@PugSleasy Would it be more accurate to say that living under a System of Racism (White Supremacy) is what is causing such a strain on the relationships between black males and females?
Until you understand Racism (White Supremacy), what it is and how it works, everything else that you think you understand will only confuse you more.
I really think my parents' generation is where the break down began. Men weren't able to find work to provide, women stepped up and got their education giving them independence. Men either through plain negligence or lack of application haven't stepped up as the women have on a large scale. Black male incarceration is up but education is down. The black woman isn't willing to struggle like generation before. Women want a man who already has it together which are very few. The struggle is key!
@mhoussel ALL females want a male partner who already has it together.. no female wants to raise a male except for those that she gives birth to. I hope you are not trying to take a natural female disposition and blame the female for having the natural inclination to find a man who offers SECURITY to be attractive and desirable. Even the animals look for that. Black females ARE struggling. Whether willing or not, under a system of Racism- WE AL ARE.
wow its so funny how when they asked the question whats wrong with black men people started naming stuff but then they asked whats wrong with black women and nothing was named.SMH
leasining to hip hop you realize that the player, pimping image is a lot of what is rap about, seeing the movie dolemite I realize that a lot of the songs hip hop artist sing today are inspire from. that dolemite image, the rapers are not to blame because the issue is deepper than that, buth It´s seen like that dolemite image and life style is blown out of proportion when our young people try to be like that because It´s present as cool to the point It have become like the standart for us today.
To ask whatever happened to black love is to imply that it ever went anywhere.Black love is and always will be. If God is Love, Love is infinite, Black people just have to tap into the infinite source. People, Please stop thinking and speaking negativity into existence thoughts and words are creative.
@missfashunoitall BLACK LOVE is under direct and indirect attack.. 2010 made that VERY clear. The commercials that white people create on television showing black males and females disrespecting each other regularly ( in order to sell insurance and candy I guess?) and the amount of demeaning of each other going on online. is evidence that there is a war going on. So does the amount of black people running to jump in the beds of whites.
@TragicArrangements Some of us choose not to believe or watch tell-lie-vision... So commercials dont effect or having meaning to me. I speak from experience Black Love exists in 2011 and just because people argue or disagree does not mean they dont love each other. That is where people fall for the outer appearances without knowing the full story or history people share. In my everyday walk my reality is Black Love is strong!
My Solution is Black men Need to start acting like role models and stop this "i got 50 hoes", and black women need to stop subjecting themselves to this behavior only to complain in the future and also stop being so bloody angry.We need to stop blaming each other and start taking reponsibility for our actions. White people want us to be disjointed.
in order for you to love yourself you must first know yourself meaning we as blacks in this country have lost the connection to our past which was great so the images and stories of ourselves that we've been told starts from slavery which is bad when our past goes back much farther and is greater than that so when you see yourself in greatness first then it makes it easier to love yourself. we were the builders of the great pyramids.
Hey Blake, Thank's for watching my doc. To answer your question "What does it mean to love yourself?" "The state of being comfortable and at ease with all your faults and imperfections". We have to be easy with ourselves before we can even consider the thought of inviting someone into our world. Sometimes in our mind we are not good enough. When you love yourself your confidence is up, you walk with assurance, and that freedom from self-doubt is very attractive to people. I hope it helps.
Let's all take responsibilty for our own actions, and stop the blame culture. This is what the white man wants. They are intimidated by a strong black family! Dr. Joy Leary has done research on Post- Traumatic Slavery Syndrome, it is spot on!
To be fair, the statistics state that more black men date outside of their race. The media I believe is very instrumental in this, and in making black people hostile to each other. Don't believe the hype, there are black women who desire only a good black man. Me for one!
Black love is dying a little more and more every day. I see more black men and women dating outside of their race rather than dating each other and finding stereotypical reasons to keep themselves separate from one another. Its a shame.
BLACK MEN ARE PASSING OVER BLACK WOMEN for white asian and spanish girls. Black Women are making hateful faces at B men who are total strangers! she didn't want to love her fathers and her sons, so now she is destined to be alone forever! We cant handle your mean attitude sista! Just Walk On By!
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BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST REJECTED WOMEN ON EARTH!
While Blk men are the most sought after by every race!!!
Black college girls are being screwed by white boys who will never commit to them, but they think he loves her. Oprah offers false hope to Black women not knowing the history of white male stereotyping of BW as dirty whores.
Black women seek to hide their participation in white mens porn, knowing they r ruining the image of BW for all BM world wide. Black men see BW as tainted whores with loyalty to the very white men who oppress them!
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sear on YT '70% of African American women are single'
Oprah is sending BW to get white men, but never mentions all the African men in America, of Jamaicans or Hatians why just white men? Because Black women r total sellouts and dont deserve a Black man! White men consider them scum
laughin your fat ass off huh?? So you don't like black men because your white, where hurt by one, and mad about the fact that now your so fat only the worst black men are "availiable" to you and it upsets you?? If that's true your funny...
where is all of this coming from? I've never cheated on anyone and I certainly don't have AIDS. I have money and your mom thinks I look good and I'm fine with that.
Inspirational, Informative, and Universely Spiritual----It's so good to see and hear people speaking about what truly matters the most--Love--. This is the key to understanding how to truly have men and women understand themselves and one another. A show like this is something I enjoy watching--nice work!
...the white man tried to destroy it. Divide and conquer.
We can get it back.
We will get it back...if we really want to.
We need to get it back, because right now we are dying and dying fast.
The secret to Black Unity lays in the most powerful force on this earth...
BLACK LOVE! :)
BlackSapphire8804 3 months ago
the keys we have to get our culture back which starts with your nature before it was tampered with
snuggles668 6 months ago
Whatever Happened to Black Love?
Answer: Feminism
blackbolt75 9 months ago
@PugSleasy Would it be more accurate to say that living under a System of Racism (White Supremacy) is what is causing such a strain on the relationships between black males and females?
Until you understand Racism (White Supremacy), what it is and how it works, everything else that you think you understand will only confuse you more.
TragicArrangements 1 year ago
we talk about these subject on our show
BlackLoveTalkShow 2 years ago
I really think my parents' generation is where the break down began. Men weren't able to find work to provide, women stepped up and got their education giving them independence. Men either through plain negligence or lack of application haven't stepped up as the women have on a large scale. Black male incarceration is up but education is down. The black woman isn't willing to struggle like generation before. Women want a man who already has it together which are very few. The struggle is key!
mhoussel 2 years ago
@mhoussel ALL females want a male partner who already has it together.. no female wants to raise a male except for those that she gives birth to. I hope you are not trying to take a natural female disposition and blame the female for having the natural inclination to find a man who offers SECURITY to be attractive and desirable. Even the animals look for that. Black females ARE struggling. Whether willing or not, under a system of Racism- WE AL ARE.
TragicArrangements 1 year ago
wow its so funny how when they asked the question whats wrong with black men people started naming stuff but then they asked whats wrong with black women and nothing was named.SMH
brianbmf 2 years ago
@brianbmf Racism ( White Supremacy) has done a JOB on the minds of black people. YOU ALL, WE ALL have serious problems. We are VERY confused.
TragicArrangements 1 year ago
@TragicArrangements Yea this is true,but what I was pointing out was the fact that when they asked whats wrong with black women nobody said anything.
brianbmf 1 year ago
Sweet and honest, unconditional and respectful.
spanishliljon 3 years ago
Are they serious? No wonder I havent seen this cuz its all false.
DDefiance843 3 years ago
Dorcia please call my number, I know im ten years younger , but it can work
MUN7001 3 years ago
blk love is the best thing in the world
jordan484 3 years ago 18
we cant fall for the devil trap spread black love
jordan484 3 years ago 7
na thats what i'm talking about. fuck interracial
teflonproduction 3 years ago 6
what devil trap do you mean black men going for white chicks and vise versa
06pimpybabe 2 years ago
leasining to hip hop you realize that the player, pimping image is a lot of what is rap about, seeing the movie dolemite I realize that a lot of the songs hip hop artist sing today are inspire from. that dolemite image, the rapers are not to blame because the issue is deepper than that, buth It´s seen like that dolemite image and life style is blown out of proportion when our young people try to be like that because It´s present as cool to the point It have become like the standart for us today.
panamanubian 4 years ago
To ask whatever happened to black love is to imply that it ever went anywhere.Black love is and always will be. If God is Love, Love is infinite, Black people just have to tap into the infinite source. People, Please stop thinking and speaking negativity into existence thoughts and words are creative.
missfashunoitall 4 years ago 12
@missfashunoitall BLACK LOVE is under direct and indirect attack.. 2010 made that VERY clear. The commercials that white people create on television showing black males and females disrespecting each other regularly ( in order to sell insurance and candy I guess?) and the amount of demeaning of each other going on online. is evidence that there is a war going on. So does the amount of black people running to jump in the beds of whites.
TragicArrangements 1 year ago
@TragicArrangements Some of us choose not to believe or watch tell-lie-vision... So commercials dont effect or having meaning to me. I speak from experience Black Love exists in 2011 and just because people argue or disagree does not mean they dont love each other. That is where people fall for the outer appearances without knowing the full story or history people share. In my everyday walk my reality is Black Love is strong!
missfashunoitall 1 year ago
Great Job, John Smooth!
childhush 4 years ago
peace and love, im a single man from Alabama looking for a single woman and it is rough.
khepruuu 4 years ago
My Solution is Black men Need to start acting like role models and stop this "i got 50 hoes", and black women need to stop subjecting themselves to this behavior only to complain in the future and also stop being so bloody angry.We need to stop blaming each other and start taking reponsibility for our actions. White people want us to be disjointed.
Black love all the way!!!!!!
lillie20 4 years ago 6
I think I've got a reply to me earlier question at 7:28 but still not sure about it.
BlakeVII 4 years ago
in order for you to love yourself you must first know yourself meaning we as blacks in this country have lost the connection to our past which was great so the images and stories of ourselves that we've been told starts from slavery which is bad when our past goes back much farther and is greater than that so when you see yourself in greatness first then it makes it easier to love yourself. we were the builders of the great pyramids.
khepruuu 4 years ago
I thank you for your response. I think its great that I can ask questions like this and not be ridiculed for it.
BlakeVII 4 years ago
I going to ask this question because I don't think I really know the answer to it.
What does it mean to love yourself?
This phrase has always confused me.
Does it mean self restraint and dicipline?
BlakeVII 4 years ago
Hey Blake, Thank's for watching my doc. To answer your question "What does it mean to love yourself?" "The state of being comfortable and at ease with all your faults and imperfections". We have to be easy with ourselves before we can even consider the thought of inviting someone into our world. Sometimes in our mind we are not good enough. When you love yourself your confidence is up, you walk with assurance, and that freedom from self-doubt is very attractive to people. I hope it helps.
JohnSmooth 4 years ago
Thanks for that. I never really understood it until now.
BlakeVII 4 years ago
Does anyone believe that the person you're involved with has to be your best friend for the relationhship to be solid???
BlakeVII 4 years ago
Let's all take responsibilty for our own actions, and stop the blame culture. This is what the white man wants. They are intimidated by a strong black family! Dr. Joy Leary has done research on Post- Traumatic Slavery Syndrome, it is spot on!
Vessel23 4 years ago 2
I had the pleasure of meeting Dy Joy DeGruy Leary, She is a brilliant woman and knows what she is talking about.
JohnSmooth 2 years ago
To be fair, the statistics state that more black men date outside of their race. The media I believe is very instrumental in this, and in making black people hostile to each other. Don't believe the hype, there are black women who desire only a good black man. Me for one!
Vessel23 4 years ago 2
Black love is dying a little more and more every day. I see more black men and women dating outside of their race rather than dating each other and finding stereotypical reasons to keep themselves separate from one another. Its a shame.
SidewalksOfNY315 4 years ago 4
So you don't approve of mixed relationships???
BlakeVII 4 years ago
I dont and I never said I had a problem with mixed relationships. I just made a comment about what I see and hear on a day to day basis.
SidewalksOfNY315 4 years ago
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anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
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Theres no love for Black men coming from BW.
Black women are openly stating their preference for white men all over YT!
BW are some serious man-hatin hoes destined to be alone forever!
They are ungrateful, hard, stubborn, immoral whores.
Rejected above all women and rightfully so!!!!!
anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
lmfao u are funny stop and and what exactly are black men and before u call somebody a hoe look at yaself
Black men are ugly broke liars cheating undercova faygots ignorant disrespectful the list can go on
DivaAwwKrazy 4 years ago
both of you need to stop generalizing
youngalco 3 years ago 3
@DivaAwwKrazy DAMN GIRL! YOU ARE REEEEEEEEEEEEEALLY MAD!
STORMYB 10 months ago
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BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST REJECTED WOMEN ON EARTH!
While Blk men are the most sought after by every race!!!
Black college girls are being screwed by white boys who will never commit to them, but they think he loves her. Oprah offers false hope to Black women not knowing the history of white male stereotyping of BW as dirty whores.
anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
Hello Shannon Green, Being that I don't have enough space to repsond here I have responded on MYSPACE, you can read it on John Smooth's Myspace blog.
JohnSmooth 4 years ago
There is no such thing as " black love". Love isn't limited by race. Love is much larger than the notion of race.
xxShannonGreenxx 4 years ago
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Black women are rolling their eyes in disgust at TOTAL STRANGERS just because they r Black males!
Black women r destined to either be alone for life,
or suffer from depression because of the stigma of being an ugly nigger.
anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
Much love to you, my brother -- keep spreading this knowledge and truth, and keep us updated about your project.
Ebonyteach 4 years ago
Black women seek to hide their participation in white mens porn, knowing they r ruining the image of BW for all BM world wide. Black men see BW as tainted whores with loyalty to the very white men who oppress them!
anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
where did you come from?
youngalco 3 years ago
earth.
JohnSmooth 2 years ago 2
Thank you. Cadence Films has decided to expand the documentary to 60 minutes.Please look out for Cadence Films or John Smooth on MySpace
JohnSmooth 4 years ago
Interracial Dating should be in you tagline so black people who are considering that kind of harlotry can view this.
BicWild 4 years ago
PLeaSE!!!! Speak on how there is people that choose outside their race...due to having a negative self image of black people.
BicWild 4 years ago
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sear on YT '70% of African American women are single'
Oprah is sending BW to get white men, but never mentions all the African men in America, of Jamaicans or Hatians why just white men? Because Black women r total sellouts and dont deserve a Black man! White men consider them scum
anothayouinaminute 4 years ago
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deserve a black man LMFAO no women in their right man deserves a BLACK MAN who wants a AIDS infested undercova, ugly broke never shut the FUCK UP
DivaAwwKrazy 4 years ago
laughin your fat ass off huh?? So you don't like black men because your white, where hurt by one, and mad about the fact that now your so fat only the worst black men are "availiable" to you and it upsets you?? If that's true your funny...
BicWild 4 years ago 3
where is all of this coming from? I've never cheated on anyone and I certainly don't have AIDS. I have money and your mom thinks I look good and I'm fine with that.
youngalco 3 years ago
Inspirational, Informative, and Universely Spiritual----It's so good to see and hear people speaking about what truly matters the most--Love--. This is the key to understanding how to truly have men and women understand themselves and one another. A show like this is something I enjoy watching--nice work!
eagledancer 4 years ago
I'm really digging this concept - much needed info, and a wonderful cast of spokespersons.
boynamedfuture 4 years ago