Thanks for your video!...I'm an attractive 57 year old lady and I weight 130 and I'm 5'4...of course to most internet dating man I'm extremely overweight!....now, in my experience, if the woman is loaded with money, men are willing to take a chance. But for someone like me, no money and 130 pounds. Not a chance!!...so nothing I can do!...this is the way it is this days.
I am 21 years old. I am naturally skinny and actually quite awkward looking because of it. I have a hard time putting on weight and I STILL haven't grown boobs. Does this mean I'm not a real woman? Stop hating on all the size 2s and size 0s. As long as we are healthy, we are all beautiful.
@llhellixll - I agree. She's jealous of thin women! "Real" women come in all shapes and sizes. Besides, you cannot go on the web without hearing some guy moaning about how he likes a woman with "curves." The woman in this video is whining about nothing. What does she expect? She goes on an internet site and expects to meet a perfect match for her in the first go? Doesn't work like that, sweetie! Just because a woman has a big arse and boobs doesn't make her "real." How offensive is that?!
i experienced worse than you do, and that happened to me twice. The worst was that i went on the trip, he didn't like my appearances and characters so at the restaurant he just left me finishing food on the table alone. Meanwhile, he was flirting with the bar girls and caressed two of them right in front of me. That's suck! For me, most of cyber guys are jerks.
You should try OKCupid[dot]com. I've met some people off of there before and they were cool, and I have 2 friends who have also met guys off of there who were looking for real relationships. I also know another chick that met her now fiance off a different site--so all you guys saying you can't meet a good person online need to get with the times.
I have never joined an internet dating site. But I do post on message boards for one of my all time favorite bands. The lead singer has gained weight but she still has men that are her fans and love her, even today though she is heavy. I look like this famous singer and the guys on there like me. Lol You might try joining a band fan club message board? Its not as obvious as a dating website.
What's irritating is that you seem a hypocrite. You want a "real" man, knowing all that means is "you get want YOU want no matter what". Sorry, that a confining definition. A REAL woman, ok, this means assigning quick judgements, "I can blame him for being imperfect because all men before just ended up being worthless".
LOL I'm too smart for this. I'd rather be alone, eliminate sex, and sleep with my George Washingtons. Far more fun to buy things than mess around with people.
AND YES I AM MAKING AN ATTEMPT TO LOSE WEIGHT SO I WILL BE MORE ATTRACTIVE TO MEN! I don't care what anyone has to say about comformity and being myself I can be all that and still desireable to men once I am 125 lbs.
Hey I e-mailed you BUT I TOTALLY AGREE!! Men just want thin little things, it is getting crazy out there and they make it sound like women are only into weight for the sake of impressing other women. NO! We see the women you guys look at and they are usually not a size 8 and over so we try to be what you want us to be. But yes that man was an idiot for saying such a thing to you!
I encountered the same problems that you described, which is part of the reason I just said online dating is not for me. It may lower my chances of finding someone, but I really do not like putting up with the lies and bad behavior of people who feel they can act that way. Good luck in your search :).
damn men can be stupid and so can women . i will never do online dating because like you said people arent always ture to themself. to be honset i dont even know the first thing about dating. im 22 year old male and i never even asked a girl out. i dont even know where to begin. im so confused about this shit i just tend to give up easliy.
While I can appreciate your plea to men, I don't think you have fully thought out what you are asking. The part about being honest I will give you. I agree 100 percent with that. Asking men to change what they find attractive however is not realistic in any way. If a guy is attracted to thin women, no amount of him (or you) wanting to change that is going to change it. I would say its like asking someone to change their gender preference. And calling them names "be a real man" is childish.
cheers girl. i just love your post. sincerely speaking men should learn to be honest and to be real on dating sites.Many of them dont really say what exactly they want, and they scam girls, date them for a month or two and meanwhile while still active on the site looking for whatever God knows what! Its so sickening. Cheers
you are very pretty!!! to tell you the truth, I do have so called the perfect body, and I would like to think I am a normal, down to earth, real woman, and have come accross very crazy staff/men my self. So it has nothing to do with the size, rather with how close minded, and hearted the person chooses to be.
Wow...you mean that people LIE in the single world?? How old are you???? Like this is a new concept because of the internet. Everyone lies because you have about 3 seconds to get someone's attention. I've reverted to starting arguments...it's the only way I've found to get responses. Sure, call me a jerk...better to be a jerk and start a conversation than a nice guy she ignores.
@Knightman03 - You posted your comment 3 years so I hope by now, you've grown out of "starting arguments" with women just to "get attention." To a quality woman, you are "social vampire" and a time waster. Maybe you "have a woman" now so good for you and that would be an indication that you finally got a clue. If you are still "starting arguments" with women just to get attention, you are seen as a drain and one to be avoided. Losers will lower themselves to argue back but winners do not.
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About 90% of the time - women will use a picture that is AT LEAST 10 years old - easy to scan and easy to say this is me!! WIth internet dating - EVERYBODY lies - it is easy to fake it!!!
Honey, I think you should relax, take a break from thinking about men for a while, buy a couple of nice vibrators and take care of yourself. You will attract what you want when you stop projecting your need to be with someone after that breakup. I was in a relationship for five years and decided to not think about women. If being horny is an issue find a f*** buddy and I wouldn't use internet dating if I were you. Get a massage!
I am a guy. I tried internet dating for a serious relationship. Things did not go very well. I am very good with people face to face. Body language, manner, speech, all these tell you a lot about a person. I have now switched back to real world methods.
When will most learn, all those seeking for relations openly will mostly be liars and scams. Do some more effort to seek out partners instead of a bit of clicking and waiting till mail (better: "scumbag") arrives in your inbox.
I think that there is many people outside the online dating world that don't present the real them either. But it's usually easier to pick up on it in real life. Especially the looks and age part.
Last year I dovorced a guy I had met on an internet dating website, after a disastrous, celibate 2 year marriage. He had painted himself as an amazing catch and seemed too good to be true - guess what, he was! At the age of 35 he told me he loved me and was keen to get married and have kids so I accepted his proposal. What he didnt mention was that he was GAY!If a man is only confident enough to approach you via computer you need to ask yourself a few questions about him.
Can't say that I'm an expert in Internet Dating BUT - in terms of guys, there are three general categories in my book: (1) genuine daters, (2) those who do it for the thrill but will never go through with it, and (3) perverts. And while I think the majority is #1, #'s 2 and 3 gets more "noise" if that makes any sense. So, it's not impossible... you just have some bad seeds to sort through. :-)
I had a girlfriend who was a size zero - oh, she made me so mad. Here I am, size 6 and sometimes 8, and she would blow away in the wind. One day, some angry woman is going to do her in when she complains that she can't gain weight.
I hate liars, I have no use for them. I don't know why people want to waste other people's time like that. What do they expect from a real meeting when the girl you thought you were talking to ends up being 1200 lbs and smells? I guess they figure at that point they have you backed into a corner? Yeah, I don't think so.
I thought it was women who were the liars online. I can tell you a few times where I fell for a woman online and it turned out she wasn't even using her own pictures.
I think probably we all have specifications or our "wish list"... and if someone doesn't fall into what the other one is looking for so be it...it's just a little hard on the ego sometimes! :)
Hi, you seem to be psychologically normal and attractive so you'd be better off doing it the old-fashion way. Or, read tips on how to go about online dating, the rules, warning signs, etc. Just my 55 cents :)
well, you look good, and you sound good, and yes, it is my job to help people feel good but, you don't need alot of help. Boobs are boobs, it's the heart I go for.
um whats so bad with being a 0???? or 00 im from Tokyo so maybe im ignorent but thats our bodyshape tooyeah? not all of us are anorexic or unhealthy right??
@elelkilua - People are just ignorant and read too much garbage magazines and watch too much throw away TV. Size zero has been in the US since I was a teenager (in the '80s!!!). My sister wore that size so it's nothing new. If you're short and thin, you may end up wearing a small size and people are getting ratty about someone who is small or petite when the real issue is the obesity epidemic. It's ridiculous. You're ok so just ignore people like that.
Omg I love you! Sooooo true!:)
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Those size 0-2 women are just as real as you are...-.-
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kittahs 1 year ago
Preach it! As a guy I can tell you it's just as hard for an honest guy on this end.
Xiag 1 year ago
I am 21 years old. I am naturally skinny and actually quite awkward looking because of it. I have a hard time putting on weight and I STILL haven't grown boobs. Does this mean I'm not a real woman? Stop hating on all the size 2s and size 0s. As long as we are healthy, we are all beautiful.
llhellixll 2 years ago
@llhellixll - I agree. She's jealous of thin women! "Real" women come in all shapes and sizes. Besides, you cannot go on the web without hearing some guy moaning about how he likes a woman with "curves." The woman in this video is whining about nothing. What does she expect? She goes on an internet site and expects to meet a perfect match for her in the first go? Doesn't work like that, sweetie! Just because a woman has a big arse and boobs doesn't make her "real." How offensive is that?!
FredericaBimble 9 months ago
i experienced worse than you do, and that happened to me twice. The worst was that i went on the trip, he didn't like my appearances and characters so at the restaurant he just left me finishing food on the table alone. Meanwhile, he was flirting with the bar girls and caressed two of them right in front of me. That's suck! For me, most of cyber guys are jerks.
vintagepaperdoll 2 years ago
You should try OKCupid[dot]com. I've met some people off of there before and they were cool, and I have 2 friends who have also met guys off of there who were looking for real relationships. I also know another chick that met her now fiance off a different site--so all you guys saying you can't meet a good person online need to get with the times.
SugarMagnolia20 3 years ago
sounds like woman waiting for Fabio to take a break from his margarine commercials
MarcoAtlarge 3 years ago
I have never joined an internet dating site. But I do post on message boards for one of my all time favorite bands. The lead singer has gained weight but she still has men that are her fans and love her, even today though she is heavy. I look like this famous singer and the guys on there like me. Lol You might try joining a band fan club message board? Its not as obvious as a dating website.
funnyhaha07 3 years ago
What's irritating is that you seem a hypocrite. You want a "real" man, knowing all that means is "you get want YOU want no matter what". Sorry, that a confining definition. A REAL woman, ok, this means assigning quick judgements, "I can blame him for being imperfect because all men before just ended up being worthless".
LOL I'm too smart for this. I'd rather be alone, eliminate sex, and sleep with my George Washingtons. Far more fun to buy things than mess around with people.
The Professor
morlenheim 3 years ago
that man is such a jerk for saying that to you! just give up on internet dating, the guys there are probably all desperate nasty weirdos.
btw, YOUR DOGS ARE SO CUTE!!!!!!!
ninomiya 3 years ago
AND YES I AM MAKING AN ATTEMPT TO LOSE WEIGHT SO I WILL BE MORE ATTRACTIVE TO MEN! I don't care what anyone has to say about comformity and being myself I can be all that and still desireable to men once I am 125 lbs.
SkinnyGirl125 3 years ago
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SugarMagnolia20 3 years ago
Hey I e-mailed you BUT I TOTALLY AGREE!! Men just want thin little things, it is getting crazy out there and they make it sound like women are only into weight for the sake of impressing other women. NO! We see the women you guys look at and they are usually not a size 8 and over so we try to be what you want us to be. But yes that man was an idiot for saying such a thing to you!
SkinnyGirl125 3 years ago
your a milf!
tomshaze 3 years ago
Two things:
1. Internet dating generally never works for anyone.
2. Lots of women are naturally thin and you're demeaning THEM because this guy is a nasty pig? Give me a break.
silentwisp7 3 years ago
AMEN! lol
Mutantgrave 3 years ago
I encountered the same problems that you described, which is part of the reason I just said online dating is not for me. It may lower my chances of finding someone, but I really do not like putting up with the lies and bad behavior of people who feel they can act that way. Good luck in your search :).
MountainGirl78 3 years ago
Why are "real women" not size "0"? That sounds like sour grapes to me.
Seriously -- internet dating is for sex. Period. I would bet that less than 1/10th of 1% of people online are looking for a real relationship.
izaakb 3 years ago
99.9% of REAL women are not size 0, nor can they safely "achieve" a size 0. So, no, most women who are size 0, even models, are not keepin' it real.
medsociologist09 3 years ago
damn men can be stupid and so can women . i will never do online dating because like you said people arent always ture to themself. to be honset i dont even know the first thing about dating. im 22 year old male and i never even asked a girl out. i dont even know where to begin. im so confused about this shit i just tend to give up easliy.
nastybastard21 3 years ago
You look great and you don't need a "Hollywood crack body" to be attractive. Just remember that meat is for the man, bones are for the dog.
Im2pissed2giveashit 3 years ago
While I can appreciate your plea to men, I don't think you have fully thought out what you are asking. The part about being honest I will give you. I agree 100 percent with that. Asking men to change what they find attractive however is not realistic in any way. If a guy is attracted to thin women, no amount of him (or you) wanting to change that is going to change it. I would say its like asking someone to change their gender preference. And calling them names "be a real man" is childish.
Frdmstang 3 years ago
huh. im confusedw hy wud a man want a 109 pounds woman ???
he must of been retarded
WhatDiamond 3 years ago
you said it:)
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shadesofshockingpink 3 years ago
cheers girl. i just love your post. sincerely speaking men should learn to be honest and to be real on dating sites.Many of them dont really say what exactly they want, and they scam girls, date them for a month or two and meanwhile while still active on the site looking for whatever God knows what! Its so sickening. Cheers
uddaying 3 years ago
you are very pretty!!! to tell you the truth, I do have so called the perfect body, and I would like to think I am a normal, down to earth, real woman, and have come accross very crazy staff/men my self. So it has nothing to do with the size, rather with how close minded, and hearted the person chooses to be.
marthasdemo 4 years ago
Wow...you mean that people LIE in the single world?? How old are you???? Like this is a new concept because of the internet. Everyone lies because you have about 3 seconds to get someone's attention. I've reverted to starting arguments...it's the only way I've found to get responses. Sure, call me a jerk...better to be a jerk and start a conversation than a nice guy she ignores.
Knightman03 4 years ago
@Knightman03 - You posted your comment 3 years so I hope by now, you've grown out of "starting arguments" with women just to "get attention." To a quality woman, you are "social vampire" and a time waster. Maybe you "have a woman" now so good for you and that would be an indication that you finally got a clue. If you are still "starting arguments" with women just to get attention, you are seen as a drain and one to be avoided. Losers will lower themselves to argue back but winners do not.
FredericaBimble 9 months ago
stay encouraged!
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peterkmr 4 years ago
typical woman who decided to get a career first then bitch about how they can't find a man when they get older.
drydock265 4 years ago
@drydock265 - so, in other words she's acting like a "typical man."
FredericaBimble 9 months ago
Internet dating is almost hysterical if it wasn't so sad...this chick epitomises the type ya get...isn't she a riot..
Gaelforce10 4 years ago
xD she bomped a 65 year old man!
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.....and THEN he pulled out his dick and we all giggled!
PenguinJesus 4 years ago
I love this video! you are so right! we should write a book on internet dates gone wrong lol omg ive had my share
easytoremember32 4 years ago
Cute dog!!
Rebeccaloveslife13 4 years ago
You are so right! This guy wanting size 0 women is an idiot.
Too sad that there are so many thinspiration videos on youtube showing sick girls. I bet it is getting worse
KevsLola 4 years ago 5
ugg. i hate guys like that. you go girl =] nobody change for a guy or anyone for that matter =]
icecreamgirls1 4 years ago
i love curves! you go girl! your skinny but you have nice boobs and im sure u have a nice bum:)
sexydvd 4 years ago
About 90% of the time - women will use a picture that is AT LEAST 10 years old - easy to scan and easy to say this is me!! WIth internet dating - EVERYBODY lies - it is easy to fake it!!!
Earthlinked 4 years ago
men who are looking for skinny girls, they have a serious problem... these girls look like 12 years old... they are not women, they are children!!
petita83 4 years ago
until someone understands!!!!!, thank god!!
lintugirl17 4 years ago
Honey, I think you should relax, take a break from thinking about men for a while, buy a couple of nice vibrators and take care of yourself. You will attract what you want when you stop projecting your need to be with someone after that breakup. I was in a relationship for five years and decided to not think about women. If being horny is an issue find a f*** buddy and I wouldn't use internet dating if I were you. Get a massage!
11jotero11 4 years ago
I am a guy. I tried internet dating for a serious relationship. Things did not go very well. I am very good with people face to face. Body language, manner, speech, all these tell you a lot about a person. I have now switched back to real world methods.
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realities3434 4 years ago
When will most learn, all those seeking for relations openly will mostly be liars and scams. Do some more effort to seek out partners instead of a bit of clicking and waiting till mail (better: "scumbag") arrives in your inbox.
Legionwizard 4 years ago
I love your confidence! You're so pretty--I'm glad you didn't let that asshole bring you down. :)
kpark08 4 years ago
Love the dogs, great touch. They look like little shaggy throw pillows. :)
pixeldrift 4 years ago
I think that there is many people outside the online dating world that don't present the real them either. But it's usually easier to pick up on it in real life. Especially the looks and age part.
iamstillhiro1112 4 years ago
you got it!
bigpicturesstudio 4 years ago
Last year I dovorced a guy I had met on an internet dating website, after a disastrous, celibate 2 year marriage. He had painted himself as an amazing catch and seemed too good to be true - guess what, he was! At the age of 35 he told me he loved me and was keen to get married and have kids so I accepted his proposal. What he didnt mention was that he was GAY!If a man is only confident enough to approach you via computer you need to ask yourself a few questions about him.
dollydog20 5 years ago
i think people who are a size 4 or below are disgusting
dani110789a 5 years ago
Can't say that I'm an expert in Internet Dating BUT - in terms of guys, there are three general categories in my book: (1) genuine daters, (2) those who do it for the thrill but will never go through with it, and (3) perverts. And while I think the majority is #1, #'s 2 and 3 gets more "noise" if that makes any sense. So, it's not impossible... you just have some bad seeds to sort through. :-)
projectblogsphere 5 years ago
On a similar note: a friend of mine met his wife on-line, and they just had their second child. :-)
projectblogsphere 5 years ago 3
I had a girlfriend who was a size zero - oh, she made me so mad. Here I am, size 6 and sometimes 8, and she would blow away in the wind. One day, some angry woman is going to do her in when she complains that she can't gain weight.
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acs1138 5 years ago
I Know this is cheesy, But i cannot believe you have to internet date, You seem like an honest down to earth Good looking Gal to me
acs1138 5 years ago
Thank you for your support and I am just trying something new and different out. I probably won't do it for long! :)
LuvnMyDawgs 5 years ago
I did not know size 0 existed until I saw an episode of 'beauty and the geek' (season 1) :)
xleax 5 years ago
I hate liars, I have no use for them. I don't know why people want to waste other people's time like that. What do they expect from a real meeting when the girl you thought you were talking to ends up being 1200 lbs and smells? I guess they figure at that point they have you backed into a corner? Yeah, I don't think so.
thadrd 5 years ago
I thought it was women who were the liars online. I can tell you a few times where I fell for a woman online and it turned out she wasn't even using her own pictures.
thadrd 5 years ago
I Hate Guys That Have "Specifications" in Women ITS NOT SOMETHING YOU ORDER GUYS>>> DEAL WITH IT
Rashisha 5 years ago
I think probably we all have specifications or our "wish list"... and if someone doesn't fall into what the other one is looking for so be it...it's just a little hard on the ego sometimes! :)
LuvnMyDawgs 5 years ago
People who internet date look desperate. Been there, done that, no more for me since it felt like she got into my head too much.
That person you dated sounded like an idiot, sounds like to me.
And FYI, you looked better in your last video.
navymrgoodbar 5 years ago
Hi...thanks for the the response and I don't think I have looked good in any of the videos!! :)
LuvnMyDawgs 5 years ago
Hi, you seem to be psychologically normal and attractive so you'd be better off doing it the old-fashion way. Or, read tips on how to go about online dating, the rules, warning signs, etc. Just my 55 cents :)
meepers79 5 years ago
cool
terceranoche 5 years ago
I love women with curves!
WildTiggerStallion 5 years ago
I don't know about that, but that dog looks kind of cute!
DrPheelgood 5 years ago 2
My dogs are way cuter than me!!!
LuvnMyDawgs 5 years ago
dogs! I just realized there were two there, I thought you had slippers on. What is a size O, anyway? You look ok sitting there.
DrPheelgood 5 years ago
my dogs do look like slippers! a size zero is no boobs or fake boobs and a stick straight body!! :)
LuvnMyDawgs 5 years ago
well, you look good, and you sound good, and yes, it is my job to help people feel good but, you don't need alot of help. Boobs are boobs, it's the heart I go for.
DrPheelgood 5 years ago
@DrPheelgood
um whats so bad with being a 0???? or 00 im from Tokyo so maybe im ignorent but thats our bodyshape tooyeah? not all of us are anorexic or unhealthy right??
elelkilua 1 year ago 2
@elelkilua - People are just ignorant and read too much garbage magazines and watch too much throw away TV. Size zero has been in the US since I was a teenager (in the '80s!!!). My sister wore that size so it's nothing new. If you're short and thin, you may end up wearing a small size and people are getting ratty about someone who is small or petite when the real issue is the obesity epidemic. It's ridiculous. You're ok so just ignore people like that.
FredericaBimble 9 months ago
@FredericaBimble :) its elelkilua , i changed my chanell, thats so assurring :) but i understand your message ! :) peace xxxxUmi
umijenny 9 months ago