From my personal experiences, I think women and man are equally manipulative and selfish, and equally as likely to burden themselves on their families. But if you aren't convinced of the double standard, just turn on your TV. If some guy starts screaming and throwing things because someone looked at him crosseyed, it's surely a crime show or a Lifetime movie. Women scream and throw things at guys all the time on TV, often accompanied by a laugh track.
@MegaMelissa345 No, I didn't laugh AT him. His bad moods came randomly and a lot of the time I wasn't aware of it, so there was a heightened sense of paranoia in my household about showing signs of happiness. But it got pretty hard at times, especially when I was got into middle/high school and began talking on the phone with my friends a lot. It would get awkward to explain to people I'd talk to when I'd be chatting but my dad would approach to hit me or take the phone away.
(cont) On the flip side, my fiancee lives in a home run by his mother. His mom is a lot like you've described, she runs the house with an iron fist and forces her family to abide by her moods. If she is upset, then the whole family must be as well. She's actually been terrible to me as well, going so far as to threaten me for dating her son and she doesn't want any of her children to date despite them all being over 18... Some people (male and female) are just really fucked up.
I wrote a comment in another video of yours recently where I put that both men and women can be manipulative/violent. In my life, I've seen a lot of examples of both sexes using whatever power they wield over their family to control and abuse. My dad was a lot like the women you describe here, if he wasn't happy, then my mom and I had to be. It would go so far that if he was in a bad mood and I was laughing or enjoying myself, he would smack me in the mouth for it. (cont)
This family terrorist your describing is basically the "Chess master" troupe in TV shows, such as Johan from the animated series "Monster" if I'm not mistaken.
But you know, I'm pretty sure that after all the time we've been on this Earth, there's probably a reason why we do things the way we do them.
You just basically described the human condition of infallibility and manipulation and pinned it on women, as if men aren't capable of manipulation in their own right.
No, what I did was point to the fact that we live in a culture that sees, OVER- sees actually, what men do, but ignores and enables women. I think you missed it.
its the same kind of attitude that denies the hollocost , theres stats that show how many women lose their lives by their partners , how many women end up in emergency rooms . just because guys call police to charge a women with assault for defending herself , and there are police who will go through with it , you have stats . your video is laughable
I've been through this all my life and am still subject to it. It's pure abuse, distorts the truth and drove my father away. It's hard when it's a daughter and her mother as mom will guilt trip you and deflect issues and you can't do shit but take the beating cause you're a kid. I've learned the hard way that I never want to be a mama, thank you for bringing up the issue.
I can't relate. I was raised by my dad after my mom died. I fled from the beatings into an abusive marriage but fled from that the first year damaged but alive. I have given up on men in a last ditch effort to live in a peace. PLEASE - we've all been victims of the abrahamic male female gender rolls. I've turned my back on religion as well as my family in an effort to think for myself. I find it telling that you quote "god" to praise your son but are estranged from your daughter.
every woman in my family is like that, they are psychopaths and they call themselves goddesses, they promote incest, commit murder, promote homosexuality, they play evil mind games with children, in short they serve the devil
i have met women like this.... pure evil...the amount of emotional wreckage they leave behind is unbelievable....i feel sorry for anyone who gets involved with her family...her and her six kids ...she kicked her husband out....and she now goes clubbing with her young daughters. ....3 of them.....and guess what .....she,s lets people know that she is the one who was hard done by.....
if you spent all the time and effort trying to help battered men ( like starting a national organization to help them) maybe your video could be of some use. family terrorist? no, i am non-violent. i will show you how small you look in front of the whole world with your very own video. women and men alike that are battered should be helped. what are you going to do to help them? i suggest that if you truelly wan't to help, encourage men like that to leave with the children; and prosecute abusers
Yes, family terrorist. Deal with it. Or just shut up, I don't care. But I do suggest you shut the fuck up until you know what you are talking about. How's that for a suggestion, cupcake?
Where was your concern for men AND women the last two decades? Did you run around to women's shelters telling them to help men or you would show how small they were to the world?
@0801carolann The only way to "truly help" is to convince(force) the government to change their laws. Whats in writing as law is where we will strike. Youtube as of 2011 is littered with MRA's and their message. 10 years ago you would not have known they existed.Times change. Like G.W. said pretty soon they will hear us all. Enjoy the inequality while it lasts.
Don't blame women that much dude. They are really lovely but they are disphoric hahah! When you see your wife spitting fire, secretly slip 30mg of codeine in her food and you'll be surprised how lovely she will be in an hour!
@ProxySpam Look how many women are on Klonopin to treat depression. You gona say it's related to you not being a good husband? What about her? If you start comparing her ass to Kate Moss, then I would need to take Klonopin too to fuck that shit. Do I? No. Why? Because my brain is OK.
"Social ties are necessary to progress; and social ties are drawn closer by family-ties. For this reason, family-ties are a law of nature. God has willed that men should learn, through them, to love one another as brothers." What would be the effect upon society of the relaxation of family-ties?"
@wranglers575 she is probably making a killing off of her ex husband(s) thanks to the state, so of course she doesn't acknowledge men getting fucked over by the state...
@crizl2007 Is crime only bad when men do it? Or are you just a moron? A fascist who thinks only certain people should be heard? Isn't dying by women's hands enough? Screw you.
@EvilsOfFeminism First I don't know why are you being rude to me. Second, I never said such thing. Hate, violence and crime is appalling no matter what sex practices it. I just said that in history of mankind, women were the sex that more often were object of violence of men and not vice-versa. I am not at all proud of the growing violence of women toward men. It is just not right. We were made for each other, to protect and cherish, not beat, kill or rape.
@crizl2007 The reason I am being rude to you is that most violence is male/male. You obviously drank the feminist Kool-Aid and apparently don't even know any better. I can't help but be pissed off. It's just so damn stupid. Even mens' dreams, on average, contain way more men than women. Men spot signs of aggression more rapidly, too. This can only mean that men have to be more aware of violence and other men. Your claim to know all of history based on PC bullshit also pisses me off, by the way.
@EvilsOfFeminism No my dear, the history I know is not based on "PC bullshit". I lived in a machist country and I know first-hand when I talk about the men to women violence, I have also lived it by myself, so do not judge my knowledge before knowing where or what I have lived. I base my comment on my experience of life - I have seen more violence towards women by men than vice-versa. But I do not desbelief that the women to men violence exists, I just didn't know it when I wrote my 1st comment.
@crizl2007 You might want to have some more research before you comment idly about how bad men are as a group or responsible for all the evil in this world, that we are some sort of poison in in this world, because I am vigilant for feminist Thought Police, the enforcers of great wickedness in this world today, and I am just as vigilant looking for them as I was when I went on post. If you come into my post and insult men, then prepare to be rebutted fiercely!
My mother to a "T". Since I am the only one who stands against my mom and some of the stupid things she comes up with, it is I who used to be blamed for the problems in my family. Older now, I have been free from this for many years, however, the damage was done. I cannot even be around my family because of my mother. I have lost a great deal of respect for my father for the way he allows my mom treat him. Great video.
Very sadly, I have to say that my late mother was one of these women. I almost lost touch with my own personality in all the accusations and histrionics leveled at me over the years. She fought a very tough battle with cancer that took her in the end. I'd like to say that we made a kind of peace at the end, but she closed herself off from me, and left this world as tight lipped as she ever was.
Reality Shows like Real Housewives and Teen Mom are lifting the veil off the sacred cow of motherhood/female empowerment. Inevitable, really, because there's so many examples of the pain resulting from a female-centred society.
You want to hurt momma? Simple. Do what I did. As soon as you`re legally old enough to move out of home, pack and and go and never return. Never talk to the bitch again. Empower yourselves.
I live in a shared house with such a couple: she is absolutely manipulative and deceitful creature. She cheats on him constantly, and if it is not her way, its the highway. His wallet is supposed to be common but hers is only hers. But in general I think they are fitting together - birds from a feather flock together. Clever men prefer to be single than manipulated and used, while simple men jump on the first train that they see moving. I hope that there are some decent women, may be just a few.
In dealing with family terrorists, I'd like to cite Alec Baldwin's wisdom from 30 Rock:
Step One: Say no.
Step Two: She'll try to pick a fight with you. She will yell at you. At this point, keep your voice down, because when you raise your voice, emotions run high, and she'll get the upper hand. If you stay calm, you'll keep control.
Step Three: She'll say that she's disappointed in you, and she'll walk away. Let her. She'll be admitting defeat.
@GJNCA I am a 36 yr old woman, and I remember this pc crap really went nuts in the 90s as well. It was a culmination of fems have massive power in laws since the 60s, and once they were legally "safe and protected" due to legal changes, they revealed their true, man hating colors.
The family court system in Canada is overrun and broken - A complete joke of preconceived notions. The woman simply need create some false accusation of abuse or violence and the father gets dragged through the system for years.
We are at the mercy of lawyers, judges, psychologists, parenting "co-ordinators", child protection agencies, etc...
In the end, the outcome is usually the same: The father loses custody and is wiped out financially, regardless of being right, regardless of the fight.
most women are hypocrates hell prettylittle thing went rabid because I said the women being allowed to raise their children in prison is special treatment. Although my father is this kind of POS
What's the deal with the flashing behind the letters on some graphics in most of your video's? I've watched a few of them and was wondering because they bother me when I'm trying to listen.
I have never noticed that or heard about it in the past year. I know that on some of the earlier ones there is some imagine jumping when scenes change, but that was fixed with new software.
This hits home for me. I'm 16 and I think my Mom fits this description very well. She says we treat her so awfully and she has it so hard, and doesn't blame herself for anything. My parents constantly fight (by constantly I mean almost every day), and I never want to be around her. I'm very saddened and I don't know what to do.
Keep your head down and bide your time sir. It won't be long till you are out of there, but if you ever feel threatened, get some help. Tell someone. I wish you the best of luck. And thank God you can see this for what it is.
You need to get your pops on the MGTOW page.... Show him the light!
Better yet, let mom know that if she continues her behavior, there will come a point that you will tune her out, and then she'll be all alone... When the child brings up the subject of moms shitty behavior, it can have more effect sometimes... My mom hates hearing me tell her about her behavior, lol...
@XxPnuemaxX Well, check this out: I'm a 50 year old man who had to move back in with my parents to take care of them. My mom is now an eighty year-old bitch who hasn't changed at all! I, too, spent all my time avoiding her, and I've been doing it for the last 40 years. My advice is to get out of the house and don't ever come back. Live your life.
@ArizonaDelRio Good advice. I finally severed ties with my cruel, psychotic bitch of a mother, and haven't had any contact for twenty years. It was absolutely the best thing I have ever done for myself. I really had no idea what a toxic effect she had on me until I finally had her out of my life.
@pissinintheyard I did the same thing. My mother was a psycho and I hate her. I will never let her back in my life. May she burn in hell. Good luck to you.
Women are to be avoided as much as possible. Jerk off and you can ensure that your life is yours till your death. If you make the horrifying error of putting ANY part of your body anywhere near a woman than you will pay dearly. Do not buy into what society is selling, that is, that you cannot be a man unless you are fucking a woman. Fuck NO ONE. Do not let these evil controlling monters devour your soul. All they want is everything you have and not a bit less.
This describes my mother. Whenever she came home upset, we all had to pay for it. I don't really see to many women these days that have the traits of a nurturing creature. Sometimes I wonder if you can even still call them women. The only thing my mother ever cared about was her reputation in high school, and how much she could beat my brothers. I mean females these days even look down own the role of being a mother at home as if that is a "bad" thing. Its like they are a new 3rd gender unknown.
Do you think that it is just "now," that women weren't always, "nurturing," creatures. Study the Maenads, ancient priestesses who ripped people to pieces when in a frenzy. Or Locusta the Poisoner, the first female serial killer recorded of B.C.E.
Men can be nurturing and women can be cruel and vice versa. There should be no expectations so no one is shocked.
@lovelyladynostalgic I can agree but in American society women are viewed as if they can do no wrong. Thats why i made that comment. When someone brings up the negative things that a female may or may not do, that person is met with frowns and labeled a woman hater in a lot of cases. I guess those people forgot to look up Locusta the Poisoner. There shouldn't be expectations but they are taught to american children at a very young age...gender roles, and expectations etc;
A woman who posses one or so of these traits is no big deal but one who posses all of those attitudes & traits is a psycho because they really don't care. I've had my share of psycho women. They're easy to spot now. I have no wish to change them. I'm looking for my perfect match. I know she's out there. I'm not settling for less, or miss right now. I'm happier being single & keeping my money in my pocket.
Also, a lot of women are sweet and nice before marriage, but once you put a ring on her finger she changes completely for the worse. Much worse. Sex quality and quantity drops after childbirth. She may also balloon in size after marriage.
There is absolutely nothing about marriage that benefits a man. High risks, low returns, and a plain bad investment. Just say NO.
my observation is that both sexes turn into assholes once they are married. both sexes get fat, ugly and old. sex lives turn to shit as marital baggage accumulates. but i look at it this way (considering myself lucky to have made pretty good choices so far) marriage sucks for everyone. it's a binding. it's a doomed institution. men and women are both susceptible to outright insanity, and descend into it equally. why bind yourself to someone, when you can be certain they are going to be insane?
There should be some sort of return policy for defective goods...
Like if you can prove in court that your spouse changed DRAMATICALLY after the wedding. There should be legal redress, totally. I believe that yes, some women lay on the charm thick to suck you into a marriage, then become total princesses who won't lift a finger.. And why should she? Society told her the score, and she knows her rights, if you piss her off, YOUR FUCKED, and she knows it.
@papalolita I dont know, to me seems more like a myth than anything else. Yes some marriages go to hell. And usually the responsabilities are shared between both partners. But I will never buy into the belif that there is a underground conspiracy against men. About the sex, yeah they need it to, women love sex, so if the quality drops (while it should improve) it means only that you two are not communicationg properly. Sorry if i am frankly
you can't always tell if woman will become a psycho until your at least 3 years into a relationship, or even long after marriage. Until your relationship is truly tested after the 3rd year mark can u really tell exactly who you are dealing with. Many times it takes only one meeting, but you just can't tell sometimes until it's too late. Things change even more radically after child birth.
lol I just got to wonder,,,,, HOW IN THE WORLD DID MEN OF THE USA LET THIS SHIT GO ON FOR SO DAMN LONG??!! Iam black. We need to stop this Black Queen shit that we insist on preaching to women to whom do not deserve such a title. We treat them like queens and we get treated like Dirt and a pile of shit. And when ever we defende ourselfs from DV, all the Women has to do is return back to the Victim act,,, then BOOM,,, the man goes to jail. LOL the STATES IS FUCKED UP!!!! Equallity my ass!!!
" HOW IN THE WORLD DID MEN OF THE USA LET THIS SHIT GO ON FOR SO DAMN LONG??!!"
I think it is because men are just exactly different than feminists have portrayed us. We generally do whatever we can for women, including a lot of us that supported feminism.
You said it best when you noted [if I may paraphrase] that both genders were bound by suffocating gender roles. Feminists freed themselves from their own gender roles by exploiting the fact that men were still trapped in our own. They kept taking because we were trained to keep giving. To preserve and increase their power in society they used the law, media, education, and family position to collectively reinforce servile attitudes in their sons and spouses.
All that said most of the time even if you complete the classes the courts offer. The domestic violence charge can and will pop up again like a childs jack- in the- box if you ever have any type of physical confrontations again. So you have nothing to lose really the corrupt courts, police that enforce these laws. I am reminded of cool hand Luke just cuz its your job boss dont make it right
Put the mule on the states back and make them prove youre guilty. This pisses them off and slows the court system. What they want is for you to lay down like a subservient guilty male that you are and take what the police department and court systems are about to stick up your ass.
Never ever ,compromise on a domestic violence charge .P.D. have become robots as far domestic violence laws go there going to charge you and turn over to the district attorney for prosecution (persecution ). Then D.A. offers a plea take these classes example domestic violence, anger management. The feed the coffers of local feminist organizations and you pay for them.
NEVER sign and admit guilt in DV if you have done nothing wrong.
YOU WILL PAY A HEAVY PRICE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! For the charge will be on you record to be used against you in the future.
Force them to prove you are guilty in a court of law! Even there, you don't always get an impartial hearing, but it is better than laying down and allowing them to trample on you.
@ArizonaDelRio I am sorry to hear that my friend. That is why I advocate for men to NEVER admit guilt if there is none. It will take some work and some money, but you will be better off in the end to have a clean record!
In one moment, this guy praises the ability of humans to deal with things that don't go their way and then goes on to demonize women. The misogyny here is palpable. Talk about the SIMPLE TRUTH.
Wrong. And I know how wrong you can be. I have seen one of your videos.
The video is about a certain type of abusive woman. Talking about those women doesn't demonize women in general. Now, if you think this model fits all women, then that is your problem.
DianaBoston is a nutcase. If anybody points out that women have the potential and have been just as violent as men she gets defensive and claims misogyny. DianaBostion is a forty-something-year-old child woman.
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Another misogynist pig making an experienced woman into a child just like his patriarchs before him. And of course the typical 'insanity' plea. An obvious misogynist.
Oh, yes. The patriarchy. The magical conspiracy that keeps the woman down. You're obviously another feminazi scumbag, angry, deluded, and bitter towards males. You see males as the force behind everything that's wrong with your life. Typical radfem. Oh, and clean your fucking apartment. You live like a pig.
Says the forty-year-old woman that paints herself to look like a clown. Seriously, you got nothing on me. What I say of you is the truth and all your whining does nothing to disuade that fact. You are a victimologist, blaming an arbritary concept like the "patriarchy" on all of life's problems, when it's really your own choices and actions. Time to stop living in Wonderland.
Oh, let's just see how much you are able to 'mature' in 15 years because right now you sound like a little boy having a tantrum. And that's all you really are. LOL
@DianaBoston It is women such as YOU that cause boys/men to live and learn in undesirable bias surroundings, while you irresponsibly Laugh Out Loud about non laughing matters. Pay attention to the subject matter before you spew your ill sentiments. How do you expect anyone to mature around a vitriolic condescending woman such as you and countless others with like mind sets?
@DianaBoston: Your rhetoric hardly resonates the fine vibe of any sound intelligent woman, what exactly are you experienced in??? Calling another human being a PIG, because you are an unhappy bigot. It seems to me you are engaging in a pissing match, where the wind is soaking you in your own vile ejaculations. You are a mendicant of attention and self worth.
I am pleased to get my message across. That I chose simple or complex language is inconsequentual.
Incidentally, English is not my first language, nor my second. It's the third I learned. The next time you light up a smoke and expel profanity think about this.
Profanity is the bankruptcy of wit! You should be far more concerned with what you think, than what I think.
What is patently clear is that I have made my point.
Sure, stick your head in the sand where it belongs. No more email 2u.
Your welcome honey. Do you suffer from asexuality, or just general confusion?
Goddess? Thank you, but as mentioned before, I am far more modest than that which is meant only for supreme beings and to purport an assimilation to God would be in violation of my beliefs and rather arrogant, don't you think? In any event, I shall leave that kind of conceptualization firmly in your court of play.
@ALVHUN Ooooo, more typical insults about how I must be crazy or mentally unstable. Gee, that's predictable. Somehow, I could make similar comments to you but I'm just going to let you continue on with your childish patronizing.
There are legitimate concerns about your mental health. Your behavior here is one. The other I saw in one of your videos where you insinuated that the respondents to your video were "being studied" by mental health professionals, for the purpose of research. One, researchers don't use this kind of worthless material. And two, if they did, you biased their efforts by revealing their presence.
Either way, it adds up to personality disorder theater over on your channel.
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Gee, another comment about my mental health and how in teh menz perfect mind, women are ALWAYS mentally defective. LOL It's the same tired old insult. Go on and think you weren't being observed. What's the first step of scientific investigation? Could it be OBSERVATION? If you remember at that time I had at least 80 videos under my belt. And if you think MY videos were the only one's being watched, think again.
There is little scientific value in comments made to a women who handled her Daddy Issues by stealing Bozo the Clowns make up kit and using youtube to spout confabulations.
There is, however, diagnostic information relative to the one who made the videos, in the psychiatric sense.
So yes, "another" comment on your mental health. That must be becoming quite the routine for you.
Now remember, when you make your tin foil hat, be sure the shiny side is on the outside.
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@TheHappyMisogynist LOL Every comment you make with this vitriol just shows you for what you truly are little boy. Your comments are predictable and I'm used to them. Don't think for one minute that I don't understand why you make these comments. You're an angry little man with something to prove. All you're doing is looking foolish from my side of things. Every male who is insecure from time immemorial has made the 'crazy woman' argument. Again, LMFAO
@DianaBoston I am concerned with a disturbing pattern you display. You seem to be infatuated with "little boy(s)." You refer to everyone as a "little boy" or "little man." You are creepy!
I think you are a paedophile and I think you need to be reported to the authorities for their prompt disposition. Maybe you belong on the sex offender registry to help thwart any potential attacks on little boys.
Your suggestion that you are a lesbian is just probably a cover up. You sicko!!!
LOL I thought the same thing out of the corner of my eye i saw sociologist and and domestic violence experts from all major cities from the lower 48.Watch it again you'll see em Paul!!
Maan says that two states allow mens shelters, Maybe that was what she was referring to? I still don't get how it helps anybody else who isn't fortunate enough to live in one of those two states.
Expecting abused men that have obviously already been through traumatizing experiences to travel across the country just to get help from a shelter is cruel at best.
I'm standing up for WildNice. An alcoholic's problem is no one's fault but their own. As a one who has struggled and recovered from this affliction I would know. She did the right thing in dumping him. Better that than to become an enabler.
She's also right there are shelters for all people, not just women. I've worked at them so I can attest to this. And she's right that women don't need men to be happy. Everyone can be happy by themselves and they shouldn't rely on others for happiness.
Go ahead and stand up for her. It has taken law suits in California and West Virginia to even get agencies to recognize that men were victims. I referred victims of abuse in Houston to services for 20 years. There was nothing for men until just recently and it still lags far behind the services available for women. If you think that services are equally available, you don't know what you are talking about.
Oh and PS. Being a recovering drunk doesn't make you an expert on alcoholism. I do happen to be an expert on that very subject. People get set up for addictions in many ways, mostly some form of abuse.
It does become their problem and their responsibility to address, but that is not the same thing.
People who say "it's your fault I'm a drunk" were probably already drunks and looking for someone to blame. Abuse may "load the gun" for these problems, but its the individual who pulls the trigger.
And perhaps I don't know what I'm talking about because I've never been to Houston. Where I live the shelters accept anyone who comes or at least gives them some kind of help.
Once again their are shelters for men.Not the nicest place on earth, neither are the single womens shelters. I have an uncle who is in a shelter right now...uncle as in a MALE relative...say's it's not so bad where he is now (not that i'm encouraging anyone to go unless they have too) it's basically a hotel room. And he did leave on DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. not from a wife but from a female sibling.
Soo...yeah. Kind of blows all that misinformation your spouting out of the water.
In NY you have to go to a place called pathways, or something like that. That's where they hook everyone up with whatever shelter they need. Men's, women's, families, DV, whatever.
You'd probably have to call 411 to get information about where these shelters are. Mind you, homeless shelters don't have huge fucking signs on the top that says "HOMELESS SHELTER" and they don't advertise in the village voice. They look like regular buildings or hotels.
Damn lies. Hey NYer, ever heard of Atlantic, Camp Laquardia, Bellevue, or the hellholes on Ward's Island? I spent more than a yr in them. Men's shelters in NYC are just a step up from prison--the best one formerly was a women's prison! No kids. Men fleeing DV with their children are called kidnappers. If a male victim of DV can show the knife wounds, he may get a hotel voucher, but there are no facilities.
Don't talk about what you don't. Men's shelters/=DV shelters.
You are right and the same goes in Ontario, Canada and countless other places in the world. Nowhere for a man/father to retreat while women have BILLIONS of our tax dollars funnelled yearly to help them based on grossly skewed facts and misinformation.
Take a look at these excellent videos we produced at CandaCourtWatch com to give you some better perspective about women's shelters from a woman's point of view. vimeo com/790290 and /vimeo com/745927 The secret is out!!!
t ain't what ya don't know that hurts ya. What really puts a hurtin' on ya is what ya knows for sure, that just ain't so. -- Uncle Remus
One question. If services for men are available and fairly distributed, why are people suing states like California and West Virginia for failing to offer services to men....and winning?
Honey I couldn't help you there. I know for sure NY has them, and I'm pretty damn sure Cali would too. As many young guys run off to cali in search of fame and fortune and end up on homeless? Like I said, homeless shelters do not have huge signs over the top of the building advertising that they are homeless shelters. That would be pretty embarrassing for the people living there, wouldn't it?
Just cause you don't see it doesn't mean it's not there.
Translation: You are detached from reality and actually want it that way. California was sued for sexual discrimination against men in regards to domestic violence services and the plaintiffs proved their case.
You can't help me with that one because you don't want to hear anything that contradicts your delusion.
Done with you now. If you can't hear facts and process them accordingly, you are useless.
Check if your uncle could stay at the shelter with children? I'd be surprised if your findings were yes as shelters for men typically do not allow children!
Thank you so much! I'm happy you got over your addiction problems, we all have issues we have to work out. Step one is not blaming others for your own short comings. The happymisogynist has a loooong way to go before he can reach that level.
I wish my ex could take step one and do that too. But oh well, I leave him up to God now.
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This is so ridiculous. No one can "drive" someone else to alcohol, drinking, suicide (ext. ext.)
My ex tried to pull the same BS with me. He blamed me for his drinking problem. So i dumped him.
Since I was the problem you think he'd be better now right? Nope. He's an even bigger drunk now then he was when we we're in a relationship together. Getting rid of that bum was the best move I could have made. Ladies, please don't listen to these guys. You don't owe your happiness to any jackass.
Maybe your ex was a lousy drunk and you dumped him and he didn't change. But people can be driven to destructive behavior. It happens all the time. And I'd lay dollars to doughnuts based on the bitterness seething from your short post and the monstrous chip on your shoulder that you are every bit the miserable wretch now that you were when you were married to him.
From my personal experiences, I think women and man are equally manipulative and selfish, and equally as likely to burden themselves on their families. But if you aren't convinced of the double standard, just turn on your TV. If some guy starts screaming and throwing things because someone looked at him crosseyed, it's surely a crime show or a Lifetime movie. Women scream and throw things at guys all the time on TV, often accompanied by a laugh track.
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freedomfighter7899 2 months ago
@MegaMelissa345 No, I didn't laugh AT him. His bad moods came randomly and a lot of the time I wasn't aware of it, so there was a heightened sense of paranoia in my household about showing signs of happiness. But it got pretty hard at times, especially when I was got into middle/high school and began talking on the phone with my friends a lot. It would get awkward to explain to people I'd talk to when I'd be chatting but my dad would approach to hit me or take the phone away.
superstaff 2 months ago 2
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freedomfighter7899 2 months ago
(cont) On the flip side, my fiancee lives in a home run by his mother. His mom is a lot like you've described, she runs the house with an iron fist and forces her family to abide by her moods. If she is upset, then the whole family must be as well. She's actually been terrible to me as well, going so far as to threaten me for dating her son and she doesn't want any of her children to date despite them all being over 18... Some people (male and female) are just really fucked up.
superstaff 2 months ago
I wrote a comment in another video of yours recently where I put that both men and women can be manipulative/violent. In my life, I've seen a lot of examples of both sexes using whatever power they wield over their family to control and abuse. My dad was a lot like the women you describe here, if he wasn't happy, then my mom and I had to be. It would go so far that if he was in a bad mood and I was laughing or enjoying myself, he would smack me in the mouth for it. (cont)
superstaff 2 months ago
So dry...
t21spectreclone 3 months ago
This family terrorist your describing is basically the "Chess master" troupe in TV shows, such as Johan from the animated series "Monster" if I'm not mistaken.
But you know, I'm pretty sure that after all the time we've been on this Earth, there's probably a reason why we do things the way we do them.
You just basically described the human condition of infallibility and manipulation and pinned it on women, as if men aren't capable of manipulation in their own right.
BasementDwellerX 4 months ago
@BasementDwellerX
No, what I did was point to the fact that we live in a culture that sees, OVER- sees actually, what men do, but ignores and enables women. I think you missed it.
TheHappyMisogynist 4 months ago 2
its the same kind of attitude that denies the hollocost , theres stats that show how many women lose their lives by their partners , how many women end up in emergency rooms . just because guys call police to charge a women with assault for defending herself , and there are police who will go through with it , you have stats . your video is laughable
HelpForTheHurting 5 months ago
@HelpForTheHurting I cannot stop laughing at your comment.
blacktigerpaw1 5 months ago
I've been through this all my life and am still subject to it. It's pure abuse, distorts the truth and drove my father away. It's hard when it's a daughter and her mother as mom will guilt trip you and deflect issues and you can't do shit but take the beating cause you're a kid. I've learned the hard way that I never want to be a mama, thank you for bringing up the issue.
xTheDynastQueenx 6 months ago
I believe this video applies to the majority of American women.
TheTruthBearer1 6 months ago 2
I can't relate. I was raised by my dad after my mom died. I fled from the beatings into an abusive marriage but fled from that the first year damaged but alive. I have given up on men in a last ditch effort to live in a peace. PLEASE - we've all been victims of the abrahamic male female gender rolls. I've turned my back on religion as well as my family in an effort to think for myself. I find it telling that you quote "god" to praise your son but are estranged from your daughter.
OldHippieChickster 6 months ago 3
every woman in my family is like that, they are psychopaths and they call themselves goddesses, they promote incest, commit murder, promote homosexuality, they play evil mind games with children, in short they serve the devil
iorixs 7 months ago
i have met women like this.... pure evil...the amount of emotional wreckage they leave behind is unbelievable....i feel sorry for anyone who gets involved with her family...her and her six kids ...she kicked her husband out....and she now goes clubbing with her young daughters. ....3 of them.....and guess what .....she,s lets people know that she is the one who was hard done by.....
barclosed 7 months ago 2
My mom :S
nicazzo 7 months ago
ure describing a narcissist essentially
patriciacarrasco 8 months ago
@patriciacarrasco
Or BPD. Or just an abusive asshole.
TheHappyMisogynist 8 months ago 2
if you spent all the time and effort trying to help battered men ( like starting a national organization to help them) maybe your video could be of some use. family terrorist? no, i am non-violent. i will show you how small you look in front of the whole world with your very own video. women and men alike that are battered should be helped. what are you going to do to help them? i suggest that if you truelly wan't to help, encourage men like that to leave with the children; and prosecute abusers
0801carolann 9 months ago
@0801carolann
Yes, family terrorist. Deal with it. Or just shut up, I don't care. But I do suggest you shut the fuck up until you know what you are talking about. How's that for a suggestion, cupcake?
Where was your concern for men AND women the last two decades? Did you run around to women's shelters telling them to help men or you would show how small they were to the world?
Go fuck yourself.
TheHappyMisogynist 9 months ago 8
@0801carolann The only way to "truly help" is to convince(force) the government to change their laws. Whats in writing as law is where we will strike. Youtube as of 2011 is littered with MRA's and their message. 10 years ago you would not have known they existed.Times change. Like G.W. said pretty soon they will hear us all. Enjoy the inequality while it lasts.
Oozingmachismo24 8 months ago
I'd recommend a visit to erinprizzey[dot]com She provides an anti-feminist, pro-natural stance to which I offer my unreserved support.
thespacialone 11 months ago
Don't blame women that much dude. They are really lovely but they are disphoric hahah! When you see your wife spitting fire, secretly slip 30mg of codeine in her food and you'll be surprised how lovely she will be in an hour!
It's a brain chemical problem, nothing more.
ProxySpam 11 months ago
@ProxySpam
You mean slip them drugs because you don't have the nerve to confront the problem?
Sure thing, jello-spine.
TheHappyMisogynist 9 months ago 15
@TheHappyMisogynist There is no problem, it's all in the head. Crazy, needs drugs to function properly.
ProxySpam 9 months ago
@ProxySpam Look how many women are on Klonopin to treat depression. You gona say it's related to you not being a good husband? What about her? If you start comparing her ass to Kate Moss, then I would need to take Klonopin too to fuck that shit. Do I? No. Why? Because my brain is OK.
ProxySpam 9 months ago
"Social ties are necessary to progress; and social ties are drawn closer by family-ties. For this reason, family-ties are a law of nature. God has willed that men should learn, through them, to love one another as brothers." What would be the effect upon society of the relaxation of family-ties?"
"A relapse into selfishness." - Allan Kardec
nubian377 11 months ago
I can never understand why people get so bent out of shape about divorce. If they aren't happy they aren't happy...
angeltears87 1 year ago
@angeltears87
Ah, may I ask what this has to do with the video?
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 2
@TheHappyMisogynist
You spoke about divorce in this video as though it was a bad thing. You spoke about how many women initiate divorce, etc. Who cares?
angeltears87 1 year ago
@angeltears87
The men those same women fuck over with the help of the state.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 7
@TheHappyMisogynist
I think that is a different issue altogether. Although one I also disagree with you on.
angeltears87 1 year ago
@angeltears87
Of course you disagree, cupcake. Of course you do.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 7
@TheHappyMisogynist
sorry but your shaming language doesn't get to me. Try a rational argument next time.
angeltears87 1 year ago
@angeltears87 You know considering you haven't made a rational argument either you're just being hypocritical (besides he did make a valid point)
wranglers575 11 months ago 2
@wranglers575
I apologise, I really don't know what you are talking about.
angeltears87 11 months ago
@wranglers575 she is probably making a killing off of her ex husband(s) thanks to the state, so of course she doesn't acknowledge men getting fucked over by the state...
MrSpemat 11 months ago
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TheConnorian 11 months ago
@angeltears87 because family courts always favor the woman by law usualt taking childern assets etc etc it literaly can make a man homeles
MetalicaFan2007 11 months ago
woooow. This man has crazy issues...
ayannaflower 1 year ago
Yes, there are bad, stupid women. Don't blame us all for it
tankluster 1 year ago 2
@tankluster
Don't lecture me, not even for a second. If the shoe doesn't fit you, then take your indignation to the women whom it fits quite well.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 2
More power and voice for men? Isn't rape, torture, dying by the hands of man in all the history of mankind enough? screw this.
crizl2007 1 year ago
@crizl2007
No, screw you and the horse you rode in on. You don't like this channel, fine. Take your entitled ass right out the door. No on cares.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 7
@crizl2007 Is crime only bad when men do it? Or are you just a moron? A fascist who thinks only certain people should be heard? Isn't dying by women's hands enough? Screw you.
EvilsOfFeminism 8 months ago
@EvilsOfFeminism First I don't know why are you being rude to me. Second, I never said such thing. Hate, violence and crime is appalling no matter what sex practices it. I just said that in history of mankind, women were the sex that more often were object of violence of men and not vice-versa. I am not at all proud of the growing violence of women toward men. It is just not right. We were made for each other, to protect and cherish, not beat, kill or rape.
crizl2007 8 months ago
@crizl2007 The reason I am being rude to you is that most violence is male/male. You obviously drank the feminist Kool-Aid and apparently don't even know any better. I can't help but be pissed off. It's just so damn stupid. Even mens' dreams, on average, contain way more men than women. Men spot signs of aggression more rapidly, too. This can only mean that men have to be more aware of violence and other men. Your claim to know all of history based on PC bullshit also pisses me off, by the way.
EvilsOfFeminism 7 months ago
@EvilsOfFeminism No my dear, the history I know is not based on "PC bullshit". I lived in a machist country and I know first-hand when I talk about the men to women violence, I have also lived it by myself, so do not judge my knowledge before knowing where or what I have lived. I base my comment on my experience of life - I have seen more violence towards women by men than vice-versa. But I do not desbelief that the women to men violence exists, I just didn't know it when I wrote my 1st comment.
crizl2007 7 months ago
@crizl2007 You might want to have some more research before you comment idly about how bad men are as a group or responsible for all the evil in this world, that we are some sort of poison in in this world, because I am vigilant for feminist Thought Police, the enforcers of great wickedness in this world today, and I am just as vigilant looking for them as I was when I went on post. If you come into my post and insult men, then prepare to be rebutted fiercely!
EvilsOfFeminism 7 months ago
My mother to a "T". Since I am the only one who stands against my mom and some of the stupid things she comes up with, it is I who used to be blamed for the problems in my family. Older now, I have been free from this for many years, however, the damage was done. I cannot even be around my family because of my mother. I have lost a great deal of respect for my father for the way he allows my mom treat him. Great video.
pelagic6 1 year ago 2
I love the opening picture.
Leonardo da Vinci.
SculptedThoughts 1 year ago
My mom was a lot like that. My dad is an asshole too though, but my mom is more the one who 'wears the pants'
dubified89 1 year ago
Has anyone noticed how much Diana Boston has demonstrated the actual traits shown in this video, right down to denialistic behaviour?
Bowspearer 1 year ago
Very sadly, I have to say that my late mother was one of these women. I almost lost touch with my own personality in all the accusations and histrionics leveled at me over the years. She fought a very tough battle with cancer that took her in the end. I'd like to say that we made a kind of peace at the end, but she closed herself off from me, and left this world as tight lipped as she ever was.
trottheblackdog 1 year ago
Reality Shows like Real Housewives and Teen Mom are lifting the veil off the sacred cow of motherhood/female empowerment. Inevitable, really, because there's so many examples of the pain resulting from a female-centred society.
luvkrafft 1 year ago
You want to hurt momma? Simple. Do what I did. As soon as you`re legally old enough to move out of home, pack and and go and never return. Never talk to the bitch again. Empower yourselves.
1WhoSeeks 1 year ago
I live in a shared house with such a couple: she is absolutely manipulative and deceitful creature. She cheats on him constantly, and if it is not her way, its the highway. His wallet is supposed to be common but hers is only hers. But in general I think they are fitting together - birds from a feather flock together. Clever men prefer to be single than manipulated and used, while simple men jump on the first train that they see moving. I hope that there are some decent women, may be just a few.
PeaceAndGloryMB 1 year ago
Check that, Dr. Lacan.
TheAbuch 1 year ago
Paging Dr. Freud.
TheAbuch 1 year ago
this is the best thing that I have ever seen and it is spot on.
GoSouthernMD1 1 year ago
In dealing with family terrorists, I'd like to cite Alec Baldwin's wisdom from 30 Rock:
Step One: Say no.
Step Two: She'll try to pick a fight with you. She will yell at you. At this point, keep your voice down, because when you raise your voice, emotions run high, and she'll get the upper hand. If you stay calm, you'll keep control.
Step Three: She'll say that she's disappointed in you, and she'll walk away. Let her. She'll be admitting defeat.
Say no, talk low, let her go.
loqutor 1 year ago
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
HOODYWOODRECORDS 1 year ago
@GJNCA I am a 36 yr old woman, and I remember this pc crap really went nuts in the 90s as well. It was a culmination of fems have massive power in laws since the 60s, and once they were legally "safe and protected" due to legal changes, they revealed their true, man hating colors.
da1073 1 year ago
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The family court system in Canada is overrun and broken - A complete joke of preconceived notions. The woman simply need create some false accusation of abuse or violence and the father gets dragged through the system for years.
We are at the mercy of lawyers, judges, psychologists, parenting "co-ordinators", child protection agencies, etc...
In the end, the outcome is usually the same: The father loses custody and is wiped out financially, regardless of being right, regardless of the fight.
TSM8088 1 year ago
Wow..truer words never spoken. Great video!
TSM8088 1 year ago
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If you like him you should also check out the Channel "manwomanmyth".
The best videos I have seen about Mra are between them two
spetznas101 1 year ago
most women are hypocrates hell prettylittle thing went rabid because I said the women being allowed to raise their children in prison is special treatment. Although my father is this kind of POS
Cutup663 1 year ago
What's the deal with the flashing behind the letters on some graphics in most of your video's? I've watched a few of them and was wondering because they bother me when I'm trying to listen.
Monkor001 1 year ago
@Monkor001
I have never noticed that or heard about it in the past year. I know that on some of the earlier ones there is some imagine jumping when scenes change, but that was fixed with new software.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago
Everyone knows the real aphorism is "Bitch is crazy"
0bodobod0 1 year ago
This hits home for me. I'm 16 and I think my Mom fits this description very well. She says we treat her so awfully and she has it so hard, and doesn't blame herself for anything. My parents constantly fight (by constantly I mean almost every day), and I never want to be around her. I'm very saddened and I don't know what to do.
XxPnuemaxX 1 year ago 3
@XxPnuemaxX
Keep your head down and bide your time sir. It won't be long till you are out of there, but if you ever feel threatened, get some help. Tell someone. I wish you the best of luck. And thank God you can see this for what it is.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago
@TheHappyMisogynist I'm actually a girl :) But thank you. I try to keep myself isolated whenever an argument comes up.
XxPnuemaxX 1 year ago
@XxPnuemaxX
LOL, sorry! Good luck to you then, ma'am.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago
@XxPnuemaxX
You need to get your pops on the MGTOW page.... Show him the light!
Better yet, let mom know that if she continues her behavior, there will come a point that you will tune her out, and then she'll be all alone... When the child brings up the subject of moms shitty behavior, it can have more effect sometimes... My mom hates hearing me tell her about her behavior, lol...
blupheonix44 1 year ago
@XxPnuemaxX Well, check this out: I'm a 50 year old man who had to move back in with my parents to take care of them. My mom is now an eighty year-old bitch who hasn't changed at all! I, too, spent all my time avoiding her, and I've been doing it for the last 40 years. My advice is to get out of the house and don't ever come back. Live your life.
ArizonaDelRio 1 year ago 2
@ArizonaDelRio Good advice. I finally severed ties with my cruel, psychotic bitch of a mother, and haven't had any contact for twenty years. It was absolutely the best thing I have ever done for myself. I really had no idea what a toxic effect she had on me until I finally had her out of my life.
pissinintheyard 1 year ago 2
@pissinintheyard I did the same thing. My mother was a psycho and I hate her. I will never let her back in my life. May she burn in hell. Good luck to you.
1WhoSeeks 1 year ago
Women are to be avoided as much as possible. Jerk off and you can ensure that your life is yours till your death. If you make the horrifying error of putting ANY part of your body anywhere near a woman than you will pay dearly. Do not buy into what society is selling, that is, that you cannot be a man unless you are fucking a woman. Fuck NO ONE. Do not let these evil controlling monters devour your soul. All they want is everything you have and not a bit less.
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barclosed 7 months ago
This describes my mother. Whenever she came home upset, we all had to pay for it. I don't really see to many women these days that have the traits of a nurturing creature. Sometimes I wonder if you can even still call them women. The only thing my mother ever cared about was her reputation in high school, and how much she could beat my brothers. I mean females these days even look down own the role of being a mother at home as if that is a "bad" thing. Its like they are a new 3rd gender unknown.
PhilxEulogyx 1 year ago 3
@PhilxEulogyx
Well, the basis of this comment is sexist.
Women are people and people can do bad things!
Do you think that it is just "now," that women weren't always, "nurturing," creatures. Study the Maenads, ancient priestesses who ripped people to pieces when in a frenzy. Or Locusta the Poisoner, the first female serial killer recorded of B.C.E.
Men can be nurturing and women can be cruel and vice versa. There should be no expectations so no one is shocked.
lovelyladynostalgic 11 months ago
@lovelyladynostalgic I can agree but in American society women are viewed as if they can do no wrong. Thats why i made that comment. When someone brings up the negative things that a female may or may not do, that person is met with frowns and labeled a woman hater in a lot of cases. I guess those people forgot to look up Locusta the Poisoner. There shouldn't be expectations but they are taught to american children at a very young age...gender roles, and expectations etc;
PhilxEulogyx 11 months ago 3
gender equality is absolute equality or it doesn't exist.
trekkie108 1 year ago
A woman who posses one or so of these traits is no big deal but one who posses all of those attitudes & traits is a psycho because they really don't care. I've had my share of psycho women. They're easy to spot now. I have no wish to change them. I'm looking for my perfect match. I know she's out there. I'm not settling for less, or miss right now. I'm happier being single & keeping my money in my pocket.
MrAubery 1 year ago
There is no such thing as a perfect match.
Also, a lot of women are sweet and nice before marriage, but once you put a ring on her finger she changes completely for the worse. Much worse. Sex quality and quantity drops after childbirth. She may also balloon in size after marriage.
There is absolutely nothing about marriage that benefits a man. High risks, low returns, and a plain bad investment. Just say NO.
papalolita 1 year ago
my observation is that both sexes turn into assholes once they are married. both sexes get fat, ugly and old. sex lives turn to shit as marital baggage accumulates. but i look at it this way (considering myself lucky to have made pretty good choices so far) marriage sucks for everyone. it's a binding. it's a doomed institution. men and women are both susceptible to outright insanity, and descend into it equally. why bind yourself to someone, when you can be certain they are going to be insane?
immayhem 1 year ago
@immayhem everywhere I go I see skinny men with gray hair holding the door open for overweight women with short red hair. (presumably their spouses)
I guess we all have different observations.
EstevanMusic 1 year ago
@EstevanMusic
OMG, that is funny as hell!!!!
Yea, alot of big women are redheads.... Thats too funny....
blupheonix44 1 year ago
@blupheonix44 With penciled in eyebrows, don't forget the penciled eyebrows.
EstevanMusic 1 year ago
@papalolita
There should be some sort of return policy for defective goods...
Like if you can prove in court that your spouse changed DRAMATICALLY after the wedding. There should be legal redress, totally. I believe that yes, some women lay on the charm thick to suck you into a marriage, then become total princesses who won't lift a finger.. And why should she? Society told her the score, and she knows her rights, if you piss her off, YOUR FUCKED, and she knows it.
blupheonix44 1 year ago
@papalolita I dont know, to me seems more like a myth than anything else. Yes some marriages go to hell. And usually the responsabilities are shared between both partners. But I will never buy into the belif that there is a underground conspiracy against men. About the sex, yeah they need it to, women love sex, so if the quality drops (while it should improve) it means only that you two are not communicationg properly. Sorry if i am frankly
Kenshiroit 1 year ago
you can't always tell if woman will become a psycho until your at least 3 years into a relationship, or even long after marriage. Until your relationship is truly tested after the 3rd year mark can u really tell exactly who you are dealing with. Many times it takes only one meeting, but you just can't tell sometimes until it's too late. Things change even more radically after child birth.
timeruin 1 year ago
lol I just got to wonder,,,,, HOW IN THE WORLD DID MEN OF THE USA LET THIS SHIT GO ON FOR SO DAMN LONG??!! Iam black. We need to stop this Black Queen shit that we insist on preaching to women to whom do not deserve such a title. We treat them like queens and we get treated like Dirt and a pile of shit. And when ever we defende ourselfs from DV, all the Women has to do is return back to the Victim act,,, then BOOM,,, the man goes to jail. LOL the STATES IS FUCKED UP!!!! Equallity my ass!!!
Troo44 1 year ago 7
" HOW IN THE WORLD DID MEN OF THE USA LET THIS SHIT GO ON FOR SO DAMN LONG??!!"
I think it is because men are just exactly different than feminists have portrayed us. We generally do whatever we can for women, including a lot of us that supported feminism.
Time to put the brakes on that crap, for sure.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago
You said it best when you noted [if I may paraphrase] that both genders were bound by suffocating gender roles. Feminists freed themselves from their own gender roles by exploiting the fact that men were still trapped in our own. They kept taking because we were trained to keep giving. To preserve and increase their power in society they used the law, media, education, and family position to collectively reinforce servile attitudes in their sons and spouses.
rfrantzt 1 year ago
that was fucking awsome
MrMrbobblehead 2 years ago
HAPPY NEW YEAR MEN!!!
uratrick 2 years ago 3
Go to court and never give in!!!!!
uratrick 2 years ago 3
All that said most of the time even if you complete the classes the courts offer. The domestic violence charge can and will pop up again like a childs jack- in the- box if you ever have any type of physical confrontations again. So you have nothing to lose really the corrupt courts, police that enforce these laws. I am reminded of cool hand Luke just cuz its your job boss dont make it right
uratrick 2 years ago
Put the mule on the states back and make them prove youre guilty. This pisses them off and slows the court system. What they want is for you to lay down like a subservient guilty male that you are and take what the police department and court systems are about to stick up your ass.
uratrick 2 years ago
Never ever ,compromise on a domestic violence charge .P.D. have become robots as far domestic violence laws go there going to charge you and turn over to the district attorney for prosecution (persecution ). Then D.A. offers a plea take these classes example domestic violence, anger management. The feed the coffers of local feminist organizations and you pay for them.
uratrick 2 years ago
NEVER sign and admit guilt in DV if you have done nothing wrong.
YOU WILL PAY A HEAVY PRICE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE! For the charge will be on you record to be used against you in the future.
Force them to prove you are guilty in a court of law! Even there, you don't always get an impartial hearing, but it is better than laying down and allowing them to trample on you.
ALVHUN 2 years ago 27
@ALVHUN Yup. That happened to me. I took a plea deal in a DV case and it ended up derailing my career years later. Extremely frustrating.
ArizonaDelRio 1 year ago
@ArizonaDelRio I am sorry to hear that my friend. That is why I advocate for men to NEVER admit guilt if there is none. It will take some work and some money, but you will be better off in the end to have a clean record!
ALVHUN 1 year ago
Diana, have you posted any statistics or studies that disprove this video? I'd really like to see an actual argument from your point of view.
Crouton351 2 years ago 4
Exaltado
uratrick 2 years ago
In one moment, this guy praises the ability of humans to deal with things that don't go their way and then goes on to demonize women. The misogyny here is palpable. Talk about the SIMPLE TRUTH.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Wrong. And I know how wrong you can be. I have seen one of your videos.
The video is about a certain type of abusive woman. Talking about those women doesn't demonize women in general. Now, if you think this model fits all women, then that is your problem.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
DianaBoston is a nutcase. If anybody points out that women have the potential and have been just as violent as men she gets defensive and claims misogyny. DianaBostion is a forty-something-year-old child woman.
TheMadShangiChannel2 2 years ago
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Another misogynist pig making an experienced woman into a child just like his patriarchs before him. And of course the typical 'insanity' plea. An obvious misogynist.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Oh, yes. The patriarchy. The magical conspiracy that keeps the woman down. You're obviously another feminazi scumbag, angry, deluded, and bitter towards males. You see males as the force behind everything that's wrong with your life. Typical radfem. Oh, and clean your fucking apartment. You live like a pig.
TheMadShangiChannel2 2 years ago 3
Is that all you have? Calling me names? Wow, you're so mature.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Says the forty-year-old woman that paints herself to look like a clown. Seriously, you got nothing on me. What I say of you is the truth and all your whining does nothing to disuade that fact. You are a victimologist, blaming an arbritary concept like the "patriarchy" on all of life's problems, when it's really your own choices and actions. Time to stop living in Wonderland.
TheMadShangiChannel2 2 years ago 3
Oh, let's just see how much you are able to 'mature' in 15 years because right now you sound like a little boy having a tantrum. And that's all you really are. LOL
DianaBoston 2 years ago
As opposed to a forty-something-year-old woman that still blames daddy for her problems?
TheMadShangiChannel2 2 years ago 2
@DianaBoston It is women such as YOU that cause boys/men to live and learn in undesirable bias surroundings, while you irresponsibly Laugh Out Loud about non laughing matters. Pay attention to the subject matter before you spew your ill sentiments. How do you expect anyone to mature around a vitriolic condescending woman such as you and countless others with like mind sets?
ALVHUN 2 years ago
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vitriolic and condescending? Oh the irony.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Ummm... take a look in the mirror dear. Your comments, just on this one video are littered with name-calling. You'll have to do better than that.
Nerotique 2 years ago
@DianaBoston: Your rhetoric hardly resonates the fine vibe of any sound intelligent woman, what exactly are you experienced in??? Calling another human being a PIG, because you are an unhappy bigot. It seems to me you are engaging in a pissing match, where the wind is soaking you in your own vile ejaculations. You are a mendicant of attention and self worth.
ALVHUN 2 years ago 3
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Do you think if you use big language to insult me that it will somehow make some point? Keep insulting little boy.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
I am pleased to get my message across. That I chose simple or complex language is inconsequentual.
Incidentally, English is not my first language, nor my second. It's the third I learned. The next time you light up a smoke and expel profanity think about this.
Profanity is the bankruptcy of wit! You should be far more concerned with what you think, than what I think.
What is patently clear is that I have made my point.
Sure, stick your head in the sand where it belongs. No more email 2u.
ALVHUN 2 years ago
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Oh thank Goddess. Good riddance.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Your welcome honey. Do you suffer from asexuality, or just general confusion?
Goddess? Thank you, but as mentioned before, I am far more modest than that which is meant only for supreme beings and to purport an assimilation to God would be in violation of my beliefs and rather arrogant, don't you think? In any event, I shall leave that kind of conceptualization firmly in your court of play.
DianaBoston. Are you a family terrorist?
ALVHUN 2 years ago 3
@ALVHUN Ooooo, more typical insults about how I must be crazy or mentally unstable. Gee, that's predictable. Somehow, I could make similar comments to you but I'm just going to let you continue on with your childish patronizing.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
@DianaBoston
There are legitimate concerns about your mental health. Your behavior here is one. The other I saw in one of your videos where you insinuated that the respondents to your video were "being studied" by mental health professionals, for the purpose of research. One, researchers don't use this kind of worthless material. And two, if they did, you biased their efforts by revealing their presence.
Either way, it adds up to personality disorder theater over on your channel.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
So true Paul
uratrick 2 years ago
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Gee, another comment about my mental health and how in teh menz perfect mind, women are ALWAYS mentally defective. LOL It's the same tired old insult. Go on and think you weren't being observed. What's the first step of scientific investigation? Could it be OBSERVATION? If you remember at that time I had at least 80 videos under my belt. And if you think MY videos were the only one's being watched, think again.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
@DianaBoston- aka MORON
There is little scientific value in comments made to a women who handled her Daddy Issues by stealing Bozo the Clowns make up kit and using youtube to spout confabulations.
There is, however, diagnostic information relative to the one who made the videos, in the psychiatric sense.
So yes, "another" comment on your mental health. That must be becoming quite the routine for you.
Now remember, when you make your tin foil hat, be sure the shiny side is on the outside.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
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@TheHappyMisogynist LOL Every comment you make with this vitriol just shows you for what you truly are little boy. Your comments are predictable and I'm used to them. Don't think for one minute that I don't understand why you make these comments. You're an angry little man with something to prove. All you're doing is looking foolish from my side of things. Every male who is insecure from time immemorial has made the 'crazy woman' argument. Again, LMFAO
DianaBoston 2 years ago
Enjoy your laughter.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
@TheHappyMisogynist At least she admitted that her ass was fat.
(LMFAO)
EstevanMusic 1 year ago
@DianaBoston I am concerned with a disturbing pattern you display. You seem to be infatuated with "little boy(s)." You refer to everyone as a "little boy" or "little man." You are creepy!
I think you are a paedophile and I think you need to be reported to the authorities for their prompt disposition. Maybe you belong on the sex offender registry to help thwart any potential attacks on little boys.
Your suggestion that you are a lesbian is just probably a cover up. You sicko!!!
ALVHUN 2 years ago 21
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@ALVHUN LMAO. Look at teh levels teh menz will stoop to to harass women. Keep 'em coming. This is great video material.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
@DianaBoston Are you denying that you are infatuated with "little boys?"
Remember! Stay focused and enlighten us WHY you keep referencing "little boys" and "little men?" Your subconscious is telling.
Or are you unable to maintaining meaningful discourse?
Given how you carry yourself I believe you have serious issues to deal with. I noticed you stopped using the term "little boys." Why?
Again. Stay focused! This is about you and not how you feel about being called out on a serious matter!
ALVHUN 2 years ago
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You're pathetic. Like YT has said time and time again: Don't feed the trolls. Buh bye.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
DianaBoston I accept your opinion, which is your prerogative in a free society. To abuse men is not!
You will come back, because you have no self control or discipline. Now if you disappeared, well that would be fine by many, but you wont.
And you complained about name calling. How circular, contradicting and diametrically opposed can you get woman?
Your days are numbered! You continue to be evasive, you are unable to stay focussed and respond. I smell smoke but nothing else.
Happy new year
ALVHUN 2 years ago
@DianaBoston
I would love to cross examine you in court. Your demeanour would change rather quickly! I promise you that.
So keep fumbling you bafoon. Beware, we are watching you so don't be calling anyone "little boy." You disgusting creep.
ALVHUN 2 years ago 4
@ALVHUN
Yup, could be one of those teachers we've been hearing about in the last few years...
blupheonix44 1 year ago
LOL I thought the same thing out of the corner of my eye i saw sociologist and and domestic violence experts from all major cities from the lower 48.Watch it again you'll see em Paul!!
uratrick 2 years ago
@DianaBoston What makes you think you are crazy or mentally unstable? That never crossed my mind until you raised it.
Moreover, what makes you think YOU can let ME continue to do anything? Who put you in charge anyway? Go try and control someone else sweetie.
Remember! What YOU do and what YOU say WILL have a predictable reaction from people around you. The question is, are you aware of that?
You don't really believe you can do and say what ever you want without accountability do you?
ALVHUN 2 years ago 2
Oh this guy is really good!!
uratrick 2 years ago
That is so good. 5 star comment
uratrick 2 years ago 7
Thats so good!!!
uratrick 2 years ago
You think all men are Misogynist. Diana are you off your medication again?
uratrick 2 years ago 3
Maan says that two states allow mens shelters, Maybe that was what she was referring to? I still don't get how it helps anybody else who isn't fortunate enough to live in one of those two states.
Expecting abused men that have obviously already been through traumatizing experiences to travel across the country just to get help from a shelter is cruel at best.
thecreepyguy 2 years ago
I'm standing up for WildNice. An alcoholic's problem is no one's fault but their own. As a one who has struggled and recovered from this affliction I would know. She did the right thing in dumping him. Better that than to become an enabler.
She's also right there are shelters for all people, not just women. I've worked at them so I can attest to this. And she's right that women don't need men to be happy. Everyone can be happy by themselves and they shouldn't rely on others for happiness.
ScaryCannibalTrout1 2 years ago
Go ahead and stand up for her. It has taken law suits in California and West Virginia to even get agencies to recognize that men were victims. I referred victims of abuse in Houston to services for 20 years. There was nothing for men until just recently and it still lags far behind the services available for women. If you think that services are equally available, you don't know what you are talking about.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
Oh and PS. Being a recovering drunk doesn't make you an expert on alcoholism. I do happen to be an expert on that very subject. People get set up for addictions in many ways, mostly some form of abuse.
It does become their problem and their responsibility to address, but that is not the same thing.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
@TheHappyMisogynist
People who say "it's your fault I'm a drunk" were probably already drunks and looking for someone to blame. Abuse may "load the gun" for these problems, but its the individual who pulls the trigger.
And perhaps I don't know what I'm talking about because I've never been to Houston. Where I live the shelters accept anyone who comes or at least gives them some kind of help.
ScaryCannibalTrout1 2 years ago
Once again their are shelters for men.Not the nicest place on earth, neither are the single womens shelters. I have an uncle who is in a shelter right now...uncle as in a MALE relative...say's it's not so bad where he is now (not that i'm encouraging anyone to go unless they have too) it's basically a hotel room. And he did leave on DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. not from a wife but from a female sibling.
Soo...yeah. Kind of blows all that misinformation your spouting out of the water.
WildNice 2 years ago
Where are these shelters then?
thecreepyguy 2 years ago
In NY you have to go to a place called pathways, or something like that. That's where they hook everyone up with whatever shelter they need. Men's, women's, families, DV, whatever.
You'd probably have to call 411 to get information about where these shelters are. Mind you, homeless shelters don't have huge fucking signs on the top that says "HOMELESS SHELTER" and they don't advertise in the village voice. They look like regular buildings or hotels.
WildNice 2 years ago
Not only did you not tell me exactly where these men's shelters are, You only offered an example of NY. What about everywhere else?
thecreepyguy 2 years ago
Damn lies. Hey NYer, ever heard of Atlantic, Camp Laquardia, Bellevue, or the hellholes on Ward's Island? I spent more than a yr in them. Men's shelters in NYC are just a step up from prison--the best one formerly was a women's prison! No kids. Men fleeing DV with their children are called kidnappers. If a male victim of DV can show the knife wounds, he may get a hotel voucher, but there are no facilities.
Don't talk about what you don't. Men's shelters/=DV shelters.
HQR3 2 years ago
BTW, I'm responding to WildNice who hasn't got a clue what men's shelters are like. There are no DV facilties for men in NYC.
HQR3 2 years ago 2
HQR3:
You are right and the same goes in Ontario, Canada and countless other places in the world. Nowhere for a man/father to retreat while women have BILLIONS of our tax dollars funnelled yearly to help them based on grossly skewed facts and misinformation.
Take a look at these excellent videos we produced at CandaCourtWatch com to give you some better perspective about women's shelters from a woman's point of view. vimeo com/790290 and /vimeo com/745927 The secret is out!!!
ALVHUN 2 years ago
t ain't what ya don't know that hurts ya. What really puts a hurtin' on ya is what ya knows for sure, that just ain't so. -- Uncle Remus
One question. If services for men are available and fairly distributed, why are people suing states like California and West Virginia for failing to offer services to men....and winning?
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
Honey I couldn't help you there. I know for sure NY has them, and I'm pretty damn sure Cali would too. As many young guys run off to cali in search of fame and fortune and end up on homeless? Like I said, homeless shelters do not have huge signs over the top of the building advertising that they are homeless shelters. That would be pretty embarrassing for the people living there, wouldn't it?
Just cause you don't see it doesn't mean it's not there.
WildNice 2 years ago
Translation: You are detached from reality and actually want it that way. California was sued for sexual discrimination against men in regards to domestic violence services and the plaintiffs proved their case.
You can't help me with that one because you don't want to hear anything that contradicts your delusion.
Done with you now. If you can't hear facts and process them accordingly, you are useless.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
Don't block her i still want her to answere me
thecreepyguy 2 years ago
btw,
nyc also has the meanest feminazis in the country.
HQR3 2 years ago
Check if your uncle could stay at the shelter with children? I'd be surprised if your findings were yes as shelters for men typically do not allow children!
ALVHUN 2 years ago
Thank you so much! I'm happy you got over your addiction problems, we all have issues we have to work out. Step one is not blaming others for your own short comings. The happymisogynist has a loooong way to go before he can reach that level.
I wish my ex could take step one and do that too. But oh well, I leave him up to God now.
WildNice 2 years ago
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This is so ridiculous. No one can "drive" someone else to alcohol, drinking, suicide (ext. ext.)
My ex tried to pull the same BS with me. He blamed me for his drinking problem. So i dumped him.
Since I was the problem you think he'd be better now right? Nope. He's an even bigger drunk now then he was when we we're in a relationship together. Getting rid of that bum was the best move I could have made. Ladies, please don't listen to these guys. You don't owe your happiness to any jackass.
WildNice 2 years ago
really? here are the steps
1.become a man
2. marry an american bitch
3. have a kid with the bitch
thats it enjoy!
nationawakening 2 years ago
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thecreepyguy 2 years ago
Maybe your ex was a lousy drunk and you dumped him and he didn't change. But people can be driven to destructive behavior. It happens all the time. And I'd lay dollars to doughnuts based on the bitterness seething from your short post and the monstrous chip on your shoulder that you are every bit the miserable wretch now that you were when you were married to him.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago