so if i walked up to a random girl and said lets go back to your place (or my place) i want to fuck you, that would work for 50% and the other 50% would probably end up saying no but doing it anyway?
Why and how do the traits in men which most women find the most (emotionally) attractive correlate the strongest with abusive male behavior tendencies?
You're a phaggot if you generalise soldiers and police as having abusive male behaviour tendencies. Only a very small percentage, smaller then the general population of soldiers/police are like this. Soldiers have far stronger mindsets and willpower then the vast majority of the disgustingly lazy overweight slobs that make up the general public.
is it possible for a guy to get to know a girl, actually care about her as a person and not be overly concerned with getting her into the sack, connect on a deep personal level, and not end up being in the FRIEND ZONE?
No, you're just a phaggot beta male. Sure maybe after a few years of being friend zoned you might get somewhere but it is unlikely you will find a girl you actually truly want to be with acting like this. The time to connect on a deep personal level and begin to care about a girl as a person is AFTER you sleep with her. Once you've slept with her it is easier to build a relationship with her anyway.
If only this society allowed men and women to be more direct about dating and love! This would be a much better world with happier relationships and less sexual frustration!
Oh, what is with that annoying music which starts your videos? I like you and your videos, but that hip-hop intro just has to GO! LOL!
I strongly disagree with this approach, at least from a male perspective. By being straight up with a woman like that, your not as mysterious as your intentions are clear - You are giving her all of the power to decide. Sure, this kinda of approach works great for guys when you are more or less 100% sure that the girl is into you. However, in most situations I would say it is best to come in under the radar, keep your intentions somewhat opaque while building attraction. That's half the fun!
Agreed.. there are times when your guts say go for it.. you should go.. hesitation brings doubt, and doubts end up passing over your chances at that particular moment. You have to commit for sure at that particular moment ... now what you're expecting from that commitment depends how you define yourself and the type of interaction you want ..
yeah, from my experience, direct and showing your intention is good. This also goes with the last video, leadership and show your boundaries. Nice black dress Jennel, btw.
Okay I read the article before responding just t be sure and I have no way of knowing if this cat actually got this from "Susan" or what but this isn't anything new or fresh. Plus, don't read Eckert Tolle, read Mode One (let The Woman Know What You're Really Thinking) by Roger Alan Currie, the guy who made direct game famous. Or if you don't like to read, Roger has a show on BlogTalk Radio. Also look at the work his main man David X. They will teach you true direct game! Search youtube also.
This subject should be obvious. .if the chick even likes you slightly, a guy's very next line should be "Quiero besarte" (I want to kiss you). She may say, "not here" and then it's very "honest" because then you are simply looking for nice places to fuck. Um, no "game" has happened, no "Texting" has happened, no "wingman" was necessary, no "dating, pick up lines, confidence" are needed. What crap, all this dating coach stuff.
Very helpful. I once told a girl "I want to fuck you" and she said ok. The whole conversation was 5 sentences long. Max. She said she thought it was ballsy of me and no guy ever does that?
Nice. video Jennifer. I just wanted to pass on to you that the link you provided gave me an error. It would not allow me to enter because I lack the privileges. I assumed you need to sign up before I get the access. But, nothing can you please help forward another link?
@BEYONDtheGRAVE87 I've updated the links under my description. This article has been republished all around the net, don't know where the original source is.
Thanks for making a video about my question. I don't go direct about sex. It's more like "Hey. I notice you, You're so captivating I had to come say hi."
Results: It's either really appreciated or they're insecure and think it's crazy. lmao
@jennelli17 Ok, then, so...direct. If I were to approach a girl I like, ask her for name, and tell her I think she's cute or interesting, and I'd like to get to know her, how does this tend to pan out the way you usually hear of it? The way I figure it, they may appreciate the directness. But at the same time, due to the manner of approach, they have the same limited amount of info on which to base their decision as I do. Which is judged more here? Appearance, or guts?
Good post. My area of strength is the indirect openers. When some of the PUA's in HW got me to be more direct in a club setting, and have a sexual side to me, I did get some very good attention. For some reason, this highly direct opener seems very easy to deliver.
Really? You would be like "I'll take you up on that offer"? At least for me, a conversation would be started and I would have a fun time with an interesting guy for a few minutes of conversation (and he has the chance to convince me to go with him or I just leave it at an interesting convo) or a "No, thanks."
@hagadaba Have you tried their processes, or is this just a judgment? I used to think Mystery was a total tool about 8 years ago, and the systems. I studied, and started trying, with great results. Had pleasure of meeting a lot of PUA's... and I believe if they have their system in mind, couples with respect, integrity, and goals, it works wonders. It has GREATLY improved my success with women. How did it not work for you, or have you not tried?
@bradtelepo I read some PUA material and I can make good judgement calls. For example, I know telling women bullshit stories and oretending to be "cool" and "fun" isn't a turn on for a woman unless it's genuine.I realized the game is all about looks, money, status, and confidence the hard way. The only reason Mystery was successful was because he was in the "in" crowd in Hollywood as an entertainer... that crap will NOT work for an avg Joe, unless he is physically attractive enough to not repel
@hagadaba I respect your opinion... we each have learned a different way. I am a decent looking guy... I used to have the overly nice approach (comfort zone, therefore, friend zone); therefore, learning from this stuff, a different angle, I greatly improved my results. Re: average Joe's. I've been out with some pretty "averages"... honestly!!! And, we went out as wingmen... they are getting results, way better. Not Mystery results, but doing good. tbc...
@hagadaba Yes, status eg Mystery, is an attraction factor. That, too, is written in the books. There is a way, and shows you how, to achieve social status in the perception of a women with that HW status. I guess here is the opinion... does it make a difference, for average Joe's, too? Speaking from personal, and friends, experience. Because you learned hard way, experience is a better teacher. You already do and say what you do, is what they teach as a part.
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I'm willing to bet this approach has a 99.9% Fail rate unless you're driving a Lamborghini,Ferrari,Pagani Zonda.
Damnbabeeyourhot 14 hours ago
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Damnbabeeyourhot 14 hours ago
This chick must be INTJ
bahpapajarmjackson 1 month ago
love this idea!~ thx.
TheAlfredgreen 1 month ago
ya ... right ... there are reason prostitution exists. This will never work unless U R 5+ level above her.
mba2ceo 2 months ago
@KANG07 So, I guess a rapist is a man, then, eh? That's about as direct as you can possibly get. lol
PachucoDesigns 2 months ago
4:23
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that shit might work in europe and uk but in america youll hear
rape/sexual harassment/objectification, etc
TENNSUMITSUMA 3 months ago
4:23
so if i walked up to a random girl and said lets go back to your place (or my place) i want to fuck you, that would work for 50% and the other 50% would probably end up saying no but doing it anyway?
TENNSUMITSUMA 3 months ago
Why and how do the traits in men which most women find the most (emotionally) attractive correlate the strongest with abusive male behavior tendencies?
Eg: "Men in uniform", soldiers, police, brutality
Ben1607 4 months ago
@Ben1607
You're a phaggot if you generalise soldiers and police as having abusive male behaviour tendencies. Only a very small percentage, smaller then the general population of soldiers/police are like this. Soldiers have far stronger mindsets and willpower then the vast majority of the disgustingly lazy overweight slobs that make up the general public.
Hourus0 3 months ago
is it possible for a guy to get to know a girl, actually care about her as a person and not be overly concerned with getting her into the sack, connect on a deep personal level, and not end up being in the FRIEND ZONE?
okamichamploo 4 months ago
@okamichamploo sadly no
stephgohard 3 months ago
@okamichamploo
No, you're just a phaggot beta male. Sure maybe after a few years of being friend zoned you might get somewhere but it is unlikely you will find a girl you actually truly want to be with acting like this. The time to connect on a deep personal level and begin to care about a girl as a person is AFTER you sleep with her. Once you've slept with her it is easier to build a relationship with her anyway.
Hourus0 3 months ago
If only this society allowed men and women to be more direct about dating and love! This would be a much better world with happier relationships and less sexual frustration!
Oh, what is with that annoying music which starts your videos? I like you and your videos, but that hip-hop intro just has to GO! LOL!
JHaines57 4 months ago 2
I strongly disagree with this approach, at least from a male perspective. By being straight up with a woman like that, your not as mysterious as your intentions are clear - You are giving her all of the power to decide. Sure, this kinda of approach works great for guys when you are more or less 100% sure that the girl is into you. However, in most situations I would say it is best to come in under the radar, keep your intentions somewhat opaque while building attraction. That's half the fun!
perezcpt 4 months ago
Agreed.. there are times when your guts say go for it.. you should go.. hesitation brings doubt, and doubts end up passing over your chances at that particular moment. You have to commit for sure at that particular moment ... now what you're expecting from that commitment depends how you define yourself and the type of interaction you want ..
einc70 4 months ago
yeah, from my experience, direct and showing your intention is good. This also goes with the last video, leadership and show your boundaries. Nice black dress Jennel, btw.
walkingon2001 4 months ago
Just finished the Eckhart tolle book haha.
Great vid, tone of voice could make this work.
INTPmetalfan 4 months ago
Usually watch Jenelli's videos and are used to seeing her, but she looks absolutely gorgeous in this video
IronMan50780 4 months ago
Okay I read the article before responding just t be sure and I have no way of knowing if this cat actually got this from "Susan" or what but this isn't anything new or fresh. Plus, don't read Eckert Tolle, read Mode One (let The Woman Know What You're Really Thinking) by Roger Alan Currie, the guy who made direct game famous. Or if you don't like to read, Roger has a show on BlogTalk Radio. Also look at the work his main man David X. They will teach you true direct game! Search youtube also.
PsionicX1 4 months ago
This subject should be obvious. .if the chick even likes you slightly, a guy's very next line should be "Quiero besarte" (I want to kiss you). She may say, "not here" and then it's very "honest" because then you are simply looking for nice places to fuck. Um, no "game" has happened, no "Texting" has happened, no "wingman" was necessary, no "dating, pick up lines, confidence" are needed. What crap, all this dating coach stuff.
powergirl901 4 months ago
Ha, I wouldn't call, "do you wanna fuck?" a pick up line...
powergirl901 4 months ago
Very helpful. I once told a girl "I want to fuck you" and she said ok. The whole conversation was 5 sentences long. Max. She said she thought it was ballsy of me and no guy ever does that?
kelly2charmin 4 months ago
But wouldn't that seem creepy ? I mean do women fear that such a guy could be dangerous or something ?
loyolaf 4 months ago
WOMEN IS EVIL....
tegarac 4 months ago
@KANG07 If you don't make women approach you rather than you walking up to a woman to ask her out than you're not a real man.
blackcrow1x 4 months ago
What is this world coming too? Guys taking advice on how to pick up women by women? The world is fucked up.
blackcrow1x 4 months ago
Nice. video Jennifer. I just wanted to pass on to you that the link you provided gave me an error. It would not allow me to enter because I lack the privileges. I assumed you need to sign up before I get the access. But, nothing can you please help forward another link?
BEYONDtheGRAVE87 4 months ago
@BEYONDtheGRAVE87 I've updated the links under my description. This article has been republished all around the net, don't know where the original source is.
jennelli17 4 months ago
Thanks for making a video about my question. I don't go direct about sex. It's more like "Hey. I notice you, You're so captivating I had to come say hi."
Results: It's either really appreciated or they're insecure and think it's crazy. lmao
BeginnningoftheEnd 4 months ago
cool
capcom101you 4 months ago
I'll try it. Sounds good.
DrumChanel 4 months ago
I tried it with my wife and she said we were already there.
mrbeanbag 4 months ago 5
@mrbeanbag LOL. Love it!
jennelli17 4 months ago
@jennelli17 Ok, then, so...direct. If I were to approach a girl I like, ask her for name, and tell her I think she's cute or interesting, and I'd like to get to know her, how does this tend to pan out the way you usually hear of it? The way I figure it, they may appreciate the directness. But at the same time, due to the manner of approach, they have the same limited amount of info on which to base their decision as I do. Which is judged more here? Appearance, or guts?
PachucoDesigns 2 months ago
@mrbeanbag ... I thought she said NO ! :)
mba2ceo 2 months ago
@mrbeanbag :))
laurentiucalonfir 1 month ago
Good post. My area of strength is the indirect openers. When some of the PUA's in HW got me to be more direct in a club setting, and have a sexual side to me, I did get some very good attention. For some reason, this highly direct opener seems very easy to deliver.
bradtelepo 4 months ago
Believe me, this shit works! And especially with the very hot women.
Good one, HAF
FIXOVECIJA 4 months ago
Do a video on crotch watchers! Women like to look for a outline in a guys pants.
caramelking2000 4 months ago
Really? You would be like "I'll take you up on that offer"? At least for me, a conversation would be started and I would have a fun time with an interesting guy for a few minutes of conversation (and he has the chance to convince me to go with him or I just leave it at an interesting convo) or a "No, thanks."
quitejaded 4 months ago
the PUAS are a joke
hagadaba 4 months ago
@hagadaba Have you tried their processes, or is this just a judgment? I used to think Mystery was a total tool about 8 years ago, and the systems. I studied, and started trying, with great results. Had pleasure of meeting a lot of PUA's... and I believe if they have their system in mind, couples with respect, integrity, and goals, it works wonders. It has GREATLY improved my success with women. How did it not work for you, or have you not tried?
bradtelepo 4 months ago
@bradtelepo I read some PUA material and I can make good judgement calls. For example, I know telling women bullshit stories and oretending to be "cool" and "fun" isn't a turn on for a woman unless it's genuine.I realized the game is all about looks, money, status, and confidence the hard way. The only reason Mystery was successful was because he was in the "in" crowd in Hollywood as an entertainer... that crap will NOT work for an avg Joe, unless he is physically attractive enough to not repel
hagadaba 4 months ago
@hagadaba I respect your opinion... we each have learned a different way. I am a decent looking guy... I used to have the overly nice approach (comfort zone, therefore, friend zone); therefore, learning from this stuff, a different angle, I greatly improved my results. Re: average Joe's. I've been out with some pretty "averages"... honestly!!! And, we went out as wingmen... they are getting results, way better. Not Mystery results, but doing good. tbc...
bradtelepo 4 months ago
@hagadaba Yes, status eg Mystery, is an attraction factor. That, too, is written in the books. There is a way, and shows you how, to achieve social status in the perception of a women with that HW status. I guess here is the opinion... does it make a difference, for average Joe's, too? Speaking from personal, and friends, experience. Because you learned hard way, experience is a better teacher. You already do and say what you do, is what they teach as a part.
bradtelepo 4 months ago