A Plea From Protective Mothers

[JANICELEVINSONPMA]

Nice video Wylde!  Thank you.

[mamasuntwinkle]

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[WyldeFaerie]

@mamasuntwinkle This is not uncommon... Check this out..

youtube.com/watch?v=UTKg7QKpEI­Y

There are way more... Sadly..

[glennscult]

Actually wylde I believe he is a she. Not sure though. Great video btw.

[WyldeFaerie]

Well.... THAT is even MORE pathetic, now, isn't it?? Sad that a woman would want this kind of hell for another woman. Oh, well... I guess, to each his own. Just makes me weep for society, as a whole.............

[WyldeFaerie]

It is very sad that a video, such as this, comes under attack. Maybe booboo was wronged in life, but that does not minimize the need for help, for these mothers. We do not aim to take aid away from good fathers. We aim to give good mothers the same level of aid. My friends, feel free to debate, but PLEASE refrain from name calling, and attacking. I will leave everything up, for now. We will see how this progresses.

[glennscult]

Wylde - this booooboooo2010 poster looks and sounds eerily like a user i ran into a few months ago (maybe longer than that). A poor young girl who was abused by her dad had posted a video about pas and how she was not being 'alienated' from her father - she just did not want to be abused anymore was attacked by a poster with a similar name. Pretty sad case it was if you ask me. I was also attacked along with several otehrs. Do not know if this is the same person or not so beware.

[WyldeFaerie]

Thanks, @glennscult. I guess, the cult has a rabid follower?? hmmm.. WELL... If they are attacking me, I guess they are leaving the Bloggers alone, huh?? lol.. BEWARE?? Is he THAT bad, that I have to BEWARE?? lol.. I'm not DATING him!

[WyldeFaerie]

booboo.. I see nothing in this video, to deserve attack. I guess, if helping abused moms of abused children makes me a Feminist, then Guilty as Charged. Did you WATCH the video, or just see the phrase protective mother, and flip?? I am not getting into a debate with you. It would be a waste of time. I do hope that whatever hatred you feel does not eat you alive.. It isn't bothering me, a bit.

[WyldeFaerie]

Ladies.. Do not be baited by foul spoutings.. Do not lower yourselves to the level that they will try to put you on. This video, was made, out of a desperate need. I do not care if some believe or not. I am not disputing that some men are victimized. I am just not equipped, in that area. I am VERY equipped in blocking those who attack, however, so please keep this as civil as possible. This is court, and many eyes are on you. I beg you, keep peace.

[booooboooo2010]

So you can ramble on much as you want, but the fact of the matter is father's have it much worse and some of these "abuse" cases are in fact women screeching because they lost custody and were revealed as the alienators they are. Check Shockome and her now disbarred lawyer's case for one. They are a few rare cases of mother's protecting their children, LIKE FATHER'S, but this video, radical feminist sites, and organizations vilify MEN ONLY. It's a human problem, and your a feminist

[booooboooo2010]

According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services' new report Child Maltreatment 2004, when one parent is acting without the involvement of the other parent, mothers are almost three times as likely to kill their children as fathers are, and are more than twice as likely to abuse them.

[theCosmicQueen]

@booooboooo2010

where is the link? your interpretation is assuming things i don't see any evidence of. twice the number sof women may abuse or neglect, but that does not mean women themselves are twice as likely. you are saying if a man offends once, a woman will offend twice, that is simply not in evidence here.

ps, try the latest statistics not 2004. that's not NEW.

[booooboooo2010]

The link is easy, google u.s. dept. of health and human services administration for children and families, you'll see everything there as much as you hate to see. It's twice as likely.

[booooboooo2010]

-Children are 88% more likely to be seriously injured from abuse or neglect by their mothers than by their fathers.

-Other fathers have suffered at the hands of "move‑away moms" who permit or even use geography to drive fathers out of their children's lives.

[booooboooo2010]

-Prosecutions of fathers who violate child support mandates are common, whereas prosecutions of mothers who violate visitation orders are rare.

-Nationwide divorced fathers are ten times as likely to commit suicide as divorced mothers, and more than twice as likely to commit suicide as married fathers.

-The rates of juvenile crime, teen pregnancy, teen drug abuse, and school dropouts are tightly correlated with fatherlessness, often more so than with any other socioeconomic factor.

[theCosmicQueen]

@booooboooo2010

it sounds to me like these fathers need to get their act together. stop abandoning their kids, stop killing themselves, etc.

[booooboooo2010]

Some stats:

Studies show that the overwhelming majority of steadily employed divorced fathers pay their child support. While there are a few well‑heeled divorced dads who stiff their children, most non‑paying dads are either poor, unemployed, disabled, or incarcerated. According to a US Government Accounting Office report, two‑thirds of those fathers who do not pay their child support fail to do so because they are financially unable to do so.

[Christigoth]

there is a huge difference, between the abuse by someone who may leave a red mark on a kid's face, and someone who scars a child's genitals for life by their rape of a child. so the numbers and types of abuse are different between the genders. women RARELY sexually abuse a kid. it is far more prevalent among men doing it. see statistics.

[booooboooo2010]

Father and specifically bio fathers also rarely sexually abuse their kids, in fact sexual abuse by bio dads is a very small slice of the overall abuse statistics. There is NO difference between the levels of abuse between father's and mother's, try again.

[booooboooo2010]

wow your ignorant. Women also sexually abuse their kids. I quote, "U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services statistics show that mothers are twice as likely as fathers to be sole perpetrators of child abuse", 57% of mothers abuse their kids compared to 42% men. Need a govt link?? Women can go on legal aid and men who just make enough for child support now have to pay 10,000's in court to simply see his child kept from him by vindictive mothers. Father's also play the system but much less

[Christigoth]

i am networking and linking to all these kinds of people and posts on the web. so we can find each other...i recommend it to all. a grassroots web ring.

[WyldeFaerie]

@Christigoth

We are doing this, too. Networking and showing the world the TRUTH. Don't let anyone keep that from happening. Never Silent, Again!!

[booooboooo2010]

Furthermore, it is the FATHER that has no resources, is broken by the courts, and minimized in having a role in his children's life he so fervently seeks. Do you even know what the father's movement is about? It's based on this reality of MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of father's who are wronged.

[Christigoth]

@booooboooo2010

this guy messaged me and wrote:

too long for this comment box):

wow your ignorant. Women also sexually abuse their kids. I quote, "U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services statistics show that mothers are twice as likely as fathers to be sole perpetrators of child abuse", 57% of mothers abuse their kids compared to 42% men. Need a govt link?? Women can go on legal aid and men who just make enough for child support now have to pay ...

[Christigoth]

@Christigoth

in other words, he copied and pasted to me.

fact is, women , having far more time with kids, do abuse in greater numbers, but the seriously abusive dads are aggressively taking custody away from the good moms. THAT is what the movement here is about. so go away if you are so concerned about kids. stop trolling here. we don't want kids abused by moms OR dads. The good moms are losing in court, to the extremely dangerous dads and it is killing the kids. You obviously don't care.

[booooboooo2010]

Your not understanding the calculation then, women are twice as likely to abuse, it's not based on overall quantity, but the likelihood of and sorry that's the entire point you yourself described --> having more time with kids, that what father's are fighting for. Mother's who alienates kids using PA in order to sate their revenge can do so and do as there's seemingly no repercussions. Father's being alienated from their kids is MUCH greater then using it as a guise for abuse.

[booooboooo2010]

Your still not getting it, this info is provided by the US department of of health and human services or google, U.S. Dept. of Health and Human Services statistics show that mothers are twice as likely as fathers to be sole perpetrators of child abuse. What's funnier is that your sugar coating abuse by mother's when it's false and even funnier is that if a mother abuses a child, it's because of the father in some way LOL. How fucking pathetic

[Christigoth]

@booooboooo2010 -not understanding the calculation? excuse me, i had a gpa of 4.5 in math, my freshman year of high school. let me explain to your poor little mind. THAT IS AN A+ MATH GPA FOR THE QUARTER!

the statistics do NOT mean that women by character are twice as likely to offend. It means that twice the number of women were reported. It has been analyzed by the same gov't, as being BECAUSE WOMEN ARE WITH KIDS THAT MUCH MORE OFTEN THAN MEN ARE.

[WyldeFaerie]

Again, this is not about that. Please, watch the video again.

[booooboooo2010]

The majority of corruption in the courts is stacked against father's and clearly your not too concerned with kid's when you ignore the psychological harm done to kid's in this process. Sorry your not noble, your simply part of a group that vilifies fathers.

[Christigoth]

@booooboooo2010

look, you evil piece of crap, why are you over here attacking the bonafide protection of children? it just so happens you are trying to "vilify" a woman whose child is now dead because of the evil perp father! and the other kids were seriously molested and their very lives threatened! one of them, mrdd, was thrown down a full flight of stairs twice in the dad's home! so get out of here! you obviously are an aggressor, and no doubt a perp! you act just like one!

[Christigoth]

@booooboooo2010

look at you, you are coming over here as the aggressor, specifically to vilify mothers and this legitimate concern of these women! leave the page please! you are not welcome here. you are not concerned at all, about the children who are very much in harm's way. you are very concerned for yourself. go away! and i am far more noble than you even have any clue of how to be.

[WyldeFaerie]

I do not vilify fathers. ABUSERS vilify THEMSELVES. There is a difference. I just so happen to work with women. One person can't do it all. I do hope that you realize that. Men have plenty of resources available. Again, not the point, of THIS VIDEO. Also.. Who ever said anything about being Noble?? This is about children abused and ripped from their protective mothers. Given to ABUSIVE fathers. No one to help them. Is that not destroying?? Forcing contact with a monster is inhuman. Period.

[Christigoth]

most people in poverty are women and kids, not men. and legal aid does a poor job, and doesn't take many of the women who need their help because of the evil perps out there who are damaging their kids.

[booooboooo2010]

The evil "perps" include mothers. Women have countless resources available to women only, shelters, women's groups and legal aid which is better then going pro bono, which many father's who pay their child support and make 30,000 a yr are forced to do because 40% of divorced mothers admitted that they had interfered with their ex-husband's access or visitation, and that their motives were punitive in nature.

[theCosmicQueen]

@booooboooo2010

so who cares? right now the focus has to be on those dads who ARE part of the problem. STOP TRYING TO HIJACK THE THREAD ! as if you would like to cover for them/ get out! the whole point is to stop tragedies. you do not seem to care about that, a typical selfish self centered abuser who is not even admitting that this problem exists, or focusing on the kids in these cases. get lost you perp! I SMELL PERP!

[booooboooo2010]

If you don't like to read the truth, then don't read the comments. Perp? lol sounds like projection from a "perp" themselves, denying their own abuse and blaming others. Typical, and the crutch of alot of these situations. I never said the problem doesn't exist idiot, I said it's been promoted as a major problem which is false, and especially in comparison to the exact opposite. The lack of funds and punishment for masses of mother's who deny the father his right to be involved.

[booooboooo2010]

Yes there are some cases of women being abused and losing their children, however there are 10 times that of children being abused by their mothers who emotionally abuse their children to hate their father. Deny access, manipulate, and make false accusations that are deemed completely FALSE by the police, the children's aid, and the courts. THAT's why they lose custody and rightfully so. For this reason, sorry, your video is insidious, incorrect and propaganda.

[Christigoth]

@booooboooo2010

oh really, please state your sources on this, since you like to quote without any reference.

there is also a BIG difference between unspecified "abuse " by moms (could have been a spanking) and specifically "sexual abuse" which is most overwhelmingly done by MEN, not WOMEN.

[Christigoth]

these systems he mentions, are part of the systemic support of abusers that is well documented. the kids and the battered women very often fall through the cracks because the system DOES NOT PROTECT THEM and they usually become victimized over and over again due to this lack of protectiveness. many die each year in fact.

[WyldeFaerie]

SOME women??? I am puzzled.. You seem to be so venomous on the subject, it seems that you would be better equipped to argue the case?? I guess, I could be wrong... I am sure someone will be able to provide you some links, to help you get up to date, if you asked. I do, however, love your use of big words.

[Activism007]

PLEASE...>GET the word out to YOUNG pregnant SINGLE women. IF he's abusive, has ANY hint of substance abuse, IF he is a big playboy...>RUN! There's only ONE way out. HE WILL NOT PAY support in the current system. You will pay more than he owes to collect it & then he'll take the baby. Write "Father Unknown" on the birth certificate. PLEASE. Better to feel a moment's embarrassment, than sentence your baby to a life of HELL in his hands. TELL EVERYONE OKAY??

[booooboooo2010]

Aren't you the same "person" who spouts that literally not one women is abusive and in the matter of DV, women deemed abusive are simply defending themselves? This thing is an radical right wing feminist who is an alienator and tries with all her pathetic might to remove fathers from their children's lives. Perhaps google REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS for a little clarity. There are more then 365,000 scholarly reports on the matter.

[Christigoth]

the men assault at least twice as much as the women. and please, her slapping him will not break his bones, whereas men break women's bones and kill them, at an alarming rate.

[booooboooo2010]

What a crock. Google REFERENCES EXAMINING ASSAULTS BY WOMEN ON THEIR SPOUSES OR MALE PARTNERS:

AN ANNOTATED BIBLIOGRAPHY. Women who lack physical advantages employ weapons or the element of surprise. The alarming rate is in fact the rise in intimate partner relations carried out by women. DV is henious but your attempt to again downplay abuse by women is laughable.

[theCosmicQueen]

@booooboooo2010

who cares? this video is about the problem that children face in relation to the dads who do the wrong thing. why are you over here downplaying this? i guess it's your attempt to aggress and dominate and ultimately, selfishly deprive kids of proltection in these cases. who cares about your personal take or some fathers rights take on statistics? the point of this vid is to prevent THIS kind of harm. You seem to object to that. You must be a perp.

[booooboooo2010]

The video is slanderous and vilifies men, whoever being a feminist with blinders on you won't see it. Yes women are subject to injustices, but all feminist organizations deny the existence of any problem outside of their narrow approach. Men have much more difficulty in simply securing rights to see their children, which is the best interest of children, but not the best interest of vindictive women. We see now whose supported.

[WyldeFaerie]

Is this to ME? I haven't spouted ANYTHING, here... lol.. Just my videos, and I don't remember any of them having stats.. Some women do abuse. This is not what THIS video is about. I thought it was pretty clear..... Others may argue stats with you, but I just don't have the time, with the hundreds of women that have joined this fight, because they have to deal with these issues.

[WyldeFaerie]

As this is not ALWAYS what happens, it does happen often enough to be a major concern. This is advice that anyone, who has been a victim, would give their daughters.. Not all dads are bad, though, just as not all moms are good. Thanks for the comment. I hope others read it in the spirit that it is meant!!

[atargetnomore]

Thank you & God Bless You!

Time has come and been long overdue.

To: Others

Please help the Protective Mothers Everyone!

What will you be doing?