How to make a long distance relationship Work

[cupcakes1308]

I live in New Mexico & my boyfriend lives in Texas.. We've been together two and a half weeks but have been talking for a whole month and I've known him for a whole year. He's hurt me in the past,but I just can't help but like him sooo much..now that we're going out again I'm scared:( it's happening all over again we text constantly and now it's every now and then...pretty soon he's not gonna text me back anymore:/ should I just end things??

[Vendolinka]

I'm sorry your long distance relationship didn't work out that well...I'm from the Czech Republic and my boyfriend is from the Usa so I'm going through the same thing you went through before lol I know this is a really personal question but...Why did you guys break up?? o.O

[LC1Banana]

My girl moves back to germany in 3 weeks. We've been dating for a year and were deeply in love so were guna keep it going. I want it to work so bad, But it's fucking depressing. It hurts, she's probably coming back in like 2 years for university so we planned a few trips and were guna keep it going. I hope it works so bad

[jayubig]

@LC1Banana hope it works 4 u 2

[fatkally]

It's really good to hear it from a guys perspective who have actually been in one because most of the videos on here (on this subject) are by girls. It seems like your video is a lot more practical than the others. Thank you. x]

[NightAuthor]

(Sorry for late reply) The more you talk to your significant other, you will grow in trust. and with trust usually jealousy goes away. I personally had to deal with this issue, after while being with my girlfriend, a special connection began to develop and feeling that special, feeling that she cared for me, and only me...thats what made the jealousy go away.

[GuitarPlayah15]

um i need advice.....my biggest problem is trust, and jealousy. how can i get over it?

[sonicsarahx]

hahahaha, i have a second life :}

[NightAuthor]

The real question is...

do you have a first life?

[GuitarPlayah15]

haha owned

[lovelybaby1522]

you can go back and forth with letters. :D

[meangirl66]

i have second life!!!

[NightAuthor]

Whats ur name?

Maybe we can hang out.

[RaulRockMe]

aha I'm in the same situation.

I live in Virginia USA, and my gf is staying in Germany for 10 months.

We've been together for one year. This is my longest relation ship, before id go party and do what ever i want until i met her, then i guess we both settled down.

But anyways, thanks for the advice. She only got there yesterday so I guess I'll see how things go. but yeah your advice helped some so thanks.

[NightAuthor]

Tell me how things go, if you need any other advice, have any other questions feel free to post it here in the comments.

It may be a question common to more people and I will get back to you as soon as possible with an answer.

[nanc33333]

ohh okay good to hear =)

[nanc33333]

thank you , well it seems to me that you're tearing, sniffing? catched a cold? or i just see it cause the webcam is blur ? :O

[NightAuthor]

Lol, I dont think I war tearing...maybe sick.

But, I did get a new cam.

[jessyvs]

thank you! I'm having a difficult time now, but watching this helps!

I'm from belgium, my boyfriend is from Brazil. I'm fed up with the comments of other people, saying that our love isn't real..

[NightAuthor]

Im not going to say it is or isnt real. All I can say is that I personally believe love is different for different people At the very least this will be a great way to develop your character. Its a two way street as any relationship is, so if both of you put the effort you should be able to make this work.

Personally, my relationship didnt work. But it was because of a lack of effort. A friend of mine is going on 3 years working on similar ideas. I wish you the same luck.

[Satoria109]

thanks man.....good info

[RachealXMae]

Haha; This is good.

It helps alot! ^-^