Healing Love Relationships - Part 4- Focus on the Goal

[kutunsukakutonoka]

Thats the problem right there! Its not about the concern, its just about the EGO! These people just take pleasure in making their partner look stupid in some way. If its really about the concern then they'd take their time, explain and get the partner on board,but they dont. Why? There's some kind of superiority that they get from it, some kinda position of power even if its just for moment. Thats why they keep doing it. But what lame way of making self feel better.

[kutunsukakutonoka]

ok. I think women should really just grow out this terrible way trying to correct their husbands like they're correcting a kid. Even men who do it. When we grow up into adults, we hope to have the privillege of being to with respect and not to be scolded.

Surely why hurt your partner's feelings over something thats dead. Lets learn to place humans where they belong and not attach too much value to materials. things that dont even have feeling. Lets learn to just tolerate such things.