Pacific University Open Mic -- "Sexual Healing"

[Deathfairy1992]

even tho i don't believe in god (no hate here just a different belief) but i just thought this was so awesome and for once you showed what i thought god was like, not judgmental.

[MrHRDGAMER]

Damn

[JacobBlackIsMyMaster]

@Billyann7 What does that have to do with anything?

[Stellar129]

thank you for this. it actually made me cry.

[lovedancelivebig]

I'm 18 and just gave birth to my first son 3 months ago, you are amazingly gracious in delivering this message and I'm so humbled by what you have to say. I have been so far from God lately and I want to thank you for showing me the way back..keep speaking the truth...3 God Bless

[Shivelybanetek]

I watched your latest video and it hit home. Thanks a lot god bless you

[Gabbimusic]

this is amazing. just what I needed to see recently

[Ambrotos22]

Lecrae quote!! haha

[SunnySunKansas]

I like your video so much. i saw several . all are good videos. keep up your good work.

[MyPlaylist1991]

i love it...it puts a smile on my face ...this is what is on my husband list.....

[kostova13]

marry me...

[TheVYB3Generation]

Your videos are awesome man. 8)

[kaybaybayyy3]

im just throwing this out there...i know you didnt mean offense to it, but when you said "i didnt have a baby, thankfully". kinda rude. haha. dont get me wrong, i love this video and everything it entails! but i was once that girl "playing christian", and DID end up pregnant. the thought of abortion crossed my mind, seeing as i could never raise a baby when i was only 18. god whispered to me "give this baby a chance". and i listened. to this day, i have the most wonderful 2-year old daughter!

[Eaglewing17]

@kaybaybayyy3 well i think he just meant he was young and didn't want to have to take care of a baby at the time.

[Humannature18]

Some people just don't understand the true meaning of sexual desires. Yes, it is human nature. God intended for it to be that way, but He doesn't want us to be deceived by it. He wants us to have self-control. The majority of this poem is preventing ourselves from unnecessary heartbreak. This man is simply speaking the TRUTH. Besides, you can't argue with the Bible (:

[BJackie101]

This is amazing :) I watched this and the new one like 10 times...... This is something really special and this is engraved in my heart and brain

[TamiTamira]

Wow!!!!!! This was amazing! I am so glad I was able to watch this! It is so awesome to see a man actually hold out until marriage and to know there are men out here who actually respect women! I Thank God for your being an example! This is exactly what I needed to see during this journey I'm on as a born-again Christian.... Very inspiring and uplifting...

[londonmaddie15]

"because if you don't respect her when she says 'NO', you certainly don't love her.

so start staring at her heart, and stop studying her booty or maybe invest the same amount of time in her then you do on call of duty" this guy speaks the truth..

[vanillastien]

I feel sorry for the poor bastard who had to go up after him. D:

[haylee1021]

Wow.. you are truly amazing for doing this. Whoever gets the privilege of being your wife in the future is very, very lucky. :)

[ScudRunnR]

I get chills. This is heavy.

[101charmed]

You seriously have such a gift! Once again, thank you for such amazing words! I really wish more guys would think like you do, it's so hard to find someone willing to commit themselves on the level you have. God meant sex for marriage, it means nothing if its just given to anyone. What ever girl gets you is very lucky.

[DanielDickeyDotCom]

Dope poem. I'll play it to my girlfriend after we have sex.

[KaizLover]

:D this made me smile :) lol much love brotha good 2 know there r guyz who know wt time it is

[xcheynax]

Amazing!!

[cara751]

Oustanding! Well done!

[lamppost618]

Preeeeach!

[shanming716]

@CornelloMitchell It wouldn't let me post where u actually posted ur question. But God does not give you those desires. Just like God does not cause lust between a man and a woman. I'm not looking down on you because I had issues with lust before and even after I was saved. But as a follower of Christ I believe those desires come from Satan and you can choose to give in or you can choose to resist. No hatred. Jesus loves you whether you love Him or not.

[ThatsRadicool]

@shanming716 those desires come from our sinful human nature.. not from satan, nor god.

[thekillerghost123]

@ThatsRadicool So it's sinful too naturally desire to procreate wow that's some real dumb ass christian logic

[Eaglewing17]

@thekillerghost123 No, I'm afraid you have been mislead. The desire of sex is not sinful, it is natural. We have no control over that. But we are held accountable on how we decide to act on those desires.

[westexsun]

God has given you the gift to reach the young people of the world. I am going to show this to my oldest 3 grandchildren reaching their adolescent years. I only wish I would have understood this when I was younger. May God continue to work in you so that you can reach all the precious children of the world. I am a 48 year old grandmother that is just now understanding the word in it's true light.

[Ayeayecaptain1]

@PrevailingForce bro, preach it !

[Ayeayecaptain1]

The female scream after 3:35 when he tells them to invest more time in her then I'm call of duty:) Preach it !

[007cjo]

I wish I was there in Forest Grove when you performed this! I grew up there and wish I had heard this a long time ago... all of your videos are amazing and I want everyone to hear the word!

[ChesslieDanielle]

This is honestly amazing :) Great Job!

[CelciuzX]

I'm more amazed at your memory.

[Billyann7]

What do you think about homosexuality?

[SkullJoke90]

@Billyann7 he's obsessively religious...go figure.

[fixitluis]

he should hold hands with drake for trying to tell all these girls things they want to hear but who knows if he delivers

[allisonconehead]

im atheist, i dont care that he mentions the christian stuff. when he said "jesus" and "god" i just kept an opened mind because his message applies to everyone, with or without christian faith. to never find it too late to have forgive yourself and "cleanse" yourself on your OWN time, not just on a scheduled Sunday ceremony, not just because you have to. thats what everyone needs to learn, regardless of religion and its little pinpointed rules

[PrevailingForce]

You guys praise him, but you could be this too open your heart and let Jesus through. He is one normal man who believes and can see, now you do the same and let others be. Who will ridicule the love of a man, when accepting is easy and they know they can. Be like Jeff and spread pure love, though nothing is perfect but Heaven above

[crazyfashiondoll]

it's interesting to hear the audiences reaction? was this a church/or christian group? or was it just the general public?

[NuevosHorizontesHOY]

@crazyfashiondoll it's an open mic night at his secular university...

[BigD71889]

@crazyfashiondoll It was at pacific university

[JIYkp]

You are awesome. Seriously, you put so much of what I believe into beautiful words. I hope more people share this and get to hear it.

[enciel01]

Nice verse from Lecrae!

[CeciSparkle2219]

A man who respects a woman for who she is. I'm happy. :)

[murdan13]

was this performed in front people who aren't Christians too?

[hermanthehermitcrab1]

you go Jeff :)

[MissJaydee232]

I LOVE this. I lead an FCA (Fellowship of Christian Athletes) group at my high school. I'm going to show this to the group. You are the real definition of a man. You are a true follower of Jesus and I admire you for that. I believe Jesus is using you as a messenger to young men all over the country that sex is meant to be special and with the person you are married to. This video means so much to many people and it gives women hope that there are men who really do care and respect them.

[thedudeiscj]

I hope he realizes his words don't carry any weight with non-believers such as myself. I don't say that sarcastically, I just hope he realizes, this issue can change between different views and his logic is in no way undeniable. It might be for a religious person...

[BigD71889]

@thedudeiscj Regardless of how you feel or dont believe. Someones Heart was changed that night, as they were introduced to Jesus for the first time. Like it or not.

[Djratfuki]

Holy shit just realized the amount of religous zealots in the comments. U guys r really suffocating some times with the Jesus this nd that all the f'in time! Just b a moral person nd do wat Jesus wud do but dnt get all fukn Ned Flanders on me with that relationship with Jesus bullshit!

[BigD71889]

@Djratfuki IF there is not God, why be moral? If being tru to thyself is the only creed for manking, why should I live with any tipe of moral standards and whose do I follow?

[Humannature18]

@Djratfuki You just contradicted yourself.

[Djratfuki]

Dnt make this about religion guys. It's just all around effective and gets the message across but dnt get a fat Jesus boner! The main thing is we need to start realizing wen there is a real women in front of us nd not think with our dicks guys.

[Djratfuki]

The part about call of duty is all me!! Haha it's my downfall! Fuck u Robert bowling! I lost a great women because of u! Lol

[MsNinjagreen]

This is the most inspiring thing I've ever heard. It really made me open my eyes. As a teenager you get put under a lot of pressure. Sometimes you get tempted but now that I heard this,, all of it is so true. Thank you do much for this I can't wait to show my friends this is incredible. We really need more people like you in this community and in this world!! Thank you do much for this it's amazing. This really made me realize that I need to get closer to Jesus. Once again Thank you!-3

[whenhecallsmekitten]

Friggin incredible

[habby1622]

I am 17 and a senior in high school, if people at my school would listen to you, everything would be a 4832904 times better. thank you. thank you so very much for being willing to speak out and speak up for Jesus. It's simply amazing, there aren't words to describe how much i love this!

[1lovecamedown]

Love this.. This video is soooo good.... Loved the real video to.. Great job. 

[BreannaLeigh14]

That is an AMAZING video dude i showed it to my youth pastor and now every wednesday night we show one of your videos we started with this one. Keep going doing ur stuff!!

[lifeloveglitter]

Rappers can rap about sex and drugs for a bout 3 minutes .

He who can rhyme about Jesus for 6 minutes ,

Talent .

[WriterAmI]

Amazing! I love this! I wish more guys could think this way!

[alex4rabbit]

this is brilliant! smart, and true, thank u

[ajohn287]

I hear all the ladies cheering when he mentions spending more time with them instead of Call of Duty.. nice haha

[mariastromstad]

@addushbey well I agree with him and think there is a connection because when someone rapes another person it's usually because they want pleasure/sex that desire leads someone to rape, they become selfish and centered with there own desire and dont realize how much damage it can cause the other person, especially girls...it's destroys her, makes her feel dirty, used and worthless but to Jesus she is perfect no matter what she us beautiful to his eyes.

[SuperTay13]

This is amazing it gave me chills!!!!!

[TNGswagTNG]

Yo you are awesome i love this, i posted this on facebook and like 7 people reposted this, you're so real and i look up too you so much man God Bless!

[missprincess518]

oh my gosh. bless your heart <3 you are my God given hero :)

[Iwannalaughforever]

Thank you for this, its so refreshing that there are still people and men in this world like you. Keep opening eyes to the true intentions of God, no religion just Jesus <3

[addushbey]

I like the poem but i'm a bit disturbed by the connection you draw between sex and rape

[Lillyek]

This is just what I needed. Thank you. 

[cmgawthorp93]

Do you know how many women you just made fall in love with you, Christian or not? You have guts dude and this is amazing!

[sidekickcreative]

@cmgawthorp93 His point is for those women to fall in love with Jesus - he's the man

[cmgawthorp93]

@sidekickcreative Haha, I know that, but many men don't want to treat women in a Godly way, and this guy does.

[sidekickcreative]

@cmgawthorp93 Yeah :)

[DMoreyMusic]

I LOVE this! I'm gonna show this to my youth pastor, and see if maybe he'll show it to our youth group. There need to be more men like you in our society. You are what defines a real man, all those other guys are just little boys. Thank you SO much!

[bball1989]

@DMoreyMusic thanks! check out my youtube channel there is a more recent version of this poem where it was done by a professional video guy.

[ConvoyyHD]

@DMoreyMusic Does your pastor molest you?

[RachieRayxox]

i showed my youth group leader too :D

[ebirdyca]

Dang man that takes guts! This was incredible!

[samuelb87]

dude you got serious balls to speak the truth and open up like that in public. thank you and God bless.

[AudreyisSmiling]

thank you so much. You can reach a lot of people with your words. Ive been spreading around the remade version of this too. Seriously, this is beautiful. I was moved to be reminded again that Jesus has shown me grace even though i thought i was too unworthy of it. Thank you thank you THANK YOU for proclaiming this so publicly and being to real and honest. Its obvious that the joy of the Lord is overflowing in you! God Bless!

[catchinggdreams]

good job bro. super deep.

[rdh0924]

Starts out and everyone's talking in the background, by the end the audience is dead silent. I think that's a testament to how good the poem is.

[artshowgirl]

Wow! That's awesome. Thanks for sharing the truth in what could've been a hostile environment. You are making a difference for Christ! Bless you.

[GingerrKid]

If there were more guys like this in the world...

[judifer]

BEAUTIFUL. Jesus covers my shame, and everything in His plan for me is for GOOD, to make me more holy.

[dubscott1021]

This is truly inspirational... One of my family friends told me about this and I would love to talk and see what led you to this conclusion? We need more MEN like this, not boys... But with our society the way it is, that message can be confusing.

[rhandilynn]

I used to struggle with this, then I turned to God and I changed completely. It's amazing what God can do through you and how much he can impact your life. And it just makes you feel good. Living in the Kingdom is so awesome and amazing, I never have to worry about anything. :) And this video is a great inspiration to people that are struggling sexually. I totally recommend this!

[meglaurel1]

Respect the courage it must have taken to tackle this topic especially as a man. My prayer is that other men take this to heart. A man who lives a fearless life for God and truth is more attractive than a bunch of lame pickup lines and empty promises.

[RealTalkHawaii]

I love this. It means so much to me!!

[Fuegalicious]

Solidarity! Totally love this. Thank you for your boldness.

[TiffanyRc7]

awesome, talented, and truthful

[TiffanyRc7]

awesome, talented, and truth.

[mikgorblack]

The young men in my youth group need to see this. Thank you. Inspirational.

[AmiliaBelin]

WHY ARE YOU SO AMAZING?!

[jordongrangruth]

My dude killed it! Bethke showing HGA

[FutureNBAStar10]

I'm a 16 year old guy and I have been told I am the only guy who is actually respectful to girls. I wear a wristband that says "RESPECT" because I always try and show ALL girls the respect they deserve. If guys didn't expect so much from girls and weren't so judgemental, girls wouldn't always think badly about themselves. Guys nowadays are way too caught up in the physical attributes of girls and just want to hook up. They see girls as objects which I H.A.T.E.!

[Dezi2011]

when guys ask me why i decied to wait i am going to send this to them. this is the most amazing and inspirational thing i have ever watch. you rock!

[bethelsrock]

I'm a youth pastor doing a message tonight on sexual purity...I'll be showing this video. Thanks for the inspiration bro.

[TheYoderbomb]

I'm sharing this all through North Carolina Jeff! Thanks for being real. And speaking on behalf of godly women...WE APPRECIATE YOU! :)

[HillaryRhey]

@TheYoderbomb I dont think this is just for godly women, I am, but i feel like it applys to all women, in some way or another.

[levihambrick]

Danggg! That's tight.

[asknox1498]

The thing is that when we stop worrying about who will love our bodies and start letting Jesus love our hearts then the healing will begin, My biological father left me, I was sexually and physically abused from the time I was 5 until 14, my husband cheated on me and divorced me.... but you know what? It's all good because the good lord holds me. Thank you Jesus you are the lover of my soul and will be forever with every essence of my being. <3

[bball1989]

@asknox1498 wow. you couldnt be more right. Jesus heals and mends every broken part of us. Btw you should youtube "the truth without photoshop" by p4cm its a poem that inspired mine, but way better and deals with abuse.

[AmiliaBelin]

@asknox1498 Inspiring.

[LFGregs2]

@asknox1498 My heart goes out to you. I'm sorry you had to experience this abuse. Can I have your first name so that I can add you to my prayer list. I'm glad to see you are trusting in the Lord. Our God is so powerful that he has the power to turn a horrible situation (like yours) into His joy. Keep trusting and glorifying God b/c it is him getting you through all this. Let his name be praised! I'm praying for you sister! You are beautiful woman and a child of the KING! :)

[Tomslifesongs]

Mayte your on fire :P

[yahoozia]

Word!

Before you say "it's just sex"

Take a few secs to reflect

It's effects and consequence

On some people's confidence

Just doesn't feel as intense

As the joys of self tolerance.

[brittanydawn1985]

Very cool! Thanks for posting.

[TheCgordon]

bro! that is totally AWESOME!!!!

[LukeoXx]

That is a amazing poem man. Do you think you could give me the full thing in a private message? I would love to be able to read this to other people.

[TheYoderbomb]

@LukeoXx Yeah can I get a copy too Jeff? :)

[LukeoXx]

@TheYoderbomb I have the copy if you want it. Just PM me your email.

[shine777]

rawk on bro!!!! way to use your art for the Fame of Jesus... keep at it bro... you're a light... shine on man... shine on...

[NikkiMunden93]

This is so amazing, I go to PLU and I wasn't able to make it to open mike. I had a friend share this on Facebook and I've prob. watched this a good 6 or 7 times now. Thank you, this was really eye opening and it means a lot that you had the strength to say what so many of us don't know how to put in to words.

[coolradical2473]

Religion= bad.

[bball1989]

@coolradical2473 im right there with ya bro lol religion sucks! youtube "why i hate religion" by mark driscoll. that says it all.

[idiotwithaAK47]

@bball1989 So you hate religion? but you're a Christian aren't you..?

[MurphsTurfs]

@idiotwithaAK47 Believing in Christ is not a religion. It is a relationship. It is redemption from what we used to be.

[victoriaboles]

I'm in love! This is amazing

[Captaincams]

Nice dude!

[Yapster711]

@bball1989 Yup! Lindsy!

[tylerriddles]

Why doesnt this have millions of views??..amazing!

[dboydustin]

@tylerriddles Truth hurts lol

[Tan1723]

@tylerriddles His real video has over 700,000 views and it's going viral.

[Yapster711]

thanks for putting this up! i've watched it multiple times and really appreciate this message.

my friend that goes to WWU sent this to me and I shared it with the whole christian community here at Ithaca College in upstate NY! It's spreading all across the country, bro!

keep on listening to the Big Man & sharing your stuff!

[niailalio]

love it. wayy cool. That's tight. You should try rapping.

[Krazyk874]

AMEN! such awesome truths... thanks for sharing

[Miley123mandy123]

i love this dude! hahaha i needed to share this on facebook, this is just amazing! haha and the COD part i just loved it!

[EdwardtheV]

Broseph! Oh Em Gee! Boss.

[DaveWallenburg]

Good stuff man, shout out from Denver CO.

[madhattah43]

This is legit bro! Loved the call of duty bit!

DARTS!!!