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  • Wow! This summed up all the CRAP my son's mother put us through out of spite.

  • awesome!

  • good song but u should think about who u have kids with b4 u have sex

  • great song!

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  • @ladymaniak02 I understand how u must feel about dude sorry and all that but what do u say to the fact that YOU PICKED HIM! so what does that say about you and ur choices u make in picking a "sorry ass nigga"

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  • this is for all my real fathers, yall kno who yall is

  • all 4 one rules.. more veiws needed

  • love this... for all the good daddy them

  • i love it as well but if daddy leavesthen best be gone dnt eva dream of coming back fool

  • this is not a song for fake fathers only the real ones count

  • @ MANN20002005 ummm.... no he truly is an asshole. my mom didnt tell me he was an ass hole i had to learn and see that as i got older.

  • this is such a strong song as well as a strong videomad props to yall boys!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • I finally won my court case!! Soon.. I shall cry no more. This song gave me the strength to continue my fight. Thank you!

  • who directed this?

  • does any one know when this came out please?

  • It just came out in Sept. 2009

  • I truly love this song. I'm gonna listen to it for the rest of my life...and im only 16...lol

  • I love this song!! It's my favorite song!! And the guy that plays the father is Malcolm-Jamal Warner from the cosby show...he goes to my church!!

  • Great Job All 4 One

  • this song is to my three year old son because i dont have him right now

  • My daughter really love this song and I have never ever kept her from her father its him and my child is really wanting him to be a part of her life. Its on him not on me. He has really damaged my child. It really hurt when you can't fix the thing that your child long for when you constantly try to make things better but that's one thing you can't fix, especially when the father is blind about what damage he is causing for your child.

  • This is a great song...just re-united with my child after 8 yrs(now 13). We're strangers and she is holding a lot of bitterness. After our second day together which was nice (shopping,manicure and pedicure and a play all for my daughter)...my child told me she does not want me in her life and not to call her any more. Kids can become damaged, she is very bitter not sure why and won't tell me why...except I am not her father! We're strangers to one another I guess.

  • That's terrible. I understand tho. Im 16. It blew over for me. Maybe it will for her. Just depends on the reason she's mad. I really hope things will get better for you.

  • all i can say to you don't give up she will come around may be you should take her somewhere quite and talk tell her why you were gone so long she old enough to know i don't know it's just what i think maybe good or bad but like i said don't give up

  • Your approach seemed to be to fix all 8years with a shopping trip. Although, I applaud your effort, it will take more than the things money can buy. She wanted to hurt you and she did. She isn't for sale. You can't replace the talks, hugs, kisses, stories read, tucks in bed, tears wiped, scrapes bandaged, etc. She needs validation, LOVE, authority, security, affirmation, to be wanted. Let her talk and ask questions, & be ready to answer honestly. Don't give up. She needs YOU NOW more than ever!

  • @cameron8500 I'm sorry to hear this cameron, I'm going through similar. It's been 10 years since I saw my son. I finally have tracked her down and court date is set. I'm scared that she has ruined everything already though. snif. I'm so sorry for your loss. Perhaps as she matures, she'll see things differently.

  • this is a beautiful great song, i hope this lets women who have babies by real men, let them see there child, don't take out the fact that u n him r not 2gether anymore, its not the baby fault, children need there father in there lives, i know,cuz i neva had my father,becuz my mom talked down on him so much and hes really not a bad guy

  • This is so sweet!

  • Heard this song in LA on KJLH 102.3 FM today while I was in the barbershop. I had to find out who was singing this. Luv the vocals! Nice song!!

  • just tell a dead beat dad to listen to this.dont try to force them but just mention this to them.

  • damn dead beat deads maybe trying to bump to this but you have to be a real man to relate lol.

    Brownsville Brooklyn Stabd Up!

  • this song is super great and i got a son on the way love this jam and i hope her moms dont do this to me and all 4 one off the chain i loced them sense they first came out and its about time real R&B comes back boyz ii men on the way to with there love album hecks yeahs

  • Babies mommas b trippin cuz we aint 2gether no more don't mean I can't handle the responsibility of taking care of my child don't hate let me see my child

  • Extremely nice song!! {{but mayb someone can answer this: What if you've done all you can to let your childs father be in their life...but THEY r the ones pulling away. Do you think its still neccessary 2 fight 4 them to see their child?}}

  • they probably didn't write this for dead beat dads. if that's the case, then you're not to blame.

  • LOL...Thx ;0)

  • omg this is the bomb

  • Wow this song is speaking on my situation. And the media puts this image out that blackman are dead beats and we run from fatherhood. There are some situations where that is true but most of the time the mothers prevent the fathers from seeing and enjoying their child. There is always 2 sides to a story.

  • @Fairexchange41 yup u rite cause my couz wont even let her baby daddy see his babygurl that is soo messed up

  • @Fairexchange41 I have said this for a long time but the media is afraid to touch this side of the problem. Black men. You know what most men period love being a dad. But many women try to destroy the relationship between a father and child because it don't workout with her.

  • OMG great comeback

  • Man this song is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Cool!

  • I have no kids but i can relate cuz thats was my mom did to me. but my dads and asshole so i thank her lol

    but i still love this song.

  • can i ask u an honest question, is that something u been thru,that he put u thru,too make u feel that he is an asshole, or is it becuz ur mom told u for so many years ur father is an asshole?? so now u feel the same way?

  • I heard this song on the radio each morning I thought it was Teddy Riley I am so happy I found it. This song teach you not to be selfish regardless of what happens in your relationship!! Kids need both parents!!

  • This is the best song I've heard in awhile for men who are victims of this abuse of power by women. I love this song.

  • damn good to see the fellas still together i thought they broke up this is what rnb needs good music welcome back fellas

  • A nice comeback song, from All4one, and this is one of the best groups around and it's a shame, how hip hop took over everything and this is real music!!!!!!!!!!!

  • kimra07 i feel ya me same thing when u do get a man that doesnt care the babymomma will try to throw the child on ya like my bra, but me who cares gets no right cause were not together that shits crazy sending this to my babymomma

  • My husband is going throught the same stuff with his baby momma right now with his lil girl. It is ashame how females can act now and when they see that females are out here with baby daddys dont care about there kids but when u got those that do then u get stupid ass baby momma. We miss u fat mama (moriah)!!!

  • I agree but alot of us moms dont want some other female tryin to play mommy to our child. My ex's wife thinks it is ok to cause drama so end result neither one of them is around my child

  • Now this here is what I'm talkin bout, that REAL R&B Music!!!!!!!!! Bring that 90's sh** back......... This is fa sho' what the industry is missing!! Job Well Done.......

  • oh man i miss 90's R&B and Neo Soul.... So depressing

  • Wow ! Thanks for the introduction to this band. Shame it had to be in such a sad way :(... nevertheless, great soul ! People let us all respect each other. Men have just as much heart, we need to cherish all our people big and small, not use people as pawns in this chess game of life !! Learn to deal with your own problems then the rest will all fall into place :) Whoo sorry bout that, but my heart goes out to people having their heart and head messed with ! Hope I didnt offend anyone :)

  • I have been a single mom, 4 the last 16 years. that was deep and, it's sad when children get caught up in adult BS. Why we need to be equally yoked with the person we choose to have children with. Even when I wanted to I never kept my child from their Father.

  • @amazingcreations, I wish my child's mother felt as you do. I created a video dedicated to him. :(

  • I hear this joint on The Steve Harvey morning show all the time. I love it!!

  • Wow!

    THIS is what the music industry REALLY needs right now.

    Welcome back, All4one we missed you and this type of message in the music.

  • FANTASTIC COME BACK!!!!!!!

  • I never knew they made music like this...these dudes blew it down! That's real talk right there!

  • Even though Jamie Jones' voice has improved immensely through the years, I am still surprised how Delious Kennedy even ripped up an R&B ballad like this one. DK can sing pop or R&B ballads. I'm surprised he had never gone solo even though Jamie did.

    All-4-One needs to stick to R&B...they sing so much better in that genre. I think they did the pop stuff just to get that mainstream paper.

  • These men came back BIG. This is such a true song. I am a woman and when you look at this perspective, there are a lot of men who miss out not of their own acoord but because they are kept away. The one who hurts the most is the child. If your relationship did not work that does not mean he won't be a good father and so many children need that these days.

  • Exactly Theta. I'm going through this right now.

  • Me too! The Best Buy in Van Nuys and Burbank was sold out, They told me they were ordering more, but I got the last copy at another location... I guess cause it's climbing the charts it's getting a lot of attention.

  • OMG that's an amazing SONG!!!! I went to Best Buy to get their new CD and it was SOLD OUT!!! I think it went from 50 something to 19 on the charts this week!!! I don't want to get it on Amazon, I want the actual CD and jacket... lol

  • that is so true we are not hurting anybody our child but some of us push the child on the father and they still don't want to do the right thing the song is sweet keep pushing the word maybe there will get thru their minds

  • This is the first time I ever cried while listening to a song. I have been trying to have my child in my life for 12 years. I don't even think he knows who I am. I posted my story on my channel. :(

  • @infidelguy,

    If I ever get my songs for my first album done, I'll most definitely give you a shout out at least once on the album. The album would definitely go online.

  • As smooth as it gets.The video is even done Great

  • I heard this song today, and I had to see if there was a video for it, I didn't know they had a new album out... I love me some All 4 One, and will have this new CD by the weekend.

  • i loove thiis!! i think im in love wiff it. !! ahh!!

  • My Partner KM....All For One.....this is big boyeee...this is huge. This is R&B..

  • ladies plz listing to this very carefuly

  • i hope tthat he mother of my BF's son hear this song....it's not that i want them back i just want to fulfill my man's only wish, to see his son personally from the very first time... not just in pictures.. pls... i love my man that's why i'm saying this.

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  • it's his son from her ex-gf...

  • Damn this song go hard, i haven't heard real r&b like this in a while. Shout out to All 4 One, y'all really did this one.

  • I love the song and the video. I wish my daughter's father would understand this. Every child needs a father and a mother. Daughters need their fathers just as much as sons do.

  • This song really hits home with me. All 4 One heard my thoughts on this one.

  • i only hope that the message is not only heard but acted on too many children are used in this chess game of life find you another peace and put on the board great song

  • This song speaks the truth a real man takes care of his kids the group All 4 One new CD is in stores lets support independent music

  • this song is right. a woman cant teach a boy to be a man. <3 good song. this is the reason i wont keep mah kids away from their daddy <3

  • wow i love this song...coco you really need to listen close this shit for real....just sit back and let them tell you what i cant

  • Love the video!

  • I don't understand how some women can do that. What if the shoe was on the other foot? My child's father and I split up for about a year, but I still had their relationship intact. If he didn't want to be there, it would have been b/c he decided not to, not because I was keeping him away. Some of these women need to think about the child and stop being selfish. Because there are some good men out there that handle their business. :)

  • Me and my husband heard this song on Steve Harvey show as well. We both like this song. And I fell for men who go throw this.

  • This is an awesome song...I am so glad that All 4 one is back...i also heard it on Steve Harvey...

  • I am dealing with this right now and this song brought me to tears. I heard this for the first time today on The Steve Harvey Show. I hope this will help alot of men in my situation. I will never give up on the relationship I and my son deserve. No woman can teach a boy to become a man and no man can teach a girl to become a women. A child needs both. I love you son.

  • I can understand, my ex-wife told me years ago that we had a son, but now still till this day she refuses for me to have a relationship with him, it has been more than 20 years and i want to know my son and him to know of me. I praying for that day to come to pass. Now he has a child of his own WHEN WILL THIS END!

  • As sad as I am to say It will probably never end simply because Ex's don't forgive easily if at all. My daughter is now 15 and her Mom and I are just getting along now. My 9 and 10 year old I have no relationship with them at all just because of the blockage that exists within their Mother. I've decided I'm gonna try to pursue visitation this time next year and see how it goes. GoodLuck Brotherman.. My prayers are with you for Real!!!

  • @lb1grl2,

    A lot of these American females are scandalous.

    You need the law to get involved in your case. It's not right what she is doing, man.

  • @william2240,

    Man. I'm glad you love your son. I hope that you and your son are close. If not, I hope for the best protocol that you guys can eventually get in touch and make it work.

    Life is too short, man. Peace.

  • Heard this song yesterday on Steve Harvey show when they sang it live. Never heard music like this is a while. Keep it coming and great job!

  • i heard them sing live on steve harvey and he said he gone keep this song in rotation and i caught da song today and i'ma try to catch it everyday cuz i'm like u, we need music like this again

  • Awesome song.

  • I first heard this song on Sirrus Satellite Radio and again on the Steve Harvey show when they did it live. Man, this song really hits home to me. Thank you All 4 One!!!

  • i know right

  • Is the man in the video Malcolm Jamal Warner?

  • YES, He's getting old

  • yes

  • it sure is..I talked to him at my church last sunday...he looks exactly like that..and yes, he is getting older.

  • A son that I didn't know existed found me after 45 years. There is no bitterness, but it still hurts.

    I heard this on the Steve Harvey show and was blown away. 2 hours latter I had the CD and have shed many a tear.

    Fathers embrace your sons;sons embrace your fathers. Love is the key

  • great great song, grown man music!!!!

  • I am glad there are more anti-feminism videos coming out like this one..about fuckin' time.

    I'm sick of these feminists running the show. FUck the NWO!

  • Man, that video is fuckin' powerful.

  • This is a great song. Man these guys can sing great live. They are amazing. I'm gonna have to go get this cd.

  • He bears my name..and it's my blood running threw his veins..wow!! that says itall. Love to all fathers!! There would be no children without you! All 4 one..Thank you!

  • man i heard this on the steve harvey morning show and couldnt wait to get home from school and listen;;;this song is Great and sends out a positive message too....man now thats what i can R&B

  • I love this song. It has a meaning and I can understand the words. This has a lot of potential 2 climb the charts 2 number 1.

    I also heard it this morning on Steve Harvey and on XM radio. I couldn't wait 2 get 2 work and pull it up.

  • man i just heard this live on the Steve Harvey show all i can is damn this joint is hot i can relate to this song as well as many daddys can

  • rtoman4474......same here. Heard this on Steve Harvey yesterday morning and it shook me up. Great song!

  • what a great song...great group

  • i am really diggin this song keepum comin

  • Great song and video!

  • man they betta stop playin, i thought ppl didn't wanna make good real music anymore. I thought it was all about club music. I can dig this and relate to it at one point in my life and kno ppl who goin thru it now

  • Yep Real R&B is Back we got All For One  Back and Maxwell is Back and Whitney Houston is Back and Case the Man who sang Happy Ever After has a new song called Lovely

  • OMG thank you All 4 One, finally some real music with important lyrics and not flossing and cursing. Hopefully this is the start of r&b being reborn

  • I heard this song on Steve Harvey show and immediately had to find this song quick. I have been listening to it for two days now. Great Song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • wow!

  • Awesome... thats all i can say. Long live TRUE R&B!

  • Finally Real Music Is Coming Back I Always Love These Guys I am So Happy they Are Back

  • dAMN iheart dHiS S0Nq S0 MUCh:

  • What an R&B tune!!

    THAT'S MUSIC ..... EARGASMUS!!!

  • how come this song is not getting any airplay. i havent heard it on the radio or anywhere except betj. good job guys.

  • Lord, Good R&B is coming back.

  • Excellent song ! This is definitely award worthy. Keep up the great work guys.....

  • 10 years made a huge difference! Those boys is sangin!! That's what the old folk would say. Great work fellas! Not to mention the song and the lyrics are great.

  • I love this song thanks for posting.Quick question werent they a 90's group?

  • yes, they sang I Swear

  • thanks they can still sang!lol

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