My story - child abuse

[DaddysLittleSweetie2]

OMG im so srry for you. Well, i care about anyone i see or know. so i care you you ^^ i hope nothing happens to you again...

[xChiyou]

Gelukkig is dat niet meer zo<33

[RaeRae914]

So glad you are free from that bad man,time to live your life young lady good luck xxxxxx

[TheLinkine]

African people are awesome I have a dentist in England and he has the african accent but I went there cause I had a sore tooth and took it out without making me afraid..,,he that good but I hope you have a good life now and away from that evil man

[LiliSings12]

I'm so glad you're out of that, you don't and NON of you deserve ANY of this. You deserve nothing but the BEST. And to all of you who are still going through something like this, YOU WILL GET HELP. DO NOT be scared anymore you. We ALL believe in you and wish you THE BEST of luck beautiful. To girls AND guys. love you all! Even the ones who AREN'T going through this. the world is just much nicer when you LOVE. <3 xoxo -Lili-

[shareka0]

english plz?dammit

[Zinetha]

you seem really ok when you talk about all this... how long ago was this and how long did this abusing last?

i'm still not ok with some stuff in my past... not child abuse, but some other harm from other people I'd rather not talk about more in public...

[MsMadlen1995]

@Zinetha because i got over it. i realised that i dont need to waist my toughts about him.but that doesnt mean i am totally okay talkin about it. its just easier

for you everytime you think about it you should think:i dont care.its my life and i wont let it be so unhappy as then. it works. thats why can talk about it without much difficulties.

the next time that something bad happens:dont sleep that night cause if sleep your mind will save everything that happened

its5 years ago now

[LucyLabrador1]

Such a happy ending! I'm so glad!

[cjrg1998]

das ist nicht gut du are very strong (im learning german) ich kann beleve du went through that

[EdWaRdEoDB118]

your not alone I got treated horrendously by my stepmother and father they abused me by hitting burning kicking downstairs and stuff like that it was my stepmother who was crazy but now I live with my real mother and I LOVE IT I hope you all the best for 2012 you wonderful courageous girl :D xx

[macycakes1]

if ur being hit why would u record it u running up the stairs, who wass recording? and btw i hope ur okaayy stay safe, :D god bless u

[SoBree13]

@thekh13 call some one and get out now u don't deserve that

[Tabb415]

dass ist soo traurig):::: es tut mir Leid! Ich höffe alle ist gut.

[AmberrBieber]

aww im so sorry for ur past :(((((( and i love justin bieber to ok back to the video;L ull never forget theabuse it scares but i will always support chu <3

[TNGUY865]

you know I am 25 now, and i have never had the courage as many of you do to speak up. I just kept it all inside, and I do not recomend that to ANYONE! If something is going on SPEAK UP! I am proud of you,

[gunitluva12]

@huncfot1 Dude ur messed up like seriously!

[huncfot1]

@gunitluva12 ....Ok so :I DONT KNOW WHY I SAID THAT!HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO SAY IT???????

[uleyne]

heftig verhaal, je bent echt sterk weet je. Ik weet hoe erg het is, maar gelukkig heb ik een veilig website gevonden waar ik kan alles uiten, dus voor mij gaat het ook beter. I wish you the best in life (=

[daryanandjuliashow]

well i jus wanna say congras im so glad u r happy now

[huncfot1]

You are German right?Well to tell you the truth,I'm from Poland,and I am pretty mad at Adolf Hitler for doing what he did.And I wouldn't like to be German.But I always say:Just because I wouldn't like to be German,doesn't mean I'm racist.If I for example had a new girl in the class from Germany and no one liked her,I would try to be her friend.So that just shows what I said:Just cause you don't want to be some thing,does not mean you are mean!So don't be sad OK?I 'm just saying what I think!

[MsMadlen1995]

@huncfot1 well, at first adolf hitler wasn't german. he was bron in austria. you need to get your facts right.

and second: if one guy ruined up something it isnt a reason to hate all the rest.

third: why on earth did you commend something like this . this is a serieus video. all i said in this is true. i dont get why you start about him.

i'm not mad at you, you just think wrong.

[huncfot1]

@MsMadlen1995 I know!I just said that cause if people ask me why I don't watch German stuff,and I tell them,they say I'm Racist!I'm glad you're OK!Let me get this straight:I don't hate all the rest,I just hate him!OK?

[Doctorwhofan1032]

@MsMadlen1995 i agree with you huncfot1 just came out with a load of rubbish just then :L

[huncfot1]

@Doctorwhofan1032 What?

[huncfot1]

@huncfot1 I'm a woman!!!!!And plus how many times do I have to say:I don't hate all them,and I don't know why I said this!Leave me alone!

[huncfot1]

@MsMadlen1995 I'm sorry for starting this discussion.I don't know why I did.

[Corrupt5358]

@MsMadlen1995 He might have been Austrian but you know he was in charge of Germany right?

Compared with the Jews at Auschwitz you don't look in bad shape to me.

[MsMadlen1995]

@Corrupt5358 i know he was in charge of germany but the people only followed him because he promised them work. and people needed work so that they could buy bread for their family. i never said i am in bad shape. and then again: why are you starting about this???

[DressageQueen221]

@Corrupt5358 seriously?...im from sweden and i think that you need to be quiet. you werent alive when hitler was in power nor when he had concentration camps and neither was msmadlen. and of course she wont look in bad shape....she isnt in a concentration camp...because its 2012 not 1942. i respect all cultures and so should you

[Asian62150]

@huncfot1 what kind of comment is this. Being German has nothing to do with Adolf Hilter, he was one man not a country. I would never want to be German because people like you are going to judge me for something that happened so long ago and it's not fair, so many ignorant people

[huncfot1]

@Asian62150 Aaaargh!Why are we even talking about this?I said I DON'T JUDGE GERMAN PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!Why don't you just mind your own buisness!I just hate HIM ,NOT GERMAN PEOPLE!So MYOB!Just shut up already!

[CaRyS469]

@huncfot1 Sorry but has Hitler got to do with this story??

[huncfot1]

@CaRyS469 No,your'e right...

[ConverseCutie222]

@huncfot1 WAIT. This video isnt about Germany or Adolf Hitler or something what you're talking about, Adolf wasn't German so what's your point on hating Germany? And I don't get your comment. What does the fact that you don't want to be German have to do with her video? No one actually cares. Get your facts right man.

[keykey12ful]

@huncfot1 Who cares if she's German? Who cares whether Hitler was Austrian or German? Did you know Hitler was also a Jew? Did you know he was also a nut job? He was angry because he applied to jewish art and architecture schools and was denied admission because they didn't think his work was original and creative enough. He was a very intelligent charismatic psychopath that has nothing to do with this young woman. Auschwitz also has nothing to do with this young, courages lady. Stop hating!

[DBZlover1997]

i love brave people like you. people that get it out there for the world to know. those who tell others how bad this is. thank you

[stuntgirl14]

You were really brave to post this....not many kids have a second chance at a new happy life...to many kids are killed by abusive moms or dads...have a happy full life!

[jess64ish]

@PipweedTroll Lying? Your kidding right? Do you have any idea what thousands of children go through every year, and if it's a myth then why do children DIE from child abuse every day?

[jess64ish]

I'm so glad your ok now. 2 days ago I stepped up and told my best friend about what was happening to me. she told the school counsellor and this afternoon I'm being taken to my aunt and uncles house. They're really nice and my cousin, Justin is really funny. Hopefully things will be ok again and your story gives me even more hope that it will.

[MsMadlen1995]

@jess64ish i promise you, everything will be okay. you'll see everythings gonna end fine.

[Bunny4life12]

That is so sad! are you acutally in care?

[generalj02]

i'm so sorry to hear about what happend :( im glad u r ok now

[TRISHA30SMITH]

I AM SO SORRY YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS . I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I WAS SEXUAL ABUSE AS A CHILD NOW IM 30 . IM SO HAPPY YOUR OK !

[joquartaro1]

Are You Ok??? ='(

[MsMadlen1995]

@joquartaro1 yes im totally fine now. you??

[joquartaro1]

@MsMadlen1995: I Almost Cryed But, I'm Fine...I'm Very Srry That Happend ='(

[Abuseaddict]

@MsMadlen1995 Can you please add Your Story to 'Our Story' on FaceBook

Or email Abuseaddict@gmail.com

[TheCliffordh]

You are very courageous.

[stijnseawsomnessvlog]

meisje ik snap je helemaal ik heb hetzelfde meegemaakt ik ben heel blij dat alles goed is afgelopen;)

[BrookeIssMeeex]

Im Really Glad You Are Okay.(:

[spbabe9]

Awwww -3

[17JustinB]

I like the song she put! I goes with her story! Justin Bieber - Pray! <3 :)

[xXMusicAndFashionXx]

Aww :'(

[XxcrystalestradaxX]

god bless you're soul i'm glad everything turned out alright for you T-T i'm still crying am i spelling anything wrong?

[bowersbfflsocks]

I Like how you talk, and im glad your ok now

[meganice52]

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry.

[ILOVEMAKEUP183]

i felt sorry 4 you. wwhere are u now

[kejolhussain]

@msmadlen1995 im happy every thng turned out well

[RedRock4ever]

Aww Im very sorry

[lexalina132]

i'm glad you're ok now Sarah! i'll be praying for you and your family!

[mrbatpack]

Dass was sehr traurig Sarah.. Und Mein Name Ist Matthew.

[anteaterhands]

your awesome. im sorry about the story but you seem very strong. i wish i spoke german!

[CanadianMusican1652]

Dass was sehr traurig Sarah... :( Und mein Name ist Sarah. Aber ich bin aus Kanada.

(That was very sad Sarah... :( And my name is Sarah. But I am from Canada.)

[spanishDoll1]

Im glad to see that you turned out well dont let any thing get you down because its worste for someone else somewhere so pray

[1969mustangboss]

VERY BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY! GLAD U SURVIVED! MANY CHILDREN DON'T!

[jasaguayo]

I just want to go and give you a big hug for being so brave :')

[fuzzyfacejr]

i have been abused for many years

[CherryBlossoms241]

Hey uh...what part of Germany? Your dialect is WAY different than mine. Btw I'm glad you turned out ok!

[MsMadlen1995]

@CherryBlossoms241 im from Thüringen. And you?

[thepathofpins]

@MsMadlen1995 i did a report on thuringen:) im in hessen and what cherry said, way different dialect.

[MsMadlen1995]

@thepathofpins yeah cause i was born in thuringen but i live in the netherlands for almost 11 years now :D thats why its a way different dialect.

[SuperTabix]

@CherryBlossoms241 It's not German ;). It's Dutch.

[KatherineRogers]

Its not just the hitting and drinking that is wrong here. Talk to counsiors regarding what things he SAID to you...and about your sense of self worth. Dont make the mistake of thinking your future BOY friend is ok as long as he doesnt HIT you like dad did. Help them work with you and your NEW father to figure out how men should talk to you and treat you. I imagine the problem was there WELL before he hit you that first time. Your a brave young lady. I wish you and your sister well.

[archerskido]

I'll pray for you with everyone!

[hadezmage]

Dont worry, Everyone is praying for you. I sometimes worry about my younger step-sister because we were seperated since we were young ever since my parents got a divorce. I am with my new soon to be father he is very nice except his daughter, she is mean to me and is often bullying me. Every night I run to my bedroom and hope that my younger step sister in okay, because i remember a painful moment where he would use a belt to whip her. God bless you Madlen, and your family.

[MsMadlen1995]

@hadezmage i pray for your sister to be alright. God bless you and your sister. And you should defenitely find out if he harms her.

[Giverney13]

Blessings to you Madlen in all ways and stay strong for you can be a beacon to many children who need help-and those who lived through it and survived have insight few have. Take care Madlen in all ways!

[WVRN212]

I'm happy for you Madlen, I was abused until I was 12 when I finally spoke to a school councilor so I can certainly sympathize with your situation. I'm just glad you have a father in your life now that cares about you. I would suggest that you speak with a therapist though as abuse like this can have long term damage carried well over into adulthood.

I wish you the best and may God bless you and keep you safe.

[blingbling098]

i was abused when i was 12 really badley ...

but then i turned 16 and everyone became nice .. still dont know why '_' ...

[GottaDads]

I'm glad your happy now

[prx2007]

your so brave & strong im glad you are happy now :)

[MsMadlen1995]

@3arthL0ver thank you

[xHoffmanx3]

Thank-you for sharing your story. You're such a strong girl

[WanganMaster19]

im happy that you are ok :) you did the right thing

[teddyboyrocks1]

you are sooooo brave !

[13Narutofangirl]

I respect you cuz you haded courage and your such a good girl its good you are happy now but i have to deal with my own problems now i should tell it to the teachers...Im shure they can do something about it....Oh and my dog have been abused to death R.I.P Hope may you be happy up there with my other dogs...i miss em so bad....

[nagato245]

Thats one bad sad story but I am happy you are ok now . I read even worse stories and I know that it brings alot of emotional pain . I am 14 and I am not abused but I can imagine it . Good luck to you and pray that it remains good like now .

[MsMadlen1995]

@nagato245 thank you. yeah my life now is al lot better.

[marsaweyaa]

ik heb respect voor je echt waar <3

[MsMadlen1995]

@marsaweyaa dankje

[SuperHollielouise]

Oh my god that must of been horrible for you when I watched this I was nearly in tears but I am happy for you now that everything is okay and back to normal again:) xx

[MsAandRshow]

im sorry i dont speak the same language as u guys but i think it was really amazing of u to make this video and having enough courage to speak up... most kids dont... so i want to say thanks... i havnt had a expiercence like u have but i think wat u did was really amazing cause maybe now more kids will have enough courgage to say this to some one like u did

[MsMadlen1995]

@MsAandRshow thats why i made a video.. i wanna show the world that courage can help u.. and that it can end good.. and i put it on so that they can see there not the only ones with this problem... i want them to see that they can make a change and must take that courage. cause it will help.

[MsAandRshow]

@MsMadlen1995 well i thank you for posting this because i do think some kids need the courage to do wat you did and to actually tell some one.... it breaks how at my school, some kids are abused by their parents, verbly and physicaly and they only tell their friends and make us promise not to tell.... so i thank you and i hope that this will give kids the courage to report their problems if they have any

[omgiloveitxx]

jeetje, dat je dit op internet durft te zettten, respect lieverd <3

[MsMadlen1995]

@omgiloveitxx

dankje

ik zet dit op internet omdat ik er nu overheen ben.

En de anderen wil laten zien dat het goed kan eindigen

[Rdenairius1991]

@MsMadlen1995 Houd de couage gaan .. dat is alles.

( sorry, I don't speak the lanage but I use a translater)

[nick10803]

@MsMadlen1995 what language you speak i can try to speak it

[MsMadlen1995]

@nick10803 i speak dutch ;D

[nick10803]

@MsMadlen1995 oh dan afkoelen kan ik met je praten