On this issue, I have the same philosophy. I never do drugs or anything illegal/dangerous but I pretty well tell my friends who do these things the same thing. I also try to be understanding and respect them. A friend offers an ear, offers take it or leave it advice. Sometimes I disagree with friend's life choices but can't live their life for them. Some drugs seem to be mild. Pot generally is less scary than alcohol and I do lol drink in moderation. :)
Euge, I truly do respect all your opinions, but as a friend, isn't your responsibility to look out for the people you care about? If they are doing things that could harm themselves I feel like you should be there to step in and say, hey this is dangerous. Also, your actions don't affect only you. Ex: my mom drank herself to death. Was she the only one who had to deal with those consequences? Her whole family now has to deal with her absence.
@winniebunny512 Everyone has a degree on how much they'll look out for people, and who they look out for. If you concentrate on everyone else's problems, you may eventually burn yourself out, and that in turn will push you in to a hole.
I understand what you're saying, but also keep in mind, this video is 3:44 minutes long... people can very well give me extreme conditions on what may happen and apply to this idea to debunk it.
@winniebunny512 I did mention telling them the dangers of it, though the dangers I used in this video isn't so much life threatening, it's just possibly unhealthy
As I've said with all my videos, it's advice, you take what you want from it and apply it to your own life. Of course I have many other variables in values in morals not shown in this video because I don't want to make a video that's 5 days long.
And consequences have a ripple effect, but the core of the hit really starts at the person
@winniebunny512 I mentioned in the video, "they're the ones feeling the full impact" of consequences. Everyone can feel the slight impact.
Your mother drank herself to death, and your family members and relatives have to deal with her absence and the loss. You could say that dealing with such is torturous, but she really did get the full impact, she died. The things you're all dealing with the ripple effect, but the core has been hit.
Actually my hate and posts below were directed to drug dealers, not drug users, i think drug users are stupid for falling into such dangerous stuff but nothing else.
I thought you said you had friends who were drug dealers, but i misunderstood it, sorry.
"Regardless of what they do, they are good people" <---I'm quoting you.
Sorry what???
Excuse me if i find that drug dealers are not at all good people and that i find myself worthy of judging this people as i please, for they are a danger to our society, and i don't care if they are the ones who will face the consequences of their actions or not, I still blame them for what they do, and I hope they end in jail, even those friends of yours.
Basic common sense tells you that doing drugs is bad
Something doesn't make sense here...so basically since they are the ones dealing with the consequences of their actions you have no right to tell them what they should or shouldn't do because at the end it's up to them to confront these consequences or not, and it was their decision to do what they did.
Then you also say you have friends who do drugs and some who deal with them. But you still consider them your friends because they are "good people".
@SuperSonyer Ah, I knew people such as you would come.
You have thus taken an extreme case and applied it to my advice, and at the same time, place upon your assumed morals and values of me.
Do you expect me to go through every single possible scenario or option that could occur in life?
Are you going to sit through 5 hours of me talking, when you couldn't even listen to 3 minutes and 44 seconds, in which at none of the times have I mentioned that my friends were drug dealers?
@SuperSonyer Do you know my friends as I know them? Know what they've been through in life? What and why they do things they do in life? How extreme their "crimes" are?
No. You don't. You place upon an assumption of how horrible my friends are without knowing a thing about them. I KNOW they are good people because I am their friends, and I know them. As far as I can tell, from your theory, you're not a very good person due to your black/white views of life and judgement. Is that fair?
@SuperSonyer I can judge you based on your lack of ability to hear (that I did not mention that my friends were drug dealers, just drug users), judge you based on the way you've placed words in my mouth, judge you based on how you've perceived me and thus labelled me with this perception, but I wouldn't, because I know better that you too have friends who like you, and you have done good and bad in your life.
I don't know friends who are murderers or rapists, but I know that that isn't good.
@SuperSonyer Now dependent on how you view drug use, from marijuana to ecstasy, or alcohol, or clubbing, or just your morals, that's YOUR morals. They're bad qualities, but they're not the worst things in the world.
So what if my friend consumes alcohol? Is that the only thing about them? They have one drink and now they're a horrible person and an alcoholic and they have no other trait to them?
Basic common sense tells you that people are more than just words.
Great video, they indeed have to make the evolution themselves, but nothing wrong with telling your friends that they can tell you any problem they have. or How I did it, by telling them a problem of my own, they usally start to talk too.
First ask if they're open for advice and/or discussions.
Being happy for me is a bonus. Living for myself and others with kindness and respect is my goal. I'm happy quite a lot now. My goal used to be being happy now, but that made me addicted to bad things.
This is really good advice and I wish more people followed it. We have no right to judge another person's life. How would we feel if they judged our life and the way we lived it, the decsicions we make, the way we go about things? It's not fair that anyone should do that to us and therefor we should not to it to them either. Like you said, as long as a person is happy then it's all good. No need to judge and hate. Mind your own business.
We must judge people so there can exist armony in this society we live in.
If you see some kid bullying some other, you have to judge him, you should feel disgusted about what he did, and show him your rejection and his/her way of acting.
If you see some drug dealers, the same, you still judge them. And if any of your close friend's life or even your family is affected by drugs, you will not only judge them, but also hate them.
@SuperSonyer Sir, I am not wrong, and neither are you. We are two people with different opinions and we are both equally entitled to them. I do not appreciate being told I'm wrong when I am only voicing my opinion.
And I'd never judge or be disgusted by someone bullying because there is often a reason behind it. That kid might be going to through a lot of bad things and we should help instead of judge. Judging only brings more hate into the world. And there is already enough of that.
On this issue, I have the same philosophy. I never do drugs or anything illegal/dangerous but I pretty well tell my friends who do these things the same thing. I also try to be understanding and respect them. A friend offers an ear, offers take it or leave it advice. Sometimes I disagree with friend's life choices but can't live their life for them. Some drugs seem to be mild. Pot generally is less scary than alcohol and I do lol drink in moderation. :)
truevoiceofsanity 3 months ago
Euge, I truly do respect all your opinions, but as a friend, isn't your responsibility to look out for the people you care about? If they are doing things that could harm themselves I feel like you should be there to step in and say, hey this is dangerous. Also, your actions don't affect only you. Ex: my mom drank herself to death. Was she the only one who had to deal with those consequences? Her whole family now has to deal with her absence.
winniebunny512 3 months ago
@winniebunny512 Everyone has a degree on how much they'll look out for people, and who they look out for. If you concentrate on everyone else's problems, you may eventually burn yourself out, and that in turn will push you in to a hole.
I understand what you're saying, but also keep in mind, this video is 3:44 minutes long... people can very well give me extreme conditions on what may happen and apply to this idea to debunk it.
pokeeuge 3 months ago
@winniebunny512 I did mention telling them the dangers of it, though the dangers I used in this video isn't so much life threatening, it's just possibly unhealthy
As I've said with all my videos, it's advice, you take what you want from it and apply it to your own life. Of course I have many other variables in values in morals not shown in this video because I don't want to make a video that's 5 days long.
And consequences have a ripple effect, but the core of the hit really starts at the person
pokeeuge 3 months ago
@winniebunny512 I mentioned in the video, "they're the ones feeling the full impact" of consequences. Everyone can feel the slight impact.
Your mother drank herself to death, and your family members and relatives have to deal with her absence and the loss. You could say that dealing with such is torturous, but she really did get the full impact, she died. The things you're all dealing with the ripple effect, but the core has been hit.
pokeeuge 3 months ago
eeeeh? alright
megaAsoo1 3 months ago
Luv ya dude <3
TomboyBilly 4 months ago
Actually my hate and posts below were directed to drug dealers, not drug users, i think drug users are stupid for falling into such dangerous stuff but nothing else.
I thought you said you had friends who were drug dealers, but i misunderstood it, sorry.
SuperSonyer 4 months ago
@pokeeuge nice jacket my friend.
FregginAlec 4 months ago
Hey i have a friend who is a murderer and a rapist, but you know what, regardless of what he did, he is still my friend.
Why? because he's a good person.
SuperSonyer 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer I have this feeling that you´re ironic.. o.o
soffiejj 3 months ago
"Regardless of what they do, they are good people" <---I'm quoting you.
Sorry what???
Excuse me if i find that drug dealers are not at all good people and that i find myself worthy of judging this people as i please, for they are a danger to our society, and i don't care if they are the ones who will face the consequences of their actions or not, I still blame them for what they do, and I hope they end in jail, even those friends of yours.
Basic common sense tells you that doing drugs is bad
SuperSonyer 4 months ago
Something doesn't make sense here...so basically since they are the ones dealing with the consequences of their actions you have no right to tell them what they should or shouldn't do because at the end it's up to them to confront these consequences or not, and it was their decision to do what they did.
Then you also say you have friends who do drugs and some who deal with them. But you still consider them your friends because they are "good people".
Yeah...drug dealers are good ppl, sure.
SuperSonyer 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer Ah, I knew people such as you would come.
You have thus taken an extreme case and applied it to my advice, and at the same time, place upon your assumed morals and values of me.
Do you expect me to go through every single possible scenario or option that could occur in life?
Are you going to sit through 5 hours of me talking, when you couldn't even listen to 3 minutes and 44 seconds, in which at none of the times have I mentioned that my friends were drug dealers?
pokeeuge 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer Do you know my friends as I know them? Know what they've been through in life? What and why they do things they do in life? How extreme their "crimes" are?
No. You don't. You place upon an assumption of how horrible my friends are without knowing a thing about them. I KNOW they are good people because I am their friends, and I know them. As far as I can tell, from your theory, you're not a very good person due to your black/white views of life and judgement. Is that fair?
pokeeuge 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer I can judge you based on your lack of ability to hear (that I did not mention that my friends were drug dealers, just drug users), judge you based on the way you've placed words in my mouth, judge you based on how you've perceived me and thus labelled me with this perception, but I wouldn't, because I know better that you too have friends who like you, and you have done good and bad in your life.
I don't know friends who are murderers or rapists, but I know that that isn't good.
pokeeuge 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer Now dependent on how you view drug use, from marijuana to ecstasy, or alcohol, or clubbing, or just your morals, that's YOUR morals. They're bad qualities, but they're not the worst things in the world.
So what if my friend consumes alcohol? Is that the only thing about them? They have one drink and now they're a horrible person and an alcoholic and they have no other trait to them?
Basic common sense tells you that people are more than just words.
Think for a second of who you are.
pokeeuge 4 months ago
Don't stop. I'm in love with your mind.
R4nd0mn33s 4 months ago
You are a genius.
sihtekilsdrawkcabmi 4 months ago
this is how I live my life as well :D
xXledheadXx3 4 months ago
omg!!! love it and u r so sexy and hot and I love it when u wink ur eye :p lol, but seriously you are awesome and we both think a lot a like! muaxxxx
YuePomPom 4 months ago
Do you have FaceBook ? And if so, do you accsept friend inv ? :)
TheBlueWatcher 4 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
so many videos..
RT19908888 4 months ago
Great video, they indeed have to make the evolution themselves, but nothing wrong with telling your friends that they can tell you any problem they have. or How I did it, by telling them a problem of my own, they usally start to talk too.
First ask if they're open for advice and/or discussions.
Being happy for me is a bonus. Living for myself and others with kindness and respect is my goal. I'm happy quite a lot now. My goal used to be being happy now, but that made me addicted to bad things.
FockingOriginal 4 months ago
arent you quitting pokeeuge? Im just saying, I really enjoy your videos and Im glad you are still on.
CEObonuses 4 months ago
@CEObonuses Sooner or later. There are a few more things I want to talk about before leaving. Things I deem important, I guess.
pokeeuge 4 months ago
This is really good advice and I wish more people followed it. We have no right to judge another person's life. How would we feel if they judged our life and the way we lived it, the decsicions we make, the way we go about things? It's not fair that anyone should do that to us and therefor we should not to it to them either. Like you said, as long as a person is happy then it's all good. No need to judge and hate. Mind your own business.
MrCrackJohnny 4 months ago
@MrCrackJohnny
Sir, you are wrong.
We must judge people so there can exist armony in this society we live in.
If you see some kid bullying some other, you have to judge him, you should feel disgusted about what he did, and show him your rejection and his/her way of acting.
If you see some drug dealers, the same, you still judge them. And if any of your close friend's life or even your family is affected by drugs, you will not only judge them, but also hate them.
SuperSonyer 4 months ago
@SuperSonyer Sir, I am not wrong, and neither are you. We are two people with different opinions and we are both equally entitled to them. I do not appreciate being told I'm wrong when I am only voicing my opinion.
And I'd never judge or be disgusted by someone bullying because there is often a reason behind it. That kid might be going to through a lot of bad things and we should help instead of judge. Judging only brings more hate into the world. And there is already enough of that.
MrCrackJohnny 4 months ago 4
@MrCrackJohnny Well answered. I applaud your beautiful answer.
pokeeuge 4 months ago 2
You're really amazing.. ;o;
ThatWeirdGiRI 4 months ago
@pokeeuge LOL its good to see recent vids esp 3 in a day XDDD i feel like i learned a lot today ;] haha
ilovebunnies92 4 months ago
LOL omg third vid uploaded in a day ! 8DDD i guess you made this right after the other two vids?
Btw this is great advice. And it's all true. I have nothing more to say cause you broke it down too nicely for me to say anything more xDD
ilovebunnies92 4 months ago
@ilovebunnies92 Hahaha yeah. I had the time/privacy so I felt "might as well" :P
lol yayyyyy
pokeeuge 4 months ago
wow, great advice as always :)
1amG0d4ndh31574C 4 months ago
@1amG0d4ndh31574C Glad :]
pokeeuge 4 months ago
Holy fuck. You are actually gonna see this, euge.
HIIII
BlackFlashDrive 4 months ago
@BlackFlashDrive oh hey thar
pokeeuge 4 months ago