Sex On The Third Date: Yes Or No?

[RozZy83]

Wow putting sex on a pedestal.

For me and all my guy friends it works like this.

The faster you get sex out of the way, the less its gonna be about sex.

Yes you heard me right. Guys are horny animals, and keeping sex out of the picture, will just make it worse and worse, and in the end when you get the sex... you realize that there was no romance there, no passion, just the need for sex.

EVERY relationship i had that lasted longer than 2 years, we had sex on the first date. The others failed.

[Ichliebemusikundybd]

Lmfao sex on the third date what's happening to the world. Love should always come before sex, if you just want to have sex go to a bar dummies

[MrLocario]

Even if a guy waits two months he can be pretending and will still leave you after he has sex with you. You ladies need to realize that it doesn't matter if you have sex with a guy on the third date or first date. It all depends on if he is into your personality

[Pierced93]

@MrLocario very true

[jnr8877]

In other words can I fornicate on the third date? The answer is a resounding NO. If he truly loved you, he would keep you pure and make a covenant with you.

JNR

[injaley]

There was a 3rd date rule??? I never even knew about this? Isn't that too soon anyway?? Who made up this stupid rule?

[wickednicestuff]

if i wouldnt share a toothbrush w a dude on third date then hes not getting any! has nothing to do w how many dates its how u feel about the person and how well u know them. guys lie to get it in dont need to catch diseases!

[Xisme66]

At least two months! WTF?

People should actually never have sex. That's right. You know why? Because onece you have sex with someone, you have fucked someone's mother. You are now a motherfucker.

[GenXRanter]

This depends on the age and point in life. Two months is good in your early 20's and you're looking for the person to start a family with. Where I'm at, which is 30s-40s divorced and done with kids two months is asinine. Meet the parents first? At this age that's fucking hysterical.

[cassiamotta]

I couldn't agree more. Guys who can't wait do not deserve to know how worth the wait can be! ;)

[skittb89]

2 months WTF???

HAHAHAHAHA

[RazorAceYU]

Waiting 2 months to even consider?

That's really a load of crap. Women love sex as much as guys, probably even more, but not putting out gives them leverage, ie they have control, and that's far more important than "feelings".

[kittyjuliette]

well sex on first date second date or after a whole lot more time doesnt matter. its about feelings. she's right about growing feelings and trusting one another. guys who cant wait are just pigs. if you want sex dat much why dont you spend on hookers or blow up dolls. dont spend money on us and expect sex on the spot, we're not hookers. dating is about imminent hole in your budget dude. if you cant work dat way, we'd rather be single. no woman likes pigs

[bondxxxmage]

FUCK THAT! 2 month Fuck that...

Im looking for love and all but if i have to wait 2 months ima just gna find another girl to try with.

[EliteDoomer]

Three strikes and your out. If you don't have sex with me by date three I'm going after your friends and enemies. You think I'm going to pour money into dating you for no sex? Are you fucking nuts? LOL

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer Man.....I wonder how many STD's you have from all the hookers you probably used. :/

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Zero, I use condoms. BTW all women are hookers, the only difference is long term vs short term.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer ....And all men are sexist cheaters who are never devoted to one woman. :)

See how hurtful and unreasonable that sounds? If you could just listen to yourself....out of all the 6.5 billion (or 7 billion) people on this world, I believe there are surely reasonable men and women who only want someone to love.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Love is for the weak and the stupid. It is biology's way of tricking us into sacrificing ourselves for offspring.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer ....Love isn't just for offspring. Don't you love your mother and father? Don't you love your friends and pets? Biology can't trick us into anything....it has no emotion or ambition (or life for that matter) and therefore it can't trick us. The only trick being played is the paranoia you are inflicting upon yourself.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 One day you will come to the realization that life has completely decimated you and all of your goals and aspirations. When the bitterness of the void's edge graces the fibres of your mind think back to this conversation where your foolish optimism blinded you from your true entropic fate. I know you’re not stupid enough to think I would fuck my family, pets or friends. Love involving sex between oppositely sexed couples often leads to procreation, which leads to slavery, fool.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer You seem very depressed.....I'm sorry for you. If you can't enjoy the simple pleasures in life then you are a very sad individual. There are awful things, life is awful as a whole. But life isn't awful on it's own, because it has no feelings. Only you make life awful for yourself.

Your last statement confuses me. I fail to understand how procreation leads to slavery. Hate and ignorance leads to slavery, not sex.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Fool, LOL. Having children is slavery! You will come to see this only when it is too late. Have fun with your pathetic existence.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer I'm so sorry, you must be a very depressed man who has had bad experiences in his life with love and children. I feel pity for you....really I do. Because no one could be this hostile without having something happen to them. You poor, poor, heartbroken man. :(

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Everyone's heart gets broken, so what? Don't feel sad for me, feel sad for you lol.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer But your heart is broken to the point where it's hurting you. Normal heart break doesn't make you hate children and women. You must have gone through some awful times. That's why I feel sorry for you and not me, because you'll never get to experience happiness with love and children.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 i dont hate children or women moron. I'm simply not to hand over all I have worked for to them.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer Who said you needed to hand over everything to them? You're exaggerating this. Besides, maybe it is hell for you, but it's not for everyone else. I guess then you'll just be lonely, but that is not my problem.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Not exaggerating at all. Family courts rape men out of their fortunes every day because they were stupid and they trusted their mate. Fools! You see mental invalid, I am capable of risk analysis and I care clearly see that getting hitched and/or having kids are not wise investments. They are toxic assets. I can also see that women judge men by how much money they have. So why in the fuck would I ever choose to share? LoL I'm interested in getting my dick wet and nothing else.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer Wow.....maybe you were sexually abused. :I I don't know, all I know is that that's not normal. I suppose it's a good thing you don't want a girl, because no girl would get with a man as insecure like you.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 Yet another ad hominem attack. Do you ever think or do you just pull shit out of your ass? Go back to watching your romantic comedies you delusional fucking moron.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer  You're just being emotional. If you want to cry, go do it. Guys like you make me laugh. The ones who are so cowardly that they can't handle a relationship.

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 I cry over things of worth. Not stupid little cunts like you bitching about how I should live my life :). I don't give two fucks or a shit about what you think. Know that as a female you will lose your worth as time passes. Each year will suck the physical attractiveness out of you and before you end forever it is you who will taste true loneliness. On the other hand I am judged by my fortune and ability to potentially provide. I'll be banging your daughter when she turns 18! :D

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer Oh you poor, poor, pitiful man. :) Throwing around cuss words and trying to tell me about "horrors" of age doesn't cover up your deep, deep saddness. Pitiful, pitiful man. :)

[EliteDoomer]

@kakashidemon321 You will rot with age and in time no man will want you. You are boring me now. Reply if you want, I'm going to ignore you. Go ahead, take the last word you fucking cunt.

[kakashidemon321]

@EliteDoomer You're depressing comments make me laugh. :) I don't need the last word, I am just telling you how much you make me laugh with every word you write. Calling me cunt and saying how I will "rot with age" is the most depressing cry for help I've read. You probably won't reply to this, since you are "bored". But If you are reading up until now it means that you really do care what other people think about you. Even when you are an old, crotchty man. I will feel sorry for you. :)

[magicishaq]

WHAT A FUCKING BITCH!!!

LISTEN UP GIRLS , SLEEP WITH THE GUY ON THE THIRD DATE.. SEX IS IMPORTANT..

JUST LIKE BUYING A CAR (which is a huge commitment) the guy must RIDE BEFORE HE BUYS.

USING SEX AS A WEAPON IS NEVER A GOOD THING.. LIKE THIS WOMAN IS SAYING. IT MAKES YOU MANIPULATIVE...

ANY GUY OF GOOD QUALITY IS GOING TO MOVE ONTO THE NEXT GIRL..

[meka4996]

How about Sex outside or inside a commitment??

Which one is more important, Sex or Commitment, thus which one do you do FIRST???

[savedogz]

if a man cant wait then he's just a sex crazy pig, and not worth anything if you want something real and lasting and meaningful. All men want is sex that I come across for me and its such a turn off lol. They hint at it and what not, gross and such a turn off, I want more then just sex. Sex is a bonus not a dam right, men think its a right, its not a right at all. Should get to know each other, maybe have feelings for each other, be bf gf, not just date buddies lol waiting can weed out the bad1s

[RockkStarr9]

You see, that's the problem. I don't want anything lasting. I don't want a relationship because don't think most women are worth it. I've seen firsthand just how Vile, mean, Unfaithful, and downright lustful women can be as i am often times the guy they cheat on their boyfriends with, all the while telling me they're single. And it's not just "slutty" ones. It's girls you'd never guess from looking at them.

How Old are you? 15. You seem to have very idealistic Views.

[RockkStarr9]

"Life, Liberty, And the pursuit of Happiness."

Do you know where those words are from? I think that Liberty means that I don't have to listen to women like you. And I can pursue my own Ideal of happiness instead of having to bow Down to others.

Women are just as sex crazed as Men if you think about it. The only difference is that whereas Men think about sex, women think about how to get it. Clothes, Hair, Makeup, and going out and hanging out with friends is all a way to get more sex.

[magicishaq]

THIS IS WHY YOUR SINGLE LOVE.. STOP BEING A SELFISH BITCH AND GIVE UP THE PUSSY.. no guy wants a fridged cow..

Of course us men.. can always feed you bullshit .. until we get the sex. or we can be honest (which is a good thing right?) by telling you the truth up front/..

all guys think this way.. until you accept it.. you will continue to be single

[kakashidemon321]

@magicishaq LOL, I think most women would rather turn lesbian than be with a disgusting, little, STD-infested piglet like you. :)

Go grow up, pussy. Women date men, girls date boys. And you are a boy, my friend. Go back to middle school, kiddie. :)

[magicishaq]

@kakashidemon321 lol and your single HAHAHA.. bitch you proved my point, im just stating the obvious here.. hate the game,

i just play by the rules.

[kakashidemon321]

@magicishaq True, I am single. But that is because I'd rather not date at all than date some sick freak like you. XDDD If anything being single makes me better than you, because I'm not desperate. :)

There are no rules. Even if there were I think you'd be doing the opposite of playing by them. :P

[rdm20fan]

Any guy who waits 2 months is not sure of his sexual intentions. AKA he is gay.

[RockkStarr9]

Two months? Your kidding right? After a month I'd say goodbye to her if we weren't having sex. I know that seems cruel, but I've heard(or overheard) several women all talking trash about their bf's behind their backs. They hadn't had sex yet. Later on they'd sleep with them and would never say a bad word about them again.

If I can't seduce her in a couple of dates, then I've done something wrong. Or I think I will.

[savedogz]

@RockkStarr9 your a pig then lol sex isnt the only thing lol everyone makes sex to be a big huge deal, sex is not a right but a bonus.

[RockkStarr9]

Really now? 75% of divorces are caused because the bedroom got stale. When a husband and wife don't have sex, next thing to come is divorce.

If I'm a pig, Then your a manipulative Bitch. Making men wait for the promise of sex to try to "catch" the guys is just you using your body to try to get a man to do what you want.

You say sex like the man and woman are going to dry hump each other and then go home. You obviously don't understand just how sex can deepen a relationship,

[HoneiiDiiva]

shut up!

[HoneiiDiiva]

agree, he's a retard!

[yachtsylvester1]

Good advice for young teens, waiting a few months. Ludicrous for adults though.

[kryptonitebullet179]

Yeah, especially when dates (even just getting drinks) these dates aren't cheap.

I'm glad we're more progressive sexually as a society though.

[BellaOfBacardi]

It's important to determine the genuine character of a guy. The shallow hedonistic type are usually forward about their motives. Quite a turn off, so no chance with me. The hubby-material guys look for chemistry + compatibility. Hubby material guys make great lovers and boyfriends, because they prefer exclusive loving relationships. These I give into soon (2-5 dates in) because I like them and want the sex.

[ScaryCannibalTrout1]

I sleep with them on the first date and then they think I'm they're girlfreind or something and won't go away. Maybe if you wait until they're practically sick of you before shagging them it works better?

Obviously different people date for vastly different reasons.

[unknownfantasygirl]

What if your sex obsessed like moi >.>

[ncfwhitetigress]

What the hell kind of slutwhore sleeps with a man on the third date?!??! I'd NEVER sleep with anyone I've only seen 3 times. That's fucking NUTS!!!

[Dutchess32006]

You don't have sex with a guy before you're in a solid relationship with him... end of story. Too many men out there just want sex, they're a disgusting bunch of pigs.

[savedogz]

all guys want is sex more times out of 10 then a relationship that will turn into a life time together. So if women make them wait they can weed out the bad men, and men who just want to fuck cause its not making love to them and then leave lol

[FormulaWill]

Good advice. Guys that don't want to wait 2 months or even longer are not worth it if you are looking for a serious relationship.

[Trixiaoyu]

@FormulaWill - and who says sex devalues serious relationships? It's because of people like you that sex-less 5, 10, 30, 40000 million year (LOL) marriages fail.

[flag4eva]

Sex is for marriage. Don't destroy your soul and your chances of being happy by burning it with other peoples burdens, because that's what happens when two people become one. How many peoples burden are you sharing? Stop now if you are sexually active and not married. And just don't do it if you are. Plus think of AIDs and other STDs!

[FormulaWill]

Hilarious! Sex is fun. Mature responsible adults can have sex and be safe about it. I have a feeling you are just being funny though. Who thinks like this? I am surprised you did not mention sin and burning in hell and all that crazy nonsense too.

[FormulaWill]

Im sorry you are not being sarcastic or making an attempt at humor. I do not think you are speaking out of love. You are speaking out of arrogance that you know the mind of god and ignorance to other more sophisticated moral thinking than that prescribed in your Bronze Age book. Sex outside of marriage is perfectly fine and quite enjoyable. I am not advocating irresponsible and pernicious sex, but dont take away an adults liberty to enjoy sex because of your foolish belief system.

[FormulaWill]

BTW, condoms are NOT 100% effective.

[RockkStarr9]

No, but with using the condoms the right way, birth control, spermicide, it is about 99.999999% effective.

Most morons carry a condom around in their pocket for months before using it, and by then it's so degraded from the heat it easily rips. or they put no lube.

I can stretch a condom over your head if you don't believe how strong they are.

[flag4eva]

Sorry I meant condoms are not 100% effective!

[Dutchess32006]

Flag4eva, you can't be serious. I'm pretty sure that "no sex before marriage" is pretty much dead. As far as the std's are concerned... you don't go around sleeping with every Tom, Dick, and Harry that you meet.

[ncfwhitetigress]

no sex before marriage isn't completely dead. i know a number of people who are either waiting or waited and are now happily married. they're all republicans tho...

[ChristopherMast]

TWO MONTHS? You, gramma, are severely out of touch. No one in the real world goes that long. There never was a "third date rule," either. Do something about your brown teeth too, would ya?

[ncfwhitetigress]

two months is NOTHING

[BellaOfBacardi]

Ditto. Never heard of the 3rd ate rule either. People definitely move faster these days. It's good to indulge in carnal pleasures. lol ;o)

[john123wayne]

this chick is on the money.

i am a dude, and this chick gives solid advice.

don't get me wrong. i love broads that put out the first date. but her advice is solid if a chick is looking for a dude for a long term thing.

[heyitstheo47]

im not gonna take relationship advice from a 50 year old dyke

[pinkjello99]

i had sex with my boyfriend on the frist date and this is the best boyfriend i have ever had

[BellaOfBacardi]

you got lucky in more ways than one ;o)

[RockkStarr9]

My best girlfriend was one that we didn't quite have sex, (she was on her period) but we did quite a few things on the first date. Best relationship I'd ever had.

[sergio72692]

i thought they got rid of this lady

[MaicoMoon]

There's never any questions from guys, because they're mostly all retarded like TheRealMcRetard.

[petreforevers]

lol!

[ncfwhitetigress]

man-hater!

[RockkStarr9]

There's never any questions from girls, because they're mostly all retarded like TheRealMcRetard.

Now how did that statement sound? Sexist? So was yours.

I'm hoping your using some very bad humor and aren't actually some feminist who crusades for the rights of women while at the same time disparaging men.

[josephpatricks]

I could understand, although most people I know wouldn't wait until 2 months, however -

We BOTH make the rules here, I hate when I have to listen to this "women runs the speed of the relationship crap". It is ridiculous, and a real man will have an equal part to play in this.

[LadyMarieLouise1]

She should so reconsider the outfit, hairdo and makeup.

-x- LadyMarieLouise1

[ilovevb6]

Haha. Bullshit. A reason not to have sex? Sex is good for males and females. lol

[XXTheRealMcCoyXX]

why is there never any questions from guys? Women can't be the only ones that need some help....

[Trinitysx]

if you dont put out by the 2nd date its over...

[HyperKid66]

cool beans.

[Akissi]

Do it whenever you feel comfortable about it in every way you want to feel comfortable about it.

just my 2 cents.

[tyakack]

*cough whore* nah lol jk

[Akissi]

*cough you wish cough*

;)

[livingondaedge]

wait for marriage

[dark7jedi]

you may wait if you wish but please don't think that it should be for everyone

[BellaOfBacardi]

kind of ironic that your id is "living on the edge" but you say "wait for marriage" .... lol on what edge are you living on?