A REAL WOMAN REALIZES THAT A MAN IS EQUALLY AS EMOTIONAL AS THE WOMAN.. WE MEN JUST DON'T SHOW IT.. IT TAKES A TRUE STRONG WILLED WOMAN TO KEEP HIS MAN IN CHECK! IT'S WORST FOR THE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY'RE THE ONES THAT WAIT FOR FOREVER, if a guy doesn't "project the image of love" the woman will eventually LEAVE,, if the women doesn't keep her man satisfied.. he will always cheat behind her back.. PEACE & LOVE! =)
DWAYNE HAVE BEEN DOING THIS CENIS THE FIRST DAY WE MET PUTTING ME AND MY KIDS FIRST THIS IS AN REAL BROTHER WHO HAVE BEEN PLAYING THE FATHER ROLE FOR LAST PAST TWO YEARS YOU DONT FIND TO MANY GUYS WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO STEP UP AND HELP TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN KIDS. LOVE YOU DWAYNE
@kmatic6 First off dont come off as saying you hoes cause NOT all women are hoes. & Material things cannot buy you happiness. & Their was a reason this man made that song. Men where made for women and women where made for man. Some men know how to treat their ladies and some dont. And if a real man treats his woman like a priority the woman will (should) do the same.
@kmatic6 wasnt trying to put your place. thats not for me to do. but if a man called your mother a bitch hoe would it still be all the same??? NO i highly doubt it. but if you think sports and cars is a mans first priority then hey at the end of the day thats your opinion that your intitled to.
@kmatic6 well that explains it all... i don't understand why u guys always wanna act all hardcore, be "bout it" and act like you don't give a s*** about anything, this is not gonna get u anywhere is it? Is ur car or ur fav NBA team or ur homies gonna b there when ur in need? if u treat a woman right, she's gonna b there for u no matter what, but if u wanna be hardcore u will never find someone that'll make u happy
@schlummi75 cause it a jungle out here and i don't have time to play with u women i have talked to the from 21 to 49 u see women are emotional creatures they do whats in there heart and if they dismiss u from that then u become collarteral damage of there wants and need no matter how i treat her i could be close to perfect won't matter men want nothing to give there all to a women but can't cause yall R ruthless
@TheJUICE343 yea i feel u shes a nice change from the bright skin females i mean i love me a red bone but sometime its nice to turn the lights off without still havin the nightlight on... U FEEL ME LOL
No copyright infringement intended. Promotional use only. LOL! That is like robbing a bank and say " I did not intend to take any money" with a bag full of money.
I think its funny someone asked what type of music is this wtf lol its called R&B and yes the shit on the radios nowadays isnt shit to the bad stuff 10 yrs ago
you are right! someone please save R&B!I was born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s and 90s. and the music that they make today is terrible! Every time I see a video from back in the day, I really do cry! It makes me very sad! and i do really miss the 80s and 90s. Good clean fun!
Love the fact that he remade the original version of this song (William Bell - I Forgot To Be Your Lover) and made it his own without making it suck! I like this! :-)
thats what i wanted back in the day put me first but he wasnt willing to he wanted other females too so i refuse to deal with that so i lefted him and moved on with my life that was the best thing i could have did he was some sshit.
i couldn't remember his name or the song's name for the life of me!! woo thnx to the suggestions on the side i saw jaheim and that rang a bell!! <3 this song
@jjj6491 I didnt even notice till i read your comment.SHIT.It should have 20 times more Its on my playlist called Mellow Tip now so should start to get views
damnnn i was getting sad because i found out im baritone and couldnt think of any popular singers that sing low key... then i found this song and realized I could make goos songs with my low key voice!
The girl in this video is the same sister that was in the ROBERT DeNIRO movie, "A BRONX TALE".
She was the young black girl that DeNiro's teenage Italian character fell in love with, only after attacking her brother in a race riot. I wasn't sure until I saw her cry at 1:40, just like she did in Bronx Tale. Then I KNEW it was her...
Its funny how equally this track should apply to women as well. "When He starts ringing up old flings, and the fights keep getting worse, you find numbers in His pants.... see how it equally applies?? When you dont treat your man right you'll suffer the same consequences!!
love this song he has just sumed up everything in a matter of 4 mins that a man should know and realise how to treat a woman that they say they love as to many ppl just throw the word love around like its nothing
The calibre rmx sent me here and I'm going right back. The original is waste, also blatent lift of the sample dialated peoples used on worse comes to worse
This song popped in my head n brought back memories of being in prison worried about my girl. Come to find out she got pregnant 2 months before my release.. :(
This is real music! Agree with you guys - we grew up with this and now we're the ones saying "back in the day" - its sad but what they listen to nowadays is real junk - most of it is so insincere or doesn't make sense!
A REAL WOMAN REALIZES THAT A MAN IS EQUALLY AS EMOTIONAL AS THE WOMAN.. WE MEN JUST DON'T SHOW IT.. IT TAKES A TRUE STRONG WILLED WOMAN TO KEEP HIS MAN IN CHECK! IT'S WORST FOR THE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY'RE THE ONES THAT WAIT FOR FOREVER, if a guy doesn't "project the image of love" the woman will eventually LEAVE,, if the women doesn't keep her man satisfied.. he will always cheat behind her back.. PEACE & LOVE! =)
WeAreTheFuture25 1 day ago 3
i lyk dis video..its been ages since i saw it!!
carloskolantsho 2 days ago
What cute baby face he has! Great song true though for not showing ur girl attention otherwise she will find it elsewhere
TheMusicluver4life 2 days ago
philly philly,still bangin this 9 yrs later!memories.
TasMoney870 3 days ago
what year did this come out?
TheEva2187 3 days ago
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man.. This new Usher "Climax" has been stuck in my head.. can't stop listening to it!! ht tp://sound cloud .com /diplo /climax
kiddflow321 4 days ago
So many men take us for granted. It doesn't matter because we will love the next HARDER and HARDER.
KittyKittyKia 1 week ago in playlist When HE pisses me off 2
I love this still listening to it in 2012
dimya5 1 week ago
luv dis music so so much
tmjtmam 1 week ago
Remember Gents.If you missed .Valentines ? Then don't forget 18th March 2012 ! Respect to all the Baby Ma's & the Empresses of the World !X!
EP02 1 week ago 2
Men remember this in 2012 you won't go wrong this year or years to come !!
jakemonroe1 1 week ago
SHE'S GUNNA LEAAAAVVVVEEE YOUUU!!! lmao!!!
lovemyjacksonbass 2 weeks ago
Tsss.My dad would play this song all the time when i was little and i was jammin
QuestCrewandYTF13 2 weeks ago
U WOMEN ARE SO SILLY HOPE THAT THERE IS TRU LOVE AROUND TODAY WITH THESE MORALS &VALUES GOOD LUCK LOOK BUT IF U WANT A BOY TOY IM THAT GUY
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
DWAYNE HAVE BEEN DOING THIS CENIS THE FIRST DAY WE MET PUTTING ME AND MY KIDS FIRST THIS IS AN REAL BROTHER WHO HAVE BEEN PLAYING THE FATHER ROLE FOR LAST PAST TWO YEARS YOU DONT FIND TO MANY GUYS WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO STEP UP AND HELP TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN KIDS. LOVE YOU DWAYNE
gailford44 2 weeks ago
@gailford44 SUCKER
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@gailford44 this nigga name is dwayne hey dwayne thanks for setting the bar for the rest of us
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
Great song
nimosaid82 2 weeks ago
Never Settle To Be A Mans Option.....Learn That You Should Always Be His Priority!!!
#Know Your Self Worth!!!!
08sexyjazz 2 weeks ago 18
@08sexyjazz yeah how could u hoes compete with cars and sports that will always be a real mans priority
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@kmatic6 First off dont come off as saying you hoes cause NOT all women are hoes. & Material things cannot buy you happiness. & Their was a reason this man made that song. Men where made for women and women where made for man. Some men know how to treat their ladies and some dont. And if a real man treats his woman like a priority the woman will (should) do the same.
08sexyjazz 2 weeks ago 3
@08sexyjazz na it was right the first time women bitch hoe all the same thing lol way to put me in my place though
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@kmatic6 wasnt trying to put your place. thats not for me to do. but if a man called your mother a bitch hoe would it still be all the same??? NO i highly doubt it. but if you think sports and cars is a mans first priority then hey at the end of the day thats your opinion that your intitled to.
08sexyjazz 2 weeks ago
Lovee this song
Candie5000 2 weeks ago
OMG I HAVEN'T HEARD THIS IN SOOO LONG! THANKS 4 POSTING IT!!
poemsbyanut 2 weeks ago
if guys would just listen and act that way ...
schlummi75 2 weeks ago
@schlummi75 u know why we don't because u hoes aint shit
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@kmatic6 lmfao ... under what rock did u grow up?
schlummi75 2 weeks ago
@schlummi75 DETROIT SCHOOLCRAFT TO BE EXACT ONE OF THE TOUGHEST HOODS IN THIS COUNTRY
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@kmatic6 well that explains it all... i don't understand why u guys always wanna act all hardcore, be "bout it" and act like you don't give a s*** about anything, this is not gonna get u anywhere is it? Is ur car or ur fav NBA team or ur homies gonna b there when ur in need? if u treat a woman right, she's gonna b there for u no matter what, but if u wanna be hardcore u will never find someone that'll make u happy
schlummi75 2 weeks ago
@schlummi75 cause it a jungle out here and i don't have time to play with u women i have talked to the from 21 to 49 u see women are emotional creatures they do whats in there heart and if they dismiss u from that then u become collarteral damage of there wants and need no matter how i treat her i could be close to perfect won't matter men want nothing to give there all to a women but can't cause yall R ruthless
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
This is my man's, Good shit
asyeh3 2 weeks ago
18 people are fuckin spakas
adamdavison1 2 weeks ago
For all those guys thats losing their girl.
Put that WOMAN first!!!!!
This song speaks to me
qeoskaterboy 2 weeks ago 2
@qeoskaterboy to lose something means u have to have possessionof it women can't be owend but the can be rented and bought lol
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
waw il a la classsss
amera741 3 weeks ago
*is wondering why there is a dislike button for this video*
xxNAOMIxx99 3 weeks ago
Throw bak
chrisvee91 3 weeks ago
JAHEIM PUT THE WOMEN FIRST GETTING WORSE PUT THT WOMAN FIRST...
randolphelaine37 3 weeks ago
What had happened to music? This is real shit, as real as it gets! Love this song. It takes me back. Hmmmm drifting on a memory............
DominikanChick801 3 weeks ago 22
@DominikanChick801 could u drift on this dick too lol
kmatic6 2 weeks ago
@DominikanChick801 is this real shit as opposed to fake shit?
firebullet555 6 days ago
@DominikanChick801 i knowwwwwww
CEOherrera175 4 days ago
Who's the Guy singing the chours??
medina12511 3 weeks ago
sexxii lil chocolate thing she is so fucking sexxi but ummm this my shyt
TheJUICE343 4 weeks ago
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TheDonte07 3 weeks ago
@TheJUICE343 yea i feel u shes a nice change from the bright skin females i mean i love me a red bone but sometime its nice to turn the lights off without still havin the nightlight on... U FEEL ME LOL
TheDonte07 3 weeks ago
@TheDonte07 lmao ain't nothing like a chocolate chick bruh
TheJUICE343 3 weeks ago
No copyright infringement intended. Promotional use only. LOL! That is like robbing a bank and say " I did not intend to take any money" with a bag full of money.
Darkmanskin 4 weeks ago
This is my song;;;)))
mrjvillen34 4 weeks ago
She's is getting annoying,can't she see he is trying to play the game?
thasmartchick 4 weeks ago
I think its funny someone asked what type of music is this wtf lol its called R&B and yes the shit on the radios nowadays isnt shit to the bad stuff 10 yrs ago
splattaman81 4 weeks ago
Love it!
lhamilton63 1 month ago
Its amazing how much change happened to music in the last ten years.
PlaylistMomma 1 month ago 2
Damn after listenin to this, really made me think what the fuck has actually happened to music now.......
iRepCUBA 1 month ago 2
Jaheim and D'Angelo would make the best sex tune of the millenium
moabdoun1 1 month ago
@moabdoun1 that's a bit gay tho
kano0303 1 month ago
@kano0303 word they were whylin with that.
BR914 1 month ago
what type of music is this?
firebullet555 1 month ago
@firebullet555
uh, its called R&B...did you forget what it sounds like with all the bullcrap out here?
LilJennBoo 1 month ago
@firebullet555 RnB bro
icegoguma 4 weeks ago
great song wonder y he stop singing
blackdiamond5589 1 month ago
my man puts me first all the time. no exception.
0hsiriusly 1 month ago
out of all the hoes, there's always a special lady you have to put first
ken2388 1 month ago 2
PUT ME 1ST!!!
TheEyecandynm 1 month ago
you are right! someone please save R&B!I was born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s and 90s. and the music that they make today is terrible! Every time I see a video from back in the day, I really do cry! It makes me very sad! and i do really miss the 80s and 90s. Good clean fun!
buttacup72 1 month ago 2
@buttacup72 ditto...
jaytwooh 1 month ago
I used 2 watch this video on BET's Midnight Love. I like this song.
Taneeka09 1 month ago
If only men were like this still...
SwagHoney 1 month ago
damn tara hicks!!! where r u gorgeous? made redgirl wish for that chocolate glow
seeomega 1 month ago
@purpleness64 Taral Hicks. she also did a remake of the song Silly by Denise Williams in the late 90's
prettybutterfly816 1 month ago
still jamming this...#Classic
DahFlame 1 month ago
this is my jam. ..no matter what love u boo boo
kylenickerson13 1 month ago
The girl in the video is so beautiful
blackbarbiie89 1 month ago
Now thats some true love fah ya
12deesmith 1 month ago
I Love This Song ! It Came Out When I Was 4 Now Im 14 ! And I Still Know The Lyrics ! :) <3 You Jaheim
cashmoney9822842 1 month ago
hey mens never 4get to put your womens first
sandersangela0 1 month ago
put that woan first remix
kellykel2432 1 month ago
Will always be a song in my history. Isn't music wonderful u guy?!?!
kellykel2432 1 month ago
Why he throw the pillow at her like that...?!...smh..Lol
nique84ful 1 month ago
I luv this song. Makes u think about ur on relationship
franktown09 1 month ago
Lol, you can't bother him during a game! Just like he can't bother you watching ANTM or The Game!
BoredRandomCraptv 1 month ago
@BoredRandomCraptv LMFAO so TRUE. Don't come between me and The Game! Lol I love me some Derwin!
BeautyFetish 1 month ago
Love the fact that he remade the original version of this song (William Bell - I Forgot To Be Your Lover) and made it his own without making it suck! I like this! :-)
TheTexasHitmen 1 month ago
Smh Damn It Took Her Too Date Another Nigga For Him Too Get A Clue !!
But Awesome Song
orangemound4 1 month ago
@orangemound4 ikr!!! pisses me off...he was full of shit fa dat
checkavanz101 1 month ago
If no one else will say it...I will... THUMBS UP IF UR LISTENING TO THIS IS 2012!
BR914 1 month ago 171
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PmaBoy56 1 month ago
I miss music like this...even as an ex raver, I am not too excited bout house & dubstep goin mainstream....This is where it's at! Loves it
kellykel2432 1 month ago
who is that actress??? I've seen her in many movies
purpleness64 1 month ago
@purpleness64 Taral Hicks. She's also in Bronx Tale.
BoredRandomCraptv 1 month ago
Listen up boo you better put that woman first or somebody else will
lenaedee01 1 month ago 2
@lenaedee01 so true......
chim80 1 month ago
This was my shit back in the day <3
futballers7 2 months ago
love this song
MsRivi2012 2 months ago
This that heat
fayettenam5 2 months ago
This that shit !
mrssongz4sureyup 2 months ago
Wow.... Taral Hicks from 'A Bronx Story' - still looking amazing.....
mdeckerLondon 2 months ago
@mdeckerLondon all this time i kept thinking who is that chick she looks so familiar lol i love that movie
illmaticfiend 2 months ago
I FUCKING HATE 2011 WHY CAN'T I GO BACK IN TIME!!!! FUCK EVERYTHING NEW. I HATE PROGRESS!!!
Shieket 2 months ago
@Shieket You need love in your life. Try Jesus!
saccee 2 months ago
DONT HAVE NO WORDS..SPEECHLESS.JUST KEEP IT COMEIN!!!
arthur5275 2 months ago
thats what i wanted back in the day put me first but he wasnt willing to he wanted other females too so i refuse to deal with that so i lefted him and moved on with my life that was the best thing i could have did he was some sshit.
gailford44 2 months ago
been listening to this since middle skoo and now im 21
lilswa510 2 months ago 15
@lilswa510 ME 2 .... REAL MUSIC NOT MUSIC NOW
TIMSTAR217 4 weeks ago
@lilswa510 omg me too!!!
jshine876 3 weeks ago
Hey Habofanoeable........I couldn't agree more!!
ck610 2 months ago
YEAH I GUESS.ILOVE THAT I COME FIRIST.
CASHOUT221 2 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL REAL MUSIC, I JUST LOVE THIS SONG'' MY MAN ALWAYS PUT ME FIRST.
bunnyshawts 2 months ago
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bunnyshawts 2 months ago
i couldn't remember his name or the song's name for the life of me!! woo thnx to the suggestions on the side i saw jaheim and that rang a bell!! <3 this song
Bcuz789Duh 2 months ago
wow thats awesome!!! by the way.. CHECK MY BRANDNEW LYFE JENNINGS - COPS UP REMIX.. thx :)
MaxMoodyMusic 2 months ago
never miss thing till its go
fishibfish 2 months ago
William Bell's - I Forgot to be Your Lover
markus123452 2 months ago
i miss Jaheim =(
to2cutie 2 months ago
awwww. this really make u wish r&b was like this today bcux itz so real men r not this real now a days itz all about disrespect'n females.
Cherishrose05 2 months ago 2
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LOVELY!!
Sitiva101 2 months ago
LOVELY!!
Sitiva101 2 months ago
Dhis use to be my heat...
pherpher11 2 months ago
12 women weren't put first lol
hanzokeeper1 2 months ago
This is my favorite song im only 19 i wish music sounded like this today :( too bad it will never get this good anymore.....
11keonte 2 months ago
love this song cause if men/women dont treat the other right, they will find someone who will.!
breelarice19 2 months ago
I miss my girl... i fucked it up..
mollo104 2 months ago
this should have like 10 times this many views..... what the hell?! i miss REAL r&b thumps up if u agree!!!
jjj6491 2 months ago 2
@jjj6491 I didnt even notice till i read your comment.SHIT.It should have 20 times more Its on my playlist called Mellow Tip now so should start to get views
Omardayz247 2 months ago
Jaheim, where are you?! Come back to save R and B!
mzsaigon 2 months ago 58
@mzsaigon you can say that again.
EthioGQ 1 month ago
@mzsaigon totally agree this guy is the ultimate king nxt to joe
jaytwooh 1 month ago
Nice
7thgradedonks 2 months ago
awww i miss BET !
MorenitaBesitas 3 months ago
very nice track...luv it....but which song got dat melody too....damn...please help me...peace
ASHTI2AY 3 months ago
@ASHTI2AY Ludacris - Growing pains
NastyNateII 3 months ago
damnnn i was getting sad because i found out im baritone and couldnt think of any popular singers that sing low key... then i found this song and realized I could make goos songs with my low key voice!
JTisJT 3 months ago 3
@JTisJT im also baritone there is alot of cool music! look up con te partiro
718shark 3 months ago
The girl in this video is the same sister that was in the ROBERT DeNIRO movie, "A BRONX TALE".
She was the young black girl that DeNiro's teenage Italian character fell in love with, only after attacking her brother in a race riot. I wasn't sure until I saw her cry at 1:40, just like she did in Bronx Tale. Then I KNEW it was her...
Visionary0001 3 months ago
@Visionary0001 yeah her name is Taral Hicks
icecreameboni 3 months ago
u better do that else she's gonna leave your ass! love the song
125fortune 3 months ago
This song is so beautiful.
leighannaloveable 3 months ago
To my wife I love you so much
dlwhite69 3 months ago
Nice song, sounds so much like Luther Vandross. I thought that's who it was at first. I love both artists.
naughtykitten28 3 months ago
lol.. thats keyshia from belly
K33MALOV3 3 months ago
11 People forgot, now they're mad!!!
cekc70 3 months ago
Love the piano at the start:)
JF211ify 3 months ago
Oms he spoke the truth I fuckin love dis damn song in love his sexy ass too
1queenea 3 months ago
This was my song....Love jaheim
prettynellyboo 3 months ago
Mann SMH 11 People Must Not Have Put They Women 1st
SuperTazz1992 3 months ago 2
whats wrong with 11 people?
jglover023 3 months ago
Its funny how equally this track should apply to women as well. "When He starts ringing up old flings, and the fights keep getting worse, you find numbers in His pants.... see how it equally applies?? When you dont treat your man right you'll suffer the same consequences!!
Habofanoeable 3 months ago 35
@Habofanoeable common sense, don't you think?!
bellacocobaby 2 months ago
love this song he has just sumed up everything in a matter of 4 mins that a man should know and realise how to treat a woman that they say they love as to many ppl just throw the word love around like its nothing
andreatimothy65 3 months ago
The calibre rmx sent me here and I'm going right back. The original is waste, also blatent lift of the sample dialated peoples used on worse comes to worse
djfuvideo2 3 months ago
He threw a pillow at her...
MorenaMuneca 3 months ago
I will love this song for ever and ever !!!!
MzTownsend1 3 months ago
STUPID NIGGAZ REALLY NEED 2 PAY VERY CLOSE ATTENTION 2 THIS SONG
MrTking1988 3 months ago 2
Jahiem is the greatest
Snoopy18B 3 months ago
Taral Hicks!
MelChanelable 3 months ago
nd the fights keep gettin worste u better put dat woman first
deetheboy100 3 months ago
This song popped in my head n brought back memories of being in prison worried about my girl. Come to find out she got pregnant 2 months before my release.. :(
CJason09 3 months ago
put my woman first
deetheboy100 3 months ago
@deetheboy100 THAT'S RIGHT BECAUSE SHE IS NO.1 IN YOUR LIFE:)
Loveitstoogoodforyou 3 months ago
9 ppl aint puttin dey woman 1st
MrIzzy949 3 months ago
this is my song! one of my favorites by jaheim..
TheFameyous 3 months ago
This song still rings true to my life, becase I forgot, I lost m wife of 17yrs.
1989ford67 3 months ago
This is real music! Agree with you guys - we grew up with this and now we're the ones saying "back in the day" - its sad but what they listen to nowadays is real junk - most of it is so insincere or doesn't make sense!
TheBrendanzn 3 months ago 18
@TheBrendanzn got to give you a thumbs up on that man. kids now a days have no clue was good music is.
charlesemars 3 months ago
@vanillahybrid he wants you probably just taking you for granted
GODGOTMYSOUL 3 months ago
Best rnb singer out
quav34 3 months ago
still love this in 2011....
Barbiestwiin 3 months ago
if a guy isn't putting you at first does he even want you?
vanillahybrid 3 months ago 2
i love this song but i'm not gonna put any woman infront of my mother
saadiki4756 4 months ago 4
marvin lives on we dont die we multiply.micheal lives on theres chris usher he just passed the torch!
sweettooth565 4 months ago
SHOULD HAVE MORE VIEWS THUMBS UP !
CHISHYSTERS 4 months ago
oh shit thats Kisha from belly! tommy is gonna whip that ass!
NASTYxUNKLE 4 months ago
big big big track....THUMBS UP if you believe this song deserves more views!
Brent12g 4 months ago 3
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