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  • She thinks that us guys have to just relax and let things unfold by themselves. Couldn't be further from the truth, there is quite a lot of planning and logistics that goes into it most of the time. She speaking as a woman getting hit on and has no idea what she's talking about.

  • @pwhs8 I get your comments about planning and logistics, but be careful not to confuse that with being a 'player.' Genuine men who don't use scripted openers will get much further with women. The old saying stands: If you want to attract game players, continue to play the game.

  • Telling a woman she's beautiful acts as an opener. Especially if you know she's in to you. I don't know why telling a woman you're attracted to her is a turn off. I've never had this problem thank god. Had some great gf in my life :)

  • @amineaiffa Telling a complete stranger she's beautiful tells a woman you don't know her at all and isn't a great way to start a conversation. Why don't you introduce yourself to her, ask her how her evening is going, perhaps ask her what she thinks of the music playing, or something else topical? Telling her she's beautiful when you don't even know her name comes across as false. I'm not saying never compliment her, but save it for when it really means something.

  • but the "don'ts" work perfectly drunk

  • you said that staring at her for too long looks creepy but, what if she keeps staring at me forever?

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  • i should have watched this 3yrs ago ..

    Bcz i did all of these .. lol

  • 0:43 is absolute fail, that man has banged more chicks than any man following this bitches advice

  • @SevenStringShredHead yep, which is why that attitude fails with women. They don't want to be "banged', they want to be impressed.

  • @SevenStringShredHead lol and words like "banged" and "bitches" are going to get you a long way with women aren't they!

  • @meetyoursweet4men For one thing, i am sure.. A guy has to spend lot of money on a woman if he wants to keep her with him. This is a common observation, when guys spends less on a woman, the woman starts thinking that he is losing interest in her.. Guys are fed up with spending too much on women.. Guys think that a having a woman is very costly business..

  • @eleggance to be honest, I think that's one of the most common misconceptions that men have about women. It's not all about money. Sure, money helps, but status can be conveyed in more ways than that. Having self confidence, a broad range of friends, a range of different interests, being able to hold conversations about a range of different topics, and showing a woman respect all rank highly in terms of status.

  • the only way too impress a American women is too give them the wall of silence meaning do not say nothing too them,my advice too men is too travel abroad too other countries to meet normal women.i have not dated a American women in 10 year's and i am very happy you men should travel.it will be a breath of fresh air and a wonderful experience.

  • You know how lame it is when u ask a girl out on spring break but then she's going to travel somewhere outside the country for a week? Now she knows i wanna date her.. She also probably thinks I like her. This is.. unfortunate. Asking again is gonna be tough..

  • There should have been a disclaimer, if you are a handsome dude, you can pretty much get away with anything. This video only applies to guys are not a 10 or a douche bag.

  • I buy into this 100%. the only girls I've ever gotten with have been ones that I made no effort to get, even sort of ignored them at first. 

  • @OstedipMC Nice in which way? "Hi-girl-you're-cute"-nice or "Oh-I-worship-you-what-should-­someone-like-me-do-to-impress-­someone-like-you?"-nice?

    Everytime I hear guys complaining about being "too nice" it's always the slimy, selfish kind of niceness, where they smarm for the girl in hopes of getting sex and then getting upset when they don't get sex.

    Girls don't dig that kind of so-called "niceness".

  • @Laurelindo I leave them alone..

  • @Laurelindo cheers for that, I completely agree

  • @OstedipMC grab a bucket of pig shit, approach women, and dump it on their heads, then.

  • First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women

  • damn xd

    im just fcked up to the eternity xd

  • Alcohol helps.....

  • She is right. I know by experience. Be careful of your new found power.

    It can get you in trouble.

  • @ocelot435 yeah u got the Money=u got any girl u want..!!

  • I actually like this girl. She's not like the other irritating girls.

  • @krunkaintdead69 because she's acting

  • im doing everything wrong damnit

  • @smallchickenwings me too

  • hi there! this is a very informative video. Is it possible to get in contact with you perhaps through email? Its easy to ask and tell everything on pm rather than here. if its ok with you and if not no biggie. have a good one.

  • she mentioned some lines which are used in the pick up community... some tips are true the rest is in my opinion not true for most girls

  • How to impress a girl?

    Dont try to impress her :)

  • didn't work 4 me D:

  • @ocelot435 i laughed

  • Attention women, you know the old saying. If you want something done right.....do it yourself!

  • number 3... i knew that one already

  • You know, she gives good advice, but because I am a man i find myself tuning out most of what she says lol. So much easier listening to another guy talk about these things.

  • @Rykano yep, that would be really handy if you were dating guys, but if you are looking to date women wouldn't you want to know what they have to say?

  • @meetyoursweet4men I think so too, it's obviously very ideal to hear from an actual girl about girl psychology.

  • @meetyoursweet4men

    Nope, because western women have culturally internalized bizarre and unhealthy responses to healthy situations. This video gives a prime example: For instance, you say in the vid it's "creepy" for a guy to compliment you. There is nothing wrong with a man saying you're beautiful, and anywhere in the world except the west it would be flattering. In fact, it USED to be flattering here, and it still should be. Something is wrong there.

  • @AllPro777 actually, it is kinda creepy for a stranger to approach you and compliment you, mostly because many men expect that a woman accepting a compliment opens the door to him putting the moves on you. Newsflash: it isn't.

  • @meetyoursweet4men Women 101 :

    Women say one thing and mean another. Ask ANY married man about the merit of this statement.

  • @Rykano spoken like a single man. Believing such broad generalizations make me wonder why some of you guys want to attract women at all.

  • @meetyoursweet4men We all wonder that sometimes lol: the old axiom

    "women -cant live them; cant live without them"

  • @Rykano totally agree! That's why the key to attraction is understanding the opposite sex rather than relying on stereotypes or misguided beliefs. There is no substitute to good sound knowledge. Best of luck!

  • @meetyoursweet4men You know something- you're right!

  • ifel in love with you

  • @almasriarfan Yeah, that goes straight into the creepy zone.

  • WTF am i watching

  • Hahaha this is true because all the girls I try to ignore end up liking me, and all the girls I try to give attention to end up avoiding me!

    At first I thought it was just irony, but now this makes more sense.

  • @Lukash636 I have to agree with you, Rarely do i attract girls i am interested in, its when I try to avoid those that im not interested in which are the ones that tend to like me. I thought this might be the problem just nice to here it from a woman. The trouble is trying not to get all worked up when you find one you like lol not easy!

  • @GarySandStorm it's a law of attraction, scarce things are more valued, so don't be too available. The last thing they like is needy guys!

  • @GarySandStorm Haha yeah I hear you man XD glad I'm not the only guy experiencing this lol

  • @Lukash636 Women seem to be counter clockwise productive. They always want to find a way to make the guy as least happy as possible. If you want her, she doesn't and if you don't want her, she's crazy about you. There are tons of other examples you'll discover in addition to that.

  • @troydeancarpenter LOL that makes sense to me. Annoying isn't it? lol

  • i make my crush laugh and i always to talk to her but i'm not sure if she likes me

  • I've done all you said without listening to you, and guess what! I'm still single for 3 years :P.

  • @8te8ter1 then u ugly :P

  • @ocelot435 and a six pack

  • this is finally some good advice, that sounds reasonable

  • 50-60 years ago, almost every single thing this girl claims to be "creepy" was actually seen as respectful and flattering by women. Women today seem to be much pickier and confusing than they once were. I think it's much more awkward to just walk straight up to a girl all in 1 motion than easing your way closer. Girls think everything is creepy today. Grow up...women think they are their gift to earth and act as bitches as a result just because they are hot.

  • @nyker07 "they are hot"

    No! Women are not that hot. Probably 25% of women could be considered cute and around 5% seductive but not every women is hot! The women in this video is more than ugly! And about the women, 60 years ago, they were absolutely gorgeous! And smarter than the today ones. Thats the reason why guys today want to only have sex, because there's nothing there between the ears in many women. No individuality, no streetsmarts, no true artistic interest...

  • So, don't try to get the girl, act like you don't care about what she thinks about you, be yourself(lol you could be shy and timid), don't compliment them, stare her down until she looks away, RELAX even though women are extremely judgmental of everything you say and do. BUAHAHAHAHHAA

  • @52PACKISBACK12 totally agreed haha. If women were logical, this would be a video for how to NOT get a girl

  • I'm a peacock, you gotta let me fly.

  • women find everything creepy...fkn annoying....but cant blame them I guess...we dont know how it is for a woman with muhfucas approaching everywhere out of they ass

  • Now if only more women knew the difference between insecurity and humility....I also wish they knew the difference between being confident and being a douchebag, I also wish they knew the difference between what they SAY they want in a man and what they ACTUALLY want in a man.

  • I like the Wing Girls better. :)

  • Ok just to clarify what you said (i tend to put things in my own words sometimes) - so its creepy to be a normal person but being a sociopathic manipulative cruel asshole with no emotion or ability to connect is the non-creepy part really attractive. Gotcha now i understand why im treated like the bad guy, and its all the assholes that are actually the good guys :D Thaaayhhhkss !!! Its kinda like terrorism, cool. You go girl, you got it together (CLICK !)

  • High Quality women...lmao what does that even mean?...rofl

  • thx man ill try that

  • thanks for the advice im gonna try that out tomorrow!!!

  • You shouldn't try to impress girls (to an extent), it becomes the opposite of creating an impression. You'll be like all the other guys who try too hard and fade into to the background.

  • LOL if you believe this, you will never get laid. The truth is women like to be impress, have the confidence to go up to her and walk away if she is not interested like you found someone else more interesting to talk to. That's how you impress her, by acting like you don't care about getting laid with her, but having a great time talking.

  • watching this video confirms the belief all women are nutcases.

  • The only interesting thing I got from this was Elvis was blonde?

  • the best thing to do is and i mean it ,,,talk about your ip adress

  • This has some truth to it. I never tried when I got a women, but usually the wrong ones for me came my way to potentially prepare me to better appreciate the next ones. I always had the wrong ones come my way because they never appreciated themselves and were just unfit for me. But I think it's so rediculous how this paradox works. If there's a god out there, they enjoy a lot of wasted time. If you were beyond entertainment ind. and you created a race, would you watch them like a television?

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  • @iRewel but thats it

  • good tips

  • in my own skin? so i have to go naked?

  • wat if this girl is into ur best friend and gives you these funny stare offs? :D how do i get her to notice me?

  • may not resonate with all women and theres nothing better than a guy being himself, you really should promote that instead of telling men to change becuase the women worth their time will respect them for they are and if they dont or vice versa then whats the point find someone who you can be yourself with who respects you for you. its so lame how men should be told to be something their not.

  • you forgot having a wad of cash

  • How to impress anyone who is "looking around in a lll the wrong places": step one, trance the fuck out, with you're MIND's eye, then you look around and everyones groovin' amen, you dont kow nothin

  • @sandysuicide when I read your comment I laughed so hard I dropped my phone and cracked the screen... WORTH IT.

  • She says "When were talking about high quality women" and then goes on to talk about a pretty generic, lowly kind of pathetic narcicistic bitch type women for the rest of the video.

  • What if I'm comfortable with my insecurity?

  • @DannyPhantomBeast then...i don't think its an insecurity. lol

  • @BR914 If she want someone invulnerable, which is nonexistent, then I'm not interested in her.

    I want someone with realistic ideas about love.

  • @DannyPhantomBeast its as simple as understanding you are the cause and effec tof your reaction to things. if you want anon vulnerbale person try being that yourself first. becuase these types of women do exist,we understand that we control what we think feel and how we react. non reaction is best.

  • ego boost or ball shit...Everybody in this world has to have ego boost weather this is in high school or mid-age, or after a depression. can somebody tell who the fuck is this girl, who the fuck are u woman ?

  • thnx

  • How to impress a woman;

    1 Give her all you money

    2 Do everything she says

    3 Agree with everything she says

    ... and prove you are a total mangina!

  • Just tell girls your a lawyer or a doctor... Guaranteed dates...

  • Try to speed it up 2x...

  • she is one hot bomb and i love her accent geez

  • but i am insecure, why would i want to pretend i'm not? fuckingg women.

  • why would you want to "impress" someone?

    this is where all these "advice" videos go wrong.

    FACT: if you want to impress a girl you will end up making a fool of yourself.

    just be yourself, do what you like, be good at it.

    but also know your worth. aim for someone in your range.

    if you are a little chubby, aim for someone a little chubby. etc.

  • @tehc4ncer i agree buddy..but she has point...you dont have to be insecure with girls

  • if you are a man don't listen to this bitch's advice

  • @Nitecrowler56 if you want to maintain your virginity use the word bitch as often as possible.

  • u so wierd

  • also is it true a woman can tell if a guy masterbates? i have heard it said befor dont know if its true tho.

  • @tjgehmann1030 All guys do, its not hard to guess with a 100% conviction rate

  • @lessavit true but the same could be said about guy's noticing when a women hasnt had sex inawhile or at all.

  • okay question if a gal makes eye contact with you, twice then smiles or makes eye contact crosses her legs and plays with her hair dose that mean shes into you? what are some obvious signs a gal is attracted to you from across a room?

  • shows you how dumb women are in general

  • dont u have to look nice?

  • It works holy CRAP

  • I like her, yum!

  • It's so funny. I've actually done the 'hover' and 'the creepy long' eye contact... it never goes anywhere. The worst part is, I'm actually a great conversationalist, a flirt... so I've been told, and I have no problem starting a conversation with anyone. I just have this fear of closing or not being able to close that has been killing my love life.

  • @Trinivalist yeah im the same way im a social butterfly so to speak and often will approach a lady im interisted in and talk. but sometimes even opening can be tough. however closing is always the hardest part. but if you make her smile you win.

  • Damn sweetie

    I always thought harder was better-- what a relief.

    KNOWZ

    peace

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  • This is probably the most legit shit I've ever seen on youtube.

  • yes she is right its about pick up artist i love this girl bc she know it all ;)

  • Well... ACTUALLY I thought complimenting a woman about her beauty would lead her to think I do have an interrest in her. Therefor, it's all hers to choose if she finds me attractive as well or not and to accept it and move on ! ... o_o

  • If you are trying to impress women then you are doing something wrong; they should be trying to impress you.

  • It actually helped I did not even try I just went with the flow she said yes before i was dun even asking her out

  • Give her flowers. Bitches love flowers

  • I have no idea why i'm watching this i allredy know how to get womans atracction*

  • Im only here because Im bored. Im Irish american and I guess she is too. I suppose Id be curious to see if theres freckles on her arse.

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  • Im a loser for watching this T.T

  • imma laugh when you get pulled by mystery

  • @westside26807

    How to impress a guy:

    step 1: Turn around and let me see your butt.

    The end.

  • @nonSteel Lol... -.- true

  • @nonSteel No, you actually need an impressive butt for that.

  • @Serkix if no butt, bend over. the end

  • @nonSteel WIN comment

  • girl:do u think im pretty Boy:no girl:do u want to b with me forever Boy:NO she heard enough and waz hurt, she walked away tears ran down her faceThe boy grabbed her arm boy: your not pretty your beautiful i dont want to b with u forever, i NEED u forever plz stay with me girl: i will Tonight at midnight ur true love will realize they love u Something good will happen to you between 1-4 pm tomorrow anywhere If you dont post this to 5 other pages you will have love problems for the nxt 10 yrs

  • HEY I LOVE THOSE CARD TRICKS BUHAHAAHAHAHA.

    I HATE CONFIDENCE. I LIKE CARD TRICKS BETTER

  • @TheMuhatir hahaah I dunno why I laughed at that

  • My greatest success with women has come at the point when finally I didn't care if they liked me at all. I still don't. And it was around this time that everything changed. It's a mindset that needs to be achieved. On the battlefield, one does not become a true warrior until he realizes that he is already dead. Then the good shit starts. :-) BTW, guys tend to give off a really creepy vibe when they are on the make.

  • Hey gentlemen I have used this one and it works. Just tell a girl she is beautiful or her makeup/hair looks good. Something she put effort into and YOU noticed it.

  • ik im 15 and ive been waiting for a girl to pay attention to me and its not working, ive only had 1 gf and she cheated on me.... so i dont know if this is wotking out, i try not to act like i care if i talk to them or not, maybe they think im gay...... this girl thing is kinda confusing, i just wanna walk up and be like, come with me. but thats just weird

  • @MadManWithMoney It's pretty simple man all you have to do is walk up to her and as her how are you doing, or good afternoon. And you don't even have to talk about something crazy or incredible you can just talk about your day or her day and then complement something about her (not physical or obvious, but don't over do it). If she wants to holla back she'll holla back but know that talking about your day and having a regular conversation isn't hard so relax and be confident.

  • elvis was blonde?!!?

  • Make her a song even if u play metal

  • I find attracting women EASY. I always keep a fat bank-roll in my pocket (it can mostly be plain paper with notes on the outside) & produce it at the bar when next to a pretty girl.

    TECHNIQUE: I peel a note off & brush it gently down the side of her face, neck & body- ending between her legs if I can manage it. If she’s wearing a tight dress or top, you’ll ALWAYS see her nipples perk up like eager puppies’ noses- even if she’s with another guy! Remember- MONEY is the world’s no.1 aphrodisiac.

  • Don't read this cause it actually works. You will get kissed by the love of your life on the nearest possible Friday. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. However if you don't post this on at least 3videos you will die within two days. Now that you started reading this don't stop. This is so scary. Put this on at least 3 videos in 143 minutes. When you're done press f6 and your lovers name will appear in big letters. This is so scary cause it actually works!!

  • Women won't respond if you tell them they're beautiful? Not my kind of woman then. Why would I want a girl who isn't secure enough to respond well to a compliment?

  • I know a way. Don't call her a girl once she's an adult.

  • How to REALLY get it going with women:

    1. Don't listen to any of the "how to get her" videos on youtube.

    2. You're probably a rather nice guy. Just be a little less nice, more "do your thing no matter what"

    3. Get laid.

    Why?

    Women are emotional. Emotions don't follow logic. There is no "check list" to follow, because if you did that, you just followed rules the girls make up all the time. Part of being attractive means NOT to listen to the girls and doing your own thing.

  • @hackebeil20 so telling a girl we don't know that she's hot is okay? :/

  • @hackebeil20 Great advice!

  • i tried to do what ever she told me and still she rejected me

  • @jaysaw1000 I just posted about that.

    If you follow the rules, you will fail. Why? Women like men who do their own thing no matter what. If you follow rules, you are not doing for your own thing. Part of being attractive to women means actually not to follow those rules. In doing so you will seem less caring, less nice and more egoistic but still win the girl. Because girls like alpha-males and alpha-males don't follow rules, they make their own. The trick is knowing when to stop being an ass.

  • Whats really pissy is that a bunch of girls will be rude to you because they like you. Not like asshole rude just plyful rude. But im like "bitch its obvious you like me so lets just talk and start a convo instead of you just being a bitch" idk its hard to explain. Girls say guys have no people skills and were immature. Im 14 yrs old and im just laid back, responsable,and mature. And it actually works

  • And don't come to me with that hypocritical shit.

    A guy who's hard to look at? IT'S A DEALBREAKER.

    UNLESS SHE CAN'T GET ANYONE ELSE

    Trust me, I used to be ugly and pathetic. I HIT PUBERTY. THEN THEY WANTED ME?

    I WAS LIKE, FUCK NO YOU SHALLOW CUNTS. GTFO.

    Point is, the first thing a women notices about a guy is his APPEARANCE. even the DESPERATE ONES LIKE THE GUYS WHO APPEAR BETTER BUT THEY LACK THE CONFIDENCE TO GO AFTER THEM.

    AGH I GIVE UP ON HUMANITY YOURE ALL NEANDERTHALS EVERY ONE OF YOU

  • i did everything opposite...

  • So act like am ass

  • Right, because why would a woman respond to a guy telling her the truth?

  • It's difficult for me to maintain eye contact to certain people at times because am a shy person. Also when am having a conversation with people face to face i hate it when i mess up on my speech especially when i sometimes stutter and when i run out of things to say which i need a moment to think of something else to say in the conversation" Maybe it's because i think faster than i speak which that might cause me to mess up on what am saying. Interesting tips !

  • Are you serious??

    Elvis was blonde? :O

  • can you once tell us what to say and stop dont this dont that.

    what can I say to her!!!

  • Thumbs up If you think:

    1- You were born handsome...You only have to do a little effort and you have it all...

    2- You're ugly... You desperately need watching this video and hoping it works...

    3 - You're ugly, you go and try these tips and come back home... ALONE ! LOOOL

  • "like a moth to a flame"..? im pretty sure moths dont fly into fire and kill themselves :/

  • Wow you're really good at engaging the listener, your body language is exquisite!

  • Also, most women I know don't want a guy who is really seeking out a woman. Do what you really want to in life- the best romance isn't planned :), I honestly, am pretty much just another guy in my group of friends, (all guys, I can't stand being with preps. Seriously, they are complex) and all I want to do is enjoy myself in life. So I repeat, just try to get a girl on the way. You don't need a girl to be happy and I could say the other way around.

  • Oh man. I don't like to be characterized with other women. Personally, I am a woman, and I watched this video out of curiosity. To be honest, I have only truly liked a few men in my life very much. I like the ones who are very kind, and will sit down and talk to you about anything. To all guys- before you try to find a lover in a girl, find a friend in her. Also, never be a bad sport in competitions, it's a complete turnoff.

  • All my best friends are girls, so getting girlfriends hasn't been a big problem, but these tips were great anyway(:

  • you have a very social body movement

    this is fantastic

  • but what if i spend my life in studing and forgeetting this field not married stil now is depressing

  • will this help 14 year olds?

  • @thejacobhughes it seems pretty universal