moms and kids commonly treated like crap after adoption

[efdizzle09]

its probably not my place to say this, but i really think adoption should only be a choice for parents who are truely unfit. like drug addicts or people who are in poverty or who are abusive. if you are giving up your children just because you are "too young" or because you have to achieve more in your career, i say its time to own up to your responsibility and endure whatever set back you must make to raise your child the best you can. adoption shouldn't be the solution to make your life easier

[nounethicaladoptions]

The thing I would add to that is I this is that I think many, if not most young women give their child up under pressure, they think they can't do it. But its important to remember that the young don't stay young for long. Even if you are 16 and pregnant, by the time the child is 6 you'll be 22 and an adult who is a lot more responsible, when you get to be that age and that responsible you will likely really regret you gave up your child because it was a final solution to a temporary situation

[Ethiopia7711]

As Ethiopian mom I feel you!

[efdizzle09]

@Ethiopia7711 adoption in ethiopia is different. those mothers literally have no means to raise their kids. if they themselves are in poverty, how can they feed another child? in the usa, mothers give up their children because the child didn't come at a good time in their life. although i sympathize with both, i don't think this is the same.

[cinnaminkym]

When a person adopts a child they are raising the child temporarily. That child will grow up to want to see thier parent no matter what people think! It is a natural response to want to know your true identity. My grandson was given up for adoption. My son and his girlfriend were tricked into an open adoption. They had no money to care for the baby and were told that if they had a change of heart they could get him back. They got jobs and were told to go home and moarn the loss of their baby!

[backyardphilosopher]

I placed my daughter for open adoption. The people who adopted her stopped contact with me when she was 6. When my daughter was a 16 she started being a teen and her parents didn't know how to react and abandoned her. My daughter lives down the road from me and we both realize I screwed up ROYALLY by placing her for adoption. I wish I never made this huge mistake. Adoption is a BAD decision!!! I wish I could take my decision back every day!!

[97karenlacey]

I always felt that adoption agency are rogue agencies with little oversight,who use young women like baby machines.

[fairlightdawn112]

Thank you so much for exposing this. I've known about this for years ! I was adopted and it was quite horrible. I found my real (not birth) parents when I was 16 yrs. old. I found out that they had been lied to by the adoption agency and the agency had lied to me as well, for reasons I don't understand. People don't realize what a rackett the adoption business really is.

[Reinpret]

i had no idea this existed.. this is shocking. totally unacceptable.

[lglov]

All attempts should be made to keep mothers and their children together, unfortunately the adoption business tries to separate them via coercion, harassment and legalized kidnapping in order to profit off the sale of their children.

Aps need to get a grip on their infertility and stop participating in the victimization of vulnerable girls & women just to get their hands on another woman's baby.

[JohnWesleyMethodist]

I agree with this statement. Adoption is not God's will. Christians everywhere are so clueless on this issue that they think they are doing a good service and they aren't. If Christians want to do good they ought to help keep mom and baby together.

[ANGELOF69]

my daughter was adopted out in pa behind my back i never signed nothing

shes now 19 only contacted me gether dads pics etc acts like i don,t exist

[OlsenMania]

Well my cousin is 37 and her mother couldn't take care of her which is why we got her. She's happy and never once did my mom and them treat her bad as a kid...these people just had a bad experience. She's happy and when she found out she was adopted she didn't really care, her real mom dosen't want to see her so she dropped it. I'm going to adopt but some men are sad but oh well don't lay down until you're married and both are sure whta you want to do...there are too many mistakes in teh world

[nounethicaladoptions]

Maybe you just had a good experience, there is no way of knowing since there are no statistics kept on adoption and it is a multi-billion dollar unregulated industry. If you are referring to children as "mistakes in the world" maybe it wasn't as positive as you thought it was for all involved. Most people would chose not to refer to their children that way.

[11Justice]

Mom, Dads, Grandads, Grandmums, aunts, uncles, cousins, close friends ... All loosing out on watching these children grow and develop in life. Its a crime. And the powers that be, don't give a shit because they know best. After all they are supreme we are the degenerates, project - project ... ill thoughts, creating ill society... There is nothing more important then keeping love in the home. And the government has no right to dictate what they think best.

[t4705mb6]

Men, loving, caring and giving dads, lose their children too. This is not just a womans issue. I know. It happened to me.

[Bizziboy]

Same here.

[Psalm127v3]

me too!

[nationawakening]

ya but men are literally forced into it women almost never take the blame for their actions these women were given an option thats their fault they lost children no one elses. men are also forced to work and forced to hand their earnings over for their children with no guarantee of ever being a part of their life for no reason other than having a dork

[t4705mb6]

The "court" took my kids. The judge said (in 5 minutes) "All I know is the calf goes with the heffer!" BANG!! The gavel went down and I lost my 2 kids, all my savings, the home I built from scratch, the NEW car, all the furniture & my credit cards - EVERYTHING I had worked for.

All this happened because my STUPID wife was having sex with my daughters friends 17 year old brother who moved into MY house after I was FORCED out.

When she died from asthma the court put my kids in foster care!!!

[joe80dman]

We can all witness the pain these mothers have endured. The one mother was coerced into relinquishing her parental rights, and her regret for doing so is all too obvious. I would suggest to any mother, or parent in general, to obtain a Restraining Order against CPS, or any other adoption agency, when harassed to surrender their child. The pain in their faces should teach everyone not to follow their mistakes.

[lonewolf1264]

I have seen foster homes that are very abusive,at one where they they adopted 2 fetal alcoh syndrome kids.The blood big brother was sexually molesting the 8 year old adopted boy,got caught but cps left the kids there!Ya, think twice before giving up your child!!to these animals!!!

[lonewolf1264]

TheseCPS workers are demonicly inspired,pray,pray,pray!!God hates this crap!!

[floydgirl7]

lonewolf,,couldnt have said it better myself m8,,its evil how they destroy familys jerks

[11Justice]

Excellent for speaking out. Keeping children from their loved ones is nothing but inhumane.

[cusanusnicolas]

thanks!

[CPSSucks]

Thank you for this video, and thank you to all the women in this video. You have done a wonderful thing by speaking out.

[CPSSucks]

Excellent. This is so important as the adoption agencies and CPS are busy spreading their lies and propaganda. The bond between parent and child is SACRED. NEVER GIVE UP YOUR FLESH AND BLOOD.