That poor man had to go through the trouble of domestic abuse. That's what happens when you let women think that they have rights! Their small inferior brains can't comprehend the world outside of the kitchen. Remember, if you don't want your woman to try and hurt you, then you should keep them in the kitchen!
but do you know who are the most common victims of domestic abuse, no its not women, even thou the are right second. the most common victims of domestic abuse are children, more oftenly, the male children.
finaly good domestic abuse psa. now sure, males are more commonly the abusers. but it does not mean its the only type of abuse to fight against. allso mental abuse is worse then physical sometimes.
The kids made me cry, and so did the man. Not that the women weren't sad (you know what, I take it back, I cried at them all), but one of my best friends was hideously abused by his girlfriend and everyone but me either ignored it or LAUGHED about it. He didn't dare fight back, or else people would think he was the abuser ... so it really touched me to finally see someone acknowledge it's not always the woman whose the victim. Bravo, makers of this PSA.
I was about to dislike this (not because of the people but because of it only talking about females so far) until I saw the man at the end. =) This is a great PSA (because it talks about BOTH genders). =D
Good to see a commercial portray both genders as victims. Domestic violence against men is on the rise. In fact, the attacks r usually more brutal when the man is the victim. Men don't use weapons/objects as much as women do to men.
Why is it up to men (actually higher wage earner, it's not a gender problem totally) to be careful? Contracts are made to protect all parties involved. It takes lawyers and courts to get divorced, perhaps mariage without legal counsel should be the same.
@MassEFR34k i never gave a rare moment for abused men dude i keep saying men who are abused are important too im saying that men are more abusive than women are most of the time yes i know men are victims too do u not understand that??????? cuz if u dont ask me to explain what im trying to say instead of calling me stupid its not like i said men are always abusive and never the victim
@MassEFR34k hey bitch i meant women dont really abuse men as much as men abuse women i DID NOT say to forget about men i know men are abused too got how stupid do u think i am????? dont even bother replying to me unless u r actually gonna be nice please....
@cheaze69 - Yeah but that doesn't mean that everything belongs to the man. It's still the matrimonial home. Let me explain, you'd have to pay for services like a cook, waitress, nutritionalist, cleaning lady, and a day care provider. Stay at home women are all these things and only expect a simple "Thank you." at the end of the day. "Well she never worked" BULLSHIT! Why is shit always about money? Why not the VALUE of the bloody work women do? A good housewife is entitled to say half is hers.
@cheaze69 - yeah I hear you. There are some women who use the system and take advantage of men. It's up to men to be careful who they marry because a quality wife will respect her husband. I do appreciate the fact that a lot of men do help out around the house and it's nice of them to do so. I think we've both made our point. Have a nice day, sir.
@DallasNeedsADentist I have a mother who cleans, cooks, and takes care of her kids. When she did not have a job she would CONSTANTLY tell me that all it takes for her to finish the cooking, cleaning, etc.. of the house, is about two to three hours. And with the cooking, most of the time she is just waiting for the food to get done. While my dad was at work for seven, eight hours. If you think in any way that three hours worth of work = seven or eight, you are delusional.
@crackerkiller89 - Does she have three babies to raise and look after? Until she does I don't think you have much of an argument. It's not just throwing a meal in the oven. You're supposed to think about nutrition, what your kids want, what your husband wants, etc. Not to mention all the preparation. It can take all day sometimes. Also, if the woman is at home she is the one instilling values to the children and raising them. You think mothers get much sleep lookng after babies? No.
I have 4 kids and have done the home father thing (on and off) for years... and it is NOT hard. Kids ready school, laundry, cleaning, maybe some shopping, getting kids from school, kids homework, managing my kids/neighbors kids, dinner and baths; and all the while doing baby care (i.e. diapers, playing, feeding, naps, etc.) all mounts to a few hours work TOTAL.
2. I have from 730am to 630pm to get it done and none of these things take more than an hour to do. In fact most of this stuff takes 30 minutes or less. Things like managing my kids/neighbors kids or baths takes all of about 10 minutes out of my whole day.
3. 90% of the baby care can be done while doing other things. If you keep your house clean to begin with it only takes 20-30 minutes, sometimes it takes less than that. Being a man I also have the added job of still having to do the “man” stuff, like installing a new toilet, fixing the dryer or mowing. Oh… and did mention I also take care of my 93 year old grandmother and am working on my 2nd bachelors degree.
And while I am doing all this “HARD work” (my ass), I’m still able to watch TV, blast whatever music I like around the house and take however many brakes I want. If I have a shitty day… I can stop working and go blow shit up on Xbox Live or BS with friends.
@NoMorThanMost - Last point but certianly not least. How the heck can you just drop everything and stop working if you have a bad day when you are dealing with a baby? What, you're just going to let the baby cry and sit in a dirty diaper while you play your little Xbox 360? Get real. If that's how you handle babies you a horrible father and it's a wonder why your kids don't have infections because of your "daddy's having a bad day" neglegence. You grow up, idiot.
5. My friends and family can visit my place of work all day long and no one can say shit. If I want a beer while working, I can have one and don’t need to worry about getting fired. And the biggest payoff… I get to work around people who REALLY love me and who I love more than anything else in the world. After all of that I still have “relax" time for myself and my family. And you can’t handle 3 kids? Really?
6. If you find it too difficult to be a mommy of 3 then maybe you shouldn't have had them. And just because you’re an inept mother doesn’t mean being a home caretaker is hard. If THAT is hard work for you I would hate to see how you handle a real job like most men do every day. Grow up!
PS: Here’s some advice… next time your man is about to “bust a nut”… SWALLOW! Then you don’t have to worry about those little burdens that make your life sooooo hard.
@NoMorThanMost - Wow, how mature. You really think you're goint to make your pont by posting disgusting sexual jokes? That's not how you prove a point troll, and by the way, every single point you brought up is ridiculous. From the last comment you made to me I can clearly see how you view women. Thanks for proving my poing about entitled, ugrateful men who haven't got a clue. It's not just the mothers that bring babies into this world. Why should men have 0 responsibilities towards the child?
@NoMorThanMost - By the way I said 3 BABIES not kids that got to school leaving you in peace for the day. Try a baby who screams constantly and contantly needs it's mother's attention, babies with gas issues for example. They sleep for all of three hours a day and that's when you clean and cook. When do you get to sleep? No, but the men get 10 hours a sleep a day and breaks at work. Where's our break? You're one to talk about hard work, you don't know shit. Bullshit you took care of kids.
@NoMorThanMost - Yet, after all that, you'd feel you have the right to blame YOUR wife whom YOU had sex with for being pregnant, excuse me? You're the one that knocked her up with equal want and anticipation for kids, so don't lay all the blame on the woman while you do absolutely nothing to lighten her load you selfish little prick. That's you though, once the going gets tough you lay the blame on everyone else and run for the hills and wonder why we say it's hard.
@kittymonsterable Actually, statistics show that women are more likely commit domestic violence in a relationship than men. That isn't to show that women are in any way 'worse' than men, just to get rid of your pathetic, baseless assumptions.
@TheSwireRob I agree and many times women beat up other women for the men then when the man turn and beat them they look pity. I do not careless about women who get their ass whooped by men. I ONLY care for abused children.
@kittymonsterable That is bullshit. Over a hundred self report surveys showed that women were just as likely to start physical violence in reciprocally violent relationships, and in cases of non reciprocally violent relationships, WOMEN did the hitting SEVENTY PERCENT of the time. Men don't do this shit more than women, women are just MUCH MORE LIKELY to report domestic abuse. Its seen as weak by society for a man to report abuse from his woman, so the VAST MAJORITY of men simply don't report.
About time they have a male in here. I know a few men who are whipped (figuratively) by their women and threatened to never see their kids if the woman doesnt get her way. It's shameful
Men are also raped more than women. Bet most of you all didn't know that! Sadly our society only cares about female rape victims and this is why most think that only women get raped or that women get raped more than men. Yet, male on male rape in prisons happens all the time and is disgusting and not only is it disgusting - it's encouraged - even by females who often laugh that men who go to prison get raped by Bubba and feel it's justified. Nobody cares about men or male rights.
Steinmetz & Lucca, 1988 stated, N 18th century France a battered husb was made 2 wear outlandish costume & ride donkey thru village while being jeered.. Not much has changed 4 battered men due 2 fact fems would have u believe there is no dom violence against men. Steinmetz who was involved n several studies also said, "the most unreported crime is not wife beating it is husband beating." The stats were always there before fems started manipulating them n '90's 2 present.
I am seeing a man who was abused for 13yrs by his wife. I see the scars every day. My heart goes out to him. I can only imagine how the kids must feel when they see their father get hit and bit like that. It is not always the physically stronger one that dominates...its the psychologically stronger partner that dominates. (just my opinion)
@DamDiDaLaLa Not only can men be the abused, its not true (as feminists say) that men are most of the time the abusers. Half the time, WOMEN are the abusers. Don't believe their embellished statistics. They're all bullshit.
@Dickbaum Here's a simple fact of life: the physically strong one dominates/abuses the weak one. Since, women are usually weaker than men, they get abused more often. How is this hard to grasp? Yes, some men get abused but much more often women are the victims...
Yes I know women get abused more than men. But the entire gender that is man aren't be the only ones who abuse as portrayed in so many Domestic violence PSAs. (there are even teens who abuse their parents) I'm just saying it's good that at least one PSA depicts abuse a problem, not a (male) problem.
@Dickbaum - I think men get abused more often than women. Abused women just get damaged more. Just look around and see who hits who the most. I often see girls smacking guys for petty shit, kicking/kneeing guys in the balls also for petty shit, etc. When your girlfriend see you looking at another woman she'll often SMACK you on the back of the head. Try smacking her on the back of her head if she looks at another man and you'll be getting dumped on the spot and locked up for hitting her.
@Benderrr111 Women are more often abused for many reasons, but it really isn't about physical strength - if it was just that, it would be easy to leave. It's about psychologically dominating another person, making them feel worthless, convincing them that there's no way out. Abusive men use their strength as just ONE weapon of abuse, but there are many other weapons that can achieve the same result - just as you don't need a gun to kill someone, you don't need to be strong to abuse someone.
For the record, a 2007 CDC report showed that women commit just as much domestic violence as men. In fact, about half of DV is mutual violence. Of the remaining violence which is unilateral violence 70% is committed by women.
About 40% of spousal murder victims are men and these are just the ones the police know about. Because people don't believe women commit DV many cases go unsolved.
WELL KIDS HE IS GOIN TO KILL MOMMY THEN HIMSELF...HAVE FUN BIEN ORPHANS
perish64oh 29 minutes ago
A lot of these comments support violence against woman.
NotMyBirthday 6 hours ago
Stop overlooking the good guys and going straight to the assholes !
Zeskents 20 hours ago
That poor man had to go through the trouble of domestic abuse. That's what happens when you let women think that they have rights! Their small inferior brains can't comprehend the world outside of the kitchen. Remember, if you don't want your woman to try and hurt you, then you should keep them in the kitchen!
HelloCompanion 2 days ago
@HelloCompanion WOW, you will be single all your life.
NotMyBirthday 6 hours ago
@NotMyBirthday Why are you on the internets? Go back to the kitchen! That's where you belong! XD
HelloCompanion 6 hours ago
@HelloCompanion No I rather stay in school. Then I don't have to depend on a man to take care of me.
NotMyBirthday 3 hours ago
@NotMyBirthday Silly woman, rights are for people!
HelloCompanion 1 hour ago
Thanks God!!! A domestic violence ad featuring a male as a victim!!!
RubasJLeone 4 days ago
Cool that they brought in a man and all, too bad is was all white people.
pandamania94 2 weeks ago
Kudos to this PSA for showing that women also commit DV. This is the only one I've seen that even brings that up.
macgyvertosh 2 weeks ago
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The guy at the end is a faggot. He likes the abuse
JrussLZ 2 weeks ago
Thank god they had a male victim
thecrazyevilleaf 1 month ago 26
domestic abuse toward males is amazingly under stressed woman can be crazy, it sucks that there is no attention given the men in these situations
15sweethoney 1 month ago 15
@15sweethoney
It's true. We are crazy bitches a lot of the time =3
LovinTheDharma 1 week ago
@LovinTheDharma
That is not something you should say with pride.
kurkur2343 1 week ago
@kurkur2343
Doesn't mean it isn't true though.
LovinTheDharma 6 days ago
@15sweethoney Agreed
FoolishHeart2526 19 hours ago
but do you know who are the most common victims of domestic abuse, no its not women, even thou the are right second. the most common victims of domestic abuse are children, more oftenly, the male children.
gethsoftware 1 month ago 2
finaly good domestic abuse psa. now sure, males are more commonly the abusers. but it does not mean its the only type of abuse to fight against. allso mental abuse is worse then physical sometimes.
gethsoftware 1 month ago 2
The kids made me cry, and so did the man. Not that the women weren't sad (you know what, I take it back, I cried at them all), but one of my best friends was hideously abused by his girlfriend and everyone but me either ignored it or LAUGHED about it. He didn't dare fight back, or else people would think he was the abuser ... so it really touched me to finally see someone acknowledge it's not always the woman whose the victim. Bravo, makers of this PSA.
TimeTravelerJessica 1 month ago
I think it's great that FINALLY a man (only ONE man but it's a start) shows up in this ads. T'was about time.
LoewenPforte 1 month ago
Notice how these femicunts change their tatic on a psa with a man shown to be the victim?
Its insane..My country is going down faster than a priest pecker in the popes office.
Its ok I'll pay these bitches back by having them back bull balls for a bolonga factory.
Watch me..
wthjrtx1 1 month ago
@wthjrtx1 You apear to be angry and foulmouthed and make no sense. Please take your meds.
EmBeesWeb 1 month ago
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@wthjrtx1 You appear to be angry and foulmouthed and make no sense. Please take your meds.
EmBeesWeb 1 month ago
A man as a victim in a domestic violence PSA...so this is what it's like for hell to freeze over.
Sylux777 1 month ago
I was about to dislike this (not because of the people but because of it only talking about females so far) until I saw the man at the end. =) This is a great PSA (because it talks about BOTH genders). =D
chiboy3000 1 month ago 2
The guy at the end. I feel for you, man.
Yamatonix11 1 month ago
ok please leave me alone if my comment upsets u y did u respond
kittymonsterable 2 months ago
lol bitch should have shut the fuck up
xXJesusSwaggerXx 2 months ago
FINALLY
somebody portrays men as the victim!
I've been living with guilt for beating my ex boyfriend for a whole year and I haven't found a video that shows them being a victim.
-thinks-
wtf is wrong with me....
Thespiriticlan 2 months ago
Good to see a commercial portray both genders as victims. Domestic violence against men is on the rise. In fact, the attacks r usually more brutal when the man is the victim. Men don't use weapons/objects as much as women do to men.
philliesphanatic12 2 months ago
you know what the man is right he it's always the person who abuse's
WhiteAngel7047 2 months ago
this is the best commercial/ like the 1st 2 top comments state!
gigigamer 2 months ago
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Help stop violence against women, if a thirteen year old can get it then why cant we?
/watch?v=vM8wOK9zvdA
Mynameisboxy 3 months ago
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Help stop violence against women, if a thirteen year old can get it then why cant we?
/watch?v=vM8wOK9zvdA
Dealornodealmadtv 3 months ago
Why is it up to men (actually higher wage earner, it's not a gender problem totally) to be careful? Contracts are made to protect all parties involved. It takes lawyers and courts to get divorced, perhaps mariage without legal counsel should be the same.
cheaze69 3 months ago
youtube.com/watch?v=G_u7S86PiW8&noredirect=1 domestic violence victims send a message
Mplaysbeatlab 3 months ago
WTF????? 0:20
HungarianForGOD 3 months ago
0:19 Wimp!!
sapher2020 4 months ago
Is this the only domestic violence in MEN?
xXxEstrellaOcultaxXx 4 months ago
@MassEFR34k i never gave a rare moment for abused men dude i keep saying men who are abused are important too im saying that men are more abusive than women are most of the time yes i know men are victims too do u not understand that??????? cuz if u dont ask me to explain what im trying to say instead of calling me stupid its not like i said men are always abusive and never the victim
kittymonsterable 4 months ago
@MassEFR34k hey bitch i meant women dont really abuse men as much as men abuse women i DID NOT say to forget about men i know men are abused too got how stupid do u think i am????? dont even bother replying to me unless u r actually gonna be nice please....
kittymonsterable 4 months ago
guys women arent the only victims guys are too but men do this more than women
kittymonsterable 4 months ago
@kittymonsterable Men are typically the breadwinner, we are abused in the courts just because our wives were bored and wanted to move out.
The system has been abused so much by women playing victim that males aren't safe to get married.
cheaze69 3 months ago
@cheaze69 - Yeah but that doesn't mean that everything belongs to the man. It's still the matrimonial home. Let me explain, you'd have to pay for services like a cook, waitress, nutritionalist, cleaning lady, and a day care provider. Stay at home women are all these things and only expect a simple "Thank you." at the end of the day. "Well she never worked" BULLSHIT! Why is shit always about money? Why not the VALUE of the bloody work women do? A good housewife is entitled to say half is hers.
DallasNeedsADentist 3 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist I do value that. The problem is it's not safe to marry for men with no fault divorce.
Men work around the house too BTW.
cheaze69 3 months ago
@cheaze69 - yeah I hear you. There are some women who use the system and take advantage of men. It's up to men to be careful who they marry because a quality wife will respect her husband. I do appreciate the fact that a lot of men do help out around the house and it's nice of them to do so. I think we've both made our point. Have a nice day, sir.
DallasNeedsADentist 3 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist I have a mother who cleans, cooks, and takes care of her kids. When she did not have a job she would CONSTANTLY tell me that all it takes for her to finish the cooking, cleaning, etc.. of the house, is about two to three hours. And with the cooking, most of the time she is just waiting for the food to get done. While my dad was at work for seven, eight hours. If you think in any way that three hours worth of work = seven or eight, you are delusional.
crackerkiller89 2 months ago
@crackerkiller89 - Does she have three babies to raise and look after? Until she does I don't think you have much of an argument. It's not just throwing a meal in the oven. You're supposed to think about nutrition, what your kids want, what your husband wants, etc. Not to mention all the preparation. It can take all day sometimes. Also, if the woman is at home she is the one instilling values to the children and raising them. You think mothers get much sleep lookng after babies? No.
DallasNeedsADentist 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
I have 4 kids and have done the home father thing (on and off) for years... and it is NOT hard. Kids ready school, laundry, cleaning, maybe some shopping, getting kids from school, kids homework, managing my kids/neighbors kids, dinner and baths; and all the while doing baby care (i.e. diapers, playing, feeding, naps, etc.) all mounts to a few hours work TOTAL.
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
2. I have from 730am to 630pm to get it done and none of these things take more than an hour to do. In fact most of this stuff takes 30 minutes or less. Things like managing my kids/neighbors kids or baths takes all of about 10 minutes out of my whole day.
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
3. 90% of the baby care can be done while doing other things. If you keep your house clean to begin with it only takes 20-30 minutes, sometimes it takes less than that. Being a man I also have the added job of still having to do the “man” stuff, like installing a new toilet, fixing the dryer or mowing. Oh… and did mention I also take care of my 93 year old grandmother and am working on my 2nd bachelors degree.
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
And while I am doing all this “HARD work” (my ass), I’m still able to watch TV, blast whatever music I like around the house and take however many brakes I want. If I have a shitty day… I can stop working and go blow shit up on Xbox Live or BS with friends.
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@NoMorThanMost - Last point but certianly not least. How the heck can you just drop everything and stop working if you have a bad day when you are dealing with a baby? What, you're just going to let the baby cry and sit in a dirty diaper while you play your little Xbox 360? Get real. If that's how you handle babies you a horrible father and it's a wonder why your kids don't have infections because of your "daddy's having a bad day" neglegence. You grow up, idiot.
DallasNeedsADentist 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist You have been arguing over the internet for 5 weeks.
Why..?
0320407 1 month ago
@0320407 - because I have good points to bring up which educate idiots. Let's not forget that it's also because I can.
DallasNeedsADentist 1 month ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
5. My friends and family can visit my place of work all day long and no one can say shit. If I want a beer while working, I can have one and don’t need to worry about getting fired. And the biggest payoff… I get to work around people who REALLY love me and who I love more than anything else in the world. After all of that I still have “relax" time for myself and my family. And you can’t handle 3 kids? Really?
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
6. If you find it too difficult to be a mommy of 3 then maybe you shouldn't have had them. And just because you’re an inept mother doesn’t mean being a home caretaker is hard. If THAT is hard work for you I would hate to see how you handle a real job like most men do every day. Grow up!
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@DallasNeedsADentist
PS: Here’s some advice… next time your man is about to “bust a nut”… SWALLOW! Then you don’t have to worry about those little burdens that make your life sooooo hard.
NoMorThanMost 2 months ago
@NoMorThanMost - Wow, how mature. You really think you're goint to make your pont by posting disgusting sexual jokes? That's not how you prove a point troll, and by the way, every single point you brought up is ridiculous. From the last comment you made to me I can clearly see how you view women. Thanks for proving my poing about entitled, ugrateful men who haven't got a clue. It's not just the mothers that bring babies into this world. Why should men have 0 responsibilities towards the child?
DallasNeedsADentist 2 months ago
@NoMorThanMost - By the way I said 3 BABIES not kids that got to school leaving you in peace for the day. Try a baby who screams constantly and contantly needs it's mother's attention, babies with gas issues for example. They sleep for all of three hours a day and that's when you clean and cook. When do you get to sleep? No, but the men get 10 hours a sleep a day and breaks at work. Where's our break? You're one to talk about hard work, you don't know shit. Bullshit you took care of kids.
DallasNeedsADentist 2 months ago
@NoMorThanMost - Yet, after all that, you'd feel you have the right to blame YOUR wife whom YOU had sex with for being pregnant, excuse me? You're the one that knocked her up with equal want and anticipation for kids, so don't lay all the blame on the woman while you do absolutely nothing to lighten her load you selfish little prick. That's you though, once the going gets tough you lay the blame on everyone else and run for the hills and wonder why we say it's hard.
DallasNeedsADentist 2 months ago
@kittymonsterable Actually, statistics show that women are more likely commit domestic violence in a relationship than men. That isn't to show that women are in any way 'worse' than men, just to get rid of your pathetic, baseless assumptions.
TheSwireRob 3 months ago
@TheSwireRob ok i know that i just had no other way to say it
kittymonsterable 3 months ago
@TheSwireRob I agree and many times women beat up other women for the men then when the man turn and beat them they look pity. I do not careless about women who get their ass whooped by men. I ONLY care for abused children.
HairH2O 3 months ago
@kittymonsterable That is bullshit. Over a hundred self report surveys showed that women were just as likely to start physical violence in reciprocally violent relationships, and in cases of non reciprocally violent relationships, WOMEN did the hitting SEVENTY PERCENT of the time. Men don't do this shit more than women, women are just MUCH MORE LIKELY to report domestic abuse. Its seen as weak by society for a man to report abuse from his woman, so the VAST MAJORITY of men simply don't report.
crackerkiller89 2 months ago
About time they have a male in here. I know a few men who are whipped (figuratively) by their women and threatened to never see their kids if the woman doesnt get her way. It's shameful
Nettaiya87 4 months ago
anyone know the name of the song playing in the background
pinkchair098 4 months ago
Men are also raped more than women. Bet most of you all didn't know that! Sadly our society only cares about female rape victims and this is why most think that only women get raped or that women get raped more than men. Yet, male on male rape in prisons happens all the time and is disgusting and not only is it disgusting - it's encouraged - even by females who often laugh that men who go to prison get raped by Bubba and feel it's justified. Nobody cares about men or male rights.
NautyKnight 4 months ago
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Steinmetz & Lucca, 1988 stated, N 18th century France a battered husb was made 2 wear outlandish costume & ride donkey thru village while being jeered.. Not much has changed 4 battered men due 2 fact fems would have u believe there is no dom violence against men. Steinmetz who was involved n several studies also said, "the most unreported crime is not wife beating it is husband beating." The stats were always there before fems started manipulating them n '90's 2 present.
MLJ1219 4 months ago
Normally it's the woman that threatens the man that he'll never see the kids again.
NautyKnight 4 months ago
0:16 thats messed up and sad
kittymonsterable 5 months ago
Finaly!!! For once they had the brains to say "men get abused to"
9Iamthewalrus 5 months ago 4
wat does psa stand for?
blondegirlygirl10 5 months ago
@blondegirlygirl10 public service announcement
DivaSD15 5 months ago
I am seeing a man who was abused for 13yrs by his wife. I see the scars every day. My heart goes out to him. I can only imagine how the kids must feel when they see their father get hit and bit like that. It is not always the physically stronger one that dominates...its the psychologically stronger partner that dominates. (just my opinion)
kaethe1026 5 months ago
like @dickbaum said - its good to finally see a video that also points out that men are not always the abuser - that they also can be the abused!
DamDiDaLaLa 9 months ago 83
@DamDiDaLaLa Not only can men be the abused, its not true (as feminists say) that men are most of the time the abusers. Half the time, WOMEN are the abusers. Don't believe their embellished statistics. They're all bullshit.
crackerkiller89 2 months ago
@crackerkiller89 True.
chiboy3000 1 month ago
oh my god this is the first domestic violence psa that didnt show only portray female victims
Dickbaum 10 months ago 154
@Dickbaum Here's a simple fact of life: the physically strong one dominates/abuses the weak one. Since, women are usually weaker than men, they get abused more often. How is this hard to grasp? Yes, some men get abused but much more often women are the victims...
Benderrr111 6 months ago
@Benderrr111
Yes I know women get abused more than men. But the entire gender that is man aren't be the only ones who abuse as portrayed in so many Domestic violence PSAs. (there are even teens who abuse their parents) I'm just saying it's good that at least one PSA depicts abuse a problem, not a (male) problem.
Dickbaum 6 months ago
@Dickbaum - I think men get abused more often than women. Abused women just get damaged more. Just look around and see who hits who the most. I often see girls smacking guys for petty shit, kicking/kneeing guys in the balls also for petty shit, etc. When your girlfriend see you looking at another woman she'll often SMACK you on the back of the head. Try smacking her on the back of her head if she looks at another man and you'll be getting dumped on the spot and locked up for hitting her.
NautyKnight 4 months ago
@Benderrr111 Women are more often abused for many reasons, but it really isn't about physical strength - if it was just that, it would be easy to leave. It's about psychologically dominating another person, making them feel worthless, convincing them that there's no way out. Abusive men use their strength as just ONE weapon of abuse, but there are many other weapons that can achieve the same result - just as you don't need a gun to kill someone, you don't need to be strong to abuse someone.
CrownedWithLaurels 5 months ago
@CrownedWithLaurels
For the record, a 2007 CDC report showed that women commit just as much domestic violence as men. In fact, about half of DV is mutual violence. Of the remaining violence which is unilateral violence 70% is committed by women.
About 40% of spousal murder victims are men and these are just the ones the police know about. Because people don't believe women commit DV many cases go unsolved.
gamenode 4 months ago 4
@Dickbaum
about goddamn time
knowthingman 4 months ago 4