Zan Perrion - Body Language 3/3 - Eye Contact Secrets

[Skoglys]

<3 Zan...

[fedupx5900]

True naturals don't "calibrate".

[DeStRoTM]

@fedupx5900 Calibration is natural in everything you do in your life. Maybe you don't call it this way, but it is.

[yuabonuga]

If her's pupils are bigger she either likes you or she is high :D Great vids tho! you rule!

[QuoGirl]

So true!! you can't fake your attraction to another person. I've done that and it's SO annoying how the other person can really pick up on it... it's not like I'm trying to draw any attention at all... sometimes it's easy to tell... for me, I smile like crazy and I can't help it! I think that applies to anyone though. lol

[sozialeisolation]

why do all those kind of videos only concentrate on how to know if a woman is interested or not? what about mans? that´s really annoying!

[rickspa0974]

It wouldn't be the size of her pupils I'd be concentrating on !.... lol

[serumclx]

unless she was smoking weed

[flamingfuzzy]

I'm pretty sure that pupils dilate in fear as well

[92benno92]

Soo .. That's why candle light is so romantic? Hardy har.

[juanerotube13]

she has shown all these signs.

[SuckMyLeftOne13]

OR shes on drugs lol

[axedrecista]

He is dress like if he would does a magic trick

[bokiboy]

Zan Perrion and David Deangelo are the best. Thank you for posting.

[Thesunalwaysshines1]

So true!!!!

And Don`t forget Mystery!!! The best on a step by step method!!!

[RynoZ]

@Thesunalwaysshines1 I truly feel David Deangelo is the best because he is less methodical and teaches a more holistic version of the seduction techniques. Listening to Mystery may take me 10 days to understand and memorize all the subtle values he has to offer, but with Deangelo he sums it up quite well. It all depends on your learning preference.

[lavell12]

how the hell do you see someones pupils from across the room? lol

[Harzburgitic]

he said across the TABLE dummy

[Thesunalwaysshines1]

With a telescope!!!

[lowstress0]

you do it haha

[hckwlf]

ridiculous, you can tell this dude doesnt get any

[LSW1987]

absolute idiot. do your research first

[7geno]

iv never studied picking up women it came natural women usually try to talk to me

[unlished91]

hahahah really?

[rockandstroll]

Yeh right, and you just happen to be watching this video.

[dukkim80]

how can you see her pupil size from across the room? LOL

[Jaxzki]

you cant. So move closer and talk dammit :P

rofl

[thofos]

what if the person just so happens to be stoned out of their minds

[markclark5]

the lights go down, the pupils dialate to let more light in, or she's on LSD

[moviesandmusicBE]

hahaha lol or she's on LSD

[chrisahc]

I find it extremely difficult to look for these signs and follow the conversation. If I start looking for these signs I start ignoring what she's saying and the conversation starts to suck. I suck at multi-tasking to be honest.

[KingofZona]

after enough practice you'll be able to think more while you're doing the approach and become more aware of your body.

[lopytube]

Yeah I knew all this but my issue is eye contact without lookin like a cold convict lookin at a baby.lol.anybody ever feel that u have a stoneface conversation?

[SpyWhoLovedHimself]

loool

[28jul1821]

try to smile more often when giving the eyecontact

[hoytfan]

then try to put more expression on your face, like 28jul1821 said, smile

[Kharami888]

HI, you can do this...play with a month or two of tai chi or learn wing chuns wooden dummy sets of exercises. You can buy a book or a computer prograhm on brain training left and right hemisphers. while my spelling sucks currently I can use both hands or Multi task greatly due to my efforts...in training that is. besides things you say matter not as much as your masculine presance. eye contact, breathing rate... posture...you can do it and have fun...WIN bro win

[macioslaw5]

Wowowow, what did he said about table and blinking rate? :D

[nitch01]

Very helpful

[654321so]

is Zan in style's "the Game"..?

[haggisblad]

yeah there's an entire chapter on him where style calls him "...the undisputed heavyweight of the genre... in four years, he never once asked for advice, he only gave it."

[654321so]

u for real..only gave advice...thats somethin'...are you like a PUA or somethin'..Im just wonderin' are most of the PUAs in mainland US..cause..Im living in Hawaii and it seems like there arent much of PUAs around here...but theres a lot of pimps and hoes though..

[oooDuano]

You have got to be kidding me. I'm from norvegian lair and a frind of ours went to live in hawaii to study. He took RSD bootcamp in hawaii, 1 on 1 with Tyler from RSD and is in Hawaii lair. We hear allmost weekly of how they do PU in hawaii.

Seriously man. Make an effort to find guys from ASF in your community. They are there.

[jduke22]

Im from Hawaii. Who are these dudes?

[MomentRising]

Maybe they got eaten by sharks

[killthesmurfs52]

wow. nice set of videos! thanks.

[RugbyLiker]

Thank you so much for tha advises, wayofattraction

[fedupx5900]

Now all I need is a hot girl looking at me.

[b533419]

of course, if she has dilated pupils, it might just mean that she's high... which would probably make her easier to pick up anyway :P

[nikur]

lol

[Rebel2010]

lolol

[s0uus0uu]

sounds like rape 2 me cuz.

LOL

[rockkitson]

I don't know if this guy likes me. Is it normal for him to fix his hair while looking into my eyes? Or could it mean that he likes me? He also likes to kind of..punch me. Not a punch that would hurt, just a kind of tap on the arm.

[szhenya]

ha!

[killuminati2001]

yeah, he wants to bone u

[chesshole]

means he's nervous

[Kobeici]

I agree with this pua but, thats too AFC i think waiting for her to give u interests, you must in a way trigger this attraction and from there see any IOI"s and maybe SOI's. If she gives all those signs immediatly thats great, but a great player must know how to trigger it(C&F--Kino--) Making her laugh is a great weapon, he also forgot to mention that if a girl laughs at wtv u say, she's very confortable around you and prolly like you( In the circomstances of dating)

[thedirtydeltas]

The pupil thing can be deceptive due to where the light is, if you shine a torch into someones eyes there pupils get pretty small.

[Pranikki1]

Will HIS pupil's dilate too? or is it just a gal thing?

[totoforte]

I take pupil size growth as kino-escalation invitation :)

[Bobzeaux]

But that doesn't refute the idea of repetitive blinking being linked to nervousness. It's cute when women are a bit nervous/overwhelmed, but isn't it something that men would usually try to avoid?

[wayofattraction]

She can tell the difference between batting your eyelashes and nervous blinking, as the rest of your body language will back it up. If you are smiling and blinking a few times, she'll take it as a sign of attraction.

[Bobzeaux]

Do I really WANT to express signs of attraction though? In my experiences, even the most meager signs of attraction make whoever I'm trying to get closer to want to suddenly jump ship.

[nootact]

I can control the size of my pupils. I can only make them bigger, not smaller. They return to normal in a few moments after I shift off my focus from my pupils onto a task. So it's not impossible to fake and it might be possible to make them smaller.

[Bobzeaux]

Doesn't a higher blink rate mean you're nervous, meaning you're not confident, meaning that no woman will ever find you attractive in anyway whatsoever?

[wayofattraction]

Zan isn't talking about repetitive blinking, but a series of short blinks. Think of the classic female eyelash batting technique. Same idea.

[tantaliz303d]

Yea, context is probably the biggest thing to consider when reading ANY body language. It starts to get easy once you have some experience though.

[Alexsteen]

I have a question. What is Zan's upcoming DVD called. I bought his Enlightened Seduction Series and yes, his body language is superb, he exhibits an easy grace with his movements and voice. BUT, he doesn't exactly teach US how to develop that... There are no exercises, routines, openers or anything in the DVD.

[tantaliz303d]

Watch and Learn, dude :)

[Smidjal]

what the hell ?? PUPIL size? it might be based on a fact, but how the hell can i see the pupils if we had eye contact that isnt on a very close range. in addition, staring at the pupil size will be like i forgot all about her, and now i am focusing on the size of that pupil... WEIRD and wrong ideas for such social matters.

[totoforte]

If you start doing it, at first will seem akward but later you will notice you will do it naturally, and start noticing the pupil size without actually concentrating on it :)

[styx85]

Heh, be sure to take the light level in the room into consideration when considering her pupil size. In a dark room, every pupil is big :P