SHUT UP GEORGE! lol. sorry i just thought that part was funny. but seriously these vids r very serious. its good 2 try 2 talk to someone, but u need to get serious help on things like @balletbaby89.
Im 13. And I think i might be turning bi-sexual..i dont want to be but, one night ,a few months ago i stayed and my best friends house(like i do every weekend for 2 years).
And the night we were in her bed just talking, and it lead to more than talking. ever since that night, we do the same things ever time i spend the night,. its really awkward tho? like im confused. i dontt know what to do/ think!!?! please help.!,
@sexilexi123ish what i would say is that only if you are having true feeling for that person and not if you're just doing it because its the right moment or whatever, you may turn up to be bi, or gay, but just let your heart guide but 13 is like a phase age so it may pass especially if there are no feelings just actions
Dear buck my name is almanzo and i had a boyfriend called john and im gay and he was gay and one night he was talking to me saying how he had a new boyfriend and i was crying alnight long trying to make him not go and he leaved me on the bed crying and he was like 15 and im 10 but anywas the next day he comes to my house saying hes sorry but then in 3 weeks later he says he hates me again and then i start thinking hes cheating on me what do i do to make him tell me if he loves me for real
@supermarioteam100 this is kind of upsetting :/ he DOESNT love you sweetie, he is playing games with your mind. you are 10 years old, embrace the innocence while its within reach, and ditch the 15 year old heart breaker :) <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 *cyber hug*
@amnehzm good f*cking idea CUZ I ALREADY DID :D he kind of went crazy on my ass for doing it but i dont give a shit cuz i got the f*ck away at last :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD F*CK HIM :)
@supermarioteam100 he might be confused but 10 and fifteen is a HUGE differencee, when you are still kids , not even developed yet i would suggest move on and forget about it
@balletbaby329 Use the resources in your town, seriously, there are social workers that deal with this kind of thing. (I know because I want to become one). Talk to a childrens aid group and set up a meeting with both them AND the parents and tell them together. That way the parents have to react inside a controlled situation and the childrens aid/authorities will be there and informed if anything happens.
@ByeFlyGirl there was really no need to tell them to calm the fuck down. Or as you said it "CALM THE FUK DOWN". If that message was to help someone, you need to be more sympathetic...and learn how to spell. I couldn't understand half of what that said. You have to try to put yourself in their place. Think about how YOU would feel, and then try to help them.
@InvaderZim32097 Again that was just my personal opinion on the situation and the advice I wanted to give so I stand by everything I said. If you want to give your own "sympathetic" advice then be my guest. And in regards to the spelling comment, I know perfectly well how to spell and would have done so had it not been for the fact that Youtube doesn't allow comments over 500 characters, which my comment was untill I had to shorten it by using the incorrect grammar and spelling.
@InvaderZim32097 Also sometimes when people feel like they are going through a hard time they need to be told to calm the fuck down so they can put things into perspective. I understand that she is feeling low and she needs time to be upset but in her message it sounded like she has been upset for a long time. She needs to move on and focus on herself for a while and realise that (as I said previously) there are SO much worse things happening in this world.
I love him so much, in so many different ways, and it would kill me to see my best friend upset. I know I acted like a ***** to him, and I was being very unfair, but it was so out of the blue. I didn't expect it at all, and I had SEX with him! I didn't mean to act like a *****, and I feel horrible, I just don't know what to do. Thank you so so so much for reading all of this. I know it is long, but I don't know what to do.
@Squirmer1000 Ok 1st of all CALM THE FUK DOWN. STOP cuttin urself an hatin urself an feelin lyk an idiot coz u didnt noe. Not evry1 whos gay has it written on their forehead. I understand how u feel bout him but u need 2 STOP finking that way bout him coz as u sed urself, he is not a suitable partner 4 u. Focus on lovin urself an b open 2 findin new ppl. SERIOUSLY u need 2 put fings into perspective ppl hav 2 deal wit a lot worse things in this world so u shud count urself lucky. Keep ur chin up
@ByeGirlFlyGirl that message would've been more helpful or more heartfelt if you didnt say "calm the fuck down" and if you had actually used proper grammar and spelling. :P
@14Mailin Well that was just my personal opinion on the situation and the advice I wanted to give so I stand by everything I said. If you want to give your own "helpful" or "heartfelt" advice then be my guest. And in regards to the "proper grammar and spelling" comment, I would have used it had it not been for the fact that Youtube doesn't allow comments over 500 characters, which my comment was untill I had to shorten it by using the incorrect "grammar and spelling".
I fully support each and every one of them, including my best friend, but I feel so differently about it because he is my best friend and I love him. I want him to be mine forever, and I know that can't happen, but I just can't help it.
I really need advice on how to handle myself, because I have been a shitty best friend in my reaction, the way I am going to deal with it, and the way I should act. I don't want to offend him or make him mad.
It was obvious now that I think about it! I wanted to cut myself, and kill myself, and I still do. He said that I am his best friend and that he loves me more than anyone and that he would do ANYTHING for me and that I am the most important person to him. I do not hate gay people, and I do not think that they are "gross."
solace, but... I'm gay." I FREAKED out and hyperventilated and cried, and he said that it was okay that I reacted like that and that he wasn't mad, but for the rest of the night I could barely talk, breathe, move, or anything. I was crying and then I was screaming, angry at myself for being so stupid, as in how the hell could I have not known???!!!
him, yet I still hope and wish that I will be. I would wish for it every time I got an eyelash or it was 11:11. I really wanted to marry him someday. We have absolutely EVERYTHING in common. We are like the same person, only different genders.
Anyway, last night we were walking his dog, and he came out to me. I was getting upset that he had ended our relationship, and it has been bothering me for months, and so he said something like, "I don't know if this is worse, or if it will provide any so
unhealthy and that he wasn't attracted to me anymore and that he didn't have feelings for me anymore. I was obviously incredibly upset, and I still am. I had sex with him!
Anyway, we were still best friends, spending much of our time together, but I couldn't help loving him. I love him so much. Anyway, he knows that I do, and I still tell him that sometimes, a lot, which I probably shouldn't do. So last night I was at his house for a sleepover. I was getting really upset because I can't be with
as well,) and I loved him, and he said that he loved me. Then, in February, a few days before Valentine's day, he "broke up" with me. We are BEST friends, and we have been since third grade (we are juniors now,) and we spend most of our time together. We are absolute best friends. I, however, started getting really jealous when he would hang out with his other friends (the majority of whom are girls.) I would get really jealous and cry a lot. He ended our relationship saying that it was unhealt
Thank you so much for reading this an I hope it gets thumbs so you will answer it. I really need advice. This summer, my best friend and I had sex. We were in love, or so I thought, as I loved him more than anything and I still do. I am madly in love with him. Anyway, he said that he loved me, too, and we were both ready. We lost our virginities to each other and there was not an ounce of regret. We had sex two more times over the course of around five months (we fooled around and ma
,,the second problem is I am just going to turn 18 and have a six year old brother ,,I won't take help or let him see his or my family as they are not good people in general ,,I'm scared because I don't want to give up my entire life and future but have to it seems for my bro I love them both derly and am being torn apart ,as this isn't really a question I'm srry I had to vent :) --taysha
Dear buck ,idk if you'll see this but I just got the news today that my mom is going to get a surgery that the doctors have been postponing because she has a bad heart don't think she will make it through ,,I am 90% sure that she isn't going to make it and this is breaking my heart --continued
Im 13 and a girl, and this boy i like told me i was beautiful and was flirting with me for a long time. I said that i liked him and he said that he liked me too, i told my friend after this happened and she spread a rumor that me and the boy were going out. Somehow this got back to him and i was so embarrassed now all his friends called me a desperate loser. I asked him again to see if he liked me but then he said "we're good friends" but i think i still like him, i'm really not sure!
For the ballet teacher, i would recommend that you contact either the police or a psychologist. Talk to them about what is going on between the father and daughter and then the daughter and the young boy. See how they think you should proceed. I don't think you can solve this on your own. Please find a professional you can talk to about this situation. I think you should do this before you approach either other families so you can make sure you are doing the right thing. good luck & be careful!
Dear Buck, I am a 15 year old boy and i am madly in love with one of my friends. But there are some problems, i havent seen her in almost a year and we go to completely different schools and churchs and my parents dont let me date. I really want her to know how i feel but it doesnt seem right to tell her through text or over the phone or facebook. Ive resently had the idea to make a comic book which story line expresses my feeling since i have some drawing skill. PLEASE respond!!!!
Dear buck i really need your help im in love with my bestfriend who is also my ex boyfriend iv asked him out and he sed no but he also sed he loves me we flirt all the time and he makes it clear he likes me but when i ask him out he always ses 'no but i am in love with you' im so confused i want to be over him but he makes me happier than iv ever been plz help how do i get him back ?????
@bekkihalle i think you need to be totally straightfoward with him, and be like, "if you love then why are u doing this to me??? u say u love me but u dont want to go out, give me a reason" and if his reason is bullshit then u rlli ned to cut him out of ur life, bc there are plenty of ppl out there who would appreciate your love and would love u back, he is obviously not worth all this trouble if he gives u this much pain, i hope this helps, I CAN SYMPATHIZE!! GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!
My name is anika. I'm 11 years old. I have lots of problems. I feel fat in school and am made fun of by my peers. I cant do home work beacuse i cant focus. PLEASE HELP ME!
@Ihatemath55 Okay, sorry that your comment is 4 months old already lol You have to look up videos on how to learn to love your body. I used to hate my body when I was around your age and now I don't care what others think. Trust me, you are beautiful! Don't ever believe what those rude people are telling you. You need to learn to ignore what they say. Don't give in to what they say because that's the reason they're bullying you. They like to get a reaction out of you.
For the second one, I think she should keep quiet about the sex with that boy because that could make the situation worse with the parents and she should report the parents to social services x
My name is Danielle. Nothing has been going right for almost two months. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. My mom was hospitalized, but she's at home now. My dog Nell is having stomach problems so I have to stay up with her 4 nights a week. Now I'm having an ECG, CAT scan and blood work. I know happiness is a choice, but one thing after another pops up and it's hard not to cry all the time at school. Please help.
My name is Alex and I'm 17 (junior in HS) and I've been having strong feelings for a friend of mine for what feels like nine months. I love her a lot,and she rocks my world. But recently,she's been talking about a friend from England she likes a lot. (and I jsst found out today they started dating) I keep saying her happiness is my happiness,but idk it still hurts. Should I just try to get over her (if so,how) or should I wait like I have been (and failing) and hope for the best? :\
my name is Samantha, and my problem is that i just cnt get over the guy i like, but the worst part is he is my best friend, plus i have been in the same situation before and it was a very painful and heartbreaking experience, the guy i like has a girlfriend and i need help please, it is so stressful, i my chest hurts when i think about him because i care so much, i have gone to see the psychologist in my school and she has not been any help to me. ANYBODY OR BUCK PLEASE HELP! LOVE YOU
@xosammiisammox i know its horrible isnt it and im not gunna tell you to get over him because its really hard iv been trying to get over my ex for 3 years he's also my best friend what i do it take the battry out of my phone and seperate it from the rest of my phone so im not tempted to text him just stupid stuff like that if the boy has a girlfriend destroy her ! (awful advise dont listen to me)
@bekkihalle thanks, but its not like that, im in schol with him, and i see him everyday, i dont have a cellphone that i can feel like im disconnecting myself form him, and he like me being around, i didnt see him for a full two days as a kind of detox and it was just more heartacheing to see him the third day because he was like o i missed u where were u, i needed u. and it was so sweet but i ended up right where i left off, and we walk to almost every class together bc we have similar schedules
Dear Buck, one of my friends started ignoring me and it really hurts because we used to be great friends. Whenever I speak, she either ignores me or makes snide comments. I don't know why, but I have don't want to sacrifice myself and distance myself from everyone in the group, but I think the girl who is ignoring me is going through a hard time and if I join the group, she will leave it and in this point of time, she needs support. Should I leave or stay?
Recently I have broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months. But since the beginning of the year i've liked this other guy. The problem is that he is going off to college at the end of this year and his friends don't like me. I'm 14. we really like each other but he sees no point in trying to make a relationship happen. Recently he said "i might need a date to prom" he hasn't officially asked me but he has implied that he wants to take me.
Im 12 and my older brother just left for the army he is 23 and my other brother is in a relationship with a girl who has tried to kill herself and him and their child (she was still prego with the baby) I love both brothers but never see them and now that their gone im remembering the past more and more.we dont share a dad but my dad addopted them both but when i was little i remember them always fighting.i love them all and i feel like im going insane.please help much love-LJW
Im 12 and my older brother just left for the army he is 23 and my other brother is in a relationship with a girl who has tried to kill herself and him and their child (she was still prego with the baby) I love both brothers but never see them and now that their gone im remembering the past more and more.we dont share a dad but my dad addopted them both but when i was little i remember thgem always fighting.i love them all and i feel like im going insane.please help much love-LJW
I'm 13 years old, and I know that sounds a bit young, but I would really like a boyfriend. I've never had one before. I can be a bit awkward while talking to people i don't know very well sometimes, but I have a few close friends who I am very talkative to. I love shopping and technical stuff, and I live in central bedfordshire, england. Please mention me in your next video of dear buck. Ta! x
There's this girl I know at school who moved from another town and started at my school about a year ago. I went up to her that day to see what she was like, but I didn't like her that much. She was too quiet, smug, and a baby. The thing is, all this time she has been thinking that we're best friends just because of that day. For the past year she has been following me and my friends and this kind of annoys me. If I tell her to give me space she cries. What should I say to her?
My dad died last year and my mom is already dating. The boyfriend she has now moved in with us last month. When she is gone he hits me and makes sexual advances towards me. Even if she is there he calls me hurtful things and touches me inappropriately. She says she loves him and knows I don't like him so she might think I am lying if i told her. I'm only 13 and scarred for my life. What do I do?
I'm fifteen and I love being in theatre at my school, but there's this guy a few years older who's always in the plays and he keeps hitting on me. He comes up to me and asks if he can buy me lunch and stuff, and he seems sort of sweet but I've known him for a while and he's not. When I was really young, like eight, he kept trying to convince me to have sex with him, and I knew to say no, but it came pretty close to rape. How am I supposed to get him to stop getting up in my face? :P
My dad was just fired from his job. I know my family will be fine, even if it means I have to sacrifice a year of college and get a job to help out. My problem is his company, which he spent 18 years working for, was unjust in firing him. The best way I can describe the situation is that they shot first and asked questions later, hurting me and my three younger siblings. I can't seem to get over the bitter feelings. I know I need to move on, but I don't know how. Please help.
Dear buck, I'm a 13 year old gay boy and I have a problem. I am out to a few of my friends and I don't know if I should come out to the rest of my school. Also, I applied for private school and got in but my school is pretty good but the private school is better. I want to go to the private school but I have a bunch if close friends at my school now so I don't know which to chose. Also how do I find out if this guy I like is gay? Thank you and you are awesome.
For Ballet.... She needs to contact social services. The 10 yr old my be a product of sexual abuse at home, hints why she is open to it more at her age... You need to contact social services, and open a case about the bruises, and the sexual abuse. Ask the girl if she wants to tell her parents, and wait for the reaction and the tears. She is in a bad place.... help her get out.
I'm a 16yo girl with a strange problem. I've never been on a date before, but that's not the issue; the issue is that I've never been on a date BECAUSE almost every guy I've ever liked has been gay. Recently I met this guy; he just got out of a two year relationship with a girl and he says he likes me romantically, but I REALLY feel he's closeted. If he asks me out do I risk being hurt again? I really like him, but I feel like there's a good chance he's using me as a cover.
This may seem a little out of context, but I just love the cartoon version of you, Buck. It really just makes me happy and laugh. It just shows your bright personality.
My name is SHneha. Recently i was on my computer and i stumbled upon some downloaded porn. There are about 10-12 videos which i saw and immediately deleted. My mom's travelling alot and me and my little sister stay with my dad. So i'm pretty sure its his. He's not a creep or anything. Actually, he's my favorite parent and loves me alot and i always go to him for advice. I just think its really out of character for him and i was wondering if its normal for normal dad's to watch porn?
Im a guy who is 14 bisexual, but leaning more towards men. I've come out to a couple of my friends, but none of my family members yet. Some of the people in my school can tell I'm gay or bi. I want to have a boy friend but terrified of coming out and people telling everyone my business (sister in same school), because I think high school would be terrible. I want my family to know the true me, & I want to be comfortable in my own skin. What should I do?
My friend has low self esteem and just got out of a depression. She and i have been growing apart (i dont remember the last time i hugged her or had more than a few sentences in one of our conversations), but she is my only friend (she has a group she hangs out with sometimes). I dont really want to be friends with her anymore, and last year i was friendless and found it very peaceful and actually nice. How do i tell her this? I dont want her to hate me. plz help
I grew up with a mother that taught me that relationships and men are evil, and have never been able to have a legitimate relationship because of it. I've had five relationships so far (all of them having lasted two weeks or less) and am seventeen. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted a month, but I'm starting to sabotage it. Could you give me a little relationship advice, because I seriously like this guy, and he seriously likes me.
@DclaireTheWinner Hey Anastasia, I totally get the whole 'sabotaging relationships' thing, I do that a lot. I think what you should do is a) Talk to your guy about this, maybe he can help you to not sabotage it and can get you through this, and b) Think about what it is you do to sabotage relationships and try your hardest to avoid doing these things. This problem may not be relevant to you any more, as you posted it 3 months ago, but if it is, I hope that helps. *Cyberhugs* (: Chloe
i think the teacher should report the underage sex to, like the police or something. I mean when you're ten you shouldn't be sexually active and if your parents make it seem like that's okay it NEEDS to be reported.
My mother is WAY too over protective and racist. She doesn't like me having friends, she doesn't like me going out she doesn't like me doing anything. I'm 13 and I'm not allowed to go out by myself without my brother, and I can't stand him. I understand that I'm young to go out by myself but I still can't stand NOT having friends, I can't stand my mother's talking to herself too, so please could you tell my how I could deal with my mother???
@thewarriorhuntress aww i think you should tell her that you're old enough to make your own decisions and she's not being fair at all. hope that helped ;)
well i think you should tell balle teacher to talk to the girl herself cause obviously telling the parents will mess things up. i guess the teacher should try and get through to her herself.
Dear Buck Im 13 and my friend has been wanting to kill herself. Its been going on for awhile now and she evn cuts herself but wen she telling me y she does it all the story changes evrytime. Like her family tell her mean things like" ur trash, evry1 hates u, kill urself, nobody would care" but they throw her a big party, take her 2 a concert, & protect her from bullies. I want 2 believe evrything she says, cuz it sounds real but idk its fishy. What should i do? Please help Ashyln
I am 14. Years old and live in a stable home my problem is that my father is very embarrassing and over protective I am not allowed to use my phone , iPod etc. past 10pm and he will often bring up topics about me in front of my friends that I would rather my friends not hear about I have tried talking to him but he takes it as a joke or that I am
Being disrespectful and when I tried to talk to my mom but she says it's just his
Personality and that it is normal behavior for a father I
Dear Buck; HELP ME THIS REALLY IS URGENT! I just got asked out by my crush who ive liked for ovr 2 yrs a few weeks ago. We've been doing good until some rumors went around the school saying tht he asked me out because of a bet, he only asked me out because people thought he was gay, and the big one "He and his friend have a bet to see who can have a relationship longest". I asked him about it and he denied it. Now my best friend is making me choose between then and I dnt know wat 2 do. HELP!
Dear Buck; HELP ME THIS REALLY IS URGENT! I just got asked out by my crush who ive liked for ovr 2 yrs a few weeks ago. We've been doing good until some rumors went around the school saying tht he asked me out because of a bet, he only asked me out because people thought he was gay, and the big one "He and his friend have a bet to see who can have a relationship longest". I asked him about it and he denied it. Now my best friend is making me choose between then and I dnt know wat 2 do. HELP!
for the ballet baby i would try and talk 2 the young girl about the situation...maybe she needs for someone 2 reach out 2 her & having sex w/ the older boy is her way of possibly "crying out for help"....i think 2 start w/ just try & talk w/ her & let her kno that if she needs something or if she needs u that u're there for her & if u feel like the situation worsens or she doesn't come 2 u & u still feel the same about the whole thing then take it 2 the authorities. hope i helped :D
hi my name is Dawn i just got into a relationship with a black kid... the only problem about this is that my parents are kinda racist in a way that they don't want me dating black kids and i want to tell them that i'm dating him because i reallly like him but i'm afraid of what they will end up saying about him or about me dating him pleasseee help.
My name is Alyssa. I've been in a very complicated on and off relationship-type thing for 2 years and 10 months now. I'm head-over-heels in love with this girl, but lately things are different and she seems very uninterested. She tells me that it's only because she's finishing up school, and is trying to focus, so that she can give me all her attention. The thing is, she dates other girls, but yells at me if she even suspects that I'm talking to someone else. What do I do?
@Shawnquindaoreo Wow that's tough. I would move on. If shes dating other girls and won't really talk to you then,don't waste another minute of your life with her.
The girl i love is in a relationship and she's about to have a baby. When it all started she was going steady with the guy but she decided to start talking to me in a "more than a friend way". We've been in this secret relationship for about 2 years now and we're closer than ever before. She's not happy being with the baby daddy and wants to be with me but because she thinks its best for the baby to be raised with her father and her family, so she stays. What should I do? PLEASE HELP!
My name is Meagan I'm 19 years old and i have two best friends. we get along really good, but now my one best friend got a boyfriend and now we fight more then we used too. we planed on getting a place together before he was in the picture. and now they are together he is moving in too. do you think it would be a bad idea to move in ? and one more thing all their parents are all for us moving in together but mine are okay with it but not as happy as their parents. what should i do?
DearBuck, I'm 14.One of my bestfriends(18)has a badsituation at home,where his olderbrother beats his family,abuses his girlfriend,drinks,(among other things)when he's only 20.He'sgone at his mother witha knife,and tried to kill myfriend by strangling him.LastSaturday,my friendtold me his brother had another meltdown and nearly attacked him.My friendsaid his parents don't want to send their son to jail,but I hate seeing my friend in pain.Should I keepout of their business or do something? ~Sarah
Dear Buck, My best friend is changing. When she is in a good mood, we can talk about anything-laugh a ton or talk about serious issues. She's trying way too hard to be mature. We're both middle schoolers and she's desperate for a boyfriend. Plus, she has a friend who she's known since preschool. I find the friend to be REALLY slutty. After they hang out, she doesn't act like herself. She wants to move far away, but I don't want her to, I love her company when she's herself. Do I stay friends?
@fantastifical I had a friend that was similar to your friend. At first we were close and could talk about anything. Then she'd always get mad at me and she acted depressed, saying she wanted to move to a diffrent state with her mom because she hated life in Indiana.She never moved, but we stopped being friends.I encourage you to try and work it out the best you can. When my friend and I stopped being friends, it becaue awkward hanging around bc we have the same group of friends.I hope I helped.
I look at the problems these poor people have, and I know I don't compare, but I NEED NEED NEED you help. I am dating a guy whos parents wont let him grow up. I'm 13 and we haven't kissed or anything. I cuss a lot, a habit I'm trying to break, and one time we were on skype and I blew him a kiss. His mom caught it, and flipped out! He's older than me! I'm bored, because he totally isolates himself from me. What do I do?
@ZanyZoey It's obvious you bro does give two licks about anybody, but himself. It's a common problem with older siblings who have nothing going for them and it's obvious your parents have no idea how to handle it, so you need to step up. You need to get your parents and some other family members/friends, get a plan in order and get him. You need to set down some rules: Either he gets a job, goes back to college or leaves. You should not have to pay for his BS.
Ok for Danny, GTFO DUDE! Do it before you end up like all the other abused! For the teacher, sit down with the little girl and call the police right now. There is something wrong here! Ok Kate, if he knows how u feel and then dates someone he knows u hate, dump his ass like a cold bucket of water. Bubble, maybe u need to start hanging around more people. U've grown up of the past 3 years, so many you need more people around.
Hey buck, Ok so its not a big problem, infact its proabably minor compared to the others i've read, not gonna lie, anyway ( if you could not mention my youtube name that would help, as a few people i know watch so i dont wanna risk it for a biscuit if you get me ) im 16, and up untill now i thought i was straight, had a few boyfs and all that shizzle, but i dont know, recently i thought i might be bi? how do i know for sure :/ ? i dont fancy girls as much as guys but ... i dunno :P PMSL xxx
i think, that teacher who caught them to should speak to the kids and tell them what they were doing was wrong, because it might be awkward but surely if she told the parents word would get back that it was her who said something in the first place, and who knows the child might appreciate your help, you could recomend councelling for her problem at home, hope that helps :) xx
I am a 13 year old girl and there is a boy who is the same age as me that is stalking me. He texts and calls and messages me constantly. He told me he wrote two songs about me and he sent me the lyrics to one of them. Honestly, it scared me. He also told me he has had re-occurring dreams about me, in which we are in a field and he is chasing me, then there is a flash and I am gone, then he looks down and sees my dead body. Nothing i do makes him stop. Please help me. Love, Jess
@2laugh2love2live Girl, u need to alert the authorities or tell your parents or even tell a teacher. He is obviously not right in the head and the sooner you alert someone, the better chance you have he won't hurt you. It's never ok for someone to be this crazy about you when you don't want it.
@2laugh2love2live obviously the guy is obssesed with you so if it does get worse talk to youre parentsand make them talk to his parents and work something out and if not get a restraingng order against him , just delete him from your contacts and tell him if he keeps talking or texting you will call the police. he seems dangerous of where if youre alone with him he probably will do something bad to you :) sorry for whats happening to you
@HolaImBadAtSpanish put it in your head that you're better than him, that he's the bitch. If he wants to degrade you for being a girl you gotta let him know that he's your bitch, not the other way around. Just work that confidence girl. Even if you are still hurt by it you can't let him see that cuz that's what he wants. Acting confident eventually makes you confident.
@averymeg10 maybe just go to a friend's house when things get out of hand. Somewhere other than there so your father realizes that he is driving his family away. So maybe just like refuse to be anywhere near him when he's like that and say you'll come back when he's sober.
Dear Buck, I NEED YOUR ADVICE! I told my friend something I never told anyone. He was good about it at first. He tried 2 help me out. When I brought it up again I could tell he was annoyed & mad @ me. We just stopped talking & I think he hates me 4 bringing it up. It's been 2 months. Should I contact him & just ask if he totally hates me? I really miss him cause I don't have anyone else close 2 me. I wanna go back 2 how we were before.
Dear Buck, my names Megan and my dad has drinking problems and it's tearing my family apart emotionally, I don't want him gone but it's a bad problem because he becomes like a monster but he's not a bad person but he's failed every chance we've given him to change his ways. I cry every time he drinks too much and it embarrasses me, I've told him it bothers me and my parents fight about it all the time, I know there's not much I can do but a little advice would be nice. I luv you and your show,
@Averymeg10 You need to know that there are many, many families out there that are being and have been torn apart by drinking. Parents who drink, 9 times out of 10, don't care who they hurt when they are drinking as long as they feel good. Alcoholism is one of the worse addictions out there. What you need to do is stop giving him chances. Instead you need to stand up to him and tell him that it won't be tolerated anymore, not by you or your family. It doesn't matter what he says.
I've got a bit of a boy problem, but I'm not in love with him like boy problems seem to go. Quite the opposite. This boy is a pig and things a girls as peices of ass. He also starts 'shit'. I'm writing to you because he started stuff with me. He said really mean things to me for no reason like calling me a bitch and other words. Things like that have been said to me before so I don't know why it bugs me so much. My bestfriend tells me to forget it but I can't seem to. Help?
@HolaImBadAtSpanish, your choice really what you want to do. Ignoring is a nice passive way of doing things. You can always aggress in some way. (a really calculated verbal assault or something more physical) or find someone in power over him, if at school some teacher, the right type of admin and tell them that he is harassing you. First its best to tell him directly "I dont like how you say___" so he has the warning and then people in power can go about their marry way and enforce.
@HolaImBadAtSpanish This is what I like to call "Asshole-ism" This boy chose you for no reason what so ever. He just needed a target. It's understandable that you want to ignore him, but if it's hurting you, then you need to tell someone. An adult, usually a teacher or parent, is a good choice. You need to explain to them that he is calling you undesirable things and that they have to make him stop. Ignoring him or trying to talk back has not worked. U need some adult help.
@Gaarakunsgurl Thanks for the adivce, but I've never been much of a tattle. I'm a sophomore in highschool and I feel like I'm a little older than that. And at the end of the class that the boy said those things to me, he said something around the lines of "You're not gonna tell on me are you? Cause I don't wanna get in trouble for stupid shit." And he does it to everyone, I just can't seem to help feeling weird when he's around me, like he's gonna lash out at me. Intimidating kind of.
@HolaImBadAtSpanish Sadly, that's the problem. He claims he doesn't want to get in trouble for stupid shit, yet he continues to open his mouth and say stuff like that. He can act that way all he wants, however one day, he's gonna get a nasty surprise when someone takes it the wrong way. I understand the unwritten "Don't snitch" rule, however u r a sophomore now and u should expect the teachers to understand what is wrong and help. They might not "fix" him, but they can do something
You can always contact child protective services in your state. Google "child protective services" and your state name and you should be able to find the website. You can leave an anonymous report and it will be in their hands. Their goal is not to take children away from their home but they want to assist the family (like providing parenting classes). I really do urge you to make a report as soon as possible
My name is dani i am 18 years old and go to university in Vancouver and i have a huge problem. My family has me and my younger brother whos only 11 and my parents have raped him and beat him. i reported them to social servies and he has been moved to a foster family near my school. the problem is my mom and dad live in vancouver to and i am scared that if i talk to them or try and keep contact they will try and kill me or hurt me hope you can help and put this in a video <3 <3 <3 <3
@movielover2468 The problem is that you want to keep in contact correct? But why? You said so yourself that they beat and raped your sibling, so why do you want a relationship? What you need is to stay away and, if necessary, get a restraining order. They seem to be sick in the head if they would beat and rape an 11 yr old boy.
Dear Buck (or anyone) I am 13 and i have a 15 year old sister.The problem is she does not go to school she refuses to get up in the morning . she always says she is too tired. since she does not go to school it stresses my whole family out. i need help ! im miserable every time she does not get up and go to school. !
Dear Buck, I am in a great interracial relationship and have been for 4 months. The only problem is that his mom thinks he should only date white girls because black girls are "ghetto". Everyone that knows me knows that I am not the stereotypical black girl. She found out last night and things went bad. She's selling his car, taking his phone and computer away, and making sure he gets to school with enough time to get there and leave. We're both 18. How am I supposed to handle never seeing him?
Dear Buck, a lad I never thought of in that way recently told me he liked me. Hes very smart funny and cute and after he said he liked me I began to like him back. Thing is he's had a bad reputation with girls such as cheeting on them and then showering with other girls. We talk every night and he's told me things I doubt hes ever told anyone before such as an abusive past. I don't know whether to trust him and give him a go or try and forget about him PLEASE HELP
@hanlizzy, ya he could be playing mind games with you and be a real douche or actually be honest and very insecure. i'd advise to be supportive and build a friendship off of something.
maybe he sounds really convincing and maybe it is all true. just think if you put yourself out so far, and he turns out to be the douche then is that hurt really worth and how much he hurt you - are you ready for that. this is something you can only really answer for yourself.
Dear buck, I have a really good friend who was like my brother and were really close. A couple days ago we were drinking together and I passed out drunk. When I woke up my panties were off but pj pants were back on.. He said rest assured nothing happened.. Thing is I'm dating his beat friend and cousin for over a year now and I want to tell my bf but don't know if I should.. Any suggestions?.. Anyone? >;
@itsukikun, if you keep nothing from your current boyfriend then ya i guess tell him so. maybe just best to leave it be and let the whole thing pass over. if it was only you and your close friend (brother figure) who were drinking then I dont think any harm is done if you trust him.
shit does get complex then alcohol is added into the equation.
Dear buck, I am thirteen and more reserved. I really like a boy. We get along great but his past girlfriends have all been sluts and I'm not one. I've tried to get over him and I can until I ever have to close to him for some reason. I really want him to like me but I don't want to turn into a slut to do it. I don't want it to be the only way for it to happen, what should I do?
@annkather. just a guess but this boy is similar age to you as well as his past girlfriends.
if thats the case, I doubt 'slut' can really be applied to anyone that young. Mostly because they are still developing sexually and thats a real young age to even have some definitive intent with what they do with their bodies. Maybe they are 'acting' like sluts but I have a real hard time to believe they could be consider sluts. just be friends and maybe in time that grow into a relationship.
hi i'm 13 and this year my mom was diagnosed with cancer. my parents are divorced and my sister is at collage so its just me and her at home, and i have been doing worse in school because i have to take care of her and it been really stressful and i feel so alone sometimes and i don't know what to do. by the way i love you!
I have a guy I really really really really really (you get the point) like, or maybe even love. And he knows that. He keeps confusing me, he said he doesnt love me, than he told me if I was older he'd date me, he also said when im older he might not date me. we are 5 1/2 years apart. Everyone seems okay with us, and such. But i'm not aloud to date yet. I'm only 12, and Hes 17. Its hard, but he's special andl ike a best friend.
@youownmyheartyouknow, just a guess but hes concerned about the age of consent and statutory rape. (even in the USA, laws vary per state). Sometime laws ruling this can permit such a age difference but often the law is not in your favor here.
Now what you choose to do is your choice. a 5 year difference at your age is huge in most cultures. Once you get older it not looked on a such a big deal. You can always be friends with him if he doesnt want to date you.
@dragade101 well, I live in Canada. and I really like this guy. and we are friends, for now. : ) I just kind of feel like something changed between us lately, I just want to figure out what...He is amazing, If I had one word to discrib him it would be 'amazing'
heey, hmm, im confused lol im 14 and i have had one boyfriend before in life but im sort of atracted to one of my best girl friends, and i dont wanna try anything because i love her ina friend way but i am curious to find out if i like it or not ... should i or should i not try ? pleeease helpe, me
Dear Buck and all of the viewers, I am a 17 year old boy , I am tormented 'cause of my Homosexuality, I want a to learn a way to man up and be straight,.
This is not a disgrace toward Gays, it's just that my country here doesn't "accept" people like me, if anyone has any method or a way for me to get rid of this false desires I'd really appreciate it.
@hadse999 i don't think its a false desire sweetie, u should just accpet ur self, hide it for a while if u have too, but go away from ur country, cause if u cant be urself, why would u want to stay there anyways ?
@lilianperes97 It is, and if I don't want to be gay that's my decision, it's just so gross and unmanly to be that.
Men are for women and vise versa, that's what common sense say, and I love my country and will never accept any other country that it, and if you can help me, please do, thank you.
@hadse999 this is late answerbut 1. you can grow to love women, take your closest woman friend and find things you like about her, and just concentrate on her remind yourself of things you like of her 2. Have you tried religion, sorry if this is offensive, but try Christianity. If you REALLY believe that God will change your thoughts, he may. just study the Bible, and pray constantly. If it doesnt work, He did anser the prayer, just didnt say yes, and there is a reason. dont giveup faith, please
the third one would be just to acccept yorself, its not impossible to love women, but it most likely will not come easily dont give up, if you are really determined to "become straight" but leave room for an unsuspected outcome
@gwen2110 Do you know how disgusted I feel when I'm a 17 years old who likes men in their 40s?! I just want to like girls, it just doesn't feel right to love men to me.
@hadse999 that sounds bad, you sound like you really hate being gay and that should give you alot of determination to keep trying. dont force yourself to be with a woman all suddenly, it takes time try not to think about all the down sides of a person youre trying to get to know. think of all the good things, and how much you like those characteristics, and dont remind yourself that you are trying not to be gay, remind yourself that you are trying to help yourself, do it for you
Dear buck, im 14 and i have a girlfriend of 3 years who i've kept a secret from my family. I kept her a secret because i met her on the internet, but i now know her in real life and i couldn't be happier. Me and my girlfriend were talking about the 2012 death conspiracy, and i asked her to promise me to marry me in the future and she said yes. I asked so early just in case the 2012 thing is true. How do i break the news to my parents that im engaged to a person they don't know? HELP ME please
@narxhin4ever this is a late reply, but if you havent already, i wouldnt really tell them, for the fact that it's illegal, and the other fact that they have said the world was going to end soooooooo many times, and no human being on the earth today can tell you the worlds gonna end, i mean they can kill you and all, but the world wont end, plus not to get your mood down, but if it were going to end, why get married, just live life to the fullest! am i right??!
Oh, WOW that ballet teacher must contact social services and tell them about the beating and sexuality! She MUST!
TheSydlicous 1 week ago
I gasped on the second story, I hope she has called the police and social services
xSunshinexShowersx 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck
At the second story with the teacher, i gasped. I hope she calls someone!!
XiaoXiong96 1 month ago in playlist Dear Buck 3
I really hope the teacher contacted social services !!
craziinancy1 2 months ago 2
Hash tag #BuckIsMyLife♥
CagingAnne 2 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
When he said shutup George, my neighbor George was over and I almost got in trouble. Bahaha fail. Thanks for all the advice you give! #BuckIsSexyFace
AlisonAshley411 2 months ago
WOOF WOOF shut up george
treehuggerbabypie 2 months ago
For the balle one I think you should talk to the little girl about it, not the father...
Malliahful 4 months ago
You are the best :) love your show
2TheSponge2 4 months ago
Ballet, talk to the student herself in a private setting and explain your opinion!
lynxvex 5 months ago 5
shes fucking 10 why wouldn't you tell =0
TheOlly12 5 months ago 3
SHUT UP GEORGE! lol. sorry i just thought that part was funny. but seriously these vids r very serious. its good 2 try 2 talk to someone, but u need to get serious help on things like @balletbaby89.
crazyconvos 6 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
@balletbaby329 talk to the child or tell child protection :/ <3 hopes everything improves
true298 8 months ago
Dear Buck
Im 13. And I think i might be turning bi-sexual..i dont want to be but, one night ,a few months ago i stayed and my best friends house(like i do every weekend for 2 years).
And the night we were in her bed just talking, and it lead to more than talking. ever since that night, we do the same things ever time i spend the night,. its really awkward tho? like im confused. i dontt know what to do/ think!!?! please help.!,
sexilexi123ish 9 months ago
@sexilexi123ish what i would say is that only if you are having true feeling for that person and not if you're just doing it because its the right moment or whatever, you may turn up to be bi, or gay, but just let your heart guide but 13 is like a phase age so it may pass especially if there are no feelings just actions
gwen2110 7 months ago
balaybabe329? tell a child othorty protection!!!
alice89is 9 months ago
Dear buck my name is almanzo and i had a boyfriend called john and im gay and he was gay and one night he was talking to me saying how he had a new boyfriend and i was crying alnight long trying to make him not go and he leaved me on the bed crying and he was like 15 and im 10 but anywas the next day he comes to my house saying hes sorry but then in 3 weeks later he says he hates me again and then i start thinking hes cheating on me what do i do to make him tell me if he loves me for real
supermarioteam100 9 months ago
@supermarioteam100 this is kind of upsetting :/ he DOESNT love you sweetie, he is playing games with your mind. you are 10 years old, embrace the innocence while its within reach, and ditch the 15 year old heart breaker :) <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 *cyber hug*
amnehzm 9 months ago
@amnehzm good f*cking idea CUZ I ALREADY DID :D he kind of went crazy on my ass for doing it but i dont give a shit cuz i got the f*ck away at last :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD F*CK HIM :)
theaccffanclub 8 months ago
@supermarioteam100 he might be confused but 10 and fifteen is a HUGE differencee, when you are still kids , not even developed yet i would suggest move on and forget about it
gwen2110 7 months ago
That teacher needs to call social services and the police.
wayne1955 10 months ago 42
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Lyrina25 10 months ago
@balletbaby329 Use the resources in your town, seriously, there are social workers that deal with this kind of thing. (I know because I want to become one). Talk to a childrens aid group and set up a meeting with both them AND the parents and tell them together. That way the parents have to react inside a controlled situation and the childrens aid/authorities will be there and informed if anything happens.
HollyWatson8014 10 months ago
@ByeFlyGirl there was really no need to tell them to calm the fuck down. Or as you said it "CALM THE FUK DOWN". If that message was to help someone, you need to be more sympathetic...and learn how to spell. I couldn't understand half of what that said. You have to try to put yourself in their place. Think about how YOU would feel, and then try to help them.
InvaderZim32097 10 months ago
@InvaderZim32097 Again that was just my personal opinion on the situation and the advice I wanted to give so I stand by everything I said. If you want to give your own "sympathetic" advice then be my guest. And in regards to the spelling comment, I know perfectly well how to spell and would have done so had it not been for the fact that Youtube doesn't allow comments over 500 characters, which my comment was untill I had to shorten it by using the incorrect grammar and spelling.
ByeGirlFlyGirl 10 months ago
@InvaderZim32097 Also sometimes when people feel like they are going through a hard time they need to be told to calm the fuck down so they can put things into perspective. I understand that she is feeling low and she needs time to be upset but in her message it sounded like she has been upset for a long time. She needs to move on and focus on herself for a while and realise that (as I said previously) there are SO much worse things happening in this world.
ByeGirlFlyGirl 10 months ago
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tajuya17 10 months ago
I love him so much, in so many different ways, and it would kill me to see my best friend upset. I know I acted like a ***** to him, and I was being very unfair, but it was so out of the blue. I didn't expect it at all, and I had SEX with him! I didn't mean to act like a *****, and I feel horrible, I just don't know what to do. Thank you so so so much for reading all of this. I know it is long, but I don't know what to do.
Thank you again,
-Anna :)
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 9
@Squirmer1000 Ok 1st of all CALM THE FUK DOWN. STOP cuttin urself an hatin urself an feelin lyk an idiot coz u didnt noe. Not evry1 whos gay has it written on their forehead. I understand how u feel bout him but u need 2 STOP finking that way bout him coz as u sed urself, he is not a suitable partner 4 u. Focus on lovin urself an b open 2 findin new ppl. SERIOUSLY u need 2 put fings into perspective ppl hav 2 deal wit a lot worse things in this world so u shud count urself lucky. Keep ur chin up
ByeGirlFlyGirl 10 months ago
@ByeGirlFlyGirl that message would've been more helpful or more heartfelt if you didnt say "calm the fuck down" and if you had actually used proper grammar and spelling. :P
14Mailin 10 months ago
@14Mailin Well that was just my personal opinion on the situation and the advice I wanted to give so I stand by everything I said. If you want to give your own "helpful" or "heartfelt" advice then be my guest. And in regards to the "proper grammar and spelling" comment, I would have used it had it not been for the fact that Youtube doesn't allow comments over 500 characters, which my comment was untill I had to shorten it by using the incorrect "grammar and spelling".
ByeGirlFlyGirl 10 months ago
@ByeGirlFlyGirl i see your point.
14Mailin 10 months ago
I fully support each and every one of them, including my best friend, but I feel so differently about it because he is my best friend and I love him. I want him to be mine forever, and I know that can't happen, but I just can't help it.
I really need advice on how to handle myself, because I have been a shitty best friend in my reaction, the way I am going to deal with it, and the way I should act. I don't want to offend him or make him mad.
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 4
It was obvious now that I think about it! I wanted to cut myself, and kill myself, and I still do. He said that I am his best friend and that he loves me more than anyone and that he would do ANYTHING for me and that I am the most important person to him. I do not hate gay people, and I do not think that they are "gross."
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
solace, but... I'm gay." I FREAKED out and hyperventilated and cried, and he said that it was okay that I reacted like that and that he wasn't mad, but for the rest of the night I could barely talk, breathe, move, or anything. I was crying and then I was screaming, angry at myself for being so stupid, as in how the hell could I have not known???!!!
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
him, yet I still hope and wish that I will be. I would wish for it every time I got an eyelash or it was 11:11. I really wanted to marry him someday. We have absolutely EVERYTHING in common. We are like the same person, only different genders.
Anyway, last night we were walking his dog, and he came out to me. I was getting upset that he had ended our relationship, and it has been bothering me for months, and so he said something like, "I don't know if this is worse, or if it will provide any so
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
unhealthy and that he wasn't attracted to me anymore and that he didn't have feelings for me anymore. I was obviously incredibly upset, and I still am. I had sex with him!
Anyway, we were still best friends, spending much of our time together, but I couldn't help loving him. I love him so much. Anyway, he knows that I do, and I still tell him that sometimes, a lot, which I probably shouldn't do. So last night I was at his house for a sleepover. I was getting really upset because I can't be with
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
as well,) and I loved him, and he said that he loved me. Then, in February, a few days before Valentine's day, he "broke up" with me. We are BEST friends, and we have been since third grade (we are juniors now,) and we spend most of our time together. We are absolute best friends. I, however, started getting really jealous when he would hang out with his other friends (the majority of whom are girls.) I would get really jealous and cry a lot. He ended our relationship saying that it was unhealt
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
Dear Buck,
Thank you so much for reading this an I hope it gets thumbs so you will answer it. I really need advice. This summer, my best friend and I had sex. We were in love, or so I thought, as I loved him more than anything and I still do. I am madly in love with him. Anyway, he said that he loved me, too, and we were both ready. We lost our virginities to each other and there was not an ounce of regret. We had sex two more times over the course of around five months (we fooled around and ma
Squirmer1000 10 months ago 3
,,the second problem is I am just going to turn 18 and have a six year old brother ,,I won't take help or let him see his or my family as they are not good people in general ,,I'm scared because I don't want to give up my entire life and future but have to it seems for my bro I love them both derly and am being torn apart ,as this isn't really a question I'm srry I had to vent :) --taysha
tayshalynn93 10 months ago
Dear buck ,idk if you'll see this but I just got the news today that my mom is going to get a surgery that the doctors have been postponing because she has a bad heart don't think she will make it through ,,I am 90% sure that she isn't going to make it and this is breaking my heart --continued
tayshalynn93 10 months ago
Dear Buck,
Im 13 and a girl, and this boy i like told me i was beautiful and was flirting with me for a long time. I said that i liked him and he said that he liked me too, i told my friend after this happened and she spread a rumor that me and the boy were going out. Somehow this got back to him and i was so embarrassed now all his friends called me a desperate loser. I asked him again to see if he liked me but then he said "we're good friends" but i think i still like him, i'm really not sure!
drennan124 10 months ago
For the ballet teacher, i would recommend that you contact either the police or a psychologist. Talk to them about what is going on between the father and daughter and then the daughter and the young boy. See how they think you should proceed. I don't think you can solve this on your own. Please find a professional you can talk to about this situation. I think you should do this before you approach either other families so you can make sure you are doing the right thing. good luck & be careful!
lucretia89e 10 months ago
Dear Buck, I am a 15 year old boy and i am madly in love with one of my friends. But there are some problems, i havent seen her in almost a year and we go to completely different schools and churchs and my parents dont let me date. I really want her to know how i feel but it doesnt seem right to tell her through text or over the phone or facebook. Ive resently had the idea to make a comic book which story line expresses my feeling since i have some drawing skill. PLEASE respond!!!!
yugioh22fan 10 months ago
Dear buck i really need your help im in love with my bestfriend who is also my ex boyfriend iv asked him out and he sed no but he also sed he loves me we flirt all the time and he makes it clear he likes me but when i ask him out he always ses 'no but i am in love with you' im so confused i want to be over him but he makes me happier than iv ever been plz help how do i get him back ?????
bekkihalle 10 months ago
@bekkihalle i think you need to be totally straightfoward with him, and be like, "if you love then why are u doing this to me??? u say u love me but u dont want to go out, give me a reason" and if his reason is bullshit then u rlli ned to cut him out of ur life, bc there are plenty of ppl out there who would appreciate your love and would love u back, he is obviously not worth all this trouble if he gives u this much pain, i hope this helps, I CAN SYMPATHIZE!! GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!
xosammiisammox 10 months ago
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Mrtothemax1012 10 months ago 12
Dear buck,
My name is anika. I'm 11 years old. I have lots of problems. I feel fat in school and am made fun of by my peers. I cant do home work beacuse i cant focus. PLEASE HELP ME!
Ihatemath55 10 months ago
@Ihatemath55 Okay, sorry that your comment is 4 months old already lol You have to look up videos on how to learn to love your body. I used to hate my body when I was around your age and now I don't care what others think. Trust me, you are beautiful! Don't ever believe what those rude people are telling you. You need to learn to ignore what they say. Don't give in to what they say because that's the reason they're bullying you. They like to get a reaction out of you.
fashionbug9880 6 months ago
For the second one, I think she should keep quiet about the sex with that boy because that could make the situation worse with the parents and she should report the parents to social services x
csifriendsscrubsfan 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Danielle. Nothing has been going right for almost two months. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year. My mom was hospitalized, but she's at home now. My dog Nell is having stomach problems so I have to stay up with her 4 nights a week. Now I'm having an ECG, CAT scan and blood work. I know happiness is a choice, but one thing after another pops up and it's hard not to cry all the time at school. Please help.
Dani09094 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Alex and I'm 17 (junior in HS) and I've been having strong feelings for a friend of mine for what feels like nine months. I love her a lot,and she rocks my world. But recently,she's been talking about a friend from England she likes a lot. (and I jsst found out today they started dating) I keep saying her happiness is my happiness,but idk it still hurts. Should I just try to get over her (if so,how) or should I wait like I have been (and failing) and hope for the best? :\
TheElectricDreamer93 11 months ago
hey buck,
my name is Samantha, and my problem is that i just cnt get over the guy i like, but the worst part is he is my best friend, plus i have been in the same situation before and it was a very painful and heartbreaking experience, the guy i like has a girlfriend and i need help please, it is so stressful, i my chest hurts when i think about him because i care so much, i have gone to see the psychologist in my school and she has not been any help to me. ANYBODY OR BUCK PLEASE HELP! LOVE YOU
xosammiisammox 11 months ago
@xosammiisammox i know its horrible isnt it and im not gunna tell you to get over him because its really hard iv been trying to get over my ex for 3 years he's also my best friend what i do it take the battry out of my phone and seperate it from the rest of my phone so im not tempted to text him just stupid stuff like that if the boy has a girlfriend destroy her ! (awful advise dont listen to me)
bekkihalle 10 months ago
@bekkihalle thanks, but its not like that, im in schol with him, and i see him everyday, i dont have a cellphone that i can feel like im disconnecting myself form him, and he like me being around, i didnt see him for a full two days as a kind of detox and it was just more heartacheing to see him the third day because he was like o i missed u where were u, i needed u. and it was so sweet but i ended up right where i left off, and we walk to almost every class together bc we have similar schedules
xosammiisammox 10 months ago
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Dear Buck, one of my friends started ignoring me and it really hurts because we used to be great friends. Whenever I speak, she either ignores me or makes snide comments. I don't know why, but I have don't want to sacrifice myself and distance myself from everyone in the group, but I think the girl who is ignoring me is going through a hard time and if I join the group, she will leave it and in this point of time, she needs support. Should I leave or stay?
KimmyKimii 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
Recently I have broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months. But since the beginning of the year i've liked this other guy. The problem is that he is going off to college at the end of this year and his friends don't like me. I'm 14. we really like each other but he sees no point in trying to make a relationship happen. Recently he said "i might need a date to prom" he hasn't officially asked me but he has implied that he wants to take me.
IM SO CONFUSED!!!!
What should i do?
nandkrus 11 months ago
lol trolls
Bristlehoth 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
Im 12 and my older brother just left for the army he is 23 and my other brother is in a relationship with a girl who has tried to kill herself and him and their child (she was still prego with the baby) I love both brothers but never see them and now that their gone im remembering the past more and more.we dont share a dad but my dad addopted them both but when i was little i remember them always fighting.i love them all and i feel like im going insane.please help much love-LJW
LauraAndKarlee 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
Im 12 and my older brother just left for the army he is 23 and my other brother is in a relationship with a girl who has tried to kill herself and him and their child (she was still prego with the baby) I love both brothers but never see them and now that their gone im remembering the past more and more.we dont share a dad but my dad addopted them both but when i was little i remember thgem always fighting.i love them all and i feel like im going insane.please help much love-LJW
LauraAndKarlee 11 months ago
@ZanyZoey tell ur brother to GTFO.
Lollistar12 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm 13 years old, and I know that sounds a bit young, but I would really like a boyfriend. I've never had one before. I can be a bit awkward while talking to people i don't know very well sometimes, but I have a few close friends who I am very talkative to. I love shopping and technical stuff, and I live in central bedfordshire, england. Please mention me in your next video of dear buck. Ta! x
Lollistar12 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
There's this girl I know at school who moved from another town and started at my school about a year ago. I went up to her that day to see what she was like, but I didn't like her that much. She was too quiet, smug, and a baby. The thing is, all this time she has been thinking that we're best friends just because of that day. For the past year she has been following me and my friends and this kind of annoys me. If I tell her to give me space she cries. What should I say to her?
Ta
Lollistar12 11 months ago
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Dear Buck,
My dad died last year and my mom is already dating. The boyfriend she has now moved in with us last month. When she is gone he hits me and makes sexual advances towards me. Even if she is there he calls me hurtful things and touches me inappropriately. She says she loves him and knows I don't like him so she might think I am lying if i told her. I'm only 13 and scarred for my life. What do I do?
Please Help; Brittany
LlamaMonsterLove 11 months ago
dear teacher,
tell the girl to take up personal social health emotional education (PSHEE) lessons. or sex education lessons.
Lollistar12 11 months ago
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Lollistar12 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I'm fifteen and I love being in theatre at my school, but there's this guy a few years older who's always in the plays and he keeps hitting on me. He comes up to me and asks if he can buy me lunch and stuff, and he seems sort of sweet but I've known him for a while and he's not. When I was really young, like eight, he kept trying to convince me to have sex with him, and I knew to say no, but it came pretty close to rape. How am I supposed to get him to stop getting up in my face? :P
cepopetz 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My dad was just fired from his job. I know my family will be fine, even if it means I have to sacrifice a year of college and get a job to help out. My problem is his company, which he spent 18 years working for, was unjust in firing him. The best way I can describe the situation is that they shot first and asked questions later, hurting me and my three younger siblings. I can't seem to get over the bitter feelings. I know I need to move on, but I don't know how. Please help.
Yessy
YoungMistress12 11 months ago
you're so sweet you make me laugh my ass off!
xxNichi 11 months ago
Dear buck, I'm a 13 year old gay boy and I have a problem. I am out to a few of my friends and I don't know if I should come out to the rest of my school. Also, I applied for private school and got in but my school is pretty good but the private school is better. I want to go to the private school but I have a bunch if close friends at my school now so I don't know which to chose. Also how do I find out if this guy I like is gay? Thank you and you are awesome.
TechTalkToday1 11 months ago
Dear buck, I'm a 13 year old gay boy.
TechTalkToday1 11 months ago
For Ballet.... She needs to contact social services. The 10 yr old my be a product of sexual abuse at home, hints why she is open to it more at her age... You need to contact social services, and open a case about the bruises, and the sexual abuse. Ask the girl if she wants to tell her parents, and wait for the reaction and the tears. She is in a bad place.... help her get out.
Randomboredumb 11 months ago 2
Dear Buck or ANYONE,
I'm a 16yo girl with a strange problem. I've never been on a date before, but that's not the issue; the issue is that I've never been on a date BECAUSE almost every guy I've ever liked has been gay. Recently I met this guy; he just got out of a two year relationship with a girl and he says he likes me romantically, but I REALLY feel he's closeted. If he asks me out do I risk being hurt again? I really like him, but I feel like there's a good chance he's using me as a cover.
hugandmakeup 11 months ago
This may seem a little out of context, but I just love the cartoon version of you, Buck. It really just makes me happy and laugh. It just shows your bright personality.
ElusiveFinalFantasy 11 months ago
hey check out my advice channel videos daily and follow me on twitter for more advice
Robhelpsout 11 months ago
EVERYBODY PRESS 1 ON YOUR KEYBOARD OVER AND OVER AGAIN! I PROMISE YOU'LL LAUGH
maketimmycry 11 months ago
BARK BARK "shut up George"
lmao
thecommenter18 11 months ago 2
dog barks, haha
fatsotomuscles 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is SHneha. Recently i was on my computer and i stumbled upon some downloaded porn. There are about 10-12 videos which i saw and immediately deleted. My mom's travelling alot and me and my little sister stay with my dad. So i'm pretty sure its his. He's not a creep or anything. Actually, he's my favorite parent and loves me alot and i always go to him for advice. I just think its really out of character for him and i was wondering if its normal for normal dad's to watch porn?
16sneh 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
Im a guy who is 14 bisexual, but leaning more towards men. I've come out to a couple of my friends, but none of my family members yet. Some of the people in my school can tell I'm gay or bi. I want to have a boy friend but terrified of coming out and people telling everyone my business (sister in same school), because I think high school would be terrible. I want my family to know the true me, & I want to be comfortable in my own skin. What should I do?
P.S. I <3 What the Buck :)
sirwilliam530 11 months ago
Buck, hows the ballet situation?
MissRandom007 11 months ago
Dear buck,
My friend has low self esteem and just got out of a depression. She and i have been growing apart (i dont remember the last time i hugged her or had more than a few sentences in one of our conversations), but she is my only friend (she has a group she hangs out with sometimes). I dont really want to be friends with her anymore, and last year i was friendless and found it very peaceful and actually nice. How do i tell her this? I dont want her to hate me. plz help
lilac1397 11 months ago
@lilac1397 that's the exact same situation i'm in exept shes not my only friend - apparently im her only friend. :/
Lollistar12 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I grew up with a mother that taught me that relationships and men are evil, and have never been able to have a legitimate relationship because of it. I've had five relationships so far (all of them having lasted two weeks or less) and am seventeen. I'm currently in a relationship that has lasted a month, but I'm starting to sabotage it. Could you give me a little relationship advice, because I seriously like this guy, and he seriously likes me.
Love,
Anastasia
DclaireTheWinner 11 months ago 3
@DclaireTheWinner Hey Anastasia, I totally get the whole 'sabotaging relationships' thing, I do that a lot. I think what you should do is a) Talk to your guy about this, maybe he can help you to not sabotage it and can get you through this, and b) Think about what it is you do to sabotage relationships and try your hardest to avoid doing these things. This problem may not be relevant to you any more, as you posted it 3 months ago, but if it is, I hope that helps. *Cyberhugs* (: Chloe
Marmalade4Jesus 7 months ago
i think the teacher should report the underage sex to, like the police or something. I mean when you're ten you shouldn't be sexually active and if your parents make it seem like that's okay it NEEDS to be reported.
zyxwvutsrqplmnlkjihj 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My mother is WAY too over protective and racist. She doesn't like me having friends, she doesn't like me going out she doesn't like me doing anything. I'm 13 and I'm not allowed to go out by myself without my brother, and I can't stand him. I understand that I'm young to go out by myself but I still can't stand NOT having friends, I can't stand my mother's talking to herself too, so please could you tell my how I could deal with my mother???
thewarriorhuntress 11 months ago
@thewarriorhuntress aww i think you should tell her that you're old enough to make your own decisions and she's not being fair at all. hope that helped ;)
Lollistar12 11 months ago
Are you gay???
kukuobama 11 months ago
No shit.
miranda686 11 months ago
@kukuobama Whatever gave that away??
AshiGurl17 11 months ago
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kukuobama 11 months ago
well i think you should tell balle teacher to talk to the girl herself cause obviously telling the parents will mess things up. i guess the teacher should try and get through to her herself.
Freakish108 11 months ago
Dear Buck Im 13 and my friend has been wanting to kill herself. Its been going on for awhile now and she evn cuts herself but wen she telling me y she does it all the story changes evrytime. Like her family tell her mean things like" ur trash, evry1 hates u, kill urself, nobody would care" but they throw her a big party, take her 2 a concert, & protect her from bullies. I want 2 believe evrything she says, cuz it sounds real but idk its fishy. What should i do? Please help Ashyln
besties4ever18 11 months ago 46
@besties4ever18 just tell her staright up hey whats up ur saying this but bthis ishappebing maybe her rents are just beingfake so no one thinks bad
MICHELLY1395 11 months ago
@besties4ever18 you almost make me cry
irt1126 7 months ago
Dear Buck
I am 14. Years old and live in a stable home my problem is that my father is very embarrassing and over protective I am not allowed to use my phone , iPod etc. past 10pm and he will often bring up topics about me in front of my friends that I would rather my friends not hear about I have tried talking to him but he takes it as a joke or that I am
Being disrespectful and when I tried to talk to my mom but she says it's just his
Personality and that it is normal behavior for a father I
dramarox45 11 months ago
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Dear Buck; HELP ME THIS REALLY IS URGENT! I just got asked out by my crush who ive liked for ovr 2 yrs a few weeks ago. We've been doing good until some rumors went around the school saying tht he asked me out because of a bet, he only asked me out because people thought he was gay, and the big one "He and his friend have a bet to see who can have a relationship longest". I asked him about it and he denied it. Now my best friend is making me choose between then and I dnt know wat 2 do. HELP!
pokegal19 11 months ago
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Dear Buck; HELP ME THIS REALLY IS URGENT! I just got asked out by my crush who ive liked for ovr 2 yrs a few weeks ago. We've been doing good until some rumors went around the school saying tht he asked me out because of a bet, he only asked me out because people thought he was gay, and the big one "He and his friend have a bet to see who can have a relationship longest". I asked him about it and he denied it. Now my best friend is making me choose between then and I dnt know wat 2 do. HELP!
pokegal19 11 months ago
for the ballet baby i would try and talk 2 the young girl about the situation...maybe she needs for someone 2 reach out 2 her & having sex w/ the older boy is her way of possibly "crying out for help"....i think 2 start w/ just try & talk w/ her & let her kno that if she needs something or if she needs u that u're there for her & if u feel like the situation worsens or she doesn't come 2 u & u still feel the same about the whole thing then take it 2 the authorities. hope i helped :D
agingher 11 months ago
For the little girl I would call the authorities dcfs and tell them the situation.
kagome304 11 months ago
dear buck,
hi my name is Dawn i just got into a relationship with a black kid... the only problem about this is that my parents are kinda racist in a way that they don't want me dating black kids and i want to tell them that i'm dating him because i reallly like him but i'm afraid of what they will end up saying about him or about me dating him pleasseee help.
HeyItsDawn22 11 months ago
@HeyItsDawn22 tell r parents u can go out with whoever you want and that they're racist an mean.
Lollistar12 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
My name is Alyssa. I've been in a very complicated on and off relationship-type thing for 2 years and 10 months now. I'm head-over-heels in love with this girl, but lately things are different and she seems very uninterested. She tells me that it's only because she's finishing up school, and is trying to focus, so that she can give me all her attention. The thing is, she dates other girls, but yells at me if she even suspects that I'm talking to someone else. What do I do?
Shawnquindaoreo 11 months ago 21
@Shawnquindaoreo tell her to stop being so paranoid
Lollistar12 11 months ago
@Shawnquindaoreo Wow that's tough. I would move on. If shes dating other girls and won't really talk to you then,don't waste another minute of your life with her.
piepeace 9 months ago in playlist Dear Buck
DEAR BUCK,
The girl i love is in a relationship and she's about to have a baby. When it all started she was going steady with the guy but she decided to start talking to me in a "more than a friend way". We've been in this secret relationship for about 2 years now and we're closer than ever before. She's not happy being with the baby daddy and wants to be with me but because she thinks its best for the baby to be raised with her father and her family, so she stays. What should I do? PLEASE HELP!
shirokun219 11 months ago 3
Dear Buck,
My name is Meagan I'm 19 years old and i have two best friends. we get along really good, but now my one best friend got a boyfriend and now we fight more then we used too. we planed on getting a place together before he was in the picture. and now they are together he is moving in too. do you think it would be a bad idea to move in ? and one more thing all their parents are all for us moving in together but mine are okay with it but not as happy as their parents. what should i do?
xohellokitty 11 months ago
DearBuck, I'm 14.One of my bestfriends(18)has a badsituation at home,where his olderbrother beats his family,abuses his girlfriend,drinks,(among other things)when he's only 20.He'sgone at his mother witha knife,and tried to kill myfriend by strangling him.LastSaturday,my friendtold me his brother had another meltdown and nearly attacked him.My friendsaid his parents don't want to send their son to jail,but I hate seeing my friend in pain.Should I keepout of their business or do something? ~Sarah
peanutgallery007 11 months ago
Dear Buck, My best friend is changing. When she is in a good mood, we can talk about anything-laugh a ton or talk about serious issues. She's trying way too hard to be mature. We're both middle schoolers and she's desperate for a boyfriend. Plus, she has a friend who she's known since preschool. I find the friend to be REALLY slutty. After they hang out, she doesn't act like herself. She wants to move far away, but I don't want her to, I love her company when she's herself. Do I stay friends?
fantastifical 11 months ago
@fantastifical continuation: By the way, love your show! -E
fantastifical 11 months ago
@fantastifical I had a friend that was similar to your friend. At first we were close and could talk about anything. Then she'd always get mad at me and she acted depressed, saying she wanted to move to a diffrent state with her mom because she hated life in Indiana.She never moved, but we stopped being friends.I encourage you to try and work it out the best you can. When my friend and I stopped being friends, it becaue awkward hanging around bc we have the same group of friends.I hope I helped.
HolaImBadAtSpanish 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I look at the problems these poor people have, and I know I don't compare, but I NEED NEED NEED you help. I am dating a guy whos parents wont let him grow up. I'm 13 and we haven't kissed or anything. I cuss a lot, a habit I'm trying to break, and one time we were on skype and I blew him a kiss. His mom caught it, and flipped out! He's older than me! I'm bored, because he totally isolates himself from me. What do I do?
Love you,
Sarah
misssarahsings 11 months ago
@ZanyZoey It's obvious you bro does give two licks about anybody, but himself. It's a common problem with older siblings who have nothing going for them and it's obvious your parents have no idea how to handle it, so you need to step up. You need to get your parents and some other family members/friends, get a plan in order and get him. You need to set down some rules: Either he gets a job, goes back to college or leaves. You should not have to pay for his BS.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
Ok for Danny, GTFO DUDE! Do it before you end up like all the other abused! For the teacher, sit down with the little girl and call the police right now. There is something wrong here! Ok Kate, if he knows how u feel and then dates someone he knows u hate, dump his ass like a cold bucket of water. Bubble, maybe u need to start hanging around more people. U've grown up of the past 3 years, so many you need more people around.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
Ballet Baby, maybe you should alert the authorities.
bridge356 11 months ago
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Hey buck, Ok so its not a big problem, infact its proabably minor compared to the others i've read, not gonna lie, anyway ( if you could not mention my youtube name that would help, as a few people i know watch so i dont wanna risk it for a biscuit if you get me ) im 16, and up untill now i thought i was straight, had a few boyfs and all that shizzle, but i dont know, recently i thought i might be bi? how do i know for sure :/ ? i dont fancy girls as much as guys but ... i dunno :P PMSL xxx
AndreaHannis 11 months ago
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AndreaHannis 11 months ago
i think, that teacher who caught them to should speak to the kids and tell them what they were doing was wrong, because it might be awkward but surely if she told the parents word would get back that it was her who said something in the first place, and who knows the child might appreciate your help, you could recomend councelling for her problem at home, hope that helps :) xx
AndreaHannis 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I am a 13 year old girl and there is a boy who is the same age as me that is stalking me. He texts and calls and messages me constantly. He told me he wrote two songs about me and he sent me the lyrics to one of them. Honestly, it scared me. He also told me he has had re-occurring dreams about me, in which we are in a field and he is chasing me, then there is a flash and I am gone, then he looks down and sees my dead body. Nothing i do makes him stop. Please help me. Love, Jess
2laugh2love2live 11 months ago 3
@2laugh2love2live Girl, u need to alert the authorities or tell your parents or even tell a teacher. He is obviously not right in the head and the sooner you alert someone, the better chance you have he won't hurt you. It's never ok for someone to be this crazy about you when you don't want it.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
@2laugh2love2live obviously the guy is obssesed with you so if it does get worse talk to youre parentsand make them talk to his parents and work something out and if not get a restraingng order against him , just delete him from your contacts and tell him if he keeps talking or texting you will call the police. he seems dangerous of where if youre alone with him he probably will do something bad to you :) sorry for whats happening to you
XxlipglosscutiieXx 11 months ago
@HolaImBadAtSpanish put it in your head that you're better than him, that he's the bitch. If he wants to degrade you for being a girl you gotta let him know that he's your bitch, not the other way around. Just work that confidence girl. Even if you are still hurt by it you can't let him see that cuz that's what he wants. Acting confident eventually makes you confident.
krazyglitterdust 11 months ago
@averymeg10 maybe just go to a friend's house when things get out of hand. Somewhere other than there so your father realizes that he is driving his family away. So maybe just like refuse to be anywhere near him when he's like that and say you'll come back when he's sober.
krazyglitterdust 11 months ago
Dear Buck, I NEED YOUR ADVICE! I told my friend something I never told anyone. He was good about it at first. He tried 2 help me out. When I brought it up again I could tell he was annoyed & mad @ me. We just stopped talking & I think he hates me 4 bringing it up. It's been 2 months. Should I contact him & just ask if he totally hates me? I really miss him cause I don't have anyone else close 2 me. I wanna go back 2 how we were before.
krazyglitterdust 11 months ago
wow...ive been reading these comments and some of them are really fucked up.
spotman30 11 months ago
Dear Buck, my names Megan and my dad has drinking problems and it's tearing my family apart emotionally, I don't want him gone but it's a bad problem because he becomes like a monster but he's not a bad person but he's failed every chance we've given him to change his ways. I cry every time he drinks too much and it embarrasses me, I've told him it bothers me and my parents fight about it all the time, I know there's not much I can do but a little advice would be nice. I luv you and your show,
Averymeg10 11 months ago
@Averymeg10 You need to know that there are many, many families out there that are being and have been torn apart by drinking. Parents who drink, 9 times out of 10, don't care who they hurt when they are drinking as long as they feel good. Alcoholism is one of the worse addictions out there. What you need to do is stop giving him chances. Instead you need to stand up to him and tell him that it won't be tolerated anymore, not by you or your family. It doesn't matter what he says.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
I've got a bit of a boy problem, but I'm not in love with him like boy problems seem to go. Quite the opposite. This boy is a pig and things a girls as peices of ass. He also starts 'shit'. I'm writing to you because he started stuff with me. He said really mean things to me for no reason like calling me a bitch and other words. Things like that have been said to me before so I don't know why it bugs me so much. My bestfriend tells me to forget it but I can't seem to. Help?
-Abby
HolaImBadAtSpanish 11 months ago
@HolaImBadAtSpanish, your choice really what you want to do. Ignoring is a nice passive way of doing things. You can always aggress in some way. (a really calculated verbal assault or something more physical) or find someone in power over him, if at school some teacher, the right type of admin and tell them that he is harassing you. First its best to tell him directly "I dont like how you say___" so he has the warning and then people in power can go about their marry way and enforce.
dragade101 11 months ago
@HolaImBadAtSpanish This is what I like to call "Asshole-ism" This boy chose you for no reason what so ever. He just needed a target. It's understandable that you want to ignore him, but if it's hurting you, then you need to tell someone. An adult, usually a teacher or parent, is a good choice. You need to explain to them that he is calling you undesirable things and that they have to make him stop. Ignoring him or trying to talk back has not worked. U need some adult help.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
@Gaarakunsgurl Thanks for the adivce, but I've never been much of a tattle. I'm a sophomore in highschool and I feel like I'm a little older than that. And at the end of the class that the boy said those things to me, he said something around the lines of "You're not gonna tell on me are you? Cause I don't wanna get in trouble for stupid shit." And he does it to everyone, I just can't seem to help feeling weird when he's around me, like he's gonna lash out at me. Intimidating kind of.
HolaImBadAtSpanish 11 months ago
@HolaImBadAtSpanish Sadly, that's the problem. He claims he doesn't want to get in trouble for stupid shit, yet he continues to open his mouth and say stuff like that. He can act that way all he wants, however one day, he's gonna get a nasty surprise when someone takes it the wrong way. I understand the unwritten "Don't snitch" rule, however u r a sophomore now and u should expect the teachers to understand what is wrong and help. They might not "fix" him, but they can do something
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
to ballet:
You can always contact child protective services in your state. Google "child protective services" and your state name and you should be able to find the website. You can leave an anonymous report and it will be in their hands. Their goal is not to take children away from their home but they want to assist the family (like providing parenting classes). I really do urge you to make a report as soon as possible
-Psychology graduate student
whitegirlfang 11 months ago
Dear Buck
My name is dani i am 18 years old and go to university in Vancouver and i have a huge problem. My family has me and my younger brother whos only 11 and my parents have raped him and beat him. i reported them to social servies and he has been moved to a foster family near my school. the problem is my mom and dad live in vancouver to and i am scared that if i talk to them or try and keep contact they will try and kill me or hurt me hope you can help and put this in a video <3 <3 <3 <3
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movielover2468 11 months ago
@movielover2468 The problem is that you want to keep in contact correct? But why? You said so yourself that they beat and raped your sibling, so why do you want a relationship? What you need is to stay away and, if necessary, get a restraining order. They seem to be sick in the head if they would beat and rape an 11 yr old boy.
Gaarakunsgurl 11 months ago
Dear Buck (or anyone) I am 13 and i have a 15 year old sister.The problem is she does not go to school she refuses to get up in the morning . she always says she is too tired. since she does not go to school it stresses my whole family out. i need help ! im miserable every time she does not get up and go to school. !
sophiemasterson 11 months ago
@sophiemasterson tell her to get her azz out of bed or move out.
Lollistar12 11 months ago
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Dear Buck, I am in a great interracial relationship and have been for 4 months. The only problem is that his mom thinks he should only date white girls because black girls are "ghetto". Everyone that knows me knows that I am not the stereotypical black girl. She found out last night and things went bad. She's selling his car, taking his phone and computer away, and making sure he gets to school with enough time to get there and leave. We're both 18. How am I supposed to handle never seeing him?
pshhitsvalencia 11 months ago
Dear Buck, a lad I never thought of in that way recently told me he liked me. Hes very smart funny and cute and after he said he liked me I began to like him back. Thing is he's had a bad reputation with girls such as cheeting on them and then showering with other girls. We talk every night and he's told me things I doubt hes ever told anyone before such as an abusive past. I don't know whether to trust him and give him a go or try and forget about him PLEASE HELP
hanlizzy 11 months ago
@hanlizzy, ya he could be playing mind games with you and be a real douche or actually be honest and very insecure. i'd advise to be supportive and build a friendship off of something.
maybe he sounds really convincing and maybe it is all true. just think if you put yourself out so far, and he turns out to be the douche then is that hurt really worth and how much he hurt you - are you ready for that. this is something you can only really answer for yourself.
dragade101 11 months ago
Dear buck, I have a really good friend who was like my brother and were really close. A couple days ago we were drinking together and I passed out drunk. When I woke up my panties were off but pj pants were back on.. He said rest assured nothing happened.. Thing is I'm dating his beat friend and cousin for over a year now and I want to tell my bf but don't know if I should.. Any suggestions?.. Anyone? >;
itsukikun 1 year ago
@itsukikun, if you keep nothing from your current boyfriend then ya i guess tell him so. maybe just best to leave it be and let the whole thing pass over. if it was only you and your close friend (brother figure) who were drinking then I dont think any harm is done if you trust him.
shit does get complex then alcohol is added into the equation.
best of luck.
dragade101 11 months ago
Dear buck, I am thirteen and more reserved. I really like a boy. We get along great but his past girlfriends have all been sluts and I'm not one. I've tried to get over him and I can until I ever have to close to him for some reason. I really want him to like me but I don't want to turn into a slut to do it. I don't want it to be the only way for it to happen, what should I do?
annkather 1 year ago
@annkather. just a guess but this boy is similar age to you as well as his past girlfriends.
if thats the case, I doubt 'slut' can really be applied to anyone that young. Mostly because they are still developing sexually and thats a real young age to even have some definitive intent with what they do with their bodies. Maybe they are 'acting' like sluts but I have a real hard time to believe they could be consider sluts. just be friends and maybe in time that grow into a relationship.
dragade101 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
hi i'm 13 and this year my mom was diagnosed with cancer. my parents are divorced and my sister is at collage so its just me and her at home, and i have been doing worse in school because i have to take care of her and it been really stressful and i feel so alone sometimes and i don't know what to do. by the way i love you!
deena5835 1 year ago
Dear Buck,
I have a guy I really really really really really (you get the point) like, or maybe even love. And he knows that. He keeps confusing me, he said he doesnt love me, than he told me if I was older he'd date me, he also said when im older he might not date me. we are 5 1/2 years apart. Everyone seems okay with us, and such. But i'm not aloud to date yet. I'm only 12, and Hes 17. Its hard, but he's special andl ike a best friend.
Love all your channels! subcribed to all
Love, angel
youownmyheartyouknow 1 year ago
@youownmyheartyouknow, just a guess but hes concerned about the age of consent and statutory rape. (even in the USA, laws vary per state). Sometime laws ruling this can permit such a age difference but often the law is not in your favor here.
Now what you choose to do is your choice. a 5 year difference at your age is huge in most cultures. Once you get older it not looked on a such a big deal. You can always be friends with him if he doesnt want to date you.
dragade101 11 months ago
@dragade101 well, I live in Canada. and I really like this guy. and we are friends, for now. : ) I just kind of feel like something changed between us lately, I just want to figure out what...He is amazing, If I had one word to discrib him it would be 'amazing'
youownmyheartyouknow 11 months ago
Dear Buck,
heey, hmm, im confused lol im 14 and i have had one boyfriend before in life but im sort of atracted to one of my best girl friends, and i dont wanna try anything because i love her ina friend way but i am curious to find out if i like it or not ... should i or should i not try ? pleeease helpe, me
lilianperes97 1 year ago
Dear Buck and all of the viewers, I am a 17 year old boy , I am tormented 'cause of my Homosexuality, I want a to learn a way to man up and be straight,.
This is not a disgrace toward Gays, it's just that my country here doesn't "accept" people like me, if anyone has any method or a way for me to get rid of this false desires I'd really appreciate it.
hadse999 1 year ago
@hadse999 i don't think its a false desire sweetie, u should just accpet ur self, hide it for a while if u have too, but go away from ur country, cause if u cant be urself, why would u want to stay there anyways ?
lilianperes97 1 year ago
@lilianperes97 It is, and if I don't want to be gay that's my decision, it's just so gross and unmanly to be that.
Men are for women and vise versa, that's what common sense say, and I love my country and will never accept any other country that it, and if you can help me, please do, thank you.
hadse999 1 year ago
@hadse999 this is late answerbut 1. you can grow to love women, take your closest woman friend and find things you like about her, and just concentrate on her remind yourself of things you like of her 2. Have you tried religion, sorry if this is offensive, but try Christianity. If you REALLY believe that God will change your thoughts, he may. just study the Bible, and pray constantly. If it doesnt work, He did anser the prayer, just didnt say yes, and there is a reason. dont giveup faith, please
gwen2110 7 months ago
the third one would be just to acccept yorself, its not impossible to love women, but it most likely will not come easily dont give up, if you are really determined to "become straight" but leave room for an unsuspected outcome
gwen2110 7 months ago
@gwen2110 Do you know how disgusted I feel when I'm a 17 years old who likes men in their 40s?! I just want to like girls, it just doesn't feel right to love men to me.
hadse999 7 months ago
@hadse999 that sounds bad, you sound like you really hate being gay and that should give you alot of determination to keep trying. dont force yourself to be with a woman all suddenly, it takes time try not to think about all the down sides of a person youre trying to get to know. think of all the good things, and how much you like those characteristics, and dont remind yourself that you are trying not to be gay, remind yourself that you are trying to help yourself, do it for you
gwen2110 7 months ago
Dear buck, im 14 and i have a girlfriend of 3 years who i've kept a secret from my family. I kept her a secret because i met her on the internet, but i now know her in real life and i couldn't be happier. Me and my girlfriend were talking about the 2012 death conspiracy, and i asked her to promise me to marry me in the future and she said yes. I asked so early just in case the 2012 thing is true. How do i break the news to my parents that im engaged to a person they don't know? HELP ME please
narxhin4ever 1 year ago
@narxhin4ever this is a late reply, but if you havent already, i wouldnt really tell them, for the fact that it's illegal, and the other fact that they have said the world was going to end soooooooo many times, and no human being on the earth today can tell you the worlds gonna end, i mean they can kill you and all, but the world wont end, plus not to get your mood down, but if it were going to end, why get married, just live life to the fullest! am i right??!
gwen2110 7 months ago