Girl's Guide to Loving Yourself.

[faismasterx]

Step 1: Rub the clit in a circular fashion.

[sessi92]

This was so helpful, wish you were my friend..

[ashley1laycoolfan]

thank u so much ur amaizing

[ILYFOREVER991]

Omg ! I swear you are my role model! I truly love ur advice -3 btw

[lovefeilunhai21]

u are really good. please make more videos. I LOVE U!!

[457kl]

"if someones going to be mean to you or say bad things about you, they can just go Fuck off' haha so true.... inspiring video :) thankyouuu

[soooolivee]

i wonder what u work as ...ummm maybe as a conscience bet u get paid well cuz u r amazing and beautiful

[lalalalalaa916]

you're amazing. So inspiring. <3

[ArinaNova1]

you're a wise girl with a lot of sense. :)

[torrxlovexbeauty]

girl your amazing i just went threw a breakup and it was tough, but you gave me my confidence back seriously i watched your vids and you made me smile for the first time in days, you are beautiful inside and out(: <3 please make more vids with advice!(:

[rhcp4565]

You're so beautiful, both inside and out.

[stefanimichelle11]

love this. thank you.

[Panixable]

I'd like to point out that even though you have labeled this as a "Girl's guide", the advice that you give is applicable to both genders. Regardless of who you are, you need to be happy with yourself, as you point out in your video. This applies equally to men and women. Thank you for sharing your excellent insights.

[Rhonda55400]

That is what I need to work on, separating myself from toxic friends. They tell all my personal life story to people that I don't know, but whenever I'm introduce to them on a date, the other person already knows everything about me, which makes me feel vulnerable. 

[Lshokso]

thank you, you are great, :)

[EWilsonLife]

You're so smart! So many girls need to watch this...

[worldtrolling]

I had a g/f once, she kept nagging me so I buried her in the tomato patch - the tomatos are doing great.

[6KsM]

Ive been watching your videos, and you are honestly the most beautiful person that i have met. Im not only talking about looks, i mean you are the most inspiring person. You just want to help people. You are amazing! You helped me soo much! <3

[Destinee808West]

Im going thru this right now. Not a great stage in my life. Thank you so much for these videos.

[yvonnia123]

Damn this girl is awesome!

[BubsBeautyBoutique]

I'm 12...and I'm depressed. Thanks for making this...<3

[sexylexy617]

lol EVEN snooki has standards.... XD

[HollyHolzxx]

I wish you were my conscience :') You are so great :)

[BeautiifulLiiife]

This video is unbelievably inspiring. thank you so much!

[lauriekaypoli]

Wow this really made me think, just this week someone I was really close to left me and I felt as she describes it, an empty shell, this girl really knows what lifes like. :)

[GreenRoheline]

I totally agree. I don't think that one can be really happy with someone when they are not happy with themselves in the first place.

[zippyspring]

You are wise beyond your years.

[Buttons4me2010]

You are really sweet. Your voice is really relaxing and you remind me of Rachel McAdams! x

[FashionIcon85]

It's so nice to hear this from someone who's just like me. It's like having a pep talk from a close girlfriend. Very inspiring.

[lataviajonas]

this was put on my birthday XD and i dont need a man to make me happy it will not come out good

[leighi92]

I think that this is such a great video and there needs to be more people like you in the world and on youtube! Im in college now and I have the same perspective as you do...I'm sure this video has helped so many guys and girls with accepting themselves for them, not depending on their happiness to come from a relationship, etc. :)

[ThePensRainbow]

I meant to say I had been jumping back into relationships too soon but now I'm gonna be happy being single and love myself

[ThePensRainbow]

thankyou so much for this video,it open my eyes I'm single now I just got broken up with and I realize now that I was being codependent with all my relstionships I jumped back into another one,but now I am being independent and happy with myself and who I am,thanks lots :)

[dothebod]

I totally agree with your first point. When I was single and something good and happy was going on in my life I always thought that like yeah I'm happy but I be even happier if I had someone to share this experience with. Then I got a bf and realized then when something good happens to me I feel happy regardless of whether I'm single or not. I realized that having a boy won't make everything better, you can make things good on your own:)

[sammie2185]

Thank you,Great video.You have a beautiful smile :-) xxx

[orangefanta22]

Thank you so much.... thank you. This is exactly what I needed and I can relate to it so much. -3

[themjep]

I love your voice.

[moreie]

your awesome..thanks !!

[MickeyPooh902]

Did you dye your hair.? Like in the back it looks like black.?

[shellmii]

i just found ur videos and it makes me feel so good cuz im in a bad moment thank u

[Jessi2111]

I'm going to watch this video at least once a month to remind myself of what you are saying because it is just so true and I definitly need to learn to be happy with myself!

[michellek6708]

This is awesome and really helped me :)

[AllThatDiamonds]

Thanks for the video, this really helped

[minotcp]

Hiii! Just wanted to say I miss your videos and I hope life's being awesome to you!!!!

[waterLily091]

thanks So much. Needed this!

[IHeartParamore13]

You are AMAZING. Seriously, SO inspirational. I love watching these pep talk sort of videos from you :)

[NIAMHSAV]

You're like my Guru! I look up to you so much! <3

[Forevermyself07]

"Be who you are, and say what you feel. Because those who matter don't mind and those you mind don't matter.

[Pigg0]

A list!?

[thegirlinspired]

Thank you so much for this video. I know exactly what you mean when you said you were a shell of yourself. I don't know what my interests are, I don't know what I want to do with my life. I feel like I don't know who I am. This video makes me feel stronger just knowing I am not the only person to feel this way so thank you so much

[TapiocaDexterin]

@777blueblood thanks for your nice comment, good to know I'm not the only one!

[elvali0205]

I agree with you...you're very inspiring...

[LotsofLove06]

Great video! <3

[Kellanner]

this video was so good!! im a single lady and definitely need to take some of your advice sometimes so thank you for making me remember what is important <3

[WeMakeUup]

i really loved this video ty

[MissCathiD]

i really love these kinds of videos that you do.. you are such a warm person wanting to really reach out to people about this. i know i have to listen to the things you say in this video, cause tbh.. my confidence is crap. thank you, hun :)

[ditzyxxdoll]

just when I think I can't like you anymore you post something that makes me love you all over again (not to sound all creepy! LOL)

[TapiocaDexterin]

My boyfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago by phone, I never even got to say goodbye to him in person. I've been so upset and lonely and waiting and waiting for him to call me. I hadn't heard from him so I called him today a few times and he won't answer. I don't know what happened with us. I've been crying all day and I feel so crappy. How can I be happy again when someone who said he loves me does this to me?

[777blueblood]

@TapiocaDexterin I know exactly how you feel right now, been through the same thing. Don't do anything crazy. Right now you probably feel like you'll never get over the pain but just give it time and you'll get over him and be happy again, probably happier and stronger than ever! If he's so insensitive and rude to break up with you by phone and doesn't answer your calls than he isn't worthy of your love.

[GlittersHottPink]

<3 WELL SAID !

[CiaraHilton]

thank you so much for this video. I'm allways thinking why don't I have a boyfriend. Well, thanks to you I realised it's not necessary and that I just have to live my life and be happy with who I am and what i'm doing. x

[yankeegirl19]

"even snookie has standards" hahaha

[xJoeJonasIsHotx]

l love your videos! you are such a great person! =)

[computers435]

you are so wise! love u gurl!

[TiffyTindellMusic]

so I want you to be my best friend haha:)

[computers435]

@TiffyTindellMusic me too!

[TheLuLuRoom]

I absolutely needed this video right now. I love you to death Kay! Thanks so much for having such a great head on your shoulders and speaking the truth. You're beyond awesome! <3

[Itsallaboutmakeup14]

I really needed to here these things, really inspiring ♥

[pinkwooll]

THIS IS A GREAT VIDEO! great job!

[MegaShopaholic13]

love these advice vids!!!!

[nuttynelly92]

this video has really helped recently got out of a relationship-he cheated apart from that i was never happy and didnt know myself as was trying to conform to what he wanted it only made me cry then he turned out to be a cheat- in now doing so much better and enjoying finding myself this video is something else that has helped me in this process your video was lovely :)

[yazerella]

LOVED this video. You're so right about everything, too. How can you expect someone else to love you if you don't love yourself first! :) xxx

[xojmlxo88]

i talk to myself all the time... it sounds really really weird but i feel like if you talk out everything you dont hold it you wont be as depressed because it is out there and it kinds helps you let it all out and not bottle it up... you are an amazing person and i understand everything!

[misscanadianmakeup]

This is why I subbed to you, you give such awsome advice :) <3

[differentbeautifully]

you seem a lot like my sister....although she lives a while away I'm close to her. She has trouble with feeling good about herself and through writing poems I've realized I will be myself and other ppl who don't accept me aren't worth it. I would never change for a guy...I want a relationship where someones morals are similar to mine. I have a hard time being content w/ myself b/c ppl have said somethings wrong with me all my life...but I am trying to learn and be who I am.

[xAdrianaxL]

i hope you do other similar videos to this!! it really helped!

[lemoniealmonds]

This is all so true, it took me forever to realize that the person I made myself be, was the person that people WANTED me to be. Not necessarily who I am. But it is taking even longer to turn around and be the person who I want to be, not what everyone else wants, I still struggle with it daily because I pretended to be fine and not depressed. When your a teenage its so hard not to just give in to the pressure and be 'perfect'...but in reality none of us can be. We need to be who we are

[Surfandsandmegs]

One thing I find really difficult is being confident, especially around guys! I am naturally quite shy with people I don't know, and there's a guy I've liked for ages, and we're friends and flirt sometimes, but I find myself just too shy to go up and talk to him. Any tips from anyone on confidence generally or relating to guys would be really helpful! Thanks :) I loved this video too, all your advice videos are so helpful :) Thanks xoxox

[xlovechild]

Great video, I think a lot of girls (and even guys) would benefit from taking this advice.

[hayleyistcb]

you are amazing! GREAT tips <3

[rajkumariharita21]

OMG i love ur advise so much... really nice and well done.. ur giving positive advise to others and its really beautiful. ur so beautiful :) really great video :)

[kennedymeow]

Soooo LOVE YOU! :)

[newi133]

you should talk about your previous relationships and how you over-come the problems you had.. cause i think that would be really helpful for some girls, including me! thanks x

[bonjovigrly]

Great video!

"Even Snooki has standards." Hahaha, that made me laugh :)

[piluulip]

Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!

You're the BEST! -3

[FuriouslyFabulous]

Thankyou for this i needed to hear it ! <33 xx

[rustybobbbypins]

i agree with many of your points. thank you for putting up this video girl *hugs*

[19Sternlein87]

I LOVE you for this video!

A lot of girls should watch it!

If women have a single fault, it is that they forget what they are worth !

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME, EFFORTS AND LOVE YOU PUT IN ALL YOUR VIDEOS! <3

[amysass7]

you are gorgeous! :) beautiful person, thank you for being a breath of fresh air. I agree 100% with everything that you talk about in this video. I always get hassled about not having a boyfriend, about not being boy obsessed - but truthfully I am very happy doing my own thing and it will happen when it's meant to. <3

[Jessi2111]

love love love you! great video!

you're the sweetest person ever <3

[BostonFrost]

you should definitely write a self esteem type book for females... i would buy it!!

[imprezanic0le]

I love your videos. I have a bf, but its the only thing i have, dont go out with friends, because i dont like going out at all... and im terrible at making new friends... im 19 in a month, and 19 year olds should be happier than this..

[justarollercoaster]

some people are all like "do you have a boyfriend?" and I'm like "nope!" and they always answer "oh, it's because you're so beautiful and it's hard to imagine you dont have one"

and well, I'm not gonna say I feel flattered and all (by the compliment), but truth is that, I just dont think I'll feel more complete if I'm with someone. I may like someone and want him to be by my side, but I wont be better. I'm who I am and I dont need anyone to prove that, you know?

great tips!

[charlenehills]

if anything im happier when im single haha :)

[lizzy201292]

ypu are awesome i soo needed this right now. please do more vids like these thank you soo much

[sillylily89]

you are an amazing genuine person and I appreciate that you care enough to take the time to make these videos. You've helped me so much :)

[anai0]

Holly shit I love you!!!!

[xoxoxojessica]

:) Thank you for making this,

[siamesa234]

I had physical violence in other relationship too, I ended that relationship, 2 years ago and I haven´t recover at all :( thanks for sharing your experience, and for your advice

[pucca902]

ok

[pine4apples]

I love you! Thank you for making this, there are definitely people who need this.

[3n3n505]

it happen to me 2 ....

[3n3n505]

i happen to me 2 ....

[MakeupObsessedx3]

all I can say is: AMEN SISTER.

can't even explain how you are sooo right.

love your vids !! <3

[glitzybrunette14]

"Even Snooki has standards." lol && Thanks for the good advice, I loved this video. :)

[michvb123]

for the people who talk behind your back, your already infront of them

[mariatee1]

thanks for the video!

[babbyycaakkes]

you are such a beautiful person! i totally agree with all these points. the thing about not settling really got to me. :) i haven't been in anything close to a serious relationship, i haven't kissed a guy and i'm proud of it. i have standards and i won't just settle. :D :) <3 LOVE THIS VIDEO.

thanks so much for the great tips!

xx

[xoxoxojessica]

I have a q for u i am 16 going on 17 and i never ever had a bf and i do like a boy but i am afraid to go up and ask him if he likes me back so i was wondering if u have any advice

[computers435]

@babbyycaakkes how old r u??

[kimberlyE100]

Thanks so much for this. I just got out of a relationship I was in for 2 years with this guy. Im still in high school while he was in college. It went good at first but then he never had time for me. So we broke up, lately ive been feeling so lonely now that hes not around cause we would do everything together. I need to be happy with myself first. Thanks so much! <3

[SillyMando2008]

Take a drink, it helps coughing fits! It REALLY does =)

[beckylovesmakeupx]

This vid helped alot thanks :) x

[misaki52008]

great quality of ur cam

[BahahaVal]

Great advice <3

[sincerlyolivia]

I seriously needed to hear this:)

thank you!

[kutieangel09]

this video is just what i needed. thank you so much. you're so inspirational! <3

[SuperBambi101]

<3 ! FAVORITE youtuber ever. !