Love Systems PUA Cajun in the Men's Room - Part 3 (Flirting, Natural Game, Sexual Framing)

[samuelsixvids]

cool guy

[Yosika123]

Do these tips also work on people you know already?

And how do you know if the girl is really into you? Like last night I was talking to a girl I know, but I don't see her that often, and I thought she was really into me but I wasn't really sure

[LoveSystems]

@Yosika123 For your first question, you definitely want to check out our resources on Social Circle Game, how to turn friends into something more and how to increase the number of attractive women in your life. As far as recognizing the signs of a woman's attraction, look for "IOIs" (Indicators of Interest). Check out the LoveSystems[dot]com Dating Advice section to see tons of articles especially in the Attraction category.

[coachtribal]

hi. i have a birthmark in my face, but its not that dark, its just like brownish, and also im tan cause im a filipino asian.. does it affect my game?

[LoveSystems]

@coachtribal Probably not, unless you're letting it get in the way of your confidence and identity. Some good resources you should look into: first, go to lovesystems[dot]com and click on Dating Advice, then Inner Game and look for "Are you in the SOUP?" It's a great article about things that hold guys back. Then go to our audio products and look for Volume 47 on Overcoming Physical Obstacles. Again, your situation is probably not as bad as you think, but it might be affecting your inner game.

[MrFabolous169]

this guys my hero

[Starkiller60]

Cajun...He runs the world.

[shoemama]

A guy like cajun is a such a higher level of thinking. Its basically a god complex. hes so arrogant and controlling, but he does it so socially responsable that you couldnt argue its a bad thing.

your a guest in his reality. Ive never really meet another person that thinks this way.

If you want to fake confidence , adopt this perspective.

[benji9316]

@shoemama we all have our own perspective when it comes to how we view reality..a guy like cajun truly understands the human mind, the real nature of reality , and how we as humans behave to one another and he also studies philosophy :)

[tubefreak23]

Love systems- does height really matter?how to get the girl if she is surrounded by people who are taller than me ?

[LoveSystems]

@tubefreak23 Another good question! On the LoveSystems[dot]com homepage go to the "Dating Advice" tab then the section on Inner Game. There's a great article there called "Are you in the SOUP?" Of course, the best source of info is our Interview Series Volume #47 Overcoming Physical Obstacles with Mr. M (who stands 5'5"). Check out 10 minutes of it for free in our Audio Products section. There's also The Attraction Forums where you can ask questions and talk to other guys like you.

[mcewen75]

Love Systems - you see a 9 who looks approachable yet is surrounded by friends and big jock type guys. do you open the guys, girl or group as a whole first? what would your tactic be here

[LoveSystems]

@mcewen75 Excellent question! The answer would be too long to post here, but let me point you in the right direction. On the LoveSystems[dot]com homepage go to the "Dating Advice" tab then the section on Approaching. There's a great Q&A in there about Mixed Sets. Of course, the best source of info is our Interview Series Volume #7 Dealing with Men & Obstacles with Future. Check out 10 minutes of it for free in our Audio Products section.

[Metlahaed]

he sounds like i satanist :)

[UmbrellaAl]

Ugh! Ok, Cajun is great, and he has great insight... but that tosh about quantum physics is utter bullshit... He doesn't understand it and is perpetuating nonsense.

[myz360]

@UmbrellaAl Cajun actually know what he is saying about quantum physics and ruling your life in order to become the mayor of your life so it not BS it reality and actuality, you should take in more inconsideration in the "law of attraction" it definitely worth learning about because you definitely need it to make your life a phenomenal one! 

[UmbrellaAl]

@myz360 Quantum Physics is irrelevant to anything Canjun is saying here. He's good at pickup, and has great insight into social dynamics... this is not disputed. He clearly doesn't know dick about Quantum Physics because it has nothing to do with behavior or consciousness... That's bullshit made up by new age hucksters. Quantum Physics is the study of the behavior of the subatomic... nothing more.

[ldes916]

@UmbrellaAl Look up the experiment of Schrodinger's Cat. Quantum Physics theorized after this experiment that reality does not exist outside of observation, similar to what Cajun is saying.

[UmbrellaAl]

@ldes916 /Facepalm

You see, this is exactly the point! That is a total misinterpretation of quantum mechanics. Schrodinger's cat is a THOUGHT EXPERIMENT... it's a metaphor for what is going on at the subatomic level that uses everyday objects as illustrations. It's an example to help every day people grasp the ideas behind quantum mechanics.

This is a misunderstanding of quantum physics... he's wrong.

[mastereismaname]

Since i have started watching your pickup videos, i have been getting phone-numbers. Its kind of weird how 'easy' it is to get a girls phone-number at the club. I just started going for the numbers and have had great success so far. And even though im not attracted to a girl, ill still ask for the digits. In my mind, i can learn from that. and then when i talk to a hotter girls, ill be more confident. Let me know if its a good way to 'work'. :D

[LoveSystems]

@mastereismaname That's fantastic! Congrats on your success, and more importantly, it sounds like you're using that success to feel more confident in your interactions so you can get even better.

[GracieBarra4Life]

This show is $

[HentHigh]

Hey Cajun/LoveSystems,

I'm a 16 year old, almost 17, who recently became interested in pick-up because I simply wasn't getting girls. Any tips you can pass on to me? Even now I feel behind the game since I still have my virginity.

[Frederick0220]

@HentHigh Yo, being a virgin at 16/7 is quite common. Take a lot of action and divorce yourself from the outcome. You're gonna get rejected, as we all do, but it don't mean shit, son. Express yourself freely and be sexual, too (look at her erotically and get in her personal space). Interpret shit in a positive way. Whatever you say goes. People will fall into your reality if you are confident in what you believe. Lastly, be patient. Don't expect to be this big pimp on day 1. Good luck mah man!

[Frederick0220]

@HentHigh And amuse yourself too. Don't rely on her or anyone else for fun. Create your own fun. Believe that you're the hero of your own movie or some shit like that. Using your imagination really helps to get you in the right headspace.

[Brencs]

(facepalm) I was soo hoping Cajun is not going to say "quantum physics". Please stop spreading this pseudo-science bs. Famous people spreading it is the only thing giving it credibility. Nothing in quantum physics suggests that each individual physically creates his own reality NOR does anything suggest that our consciousnesses can "bend" reality! Our brains and the Observer Effect just don't work on the same level.

YES we do create our own realities but only by ACTUALLY DOING SOMETHING! cheers

[bside1113]

@Brencs thats not true. Scientists have been backing this for years. They first discovered this back in the 50's. Watch the movie the secret or What the Bleep Do We Know.

[Brencs]

@bside1113 seen them both. And I was excited about The Secret for quite a while, until I started actually testing and researching it. If I remember correctly secret didn't have any science in it. About What the Bleep - just check out what David Albert (a physicist featured in the film) had to say about how they edited him - quote: "outraged at the final product." Or better yet check out what ACTUAL physicists like Lawrence Krauss say about the whole thing tinyurl . com /2eljek4

[kenstheman01]

talk about brain food... my brain is going to be full for days with this shit.. no more room for math... FUCK MATH

[nistelsoi]

Hi lovesystems.......if you had to name 10 habits of successful PUA what would they be?

[LoveSystems]

@nistelsoi Actually, if you go to the Love Systems homepage, click on "Dating Advice" at the top and then search "Habits" you'll find a great article titled the Seven Habits of Highly Effective Pickup Artists! It's a great read and should really help you. Don't worry, 7 are enough.

[fatalsherbert]

I'm not used to seeing Cajun this clean shaven - damn he looks like he's 20

lol

[frenchguy09]

How do u pick up in a loud venue like a nightclub for example a dancefloor?

[DeoGuy]

4:14 OMG that is exactly what I needed! thanks so much!

[franklinsiam]

from about 1950 its an old english film on lifemanship and oneupmanship and does show some age old skills in seduction trickery. its a shame there isnt such a show in england today .. although you dont want everyone on the same script

[kreammeh1]

this was good. " i control my reality and you are guests in my reality. " thinking about me, times when i have been focused on getting what i want are the times where things, and people turn in favour of me. God bless.

[kx3clock]

haha, So many Niel Strauss memorable quotes. :)

[maxthesseling]

damn. made my day thanks!

[LoveSystems]

@maxthesseling Thanks!

[Joel0277]

When does Cajun come to Canada for bootcamps, Toronto specifically?

And does he have a DVD out of his own?

[LoveSystems]

@Joel0277 He comes there pretty often. Check our schedule on our website. Also Cajun released a DVD on body language a couple weeks ago called "Beyond Words" that you will like.

[fatalsherbert]

@Joel0277

Beyond words DVD is great btw

[krazymex90]

@creativefilmmaker yea he does but he instructs them...

[CreativeFilmMaker]

Mystery doesn't attend seminars anymore does he?

[LoveSystems]

@CreativeFilmMaker Not really. We have tons of other coaches teaching nowadays.

[jonyb0b13]

I am barely 17 but can I take those workshops or camps?

[LoveSystems]

@jonyb0b13 For bootcamps you have to be at least 18+. However, you can attend the seminar part.

[jonyb0b13]

@LoveSystems Is it because the bootcamps involve going to bars and nightclubs? Or it's illegal to help a little kid get girls?

[LoveSystems]

@jonyb0b13 We don't teach to guys under 18. I'm not sure what the exact reason for that is but I'm certain it's unlawful. If I were you I would save up the money and then when you turn 18 you can attend one of our programs!

[football7owner]

i love when he pauses at 5:11

[LoveSystems]

@football7owner Yeah it's really subtle.

[kbthegreat1990]

I need more, parts 4, 5 and 6 yo. they need to bring back KTTV and Cajun should replace Sheldons coy-bitch ass

[LoveSystems]

@kbthegreat1990 Totally agree!

[ThatArabGuy]

lol mark sparx looks so uncomfortable in all these videos

[WatchYaze]

life learns us, that not helping others, but helping yourself makes you happy.

That's the whole goal of life: being happy.

So guys don't think about other guys and only rely and trust yourself when you approach women. Remember to believe that YOU are the big deal and that women can't get any better. That's the main rule in game.

[trevormac77]

I might just shell out 3000 to get into a boot camp with Cajun.  He comes out to Vancouver to train.

[AndrewKo1218]

@SirHappyThe1st It's often these guys that get the hottest women. There is nothing wrong with loving yourself or being arrogant. Society tells us these are bad traits, but it's not a coincidence that successful people are both extremely confident and put themselves or their values before others.

[WatchYaze]

if you don't love yourself, don't even try loving others ;)

[ricayovillanueva]

This guy its just fucking awesomee

[deadpeopleiscoming]

hella yes. I'd boff any guy with that kind of swagger.

[Yea00]

Humor is very important guys!

Confident, funny , cool is the traits to work on if you don't have the greatest looks.

[westifle9]

i need in ESPANIOL PLEASE !! español plss.... porfavor traducila a español amigooooo

[donrobertoni]

para conseguir una dama linda...no neccesitas ver este video...se trata de amarte a tu mismo...si logras hacer eso ....entonces otros haran lo mismo....

sincillamente la verdad...

[SabaiDeeKhonLao]

I ain't a dyckryder but this cat gots game

[bangthatdrumb]

look at this guy he looks like a pop up pirate and he gets more trim than burt reynolds.

[theTRUTHpg]

crazy I dont think u get it man

[Joel0277]

This interview was G O L D. anyone know iif Cajun has a book or dvd course out ? thanks

[jimmyisdesign]

es tal cual

[thecrazyoftheinsane]

so basically make eye contact with a 10, smile, walk her way and ask if she wants to fuck. lol thats what im doin from now on, ne ideas on how this wouldnt work? seems pretty damn foolproof, its just a matter of odds.

[mannyb332211]

I think that wouldnt be such a good idea, (unless shes really scoping you out first), chaces are your gonna get blown off that way, i recommend you aproaching a 10 (or a group of 10s) indirectly with the same confidence, choose your targer, throw a few negs, n just close (ask for her #) with confidence.

[PatagoniaPedro]

Parts 1 through 3 are an excellent re-cap of the fundamentals :D

[Jowgen]

This. Is so. Awesome.

These guys are my new Rolemodels!

Take that Chuck Norris.

[ilovenick1234567890]

ahhaah

[pissek]

Quantum Physics Theory is taken from the movie"What the bleep". watch it guys. Also "The Secret" movie is good. but the best is " Beyond positive thinking"audio book. ur brain will exploade :D

[Kociubs]

@pissek

Dude, Cajun was talking about Quantum Physics, which is a subset of actual Physics. The film "What the bleep do we know" is just a lame try to interpret that. But since actual scientist can't fully comprehend Quantum Physic, than it's just a pile of horse shit.

[QuieroGuerra]

I know the guys who taught these guys :D

[Evilkris2002]

fake it till u make it

[biggnbeefy]

this guy has definitely taken some psychedelics in his day

[Ravennever]

genius!

[WeAreLegion00110]

PREACH!

[ry27sm]

Cajun is on point.

It's all in his confidence, poise and intelligence. He seems like a wicked dude to hang out with but that's exactly what you need to get across in ANY interaction. Social genius.

[pup101]

did you see him in keys to the vip??? he practically just said like 1 line and got numbers and sht

[daftdude05]

Good interview in general, im totally stealing the direct opener speech. Sometimes I get tired of hearing the line :"I mean I don't rate girls on a 1 to 10 scale but if you were so inclined", but that's probably because I have said it too much! (in this case, it took me out of the view of listening to a natural interview and into a robot answering mode for a second)

[entadus]

Amazing interview!

[whatever87e]

I knew about Cajun but I had no idea he was with Love Systems too. Do they just buy up everyone who is good or what's the deal?

[LoveSystems]

We only attract the best people to become our instructors.

[omertopaz]

is there a bootcamp in israel or something that you know about?

[QuieroGuerra]

You can request one, if you can convince them that enough students will enroll in your area.

[frankie743]

Cajun is a great guy.

[fogo111]

Сajun is cool

[DaJuice42]

Ya the black dude looks pretty cool, might be kinda goofy

[rockpaul]

hey the black dude is from keys to the vip too.. right ? is he in the lovesystems?

[LoveSystems]

Yes he was, on season one episode 5. But he is not affiliated with Love Systems.

[LSUzealot]

::::bow::::

[Mpua24]

I really like Cajun. He seems like some one I'd get along with pretty well.