It really doesn't fucking matter. Stop over thinking shit like a fucking pussy. Simply saying you'll call is crap. She could just as easily ignore your call or say no. HAVING THE WOMAN TAKE SOME FUCKING INITIATIVE FOR A CHANGE is a good thing. You'll know she's into you if SHE calls YOU....
i figured it'd b respectful 2 give tha female tha option 2 call u back, plus if u give her tha option n she doesnt or does call u back it will let uknow that she doesnt or does like u n is interested in u? make sense?
@Jvilleman31 Theoretically yes, but when dealing with the female mind - NO!
1. Showing "respect" to the lady in your way makes YOU look weak, and no female finds that attractive in a male.
2. Females THRIVE on the uncertainty of their own emotions and your intentions - being the 'pursuer' is NOT a desirable role for a woman. If SHE is in total control than that makes YOU unexciting.
@mofotax well women r just not worth it then nowdays, growin up, i leraned that women like a sensitive guy who is in touch wit his emotions, one who isnt gonna treat her like shit, well i guess women LOVE bein treated like garbage, so im just gonna say fuck it an stay alone den
@Jvilleman31 You probably "learned that women like a sensitive guy who is in touch with his emotions" from a female, right?
The problem is that what women say and think they SHOULD want (MIND) is usually overpowered by what they actually FEEL about certain types of Men (EMOTION) .
Never tell the girl to call you back - it's WEAK, it tells her you're a weak BOY who gives away all his power rather than a MAN. Remember if you ask her to call you back, you are ALSO giving her the option of NOT calling you back (and you're also allowing her to invent ANY BS excuse for it.)
Women don't want to have to make a choice to call you. Even if you've got Brad Pitt looks, the MOMENT you give HER the option to NOT call you, you LOSE.
well i did the calling her everyight after i went to bed. and she really like to talk to me but one thing that she doesn't when im asking that do you love me ? and she said she loved me as a friend. Is this really Stupid question ?
When she asks why just say you've been really busy. Dont be rude but dont apoligise. IMHO at this point you pretty much lost her as she pulled the dating f(riends) bomb, but there is still a chance.
A big part of attraction is social proof. She has to feel that you are socially desirable and someone else may come along and catch your attention if she doesn't act. This will put her in a situation where she will have to attract you.
Don't talk to this chick anymore. You messed up. But beauty is common - so with the NEXT CHICK, do this:
DON'T call her so often. If you are always available, you will be DOOMED to be her "friend" because a guy who's always calling her has NOTHING going on in his life, and girls are NOT attracted to this. Call her less, and it will LOOK like you have a life - and seduce other girls so you won't get attached. And NEVER ask her if she "loves" you - assume she's ATTRACTED and CLOSE the deal!
i was just in this situation. she sed im kind of busy next week. i said fine so mayb the week after. and shes like ok il let u kno. fuck i saw this vid to late
He is damn right. I never really thought about this technique, but it's really working. His tips are right in alot of situations in fact almost all situations. Very nice vid!
never would of thought of that but its so true, if you give the girl the option to call and you call first, not only is it awkward but you look desperate to be around her
Hahahaha, this is so true. I made the exact stupid mistake last week. When i felt stupid for calling her first after giving her the option, i simply deleted the number so i won't be tempted to do it. Move on!
Too bad i saw this vid a week too late for that situation, but it clearly woke me up for future situations like these.
A voice in the back of my mind said to me before...if she is yours, she will always be yours and as Arkady said in his other videos, if the girl likes you, and want to spend quality time with you, she'll forgive your "mini" mistakes so basically, if that girl is meant to be yours, she'll be yours no questions asked, regardless whether you called her too early, too late, too much or too little.
Sound advice. Now what happens when you call again, that week or two later and she's still busy.
At that point, i'd say screw it, I tried, tell her to call me. Put the ball in her court. Whether she calls you back or not, you have your answer about her interest level.
You should do a vid on how to handle voicemail during these initial reactions.
Hi arkady39! I would like to confirm a doubt that I have. When I´m dating a girl and I see that she is giving me signals of attraction, looking a bit longer to me... saying that i´m cute... not having problems of buying me a drink... should I try to kiss her right in the first date? And If so... how should I do it? should I touch her first or that doesn´t matter?
This is one of those tried and true tips, besides I hate waiting and expecting something to happen! I don't ever give my number out anyway, usually it's a sign she's not interested so I either get her number or I don't.
Aren't girls even reluctant to make the call? I have female friends that bombard me with texts until I call them. I even had one text me with, "How come you never call me anymore?" She was almost acting as if she could only receive incoming calls. I don't ever ask the girl to call me anymore... maybe I just meet a particular type, but things don't ever work out in my favor.
Good point. Even when a girl is very interested in talking to a guy, she will have a problem calling him first for several reasons (ego, social norms, etc...)
It really doesn't fucking matter. Stop over thinking shit like a fucking pussy. Simply saying you'll call is crap. She could just as easily ignore your call or say no. HAVING THE WOMAN TAKE SOME FUCKING INITIATIVE FOR A CHANGE is a good thing. You'll know she's into you if SHE calls YOU....
Drop the PUA faggoty fuck shit..
MrHav1k 1 month ago
Do these apply to women of all ages?...
Kostas1601 10 months ago
wron wron wron ! LOL
dedenapraia 11 months ago
i figured it'd b respectful 2 give tha female tha option 2 call u back, plus if u give her tha option n she doesnt or does call u back it will let uknow that she doesnt or does like u n is interested in u? make sense?
Jvilleman31 1 year ago
@Jvilleman31 Theoretically yes, but when dealing with the female mind - NO!
1. Showing "respect" to the lady in your way makes YOU look weak, and no female finds that attractive in a male.
2. Females THRIVE on the uncertainty of their own emotions and your intentions - being the 'pursuer' is NOT a desirable role for a woman. If SHE is in total control than that makes YOU unexciting.
mofotax 4 months ago
@mofotax well women r just not worth it then nowdays, growin up, i leraned that women like a sensitive guy who is in touch wit his emotions, one who isnt gonna treat her like shit, well i guess women LOVE bein treated like garbage, so im just gonna say fuck it an stay alone den
Jvilleman31 4 months ago
@Jvilleman31 You probably "learned that women like a sensitive guy who is in touch with his emotions" from a female, right?
The problem is that what women say and think they SHOULD want (MIND) is usually overpowered by what they actually FEEL about certain types of Men (EMOTION) .
mofotax 4 months ago
how should i ask for cell phone number
breakerbatman1 1 year ago
@breakerbatman1 You dont "Ask" per se, you tell her to give you her number. Like "put your number in my phone" for example.
clay180 1 year ago
how should i ask for cell phone number
breakerbatman1 1 year ago
VERY VEYR VERY VERY TRUE, i TRIED IT
Barhoumaaaa 2 years ago
Great advice! I was wondering if what I was doing was wrong, but you completely encouraged me. Much thanks!
Wimplo86 2 years ago
you should get a Nobel prize!
qwertyuiop1987 2 years ago 3
Shit, I wish I watched this thing a couple of weeks ago! lol
shervman 2 years ago 2
Agree. thanks for the advice.
Alejandro1313sixx 2 years ago
i agree 100%
camoplaster 2 years ago
Never tell the girl to call you back - it's WEAK, it tells her you're a weak BOY who gives away all his power rather than a MAN. Remember if you ask her to call you back, you are ALSO giving her the option of NOT calling you back (and you're also allowing her to invent ANY BS excuse for it.)
Women don't want to have to make a choice to call you. Even if you've got Brad Pitt looks, the MOMENT you give HER the option to NOT call you, you LOSE.
Great tips Arkady! Keep 'em coming!
susumu07 2 years ago 5
These are good suggestions of "not" torturing yourself =). 5 stars.
BLuEsHayZee 2 years ago
well i did the calling her everyight after i went to bed. and she really like to talk to me but one thing that she doesn't when im asking that do you love me ? and she said she loved me as a friend. Is this really Stupid question ?
Shane5shane 2 years ago
Stop calling her!
When she asks why just say you've been really busy. Dont be rude but dont apoligise. IMHO at this point you pretty much lost her as she pulled the dating f(riends) bomb, but there is still a chance.
A big part of attraction is social proof. She has to feel that you are socially desirable and someone else may come along and catch your attention if she doesn't act. This will put her in a situation where she will have to attract you.
Good luck!!!
jonas000111 2 years ago
Sorry, but yes that is a stupid question. Never ask that, she should be asking you that not the other way around.
AxiomaticObserver 2 years ago
Don't talk to this chick anymore. You messed up. But beauty is common - so with the NEXT CHICK, do this:
DON'T call her so often. If you are always available, you will be DOOMED to be her "friend" because a guy who's always calling her has NOTHING going on in his life, and girls are NOT attracted to this. Call her less, and it will LOOK like you have a life - and seduce other girls so you won't get attached. And NEVER ask her if she "loves" you - assume she's ATTRACTED and CLOSE the deal!
susumu07 2 years ago 5
This shit is true.
Daviniel 2 years ago 14
i was just in this situation. she sed im kind of busy next week. i said fine so mayb the week after. and shes like ok il let u kno. fuck i saw this vid to late
sexiicano515 2 years ago 2
Sooo Agree! Every man need to know this.
Dani86Pink 2 years ago
good advice on that
foxgirl100 3 years ago 3
He is damn right. I never really thought about this technique, but it's really working. His tips are right in alot of situations in fact almost all situations. Very nice vid!
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azfireman25 3 years ago
don't we all!!!!
muzicalman 3 years ago
I watched several of your videos and I have to say you make some really good point!!!! I really love your videos!!!
00chinadoll 3 years ago 4
never would of thought of that but its so true, if you give the girl the option to call and you call first, not only is it awkward but you look desperate to be around her
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orhnbyc 3 years ago
FUCK!!! I just did the exact opposite (call me whenever you're available) to not seem needy and all. If I just had watched this video before...
AmitNO 3 years ago
whats about when you leave a voice mail. do you end it with "give me a call when you get the chance?"
krazzyyo2 3 years ago
Sure. Even better - "give me a call" without when you have a chance.
arkady39 3 years ago 2
Hahahaha, this is so true. I made the exact stupid mistake last week. When i felt stupid for calling her first after giving her the option, i simply deleted the number so i won't be tempted to do it. Move on!
Too bad i saw this vid a week too late for that situation, but it clearly woke me up for future situations like these.
Thanx bro.
Rtv03 3 years ago
A voice in the back of my mind said to me before...if she is yours, she will always be yours and as Arkady said in his other videos, if the girl likes you, and want to spend quality time with you, she'll forgive your "mini" mistakes so basically, if that girl is meant to be yours, she'll be yours no questions asked, regardless whether you called her too early, too late, too much or too little.
Komaoala 3 years ago 2
Yeah i noticed the pattern too. I did the same "mistake" but it was okay to her, she was 'really' just too busy.
The TRUE mistake is taking everything TOO serious. Thanx for your response.
Rtv03 3 years ago 2
Yes!!!
lockeglass 3 years ago
this is an important tip..i was just in this situation
krazzyyo2 4 years ago 3
Thanks.
arkady39 4 years ago
@krazzyyo2 Same for me man. I did both things. LOL.. this guy is becoming an answer to my prayers.
jasperpaws24 1 year ago
I´ll see your answer in your forum. thanks!
Tai02 4 years ago
Sure.
arkady39 4 years ago
Sound advice. Now what happens when you call again, that week or two later and she's still busy.
At that point, i'd say screw it, I tried, tell her to call me. Put the ball in her court. Whether she calls you back or not, you have your answer about her interest level.
You should do a vid on how to handle voicemail during these initial reactions.
bhuber77 4 years ago
Great point. Please elaborate on the content of the video about voice-mail and specific issues I should address.
arkady39 4 years ago
Hi arkady39! I would like to confirm a doubt that I have. When I´m dating a girl and I see that she is giving me signals of attraction, looking a bit longer to me... saying that i´m cute... not having problems of buying me a drink... should I try to kiss her right in the first date? And If so... how should I do it? should I touch her first or that doesn´t matter?
Tai02 4 years ago
did you have a chance to read my answer to this question on the forum?
arkady39 4 years ago
This is one of those tried and true tips, besides I hate waiting and expecting something to happen! I don't ever give my number out anyway, usually it's a sign she's not interested so I either get her number or I don't.
demonknight66698 4 years ago
....ahhhh...mmmmmm....I needed my drugs today..I'm good now..
artax2000 4 years ago
:) I hope other people know what you mean here. Thanks!
arkady39 4 years ago
I think this is some of the best advice on the net. Honestly arkady39, sound advice dude :)
yorae86 4 years ago 2
Thanks a lot. I appreciate it!
arkady39 4 years ago
Thanks for the advice.
Aren't girls even reluctant to make the call? I have female friends that bombard me with texts until I call them. I even had one text me with, "How come you never call me anymore?" She was almost acting as if she could only receive incoming calls. I don't ever ask the girl to call me anymore... maybe I just meet a particular type, but things don't ever work out in my favor.
blak000 4 years ago
Good point. Even when a girl is very interested in talking to a guy, she will have a problem calling him first for several reasons (ego, social norms, etc...)
arkady39 4 years ago