Bravo for being open and honest. You sure don't want to waste time and money. It's the first time too so maybe as time goes on you'll find different ways and time to come that will work for you. Best of luck.
oh man. hahaha. i see myself making a video identical to this several months in the future. good luck bro! pretty girls, ugh. it's gonna be awesome though! i can't wait to hear how it goes.
Good luck man! Your totally right, if she's not cool with it not worth the time and money anyways. Just be yourself, thats all that you can do, good luck!
you'll be good, man. i think it's best to just get it out there on the table at the beginning in a no big deal kind of way. i use the phrasing "i was born transgender which means..." and then i move on to something else. you're right, no sense in wasting time, money and energy if there's no chance of it going anywhere. good luck and enjoy!
Well, I was pre-t so it was kinda obvious to him from an early point. I pass fine but I look way younger than I am! He waited for me to tell him and it took me a whole year. Not the best way to start a relationship but we are still going strong! He confronted me a couple of times, asking why I wouldn't take my shirt off etc. but he was pretty amazing about everything! I would recommend letting someone know earlier though. It'll be better for you as well as her :)
OK babe here is my two cents worth! Honesty is the best policy and if she is close minded so be it. But at least you stepped out and put yourself out there for the first time. If this one doesn't work out then you move forward but at least you got the "first time" out of the way. I am so PROUD that I know you and that I can call you my friend even if you are a DORK :) Hugssssss babe! Merry CHRISTmas
I've done it but I was too scared to do it on the first date. I waited longer but I wish I did it sooner. It all turned out well and we have been together for 4 years now! Best of luck dude :)
I've done it. I was pleasantly surprised she was shocked at first. She said she thought it would change how she saw me and it didn't. She was a gal from a cafe I go to a lot. I'd been going to that cafe for like 2-3 months before we went on a date tho... but not like we had much more than a little flirting here and there before hand... so best of luck.. She will be more cool with it if you don't approach it like a stigma. just be like, I like you and this is where I'm coming from just be honest.
Good luck man! You might not think you have any game but your personality is amazing and that should get you much farther than any game could lol. As for advice just be honest. Plus make a video after your date....I feel so nervous for you! good luck bro.
lucky girl...
thamesickle 1 month ago 3
@thamesickle Aw, that's really sweet.
cljohns7509 1 month ago
Dude how was the date?? I hope everything went well
Kades6KF 2 months ago
how'd it go??????
ALionsFears 2 months ago
Bravo for being open and honest. You sure don't want to waste time and money. It's the first time too so maybe as time goes on you'll find different ways and time to come that will work for you. Best of luck.
JackGr8ndEmpire 2 months ago
Hey man good luck! I haven't done that yet so I'm nervous for the future. Let me know how it goes
ThePaper05 2 months ago
oh man. hahaha. i see myself making a video identical to this several months in the future. good luck bro! pretty girls, ugh. it's gonna be awesome though! i can't wait to hear how it goes.
yourpalwes 2 months ago
Good luck man! Your totally right, if she's not cool with it not worth the time and money anyways. Just be yourself, thats all that you can do, good luck!
Ricky8978 2 months ago
you'll be good, man. i think it's best to just get it out there on the table at the beginning in a no big deal kind of way. i use the phrasing "i was born transgender which means..." and then i move on to something else. you're right, no sense in wasting time, money and energy if there's no chance of it going anywhere. good luck and enjoy!
Zedie36 2 months ago
@Cljohns7509
Well, I was pre-t so it was kinda obvious to him from an early point. I pass fine but I look way younger than I am! He waited for me to tell him and it took me a whole year. Not the best way to start a relationship but we are still going strong! He confronted me a couple of times, asking why I wouldn't take my shirt off etc. but he was pretty amazing about everything! I would recommend letting someone know earlier though. It'll be better for you as well as her :)
FTMDaniel 2 months ago
OK babe here is my two cents worth! Honesty is the best policy and if she is close minded so be it. But at least you stepped out and put yourself out there for the first time. If this one doesn't work out then you move forward but at least you got the "first time" out of the way. I am so PROUD that I know you and that I can call you my friend even if you are a DORK :) Hugssssss babe! Merry CHRISTmas
WeeksPam 2 months ago
HA! Maybe she's trans too! Wouldn't that be awesome....! You're right, you don't have any game ;P
tiresianphoenix 2 months ago
@tiresianphoenix Oh, that would be awesome!
cljohns7509 2 months ago
omg nervous for you man...never done it myself (only 6 weeks on t) but good luck! You have a good frame of mind with the whole thing :)
IzaacsMind 2 months ago
@IzaacsMind Thanks man!
cljohns7509 2 months ago
I've done it but I was too scared to do it on the first date. I waited longer but I wish I did it sooner. It all turned out well and we have been together for 4 years now! Best of luck dude :)
FTMDaniel 2 months ago
@FTMDaniel Thanks! How long did you wait and what did the person say?
cljohns7509 2 months ago
omg man I have no idea. Now I'm nervous too! O_O I think AndyBax has it right. Good Luck!
myskaal 2 months ago
@myskaal Thanks dude!
cljohns7509 2 months ago
keep us posted. i wouldn't tell her on the first date. kinda see where its heading. and if it looks like
shes totally into u and seems like she wants to get further with u. then i would slide it in there nice and gently.
cubecalirican 2 months ago
@cubecalirican I'll def keep you posted. :)
cljohns7509 2 months ago
I've done it. I was pleasantly surprised she was shocked at first. She said she thought it would change how she saw me and it didn't. She was a gal from a cafe I go to a lot. I'd been going to that cafe for like 2-3 months before we went on a date tho... but not like we had much more than a little flirting here and there before hand... so best of luck.. She will be more cool with it if you don't approach it like a stigma. just be like, I like you and this is where I'm coming from just be honest.
AndyBax23 2 months ago
@AndyBax23 Yea, that's the approach I was thinking about. I'll keep ya posted, lol.
cljohns7509 2 months ago
Good luck man! You might not think you have any game but your personality is amazing and that should get you much farther than any game could lol. As for advice just be honest. Plus make a video after your date....I feel so nervous for you! good luck bro.
JakeAshtonRyan 2 months ago
@JakeAshtonRyan Thanks Jake! I probably will make another one.
cljohns7509 2 months ago