Sarah, set the mood, try not to think about all those things that are going on the "plate" for a couple of hours.. Listen to music and concentrate on the lyrics..distract your mind..It always helps me to visualize my goal.. Holding my baby and dancing with it LOL. You're doing great Sarah TRY not to think of the What If's.. Positive thinking ONLY. Hugs :)
Please remember you are not alone there is a lot of women going through this and together we are going to make it!
Sarah, I know you and I have spoken on this matter quite a bit in the past. My sex life with DH is stronger than ever (after 2 years of TTC) cryobanking sperm, a failed procedure and one coming up very soon. .. you know where to find me if you'd like to chat.
I don't know if I can comment on this and we've only been trying for a yr (still a bloody long time) but the last 2 months Ive felt exactly the same as you... It becomes more of a chore then a pleasure.
Keep your chin up Hun, and be positive just think you could be holding your baby at the end of the year!
ill be honest i went thought the same thing (like im sure we all do at some point) h but in time my urge came back. but that was 2 years ago (when I dint even want to here the word sex) hubby and I cant afford IVF or IUI. sooo i start clomed soon and my biggest fear is that what if that doesnt work?
but ill tell you a TMI thing i used to do with my hubby in a pm after i post this
Oh girl, you sound just like me a few months ago, i told my Dr id rather eat rocks then have sex.lol. I didnt want to be touched.Its so hard cuz you gotta have sex to have a baby. Sometimes i would just to it anyways. I found going on a date night helped alot, we were so relaxed and after enjoying the night together sex was always after. People told me to spice it up, but after us being together for 8 years there isnt much we havent done before. Try a date night maybe. best of luck to u
with this alot. When I feel like this I go down to the store buy something sexy and wait for him to come home and suprise him with it. We have to make time for it at times but I feel this helps. Just a suggestion.
I understand where you are coming from. We try to have children and we make sex a chore that we HAVE to do it to try to have a baby and that is waht I feel takes the sex life away. I would suggest taking the baby part out of it and remembering that you have to connect in that way with your husband. I know that the baby thing is weighing in ALOT since u r going with IVF but sometimes you have to try to put it all down and make time for you and him. My husband is diabetic and struggles
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Sarah, set the mood, try not to think about all those things that are going on the "plate" for a couple of hours.. Listen to music and concentrate on the lyrics..distract your mind..It always helps me to visualize my goal.. Holding my baby and dancing with it LOL. You're doing great Sarah TRY not to think of the What If's.. Positive thinking ONLY. Hugs :)
Please remember you are not alone there is a lot of women going through this and together we are going to make it!
punknspice1 2 years ago
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punknspice1 2 years ago
Sarah, I know you and I have spoken on this matter quite a bit in the past. My sex life with DH is stronger than ever (after 2 years of TTC) cryobanking sperm, a failed procedure and one coming up very soon. .. you know where to find me if you'd like to chat.
xoxo
MrsMelissaNewcomb 2 years ago
I don't know if I can comment on this and we've only been trying for a yr (still a bloody long time) but the last 2 months Ive felt exactly the same as you... It becomes more of a chore then a pleasure.
Keep your chin up Hun, and be positive just think you could be holding your baby at the end of the year!
karina xx
misshuni88 2 years ago
Damn Birth Control!
PeskyPCOS 2 years ago
ill be honest i went thought the same thing (like im sure we all do at some point) h but in time my urge came back. but that was 2 years ago (when I dint even want to here the word sex) hubby and I cant afford IVF or IUI. sooo i start clomed soon and my biggest fear is that what if that doesnt work?
but ill tell you a TMI thing i used to do with my hubby in a pm after i post this
hoshikisu 2 years ago
Oh girl, you sound just like me a few months ago, i told my Dr id rather eat rocks then have sex.lol. I didnt want to be touched.Its so hard cuz you gotta have sex to have a baby. Sometimes i would just to it anyways. I found going on a date night helped alot, we were so relaxed and after enjoying the night together sex was always after. People told me to spice it up, but after us being together for 8 years there isnt much we havent done before. Try a date night maybe. best of luck to u
furrycomet 2 years ago
with this alot. When I feel like this I go down to the store buy something sexy and wait for him to come home and suprise him with it. We have to make time for it at times but I feel this helps. Just a suggestion.
jimsbaby19 2 years ago
I understand where you are coming from. We try to have children and we make sex a chore that we HAVE to do it to try to have a baby and that is waht I feel takes the sex life away. I would suggest taking the baby part out of it and remembering that you have to connect in that way with your husband. I know that the baby thing is weighing in ALOT since u r going with IVF but sometimes you have to try to put it all down and make time for you and him. My husband is diabetic and struggles
jimsbaby19 2 years ago