My mother would've destroyed me if I even thought about raising my hand towards her, and I totally agree with her. How in the hell could you possibly think about slapping your MOTHER in the face?
i dont care what any of you would say, im glad the boy slapped his mom, she deserved it. and for all of you who say, you wont or didnt , im bet anything, you wished you did, dont lie people come on get real! i wished all my life i could slap my mom, but u know what i didnt, but, she dead, and i dont care, she took a lot of wrong to her grave and never ever said sorry for nothing. so, a lot of parents deserve to be slapped, so there, bite me!
if you all think thats its fine for a parent to slap and emotional and phycial abuse a child and get away with it, then look at the news of all the parents who kill their children, hell i would have slap her my self. reguardles if a parent slaps and hurt s a child, verberal or any way, thenthey deserve the same, so there! dont email me back and say , boo hoo boo hoo!
so many people standing up for the mom, i m not, the way the mom treats her son, she needed a slap to understand how he feels . she deserved it. i wanted to slap her my self. she yells and hits her son, and she gets away with it, well good for the boy. ill stand by him, and defend him, he needs support for some one who can protect him from a female abuser.
@alaitain what i want to know was this was on national tv and he is'nt in juvie for battery? we'll remember this comment when he robs you blind or hurts someone how a parent disiplines their child is no one else's bussiness.
My mom would have done the same thing if I even touched my mom. If I even talk to my mother the wrong way, I'm, sorry for the language, fucked, if I touched her, HA!! I's either be six feet under, or in a hospital.
I worry that my younger brothers and sisters will hit my.mama one day i have a 11 7 10 brothers and sister they are so disrespectful they curse my mom call her bitches etc she will not beat they ass cause she scared of the police and Dss idk what to do or what to say but it to the point were I dont go over to the house cause they disrespect me call me out my name I mean they are terrible its to tne point where I dont like them what can she do
and with my mom..well let's just say i NEVER had the audasity to go toe to toe with the head woman of the house lol. it is rediculous! kids have a place. even when i am grown i STILL respect my mom and dad smh..what kinda world we live in today?
i so agree with you. and i know i am not the only one here to say this but you are a very very nice looking WOMAN! lol and then you are from new york! *applause*.
now lets not discriminate against white people here :) I come from a russian family and i got disciplined pretty damn well when i was younger. I got spanked, my dad once showed me the belt and told me if I go out of line again (I dont remember what I did, but must've been really bad) then that will be my punishment. its not the parenting that stumps american families, its the schooling. kids are turned against their parents at school. thats the scariest part
My head would have been knocked off my shoulders if I rolled my eyes at my mom. Heck, she cold-clocked me when I was 16 and it never crossed my mind to HIT her. This kid has clean lost his mind and she lets him act like that. aaaand DR PHIL made her APOLOGIZE!! WHAT?! No. Way. Pack your bags, boy. You are moving out. Let Dr. KnowBetter have him.
@andersen6422 Exactly! My mother would have bitch slapped every tooth out of my head! I remember when I turned 14 she showed me the flat of her hand and said "You are no longer getting this." She made a fist at me and said, "This is what you get from now on." God help us all if that fat kid becomes president. :-\
In case of any confusion... I am not against using some amount of violence towards a child in an emergency, or in some form of immediate self-defense. However, I am against torture - even mild forms of torture. It is not okay, under any circumstance, for someone in power to formally and intentionally torture a subordinate as a "punishment" or a legal sentence etc.
@DoctorDoomsday1 your a piece of shit if your tryna say that mothers are not supposed to be in control.that is not being a warrior you obviously have problems i advise to speak therapy you warrior lol
We aren't born angry in this world. There are two sides to that story and what the Dr. Phil show doesn't show is the true story. All of us including Dr. Phil don't live with those people. The mother did a nice "acting" job and maybe Oscar worthy too. I didn't feel comfortable about the slapping part, but he is that way because of his mother. It is how we are raised that show's how we behave. Something is off about that mother.
@shakenmikeg14 - Not true. Most african-american people may have made video responses but that may be due to the fact we're STUMPED that some kid even had the cajones to talk to her like that, needless to say even THINK of slapping his mother. Most of us don't get away with "I HATE you, Mom!" or "Stay out of my life!!!" or even sucking teeth or rolling eyes.....
@SMC799 Honestly: During my child hood and teen years I wanted to beat the shit out of my mom on more than one occasion, never did though. But I was disciplined, I was corrected, usually with a spanking, and know respect. I still dislike my mother and come close to punching her today, because of how she treated me as a child. She was rude, insufferable, she wouldn't punish me normally, shed go overboard. For example: Dad would ground for one week, she would ground for a month.
Eddie murphy said it i beleive....he did it in a skit....he went into his room crying and was saying mean shit to his mom xD like everyother little kid lol.
"oh good please kill her kill herr pleaseee umfffofffff" xD
assuming all who were sticking up for the kid never saw the whole episode and not just the clip of the slap?Yeah mom wasnt in her right mind. was dealing with the loss of her other child but still is no excuse to neglect your child mentally and emotionally.turned out lil dude made up the abuse story. in the episode he was trying to manipulate the situations to benefit him. so yeah while a good old fashioned down home asswhippin isnt always the answer, it just may help for this child and mother.
hahaha! that little son of a......yeah i was sticking up for him. now i want to slap him. lol. thanks for the info. i saw a few sections of the show but not the whole segment.
2) I totally agree with you! I'm 15 and if I dared to even raise my hand, not even hit her, raise my hand she would snap my fingers off! I'm telling you I would have no fingers left!
THANK YOU so much for bringing up the whole" well there just 1, 2 ,3 years old ect." because my own mother uses that to excuse my baby sisters bad behavior and it needs to stop. every child out there needs to obey and respect their elders whether they are 3 or 30 years old
You obviously havent read pshycologi or pedagogic, get educated. this kid obviously is sociapat as soon as he discuss the matters hes egocentric usefeelings towards oouthers. etc etc. obviously sociapat.
ehh. i just disagree with everyone jumping on this "that kid deserves an ass whooping" bandwagon. it seems that most are using it as an excuse to proudly flaunt how tough and hardened they are because their parents used to beat them. if you had a cancer-induced fever, would you take aspirin to fight the fever, or seek medical attention for the cancer? abusive parents create social dysfunctions in their children.
@defiantwon33 All of my brothers and sister use to get spanked, including me, when we did bad things and none of us have turned out to be psychopaths. Its called pussyfying these damn children. You get a smack on the bottom and its child abuse. Are you kidding me? If you do something wrong you deserved to be punished, its the way of life. It wasn't like she just walked up to us and started beating us because she was frustrated with her evey day life. We did bad things and we got punished.
@defiantwon33 Case in point of what? That people who talk about how they were spanked and came out of it perfectly ok somehow proves your warped point? Gimmie a break, you're not the only one who can voice your opinion. Spanking is not abuse. Lemmie tell you, they took corpral punishment, that's beating kids, out of schools here and those kids are now so god damn out of hand. The teachers can't control them anymore. I'd rather spank my kid than have him/her turn into a self entitled little shit.
i think the truth of the matter goes a little deeper than the biased portrayal that was televised. phil scratched the surface and just before it bled, he wrapped it up. did you catch that? in other words, there's something definitely wrong with this mom. maybe the bitch needs to get slapped.....or worse. a bad parent produces bad children, so when your child is acting out, how about focusing attention at the root of the problem and NOT its effects.
Another person on youtube who has do idea why the boy did what he did, yet they voice their opinions. Amazing the amount of ignorance i watch on youtube everyday.
Children have hit their parent(s) before but years ago they got their ass handed to them for it. And it likely didn't happen again. This little fat bastard definitely needs his ass handed to him AND some damn medication to boot.
Like most here, if I ever hit my parents or even ACTED like I was gonna hit'em there would've been HELL-TO-PAY on my part. That's just the way it is when your that young and you live under someone else's roof.
Totally agree. Children are just that.....CHILDREN. Do they deserve some measure of respect, sure....When it's earned. The boy in this instance, obviously has no real reinforcement at home. The dad is obviously not involved and he lost his sister. But his momma is the one that needs to the pacifier outta her mom and start doing her job. And By the way, "breakin off a size 9, up in her ass", GOLDEN and PRICELESS.
@Pendad............Yeah........and another thing she did takes the cake, After he slaps her she called him dude, What kind of stuff is that? SHE NEEDS TO BE A MOTHER TO HIM AND NOT A DAMN FRIEND!!!!!
@vampbass1 It was the Moms fault. She was a barron, nasty, horrid woman. Since her daughter died she became utterly joyless manic depressive. Her life was pathetic.
Fact is, yeah, it sucks to see a kid get whupped. But you know what? You whup them and you do more than discipline them; You give them a fear and respect for authority. If more kids these days had that, the folks in AZ wouldn't have gotten shot up. Cause the guys mom woulda made sure her foot was buried a few feet up in there before he even thought about going out with a gun a crazy ideas.
the little kid is really just trying to express his frustrations, .... yeah, it did get out of control, but he clearly needs some therapy and his mother needs better training and help with parenting skills. This young boy also needs a stable MALE figure in his life. People should stop trying to write him off and act like if he got some kind of pathetic beating that he would suddenly become a better kid. (he even said he needs an adult to listen). Beating him will make him a Jeff Dahlmers
yeah go rip on the kid for standing up for his oppinnion....why keep it to yourself when they wont do it?who the heck are they?...we are all humans we are all EQUAL...and you call yourselves democrates...fucken commies...
if i had ever slapped my mother when i was a kid i would have no testicles, id be headless, my tongue would have been ripped out and shoved up my own ass and then shed have probably set me on fire skewered in the front yard like vlad the impaler used to do.
that woman, on live tv or not, should have boot kicked that disrespectful little fat fuck straight in the head.
also, that kid DOESNT need medication. he needs a swift punch in the fucking face.
How would you feel, if you mother didn't pay you attention. He only wants attention. That's how kids go bad, from neglect. I have a 9 year old and will put her in check when needed, but she knows I am 2nd in charge, because GOD is 1st in this HOUSE!
the little kid is really just trying to express his frustrations, .... yeah, it did get out of control, but he clearly needs some therapy and his mother needs better training and help with parenting skills. This young boy also needs a stable MALE figure in his life. People should stop trying to write him off and act like if he got some kind of pathetic beating that he would suddenly become a better kid. (he even said he needs an adult to listen). Beating him will make him a Jeff Dahlmers
no it would do no good for the mother to hit or beat him; that little kid is in serious need of a strong father figure who will train and discipline him. He needs FATHER.
i have the utmost sympathy for this CHILD. im not stupid when i said this kid may need meds. u are stupid who say that he needs to be beat. did anyone else notice the slight flinch after he struck his mother? helllooo?? he is already getting beat! he was ready for that smack right back! that is sad. i was disciplined with pinches ,upside the heads ,and the one whooping i remember. but there was also love.lots of it. maybe thats y i will never treat my parents that way, not becuz i fear them
this child is the perfect example that words alone cannot discipline a child. BELT is the only answer in this case and not some therapy, medicine or any other bullshit
That fast kid has some SERIOUS EMOTIONAL ISSUES! all that whimpiy crying about every little thing. He's hurting about something. he needs counseling AWAY from his mom. let him move away from her fior a while. He should like that, he hates her anyway. let him see if it's better while he's getting the Help he really needs. Mom needs to let him go before she ends up in jail because of him!
Wow--this thing is actually posting my comments. People basically spank because they want to. If you tell someone there's a ton of research showing there are better ways, they say "I don't care about research, what a load of crap." But if someone has a serious disease and you say, "The research shows that this pill gives you the highest chances of living" then they say "Give me THAT pill."
@WiseLady7@WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
@ReeferBuddy Look you stupid cracker. the black value system is the best! you fucking crackers kill your parents and beat them. you can say what you want about blacks but are kids never talk back and respect there parents. not drop dead, I see you spaming vids like this.
@mrwhatever213 Actually, the black way and the white way is pretty bad, for the most part. Whites are too lenient, blacks too strict. What most people don't realize is that you can be strict without hitting your kids. My brother never hits his kids, and his kids don't act a fool. My feeling is that most blacks wouldn't speak out against their parents if you paid them. And I worked at an all-black day-care, so you can save that nonsense about how perfectly black kids behave.
@moonrice555 There was nothing wrong with my comments. Mine said nothing about slapping a child, mine did say that I would never have treated my own mother this way but not out of fear, out of respect. There is clearly something wrong with the boy,and it since the mother obviously can not handle him, then the men in his community, school or church need to step and say, "This is not how a man behaves."
@sandra44035 But I still disagree with the men in his life taking over for the mother. Play a role, maybe. But they can't be there all the time. He will still come home to the same messed-up household every day. She needs to learn some skills, and if that takes counseling or parenting classes, she needs to do that.
if i ever even lifted a hand towards her, even if to yawn, my hand would have been missing before i even realize im on the ground beaten to a bloody pulp. i mean my can be facing the other direction, it doesnt matter. she will WHOOP my behind til i learn never to do that again.
My mother would have put me in a coma if I hit her like that! It's the mother's fault for not disciplining her son. Can you imagine what he's going to be like when he gets older? If the mother doesn't get her son help and discipline him when she should NOW, he's gonna grow up whoop her ass!
@WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
@WiseLady7@WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
yes, yes, blah blah blah. we all remember how we were kept in line and that crosses all cultures and races. but the question here is what now? what does the kid need now? its not a beating. he needs medication to control his rage and to keep him focused. he couldnt even focus on the question his mom gave him after the confrontation. i wanna watch the whole episode
@mrwhatever213 Any black person who fell for this baloney should be ashamed. Seriously. Blacks always say that the media tricks the white man into seeing blacks as thieves, rapists, drug-heads---and look at all these blacks who just got manipulated by that same media! People, come on. That slap was done for shock-value, it was barely a slap. The kid acted this way BECAUSE he was on tv. Sensationalistic trap, and you people just walked right in. Look before you leap.
Anyway.... I disagree, I think that Nanny 911's techniques are very efficient. Just looking at the show you can see that you don't necessarily have to be physical to discipline your child to get them to behave properly. However, since you appear to be of black descendants, it is practically a genetic embedment for you to have a mentality like "Wow, if emotional worked well, than physical much work even better."
@xvlGRLMGRLNlvx Damn, it's like I keep running across your dumb ass,living in a bubble comments. The 'White" way doesn't work at all,as you have to bribe the shit outta your child,and the truth is out. The same parents usually resort back to whipping that ass. You need to get over your deep seeded resentment for blk ppl, & your obvious need to feel superior to another race.
@RedSkullthagreat The "white" way? Oh, okay---so there's only 2 methods: let them walk over you or beat the shit out of them? Why do you people think like this? There is a ton of alternatives, but people don't want to get into that.
@moonrice555 Blk ppl just dont "beat the shit outta them" we have "alternatives" but they are usually dealt in a harsher fashion. In other words blk kids know that the parents are to be taken seriously & not for a joke. Far less blk kids have parties in their parents houses & tear them up then white kids. As for your "you ppl" comment,this further illustrates your mind state. Why do YOU ppl think like this?
@RedSkullthagreat And the fact that you automatically took my "you people" comment as one directed at a certain race shows YOUR state of mind. Anyone who thinks that the phrase "you people" has a racial connotation isn't using their head very well. When I wrote "Why do you people think like this?", I am directing at it all the people (98 percent) who left comments thinking there are only 2 options to parenting: beat them or let them run wild.
@moonrice555 I didn't say how I "took" that comment, YOU jumped the gun on that one. You ASSumed I meant race. But all I alluded to was your comment itself and your denoting division(visa vi quote),so get it right.The truth is you dont know WHAT ppl meant by their expressions. Besides who died and made you he parenting expert? Different methods work for different kids. Some need to be beat he shit out of & some need hugs, and everything in between.
@RedSkullthagreat "Besides who died and made you he parenting expert?" Judging from the brain-dead comments I'm reading on here, I'm qualified to write a book. Some need the shit beat out of them? Based on what? The fact that people are too committed to the archaic ways to try anything else? There's no excuse for that. People think you have to hit them because they never tried anything else.
@moonrice555 It sounds like you need to have kids b4 you speak on this topic. You sound like you have ZERO experience with kids. Some kids need the shit beat out of them based on real life experience, that's what. Again,the police have what? Feathers? Or do they have WEAPONS? Hmmmm...
@RedSkullthagreat "It sounds like you need to have kids b4 you speak on this topic. " Yeah, I was wondering when you would whip out that old card. "You sound like you have ZERO experience with kids." You mean the 15 years I have? That's a little more than zero. My brother has two kids and he doesn't spank them--I guess he has ZERO experience, too.
@moonrice555 Yeah,it's like I thought, you have LIMITED experience with kids in some type of controlled setting,being that they aren't YOUR kids. So your liability & responsibilities are limited as well. Ok,granted your experience is more than "zero". I'd say 15%,if I had to put a # on it.I love how some ppl resort to categorizing every thing they either dont understand,or fear & give it some "name of the moment".Like "playing the race(card) or the such & such 'old card.Good4 yur brother. :-)
@RedSkullthagreat "Yeah,it's like I thought, you have LIMITED experience with kids in some type of controlled setting" It's irrelevant. My answer would not have mattered---if I had said I had 2 kids, you would have found a retort, anyway. "Well, that's just 2 kids" or "You haven't been a parent very long" or something else. You're a dominant person who would saw off their own foot before even considering you could be wrong about something.
@RedSkullthagreat "Like "playing the race(card) or the such & such 'old card." Hey, I wasn't wrong to do it. Whenever I have this discussion with anyone else, it gets to that point sooner or later: "You don't have kids, you don't get it." But, like I said, it wouldn't matter. There would be a reply, anyway. "Well, you got lucky, your kid is good." or something.
@moonrice555 & so?If it rings true then plan on hearing it a lot.That's how life goes,not how you WANT it to go.See you have to stay on focus in this conversation. We are talking about bad ass kids that fuck up to the point were they have a whipping coming.Not anything else.If you have to resort to extremes,then you already lost the argument. Truth is simple.
@RedSkullthagreat "Truth is simple." Actually, it's subjective. To think there is a singular truth---and that you're the sole possessor of that---I mean, come on And I explained below why I brought up an extreme
@moonrice555 Yes, i agree it is subjective....to a point.In your given circumstances,your truth,becomes mine & vice versa.Your gender ,for example is your truth as well as THE TRUTH. If I cloned myself into you,then your truth becomes mine.How that applies to the topic @ hand is that kids that are a certain type are responsive to certain stimuli.Some are self disciplined while others are the polar opposite.In each circumstance there is an "most effective method".
@RedSkullthagreat "In each circumstance there is an "most effective method"." And I would say that a person only THINKS the certain child needs that sort of discipline. There could be a lot of factors not considered. Is the child seeking out attention? Is he responding to a chaotic home environment? There could be a lot of reasons the other methods other than spanking aren't working with him.
@RedSkullthagreat "See you have to stay on focus in this conversation. " Okay, now you're just losing touch with reality. How have I not stayed focused? Anything I have written was only a response to whatever you have said.
@moonrice555 "How have I not stayed focused?" You do it every time you post with the name "moonrice555", lol. Naw jdk, every OTHER time. lol Yes you responded but not always on topic and where you effectively communicated your point and how it it relates.
@RedSkullthagreat "In other words blk kids know that the parents are to be taken seriously & not for a joke. " Right---WHEN the parents are around. When the parents are gone, they act a fool just like everyone else's kids. So what the hell good does it do to have your kids take you serious just when you're around? I don't want Jekyll and Hyde behavior out of my kid. Do you?
@moonrice555 Like I said, blk kids DON'T have parties in their parents home w/out their permission and trash the place. They know better. This is solid fact. Why? Bc blk kids know they will get fucked up severely.Their parents will put 700lbs of ass kicking on them.& acting a fool 1/2 the time is better than allowing them to act a fool full time.At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face. Like everybody acts 1 way when a cop is around,then another when the cop leaves(cont)
@RedSkullthagreat "blk kids DON'T have parties in their parents home w/out their permission and trash the place. They know better. This is solid fact." Who are these white kids you know who do this? And why is THAT even relevant? "At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face." Yeah, I worked with those kids. They'd spit in their teacher's face, throw things in class, basically clown all day. But, hey---as long as they respected the parents, it's all good.
@moonrice555 It's relevant by showing the different approaches to child rearing based on cultural differences. & I tell ya,I've NEVER met a kid that was afraid of his/her parents that fucked up at will outside the home.There would be some type of restraint. Oh and almost every white kid I went to school with did this kinda shit,bc their parents condone this behavior. The only way the white parents got mad is if it brought some type of public humiliation on their name.
@RedSkullthagreat "At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face." Well, that brings up a good question: if they only show respect when the parent is around---is that really respect? If my kid can only control himself when I'm in the room, I'm not doing something right.
@moonrice555 Which brings up a previous answer,just like ppl act one way around the cops,then when they leave,the ppl go right back to how they were acting b4 the cops showed up. Does that mean we should stop hiring cops? It's called a deterrent. & HELL yeah, it' respect in it's highest form. You're talking idealistically,whereas I'm speaking in realistic terms.
@RedSkullthagreat "the ppl go right back to how they were acting b4 the cops showed up." Right---some people do that. I also know plenty of people who don't hit their wives just because the cops are gone, don't throw beer bottles on the ground when the cops are gone, and don't vandalize people's cars just because no one is looking. If the only thing an ass-whipping does is make you act right when people are watching---then that's not real respect, is it?
@moonrice555 sure it is! That's about all you're gonna get outta humans! Are you serious?We humans are the most unruly,savage,dangerous bunch on the planet.We NEED law & order!!Like I told you in earlier posts,SOME ppl need different things. I personally dont count out ANY methods,sometimes you even have to switch tactics.Sometimes you have to hit'em with everything. It depends onthe situation & the kid.I guarantee,that those kids that act a fool,away from their parents,are the 1's that(cont)
@RedSkullthagreat ".I guarantee,that those kids that act a fool,away from their parents" I guarantee? See, that's what I'm talking about. You couldn't consider the possibility that you're wrong if your life depended on it. Your narcissism rivals that of Reverand Phelps.
@moonrice555 (cont) get whippings.spankings or whatever. The parents just put on a front in public,but they are lazy ass parents,in reality. This shit is sorta like a sport. you have to be in shape. Lol Ya cant "phone it in".
@moonrice555 (cont) but does that mean that Police should stop Policing? Even if you raise your kid with your beliefs then they get in trouble w/ the law. Guess what? they will be subjected to violence ANYWAY! So all you softies need to stop being hypocrites. You want violence when it suits your purposes.
@RedSkullthagreat Not a hypocrite at all. I never said I wanted violence for anyone. "You want violence when it suits your purposes." Oh, is that right, now? And when does it serve my purpose? When some guy is trying to stab me? Yeah, violence might help in that situation. You saying that situation is equal to my kid writing on my wall with eyeliner?
@RedSkullthagreat "Is he writing on a 1 of a kind painting,worth millions? If so, I'd say a ass whipping is in order." Come on, now. Surely you see the silliness in what you just wrote. A 4-year-old doesn't understand the monetary value of an object---hell most older kids don't. . If you're doing that, you're whipping him because it pissed you off---NOT because you want to teach him the value of respecting others' property.
@moonrice555 Bullshit & you know it. Pain receptors mixed with memory capacity & capabilities allow pain to be a powerful learning tool for human beings. When something happens that is traumatic & painful,you automatically store that memory in your survival subroutine. Developed by many years of evolution as a means of survival,this allows humans to learn what NOT to do,to avoid harm.I bet if you burned your hand @ a young age,on the stove,you NEVER forgot it.
me too thats exactly what i do
normasueb 1 week ago
Exactly!!! That's What's Happens When You Whoop Them... I laugh at those nanny 911 Shows they got easy lol
FreeTheMusic20 1 month ago
If I did that to my mom she would kill me than bring me back to life then kill me again.
NO WAY you slap your mom, at least not in our house.
kuroookami13 1 month ago
My mother would've destroyed me if I even thought about raising my hand towards her, and I totally agree with her. How in the hell could you possibly think about slapping your MOTHER in the face?
elunicobarca 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
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Z3koD3vo 2 months ago
oh oh i will never do it
nicoler716 2 months ago
i dont care what any of you would say, im glad the boy slapped his mom, she deserved it. and for all of you who say, you wont or didnt , im bet anything, you wished you did, dont lie people come on get real! i wished all my life i could slap my mom, but u know what i didnt, but, she dead, and i dont care, she took a lot of wrong to her grave and never ever said sorry for nothing. so, a lot of parents deserve to be slapped, so there, bite me!
alaitain 2 months ago
@alaitain Some do, however most don't. (Deserve to be hit) Jsut cause your momma may have done shit to you that doesnt mean all mamas do.
JoeyLovieLiv 1 month ago
if you all think thats its fine for a parent to slap and emotional and phycial abuse a child and get away with it, then look at the news of all the parents who kill their children, hell i would have slap her my self. reguardles if a parent slaps and hurt s a child, verberal or any way, thenthey deserve the same, so there! dont email me back and say , boo hoo boo hoo!
alaitain 2 months ago
so many people standing up for the mom, i m not, the way the mom treats her son, she needed a slap to understand how he feels . she deserved it. i wanted to slap her my self. she yells and hits her son, and she gets away with it, well good for the boy. ill stand by him, and defend him, he needs support for some one who can protect him from a female abuser.
alaitain 3 months ago
@alaitain what i want to know was this was on national tv and he is'nt in juvie for battery? we'll remember this comment when he robs you blind or hurts someone how a parent disiplines their child is no one else's bussiness.
TheTracker06 2 months ago
i agree with you!
andreynfs 3 months ago
My mom would have done the same thing if I even touched my mom. If I even talk to my mother the wrong way, I'm, sorry for the language, fucked, if I touched her, HA!! I's either be six feet under, or in a hospital.
TheCarmillaShow 4 months ago 2
I worry that my younger brothers and sisters will hit my.mama one day i have a 11 7 10 brothers and sister they are so disrespectful they curse my mom call her bitches etc she will not beat they ass cause she scared of the police and Dss idk what to do or what to say but it to the point were I dont go over to the house cause they disrespect me call me out my name I mean they are terrible its to tne point where I dont like them what can she do
MixedMami2187 4 months ago
ROFL Ritalin :D
Sparks29857 5 months ago
SHES LATINO!! Sí! Sí! Sí!
XxMeowthxX 5 months ago
my momma is like ur mom she would never allow me to raise my hand at her omg my momma crazy
LuckyBitch562 5 months ago
kevin hart said tht Lol
CraftastCutie 5 months ago
and with my mom..well let's just say i NEVER had the audasity to go toe to toe with the head woman of the house lol. it is rediculous! kids have a place. even when i am grown i STILL respect my mom and dad smh..what kinda world we live in today?
bigkt072 5 months ago 2
i so agree with you. and i know i am not the only one here to say this but you are a very very nice looking WOMAN! lol and then you are from new york! *applause*.
bigkt072 5 months ago
if i had hit my mom like that i been laying in a hospital bed with a belt strap in my hand and a shoe up my a**.
williambrown007 5 months ago 2
I V Ritalin. LOL!
EastCoastChameleon 5 months ago
You are so right. And so fine!
Dee9158 5 months ago
now lets not discriminate against white people here :) I come from a russian family and i got disciplined pretty damn well when i was younger. I got spanked, my dad once showed me the belt and told me if I go out of line again (I dont remember what I did, but must've been really bad) then that will be my punishment. its not the parenting that stumps american families, its the schooling. kids are turned against their parents at school. thats the scariest part
russolnishko 5 months ago
tried to call my mother a bully one time, she threw a 5liter bottle in my face that flew me off the chair, then kicked me out the house.
black parents go too far, however some of these euro-american parents are SOFT
DoMiNaTeOLDErWoMeN 6 months ago
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DoMiNaTeOLDErWoMeN 6 months ago
i agree
1panesso 6 months ago
haha if i even thought of saying "i hate you!!!" or "shut up" to my mom she would hit me so hard id wake up in next week
flerfymcflerf098 6 months ago 2
i yell at my mom but i would never hit her!
1788angel 7 months ago
My head would have been knocked off my shoulders if I rolled my eyes at my mom. Heck, she cold-clocked me when I was 16 and it never crossed my mind to HIT her. This kid has clean lost his mind and she lets him act like that. aaaand DR PHIL made her APOLOGIZE!! WHAT?! No. Way. Pack your bags, boy. You are moving out. Let Dr. KnowBetter have him.
andersen6422 7 months ago 2
@andersen6422 Exactly! My mother would have bitch slapped every tooth out of my head! I remember when I turned 14 she showed me the flat of her hand and said "You are no longer getting this." She made a fist at me and said, "This is what you get from now on." God help us all if that fat kid becomes president. :-\
ShellRage 6 months ago 4
In case of any confusion... I am not against using some amount of violence towards a child in an emergency, or in some form of immediate self-defense. However, I am against torture - even mild forms of torture. It is not okay, under any circumstance, for someone in power to formally and intentionally torture a subordinate as a "punishment" or a legal sentence etc.
iamheiam 7 months ago
My mom used to work as a therapist at Juvenile Hall, so no one in the house messes with her, not even my dad who's in the Navy :)
TheSouthernAndrew 8 months ago
@DoctorDoomsday1 im actually not a parent. im a son who respects his parents you have issues kid you need help
symphoniestwist805 8 months ago
@DoctorDoomsday1 your a piece of shit if your tryna say that mothers are not supposed to be in control.that is not being a warrior you obviously have problems i advise to speak therapy you warrior lol
symphoniestwist805 8 months ago
true dat lady if I would have done that to my mom I would have gotten the belt till I moved out.
xBlAcKxBlOoDx69 8 months ago
We aren't born angry in this world. There are two sides to that story and what the Dr. Phil show doesn't show is the true story. All of us including Dr. Phil don't live with those people. The mother did a nice "acting" job and maybe Oscar worthy too. I didn't feel comfortable about the slapping part, but he is that way because of his mother. It is how we are raised that show's how we behave. Something is off about that mother.
KBeOKEH 8 months ago
i love how only black people review that video!
XD
shakenmikeg14 9 months ago 26
@shakenmikeg14 - Not true. Most african-american people may have made video responses but that may be due to the fact we're STUMPED that some kid even had the cajones to talk to her like that, needless to say even THINK of slapping his mother. Most of us don't get away with "I HATE you, Mom!" or "Stay out of my life!!!" or even sucking teeth or rolling eyes.....
SMC799 9 months ago 17
@SMC799 Honestly: During my child hood and teen years I wanted to beat the shit out of my mom on more than one occasion, never did though. But I was disciplined, I was corrected, usually with a spanking, and know respect. I still dislike my mother and come close to punching her today, because of how she treated me as a child. She was rude, insufferable, she wouldn't punish me normally, shed go overboard. For example: Dad would ground for one week, she would ground for a month.
DevilWithoutaCuase 8 months ago
I got hit with a belt
breeeegs 7 months ago 2
@SMC799 - I feel'ya and you really can throw Jews into that mix too. Our mamas will straight smack the taste outta your mouth.
bigtexansfan 7 months ago 3
@shakenmikeg14 Because white ppl are a joke when it comes to disciplining children, u hardly see black kids on those shows like Nanny 911!
TheUltimatesonicfan1 8 months ago
@shakenmikeg14 I am white
jsf525 8 months ago
@jsf525 ok, you didnt review this!
shakenmikeg14 8 months ago
i love you momand i no even know her i bet you get raise by a good women , because the way u spress u self
1980monchis 9 months ago
Eddie murphy said it i beleive....he did it in a skit....he went into his room crying and was saying mean shit to his mom xD like everyother little kid lol.
"oh good please kill her kill herr pleaseee umfffofffff" xD
animemaste 9 months ago
DAMN YOU ARE PRETTY AS HELL!!!!!!
mickhellion85 9 months ago
are you single?hahaha jk i agree tho
MixTureVidz08 10 months ago
assuming all who were sticking up for the kid never saw the whole episode and not just the clip of the slap?Yeah mom wasnt in her right mind. was dealing with the loss of her other child but still is no excuse to neglect your child mentally and emotionally.turned out lil dude made up the abuse story. in the episode he was trying to manipulate the situations to benefit him. so yeah while a good old fashioned down home asswhippin isnt always the answer, it just may help for this child and mother.
tashaan21 10 months ago
@tashaan21
hahaha! that little son of a......yeah i was sticking up for him. now i want to slap him. lol. thanks for the info. i saw a few sections of the show but not the whole segment.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
1) You have an unbelievably steady hand!
2) I totally agree with you! I'm 15 and if I dared to even raise my hand, not even hit her, raise my hand she would snap my fingers off! I'm telling you I would have no fingers left!
That kid has got some nerve!
flowerbaby06 10 months ago
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Vahriotee 10 months ago
My mom would have broken my hand or put me in a coma just like you said. I would never do that to my mother I love her too much.
Queenofawesome25 10 months ago
I.V. bag as a backpack LOL hahahahhaha!!!
xiongrl 10 months ago 5
THANK YOU so much for bringing up the whole" well there just 1, 2 ,3 years old ect." because my own mother uses that to excuse my baby sisters bad behavior and it needs to stop. every child out there needs to obey and respect their elders whether they are 3 or 30 years old
bedshock589 10 months ago
You obviously havent read pshycologi or pedagogic, get educated. this kid obviously is sociapat as soon as he discuss the matters hes egocentric usefeelings towards oouthers. etc etc. obviously sociapat.
hansson2000 10 months ago
he's a prepubescent child. sociopaths aren't born; they're made. perhaps you should do a little reading.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
@defiantwon33 sociopaths made or borned the great debat different paradigms. they co-exist. i did never say anything about the boys enviroment.
hansson2000 10 months ago
ehh. i just disagree with everyone jumping on this "that kid deserves an ass whooping" bandwagon. it seems that most are using it as an excuse to proudly flaunt how tough and hardened they are because their parents used to beat them. if you had a cancer-induced fever, would you take aspirin to fight the fever, or seek medical attention for the cancer? abusive parents create social dysfunctions in their children.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
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@defiantwon33 ehh. i just disagree with everyone jumping on this "that kid deserves an ass whooping" bandwagon.= agreed
hansson2000 10 months ago
@defiantwon33 All of my brothers and sister use to get spanked, including me, when we did bad things and none of us have turned out to be psychopaths. Its called pussyfying these damn children. You get a smack on the bottom and its child abuse. Are you kidding me? If you do something wrong you deserved to be punished, its the way of life. It wasn't like she just walked up to us and started beating us because she was frustrated with her evey day life. We did bad things and we got punished.
MrsTatertots 10 months ago
@MrsTatertots
thank you. case in point.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
@defiantwon33 Case in point of what? That people who talk about how they were spanked and came out of it perfectly ok somehow proves your warped point? Gimmie a break, you're not the only one who can voice your opinion. Spanking is not abuse. Lemmie tell you, they took corpral punishment, that's beating kids, out of schools here and those kids are now so god damn out of hand. The teachers can't control them anymore. I'd rather spank my kid than have him/her turn into a self entitled little shit.
MrsTatertots 10 months ago
@MrsTatertots
i really don't even need to respond with anything: you're doing an excellent job of defeating yourself. again...thank you.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
@defiantwon33 Whatever dude. You're an idiot. The end.
MrsTatertots 10 months ago
@MrsTatertots
run along, little girl.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
i think the truth of the matter goes a little deeper than the biased portrayal that was televised. phil scratched the surface and just before it bled, he wrapped it up. did you catch that? in other words, there's something definitely wrong with this mom. maybe the bitch needs to get slapped.....or worse. a bad parent produces bad children, so when your child is acting out, how about focusing attention at the root of the problem and NOT its effects.
defiantwon33 10 months ago
Another person on youtube who has do idea why the boy did what he did, yet they voice their opinions. Amazing the amount of ignorance i watch on youtube everyday.
sartte 10 months ago
Children have hit their parent(s) before but years ago they got their ass handed to them for it. And it likely didn't happen again. This little fat bastard definitely needs his ass handed to him AND some damn medication to boot.
Like most here, if I ever hit my parents or even ACTED like I was gonna hit'em there would've been HELL-TO-PAY on my part. That's just the way it is when your that young and you live under someone else's roof.
Little bastard.
KE4RWS 10 months ago
That was Wil Sylvance who talked about how kids who go up in their rooms and feel sorry for themselves...
...and believe me, i come from a strict, West-Indian family and believe me...slapping your mom in the face is UNHEARD of in my family!
Nekosenpai24 10 months ago
im a nyc chi1d too my mom wou1d have s1apped me dwn one of those nyc b1ocks smh at parents
superior826 10 months ago
Totally agree. Children are just that.....CHILDREN. Do they deserve some measure of respect, sure....When it's earned. The boy in this instance, obviously has no real reinforcement at home. The dad is obviously not involved and he lost his sister. But his momma is the one that needs to the pacifier outta her mom and start doing her job. And By the way, "breakin off a size 9, up in her ass", GOLDEN and PRICELESS.
sgtjmb1982 10 months ago
@Pendad............Yeah........and another thing she did takes the cake, After he slaps her she called him dude, What kind of stuff is that? SHE NEEDS TO BE A MOTHER TO HIM AND NOT A DAMN FRIEND!!!!!
vampbass1 11 months ago
@MrCalifornia9 - thanks, cali!
SMC799 11 months ago 6
yes, born and raised in Bronx, NY:-)
SMC799 11 months ago 4
girl you look like halle berrry!! pretty!
dannysimion 11 months ago
It is totally the mom's fault. So, she needed that.
vampbass1 11 months ago
@vampbass1 It was the Moms fault. She was a barron, nasty, horrid woman. Since her daughter died she became utterly joyless manic depressive. Her life was pathetic.
Pentdad 11 months ago
If your mom would have put u in a coma for 20 years ... then that would be beyond child abuse
oboshredder2 11 months ago
Fact is, yeah, it sucks to see a kid get whupped. But you know what? You whup them and you do more than discipline them; You give them a fear and respect for authority. If more kids these days had that, the folks in AZ wouldn't have gotten shot up. Cause the guys mom woulda made sure her foot was buried a few feet up in there before he even thought about going out with a gun a crazy ideas.
Jehosh27 11 months ago
AMEN :D
3lilcutties 1 year ago
yes exactly i thought so to i was thinking, come on the mother must have done something to him to make him be that way
REIGNTERROR88 1 year ago
Very well said. I agree 100% !!!!
Landotter1 1 year ago
my mom would actually kill me...
MadisonNicole001 1 year ago
the little kid is really just trying to express his frustrations, .... yeah, it did get out of control, but he clearly needs some therapy and his mother needs better training and help with parenting skills. This young boy also needs a stable MALE figure in his life. People should stop trying to write him off and act like if he got some kind of pathetic beating that he would suddenly become a better kid. (he even said he needs an adult to listen). Beating him will make him a Jeff Dahlmers
shieldsff 1 year ago
yeah go rip on the kid for standing up for his oppinnion....why keep it to yourself when they wont do it?who the heck are they?...we are all humans we are all EQUAL...and you call yourselves democrates...fucken commies...
gheale 1 year ago
if i had ever slapped my mother when i was a kid i would have no testicles, id be headless, my tongue would have been ripped out and shoved up my own ass and then shed have probably set me on fire skewered in the front yard like vlad the impaler used to do.
that woman, on live tv or not, should have boot kicked that disrespectful little fat fuck straight in the head.
also, that kid DOESNT need medication. he needs a swift punch in the fucking face.
guitarslinger55 1 year ago
that kid is evil
CityStroke 1 year ago
How would you feel, if you mother didn't pay you attention. He only wants attention. That's how kids go bad, from neglect. I have a 9 year old and will put her in check when needed, but she knows I am 2nd in charge, because GOD is 1st in this HOUSE!
dfwest1969 1 year ago
AAAAMEEENN!!!
whitneyandmariahfan4 1 year ago
ya good point dont even slap ur mom she could have had an abortion
MrBananaperson 1 year ago
Amen I am with you. That is exactly what would have happend I would have woke up 20 years later wondering what the fuck happend.
princessangela79 1 year ago
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the little kid is really just trying to express his frustrations, .... yeah, it did get out of control, but he clearly needs some therapy and his mother needs better training and help with parenting skills. This young boy also needs a stable MALE figure in his life. People should stop trying to write him off and act like if he got some kind of pathetic beating that he would suddenly become a better kid. (he even said he needs an adult to listen). Beating him will make him a Jeff Dahlmers
shieldsff 1 year ago
no it would do no good for the mother to hit or beat him; that little kid is in serious need of a strong father figure who will train and discipline him. He needs FATHER.
shieldsff 1 year ago
i agree 100%. if i so much as raise my voice, i get slapped, so i keep it to myself. tht kid needs a good ass whoopin', and damn quick.
gothemilyflagg 1 year ago
i have the utmost sympathy for this CHILD. im not stupid when i said this kid may need meds. u are stupid who say that he needs to be beat. did anyone else notice the slight flinch after he struck his mother? helllooo?? he is already getting beat! he was ready for that smack right back! that is sad. i was disciplined with pinches ,upside the heads ,and the one whooping i remember. but there was also love.lots of it. maybe thats y i will never treat my parents that way, not becuz i fear them
umthalatha 1 year ago
this child is the perfect example that words alone cannot discipline a child. BELT is the only answer in this case and not some therapy, medicine or any other bullshit
darkapaul 1 year ago
im surprised at the amount of parents or parents to be that want to beat the shit of their children. pity
MrVanillaVodka 1 year ago
dont blame the kid - the mother was patheitc just like all white mothers
teewoods 1 year ago
That fast kid has some SERIOUS EMOTIONAL ISSUES! all that whimpiy crying about every little thing. He's hurting about something. he needs counseling AWAY from his mom. let him move away from her fior a while. He should like that, he hates her anyway. let him see if it's better while he's getting the Help he really needs. Mom needs to let him go before she ends up in jail because of him!
LadyShyye 1 year ago
I still get ass whippings by my mother, and im 26 years old
CyclopsSerpent1 1 year ago
@CyclopsSerpent1 Well, that sounds like a treat.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@ReeferBuddy Ummm, who are you talking too?
SMC799 1 year ago
Wow--this thing is actually posting my comments. People basically spank because they want to. If you tell someone there's a ton of research showing there are better ways, they say "I don't care about research, what a load of crap." But if someone has a serious disease and you say, "The research shows that this pill gives you the highest chances of living" then they say "Give me THAT pill."
moonrice555 1 year ago
@WiseLady7 @WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
alexusgs326 1 year ago
Your crazy theres a difference between showing whos boss and beating the crap out of your child.
tom4705 1 year ago
@ReeferBuddy Look you stupid cracker. the black value system is the best! you fucking crackers kill your parents and beat them. you can say what you want about blacks but are kids never talk back and respect there parents. not drop dead, I see you spaming vids like this.
mrwhatever213 1 year ago
@mrwhatever213 Actually, the black way and the white way is pretty bad, for the most part. Whites are too lenient, blacks too strict. What most people don't realize is that you can be strict without hitting your kids. My brother never hits his kids, and his kids don't act a fool. My feeling is that most blacks wouldn't speak out against their parents if you paid them. And I worked at an all-black day-care, so you can save that nonsense about how perfectly black kids behave.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 There was nothing wrong with my comments. Mine said nothing about slapping a child, mine did say that I would never have treated my own mother this way but not out of fear, out of respect. There is clearly something wrong with the boy,and it since the mother obviously can not handle him, then the men in his community, school or church need to step and say, "This is not how a man behaves."
sandra44035 1 year ago
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@sandra44035 What makes you think the comment was directed at you? 95 percent of the people on here are saying the same crap---"Beat him".
moonrice555 1 year ago
@sandra44035 But I still disagree with the men in his life taking over for the mother. Play a role, maybe. But they can't be there all the time. He will still come home to the same messed-up household every day. She needs to learn some skills, and if that takes counseling or parenting classes, she needs to do that.
moonrice555 1 year ago
mmmmhhhmmm
catsfreakmeout 1 year ago
oh and im 28. and married. and she will still do it. in public or not. i respect my mother and elders.
zjokkerjesse 1 year ago
if i ever even lifted a hand towards her, even if to yawn, my hand would have been missing before i even realize im on the ground beaten to a bloody pulp. i mean my can be facing the other direction, it doesnt matter. she will WHOOP my behind til i learn never to do that again.
zjokkerjesse 1 year ago
My mother would have put me in a coma if I hit her like that! It's the mother's fault for not disciplining her son. Can you imagine what he's going to be like when he gets older? If the mother doesn't get her son help and discipline him when she should NOW, he's gonna grow up whoop her ass!
WiseLady7 1 year ago 13
@WiseLady7 : I hear you, girl! Even worst, he's a woman abuser in the making! (problem with potential relationships with women).
SMC799 1 year ago 13
@SMC799 Very true! I can see him now beating the hell out of dozens of women!
WiseLady7 1 year ago
@SMC799 yup, yup, I'da just woke up in my Reebok pumps and Hypercolor shirt saying "whaaaa...wha happened?"
1982Moonbird 11 months ago
@WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
alexusgs326 1 year ago
@WiseLady7 @WiseLady7 -Girl a coma? My ass would've been 6 feet under! First of all I would NEVER have the audacity to even talk back!!!! Second of all how dare Dr. Phil have the mother apologize to the son! She should never have let the situation get that bad. HE NEEDS AN ASS WHOOPING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My baby is 2 and loved to death. But that boy knows better than to even say "No Mama". It starts young. I got disciplined and am THANKFUL! The world needs more stern BUT loving parents!
alexusgs326 1 year ago
yes, yes, blah blah blah. we all remember how we were kept in line and that crosses all cultures and races. but the question here is what now? what does the kid need now? its not a beating. he needs medication to control his rage and to keep him focused. he couldnt even focus on the question his mom gave him after the confrontation. i wanna watch the whole episode
umthalatha 1 year ago
@umthalatha He needs his ass beat! fuck medication are you stupid? thats what there telling you so the health care industry can get paid.
mrwhatever213 1 year ago
@mrwhatever213 Any black person who fell for this baloney should be ashamed. Seriously. Blacks always say that the media tricks the white man into seeing blacks as thieves, rapists, drug-heads---and look at all these blacks who just got manipulated by that same media! People, come on. That slap was done for shock-value, it was barely a slap. The kid acted this way BECAUSE he was on tv. Sensationalistic trap, and you people just walked right in. Look before you leap.
moonrice555 1 year ago
the boy is a Sociopath
lnj0330 1 year ago
He doesn't need ridelin. He needs a serious ass-whooping.
RCROX5000 1 year ago
What could have been worse is if the kid punched his mom in the face.
TheIm2BiZ11 1 year ago
If I raised my voice or even a hand at my mother my dad will be on my ass so quick.
IkilledColMustard 1 year ago
I would have tore his ass up. He's a little cuss! Well said sweets!
dockreth 1 year ago
Tell it like it is!
TheKnightWolf 1 year ago
This chick is bad.... Can you say MILF!?
Anyway.... I disagree, I think that Nanny 911's techniques are very efficient. Just looking at the show you can see that you don't necessarily have to be physical to discipline your child to get them to behave properly. However, since you appear to be of black descendants, it is practically a genetic embedment for you to have a mentality like "Wow, if emotional worked well, than physical much work even better."
xvlGRLMGRLNlvx 1 year ago
i am black and i don't believe in hitting children for ANY reason. Just saying...
KurosakiLuvar01 1 year ago
@xvlGRLMGRLNlvx Damn, it's like I keep running across your dumb ass,living in a bubble comments. The 'White" way doesn't work at all,as you have to bribe the shit outta your child,and the truth is out. The same parents usually resort back to whipping that ass. You need to get over your deep seeded resentment for blk ppl, & your obvious need to feel superior to another race.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat The "white" way? Oh, okay---so there's only 2 methods: let them walk over you or beat the shit out of them? Why do you people think like this? There is a ton of alternatives, but people don't want to get into that.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Blk ppl just dont "beat the shit outta them" we have "alternatives" but they are usually dealt in a harsher fashion. In other words blk kids know that the parents are to be taken seriously & not for a joke. Far less blk kids have parties in their parents houses & tear them up then white kids. As for your "you ppl" comment,this further illustrates your mind state. Why do YOU ppl think like this?
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat And the fact that you automatically took my "you people" comment as one directed at a certain race shows YOUR state of mind. Anyone who thinks that the phrase "you people" has a racial connotation isn't using their head very well. When I wrote "Why do you people think like this?", I am directing at it all the people (98 percent) who left comments thinking there are only 2 options to parenting: beat them or let them run wild.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 I didn't say how I "took" that comment, YOU jumped the gun on that one. You ASSumed I meant race. But all I alluded to was your comment itself and your denoting division(visa vi quote),so get it right.The truth is you dont know WHAT ppl meant by their expressions. Besides who died and made you he parenting expert? Different methods work for different kids. Some need to be beat he shit out of & some need hugs, and everything in between.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "Besides who died and made you he parenting expert?" Judging from the brain-dead comments I'm reading on here, I'm qualified to write a book. Some need the shit beat out of them? Based on what? The fact that people are too committed to the archaic ways to try anything else? There's no excuse for that. People think you have to hit them because they never tried anything else.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 It sounds like you need to have kids b4 you speak on this topic. You sound like you have ZERO experience with kids. Some kids need the shit beat out of them based on real life experience, that's what. Again,the police have what? Feathers? Or do they have WEAPONS? Hmmmm...
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
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@RedSkullthagreat "It sounds like you need to have kids b4 you speak on this topic. " Yeah, I was wondering when you would whip out that old card. "You sound like you have ZERO experience with kids." You mean the 15 years I have? That's a little more than zero. My brother has two kids and he doesn't spank them--I guess he has ZERO experience, too.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Yeah,it's like I thought, you have LIMITED experience with kids in some type of controlled setting,being that they aren't YOUR kids. So your liability & responsibilities are limited as well. Ok,granted your experience is more than "zero". I'd say 15%,if I had to put a # on it.I love how some ppl resort to categorizing every thing they either dont understand,or fear & give it some "name of the moment".Like "playing the race(card) or the such & such 'old card.Good4 yur brother. :-)
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "Yeah,it's like I thought, you have LIMITED experience with kids in some type of controlled setting" It's irrelevant. My answer would not have mattered---if I had said I had 2 kids, you would have found a retort, anyway. "Well, that's just 2 kids" or "You haven't been a parent very long" or something else. You're a dominant person who would saw off their own foot before even considering you could be wrong about something.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "Like "playing the race(card) or the such & such 'old card." Hey, I wasn't wrong to do it. Whenever I have this discussion with anyone else, it gets to that point sooner or later: "You don't have kids, you don't get it." But, like I said, it wouldn't matter. There would be a reply, anyway. "Well, you got lucky, your kid is good." or something.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 & so?If it rings true then plan on hearing it a lot.That's how life goes,not how you WANT it to go.See you have to stay on focus in this conversation. We are talking about bad ass kids that fuck up to the point were they have a whipping coming.Not anything else.If you have to resort to extremes,then you already lost the argument. Truth is simple.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "Truth is simple." Actually, it's subjective. To think there is a singular truth---and that you're the sole possessor of that---I mean, come on And I explained below why I brought up an extreme
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Yes, i agree it is subjective....to a point.In your given circumstances,your truth,becomes mine & vice versa.Your gender ,for example is your truth as well as THE TRUTH. If I cloned myself into you,then your truth becomes mine.How that applies to the topic @ hand is that kids that are a certain type are responsive to certain stimuli.Some are self disciplined while others are the polar opposite.In each circumstance there is an "most effective method".
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "In each circumstance there is an "most effective method"." And I would say that a person only THINKS the certain child needs that sort of discipline. There could be a lot of factors not considered. Is the child seeking out attention? Is he responding to a chaotic home environment? There could be a lot of reasons the other methods other than spanking aren't working with him.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "See you have to stay on focus in this conversation. " Okay, now you're just losing touch with reality. How have I not stayed focused? Anything I have written was only a response to whatever you have said.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 "How have I not stayed focused?" You do it every time you post with the name "moonrice555", lol. Naw jdk, every OTHER time. lol Yes you responded but not always on topic and where you effectively communicated your point and how it it relates.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat ???
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 dont worry about it... 6_6
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "In other words blk kids know that the parents are to be taken seriously & not for a joke. " Right---WHEN the parents are around. When the parents are gone, they act a fool just like everyone else's kids. So what the hell good does it do to have your kids take you serious just when you're around? I don't want Jekyll and Hyde behavior out of my kid. Do you?
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Like I said, blk kids DON'T have parties in their parents home w/out their permission and trash the place. They know better. This is solid fact. Why? Bc blk kids know they will get fucked up severely.Their parents will put 700lbs of ass kicking on them.& acting a fool 1/2 the time is better than allowing them to act a fool full time.At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face. Like everybody acts 1 way when a cop is around,then another when the cop leaves(cont)
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "blk kids DON'T have parties in their parents home w/out their permission and trash the place. They know better. This is solid fact." Who are these white kids you know who do this? And why is THAT even relevant? "At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face." Yeah, I worked with those kids. They'd spit in their teacher's face, throw things in class, basically clown all day. But, hey---as long as they respected the parents, it's all good.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 It's relevant by showing the different approaches to child rearing based on cultural differences. & I tell ya,I've NEVER met a kid that was afraid of his/her parents that fucked up at will outside the home.There would be some type of restraint. Oh and almost every white kid I went to school with did this kinda shit,bc their parents condone this behavior. The only way the white parents got mad is if it brought some type of public humiliation on their name.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "At the very least a child should show respect to the parents face." Well, that brings up a good question: if they only show respect when the parent is around---is that really respect? If my kid can only control himself when I'm in the room, I'm not doing something right.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Which brings up a previous answer,just like ppl act one way around the cops,then when they leave,the ppl go right back to how they were acting b4 the cops showed up. Does that mean we should stop hiring cops? It's called a deterrent. & HELL yeah, it' respect in it's highest form. You're talking idealistically,whereas I'm speaking in realistic terms.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat "the ppl go right back to how they were acting b4 the cops showed up." Right---some people do that. I also know plenty of people who don't hit their wives just because the cops are gone, don't throw beer bottles on the ground when the cops are gone, and don't vandalize people's cars just because no one is looking. If the only thing an ass-whipping does is make you act right when people are watching---then that's not real respect, is it?
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 sure it is! That's about all you're gonna get outta humans! Are you serious?We humans are the most unruly,savage,dangerous bunch on the planet.We NEED law & order!!Like I told you in earlier posts,SOME ppl need different things. I personally dont count out ANY methods,sometimes you even have to switch tactics.Sometimes you have to hit'em with everything. It depends onthe situation & the kid.I guarantee,that those kids that act a fool,away from their parents,are the 1's that(cont)
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat ".I guarantee,that those kids that act a fool,away from their parents" I guarantee? See, that's what I'm talking about. You couldn't consider the possibility that you're wrong if your life depended on it. Your narcissism rivals that of Reverand Phelps.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 (cont) get whippings.spankings or whatever. The parents just put on a front in public,but they are lazy ass parents,in reality. This shit is sorta like a sport. you have to be in shape. Lol Ya cant "phone it in".
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@moonrice555 (cont) but does that mean that Police should stop Policing? Even if you raise your kid with your beliefs then they get in trouble w/ the law. Guess what? they will be subjected to violence ANYWAY! So all you softies need to stop being hypocrites. You want violence when it suits your purposes.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
@RedSkullthagreat Not a hypocrite at all. I never said I wanted violence for anyone. "You want violence when it suits your purposes." Oh, is that right, now? And when does it serve my purpose? When some guy is trying to stab me? Yeah, violence might help in that situation. You saying that situation is equal to my kid writing on my wall with eyeliner?
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Depends. Is he writing on a 1 of a kind painting,worth millions? If so, I'd say a ass whipping is in order.
RedSkullthagreat 1 year ago
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@RedSkullthagreat "Is he writing on a 1 of a kind painting,worth millions? If so, I'd say a ass whipping is in order." Come on, now. Surely you see the silliness in what you just wrote. A 4-year-old doesn't understand the monetary value of an object---hell most older kids don't. . If you're doing that, you're whipping him because it pissed you off---NOT because you want to teach him the value of respecting others' property.
moonrice555 1 year ago
@moonrice555 Bullshit & you know it. Pain receptors mixed with memory capacity & capabilities allow pain to be a powerful learning tool for human beings. When something happens that is traumatic & painful,you automatically store that memory in your survival subroutine. Developed by many years of evolution as a means of survival,this allows humans to learn what NOT to do,to avoid harm.I bet if you burned your hand @ a young age,on the stove,you NEVER forgot it.