closed it with the words, oh fuck that.

  • dood you have balls, im sure many of us have this same exact story. to a fucking T...cool story bro

  • I LOVE THE PIHKS IN THIS VID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • @sciencefreakability dont worry about it start by being friends with her and just hang out most girls like that and soon she'll see you like her thats how i ended up with my guy try to find common interest and just get to know her itll pay off :)

  • I love this song but it's sad :(

  • This song makes me so sad, it makes me cry, every lyrics keeps on reminding me of her, this is not something just to get some likes, I am just sad and I really want to express my feelings...

    I really Love her, I hope she loves me back, but whats wrong with me? I cant seem to get the courage to ask her out, I am just way too weak for this stuffs.....

    I hope someday I will be with her for eternity......

    TT_TT

  • Every Lyrics Make Me Become so calm ......

    Nice Bro////

  • hey people i need help im sixteen she's amazing really cute and everything she's one of these girls u put her in a fight with the toughest guy u no and shel make him cry but ... i never get to see her and my bestfriends a girl and everyone is spreading rumours again weve been friensd sice she was 10 and i just wish i got the guts to tell her i wish i could say it and if it gos bad just rewind but no life has a funny thing of throwing shit back at ya

    10 thumbs and i will tell her how i feel

  • @MrImissyou1995 tell the girl i like not my bastfriend

  • my ex bf fave song

  • @dairy104 if you miss him tell him dont put it off another day because it turns to weeks to monthe before long theyre in a new relationship and you end up wishing u told them

    im speaking from expierience

  • I'd like to kill myself to this song

  • i used to play this for my girlfriend and i when i was younger.. this made our relationship so much stronger and gave me a feeling that i can't explain

  • <3 He sings everything that everyone wants to hear. He gets to our emotions that no one ever can get to <3

  • See my cover of You Call ^^ Please /watch?v=lLqCnZ_YITQ

  • So....Are all of you here to read his diary or to listen to the song? :D

  • bein emo to me was just a realisation in life that made me change cause its there marked on ur body and ul neva forget it ... but for all the basterds that say shit bout emos needa realise were all fuckin differnt and live how we wnt to and if we wna make our life beta or worse den we can do it so im hapi for u that ur hapi now cause basicaly i had the same shit as u <3

  • @givemeyourbloodblud Emo Duzznt Only Mean You Cut. Emo Stands For Emotional. People Would Consider Me Emo Because I Express All Of My Feelings..

  • Thumbs Up (:

  • I grew up with these songs.

    Glad it was these instead of the crappy mainstream ones we have now

  • your right like me being EMO doesn`t matter

  • Nothing wrong with being emo, yes I am and I'm not ashamed. :) I love your video and your story too bro.

  • Awee, I love your story. (: <3

  • i love the story it portrays.... i wish you could make more songs.... i am forever a fan

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  • i think its really awesome that you posted all that. i have a VERY simillar story... i'm a girl though.. but yeah. just thought i'd give you props. haha.

  • hahaha love this songg!!(:

  • @Dellman307 if you are going to call some1 out for posting something meant to be a joke (which i am pretty sure is a joke cuz there is no other reason for them to call you out) and something you have no right to judge them on then YOU are the one who needs help. (lol...i copied your sentence structure)

  • This song is

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    Meaningful.. Yet I made my tears..

  • LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO­OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL, secondhand serenade wasn't a fckn band for emos, glad i dont listen to i now omfg

  • Everyone in my family are Christians. But I DON'T have the same beliefs as they do, I don't even know if there is a god, I've never counted on *him* for anything, I count on myself, and it all works out pretty good. So, don't count on god when you have a problem, count on yourself and grow some balls!

  • 69 people dislike because they like sex to much. xD

  • @OrgasmicTeddy so tempted to dislike and make it 70...but i already liked it so its too late :(

  • i love pon and zi

  • Im only 15 and im in love. I know girls come and go but my ex makes me feel really good and im always happy when she around and she broke up w/ me. idk if i'll ever find someone like her we still hang out but she feels like breaking up w/ me was the right thing to do and when i hang out w/ her i feel so many different things than i have w/ other ppl. i still havent kissed her yet and it makes me feel like and asshole. I need to get her back and idk how. 20 thumbs up and i'll kiss her at movies.

  • @Rockout760 I think everyones vote should count as 20 thumbs up :).

  • @xoxoasmcbblrxpxo Thankx

  • @Rockout760 21 likes. good luck bro!

  • @Rockout760 u don't need thumbs up to love her. or kiss her. Its your choice btw. and If you really love her that much. you can tell her and when she don't love you anymore. just let her go and I know there still more better than the best ^^,

  • @Rockout760 Your a queef tart (:

  • @Rockout760 well you certainly have 20 thumbs up :) im just wondering if u actually went through with it

  • - . wOw .. :D i like it

  • Check out 'The Keepsake' if you're a fan of acoustic music

  • You kind of ruined your inspirational description there when you had to mention 'God'..

    Do athiests get any say in happiness here?

    Don't expect something you can't see to make you happy.... Make it a goal to find your own happiness.

  • Dude if that description is for real its the best piece of unintentional comedy I've ever read. At the same time, to the guy who posted this, I hope your doing well.

  • jhon ega is spirit in you song ega awake,.,.

  • @Jessi99N amen to that.

  • hey! i read what u wrote, and i hope u keep growing in God il be praying for you! :)

  • there's no such word as being 'emo' its emotional distress. everyone handles their problems in their own way. some people think hurting theirselves cures the emotion pain. so dont go against people who selfharm its strictly a normal thing to do, not only one person has did it thousands, even millions of people have did it. people who get called 'emo' shouldnt take it to heart :) becuse emo isnt a person its a music genre :)

  • @MyNameIsCliche

    Also o.o u needa Wiki more~

    ''Emo has been associated with a stereotype that includes being particularly emotional, sensitive, shy, introverted, or angst-ridden.''

    ^^Since i was meaning wat it says there~ which sorta shows o.o what i mean

  • @MyNameIsCliche

    Lmao ik its a Sub-genre but for most people that use it they mean emotional /sweat

    So uhm o: we're both rite even know their was no use in fighting about wtf the meaning is or wat it is not. xD :I so yeah.

  • emo faggot

    likes to suck cock and fuck on his daddys lazyboy

    with his boyfriend

    cut yourself moar

    bro

    no one cares

  • @bxown3d

    Well if your gonna suck cock you might as well do it in a lazyboy.  Such comfort and relaxation, as opposed to say, a hardwood floor; now that's a place were sucking cock would be highly uncomfortable. All I'm saying is that if your going to suck a mans penis, it would be better to do it on a nice cushioned lazy boy luxury chair, then say a hard wood floor. You know what I'm saying my little angry bro?

  • I just read the description and the only thing I can come up with is "cool story bro."...

  • Secondhand Serenade really has to be more famous than Justin Bieber.

  • Awesome

  • like this if you still watching dis video in 2011..

  • /sweat you dont have to cut to be emo

    Like me yeah sure im emo but i dont cut at all o:

    also Love the song <3 ^^

  • @EmoPachirisu you clearly have no idea what emo means.

  • @MyNameIsCliche no your clearly dont, emo doesnt mean you cut, the ones who cut are "cutters" "self-harmers" or "self-injurers" emo is a sub-genre of punk music or as some people say it mean emotional dumbass -.-"

  • @HopeBreakerBVB yes, it is a sub-genre. but it does not mean emotional. no need to get rude over something as trivial as this :L

  • @MyNameIsCliche sorry, it just gets so damn annoying when people means it cuts yourself or that your deppressed and hate yourself or that it means emotional, sorry

  • @HopeBreakerBVB yh i hate that too :p

  • awesome=)

    

  • I'm glad you've stayed strong, Thomas. Let's see...you'd be about 17 now? I hope God has blessed you in ways you could never imagine. :)

  • And what if people that need help aren't religious like me? You can't just go shoving Jesus down our throats because we think that if Jesus or God really loved us, he wouldn't be making our lives a living hell.

  • @Jessi99N What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. You don't have to have faith to believe that. However, if you do, it just reassures you that this is all according to plan. He knows exactly what He's doing. You(as much as you would like to think so) don't.

  • I love the description. Says so much. Beautiful song, to!

  • you can only die once but a broken heart dies ten times in a row

  • thahaah .. favorite ng ex ko .. >_<

  • Gee , you're all so cool for cutting yourself.

  • you dont have to love to be happy, but when its the only thing that makes you happy u can only love with all your heart... <3

  • If love falters for you then there really wasn't any love to begin with. Or it was one sided love, you loved her but she didnt truly love you, or she loved you but you didnt truly love her. In true love, your together forever despite all odds...

  • I remember hearing a quote saying:

    "Love is nothing more than the need for us to continue our existence"

    No comment :)

  • feelings are the most real thing we have in this life.

  • If anyone needs any help with heartbreak please friend and message me. I am still feeling the pain from recent incidents and have cut myself and contemplated suicide, but there is always a way through sorrow. Yes, I realize that life is omnipresent, and terrifying and I am also scared out of my mind, afraid of heartbreak,and to love. Life is full of pain but in the midst of even our greatest of plights there is always a light in the darkness, find that light, there is only one escape from life,

  • @BVBforeverful its all just experiences, learn to embrace and enjoy all of them. =D

  • yeahh well love hurts no matter whatt every boy will hurt you so go for the one that will make the pain worthwile pshh crapp i just hadmy first lovebreak my heartt and feeling dead :(

  • 15?! wait until after your balls drop before you start thinking life is hard. EPIC facepalm.

  • When I read the discription box about all that you have been through... I found myself tearing up. I also realized that no matter how low you sink... You have to keep trying.HaHa....I don't even know you but Thank You. You opened my eyes up.

  • mehh !!!

  • Join the army it makes you stronger

  • maybe its just me or is it her my friend just keeps on hurting me and well when ever shes mad at someone she takes it out on me but y me she was not like this when i met her we aways get mad at each other but we aways got over it she made me cry like 10 times at school and i never cryed at school y now y her i dont want to cry, she told me this once (forgive n forget) i never forgot the hole way thruogh but i always forgave but this time i dont now wat to do wat shud i do\sorry if i spelled bad

  • much better version :')

  • My name is Cori by the way. :) Kepp pressing forward, you are strong enough, believe in yourself.

  • Good for you! I'm glad your pressing forward and trying your best. One thing I always remember is that with all the trials we go through i think it's a compliment from God, because he knows we are strong enough to handle the trials he gives us, but one thing we always need to remember, is that our Father in heaven loves us and will never leave us alone. He will never give us anything we can't handle, he trusts us to make the right decisions and knows we can pull through as we keep close to him.

  • thums up=3

  • i dont have a label ^^ HI im cindy and i am an freaking idiot and im proud at it !! whoss with me ^^ ?

  • @ceceheid mehh

  • Thanks for sharing! -RelationshipEbooks

  • @dudeorfreak. oh ryt. ^^

  • lol no one cares

  • i am also a christian, and I think it is really great that you have got through all this stuff and still stayed strong. so, yea, you slipped once or twice, but dont we all? the thing with that is, it isnt how far you fall, its whether you get back up again that matters. stay strong, and trust in God :)

    P.S if u dont already get them, word 4 u 2day is a really good devotions mag to get for "young people" as my mum calls us :D

  • i sometimes cut myself as well even if i know it won't make any difference but for a short period of time i don't feel the pain and sadness. i know i'm not doing any good to myself but i just can't think at those moment. i don't consider myself as an emo though.

  • Listening to this song and reading all your updates made me cry. A LOT! I think your amazing! You've had some bad turns but you've always come back round, well from what I can gather from your updates, seeing as I dont actually know you :L but I still think your amazing x

  • lol @ this description...

    

  • @jcos19

    what is it tht you find funny of this description??

  • @jcos19 hahahahah this dudes life story on youtube -_-

  • @jcos19 LOLOLOLOLOL I CANT STOP LAUGHING XD

  • @jcos19 lmfao 

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  • Jesus is saying something completely different than what Christians think. Christians who believe a bearded man in a sheet and sandals will greet them when they die are going to be disappointed. That Jesus, the man Jesus, no longer exists, but the truth and the life, the spiritual Jesus, does exist. People are worshiping the dead Jesus, because they do not know the living one. Go to TruthContest(dot)com, open The Present (with religion), and read at least the first 30 pages to learn the truth.

  • I just hate how people mix "emo" with cutting and depression, because some people don't even bother to know what it actually is: a type of music. Emotive hardcore. Look it up, tell your friends. I want this world to nice and caring. 

  • i wonder why M.r Bean is on the suggestion list of this video LOL

  • Ok, "emo people only have 1 way of expressing there feelings n thats by taking it out on ther selves and giving up. I have learned to just throw away my bad feelings and find some 1 that will give you good feelings, wether its family or a girl/boy you like, tell them how u feel it gets it out of your system and makes new feelings able to fit in the bad feelings place. Like me i ur under 18 u have time.dont get too bent over some person u say u love. And if u truly do it eill work out. So keep t

  • favortie song everrr

  • when something is broken such as your heart I know it will never heal, but it can be replaced. Unless, it really is irreplaceable...then...... you need to find someone careful and special enough next time to hold something that special and irreplaceable

  • whats up with the emo pics? secondhandserenade isn't emo....

  • (: duuude hah i love how you like added that thing about your life .

    <3 its like , ahh just amazing .

    idk if theynhave ,but people shouldnt put you down for it :/

  • Suicide is a very permanent solution to temporary problems. The road may look bleak, but if you don't go up that road, what will you be missing?

  • @OKEYDAYLJ i keep telling my best m8 and myself that! :)

  • i love your story it's very inspiring ; im soo happy that u became sober; and stopped the cutting hopefully; i cut before and seperated myself from everyone too; bc ma ex was a player; and made me feel worthless; but you are right it's not the answer; and ur story is amazing; and i think u should be one a talk show sharing it or something. we should talk sometime! :D

  • hey you shouldn't do pot. i was depressed. i almost hung myself..but guess what? i just found someone new. You could find God again. :) just keep looking for the light! always look for hope

  • @nutmeg12100 i'm glad you found God!!:) hope everything works out for you!