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  • A REAL WOMAN REALIZES THAT A MAN IS EQUALLY AS EMOTIONAL AS THE WOMAN.. WE MEN JUST DON'T SHOW IT.. IT TAKES A TRUE STRONG WILLED WOMAN TO KEEP HIS MAN IN CHECK! IT'S WORST FOR THE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY'RE THE ONES THAT WAIT FOR FOREVER, if a guy doesn't "project the image of love" the woman will eventually LEAVE,, if the women doesn't keep her man satisfied.. he will always cheat behind her back.. PEACE & LOVE! =)

  • i lyk dis video..its been ages since i saw it!!

  • What cute baby face he has! Great song true though for not showing ur girl attention otherwise she will find it elsewhere

  • philly philly,still bangin this 9 yrs later!memories.

  • what year did this come out?

  • So many men take us for granted. It doesn't matter because we will love the next HARDER and HARDER.

  • I love this still listening to it in 2012

  • luv dis music so so much

  • Remember Gents.If you missed .Valentines ? Then don't forget 18th March 2012 ! Respect to all the Baby Ma's & the Empresses of the World !X!

  • Men remember this in 2012 you won't go wrong this year or years to come !!

  • SHE'S GUNNA LEAAAAVVVVEEE YOUUU!!! lmao!!!

  • Tsss.My dad would play this song all the time when i was little and i was jammin

  • U WOMEN ARE SO SILLY HOPE THAT THERE IS TRU LOVE AROUND TODAY WITH THESE MORALS &VALUES GOOD LUCK LOOK BUT IF U WANT A BOY TOY IM THAT GUY

  • DWAYNE HAVE BEEN DOING THIS CENIS THE FIRST DAY WE MET PUTTING ME AND MY KIDS FIRST THIS IS AN REAL BROTHER WHO HAVE BEEN PLAYING THE FATHER ROLE FOR LAST PAST TWO YEARS YOU DONT FIND TO MANY GUYS WHO WOULD BE WILLING TO STEP UP AND HELP TAKE CARE OF ANOTHER MAN KIDS. LOVE YOU DWAYNE

  • @gailford44 SUCKER

  • @gailford44 this nigga name is dwayne hey dwayne thanks for setting the bar for the rest of us 

  • Great song

  • Never Settle To Be A Mans Option.....Learn That You Should Always Be His Priority!!!

    #Know Your Self Worth!!!!

  • @08sexyjazz yeah how could u hoes compete with cars and sports that will always be a real mans priority

  • @kmatic6 First off dont come off as saying you hoes cause NOT all women are hoes. & Material things cannot buy you happiness. & Their was a reason this man made that song. Men where made for women and women where made for man. Some men know how to treat their ladies and some dont. And if a real man treats his woman like a priority the woman will (should) do the same.

  • @08sexyjazz na it was right the first time women bitch hoe all the same thing lol way to put me in my place though

  • @kmatic6 wasnt trying to put your place. thats not for me to do. but if a man called your mother a bitch hoe would it still be all the same??? NO i highly doubt it. but if you think sports and cars is a mans first priority then hey at the end of the day thats your opinion that your intitled to.

  • Lovee this song

  • OMG I HAVEN'T HEARD THIS IN SOOO LONG! THANKS 4 POSTING IT!!

  • if guys would just listen and act that way ...

  • @schlummi75 u know why we don't because u hoes aint shit

  • @kmatic6 lmfao ... under what rock did u grow up? 

  • @schlummi75 DETROIT SCHOOLCRAFT TO BE EXACT ONE OF THE TOUGHEST HOODS IN THIS COUNTRY 

  • @kmatic6 well that explains it all... i don't understand why u guys always wanna act all hardcore, be "bout it" and act like you don't give a s*** about anything, this is not gonna get u anywhere is it? Is ur car or ur fav NBA team or ur homies gonna b there when ur in need? if u treat a woman right, she's gonna b there for u no matter what, but if u wanna be hardcore u will never find someone that'll make u happy

  • @schlummi75 cause it a jungle out here and i don't have time to play with u women i have talked to the from 21 to 49 u see women are emotional creatures they do whats in there heart and if they dismiss u from that then u become collarteral damage of there wants and need no matter how i treat her i could be close to perfect won't matter men want nothing to give there all to a women but can't cause yall R ruthless

  • This is my man's, Good shit

    

  • 18 people are fuckin spakas

  • For all those guys thats losing their girl.

    Put that WOMAN first!!!!!

    This song speaks to me

  • @qeoskaterboy to lose something means u have to have possessionof it women can't be owend but the can be rented and bought lol

  • waw il a la classsss

  • *is wondering why there is a dislike button for this video*

  • Throw bak

  • JAHEIM PUT THE WOMEN FIRST GETTING WORSE PUT THT WOMAN FIRST...

  • What had happened to music? This is real shit, as real as it gets! Love this song. It takes me back. Hmmmm drifting on a memory............

  • @DominikanChick801 could u drift on this dick too lol

  • @DominikanChick801 is this real shit as opposed to fake shit?

  • @DominikanChick801 i knowwwwwww

  • Who's the Guy singing the chours??

  • sexxii lil chocolate thing she is so fucking sexxi but ummm this my shyt 

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  • @TheJUICE343 yea i feel u shes a nice change from the bright skin females i mean i love me a red bone but sometime its nice to turn the lights off without still havin the nightlight on... U FEEL ME LOL

  • @TheDonte07 lmao ain't nothing like a chocolate chick bruh

  • No copyright infringement intended. Promotional use only. LOL! That is like robbing a bank and say " I did not intend to take any money" with a bag full of money.

  • This is my song;;;)))

  • She's is getting annoying,can't she see he is trying to play the game?

  • I think its funny someone asked what type of music is this wtf lol its called R&B and yes the shit on the radios nowadays isnt shit to the bad stuff 10 yrs ago

  • Love it!

  • Its amazing how much change happened to music in the last ten years.

  • Damn after listenin to this, really made me think what the fuck has actually happened to music now.......

  • Jaheim and D'Angelo would make the best sex tune of the millenium

  • @moabdoun1 that's a bit gay tho

  • @kano0303 word they were whylin with that.

  • what type of music is this?

  • @firebullet555

    uh, its called R&B...did you forget what it sounds like with all the bullcrap out here?

  • @firebullet555 RnB bro

  • great song wonder y he stop singing

  • my man puts me first all the time. no exception.

  • out of all the hoes, there's always a special lady you have to put first

  • PUT ME 1ST!!!

  • you are right! someone please save R&B!I was born in the 70s and grew up in the 80s and 90s. and the music that they make today is terrible! Every time I see a video from back in the day, I really do cry! It makes me very sad! and i do really miss the 80s and 90s. Good clean fun!

  • @buttacup72 ditto...

  • I used 2 watch this video on BET's Midnight Love. I like this song.

  • If only men were like this still... 

  • damn tara hicks!!! where r u gorgeous? made redgirl wish for that chocolate glow

  • @purpleness64 Taral Hicks. she also did a remake of the song Silly by Denise Williams in the late 90's

  • still jamming this...#Classic

  • this is my jam. ..no matter what love u boo boo

  • The girl in the video is so beautiful

  • Now thats some true love fah ya

  • I Love This Song ! It Came Out When I Was 4 Now Im 14 ! And I Still Know The Lyrics ! :) <3 You Jaheim

  • hey mens never 4get to put your womens first

    

  • put that woan first remix

  • Will always be a song in my history. Isn't music wonderful u guy?!?!

  • Why he throw the pillow at her like that...?!...smh..Lol

  • I luv this song. Makes u think about ur on relationship

  • Lol, you can't bother him during a game! Just like he can't bother you watching ANTM or The Game!

  • @BoredRandomCraptv LMFAO so TRUE. Don't come between me and The Game! Lol I love me some Derwin!

  • Love the fact that he remade the original version of this song (William Bell - I Forgot To Be Your Lover) and made it his own without making it suck! I like this! :-)

  • Smh Damn It Took Her Too Date Another Nigga For Him Too Get A Clue !!

    But Awesome Song

  • @orangemound4 ikr!!! pisses me off...he was full of shit fa dat

  • If no one else will say it...I will... THUMBS UP IF UR LISTENING TO THIS IS 2012!

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  • I miss music like this...even as an ex raver, I am not too excited bout house & dubstep goin mainstream....This is where it's at! Loves it

  • who is that actress??? I've seen her in many movies

  • @purpleness64 Taral Hicks. She's also in Bronx Tale.

  • Listen up boo you better put that woman first or somebody else will

  • @lenaedee01 so true......

  • This was my shit back in the day <3

  • love this song

  • This that heat

  • This that shit ! 

  • Wow.... Taral Hicks from 'A Bronx Story' - still looking amazing.....

  • @mdeckerLondon all this time i kept thinking who is that chick she looks so familiar lol i love that movie

  • I FUCKING HATE 2011 WHY CAN'T I GO BACK IN TIME!!!! FUCK EVERYTHING NEW. I HATE PROGRESS!!!

  • @Shieket You need love in your life. Try Jesus!

  • DONT HAVE NO WORDS..SPEECHLESS.JUST KEEP IT COMEIN!!!

  • thats what i wanted back in the day put me first but he wasnt willing to he wanted other females too so i refuse to deal with that so i lefted him and moved on with my life that was the best thing i could have did he was some sshit.

  • been listening to this since middle skoo and now im 21

  • @lilswa510 ME 2 .... REAL MUSIC NOT MUSIC NOW

  • @lilswa510 omg me too!!!

  • Hey Habofanoeable........I couldn't agree more!!

  • YEAH I GUESS.ILOVE THAT I COME FIRIST.

  • THIS IS WHAT YOU CALL REAL MUSIC, I JUST LOVE THIS SONG'' MY MAN ALWAYS PUT ME FIRST.

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  • i couldn't remember his name or the song's name for the life of me!! woo thnx to the suggestions on the side i saw jaheim and that rang a bell!! <3 this song

  • wow thats awesome!!! by the way.. CHECK MY BRANDNEW LYFE JENNINGS - COPS UP REMIX.. thx :)

  • never miss thing till its go

  • William Bell's - I Forgot to be Your Lover

  • i miss Jaheim =(

  • awwww. this really make u wish r&b was like this today bcux itz so real men r not this real now a days itz all about disrespect'n females.

  • LOVELY!!

  • Dhis use to be my heat...

  • 12 women weren't put first lol

  • This is my favorite song im only 19 i wish music sounded like this today :( too bad it will never get this good anymore.....

  • love this song cause if men/women dont treat the other right, they will find someone who will.!

  • I miss my girl... i fucked it up..

  • this should have like 10 times this many views..... what the hell?! i miss REAL r&b thumps up if u agree!!!

  • @jjj6491 I didnt even notice till i read your comment.SHIT.It should have 20 times more Its on my playlist called Mellow Tip now so should start to get views

  • Jaheim, where are you?! Come back to save R and B!

  • @mzsaigon you can say that again.

  • @mzsaigon totally agree this guy is the ultimate king nxt to joe

  • Nice

  • awww i miss BET !

  • very nice track...luv it....but which song got dat melody too....damn...please help me...peace

  • @ASHTI2AY Ludacris - Growing pains

  • damnnn i was getting sad because i found out im baritone and couldnt think of any popular singers that sing low key... then i found this song and realized I could make goos songs with my low key voice!

  • @JTisJT im also baritone there is alot of cool music! look up con te partiro

  • The girl in this video is the same sister that was in the ROBERT DeNIRO movie, "A BRONX TALE".

    She was the young black girl that DeNiro's teenage Italian character fell in love with, only after attacking her brother in a race riot. I wasn't sure until I saw her cry at 1:40, just like she did in Bronx Tale. Then I KNEW it was her...

  • @Visionary0001 yeah her name is Taral Hicks

  • u better do that else she's gonna leave your ass! love the song

  • This song is so beautiful.

  • To my wife I love you so much

  • Nice song, sounds so much like Luther Vandross. I thought that's who it was at first. I love both artists.

  • lol.. thats keyshia from belly

  • 11 People forgot, now they're mad!!!

  • Love the piano at the start:)

  • Oms he spoke the truth I fuckin love dis damn song in love his sexy ass too

  • This was my song....Love jaheim

  • Mann SMH 11 People Must Not Have Put They Women 1st

  • whats wrong with 11 people?

  • Its funny how equally this track should apply to women as well. "When He starts ringing up old flings, and the fights keep getting worse, you find numbers in His pants.... see how it equally applies?? When you dont treat your man right you'll suffer the same consequences!!

  • @Habofanoeable common sense, don't you think?!

  • love this song he has just sumed up everything in a matter of 4 mins that a man should know and realise how to treat a woman that they say they love as to many ppl just throw the word love around like its nothing

  • The calibre rmx sent me here and I'm going right back. The original is waste, also blatent lift of the sample dialated peoples used on worse comes to worse

  • He threw a pillow at her...

  • I will love this song for ever and ever !!!!

  • STUPID NIGGAZ REALLY NEED 2 PAY VERY CLOSE ATTENTION 2 THIS SONG

  • Jahiem is the greatest

  • Taral Hicks!

  • nd the fights keep gettin worste u better put dat woman first

  • This song popped in my head n brought back memories of being in prison worried about my girl. Come to find out she got pregnant 2 months before my release.. :(

  • put my woman first

  • @deetheboy100 THAT'S RIGHT BECAUSE SHE IS NO.1 IN YOUR LIFE:)

  • 9 ppl aint puttin dey woman 1st

  • this is my song! one of my favorites by jaheim..

  • This song still rings true to my life, becase I forgot, I lost m wife of 17yrs.

  • This is real music! Agree with you guys - we grew up with this and now we're the ones saying "back in the day" - its sad but what they listen to nowadays is real junk - most of it is so insincere or doesn't make sense!

  • @TheBrendanzn got to give you a thumbs up on that man. kids now a days have no clue was good music is.

  • @vanillahybrid he wants you probably just taking you for granted

  • Best rnb singer out

  • still love this in 2011....

  • if a guy isn't putting you at first does he even want you?

  • i love this song but i'm not gonna put any woman infront of my mother

  • marvin lives on we dont die we multiply.micheal lives on theres chris usher he just passed the torch!

  • SHOULD HAVE MORE VIEWS THUMBS UP !

  • oh shit thats Kisha from belly! tommy is gonna whip that ass!

  • big big big track....THUMBS UP if you believe this song deserves more views!

  • ji