You like it when your man calls you a BITCH! you can't be serious. This is giving every black man an ammunition to abuse the black women. You speak for yourself dear don't include BLACK WOMEN in general. My husband for 19 years has loved his black woman, put me in place, and the works, but not one time has he called me a BITCH or even said I was being one. You are pleading for black man to love you, but you just gave them the right to KILL YOU.
These same bm/bw generalize eachother and they don't generalize other races(well they generalize them as being sinless,infallible and walking on holy water or parting the red sea)I guess hell was made only 4 bw,since everyone else is sinless in their eyes.Bw will pay on earth and in eternity 4 her sins.Have wm/ww ever paid for their sins against black/brown/natives in ancient/past or present?
true i do want my dude to let me know when im wrong and tell me WHY im wrong sometimes i go over the top and don't know when to stop we need to learn to appreciate our black men support them uplift them and stop bashing them educated black women + educated black men = strong black loving relationship yay! :)) lol
The reason BLACK men feel intimidated my the BLACK woman's willingness to be so independent is because the slavemaster made it such.
You Should Most Certainly Read The "Willie Lynch Letter: The Making of a Slave", written by: William Lynch (Fellow friend of Jim Crow). (Written during the Era of the Jim Crow South)
I agreed with a lot of what you said (based on your "Women's Intuition"), the only issue I have with your credibility is that you have not done your research as a BLACK WOMAN to consider yourself a reliable source of advise on how a BLACK MAN can properly LOVE a black woman, simply because you have not tackled the root of the disconnection between BLACK MAN & WOMAN, which is: SLAVERY.
Advice from me: Read The "Willie Lynch Letter: Making of a Slave"
jesus tap dancing christ, men are quiet and deal with their own problems because 1) we were taught to do so, and 2) its logical to see if we can handle and problem on hour own before we consult you on the subject. if you have a problem that you think you can handle by yourself, do you run around and tell everyone what the problem is?
i have to be honest.. what we are refer to as "strong black woman" is not that at all. We are not having a problem with strong black woman. We are having a problem with drama, and awful attitudes.. that is not strong! we are using the wrong words to describe the problem. thats A MAJOR ISSUE.
but with those earings.... and and the black and pink top.. i would def would love how to love you.
this was really dope to watch! Me and my girl been going through some things and i realized a while ago that giving her a headache isn't going to solve anything....i always try to talk to her and accept when i'm wrong...and let her know about herself too. I know she's strong....but she is still gettin used to a man wanting to do the "man" things for her. Great vid. :)
if we don't take action and fix the westernize system, and the way the economy is ran, then we will be still talking about these issues for years to come. P.L. & U
how to love a black woman ha lets see(dont act like this isnt the truth ppl) beat on them cheat on them tell lies knock them up w/ babies then leave on to the next one thats how you love a black female show 0 respect for them we cant say loving a black female takes education bringing her roses running her bath water saying nice things to her b/c thats so boring to them you have to argue w/ them daily and make it up w/ good sex
you are providing all the reasons why men of all races don't want bw. strong white women, strong asian women , and strong hispanic exist to. Men marry and love them. Bw are financial and legal liabilities. They breed bastards. Why should any man deal with all of the short comings that you stated when the have better breeds of women to choose from. Loving a bw is like spending money for a lexus and being given a Kia instead. Why would a smart man of any race do that???? Make a video about that .
But you know she won't I am writing a book that deals with the bullshyt about black women. What you said is right on the money but they just avoid it.
Most women are raised by single women, but not strong and independent women, because a strong independent woman could have resisted that no good man that left them with a baby.#4 lead you? Women like to be lead in the right direction? Then how did you all wind up where you are? Who lead you there?#5 Like to be put in place? Yeah right . Tell her her pastor is a joke and see what place that puts her in.
You're listening to Jamal Bryant? Jamal Bryant is an idiot. He cheated on his wife and calls himself a pastor.But to address your question ,it starts at home. The fathers are gone, and its the fathers love , that gives the child an identity.Without that identity , your soul will never be calibrated to love the opposite sex. God's government is the family. and thats his example to children, of how the world should work.Broken home=broken child. Broken child grows to be a broken adult.
If you have women's intuition, why do so many black women end up with losers? How does that happen? And not all women wanna be led in the right direction...trust me!
Hey Beautiful I re created my account after seeing this video, I love the insight of what are women think of us. U said "maybe we should cook sometimes" lol maybe. You'll cook better I can dig it tho
Love is universal. See 1 Cor: 13. We all want the same things. BM are not giving up on BW. Even the BM who are with women of other races. All the BW bashing here on YT by BM reflect years of pent-up frustration without an outlet. If BM didn't love the BW he simply wouldn't bother, he'd be gone. But he does and some may be so frustrated they may not even want to admit it. You are on the right track. You can admit your shortcomings and that's what starts the healing between any people. Great vid!
What would happen if the most rebellious BW submitted to her husband for only one week? If she's married to a decent man, it would be the best week of her life. The one who submits is the one who gets 'served". The reason BW will not submit is because of fear. This fear has never been challenged. Try to submit for a week. What do you think is going to happen to you? It's the same as a mother and child. The child submits to the mother and the mother in turn serves the child in everything.
Yes, because all black woman are alike, right? How about advising men to approach each woman as an individual, instead of generalising each race,? Ya think?
Umm did I say that all black women were alike, ever???
How about you go to YOUR channel and make a video about it ?? As I ever so clearly stated in the BEGINNING - I can't tell you about how to love any other kind of women b/c NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE THE SAME UPBRINGING. So you mean to tell me a white woman and a black woman have the same upbringing??? NEGATIVE!!! Around these parts I advise what "I" believe I don't try to figure out CREATURE FEATURES beliefs
Your video is on point gorgeous...Too bad they can't clone women like you because it's rare to find a woman that want a guy to show their emotions...If a guy show his emotions to "some" black women, chances are they'll think he's a punk...That's a "double edge sword" in itself right there...
its kinda like that adam and eve thing...if the man dont keep his woman headed in the right direction she will end up doing something she shouldnt do! US MEN NEED to lead no matter if the women wants it or not!!!! these dudes be acting so girly! yall gotta poke yall chest out and do what u gotta do!.....& DONT LET no girl run all over ya! because they will! if u let em!
Girl fight LOL!!! But seriously though it all comes down to loving yourself 1st and taking time to weed out the people who are bad for us. Men want love too, but we need to seperate what love is compared to having a "F" buddy! I try to show my love through "un-asked for actions" like keeping the crib clean, getting her girls ready for school, keeping her car washed, helping her out with money and bills, doing laundry etc and making time for her. Don't forget I'm supporting 2 fams here!
Ajones1105, Babe I never said all women like to be called bitches either. But let me switch things up a little. To me a "Good" strong black women is who has learned from her mistakes and who has made her way through her struggles. She does'nt fall for just any guy that comes her way, her kid(s) are put before her and she raises them to think on their own and not let this trashy world raise them for her. It's not about the guy all the time! Us Men as a whole need to grow up and become leaders!
here is a question i ask men and women and the women get confuse and do not know themself's. why dont you do a vid on your definition of a good women. and please dont refer to the bible because no one can match the standard. cool
Nice question. Those real women and real men terms are for the birds because who can really determine what a REAL man or woman is? At the end of the day it would boil down to an opinion, but the type of woman/mother/wife that I'd like to be would consist of the following: spiritual supportive respectful caring honest hard working intelligent passionate successful loves to laugh puts God first, family second and sole purpose in life is to please my fam and myself to ensure we are all happy.
Women will never truly know "MAN" because you all throw us into two bags (THUG/DOG/FUN or HARDWORKING/LAME). Ask any woman what she wants and she'll preach a positive man, but she desires that thug who is going to check her instead of a gentleman who is going to go the mile with her through thick and thin. I'm so tired of meeting girls with baggage from prior relationships. I get punished for the thug dogging them out. Then I get cheated on and considered weak cause she used to being dogged!
Do the loving "girl next door" exist anymore? I want my queen by my side not some ghetto ass "black and mild" smoking tramp! This is'nt a diss to woman, but some of us black men are looking for someone to love us and build. Oh and ajones1105 if I called my lady a bitch I'd probably end up killed! A "REAL" woman does not want to be called that! That's the way you all feel loved I guess, but i show mine with commitment, dedication and love!
Nope, never said we all loved being called a bitch! I said I like someone to put me in my place if I am ACTING like one.
This is one of our very problems (between your 2 comments) EVERY woman does not throw all men into two bags and we are oh so frustrated with EACH OTHER when we need to simply be frustrated with and fix OURSELVES. You seem a little scorned and discouraged, don't give up. At the end of the day we are all complaining about the same things!! Men bring baggage with them from past
relationships. In general men claim to want a lady in the streets, freak in the sheets, so that is no different than a woman wanting a positive man with a little thug edge.
My main point isn't to defend only women - it is to teach us both to work from within instead of blaming things on each other. Men do things wrong as do women. Period. The first step to getting anywhere is to STOP blaming ALL women.
Let me fill you in on a lil some something. About 6 years ago I lost my Grandmother. My lady did'nt go out of town to the funeral with me. When I came back 2 days later I was unpacking my car and my kids' mother walked up to say sorry for my lost. I told her thanks! I went upstairs to my Apt and my lady flipped out. I was'nt in the mood to argue so I explained the situation. She was still mad! So I told her she was acting like a bitch! Now it's 6 yrs later and she still brings that 1 time up!
Be patient for the person you think is right for you, because bailing out when it's too soon just may mean that you ended a good thing.
People that think men that cry are weak are just simply immature - men are human and humans experience different emotions. The thing is men DO cry, it's just that they may cry in the dark (as Michael Baisden said) aka alone!
You really don't think not one woman in this world wants a soft man? Now this is something beyond color. I know women of different ethnicities that actually HAVE soft men - so are they excluded? Some MEN don't know HOW TO lead (maybe these are mama's boys) and they only know how to function with SOMEONE leading THEM ... so what is your reponse to those kind?
I believe those women you speak of are settling. If a man who showed leadership was around, those women would have been drawn to them instead. Then again some women see a man with 'strength' as a fret.
If a woman is strong and independent and the man is still the leader she might be worried he could leave at anytime or she might want to be in control.
Either way a woman still wants a man to take the reigns. You said it yourself, you like a man to tell you whose boss.
You have a good point, but let's just agree to disagree because while I am the way that I am, there are TONS of women that just aren't like me. God didn't make us the same.
But now ... women that are with inferior men, they may cheat with a stronger man, yet not know how to attain him on a regular basis. You feel me?
They might not cheat, just fall out of love and end up having a divorce. 66% of divorces are start becaus of women. I get you want to 'defend' womanhood, but you know the real thruth.
You're living proof of wanting a dominant man. It's in your own embodiment.
i agree. i watched your videos way back but it's good to have you back again. i live in scandinavia and the women tend to be assertive. for minorities, i guess the dominant culture or structure in the society dictates how the genders relate to each other. the issue is how to provide for the family and how succesful you are at doing that given the constraints in the society. minority men get the short end of the economic stick, and it's only fair that minority women accept this fact.
5 stars ajones,on the real.You get it.you really do. I like all women,but i love lov lov love all black women.We can make it if we try.The relationships that we have we each other can be better,i just know it
Hey there!! Thank you. I guess the camera is way better because i'm using a MAC now! I tried to hate on it for long enough, but it truly is better quality. I'm glad you like the video!! Hope all is well!!
First off your camera looks better for some reason. Maybe the lighting, but it seems like a new camera, and you look nice on it..... All good points and a couple really enlightened me to say the least. My thinking is like your last description of what your Mom said was dead on, it's nice to "want" or "have" a man but never feel you need one. Great topic and explanation THANKS . P. S. Great to see a post from ya.
I agree 100% with you
SKingg754644 1 month ago
The problem is a lot of black women think that acting like a bitch is being a strong black woman
e84fresh 1 month ago
You like it when your man calls you a BITCH! you can't be serious. This is giving every black man an ammunition to abuse the black women. You speak for yourself dear don't include BLACK WOMEN in general. My husband for 19 years has loved his black woman, put me in place, and the works, but not one time has he called me a BITCH or even said I was being one. You are pleading for black man to love you, but you just gave them the right to KILL YOU.
MattatYah1 7 months ago
These same bm/bw generalize eachother and they don't generalize other races(well they generalize them as being sinless,infallible and walking on holy water or parting the red sea)I guess hell was made only 4 bw,since everyone else is sinless in their eyes.Bw will pay on earth and in eternity 4 her sins.Have wm/ww ever paid for their sins against black/brown/natives in ancient/past or present?
mariamrogers 8 months ago
strong independent black women dont need men... so stop complaining...
PunjabiSikhRajput1 10 months ago
true i do want my dude to let me know when im wrong and tell me WHY im wrong sometimes i go over the top and don't know when to stop we need to learn to appreciate our black men support them uplift them and stop bashing them educated black women + educated black men = strong black loving relationship yay! :)) lol
BoOkWoRmCuTiE1224 10 months ago
What a very intelligent Woman. I am Latino male.
Strength is awesome. Behind every strong man
is an even stronger woman. Communication is
the key. To bad you only date brothers. Thats where
you are going wrong. Selling yourself short girl. Dont judge
a book by its cover .
fightrerrrr 11 months ago
The reason BLACK men feel intimidated my the BLACK woman's willingness to be so independent is because the slavemaster made it such.
You Should Most Certainly Read The "Willie Lynch Letter: The Making of a Slave", written by: William Lynch (Fellow friend of Jim Crow). (Written during the Era of the Jim Crow South)
iamRALIcom 1 year ago
I agreed with a lot of what you said (based on your "Women's Intuition"), the only issue I have with your credibility is that you have not done your research as a BLACK WOMAN to consider yourself a reliable source of advise on how a BLACK MAN can properly LOVE a black woman, simply because you have not tackled the root of the disconnection between BLACK MAN & WOMAN, which is: SLAVERY.
Advice from me: Read The "Willie Lynch Letter: Making of a Slave"
I think you'll gain a better grasp then :)
iamRALIcom 1 year ago
U R FULL OVE SHIT YR PUSSY STINKS
697j 1 year ago
maybe if the men would man up
shaxgreeno 1 year ago
50/50, I would never expect a woman to do everything, we will share all duties. No one is perfect and we male or female, all have faults.
xineotheoneix 1 year ago
At least you are being honest, a step for black women.
shemcity 1 year ago
How to love a black woman? Oh that's easy. Love God first. Jesus is his name.
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arianadestinye 1 year ago
I love black women! Good video sister!
YAH bless all!
pleased2pleaseJesus 1 year ago
Im Sorry But I Have To Say That You Have To Have Love! For Youself Sista Before Looking For A Brotha To Hold Full Responsiblity! For Your Love!
OsFamousVids 1 year ago
jesus tap dancing christ, men are quiet and deal with their own problems because 1) we were taught to do so, and 2) its logical to see if we can handle and problem on hour own before we consult you on the subject. if you have a problem that you think you can handle by yourself, do you run around and tell everyone what the problem is?
JGvisions 1 year ago
If i need a instruction manual to love a black woman than i rather date a white chick... (just my opinion)
Ruckislx 1 year ago 2
Classic! Love It, now if I could only find a black woman to practice on...
Gorillas42 1 year ago
Classic! Love It, now if I could only find a black woman to practice on...
Gorillas42 1 year ago
How the hell this...How the hell that...I dont think so!...so much for open communictions
MaxwellPayne84 1 year ago
i have to be honest.. what we are refer to as "strong black woman" is not that at all. We are not having a problem with strong black woman. We are having a problem with drama, and awful attitudes.. that is not strong! we are using the wrong words to describe the problem. thats A MAJOR ISSUE.
but with those earings.... and and the black and pink top.. i would def would love how to love you.
amen
FORCEWATCH 1 year ago
this was really dope to watch! Me and my girl been going through some things and i realized a while ago that giving her a headache isn't going to solve anything....i always try to talk to her and accept when i'm wrong...and let her know about herself too. I know she's strong....but she is still gettin used to a man wanting to do the "man" things for her. Great vid. :)
micolrankin 1 year ago
don't listen to those uncle toms we love you black woman and we always will
aw59d3 1 year ago
if we don't take action and fix the westernize system, and the way the economy is ran, then we will be still talking about these issues for years to come. P.L. & U
mo8847 1 year ago
how to love a black woman ha lets see(dont act like this isnt the truth ppl) beat on them cheat on them tell lies knock them up w/ babies then leave on to the next one thats how you love a black female show 0 respect for them we cant say loving a black female takes education bringing her roses running her bath water saying nice things to her b/c thats so boring to them you have to argue w/ them daily and make it up w/ good sex
Washanen07 1 year ago
strong and independant black women are lesbians...its the truth.
SuperbadIsraelite 1 year ago 4
@SuperbadIsraelite
lol...you crazy as hell
MaxwellPayne84 1 year ago
@SuperbadIsraelite Not tue, I love men, most men are not man enough top be in my life case in point.
crpdm1965 1 year ago
you are providing all the reasons why men of all races don't want bw. strong white women, strong asian women , and strong hispanic exist to. Men marry and love them. Bw are financial and legal liabilities. They breed bastards. Why should any man deal with all of the short comings that you stated when the have better breeds of women to choose from. Loving a bw is like spending money for a lexus and being given a Kia instead. Why would a smart man of any race do that???? Make a video about that .
invisible2070 2 years ago
@invisible2070
But you know she won't I am writing a book that deals with the bullshyt about black women. What you said is right on the money but they just avoid it.
mrblackalchemist 2 years ago
@invisible2070 You're an idiot. Shut up!!!
MACWILLIAM42 1 year ago
Most women are raised by single women, but not strong and independent women, because a strong independent woman could have resisted that no good man that left them with a baby.#4 lead you? Women like to be lead in the right direction? Then how did you all wind up where you are? Who lead you there?#5 Like to be put in place? Yeah right . Tell her her pastor is a joke and see what place that puts her in.
tbursee 2 years ago
You're listening to Jamal Bryant? Jamal Bryant is an idiot. He cheated on his wife and calls himself a pastor.But to address your question ,it starts at home. The fathers are gone, and its the fathers love , that gives the child an identity.Without that identity , your soul will never be calibrated to love the opposite sex. God's government is the family. and thats his example to children, of how the world should work.Broken home=broken child. Broken child grows to be a broken adult.
tbursee 2 years ago
@tbursee translation: gimme gimme gimme................strong does not mean contentious
drewwill3 1 year ago
You put your big ol penis inside of her. That is how you love her.
evosanderzz 2 years ago
Wow!!! lmao!!!
keepthapinit 2 years ago
If you have women's intuition, why do so many black women end up with losers? How does that happen? And not all women wanna be led in the right direction...trust me!
tyrell300 2 years ago
If a black woman is not strong and independent the black man will walk all over her like a door mat.
love83forever 2 years ago
Hey Beautiful I re created my account after seeing this video, I love the insight of what are women think of us. U said "maybe we should cook sometimes" lol maybe. You'll cook better I can dig it tho
MrBlackStatue 2 years ago
Great video blog. I agree with your points and hopefully, everyone can take something from this video.
TheRantNRaveShow 2 years ago
Women need men in order to project all their frustrations and to have someone beside to whom they can blame for all their inadecuacies as women!
franco121760 2 years ago
in order to love a black woman the black man has to love himself
kashub5 2 years ago
bullcrap pls
typical BLACK BITCHES
who's d daddy ?
kunzy3000 1 year ago
This is good, the true really needs to be told. We all need to be re-educated in the affairs of family and relationship values in our life.
Keep on doing what you are doing and may the only true living God continue to bless and keep you...
TTSmuggla 2 years ago
bolshevixtreme, Your spelling and command of the english language is grade 9 level at most....silly jigaboo..lol
greatwhite4white 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
If i give you some watermelon and fried chicken, will you be a good monkey?
greatwhite4white 2 years ago
keep this sluring up and i'll shove a waternelon and entiree KFC family feast bucket down your throat you ignorant get!
BOLSHEVIXTREME 2 years ago
Love is universal. See 1 Cor: 13. We all want the same things. BM are not giving up on BW. Even the BM who are with women of other races. All the BW bashing here on YT by BM reflect years of pent-up frustration without an outlet. If BM didn't love the BW he simply wouldn't bother, he'd be gone. But he does and some may be so frustrated they may not even want to admit it. You are on the right track. You can admit your shortcomings and that's what starts the healing between any people. Great vid!
roger052333 2 years ago 2
What would happen if the most rebellious BW submitted to her husband for only one week? If she's married to a decent man, it would be the best week of her life. The one who submits is the one who gets 'served". The reason BW will not submit is because of fear. This fear has never been challenged. Try to submit for a week. What do you think is going to happen to you? It's the same as a mother and child. The child submits to the mother and the mother in turn serves the child in everything.
roger052333 2 years ago 2
Nice vid!
you look real good=)
filakid0 2 years ago
Yes, because all black woman are alike, right? How about advising men to approach each woman as an individual, instead of generalising each race,? Ya think?
CreatureFeatures75 2 years ago 3
Umm did I say that all black women were alike, ever???
How about you go to YOUR channel and make a video about it ?? As I ever so clearly stated in the BEGINNING - I can't tell you about how to love any other kind of women b/c NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE THE SAME UPBRINGING. So you mean to tell me a white woman and a black woman have the same upbringing??? NEGATIVE!!! Around these parts I advise what "I" believe I don't try to figure out CREATURE FEATURES beliefs
ajones1105 2 years ago 2
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CreatureFeatures75 2 years ago
Your video is on point gorgeous...Too bad they can't clone women like you because it's rare to find a woman that want a guy to show their emotions...If a guy show his emotions to "some" black women, chances are they'll think he's a punk...That's a "double edge sword" in itself right there...
keepthapinit 2 years ago
its kinda like that adam and eve thing...if the man dont keep his woman headed in the right direction she will end up doing something she shouldnt do! US MEN NEED to lead no matter if the women wants it or not!!!! these dudes be acting so girly! yall gotta poke yall chest out and do what u gotta do!.....& DONT LET no girl run all over ya! because they will! if u let em!
tazer40 2 years ago
Yea ... your moms is lookin' hot these days - LMAO!!!
YEA RIGHT!!!! NEVER!!!!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Girl fight LOL!!! But seriously though it all comes down to loving yourself 1st and taking time to weed out the people who are bad for us. Men want love too, but we need to seperate what love is compared to having a "F" buddy! I try to show my love through "un-asked for actions" like keeping the crib clean, getting her girls ready for school, keeping her car washed, helping her out with money and bills, doing laundry etc and making time for her. Don't forget I'm supporting 2 fams here!
roseandty 2 years ago
Ajones1105, Babe I never said all women like to be called bitches either. But let me switch things up a little. To me a "Good" strong black women is who has learned from her mistakes and who has made her way through her struggles. She does'nt fall for just any guy that comes her way, her kid(s) are put before her and she raises them to think on their own and not let this trashy world raise them for her. It's not about the guy all the time! Us Men as a whole need to grow up and become leaders!
roseandty 2 years ago
Amen to all of that!
ajones1105 2 years ago
LOL you're not surprised b/c you know wassup
ajones1105 2 years ago
u know what sista you the first women that answer sensibly. personal opinon i like that
realphase35 2 years ago
thank you :)
ajones1105 2 years ago
here is a question i ask men and women and the women get confuse and do not know themself's. why dont you do a vid on your definition of a good women. and please dont refer to the bible because no one can match the standard. cool
realphase35 2 years ago
ajones1105 2 years ago
Women will never truly know "MAN" because you all throw us into two bags (THUG/DOG/FUN or HARDWORKING/LAME). Ask any woman what she wants and she'll preach a positive man, but she desires that thug who is going to check her instead of a gentleman who is going to go the mile with her through thick and thin. I'm so tired of meeting girls with baggage from prior relationships. I get punished for the thug dogging them out. Then I get cheated on and considered weak cause she used to being dogged!
roseandty 2 years ago
Do the loving "girl next door" exist anymore? I want my queen by my side not some ghetto ass "black and mild" smoking tramp! This is'nt a diss to woman, but some of us black men are looking for someone to love us and build. Oh and ajones1105 if I called my lady a bitch I'd probably end up killed! A "REAL" woman does not want to be called that! That's the way you all feel loved I guess, but i show mine with commitment, dedication and love!
roseandty 2 years ago
Nope, never said we all loved being called a bitch! I said I like someone to put me in my place if I am ACTING like one.
This is one of our very problems (between your 2 comments) EVERY woman does not throw all men into two bags and we are oh so frustrated with EACH OTHER when we need to simply be frustrated with and fix OURSELVES. You seem a little scorned and discouraged, don't give up. At the end of the day we are all complaining about the same things!! Men bring baggage with them from past
ajones1105 2 years ago
relationships. In general men claim to want a lady in the streets, freak in the sheets, so that is no different than a woman wanting a positive man with a little thug edge.
My main point isn't to defend only women - it is to teach us both to work from within instead of blaming things on each other. Men do things wrong as do women. Period. The first step to getting anywhere is to STOP blaming ALL women.
ajones1105 2 years ago
Let me fill you in on a lil some something. About 6 years ago I lost my Grandmother. My lady did'nt go out of town to the funeral with me. When I came back 2 days later I was unpacking my car and my kids' mother walked up to say sorry for my lost. I told her thanks! I went upstairs to my Apt and my lady flipped out. I was'nt in the mood to argue so I explained the situation. She was still mad! So I told her she was acting like a bitch! Now it's 6 yrs later and she still brings that 1 time up!
roseandty 2 years ago
LOL!!!
ajones1105 2 years ago
would you have sex with keri hilson ajones1105 ?
Spider7xx 2 years ago
I love when people ask idiotic questions - its my fav!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Would you ajones1105 im just asking it would be hot you know you want to
Spider7xx 2 years ago
Be patient?...for what?
Men aren't expected to be emotional. Men who "cry" are seen as weak.
brightlights456X 2 years ago
Be patient for the person you think is right for you, because bailing out when it's too soon just may mean that you ended a good thing.
People that think men that cry are weak are just simply immature - men are human and humans experience different emotions. The thing is men DO cry, it's just that they may cry in the dark (as Michael Baisden said) aka alone!
ajones1105 2 years ago
If a woman shows aggression from the early start of a relationship, what is there to wait for?
I don't know who "Michael Baisden" is, but women look for masculinity in a man, they don't want the guy who is sacred of a mouse or is 'soft'
brightlights456X 2 years ago
True and False. It depends on the woman - some woman like "soft" men and others don't!
ajones1105 2 years ago
No woman wants a "soft" man. How can he be a leader or "take charge" as you put it if he is soft?
brightlights456X 2 years ago
You are quite the debater, huh?
You really don't think not one woman in this world wants a soft man? Now this is something beyond color. I know women of different ethnicities that actually HAVE soft men - so are they excluded? Some MEN don't know HOW TO lead (maybe these are mama's boys) and they only know how to function with SOMEONE leading THEM ... so what is your reponse to those kind?
ajones1105 2 years ago
I believe those women you speak of are settling. If a man who showed leadership was around, those women would have been drawn to them instead. Then again some women see a man with 'strength' as a fret.
If a woman is strong and independent and the man is still the leader she might be worried he could leave at anytime or she might want to be in control.
Either way a woman still wants a man to take the reigns. You said it yourself, you like a man to tell you whose boss.
brightlights456X 2 years ago
You have a good point, but let's just agree to disagree because while I am the way that I am, there are TONS of women that just aren't like me. God didn't make us the same.
But now ... women that are with inferior men, they may cheat with a stronger man, yet not know how to attain him on a regular basis. You feel me?
ajones1105 2 years ago
"women that are with inferior men, they may cheat with a stronger man"
So I was right then, looks like you DO agree:D
brightlights456X 2 years ago
If that's what makes you sleep at night :)
The key word is MIGHT - I never said ALL WOMEN cheat with stronger men ...
ajones1105 2 years ago
They might not cheat, just fall out of love and end up having a divorce. 66% of divorces are start becaus of women. I get you want to 'defend' womanhood, but you know the real thruth.
You're living proof of wanting a dominant man. It's in your own embodiment.
brightlights456X 2 years ago
The real truth?
The real truth is that every woman is not the same and does not have the same wants and needs.
66% of divorces are STARTED because of a woman divorcing a man?
It couldn't be because of infidelity right? You think this is because they settled and married a "punk"?
ajones1105 2 years ago
I forgot all about you....counldn't resist my charms...huh??? lol I kid :D
Most of the it's because there are in a monotonous relationship. Why...the guy was boring! The safe option.
brightlights456X 2 years ago
LOL LOL LOL ... if ever we meet I will make sure to punch you in your rib ;)
ajones1105 2 years ago
Is that code for sex me up???
I take it I was right with what else I said.
brightlights456X 2 years ago
NO!! That is code for 'im really gonna punch you in the rib'!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Yet ANOTHER volatile black woman. Why am I not surprised????
brightlights456X 2 years ago
Ahhh, better camera. Looks HD :D
brightlights456X 2 years ago
How come we cant find more women like you out there..... i wish you was my age!!!
youngkingpin88 2 years ago
LOL!!! Thanks!
ajones1105 2 years ago
well done sista i like how you address the issue, i hope you plan to make more vid. we need more sista to address the issue like that
realphase35 2 years ago
Thank You, and that's from the heart! I definitely will make more videos, and feel free to send requests to my inbox, any time!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Thank You my Queen.
eddierob 2 years ago
Your welcome, any time :)
ajones1105 2 years ago
pt. 2 How to love a black man!
scottnaji 2 years ago
Don't trip - I've got you :)
ajones1105 2 years ago
It's great to see you back.
Taking those notes means you care about what you are saying. We're listening so we appreciate your thuroughness. :)
Excellent insight and advice!
RevolutionaryINK 2 years ago
Thanks, it is good to share with and receive all of you ... love all of you!
ajones1105 2 years ago
I approve this video!
Watch 'Why Black Men Wont Date Or Marry Black Women'
it's goooooood!
BarackObamaBlackMan 2 years ago
Thanks for sharing, I'm gonna check that out now!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Angie, that was beautiful and well said. Very nice video!
SoftspokenBrother 2 years ago
Thank You! I appreciate it!
ajones1105 2 years ago
i agree. i watched your videos way back but it's good to have you back again. i live in scandinavia and the women tend to be assertive. for minorities, i guess the dominant culture or structure in the society dictates how the genders relate to each other. the issue is how to provide for the family and how succesful you are at doing that given the constraints in the society. minority men get the short end of the economic stick, and it's only fair that minority women accept this fact.
kindsomali 2 years ago
interesting! it gives me chills to be communicating with someone in scandinavia, wow!! thanks for tuning in and sharing!!
ajones1105 2 years ago
5 stars ajones,on the real.You get it.you really do. I like all women,but i love lov lov love all black women.We can make it if we try.The relationships that we have we each other can be better,i just know it
mallen4000 2 years ago
Yes!! I'm with you all the way!
ajones1105 2 years ago
Hey there!! Thank you. I guess the camera is way better because i'm using a MAC now! I tried to hate on it for long enough, but it truly is better quality. I'm glad you like the video!! Hope all is well!!
ajones1105 2 years ago
First off your camera looks better for some reason. Maybe the lighting, but it seems like a new camera, and you look nice on it..... All good points and a couple really enlightened me to say the least. My thinking is like your last description of what your Mom said was dead on, it's nice to "want" or "have" a man but never feel you need one. Great topic and explanation THANKS . P. S. Great to see a post from ya.
1Steak 2 years ago