I am a freshman in highschool and up until 8th grade I was bullied. I tried everything that this video said to do and none of it worked. So one day this kid pushed me over the edge and I just started beating the crap out of him. I haven't been been bullied since.
@muppetspuppets same for me, i remember this one incident where i was swearing very badly at the principal about how the teachers are scared to take action against bullying and how the innocent people are kicked out of school just for breaking a stupid rule such as an unshaven face while the bullies who go as far as setting fires to peoples property are kept before she could even open her mouth to say i was going to be kicked out i told her i am going to terminate my enrolment in the school
Oh I get it hep the bully's and not the bullied,makes sense,I fucking hate life i wake up each morning knowing somethings going to happen but I always see it through hoping something will change but no nothing for 4 long god dam years.one time I told the teacher on this kid for verbal and physical abuse and they did nothing other than give him a school trip to a theme park in school time just for him.WHAT THE FUCK HAS HAPPENED TO THIS WORLD
AND DON'T BE SCARED ABOUT GOING TO HE'LL BECAUSE YOU A
U know what sucks? Whenever i get bullied the same responce is always "I was just messing around man!!" I am 14 nd i still get bullied, atleast in every class.
@sociomike even ugly people with high esteem have the audacity to bully prettier people because of the prettier person is not confident about who they are and how they are.
@sociomike They was the technique how the bully bullied me. I was smaller shorter and not as socially savvy. It was a he and a she. They would act in groups. They organized and caucus to create further advanced in the severity of the bullied. It was obvious in their attacks. They wait for me learn of my schedule my walking route stand there then go about their bullying activities. Ugly chicks and fat boys bully me. It is not about how beautiful they are but how they feel about themselves.
The bullies should apologize to the victim. Stop his own bullying. Take responsibility for himself. Then go seek help. When they are young you can understand because they are not as conscious of the world then also they do not have as much control. As they age, it is really hard to tolerate. If beyond 14 you can begin to develop logic and reasoning.
Sometimes I can come to understand for the bully, but is it ever okay to assert their frustrations onto other people? Yes, it is nice to sympathize with them, but also there needs to be an intervention bounds of reason. First no one deserves to be bullied. The bully should control themselves get themselves checked and if they have problems that is their responsibility to fix it. No one deserves their frustrations.
This is all Bullshit !! Just send your kid to martial arts classes ! That is the Ultimate answer !! I took Karate and a year later nobody in School would even fuck with me . All this other Pop Psychology is just a bunch of crapp ! By the time I was a Senior in High School I was a Black Belt and I even dated the Top Cheerleader and there was not a fucken thing her Quarterback boyfriend was able to do about it !! THAT IS POWER MY FRIEND !
Please help me! my friends brother said this to me: Im gonna kill you at sight. and: You askin for a death wish? Please help me i dont wanna get killed by a teen! please help me do somthing eles then call police because then im setting my self for more beatings when he is out of jail
Let's face it, the time in ones life where bullying exists, is also the perfect time revenge can be had with little to no real consequence. Once 18 hits, the party is over, but until then, mace, stun guns, and in school other things like books or art tubes; all these items make little to no marks! The best defense is a good offense! Self defense will gain the respect of your fellow students, and show others they can defend bully, EVEN IF YOU LOSE. When a bully attacks, FIGHT BACK!
@qkiller -- Trying to fight violence with violence is as smart and effective as trying to put out a fire with gasoline. There’s never any guarantee that any kid will prevail in hand-to-hand combat. At the same time there is no guarantee that he or she will not get hurt—and God forbid--maybe seriously.
@JoyBerryBooks Your logic is flawed. You cannot help a bully, if you try the bully will just get pissed off and beat the hell out of the victim. If you tell a teacher, the bully will just get extremely angry because you told on him and beat the hell out of you! The only way to stop a bully is to fight back. Even if you lose, it will show that you aren't afraid to defend yourself and you're not one to be messed with. The bully will then be the one who's afraid and back off. The end, dyke,
Consequently, here’s some better advice than “fighting back.” It’s safer and smarter to avoid bullies. And if they can’t be avoided, get help to deal with them. With the massive attention being devoted to stopping bullying, today’s kids no longer need to stop bullies on their own.
@JoyBerryBooks What if the bullies are the school administration the university the student body government and the whole school district? even teachers themselves are bullies and wrong. power corrupts absolute power corrupts absolutely.
@qkiller u know ure right. if the bully knows hes gonna get beat up he wont pick on anyone. the problem is that public schools are so god damn stict about violence that they dont want u to fight back.FUCK U PUBLIC SCHOOLS!!!
I don't see anything "special" on that video. Well... maybe just the fact that this woman is doing what parents and teachers ought to be doing. It is called:
EDUCATION.
Something which USED to be normal in most kid's lives.
And if it doesn't work, then you take it to the next level, and "explain" it to the kid in such a manner, that he'll never forget,and would prefer to be run over by a train before having to go through the "explanation" once again..
@PALLADINARC I have to agree, but now that bullying has led to mass homicides and suicides, schools are FINALLY beginning to see how serious the problem can get if left unaddressed. It's the age-old habit: people won't do anything until deaths are involved. That is disgusting, but that's how humans have behaved since the beginning.
i need some help everytime i go to school bus there is a girl who is always teasing me calling me ugly and disgusting and popular how can i handle this :S?
Teasing only works if it bothers the person who is being teased. If you can completely stay away from the girl or ignore her teasing, you will ultimately be the winner. However, if the teasing is something that you cannot avoid or ignore, you need to look the girl in the eyes, tell her that her teasing is hurtful, and ask her to stop.
If the teasing continues, get an adult to help you deal with the girl. Meanwhile, never forget that if the girl finds pleasure in teasing you, she is the person with the problems—not you.
@JoyBerryBooks This happened to me where the girl who was teasing me, took joy in my misfortune. He teasing impacted me quite a bit. There are people out there that get happiness at other peoples misfortune.
@JoyBerryBooks look i have to say, as someone who overcame bullying myself, pretending the teasing doesn't bother you doesn't make the feelings go away. and i have NEVER seen a bully stop after being told there hurting feelings. they KNOW, thats why they do it. the best thing to do is turn the joke on them (in my opinion) like if your called skiny, ,"i know right, i bet you know some good places to eat" then leave with a smile.
I believe my son is a victim of this... I was myself but it was all the kids that picked on me. He is small for his age. I dont know how to help him.
@tinaater : First, it is important that you work with your son to identify exactly who is bullying him. If it’s “everyone,” you need to get together with his teacher as well as the principle and decide what needs to be done to correct the situation. Then you need to follow through on a weekly basis to make sure everything is happening as planned.
If your son continues to be bullied by the group, you might need to move him to a different class or even a different school.
...Meanwhile, never underestimate the importance of your son having friends that can serve as a buffer between him and the bully. If your son does not have friends, try to do everything you can to help him develop friendships. This is crucial on many levels.
If just one child is bullying your son, you need to teach him how to deal with the bully.
I wrote an article about bullying with more detailed information. It can be found in the pull-down information box on this video page.
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natashamaks 1 month ago
our school has a uniform policy and our shirts say no drugs no bullies
normasueb 1 month ago
You beat the shit out of that bully! That's how you make them stop.
dboysrollin2424 2 months ago
no bad children?? Who is this woman?
ItchyGoomie 4 months ago
being nice to bullies really works, but beating the holy hell also works.
jwdesign336 4 months ago
I am a freshman in highschool and up until 8th grade I was bullied. I tried everything that this video said to do and none of it worked. So one day this kid pushed me over the edge and I just started beating the crap out of him. I haven't been been bullied since.
hockeylaxboy32 4 months ago
i went to a few catholic schools they are total liars they never do anything about bully
ZHREDERR 5 months ago
@ZHREDERR I went to a catholic School too and it was the teachers that were the bullies. Thankfully most are behind bars now.
Great advice in this video though.
muppetspuppets 5 months ago
@muppetspuppets same for me, i remember this one incident where i was swearing very badly at the principal about how the teachers are scared to take action against bullying and how the innocent people are kicked out of school just for breaking a stupid rule such as an unshaven face while the bullies who go as far as setting fires to peoples property are kept before she could even open her mouth to say i was going to be kicked out i told her i am going to terminate my enrolment in the school
ZHREDERR 5 months ago
It was cute when they gaspsed but yes this is serious
Averyrox333 5 months ago
Oh I get it hep the bully's and not the bullied,makes sense,I fucking hate life i wake up each morning knowing somethings going to happen but I always see it through hoping something will change but no nothing for 4 long god dam years.one time I told the teacher on this kid for verbal and physical abuse and they did nothing other than give him a school trip to a theme park in school time just for him.WHAT THE FUCK HAS HAPPENED TO THIS WORLD
AND DON'T BE SCARED ABOUT GOING TO HE'LL BECAUSE YOU A
stanleyknife72 5 months ago
U know what sucks? Whenever i get bullied the same responce is always "I was just messing around man!!" I am 14 nd i still get bullied, atleast in every class.
666AbyssBlack 6 months ago
@sociomike I think it is important to love yourself because even bullies get their way in life.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@sociomike it is even amazing how they go about creating more surprising and fun ways techniques to bully people.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@sociomike even ugly people with high esteem have the audacity to bully prettier people because of the prettier person is not confident about who they are and how they are.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@sociomike They was the technique how the bully bullied me. I was smaller shorter and not as socially savvy. It was a he and a she. They would act in groups. They organized and caucus to create further advanced in the severity of the bullied. It was obvious in their attacks. They wait for me learn of my schedule my walking route stand there then go about their bullying activities. Ugly chicks and fat boys bully me. It is not about how beautiful they are but how they feel about themselves.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
The bullies should apologize to the victim. Stop his own bullying. Take responsibility for himself. Then go seek help. When they are young you can understand because they are not as conscious of the world then also they do not have as much control. As they age, it is really hard to tolerate. If beyond 14 you can begin to develop logic and reasoning.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
Sometimes I can come to understand for the bully, but is it ever okay to assert their frustrations onto other people? Yes, it is nice to sympathize with them, but also there needs to be an intervention bounds of reason. First no one deserves to be bullied. The bully should control themselves get themselves checked and if they have problems that is their responsibility to fix it. No one deserves their frustrations.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
This is all Bullshit !! Just send your kid to martial arts classes ! That is the Ultimate answer !! I took Karate and a year later nobody in School would even fuck with me . All this other Pop Psychology is just a bunch of crapp ! By the time I was a Senior in High School I was a Black Belt and I even dated the Top Cheerleader and there was not a fucken thing her Quarterback boyfriend was able to do about it !! THAT IS POWER MY FRIEND !
nicktesla45 8 months ago
@nicktesla45 Amen!
burgershot10 6 months ago
Please help me! my friends brother said this to me: Im gonna kill you at sight. and: You askin for a death wish? Please help me i dont wanna get killed by a teen! please help me do somthing eles then call police because then im setting my self for more beatings when he is out of jail
Lego430 9 months ago
i dont hate bullys...i hate the victims of bullys cuz they give in to it
warmonster86 10 months ago
you need to teach those kids about the real bully in town, the government
longfootbuddy 11 months ago 3
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if you are being bully take up boxing, or something that can teach you how to fight.
colesjeff12 11 months ago
Let's face it, the time in ones life where bullying exists, is also the perfect time revenge can be had with little to no real consequence. Once 18 hits, the party is over, but until then, mace, stun guns, and in school other things like books or art tubes; all these items make little to no marks! The best defense is a good offense! Self defense will gain the respect of your fellow students, and show others they can defend bully, EVEN IF YOU LOSE. When a bully attacks, FIGHT BACK!
qkiller 11 months ago 5
@qkiller -- Trying to fight violence with violence is as smart and effective as trying to put out a fire with gasoline. There’s never any guarantee that any kid will prevail in hand-to-hand combat. At the same time there is no guarantee that he or she will not get hurt—and God forbid--maybe seriously.
JoyBerryBooks 11 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks Your logic is flawed. You cannot help a bully, if you try the bully will just get pissed off and beat the hell out of the victim. If you tell a teacher, the bully will just get extremely angry because you told on him and beat the hell out of you! The only way to stop a bully is to fight back. Even if you lose, it will show that you aren't afraid to defend yourself and you're not one to be messed with. The bully will then be the one who's afraid and back off. The end, dyke,
burgershot10 6 months ago
Consequently, here’s some better advice than “fighting back.” It’s safer and smarter to avoid bullies. And if they can’t be avoided, get help to deal with them. With the massive attention being devoted to stopping bullying, today’s kids no longer need to stop bullies on their own.
JoyBerryBooks 11 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks What if the bullies are the school administration the university the student body government and the whole school district? even teachers themselves are bullies and wrong. power corrupts absolute power corrupts absolutely.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks you know i hate people like you...
somuchrandom 4 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks Tell that to the thousands of kids beat up every day.
DaSticksanStonesClub 3 months ago
@qkiller u know ure right. if the bully knows hes gonna get beat up he wont pick on anyone. the problem is that public schools are so god damn stict about violence that they dont want u to fight back.FUCK U PUBLIC SCHOOLS!!!
THElegendOFhaloMARIO 2 months ago
I don't see anything "special" on that video. Well... maybe just the fact that this woman is doing what parents and teachers ought to be doing. It is called:
EDUCATION.
Something which USED to be normal in most kid's lives.
And if it doesn't work, then you take it to the next level, and "explain" it to the kid in such a manner, that he'll never forget,and would prefer to be run over by a train before having to go through the "explanation" once again..
Something we all USED to have
Gmmaverick 11 months ago
Do what casey heynes did and body slam your bully and break his ankle.
ih8makinusernames 11 months ago
Bullshit excuses. bullies exist because they get away with it and teachers and schools promote it.
PALLADINARC 1 year ago
@PALLADINARC I have to agree, but now that bullying has led to mass homicides and suicides, schools are FINALLY beginning to see how serious the problem can get if left unaddressed. It's the age-old habit: people won't do anything until deaths are involved. That is disgusting, but that's how humans have behaved since the beginning.
1958boomergirl 11 months ago
i need some help everytime i go to school bus there is a girl who is always teasing me calling me ugly and disgusting and popular how can i handle this :S?
mrdemize999 1 year ago
Teasing only works if it bothers the person who is being teased. If you can completely stay away from the girl or ignore her teasing, you will ultimately be the winner. However, if the teasing is something that you cannot avoid or ignore, you need to look the girl in the eyes, tell her that her teasing is hurtful, and ask her to stop.
JoyBerryBooks 1 year ago
If the teasing continues, get an adult to help you deal with the girl. Meanwhile, never forget that if the girl finds pleasure in teasing you, she is the person with the problems—not you.
JoyBerryBooks 1 year ago
@JoyBerryBooks This happened to me where the girl who was teasing me, took joy in my misfortune. He teasing impacted me quite a bit. There are people out there that get happiness at other peoples misfortune.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks Maybe the children own parents are bullies.
kazakhstanmkj 7 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks u have to be fuckin kidding me!
THElegendOFhaloMARIO 2 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks look i have to say, as someone who overcame bullying myself, pretending the teasing doesn't bother you doesn't make the feelings go away. and i have NEVER seen a bully stop after being told there hurting feelings. they KNOW, thats why they do it. the best thing to do is turn the joke on them (in my opinion) like if your called skiny, ,"i know right, i bet you know some good places to eat" then leave with a smile.
dtpheif 11 months ago
@JoyBerryBooks 3 tips that will handle a bully:
1 tell them to shut the fuck up
2 if they push u you push them back
THElegendOFhaloMARIO 2 months ago
@mrdemize999 JUST TELL her to shut up.
THElegendOFhaloMARIO 2 months ago
This video is the best video I have ever seen concerning bullying.
mozvideos1957 1 year ago 5
I believe my son is a victim of this... I was myself but it was all the kids that picked on me. He is small for his age. I dont know how to help him.
tinaater 1 year ago
@tinaater : First, it is important that you work with your son to identify exactly who is bullying him. If it’s “everyone,” you need to get together with his teacher as well as the principle and decide what needs to be done to correct the situation. Then you need to follow through on a weekly basis to make sure everything is happening as planned.
If your son continues to be bullied by the group, you might need to move him to a different class or even a different school.
JoyBerryBooks 1 year ago
@tinaater
...Meanwhile, never underestimate the importance of your son having friends that can serve as a buffer between him and the bully. If your son does not have friends, try to do everything you can to help him develop friendships. This is crucial on many levels.
If just one child is bullying your son, you need to teach him how to deal with the bully.
I wrote an article about bullying with more detailed information. It can be found in the pull-down information box on this video page.
JoyBerryBooks 1 year ago
@JoyBerryBooks in this case i agree, nothing stops bullying short faster then having good friends around
dtpheif 11 months ago