When we dont answer the phone, that doesn't mean we are out cheating. He's probably playing Call of Duty or something, cut us some slack. Great song tho
Yeah, he didnt cheat. He was drugged. If you saw when the woman came up to him, he actually moved,then she threw a pill in his drink. He was jacked up but he still left because it was unwanted attention. This video is about what women think their man is doing when they go out, not what he is actually doing, which is, in this case, being faithful... great video, great song, love the melody.
@Coahoma100 Let's be realistic, I'm pretty sure grown ass people cheat more than they get drugged.. Hello! That's why when credit cards go through at strip clubs they come up as a restaurant for the girlfriends & wives.
@xXStarShinesXx LOL, yeah Ive never been to a strip club so I dont know, but I'm talking about the video...yeah, ppl cheat all of the time. But men get drugged too...but I get your point~
I think the moral of this video is that it's not always that there cheatin .regradless if he was out or not he wasnt in a strip club he wasnt flirtin wit the women in the club and thats how he missed her droppin tht shyt in his drink . So its dont assume but find out wats going on first
Hey read, don't laugh at this. Just do it! Start thinking of something you really really want, because this is astonishing. The person who sent this said their wish came true after 10 minutes they read the mail, so I thought what the heck! You have been visited by Dr Suesss the cat in the hat, he will grant you with one wish, make your wish when the countdown is over. 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1 MAKE A WISH! if you send this to 10 videos within the hour, your wish will come true
I love my babyboii so much, yes hes always out with his friends && im always at home by myself. He has 2 chances,cause that s how many he gave me,but i really dont think i could let him go cause he is the only thing i ever thought about since 5th grade.&& now that i got him i can't let go!:)
Thus song is so real I use to feel the same way but wen my ex/babydaddy Maurice did that to me I fuck him up how u got yur ol lady at home in bed and u out havin a ball with other bit**s I will leave him I luv u but not enough to deserve thus life cuz I would make u the perfect wife and Im better than that!
Seriously feeling this song!! I question and wonder what Really go through guys heads. I don't mind u going out n doing You but be Careful n Use your head. At the same time.... some of ya'll are so Blinded by the Past or Friends that you can't see whats Right in front of you, and if that person sees what u don't see n tries to Help u see it or Protect u from going backwards n getting Hurt.. u get Mad!! I'll Never Understand it! Good Women are HARD to find!! OPEN YOUR eyes
@CandleWickz that would be true but he didnt cheat he was chillin and poppin drinks wit his homies and sum girl sliped him a date rape drug and then he decided to leave the club. He neva commited a infidelitie.
@CandleWickz Thatz very unmature of yhu.. ever heard of 2nd chancez.? nd yhu sayn tht nw bud wat if yhu tha one tht sumbdy roofee or lace summ weed or yhhu get too drunk too fast nd black out or summ tht shyt is nt yhur fault nd if yhu had a significant other whom yhur thnkn boud startn a fam wit nd marrying.. wuld yhu want himm tu leave yhu.? cos the only thing yhu did waz b irresponsible.. if yhu wnt himm tu leave yhu juxx talkn nd have never been in love nt truly.!
@DatDenaBytch18 this is the most outlandish ideas ever brought forth for a debate. im sure that you knew before you went out to drink , if you can handle it. it would not have been the first time.
She is Mary J. Blige wit a message to the younger adults. Fa real Fa real! Mary is my grown Woman Sanger...Melanie is my New generation Sanger. Haaaa!
@HarajukuHawtie Thanks! I FINALLY noticed that ONE curse word, earlier today, when I watched the video w/ the lyrics. I don't know how I never noticed it.
LUV THIS VIDEO!!! SHE CAN SING HER ASS OFF!
LADYCAW1 1 day ago
everytime this guy thats a player, try to talk to me, i listenn to this song
it helps
TheLovemusic4eva 1 day ago
this mutha-phucker thinking i'm stupid~~~
wayne7007 1 day ago 2
i'm hurting nd he dnt even care
sexymuch520 1 day ago
I came hear just because of motherfucker. Lol
nikelsnook95 1 day ago
omg das wat he get i would hav beat that hoe ass
for druggin him
qualeyjrock 4 days ago
love her and this song is downloaded to my fone mos def
gayboy4blackdik 5 days ago
I KNOW HOW MELANIE FIONA FEEL'S, I LIKE THIS SONG <3
EsaFlorenciana 1 week ago
men do not have to be drugged to cheat please dont glamorize the fact that their dogs but i love the song!
MzBiggNTasty 2 weeks ago 2
Brings back bad memories....so glad that I left...
SnowyDae 2 weeks ago 4
dang
shauntaomi1 2 weeks ago
this is mii jams
precious3466 2 weeks ago 3
it wasnt his fault
0190566 2 weeks ago 2
Thats a wrap....BROTHA'S GOING TO JAIL!!!!!!
Jamhero20 2 weeks ago
(standing here and I'm getting heated) that part was so fucking sexy O.o
ModshibaX 2 weeks ago 2
did anyone else notice the shadows on the walls at 3:44
ModshibaX 2 weeks ago
BEAUTIFUL AND TALENTED <3
YaMMa0804 3 weeks ago
Like the old saying goes..."You could tell she was a nice girl by the way she said "motherf*cker"
navigator502 3 weeks ago
Who created this video idea it's one the best I've seen in a while and the song is great ,so real so much passion in it
LibraShea 3 weeks ago
i love this song becuz its real, emotional and deep...
PiscesBabii89 3 weeks ago
This song is Stalker Liked Only....
KeshiaMHarris 3 weeks ago
Anyone else came here just to hear her say 'motherfucker' ? lool
jerseyslore1 3 weeks ago 74
@jerseyslore1 ME! lol well I like the song too
smarterthantherest1 3 weeks ago
@jerseyslore1 IKR!!!!!
mkiwistar 1 week ago
I love this song ;-)
chassie081 3 weeks ago
Ok Ok Ok this the last time... for real this time. I won't hit replay.
BooGraphic 3 weeks ago 3
favorite song now!
TheLisaw46 1 month ago
favorite song now!
TheLisaw46 1 month ago
love this song
donisbabygurl 1 month ago
On 2:54 she dropped a pill or sumthin in his drink
MegaFOOTBALLMAN23 1 month ago
@CarpeDiam,Dat was a funny line u jus said but foreal we could be playin call of duty with the surround sound on real loud.....Lmao....
Dularge985 1 month ago
When we dont answer the phone, that doesn't mean we are out cheating. He's probably playing Call of Duty or something, cut us some slack. Great song tho
CarpeDiam86 1 month ago
i went through almost this exact thing not too long ago
TwiztidYetPlayful 1 month ago
I know she wouldn't sing this like her, but this really could have been a hitmaker for Ciara. Idk, it just kind of feels like her type of vibe.
b1tchJ 1 month ago
Yeah, he didnt cheat. He was drugged. If you saw when the woman came up to him, he actually moved,then she threw a pill in his drink. He was jacked up but he still left because it was unwanted attention. This video is about what women think their man is doing when they go out, not what he is actually doing, which is, in this case, being faithful... great video, great song, love the melody.
Coahoma100 1 month ago
@Coahoma100 yo totally true
Jkwired247 1 month ago
@Coahoma100 Nice theory but it's not right.
xXStarShinesXx 1 month ago in playlist my current fav tunes
@xXStarShinesXx Not a theory, its whats in the video...pay attention to it. Thanks for the comment.
Coahoma100 1 month ago
@Coahoma100 Let's be realistic, I'm pretty sure grown ass people cheat more than they get drugged.. Hello! That's why when credit cards go through at strip clubs they come up as a restaurant for the girlfriends & wives.
xXStarShinesXx 3 weeks ago in playlist my current fav tunes
The video is designed to make females think that the thought of being cheated on is far fetched, it's making people stupid.
xXStarShinesXx 3 weeks ago
@xXStarShinesXx LOL, yeah Ive never been to a strip club so I dont know, but I'm talking about the video...yeah, ppl cheat all of the time. But men get drugged too...but I get your point~
Coahoma100 3 weeks ago
@Coahoma100 so true i completely agree wit u!!
donisbabygurl 1 month ago
@donisbabygurl Thank you
Coahoma100 1 month ago
Yes look at the likes & dislikes thats what i'm talking about.
scorpiogt1 1 month ago
Def a horribly lonely feeling that makes you wanna rip your heart from your chest to make the pain stop!!!!!!!!!!!!!
skac881 1 month ago
I think the moral of this video is that it's not always that there cheatin .regradless if he was out or not he wasnt in a strip club he wasnt flirtin wit the women in the club and thats how he missed her droppin tht shyt in his drink . So its dont assume but find out wats going on first
440lilsoul 1 month ago
@440lilsoul
could be....maybe not tho...Either way in my opinion if your happy with what you have why do u need that to feel that excitement???
skac881 1 month ago
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Hey read, don't laugh at this. Just do it! Start thinking of something you really really want, because this is astonishing. The person who sent this said their wish came true after 10 minutes they read the mail, so I thought what the heck! You have been visited by Dr Suesss the cat in the hat, he will grant you with one wish, make your wish when the countdown is over. 10,9,8,7,6,5,4,3,2,1 MAKE A WISH! if you send this to 10 videos within the hour, your wish will come true
Divisiblites702 1 month ago in playlist My Music xoxo nunu
they need to show the other point of view from the dude side.
DPTVNETWORKS 1 month ago
I love this song and i think its so real!!
cuttiiEeePiiEee 1 month ago
love this song
tcarter823 1 month ago 2
I shall rape the REPEAT button!:)
I love my babyboii so much, yes hes always out with his friends && im always at home by myself. He has 2 chances,cause that s how many he gave me,but i really dont think i could let him go cause he is the only thing i ever thought about since 5th grade.&& now that i got him i can't let go!:)
courtney3816 1 month ago 3
I WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON HER
GF13LD420 1 month ago 3
Thus song is so real I use to feel the same way but wen my ex/babydaddy Maurice did that to me I fuck him up how u got yur ol lady at home in bed and u out havin a ball with other bit**s I will leave him I luv u but not enough to deserve thus life cuz I would make u the perfect wife and Im better than that!
Choppa22ful 1 month ago
im a sugardaddy, but i feel her pain and love
MrOta46 1 month ago
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Can everyone please go check out my cover for this song, thanks :D
candycoaded94 1 month ago
I love this song and the video is hot as hell!!!!!!!!
Rule316 1 month ago
I Freaking Love This Song ! , Her Voice Is So Beautiful . #On Repeat (:
mimi2thick 1 month ago
Seriously feeling this song!! I question and wonder what Really go through guys heads. I don't mind u going out n doing You but be Careful n Use your head. At the same time.... some of ya'll are so Blinded by the Past or Friends that you can't see whats Right in front of you, and if that person sees what u don't see n tries to Help u see it or Protect u from going backwards n getting Hurt.. u get Mad!! I'll Never Understand it! Good Women are HARD to find!! OPEN YOUR eyes
rissam03 1 month ago
The video makes it seems like the song is more about her insecurities than his infidelities.
HughJanus400 1 month ago
great song
JazieMay594 1 month ago
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have this song on REPEAT
kwietstormstunna 1 month ago
3:50 - 4:56 my fav part
sophialisipooh 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
idc what anyone says, idc how high or drunk the person is .. if you cheat on me by accident, i'll leave you on purpose
CandleWickz 1 month ago 127
@CandleWickz his drink was spiked which means he would've been raped, but just drunk or high I would leave too.
fallenangelgirl16 1 month ago
@CandleWickz that would be true but he didnt cheat he was chillin and poppin drinks wit his homies and sum girl sliped him a date rape drug and then he decided to leave the club. He neva commited a infidelitie.
MeekaMusiq24 1 month ago 2
@CandleWickz i totally agree with you!,,,
sherrylwilsonlove 1 month ago 2
@CandleWickz PREACH!!!!!
Divisiblites702 1 month ago
@CandleWickz Thatz very unmature of yhu.. ever heard of 2nd chancez.? nd yhu sayn tht nw bud wat if yhu tha one tht sumbdy roofee or lace summ weed or yhhu get too drunk too fast nd black out or summ tht shyt is nt yhur fault nd if yhu had a significant other whom yhur thnkn boud startn a fam wit nd marrying.. wuld yhu want himm tu leave yhu.? cos the only thing yhu did waz b irresponsible.. if yhu wnt himm tu leave yhu juxx talkn nd have never been in love nt truly.!
DatDenaBytch18 1 month ago
@DatDenaBytch18 this is the most outlandish ideas ever brought forth for a debate. im sure that you knew before you went out to drink , if you can handle it. it would not have been the first time.
kingfrankz15 1 month ago
@DatDenaBytch18 it took me so long to read that shit
fukcrackimdope 1 month ago
@CandleWickz Say that!!!
cuttiiEeePiiEee 1 month ago
@CandleWickz BITCH HE DIDNT CHEAT!!!!
duce11101987 1 month ago 2
@CandleWickz i like that one
ReahBarbadian4Lyfe 1 month ago
@CandleWickz Damn, He got drugged though. Lol you still gon blame him?
Arnell717 3 weeks ago 4
@CandleWickz Just shows how much of a heartless cunt you are, bitch..
M1911A1 1 week ago in playlist Music 2
her voice is like an angel fareal. i cnt stop singin it
XxSheDaillistxX 1 month ago
damn.....I straight up raped that repeat button...
Cupid0210 1 month ago 3
exactly what im feelin, cant let go of the repeat button :)
Msneverletitgo 1 month ago in playlist AGAiN
I noe i raped that repeat button!!
SexiShay22 1 month ago
Each time I listen to this song I have to listen to it at least 2 times back to back! LOL
smarterthantherest1 1 month ago
id of went out looking for his ass back in my hey day boy now idgaf easy come easy go
Shatherealest 1 month ago in playlist real shit
I'm a guy and I've done that! Mane she so sexy!!
RenoRe74 1 month ago
All I can say is HE is a total ASS!!!! Leave her alone and some other fool will snatch her up!
m8knmuzik 1 month ago
So painful yet so beautiful. Been on repeat for the last hour
makaflocka 1 month ago
Love it.
chichi1981spanishfly 1 month ago
this is exactly what my man did to me...this song is like my life right now!!! its great therapy!!
BannednFlagged 1 month ago
Sitttin here feeling kinda crazy
but not just any crazy
its the kind you feel
when you love somebody...
misskindy 1 month ago
I thought she was about to cheat on him. Good thing she went to bed.
DeboraheJohnson3 2 months ago
Glad to know ya.... 4Am rocks the instruments and that drummer girl yall put it down.........luv ya much
quivershivershake 2 months ago
this song speaks 2 me... Its crazy
OnnaG1231 2 months ago
She is Mary J. Blige wit a message to the younger adults. Fa real Fa real! Mary is my grown Woman Sanger...Melanie is my New generation Sanger. Haaaa!
KJ2daAM 2 months ago
@tmerae Yes, this song and that Jill Scott ft. Paul Wall are my go to songs.
TheChelly85 2 months ago
I m really feeling this song in to be honest I didnt really know what she was saying I just knew it was my girl Fiona in it was worth listening 2
msstrawberries02 2 months ago
this id the hardest song i have heard this year
dennidgibbons69 2 months ago
addicted to this song.keep repeating it.
Chocolatesmiles7 2 months ago 44
@Chocolatesmiles7 Your not in this alone,,,Cause I'm addicted to!! gotta love it
cuttiiEeePiiEee 1 month ago 2
@Chocolatesmiles7 me 2
TheZaidabdullah 1 month ago
am loving this song
divalicious7676 2 months ago 3
@Mizzalves123456789 Yupp at 1:53 she says it!!! LOL
DLNoLiMiT 2 months ago in playlist More videos from JSPARKSFAN4LYFE1
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TheEditor80 2 months ago
It's funny that you never get too old for growing pains.
Mizzalves123456789 2 months ago
Melanie: YOU GOT IT GOING ON WITH THIS ONE!!!!!!!!!
Mizzalves123456789 2 months ago
What kind of friends allow you to take a pill and drive home alone?
Leyah2015 2 months ago
@Leyah2015 The dancer slipped it in his drink.
MizzTrinieFyre 2 months ago
@Leyah2015 i was thinking the same thing
lmw049 2 months ago
best song of 2011 so far
1andonlybabyt 2 months ago
did she say "this mf must think I'm stupid"?
rodriguezagnes 2 months ago
@rodriguezagnes no she saiid this mf thinkin im stupid
acehotboy34567 2 months ago
love this video love this song
59mooks 2 months ago
Uhhh..whats so EXPLICIT about this version?.. Did I miss something?
MarvBerry 2 months ago 2
@MarvBerry because of the word "mf"
keyring86 2 months ago
love love love dis song man!!!!...
guccibabeforlife1 2 months ago
IM a guy too and I really like this song.
AceBanyon 2 months ago
You should listen to Fool for You by Celo Green featuring her, she sounds amaaazzinnngg
IamBeautifulasMe98 2 months ago
*O* DISLIKES :D
HotLantaLace 2 months ago
so its explicit because of her cussin at 1:22? lol wow ok? but this is a great song. She deserves more credit for her beautiful voice.
tayloni9 2 months ago 2
This is My Song.!!<3
BabyGirlJay29 2 months ago
love her voice love the song :)
SuperMeme2828 2 months ago
I love this song, and my boyfriends walks away when it comes on
shanisemain 2 months ago
I really wish someone would come up wit a male version, before i shut it down beyond...
choppyinc 2 months ago
i had to download ths song as soon as i heard it,not only did he bump his head,he keeps reading from the same ols script,which is bs
MsButterfly1958 2 months ago
me and my girls put it on repeat and go to sleep wit it playin this is our shit :)
tikelwhite 2 months ago
THIS MY SHIT....AN I'M A NIGGA N WHAT LOL
GSG2DGD 3 months ago 2
yeah this iz the shiittt
Taylordog12 3 months ago
love this jam
bigcarl78 3 months ago
Thank u
UnionDomi 3 months ago
I LOVE THIS SONG!!!
nataliedraper52 3 months ago
OMG I LOVE THIS SONG
30LADYE 3 months ago
New Stripper Anthem...........oh hell yeah
33oversoul 3 months ago
this song is everything to me. I love it!
turnpike2010 3 months ago
This my SHIT!!!!!!!!!!
ladera93 3 months ago
she said muthfucka in this one and not the edited one duh lol
onlyimidget1 3 months ago
What is explicit about this video? It's the same one that comes on TV.
gtrippp1 3 months ago
@gtrippp1 She Curses !
HarajukuHawtie 3 months ago
@HarajukuHawtie Thanks! I FINALLY noticed that ONE curse word, earlier today, when I watched the video w/ the lyrics. I don't know how I never noticed it.
gtrippp1 3 months ago
Damn I love this girl!!!!!
reddragon859 3 months ago
Melanie Fiona album update: The album will most likely be released in February.
JSPARKSFAN4LYFE1 3 months ago 10
@23bellstar I lovvve this song
23bellstar 2 months ago
love it this is my song what what what what my jam my song my dream? lol
Tiana4063 3 months ago
this song is freakin bad ass
censaray26 3 months ago
this is my song
kaleb9374 3 months ago
am i the only one who noticed when she in the bedroom yoou can see her figure on the wall
aliyah2013 3 months ago 2
@aliyah2013.. So.. Why is that important?
MarvBerry 2 months ago
@MarvBerry it caught my eye. and its cool
aliyah2013 1 month ago
man she is WAYYY TOO BAD to fuck around on...so gorgeous
heretic1771 3 months ago
Love Music Productions
Dana7Dane 3 months ago
i feel the same way about my "boyfriend" :(
shybu100 3 months ago
I lovin it!!!!!!!!!
0777lulu 3 months ago
Lovin' this joint right now. Can't stop listening to it.
TheChelly85 3 months ago 25
@TheChelly85 ive been replaying it for days and weeks my husbands like damn you must be addicted to this song love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
tmerae 2 months ago
ILOVE THIS SONG...
lexis991 3 months ago 3
DIS MY FUCKIN JAM@!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
wykedvyxen 3 months ago 31
when is her new cd coming out
she is a great singer
marialyric 4 months ago 5
@marialyric At the moment her cd is expected to come out on december 6th.
JSPARKSFAN4LYFE1 4 months ago
@JSPARKSFAN4LYFE1
Will be released 2/7/2012
soulbirdVixen 2 months ago