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  • Women talk but they never say anything of substance. Why would I listen silently to some vapid waste of space?

  • this advide confilcts with what i was told as a child: If you dont have anything good to say dont say anything at all.

  • this wohed halep my brother

  • thanks that really helped me out

  • i want to date with u

  • Whatta load of BS.

  • “Women are the experts on this subject.” Serious?! Why are women so boring to talk to? If doubt me, just talk with not-attractive-women and you will notice it more clearly.

  • Why go through the trouble of getting a girl when you can just jerk yourelf off to sleep?

  • But what if I don't give a rat's backside about what she is talking about?

  • great, so i'll end up listening to stories about cats and the last harry potter book all goddamn night.

  • i hate talking wont talk

  • I watched this video to get tips, but then I had to watch it again because I wasn't listening to what she said.

  • true, true, but the best advice is to date a hairstylist for 3 years while being a salesman. You will become a perfect liste

    ner while utilizing sales techniques. Then meet a perfect brazilian girl at a club and inheret the royalties from a gas well from your families' farm and be a millionaire. ---- Wyalusing

  • Aka... let the girl do all the leading in the conversation? Erm...

  • So.... featured video from the Jon Lajoe video?

  • this is REALLY basic stuff.

  • Would work great if I believed women (the "experts" she assures us) actually went by those rules in return, consistently. When some women get to know me, they just want me to listen to them and talk about them, and break every rule our coach above just gave. The women can be the worst about this. They also wait for their turn to talk, in a way that seems to jump on the last syllable of the other person's sentence. Clearly just wanting to talk. Observe at work someday.. it's there.

  • @iiahmad go kill yourself douche

  • One main rule to being a good conversationalist is this: Pretend you give a crap....end of story.

  • The look at 1:27 = Grandpa's gonna get some

  • CUNT.

  • no man with self respect would do all the things you asked in the series uploaded just to busta a nut...

  • why is this a tip for guys? are you suggesting women already know this and we men don't ? sexist.

  • what was she talking about? i wasn`t listening

  • How many years older is the guy than that woman?

  • Long story short... b*tches are self-centered.

  • shut up, woman!

  • shes hot

  • Short and sweet

  • we already know all this stuff, hard to believe you're a coach !!

  • im so glad she pointed out multible times that u take turns talking. cuz i and every other guys usually just say something the moment that something interesting pop op in their head no matter if some1 else is talking.

  • HEY!!!!!!

    GIRL WHATS UP!!

    We could light this fire between us, common and touch my penis!!!!!!

  • Is the camera man drunk?

  • conversations are overrated !

  • This is retarded.

  • i think this is retarded if you listen to this bull shit then you are a complete fag

  • I didn't listen to her

  • thanks for your last message. i'm on your side. you know a man doesn't like to have to take this stuff from a lady ... but you're right! Can't argue with that! thanks for your help.

  • WOMEN ARE EXPERT AT THIS ... HMMM FUNNY, I HAVENT SEEN YOU SAY HOW MEN ARE BETTER AT WOMEN AT ANYTHING IN ANY VIDEO ... HMM

  • @XvBiBleMaNvX zhe's a female supremist in incognito ;-)

  • Wait for my turn to talk? Fuck that shit

  • My turn to talk? That doesn't exist while talking with a girl..

  • @Flojstrup Having something in common to share a conversation usually works. 

  • @TdrdenCO11 True. That's why you follow this simple rule. Ask the girl a question, add to what she discussed, let her respond, and then you transition into a story, a fact related to, or an interesting point that can be made in the same general area. Generally after that, the conversation can either stay on that topic, or it leads to a whole new topic.

  • what? men don't know these things?

  • @Robb9096 Men do, boys do not.

  • If women would just quit the stupid mind games, talking to the man 1 minute, hating him the next, phoning him up 1 minute, hanging up on him the next e.t..c......

    Then men would be in a better mood and talk more, if you ladies quit the mind games..............

  • @Rob23 It might be the 'act' they put up to grab the girl [not a woman in this case] in the first place. You know, the 'I like you and I'll do what it takes until you're mine then I'm done.' Sounds like you have communication problems.

    Let a woman know she can trust you and she wouldn't have to.

  • I don't need these tips anymore but, I keep watching them because this broad is so hot.

  • Seriously?!? A bar? Your best viusal example of good conversation takes place in a bar??? That is noooooo place to meet a good conversationalist!!!!!!!!!!

  • shut up and ride da dik ho

  • lol "wait for your turn to talk", but who decides when that it. Me.

  • I appreciate that this girl is giving advice but almost every "DATING GURU" always seems to be talking as if everyone else was a clueless 5 year old

  • something even as simple to most as making friends is like trying to say to climb Mt. Everest. I'm thirty years old now and it really bothers me those people who say, oh well you'll find that special someone one day when all they are doing is speaking out of their a-ss because they haven't a clue what life is like for anyone other than the one in the shoes that they are wearing. All my life I have seen guys get women so easily and it really bothers me to have been born in such a useless corpse.

  • females scare me. Whenever I might be unfortunate enough to be around them, I get extremely uncomfortable and do whatever it is I need to do and leave. Sometimes i'll just stop what I'm doing and just leave. They terrify me. I have never in my life seen or heard of anything good that comes from being around them. This fear that I carry within gives me the worst feeling of depression that one could possibly ever imagine. The thought that you are different and can never fit in.......

  • So Jessica, What do you find most difficult about being a good conversationalist? 

  • yeah. This applies to women talking to men as well. despite her assertion that women are experts at it, they are not.

  • wait a minute? girls like to talk about their feelings?!?!?!?

  • thats sum good advice there :) but most of it i know already ill watch more x

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  • im not good at keeping my mouth shut i on a daily basis shout out banana or potatoe or somthing >.>

  • im a better listener

  • @HannesPowerLoad LOL!!

  • why did i work this out myself when i turned 24?

    she's rad but hard to get .. beautiful woman....

  • I get so awkward when I am alone with a girl and she is looking at me :O I don't have anything to say damn it !

  • by reading peoples comments I can tell this isnt working ,u cant make pimps out of these vids like seriously women are human beings , if u want womens respect/love, learn to respect ur own self ,women will do the rest . Most importantly know the girl ,find out her mentality then u will know by urself what to do next . confidense is the key. if u wanna lasting relationship ask urself do i really wanna be w her and y?if the ans is yes then go for her and stay off of these coaches lol

  • i always end up listening to girls on my date, i never really get the chance to speak...lol

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  • AHHAAHAHA She's a goldigger!

  • I get it! So I basically have to be a psychiatrist!

  • LOL women are the ones who stunt conversations not men. I guess gender roles have changed these days.

  • Alternate title: "How to let someone talk at you, not with you."

  • i dont want a conversation.i wanna have sex and watch tv afterwards.

  • @yassigole get a hooker

  • @yassigole

    lol best comment ever

  • HAHA woman are the absolute WORST at conversation, they only talk about themselves and generally dgaf about what you're saying.. it's simple fact. Not every woman obviously, but 90% only want to talk about themselves

  • Hum... Will Smit halreay said that in his movie Hitch. He said, when she's talking to you... just LISTEN! Do not think about what you want to do to her, you'll have plenty of time to think back home.

    Watch the movie, you'll see i'm right

  • Hum hum... Hitch already told that in his movie Hitch. When a she talks, LISTEN.

    Look at the movie, you'll see I'm right ^^

  • Your're right you know where you talking about XD thanks 

  • if woman want nice they will get a job

  • that guy art is her dating coach y dont LITTLE chidren go play with their GI JOES thanks art im listening more and im not affraid to repond to keep this conversation goin it takes 2 and guys dont be affraid to let her hang out ask her to play pool joke around say say stupid stuff wutever being ruself dooesnt make u nice it makes u genuine

  • plus think of it this way its good she wants to talk in her eyes shes opening up to u think of it like you did all the talking and shes really not responding thats a bad sign its like when woman give their # to u its a bad sign if she doesnt gesture for u to call her again trust her guys shes right please please please be my dating coach jessica

  • its really not pretending shes seeing if ur campatible this coach is right looks r good but dont really count just like if u cant keep up with the conversation with a woman u become boring real real real quick

  • For goodness sake, dating coach! There's a coach for everything these days, how a bout a "wiping you arse coach", or "blowing your nose coach" or a "how to get something useful out of dumbass coaches of various natures COACH"!! Just be yourself folks, thats what works in the long haul, OR if you want a quick lay you could pretend to be someone you're not, by the time she susses the truth you'll be bored of her anyway.

  • I wish I could stick to this advice! it's SO useful not only for dating, but to get people to like you too... unfortunately I'm a selfish bastard who doesn't really care about what others say... I'm really trying to change this, I hate it...

  • You dont fool yourself!!! Be urself.

  • GanstagirlAnne1224 Pls try this 1. Say ur name 10x 2. Say ur mama name 5x 3. Say ur crush name 3x 4. The coming up Friday ur crush will kiss u **** if u read this and don't post to 4 other videos friday will be ur worst day ever!!!!!! **** 2 hours ago

  • thANK U

  • thANK U 

  • It's funny how guys have to work harder in order to get a good date They have to do this, do that, no one's perfect.... Don't men work hard enough? Men always have to be the inventors, the guardians and now Superman too? Girls have to remember not every man is Christopher Reeve.

  • I already got a girl, but do you guys have a feeling that before you dating someone,there are millions of things to talk about, then after dating you just feel like you have nothing to say, or not as outgoing as before?

  • I'm going to make a statement because well not many girls have. You don't listen many women will think you're an asshole. If you are getting laid by a chick and you aren't listening, likely you're only good for getting laid (to stupid guys, means you're just a tool when we finish we throw you away). If you want a serious relationship, meaning your a family man, I suggest you listen more. If you naturally don't listen, have fun finding a girlfriend, you selfish dick!

  • @SymfaniArt

    Hahah hide behind a computer screen and post your garbage opinions you weak cunt.

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    Das bedeutet den ganzen Tag geht niemand online auf YT.

    Wir machen das um den Besitzern von Youtube zu zeigen, dass sie aus dem ehemaligen YT eine mit Werbung zugespammte Plattform zum geldverdienen gemacht haben.

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    Und bitte gebt diesem einen Daumen hoch.

  • do you have any videos of you giving blowjobs?

  • I'm going to give this video thumbs up because I'm a nice person, but I don't think this is going work for most women. The truth is, initially, if a woman is attracted to you, she doesn't care if you are not listening, just as long as you show interest and you like being around her and you’re not rude and/or embarrassing.

  • @TS175 Lies! Women care about men who listen, especially when the women is over 23 years old!

  • old joke. you dont pay a working girl for sex; you pay her to leave afterwards

  • thanks s*it... because she says I talk too much....LOL

  • if she wont talk to you then? Then you both sit there silently ........

  • Yuukino14. :) Well it is not always about talking and talking , if the talk make sence than you right I mean it !:)

  • Yuukino14

  • Y Funny if the camera man zoomed in on her boobs

  • 1:20 Chuck Norris doesn't need dating advice ! This video is fake

  • I can't get a hard on this chick??? wtf? shemale?

  • Shit, I don't know what to do, troll the dating coach or the tard that thinks his imaginary friend created human beings, rrrrrnnnnnnnnnnahhhhhhh, can't decide, can't decide, BRAIN ANEURYSM, NERRRRRRGGGUUUUUUUAHHHHHHH.

  • You are talking about How to respect SELFISH women and lie. New York ? Come on so many options that really hard to find someone who sticks around . Please read your reviews and stop posting videos about dating. let people learn from their mistakes thats how God created us. Perfect world is almost destructive as woman who chose forbidden Apple .

    Smart , Intelligent, respectful women is what every men wants..

    Dating Coach Come On !!!

  • @ceodirectifix

    "Smart , Intelligent, respectful women is what every men wants.." They have yet to learn that I guess... In the meantime, they just wanna get laid, so I get her advices work.

    That way they can make their own mistakes and learn what they really want and need in a relationship, not just some brainless bimbo.

  • However, I have to agree that it is a bit selfish if she does all the talking. But if she let's you speak and and you spend equal amounts talking, then I get it isn't all that selfish. Besides, you should know what you want... if a girl is too talkative and it irritates you, she's just not your type.

  • Wow, you are coaching guys on how to fake it right into bed! It would be funny if girls just blindly fell for the formula every time. I find that I am more genuine and have fewer problems if I am strongly attracted to the lady physically and emotionally. Then everything just works. If a guy is just desperate to get laid, he is stumbling on his words and messing everything up because he has his mind elsewhere.

  • Sometimes you just have to know when to call it quits, if the female doesn't like you then you have to live with it. I listen so much that I will know a young ladies life story in 10 minutes and she will only know my name. I make sure that im not being a push over and not agree with everything they say. Yet in the end you can follow the guidelines all you want but the female will simply not want to be around you. I don't even bother trying to meet anyone anymore. Pointless if you ask me.

  • LET'S TALK ABOUT OUR FEELINGS LOL.

  • I've never dated a girl with good listening skills, manners or a healthy personality.

    Maybe people need to raise their daughters better.

  • @HatOfWisdom You're looking in the wrong place

    First stop looking for girls, look for a woman. They look, dress, and speak differently.

    I wish you the best of luck.

  • @ZcorrectTheory Actually I have already taken up your advice recently.

    It really narrows my search, but not in a very productive way.

    This might be a common excuse when looking for a relationship but legitimately, most of the people in my area are self absorbed and lack introspection.

    But I a agree, and I am looking for girls with a little more maturity and intelligence to offer.

    Thanks.

  • @HatOfWisdom Never listen to a woman with advice on women. This is extremely narrow minded stuff. She's just telling you what she wants men to act like. The minute you start trying to appease women and do what you think they want, you've lost it.

    My advice to you is to listen more to the likes of David Wygant or David Deangelo. Take it from someone who went from never scored to all of a sudden being stalked constantly by women at the age of 26! Girls don't know what they want.

  • @dannysquirrel Actually I've just altered my search. I agree, that it's not very productive to mirror one person's expectations of a desired partner, but I'm definitely looking into woman who can satisfy me more intellectually.

    And as for dating advice period, I just genuinely don't pay attention. Every situation and psychological fulfillment requires different things of people, and you've got to cater to that, regardless of what works and what doesn't.

    But double thanks.

  • @dannysquirrel or kezia noble, she's widely respected in the pua universe. She's the only woman I would take advices from.

  • so basically let her blebber and shut up ,what we have to say us men is apearntly not important is it now

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  • As long as the woman treats what the guy talks about with the same respect. Anyone, man or woman who expects someone to just sit there attentively while they prattle on and then to not listen in return, is a self centred arse and not worth bothering with. No matter what they might look like.

  • Wait. This counts as advice? I thought this was just common sense/courtesy? Oh well.

  • 1:23 GUIDO HEADBOB =D

  • doesnt work for me.. its hard to keep a conversation on the same topic with adhd

  • @fatassakaduncan whoa man that comments almost a year old, haha, but id tap that, haha

  • women experts at conversation? gotta be kidding...

  • This is good advice, but I doubt women in general are experts in conversation.

    Problems I see in forums and comments is that guys want to know exactly what to say to a girl. When you cannot do that, then you either don't know yourself or what you want in a relationship. I guess it could mean you do not know how to talk to people. But if you can get along with people and make friends, then it should not bee too tough.

  • id hit

  • I try to do this a lot, but it gets hard if I'm either on the phone, or talking over Skype. We both wait for a moment to see if it's our turn to talk, and then we start talking again! XD

    Still, it's good advice. Switching topics towards yourself just seems selfish. But people who don't have much faith in their own conversational skills might end up thinking lots about how they're going to relate to the person they're talking to, thus talking about self. >.<

  • for all the girls to help me:how do u break awkward silence

  • @fury456456 dude....hobbies, ask questions....not that hard >.>

  • Procreation...what a jolly game.

  • they'll hopefully reply!!!!!!!!!!!

  • SEEDS? hahaha

  • This is the best...

  • how do you figure out when they are lying to you before they tell another lie or text their friend?

  • oh here we go again. not all women talk about their feelings thank fsm.

  • its difficult

  • tell us you want us we dont hesitate if we men like em back

    you want them you have to do all this big ol bullshit

    conversations and what not just to get a simple date.

  • i was talking to a girl once and she asked me how my day started, i said "i was chillin out maxin, relxin all cool, shootin some b ball outside of the school..."

  • Good tips. So basically, I just have to listen well, and when I run out of stuff to talk about, I can talk about something my girl and I talked about earlier!

  • seems like a lot of trouble for intercourse

  • Does the woman's IQ count for something? Because usually, I have the best conversations with women who are matched with me(in the 130s or so).

    For the record, I don't do well socially with those who are at average. Different ways of thinking can conflict sometimes. But at least I'm a very introspective listener! I suppose Jessica here would find that helpful.

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  • why dont me and you go for a coffee where you can teach me how to seduce you babe, by the way you ahve very nice skin

  • @GrudgyDiablo indeed it is kind sir, indeed it is. xD

  • Sit next to your girlfriend, put on a headset, let her talk. Simple lol, if you have to respond, SPEAK TO DA HAND!

  • Orrr I could spike her drink and then the odds of me bagging and ragging double.

  • ur pretty ill fuk u :D B==========(=>)

  • How to be someone you're not, you useless fuck.

  • @domaataajs then why did you even watch this?

  • I followed your advice and now she wont shut up. Wheres your advice on what to do when they wont stop talking.

  • @ILLtactuLaR hahahahaa...i guess buy a gun and make them scared...

  • @ILLtactuLaR thats a good thing...

  • @ILLtactuLaR just leave a cleaning tool around something dirty. Her primal instincts should cause her to pick it up and start cleaning. Raw food next to a stove should work also.

  • @ILLtactuLaR dude girls never shut up there are only two thing you can do start gossiping with and let her spill all her friends secrets so you get two benefits got dirty on her friend or know how t hook up with them in case things dont work out or plan "B" which is you (sexual) harass if you are close to her, if not feed her vanity, tell her how beautifully she is find what part of her body she insecure about an complement the shit out of it and then you will not have hear her bitching

  • @ILLtactuLaR Ducttape! Lots of it!

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  • This really helpful, thanks.

  • Women are influenced more by personal feelings and we guys are more objective. So definitely a good tip to ask how a girl feels about something she mentions.

  • Name your next video, "how to suck off ( w/ examples)" I will watch that. Again, and again.

  • i damn ur cute.. now go do a video on how i can kiss u jess))) lol ;-)

    dentpocan.. shes not hot.. shes burning in flames..