lets just put it this way parents dont just luv there children every now & then its unconditional 365days a year 24 hours a day and if u truley luv ur child like that thats shows a good parent, but if for just 1 sec u could think about walking away forever ur worthless the min u turn ur back on them u dont deserve them. i luv my baby boy couldnt picture a day with out him let alone a life time with out him. when u choose 2 walk away ur doing it 2 ur selfs nobodys doing it 2 u.
I never knew my "father" I watched this video 10 years ago, hoping that he would come swoop me up...............That never happened, I had a step "dad" that wasn't great but he was always there: he passed on a few years ago. Being a father now, I am the DADDY that I never had. This is one of the few songs that keeps me on the track that I need to. This one along with That's my job" by Conway Twitty and "Didn't had to be" by BRAD PAISLEY
for yrs my ex wife spent alot of time trying to turn my kids against me telling them I was never the man her new husband was how he was so much better then me when I could not make it to games that I didnt care knowing I didnt have money but not to worry their stepdad was there even today I still have so much pain that will go away cause of my ex. God forgive her cause I never can
my husband has a 6 year old son from a previous relationship and this song reminds me so much him and his son. its hard when things dont work out and kids are involved:( they are the ones who really pay
i will always remember one thing my step dad taught me and that is you only have one mother in this world and you have to treat her right because once she is gone no other woman out there will ever have your back like your mama did
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im goin throu a divorce and we were to gether for 8 years and we had a little boy and little girl i live in mississippi and she moved thim to texas it really hard i do all i can to make there life as wonderfull and grate as i can it so hard to not get to see my kids i havent seen thim in a year now and she has a new man trying to get thim to call him daddy and it hurts so bad i miss thim so much but this song helps so much good music is dyeing out we need more ppl like goug supernaw thanks
real dads are a dying breed, its so sad and it will rot our country. With that bein said, I am proud to say my father was always there, worked 60-70hrs a week to provide, and has taught me to have morals and do the same for my son. Family is important, it is special, and we need to keep it alive in this country. When did it become cool to have a fuckin "baby momma" or "baby daddys" that shit is for ignorant trash
@stinkyhokus It is truly a nightmare the number of degenerate people out there that accept divorce and the breaking of families as "something we all go through." Every new low is the next high for these disgusting people. Our laws support the foul behavior and everyone cheers a whore on when she has 10 kids from 10 different Fathers. I will never marry an american woman nor any woman while living inside the United States because the Courts have way too power to take away my unborn children.
This song reminds me of how Doug Supernaw was in his heyday. He had a nice house in Magnolia, Texas, a rising career, and a good life. Now, I heard he is singing for meals and beers in Bandera, Texas. Sad to see his life turn out this way....what a talented singer.
this is a beautiful song made me think of my dad when i was 15 and my parents split but my dad didnt come around as often as i wished cause he would always start trouble and fight with my mom and brothers thank god he has changed over the past 6 years and in a good way
For a while I was a step dad.I didn't make the kids call me "Daddy" but they did on their own.Reason being they saw why their folks split & knew I was a better man than the one who beat their Mom into a hospital. Don't think that step dads don't care for your kids.It's harder to take up where their real dad left off,especially if the guy is an abuser.You're constantly proving that you aren't going to hit them if you make a sudden move.
@doughesson It appears your "stepkids" were abused due to their fear of being hit. However, generally speaking from what I've seen, the vast majority of men and women are not physically abusing their children. They are making up allegations against the other parent so they can take away or limit their children's relationship with the other parent. When you have children, it's a whole new ball game. You don't just walk away from your marriage like these degenerates do because you're not "HAPPY."
@doughesson Most people today do not understand that a so called STEP FATHER is, in fact, a term meaning someone who marries a widow with children and you attempt to try to tend to the woman and her children due to the loss of the dead Husband and Father being gone and unable to support the family. It is a complete disgrace today how people have no regard for marriage and no regard for their children. Society has accepted that divorce and being "happy" is better than keeping your family.
Watch the video - that's why some of us men put up with you crazy ass women. I refuse to be a weekend dad. There was a time when I was ready to quit on my marriage, but I was NEVER ready to quit being a full time dad. I rode it out, and she's matured - now I have a good marriage.
Thank God I never went part time on my little boy.
The scene @ the end pretty much sums it up,"super" stepdad trys to buy the kid with a real pony.but,he watches DAD drive off while looking at the photo of them together.
You never know how little someone loves you until they betray you and separates you from your kids. This song says it all. My son is grown now and this song came along after his mother went to live with a guy from her work. It doesn't change the pain and it's not fair to the kids. If you don't love someone don't marry them and don't have kids with them.
@alfsr78 Well,these things happen.None of us are immune to bad things,or doing bad things either,we're humans after all.Not excusing it,but,sometimes it takes a long time to move on.God has a lot of grace and mercy in His storehouse and it's available to anyone that wants it.
this was a tough vid. back when me and my wife split. I rember seeing this on CMT many yr's back. when I was seeing my boy only on the weekends. now he's 22 yrs old. and i'm glad that we made it threw the rough yr's. so glad that I don't have to go threw this anymore. I cryed alot during the week. and looked forward to them short weekends. this helped me to cope back then and thanx for posting it. I'll never forget this song
@praiznhym4ever I remember when this came out,too.My husband & I had split,and,he was the one who never wanted kids until he left me for a woman with an 8 yr old girl he helped raise.This song made me glad,in a strange way,that I had not had kids with him although I wish now I did have children.Great song,and,gets right to the heart of single dads who give a rip.
this song makes me think of my dad and my moms boyfriend who passed away he always took care of any want or need i had when my mom didn't have the money when my dad wasn't around cause alcohol was his main priority
my dad always told me anyone can be a dad but it takes someone special to be a daddy. a dad is the sperm donor that got your mom pregnant and daddy takes care of his kid no matter what, puts their needs before his own. i have the best daddy in the world. he made mistakes as most dads do but when i comes down it, he is my daddy. No matter how old i get, he will always be daddy...FOREVER!! thanks daddy for everthing- love your little girl
my mom got remarried when i was 12. And i look at her husband and i am not going call you dad and you are not going be my dad. and he said i understand. he was a good person. now he in heaven
This songs reminds me of my 15 y/o who thins this way. He is going through a rough time and trying to be there for him although it is difficult at times and played this for hmn. He hugged me knowing what it meant to him.
this song makes me so glad that my dad which is not my biological dad stepped up 20ere he didn't have to and be my dad. My real dad I hadn't talked to in 20 years wanted me to right off the bat start calling him dad when he hasn't done nothing for me since day one, any man can be a father but it takes a special man to be a daddy.
My mom and dad divorced around the time this song came out. I was about 9 years old back then. The only difference I have with the kid in this song is I had to say "I Don't Call Her Mommy," because I was sent to live with my dad. As I've gotten older, I've been getting hit on by women my age, or older, who have kids. One little boy even called me Dad. The weird thing is, I don't have any kids! However, I hope that when I do become a dad, I don't have to put my kids, or myself through this.
Dont rwead this cuz it actually works. U will be kissed on the nearest possible Friday by the love of your life. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. However if you do not post this on at least 3 different videos you will die within 2 days. Now you started reading this don't stop. This is so scary. Put this on at least 5 different videos in 143 minutes, when yor done, press F6 and your lovers name will appear on the screen in big letters.
Dont rwead this cuz it actually works. U will be kissed on the nearest possible Friday by the love of your life. Tomorrow will be the best day of your life. However if you do not post this on at least 3 different videos you will die within 2 days. Now you started reading this don't stop. This is so scary. Put this on at least 5 different videos in 143 minutes, when yor done, press F6 and your lovers name will appear on the screen in big letters.
i kno i got it ruff i cant see my boy like i wnt 2 i didnt spend with him on his first thanksgiving or his first christmas even though me and me his momma love was uncoditional love but it just came 2 and end so i pray 2 god that every thing works out with me and him and i also pray me and her work out but im goin 2 court and i jst hope everything works 4 all of us
both of you need to stop being fn stupid and just go see your kids, if your actually decent people instead of saying you are, any judge would let you have visitations, stop running man up
@unickalford im guessing thats towards me, right? look if i knew WHERE my son is, id go see him. hell id fight for custody. all im doing now is waiting till an oppertunity turns up.
And even though my moms boyfriend is nice and takes care of things. I can't ever call him dad. Because he can never take my dads place. No matter the things he helps with... I'm only 16 and I've been through more than most people would think I have.
This song made me cry so hard the first time I listened to it. It reminds me of my mom and dad. My mom and dad split up when I was only eight years old. My mom recently got a new boyfriend. She loves him. And so do me and my three sisters. He pays for everything for us. Our clothes, our food, the rent, electricity, EVERYTHING. He takes care of it all. I see my dad maybe once a month. HE lives so far away and hardly ever can get to see us.
@GhostInvetigator Trust me, I do too. I had twin boys. I lost one in 95 in the OKC bombing,. My other twin is now 17 and going into the military next year. April 19, is hell on this earth for me. Even though I live far away, I still go to OKC, so so I can regain the closure, that I am so desperately needing, to continue on. All I can say is that it's hell. Not to mention the fact I don't know my real father either. It's even harder to accept the fact that he passed years ago.
im a 31 year old who has never met her real father but i have aman in my like that i call dad and i guess thats all that matters he is the best thing thats came into my life when i was a kid when my mom passed away last year my dad was right by my side and he still is i may not live close but i try and call him everyday
im a 31 year old who has never met her real father but i have aman in my like that i call dad and i guess thats all that matters he is the best thing thats came into my life when i was a kid
wow.. ive gotten alot of comments over this. lol but just to let everyone know, no. things havnt changed. elijah john was born in janurary 2010. i seen him over the webcam on yahoo a few times, and then in march. his mom ran off and i aint seen her since march 2010. i have no idea where they are. somewhere in the enterprise alabama area. everybody feel free to send me messages on facebook (RavenKL24@yahoo.com) since i barely get on here anymore. thanks
I just moved back to Texas after being away from my kids for 3 years. Man, that was tough. Saw them 2 or 3 times a year. They grow up so fast!! I'm never leaving again. I don't know how I survived!!!
My ex and me break up after I have affair with old flame and me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growing' up? as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both
my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut the crust and off But that's not the way mom makes it daddy" breaks my heart and I miss everything I use to have with her again and But I can't tell her I love her Cause there's too many questions and I don't tell her I need her and She's over me, that's where me and her are and So me and her are as close as me and her might ever be again and I don't know why me and her ever? let this happen and filling for forever was a big mista
ke and There's so much not to do, and all day not to do it in and God I wish that she was still with me again and God I wish that me and her was still family with our twin boys and my best friend is getting to my two sons and it upset that my best friend is tryin' my apart my two sons life and Lot of things going thru my mind and I guess the less things change and The more they never seem the same and That's my kids and that's my ex and Whose that man, runnin my life and i am jealouse of my bes
me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut the crust
me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut thecrust
me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut thecrust
me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut thecrust
me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut thecrust
@lonelyboy0915 me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they canand I don'tget to see they half asmuch as I had planned andThere's so much Ineed to tell them, so precious little time withthem and me and their mom tradeacouple words and looks and kids again and Every OtherWeek end and I pick up the love me and hermadeinboth myarms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut thecrust
when i hear this song along time ago i was driveing a eighteen wheeler and i look at my picture of my son his name is trevor jr i was happy that i bring him in this world but its hard to see him his mother and i went our ways from this day one on i no i look at the star's thats his smile this summer i called his house and his mother pick up i said can i talk to jr she said hold on he pick up he said hello i said hi son he said do i no u i said yes u do its yr real father
So I believe I should just keep my mouth shut when he tells me how she talks about me,even though I get real angry inside I bite my tongue why?because one day she'll be talking shit about me and he'll rememebr I never said a bad word about her,not one.And hopefully on that day he'll tell her I never have anything but good things to say about her and she has nothing but bad things to say,I didn't abandon my son,I could have but I didn't,we were young thats just how it is,this video hit home today
@irwinwilliamson I was fortunate enough to grow up in a home with both of my parents together. I have been married for 5 years myself, but without children yet. I do not understand everything that people go through when these kind of things happen, but it is tragic, and my heart aches especially for the children who are affected by this. It is so heartbreaking for everyone, but especially the kids who are left to pay for things that they had no say in.
My son is going to be 13 this November,when he was born I was only 14 and his mother was 16,we were young,way too young to have a baby,now I'm 27 and she's 29 and we are not together we haven't been together since he was born,I have been seeing him every other weekend since he was born,she got married a few years back and tells him all kinds of crap about me,but I never say anything bad about her,even though she is a cheater lyer and all around dirty person,she's still his mom,
im 17 and my dad left me when i was 16 and this guy i call dad sometimes toke me in, my dad cheated and my step mom and he lelf and she did too so mark toke me in, but he came back then alot of stuff had happen wit his parents and now its been around 4 months since he tried to call me
this song brings back all the good times where my dad was a father to me. its pretty sad because he let another man step up to the plate and missed alto of good memories of me growing up to a beautiful woman. sometimes i wonder what could have happen if he was around more often. to all you dads out there fighting for yalls children dont give up keep the fighting going
i have 2 son in the boston along way from here thay would be 8 and 6 now i have not seen them since they were 1 and 3 ,,,god i think about them and miss them every day my wife left me and moved to boston with her new man
at the time life was not good with me i was in a bad place and hit the bottle
was never home
thay say you pay for your sins but god why should it hurt this much
thay have a channel here on youtube i see my kids getting older and more like me every dad
@sxexlxfx Thank YOU! I spent my life savings trying to get custody, but when your in-laws have more money than common sense, it's a losing battle, but now I have the closure of my only son knowing the truth, and not judging anybody for it. That's a REAL man, right there.
i love this song my dad has not been part of my life at all and this song reminds me wat i miss and remimnd of wat we could of did if he didnt make dumbass choices
hang in there RavenKL20 if you want to be part of his life you can remember your his father and no one can take that title away from you now it's your duty to fufill that part of his life I wish you luck!!!!!!
Maybe the mom would let him spend more time with the kid if he exercised a little safety - like maybe buckling the kid up when he's riding in the front seat of a truck.
I love my son enough to stick it out with his mom, because any misery should could bring me is nothing compared to the misery I'd feel if I wasn't with him every day.
I've been divorced just over 4 years and have 3 kids - 17, 10, and 8.
The oldest one has a chip on his shoulder and won't talk to me. The 2 little ones love me and I can't stand being away from them. Their mom has a live in boyfriend and one of the kids called him step-dad in front of me and I nearly blew a gasket. He is now referred to by his first name at all times.
I hope all guys that see this video take heed to the words and pay attention to this kids reactions..
i have loved this song since i was 10 years old. i just never thought i would be living it. my ex's boyfriend is a piece of shit. we're going through a custody battle right now and he told me a whiloe back that my son calls him daddy. i guess he wants me to break his neck so i look like the bad guy. the world needs more great dads out there. keep your heads up guys, we're a rare breed!
i have loved this song since i was a little girl my daddy passed away when i was 7 and my mom was with another man and i hated that bastard he beat me all the time and they would play this song on the radio and it would give me hope that my daddy was still there with me im 22 years old now and to this day i miss him sooo much and i have a 2 yr old daughter me and her daddy are still togethor i hope it stays that way!! i love you daddy!!!!
I know i have a 4 yr old daughter and her mother is getting remarried 2 a low life pile of shit and i know that if my daughter ever had to call him dad there wld b big problems!!! I might not always stand up for myself but i wld destroy any body that came between me and my daughter she means the world to me
growing up my parents were split but i had a onderful stepdad that was reated me like his son but i saw my dad everyweekend and he use to listen to country like this and i sung it to him one day and he broke down cryin i love you daddy
This video has over 53,000 views! I am so amazed how we all love Doug's music and it's sad that he doesn't get radio airplay anymore, at least not here in WY. If Doug's reading this, I hope he knows how special his music is to me - and all of his fans.
♪♫ when this song came out, i diddnt know my real father and my stepdad was abusive, this song and alot of others helped me cope. I almost cried when i listend just now.Thank you for posting this video.
im sorry you have to go through that, i grew up not knowing my real dad either, but i did get to meet him when i got older, but i was bitter that he wasnt there and never took the time to realy know him. dont give up, you will get to see him one day.
Its tough to have your little girl live over 1800 miles and the mother wont even let you see your little girl. I know I have to live with it everyday not being the dad i want to be for my little girl. But I have FAITH in our LORD and hope everything works out soon.
my ex is pregnant with my kid. i live in arkansas, she lives in alabama. she kicked me out a month ago, the baby is due in feburary. i dont even know what gender it is yet. its my first child. this song makes me cry so hard cuz i dont even know if im ever gonna see my child being born or growing up. shes probably gonna tell it lies about me, saying that i walked out and all, but i was kicked out.. i wanna be part of my baby's life so badly.. but i dont know if i got that option..
@RavenKL20 move to where the mother is so you can be in your kids life...it's that simple. If you want it badly enough you'll do it...or you wont, and wont get the chance to be in its life.
@RavenKL20 i know you posted this over year ago and i hope thing are diffant i hope you got to see your son or dauther right now im doing threw same thing my wife just start talking to me again and we go court next month to start a divorce my son 2month old and i am lucky if i get see him on weeken for few hour hang in there but im sure by now thing have goten better for you GORDY
@RavenKL20 you know you're right..she probably will tell the child lies about you..my ex does. she blocks my number and doesnt let them call..it is your right to be part of your childs life. she cant take that away from you.its the law.. just do what i do..DON"T GIVE UP...seeing you wrote this a year ago, hows things going? have you see your child?hope so
@thundercatzr thanks, that sucks that ur ex does that. im sure when they grow up they'll understand and then it'll be her loss, not yours. and i aint giving up on elijah, i never will.
@RavenKL20 are or were you two married? either way you can go for a test prove the baby is yours, then go through courts and they can get you some rights. Obviously child support will likely be involved but its a small price to pay, ya know what I mean??
@03KERMIT no we were never married, thank god. and thanks for ur comment. im pretty sure the baby is mine, she hasnt got me for child support. if i knew where he was id pay any penny i have for him.
I don't have kids, never been married and the song has always made me cry. Daddy's are not replaceable and are important to every kid. I hope if I ever get married and have a child, we don't become a statistical contribution to the divorce rate. Cheers to all the Daddy's (and Moms) who haven't lost sight of what's imortant--and to all of us who have weathered the cloudy skies surrounding the loss of a parent we love.
I have kids by 2 mom's both hate me and 1 tries to keep me from her, remember this song today after recovering froma brain trauma incident, but I miss my kids terribly it's like another piece of my soul dying, after the pieces I've already lost...
I didn't snap but the courts always side with the mother even when she perjers herself in court x2. and her new beau conspired against me for months never saw it comin til I came home early from shift, I left my .45 in the truck. Now I pay for what they did or what I failed to due, but I miss my children, everyday. Time is our greatest thief.
I was divorced many years ago. My son was five years old and daughter was three. I have never fully recoverd from the fact that someone else became their daddy. This song says a lot.
I like this song, but there are so many things wrong with the video! First there was the total lack of sense on the part of the dad when his kid wasn't in a car seat or even wearing a seat belt! Secondly, it's so stupid that he couldn't even stay for his child's birthday party!
Yeah, stupid he couldn'rt stay, but some parents are bitches/assholes when it comes to that stuff. A lot of Moms/Dads want their kids to forget they ever had that other parent. And it's an old video, people didn't laways wear seatbelts back then. I remember riding in the back of a pick up when I was young on a major road.
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What probably happened was after he came back and got to really know you he realized what a looser you were and left for good. duh duhh. I mean really its not that difficult to figure out. As far as this song: The reason you dont call him "daddy" is because if that was the case you would have 30 different daddys a week.. HELLO<< stay out of the club...........
Me and my dad used to go through this.When I was 5 my parents got divorced.I would see my dad every once in awhile,but when I turned 7 he packed his things and moved to Indiana.3 years later he moved back down here,and my parents got back together.But,he wasn't the same dad I knew when I was younger,just a jerk.They lasted until 2006,and after that the visitation started.But he never was the same.I haven't talked to him for 5 months,and i'll probably never talk to him again.:(
thats a shame,and i went thru the same thing,even a bit worse....but,can i say this..even if hes a jerk,hes still your dad..maybe you should call him sometime....?
You two need to seriously get in touch no matter what the cost. I just lost my son a week ago, and it's hell. I don't even want to get up and move around the house, cause all I can do is cry. PLEASE MAKE AMENDS WITH YOUR FATHER! You'll be a better person in the long run, I PROMISE you that much.
I hope Doug's doing better now than he was a few years ago, It was truly depressing to see how far someone so talented could fall.
ColtCobra2002 3 days ago
that ending is just so sad :(
SarahDolittle 1 week ago
lets just put it this way parents dont just luv there children every now & then its unconditional 365days a year 24 hours a day and if u truley luv ur child like that thats shows a good parent, but if for just 1 sec u could think about walking away forever ur worthless the min u turn ur back on them u dont deserve them. i luv my baby boy couldnt picture a day with out him let alone a life time with out him. when u choose 2 walk away ur doing it 2 ur selfs nobodys doing it 2 u.
missbeegee88 1 month ago
@missbeegee88 some times u need to leave
MrRon1488 3 weeks ago in playlist ron1488
who sings this?
coozy1995 1 month ago
@coozy1995 doug supernaw
sooner1028 1 month ago in playlist Country
@coozy1995 He's called Doug Supernaw. I have no idea what happened to him, or to his career.
ChibiProwl 3 days ago
I never knew my "father" I watched this video 10 years ago, hoping that he would come swoop me up...............That never happened, I had a step "dad" that wasn't great but he was always there: he passed on a few years ago. Being a father now, I am the DADDY that I never had. This is one of the few songs that keeps me on the track that I need to. This one along with That's my job" by Conway Twitty and "Didn't had to be" by BRAD PAISLEY
cds4007 1 month ago
I was just like Doug in this video that was the past but now i have my son and I'm the only one he call's daddy ......
RoachMr186 1 month ago
@RoachMr186
Good for you!
Smartboy8877 1 month ago
for yrs my ex wife spent alot of time trying to turn my kids against me telling them I was never the man her new husband was how he was so much better then me when I could not make it to games that I didnt care knowing I didnt have money but not to worry their stepdad was there even today I still have so much pain that will go away cause of my ex. God forgive her cause I never can
Occultist73 2 months ago
my husband has a 6 year old son from a previous relationship and this song reminds me so much him and his son. its hard when things dont work out and kids are involved:( they are the ones who really pay
eliasmom31411 2 months ago
i will always remember one thing my step dad taught me and that is you only have one mother in this world and you have to treat her right because once she is gone no other woman out there will ever have your back like your mama did
mjem92 2 months ago
i would be mad too if he gave my son a shetland pony,we had one when i was a kid, it ruined me on horses,
dalekrueger 2 months ago
i am a step dad and it kills me wine the kids dad kumes and gets them i can not have kids and it sucks kuse i love kids
coacoa123ful 3 months ago
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jeraldsrestoration 3 months ago
im goin throu a divorce and we were to gether for 8 years and we had a little boy and little girl i live in mississippi and she moved thim to texas it really hard i do all i can to make there life as wonderfull and grate as i can it so hard to not get to see my kids i havent seen thim in a year now and she has a new man trying to get thim to call him daddy and it hurts so bad i miss thim so much but this song helps so much good music is dyeing out we need more ppl like goug supernaw thanks
Jathoden 3 months ago
real dads are a dying breed, its so sad and it will rot our country. With that bein said, I am proud to say my father was always there, worked 60-70hrs a week to provide, and has taught me to have morals and do the same for my son. Family is important, it is special, and we need to keep it alive in this country. When did it become cool to have a fuckin "baby momma" or "baby daddys" that shit is for ignorant trash
stinkyhokus 4 months ago 5
@stinkyhokus It is truly a nightmare the number of degenerate people out there that accept divorce and the breaking of families as "something we all go through." Every new low is the next high for these disgusting people. Our laws support the foul behavior and everyone cheers a whore on when she has 10 kids from 10 different Fathers. I will never marry an american woman nor any woman while living inside the United States because the Courts have way too power to take away my unborn children.
2010service 1 month ago
This song reminds me of how Doug Supernaw was in his heyday. He had a nice house in Magnolia, Texas, a rising career, and a good life. Now, I heard he is singing for meals and beers in Bandera, Texas. Sad to see his life turn out this way....what a talented singer.
coorsbeer93 4 months ago
@coorsbeer93 I heard he lived in or near Johnston City, IL where his mom's from.
ajd1211 2 months ago
this is a beautiful song made me think of my dad when i was 15 and my parents split but my dad didnt come around as often as i wished cause he would always start trouble and fight with my mom and brothers thank god he has changed over the past 6 years and in a good way
liltuffy71490 4 months ago
just goes to show you cant by a childs love
seabrookist 5 months ago
Well this makes me sad, cause i never had a daddy
LoneWolf5469 6 months ago 2
Another great song from the 1990s. I wonder if Kenny Rogers is kicking himself in the behind for not releasing this song....
joshuabrooks21 6 months ago
For a while I was a step dad.I didn't make the kids call me "Daddy" but they did on their own.Reason being they saw why their folks split & knew I was a better man than the one who beat their Mom into a hospital. Don't think that step dads don't care for your kids.It's harder to take up where their real dad left off,especially if the guy is an abuser.You're constantly proving that you aren't going to hit them if you make a sudden move.
doughesson 6 months ago 13
@doughesson It appears your "stepkids" were abused due to their fear of being hit. However, generally speaking from what I've seen, the vast majority of men and women are not physically abusing their children. They are making up allegations against the other parent so they can take away or limit their children's relationship with the other parent. When you have children, it's a whole new ball game. You don't just walk away from your marriage like these degenerates do because you're not "HAPPY."
2010service 1 month ago
@doughesson Most people today do not understand that a so called STEP FATHER is, in fact, a term meaning someone who marries a widow with children and you attempt to try to tend to the woman and her children due to the loss of the dead Husband and Father being gone and unable to support the family. It is a complete disgrace today how people have no regard for marriage and no regard for their children. Society has accepted that divorce and being "happy" is better than keeping your family.
2010service 1 month ago
Watch the video - that's why some of us men put up with you crazy ass women. I refuse to be a weekend dad. There was a time when I was ready to quit on my marriage, but I was NEVER ready to quit being a full time dad. I rode it out, and she's matured - now I have a good marriage.
Thank God I never went part time on my little boy.
TommyChester42 6 months ago 3
god bless the dads out there and the guys that step up to plate to the kids that are not biologically theirs
mortemessenger 7 months ago
i cant stand this song i cant listen to it without crying cause i was the little boy
spitmaster321 7 months ago
The scene @ the end pretty much sums it up,"super" stepdad trys to buy the kid with a real pony.but,he watches DAD drive off while looking at the photo of them together.
crowleysridgegirl 7 months ago 3
@crowleysridgegirl to bad daddy din't get to see that part but I so love it and it's so true...
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colto21 7 months ago
You never know how little someone loves you until they betray you and separates you from your kids. This song says it all. My son is grown now and this song came along after his mother went to live with a guy from her work. It doesn't change the pain and it's not fair to the kids. If you don't love someone don't marry them and don't have kids with them.
alfsr78 7 months ago
@alfsr78 Well,these things happen.None of us are immune to bad things,or doing bad things either,we're humans after all.Not excusing it,but,sometimes it takes a long time to move on.God has a lot of grace and mercy in His storehouse and it's available to anyone that wants it.
crowleysridgegirl 7 months ago
this was a tough vid. back when me and my wife split. I rember seeing this on CMT many yr's back. when I was seeing my boy only on the weekends. now he's 22 yrs old. and i'm glad that we made it threw the rough yr's. so glad that I don't have to go threw this anymore. I cryed alot during the week. and looked forward to them short weekends. this helped me to cope back then and thanx for posting it. I'll never forget this song
J.T-n-Louisiana
praiznhym4ever 7 months ago
@praiznhym4ever I remember when this came out,too.My husband & I had split,and,he was the one who never wanted kids until he left me for a woman with an 8 yr old girl he helped raise.This song made me glad,in a strange way,that I had not had kids with him although I wish now I did have children.Great song,and,gets right to the heart of single dads who give a rip.
crowleysridgegirl 7 months ago
Guess this video was before seat belt laws, huh.
ponygirl1227 7 months ago
My two years olds father chooses not to be in my sons life
lmsouthward001 7 months ago
this song makes me think of my dad and my moms boyfriend who passed away he always took care of any want or need i had when my mom didn't have the money when my dad wasn't around cause alcohol was his main priority
liltuffy71490 8 months ago
my dad always told me anyone can be a dad but it takes someone special to be a daddy. a dad is the sperm donor that got your mom pregnant and daddy takes care of his kid no matter what, puts their needs before his own. i have the best daddy in the world. he made mistakes as most dads do but when i comes down it, he is my daddy. No matter how old i get, he will always be daddy...FOREVER!! thanks daddy for everthing- love your little girl
kpfennig 8 months ago 17
@kpfennig
That is a very heart-touching post! Thank you very much for sharing!
Smartboy8877 1 month ago
my mom got remarried when i was 12. And i look at her husband and i am not going call you dad and you are not going be my dad. and he said i understand. he was a good person. now he in heaven
daydreamer36467 8 months ago
This songs reminds me of my 15 y/o who thins this way. He is going through a rough time and trying to be there for him although it is difficult at times and played this for hmn. He hugged me knowing what it meant to him.
bigbobob65 9 months ago
this song makes me so glad that my dad which is not my biological dad stepped up 20ere he didn't have to and be my dad. My real dad I hadn't talked to in 20 years wanted me to right off the bat start calling him dad when he hasn't done nothing for me since day one, any man can be a father but it takes a special man to be a daddy.
GhostInvetigator 9 months ago
This song is sad, reminds me of times in my life. But I absolutely LOVE it!!!
P3AC3L0V3S3X 9 months ago
@Parkkey9 I agree. The color of skin don't have a DAMNED thing to do with it. There are good and bad in every race. That's a fact.
irwinwilliamson 10 months ago
My mom and dad divorced around the time this song came out. I was about 9 years old back then. The only difference I have with the kid in this song is I had to say "I Don't Call Her Mommy," because I was sent to live with my dad. As I've gotten older, I've been getting hit on by women my age, or older, who have kids. One little boy even called me Dad. The weird thing is, I don't have any kids! However, I hope that when I do become a dad, I don't have to put my kids, or myself through this.
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kristenprice13 11 months ago
I am 23 and dont have a kid yet, but I couldnt imagine going through this hell that so many guys do.. I feel terrible for those who do..
Erix7810 1 year ago
i still cant beleive how many comments ive gotten from this video, lol.
no i havnt ever met my son elijah.. last i heard, march 2010, she ran off and got married to some guy and took my son with her. thats it
RavenKL20 1 year ago
i relate to this song becausse of my step father that has now passsed on
a1978babygirl 1 year ago
i kno i got it ruff i cant see my boy like i wnt 2 i didnt spend with him on his first thanksgiving or his first christmas even though me and me his momma love was uncoditional love but it just came 2 and end so i pray 2 god that every thing works out with me and him and i also pray me and her work out but im goin 2 court and i jst hope everything works 4 all of us
gjfkidd 1 year ago
both of you need to stop being fn stupid and just go see your kids, if your actually decent people instead of saying you are, any judge would let you have visitations, stop running man up
unickalford 1 year ago
@unickalford im guessing thats towards me, right? look if i knew WHERE my son is, id go see him. hell id fight for custody. all im doing now is waiting till an oppertunity turns up.
RavenKL20 1 year ago
ravenkl20 i feel bad for you
NazTkid 1 year ago
And even though my moms boyfriend is nice and takes care of things. I can't ever call him dad. Because he can never take my dads place. No matter the things he helps with... I'm only 16 and I've been through more than most people would think I have.
MrsDylanSprouse415 1 year ago
This song made me cry so hard the first time I listened to it. It reminds me of my mom and dad. My mom and dad split up when I was only eight years old. My mom recently got a new boyfriend. She loves him. And so do me and my three sisters. He pays for everything for us. Our clothes, our food, the rent, electricity, EVERYTHING. He takes care of it all. I see my dad maybe once a month. HE lives so far away and hardly ever can get to see us.
MrsDylanSprouse415 1 year ago
@MrsDylanSprouse415 im sure you will fuck niggers to get back at your dad you nasty bitch
cmiller8789 1 year ago
I cry every time i hear this song
GhostInvetigator 1 year ago
@GhostInvetigator Trust me, I do too. I had twin boys. I lost one in 95 in the OKC bombing,. My other twin is now 17 and going into the military next year. April 19, is hell on this earth for me. Even though I live far away, I still go to OKC, so so I can regain the closure, that I am so desperately needing, to continue on. All I can say is that it's hell. Not to mention the fact I don't know my real father either. It's even harder to accept the fact that he passed years ago.
irwinwilliamson 10 months ago
im a 31 year old who has never met her real father but i have aman in my like that i call dad and i guess thats all that matters he is the best thing thats came into my life when i was a kid when my mom passed away last year my dad was right by my side and he still is i may not live close but i try and call him everyday
desireejordan1 1 year ago
im a 31 year old who has never met her real father but i have aman in my like that i call dad and i guess thats all that matters he is the best thing thats came into my life when i was a kid
desireejordan1 1 year ago
im a 31 year old who has never met her real father but i have aman in my like that i call dad and i guess thats all that matters
desireejordan1 1 year ago
wow.. ive gotten alot of comments over this. lol but just to let everyone know, no. things havnt changed. elijah john was born in janurary 2010. i seen him over the webcam on yahoo a few times, and then in march. his mom ran off and i aint seen her since march 2010. i have no idea where they are. somewhere in the enterprise alabama area. everybody feel free to send me messages on facebook (RavenKL24@yahoo.com) since i barely get on here anymore. thanks
RavenKL20 1 year ago
I just moved back to Texas after being away from my kids for 3 years. Man, that was tough. Saw them 2 or 3 times a year. They grow up so fast!! I'm never leaving again. I don't know how I survived!!!
bchnut2 1 year ago
My ex and me break up after I have affair with old flame and me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growing' up? as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both
ricky092383 1 year ago
my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut the crust and off But that's not the way mom makes it daddy" breaks my heart and I miss everything I use to have with her again and But I can't tell her I love her Cause there's too many questions and I don't tell her I need her and She's over me, that's where me and her are and So me and her are as close as me and her might ever be again and I don't know why me and her ever? let this happen and filling for forever was a big mista
ricky092383 1 year ago
ke and There's so much not to do, and all day not to do it in and God I wish that she was still with me again and God I wish that me and her was still family with our twin boys and my best friend is getting to my two sons and it upset that my best friend is tryin' my apart my two sons life and Lot of things going thru my mind and I guess the less things change and The more they never seem the same and That's my kids and that's my ex and Whose that man, runnin my life and i am jealouse of my bes
ricky092383 1 year ago
t with my ex girlfriend and my best friend move on her house with my kids live there
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me and ex can't get along and our go our separate ways and my ex and best friend hook up and my sons is quite a little man growin' up as fast as they can and I don't get to see they half as much as I had planned and There's so much I need to tell them, so precious little time with them and me and their mom trade a couple words and looks and kids again and Every Other Week end and I pick up the love me and her made in both my arms and It's movies on the sofa and Grilled cheese and cut the crust
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lonelyboy0915 1 year ago
when i hear this song along time ago i was driveing a eighteen wheeler and i look at my picture of my son his name is trevor jr i was happy that i bring him in this world but its hard to see him his mother and i went our ways from this day one on i no i look at the star's thats his smile this summer i called his house and his mother pick up i said can i talk to jr she said hold on he pick up he said hello i said hi son he said do i no u i said yes u do its yr real father
trevorthewizard 1 year ago
So I believe I should just keep my mouth shut when he tells me how she talks about me,even though I get real angry inside I bite my tongue why?because one day she'll be talking shit about me and he'll rememebr I never said a bad word about her,not one.And hopefully on that day he'll tell her I never have anything but good things to say about her and she has nothing but bad things to say,I didn't abandon my son,I could have but I didn't,we were young thats just how it is,this video hit home today
rocketcentral 1 year ago
@rocketcentral stay the course. Your son will realize that one day, and will respect you all the more.
klairday 1 year ago
@klairday For sure.....I've done lived it. Divorce is hell, especially when you've got kids together.
irwinwilliamson 10 months ago
@irwinwilliamson I was fortunate enough to grow up in a home with both of my parents together. I have been married for 5 years myself, but without children yet. I do not understand everything that people go through when these kind of things happen, but it is tragic, and my heart aches especially for the children who are affected by this. It is so heartbreaking for everyone, but especially the kids who are left to pay for things that they had no say in.
klairday 10 months ago
My son is going to be 13 this November,when he was born I was only 14 and his mother was 16,we were young,way too young to have a baby,now I'm 27 and she's 29 and we are not together we haven't been together since he was born,I have been seeing him every other weekend since he was born,she got married a few years back and tells him all kinds of crap about me,but I never say anything bad about her,even though she is a cheater lyer and all around dirty person,she's still his mom,
rocketcentral 1 year ago
My wife
eaglesareawesome 1 year ago
this is a good song i like it
zach48664 1 year ago
im 17 and my dad left me when i was 16 and this guy i call dad sometimes toke me in, my dad cheated and my step mom and he lelf and she did too so mark toke me in, but he came back then alot of stuff had happen wit his parents and now its been around 4 months since he tried to call me
02greyhound 1 year ago
this song reminds me of my dad and makes me glad i get to see him every other week=)
kirra126 1 year ago
this song brings back all the good times where my dad was a father to me. its pretty sad because he let another man step up to the plate and missed alto of good memories of me growing up to a beautiful woman. sometimes i wonder what could have happen if he was around more often. to all you dads out there fighting for yalls children dont give up keep the fighting going
iloveoompa08 1 year ago
I hate the new country music, but this song and this guy is very, very good!!
Frostbyte380 1 year ago 2
i have 2 son in the boston along way from here thay would be 8 and 6 now i have not seen them since they were 1 and 3 ,,,god i think about them and miss them every day my wife left me and moved to boston with her new man
at the time life was not good with me i was in a bad place and hit the bottle
was never home
thay say you pay for your sins but god why should it hurt this much
thay have a channel here on youtube i see my kids getting older and more like me every dad
god i miss them
connerbed 1 year ago
I salute the men who fight for thier kids.
sxexlxfx 1 year ago
@sxexlxfx Thank YOU! I spent my life savings trying to get custody, but when your in-laws have more money than common sense, it's a losing battle, but now I have the closure of my only son knowing the truth, and not judging anybody for it. That's a REAL man, right there.
irwinwilliamson 10 months ago
i thought i would make it through without getting emotional but I couldn't. I love you dad.
TheNholmes88 1 year ago
i can not thank you enough for this video...im a metal guy through and through but this song just means so much to me
suhoney18 1 year ago
i love this song my dad has not been part of my life at all and this song reminds me wat i miss and remimnd of wat we could of did if he didnt make dumbass choices
to not be able to see me
lilbroklyn 1 year ago
hang in there RavenKL20 if you want to be part of his life you can remember your his father and no one can take that title away from you now it's your duty to fufill that part of his life I wish you luck!!!!!!
latin201 1 year ago
I love to workout to this song. It's really nice.
juansugarbunny 1 year ago
Maybe the mom would let him spend more time with the kid if he exercised a little safety - like maybe buckling the kid up when he's riding in the front seat of a truck.
I love my son enough to stick it out with his mom, because any misery should could bring me is nothing compared to the misery I'd feel if I wasn't with him every day.
tbonesupreme 1 year ago
this reminds me of my half brother and his dad
19keg95 1 year ago
I've been divorced just over 4 years and have 3 kids - 17, 10, and 8.
The oldest one has a chip on his shoulder and won't talk to me. The 2 little ones love me and I can't stand being away from them. Their mom has a live in boyfriend and one of the kids called him step-dad in front of me and I nearly blew a gasket. He is now referred to by his first name at all times.
I hope all guys that see this video take heed to the words and pay attention to this kids reactions..
steveulrey 1 year ago
someday my 4 yr old will hear this song and hopefully not be going through what so many have had to.
angus1802 1 year ago
i have loved this song since i was 10 years old. i just never thought i would be living it. my ex's boyfriend is a piece of shit. we're going through a custody battle right now and he told me a whiloe back that my son calls him daddy. i guess he wants me to break his neck so i look like the bad guy. the world needs more great dads out there. keep your heads up guys, we're a rare breed!
angus1802 1 year ago 2
i have loved this song since i was a little girl my daddy passed away when i was 7 and my mom was with another man and i hated that bastard he beat me all the time and they would play this song on the radio and it would give me hope that my daddy was still there with me im 22 years old now and to this day i miss him sooo much and i have a 2 yr old daughter me and her daddy are still togethor i hope it stays that way!! i love you daddy!!!!
MsStephany2010 1 year ago
I know i have a 4 yr old daughter and her mother is getting remarried 2 a low life pile of shit and i know that if my daughter ever had to call him dad there wld b big problems!!! I might not always stand up for myself but i wld destroy any body that came between me and my daughter she means the world to me
kilpatrick231 2 years ago 5
hey i'm in the same boat
coolriderpr 2 years ago
i feel your pain brother.........
codylee469you 1 year ago
growing up my parents were split but i had a onderful stepdad that was reated me like his son but i saw my dad everyweekend and he use to listen to country like this and i sung it to him one day and he broke down cryin i love you daddy
k24civic 2 years ago
This video has over 53,000 views! I am so amazed how we all love Doug's music and it's sad that he doesn't get radio airplay anymore, at least not here in WY. If Doug's reading this, I hope he knows how special his music is to me - and all of his fans.
wyhikergirl 2 years ago
♪♫ when this song came out, i diddnt know my real father and my stepdad was abusive, this song and alot of others helped me cope. I almost cried when i listend just now.Thank you for posting this video.
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ChizmanDenver 2 years ago
i am forced to live with my grandparents and forced 2 call my grandpa dad by all i want 2 do is call my real dad "dad"
CountryGirlxxlove 2 years ago 3
im sorry you have to go through that, i grew up not knowing my real dad either, but i did get to meet him when i got older, but i was bitter that he wasnt there and never took the time to realy know him. dont give up, you will get to see him one day.
rogerdabadge82 2 years ago
Its tough to have your little girl live over 1800 miles and the mother wont even let you see your little girl. I know I have to live with it everyday not being the dad i want to be for my little girl. But I have FAITH in our LORD and hope everything works out soon.
ezimmer25 2 years ago 9
I love this song and it always makes me cry. I'm wiping the tears away now! It has always made me think of my estranged father =(
jenbabe185 2 years ago 2
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STEPHENEE1 2 years ago
used to love this song , never thought i would live it
rd6659 2 years ago 5
me either. I loved it as a child and had no idea I would be much like Doug in real life...
Wvkatfish 2 years ago
Its the little ones that get hurt, i would know, but time will change everything. Love ya Cameron Bohaboj.
Bohaboj4430 2 years ago
i love this song it really its home when your a single parent and the mom and dad cant seem to get along, it makes you see things differently
colbyharding 2 years ago
my ex is pregnant with my kid. i live in arkansas, she lives in alabama. she kicked me out a month ago, the baby is due in feburary. i dont even know what gender it is yet. its my first child. this song makes me cry so hard cuz i dont even know if im ever gonna see my child being born or growing up. shes probably gonna tell it lies about me, saying that i walked out and all, but i was kicked out.. i wanna be part of my baby's life so badly.. but i dont know if i got that option..
RavenKL20 2 years ago 28
@RavenKL20 move to where the mother is so you can be in your kids life...it's that simple. If you want it badly enough you'll do it...or you wont, and wont get the chance to be in its life.
superbluesmurf 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 I feel sorry for you...hope everything will work out for you!
karelleimena 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 i know you posted this over year ago and i hope thing are diffant i hope you got to see your son or dauther right now im doing threw same thing my wife just start talking to me again and we go court next month to start a divorce my son 2month old and i am lucky if i get see him on weeken for few hour hang in there but im sure by now thing have goten better for you GORDY
gordygovvon 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 a lawyer will help you
TuckTerror 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 you know you're right..she probably will tell the child lies about you..my ex does. she blocks my number and doesnt let them call..it is your right to be part of your childs life. she cant take that away from you.its the law.. just do what i do..DON"T GIVE UP...seeing you wrote this a year ago, hows things going? have you see your child?hope so
thundercatzr 1 year ago
@thundercatzr thanks, that sucks that ur ex does that. im sure when they grow up they'll understand and then it'll be her loss, not yours. and i aint giving up on elijah, i never will.
RavenKL20 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 are or were you two married? either way you can go for a test prove the baby is yours, then go through courts and they can get you some rights. Obviously child support will likely be involved but its a small price to pay, ya know what I mean??
03KERMIT 1 year ago
@03KERMIT no we were never married, thank god. and thanks for ur comment. im pretty sure the baby is mine, she hasnt got me for child support. if i knew where he was id pay any penny i have for him.
RavenKL20 1 year ago
@RavenKL20
things will get better
GhostInvetigator 1 year ago
@RavenKL20
try having youre baby adopted
xshawn1977x 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 there is a song called i believe "Growing up in pictures" that you may like but it is very sad
a1978babygirl 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 hugsssss im so sorry have u gotten to see him/her since ur comment?
SwiftANGELnDCoors 1 year ago
@SwiftANGELnDCoors no i havnt
RavenKL20 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 aww im sorry :( xo <3
SwiftANGELnDCoors 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 hang in there bud your not alone
diesel4life7410 1 year ago
@diesel4life7410 thanks
RavenKL20 1 year ago
@RavenKL20 no problem
diesel4life7410 1 year ago
god this song hits home i lost my dad when i was 18 im 30 now and i cry everytime i hear it, he looks just like my dad too :(
austin503nw 2 years ago
When this came out it couldnt have been a better time..
217zenki 2 years ago
I don't have kids, never been married and the song has always made me cry. Daddy's are not replaceable and are important to every kid. I hope if I ever get married and have a child, we don't become a statistical contribution to the divorce rate. Cheers to all the Daddy's (and Moms) who haven't lost sight of what's imortant--and to all of us who have weathered the cloudy skies surrounding the loss of a parent we love.
Peace.
rothwegk 2 years ago 2
I have kids by 2 mom's both hate me and 1 tries to keep me from her, remember this song today after recovering froma brain trauma incident, but I miss my kids terribly it's like another piece of my soul dying, after the pieces I've already lost...
Guardian408 2 years ago
this song makes cry b/c it remids me of me and my dad who passaway last year b/c he used to sing this song to me
penniston02 2 years ago 5
damn good song, my dads in prison cause my mom cheated on him and he snapped and i hardly see him anymore, but i know nobody will every replace him
mlshotgun04 2 years ago 3
I didn't snap but the courts always side with the mother even when she perjers herself in court x2. and her new beau conspired against me for months never saw it comin til I came home early from shift, I left my .45 in the truck. Now I pay for what they did or what I failed to due, but I miss my children, everyday. Time is our greatest thief.
Guardian408 2 years ago
ive always cryed to this song every since i was 7 yrs old. dad was always in prison
cebures3 2 years ago 3
i hear ya, mine passed away at age 5, definitely has a huge outcome on your life, dads are supposed to keep you in line.
ladykba 2 years ago
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i cry when i hear theis song cuse my dad was not around but it makes me wish he was
unstableamericantim 2 years ago
i crywhen i hear this song my dad was not around when i was a kid but this makes me wish he was
unstableamericantim 2 years ago 2
I was divorced many years ago. My son was five years old and daughter was three. I have never fully recoverd from the fact that someone else became their daddy. This song says a lot.
superyouper 3 years ago 5
I like this song, but there are so many things wrong with the video! First there was the total lack of sense on the part of the dad when his kid wasn't in a car seat or even wearing a seat belt! Secondly, it's so stupid that he couldn't even stay for his child's birthday party!
LeahMichelle03 3 years ago
DA Its only a Video. Not from a home movie. Not a real event.
rockinspider 3 years ago
@rockinspider It still sends a powerful message though. That should count for something.
irwinwilliamson 10 months ago
this was like the 90's, nobody wore a seatbelt then....
mbranum17 3 years ago 4
and people still don't... when i was a kid in the 90's my gramma said that "the law said you dont need a seatbelt when you're with your gramma."
REDPWR4EVR 2 years ago 4
Yeah, stupid he couldn'rt stay, but some parents are bitches/assholes when it comes to that stuff. A lot of Moms/Dads want their kids to forget they ever had that other parent. And it's an old video, people didn't laways wear seatbelts back then. I remember riding in the back of a pick up when I was young on a major road.
GlitterFlame89 2 years ago
My dad passed away on Christmas Eve of 2003, I miss him soo much!
Mach1Man583 3 years ago 4
i lost my dad on 9-22-08 i going to miss him r.i.p. dad
wayneechols 3 years ago 3
this a good vidoe to watch
rexwilson5566 3 years ago
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how bout a car seat "dad"
wellsrp75 3 years ago
Fuck......back then they didn't care about car seats!!!!!! It's NOT like the kid is an infant!!!!!!!!!!
camizowner 3 years ago
sad song but a lot of kids have to go though this. even me and my sibs had to
WHHS2002 3 years ago
What goes around comes around. just remember guys that you will always be DAD.
Copperheadroad1 3 years ago
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What probably happened was after he came back and got to really know you he realized what a looser you were and left for good. duh duhh. I mean really its not that difficult to figure out. As far as this song: The reason you dont call him "daddy" is because if that was the case you would have 30 different daddys a week.. HELLO<< stay out of the club...........
costarica1966 3 years ago
Me and my dad used to go through this.When I was 5 my parents got divorced.I would see my dad every once in awhile,but when I turned 7 he packed his things and moved to Indiana.3 years later he moved back down here,and my parents got back together.But,he wasn't the same dad I knew when I was younger,just a jerk.They lasted until 2006,and after that the visitation started.But he never was the same.I haven't talked to him for 5 months,and i'll probably never talk to him again.:(
fordtruckman80 3 years ago
thats a shame,and i went thru the same thing,even a bit worse....but,can i say this..even if hes a jerk,hes still your dad..maybe you should call him sometime....?
RobsMusicBox 3 years ago
You two need to seriously get in touch no matter what the cost. I just lost my son a week ago, and it's hell. I don't even want to get up and move around the house, cause all I can do is cry. PLEASE MAKE AMENDS WITH YOUR FATHER! You'll be a better person in the long run, I PROMISE you that much.
irwinwilliamson 3 years ago
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thank god for trailer parks so country music artist have a reason to keep writing this crap
costarica1966 3 years ago