i talked to my girlfriend about this once. it wasn't about a "crush" per se, but the need to experiment and experience different things (ie. men). talking solves so many things, because having talked to my girlfriend, i was allowed to experiment and everything went okay. it depends on who you are and who your partner is... but talking is the number one step.
@ DAVETYIOP: Has-bians have never appeared on my gaydar. Will-bians seems to be the ONLY girls that appear on my gaydar, haha, apart from some girls that really seem obvious to me.
@Heidi19689: Haha, I agree with the cat point. I have only had male cats.
Interesting topic. Lori, you're right. No one is 100% lesbian/gay or straight.
I label myself as 95% lesbian. I had some crushes on men in the past and, though I think the chance is minor, I don't want to exclude it in the future.
A funny thing is that, if I would have been a cat, I would be very straight. I always fall in love with male-cats :-)
I'm a 19yr old guy, and i came out as gay to my friends back in the beginning of high school. Maybe it was just the maturity of people, but I'm now beginning to realize that I'm "Jacksexual", cause I don't feel like I can be identified by the lables "gay, straight or bi", and I'm constantly superised by my friends lack of acceptance when i try to tell them I like girls too. It sucks that attaching a lable to yourself at one point in your life changes how people think of you forever...
@hllblly413 I've been through it. It really sucks!
In high school I came out as bi, which is a label which I think can describe me well. But damn! People kept expecting me to be with both boys and girls, whenever I had been with one, I had to be with the other immediately. Or when I made a commentary on a boy, they were like 'oh, you're straight', or on a girl 'oh, so you're actually lesbian'.
This is so true Lori, we can never really say we knooow we are this and that, even though we do say it, we can never 100% know how or where we will be in 2-5-or 10 years from stating it, so I totally agree with you on that.. We are always talking about how we don't want other people to label us, but we are pretty darn good at labeling ourselves too..
I wish everyone thought the same thing. The only guy crush I have is a 50 year old guy in Japan.
xxxXGuNzXxxx 1 year ago
Omg at @ebjim1 she also reminds you of Alice i thought i was the only one!! ahhh
Jkkatie 1 year ago
3:40 " typie typie with " LoL cute ........7:13-7:21 lolll that was great!
HotPipez 1 year ago
3:40 " typie typie with " LoL cute
HotPipez 1 year ago
i talked to my girlfriend about this once. it wasn't about a "crush" per se, but the need to experiment and experience different things (ie. men). talking solves so many things, because having talked to my girlfriend, i was allowed to experiment and everything went okay. it depends on who you are and who your partner is... but talking is the number one step.
sidereally 1 year ago
great smile.. :]
nELjaWi 2 years ago
Awesome vid.
Much love!!
Angieanything 2 years ago
You remind me soooooooooo much of Alice off of The L Word...thats a good thing haha
ebjlm1 2 years ago 6
haha very cute vid! keep up the awsomeness! :P
liljellybeenz 2 years ago
i really don't see what the big deal is. Me and my girlfriend get crushes all the time and its almost like gossip, we love to talk about it.
tesscrazy 2 years ago
Merry Christmas
Intoxication1993 2 years ago
LOL love how you brought back "09 time to shine"
sonjunkie 2 years ago
laurie, youre totally awesome. lol merry christmas! :]
kxali 2 years ago
Dude you totally rymed at the end! =]
itsderek09 2 years ago
That was still a great reference to The L Word!
Great advice!
<3 u!!
:))))
marisolvelazquez218 2 years ago
lmao on you your video description: lady lovin lady who is likin a boy...
sappho01 2 years ago
It's all gravy, baby!
eyeballgoop 2 years ago
Omg Elf is the best movie in the world.
JordmanKNOWS 2 years ago
@ DAVETYIOP: Has-bians have never appeared on my gaydar. Will-bians seems to be the ONLY girls that appear on my gaydar, haha, apart from some girls that really seem obvious to me.
@Heidi19689: Haha, I agree with the cat point. I have only had male cats.
Sakura378 2 years ago
Great video.
Yeah I immediately thought of Bette and Tina when I first heard this week's topic!
Merry Christmas, have a good one.
x
xxxlelxxxmooxxx 2 years ago 2
Has-bians and Will-bians are they something that shows up on the gaydar?
DAVETYIOP 2 years ago
@DAVETYIOP oh, yeah! That is a good question I'd like to know the answer... LOL
overainbows 2 years ago
<3 Happy Holidays!!!! <3
AmandaWiddifield 2 years ago
the l word should forever be referenced
I said to my friend you play basketball like jenny shecter, she was soo confused, I couldn't help but chuckle to myself :]
jaysyntax11 2 years ago 10
kwanzaa doesn't have any songs, as far as i know. it's quite a new 'holiday'.
keep spreading the seasonal cheer lori :)
inspire27 2 years ago
Interesting topic. Lori, you're right. No one is 100% lesbian/gay or straight.
I label myself as 95% lesbian. I had some crushes on men in the past and, though I think the chance is minor, I don't want to exclude it in the future.
A funny thing is that, if I would have been a cat, I would be very straight. I always fall in love with male-cats :-)
Heidi19689 2 years ago
I once had a man crush, then I had two man crushes, and now I"m Bi. WTF!
Merry Xmas :)
HEIBAOSHEN 2 years ago
aw, lori, you're darling. (:
timetopretend4 2 years ago
I enjoy your videos, Lori. You're awesome.
Great response to the question :)
MERRY CHRISTMAS!! :) 'tis the season to be jolly fa la la la la la la la laaahhhhhhhh.
TripnSlide 2 years ago
I'm a 19yr old guy, and i came out as gay to my friends back in the beginning of high school. Maybe it was just the maturity of people, but I'm now beginning to realize that I'm "Jacksexual", cause I don't feel like I can be identified by the lables "gay, straight or bi", and I'm constantly superised by my friends lack of acceptance when i try to tell them I like girls too. It sucks that attaching a lable to yourself at one point in your life changes how people think of you forever...
hllblly413 2 years ago 4
@hllblly413 I've been through it. It really sucks!
In high school I came out as bi, which is a label which I think can describe me well. But damn! People kept expecting me to be with both boys and girls, whenever I had been with one, I had to be with the other immediately. Or when I made a commentary on a boy, they were like 'oh, you're straight', or on a girl 'oh, so you're actually lesbian'.
People, it's not how it works. ^^
overainbows 2 years ago
the L word will never completely go away, haha. totally still relevant.
alliednc5 2 years ago
You're such a Christmas dork lol. you crack me up. You still singing Christmas carols to your patients :)
buckiemohawk 2 years ago
awesome awesome vid!
desibabii1 2 years ago
merry christmas lori!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
softballluver90 2 years ago
Oh Bette and Tina....
raspberrylucky 2 years ago
Merry Christmas Lori!!!!!
whitec1981 2 years ago
hahahah the l word is like the one single thing that all lesbians know about
Minireb123 2 years ago
Well I feel like a failure then....I never watched it and neither did any of my friends....must have been something in the water...lol
kellybellows1 2 years ago
I LOVE THE L WORD!!!! when tina went back to bette i was like, I KNEW SHE WOULD!
AssAlot89 2 years ago 2
how can we forget the l word?, love the tina reference
ximepe88 2 years ago 2
The heart knows no bounds. :)
tetsubo57 2 years ago
Youre absolutely adorable : ]
123MikeyGo 2 years ago
Soo i pretty much didnt understand the title of this video til 5:08 into it:S but i understand it now so it's all goood!
Lovvve You Lorii!
ImABabyBeav 2 years ago
on a scale of 1-10, you're like 1000 when it comes to holiday spirit!
sleepingwith1sockon 2 years ago
OMG MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!!!!!!!! I love this time of the year!!! - Hope ur holiday is filled with love and happieness !!!!!
bandfag17 2 years ago
buddy the elf quotes all thee way XD what an amazing movie Elf is :)
awesome vid as always :) x
16693hannah 2 years ago
haha, it was so cute when you were like "this week is xmas!" XD
happy holidays to you! :) love your videos ^_^
keriammm 2 years ago
This is so true Lori, we can never really say we knooow we are this and that, even though we do say it, we can never 100% know how or where we will be in 2-5-or 10 years from stating it, so I totally agree with you on that.. We are always talking about how we don't want other people to label us, but we are pretty darn good at labeling ourselves too..
Merry merry christmas Lori! Lots of love! :) -Liz
lizrem 2 years ago
the best way to spread christmas cheer, is singing loud for all to hear!!
i cant even count the number of times ive said this in the last week!
beforeourhibernation 2 years ago
Love your videos.
XO
jungleonfire 2 years ago
first to watch!
Whoop...
FloAndTheMachine 2 years ago