everytime i go out to eat with a female THEY ALWAYS PAY THE BILL!! lol ... why not? i dont force them, they have the money and frankly i really dont, so i find that interesting, then again i come across beautiful/materialistic (of course those 2 go hand in hand) females, who ask me what i can buy for them or do for them lol needless to say i drop them like a lead balloon (after they see i dont go for that, and start to disrespect me lol) but i digress, remain single and free from tyranny
As a 25 year old male your videos give me hope in knowing I am not the only one in the world asking "if we are equal than why am I held to different expectations?"
Why am I expected to pay your bills if you have a significant salary?
Why am I expected to make up for your bad financial decisions?
Why can you hit me out of anger and not mention it the next day?
I've cut myself loose of the bonds of traditional expectations, and I've found myself THRIVING like I could have never imagined.
you are mostly right but I never met women that act like people say here like don't have responsibility for themself make men care for them financially(like men having to pay for their dinner) and not doing anything for themself having men do everything. women I know aren't this..........................................hmm....................................bitchy? is the word.
"Feminism is a twisted way and corrupted exploitation of Masculinity" Agreed. Along with almost any other kind of "ism" it is just a perception of reality. Socially we are supporting these ideologies of sex, gender, and race. Tagging these "isms" to them and finding that it is creating an oppression to Men. I think in the present times we need to let go of the past and focus on Individual reason, for man and woman (of all races) to be equal. The best way to start is to get educated.
The right for women to become a butch dike, or a housewife has been reserved. The decision for a male to become a house husband or super soldier has already been made by society. It seems more and more men are being oppressed. I would NEVER abuse a woman, I would strike back in self-defense though. A woman can pay her own way on a date, I'm not paying for her. I want to become my own man, not the role society has made for me. Is there a place for me in society?
as being a young man, i find that guys my generation and younger, have a short attention span. id suggest that you prepare some basic visuals in your videos to keep it interesting.. i dont know.. it could work =D
4:17 to 4: 25 totally true and right on Paul. However keep in mind that it is also often hipocritical horseshit as well, as cops make up a large percentage of wife-beaters.
Which I am sure has many hidden, untold sides to as well.
Women have been treated as property of men for thousands of years. It's about time justice is finally being served. Yes, we deserve some recompense I should think. If you'd like, I could fetch a burka for you, dear Misogynist, so you can hide behind it and never have to face all the hordes of women that must be surrounding you and demanding that you pay for their dinner! Pobre de ti!
You don't know anything about me. Yes I've been treated as property by men, I've been abused by MANY men, but never women.
You are terribly confused. You accuse women of playing the victim, but that's what you're all about. You have a very limited view. Seriously, I think you would be happier living in Saudi Arabia.
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 You've been treated as property by men, You been abused by MANY men,but never women? Oh you're poor thing. I feel so sorry for you. I suggest you work on your selfesteem rather than accuse men.
HA! I love men. I have great self esteem, that why this whole thread is so stinking entertaining. Yeah, I've been abused in just about every way by men, but not women. It's a gender thing. Many (but not all--duh) man feel superior to women. There are many physiological, historical, cultural and religious (depending on the man's religion) reasons for this, but that's how it is. I'm not "accusing" I'm just stating the facts. Women abuse men too. Never said they didn't.
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 ''It's about time justice is finally served''? You know nothing about justice.And you don't even believe in all this crap yourself. All you want is recompense, revenge,you want to hurt men,to see them being miserable.It's nothing to do with ''justice''as you put it.It's all about gratification of your malice.
Raelly? You're going to demand recompense for something that hasn't happened to you? Apart from being utterly petty and childish it's also incredibly stupid.
Hey my family is Irish so i'm going to demand recompense from the English for how they treated my ancestors!
This is the second time that your questioning of the role males are supposed to take over has opened my eyes. The first time being when you introduced the zeta male.
For a long time I was bitter, your revolutionary views help me transform the bitterness into action energy.
I'm looking forward to zeta game part 2 and more about the zeta male.
Contemplating and trying to understand is a necessary step, but acting is another!
Women are on there Own, !! Feminism had become So Evil, Because most women made it that way, How I treat a Lady or Women, By respect and too stay far away from them, But still be nice at the same time, Without getting mad at them.
Your Right Chivalry is pure poison, And it's evil by design.
I think all of these gender issues are being set up to destroy the American family and make people more dependent on the government and/or fill up out jail/prison with the fallout, it's already happening, eventually I think they are going for full blown communism, Feminism and communism have ties that can't be denied. You, sir have very strong arguments, don't you think that we can have our society work without losing peace of mind. Debt and Jail go hand-in-hand with Dating and Sex, not good.
For me, a real man is who doesn't put me on a pedestal and actually let me do something on my own. That to me means he thinks I'm an equal and believes that I have the strength to do it. Rather than someone being chivalrous.
Unofrtunately, that's not the definiton that men have on themselves. Real Men are real men regardless of what women want them to be. let's not confuse equal right with equal roles. I am for equal rights but against equal roles
To many women, a man is like a wrench. One does not enjoy or love a wrench, one uses it. Perhaps this is why the word "tool" is a common pejorative aimed at men.
Great stuff, Paul. Some of us remember how the promise of feminism -- the second wave variety, at any rate -- was that it was going to free BOTH sexes from their traditional roles.
Somehow, once the women got their's (a gentleman always lets the lady go first) they conveniently forgot about upholding their half of the deal.
You're definitely right about how feminism exploits men's inherent nature to protect and coddle and favor females.
Let me add another point to my previous post....aside from Rockefeller funding feminism with it's divide-and-conquer effect, there's also the population-reduction aspect of it: if men and women are pitted against each other, there will be fewer kids born from them.
But even more insidious: after divorce courts and other feminist institutions have gotten rid of the men, the women and children will be easy pickings for the new world order to get rid of afterwords.
@justiceformen That is why they went after women. They knew that women are more emotional and would be listened to more. Feminism told women what they should be and thus the disease spreads.
I always tell people of the Rockefeller funding and the CIA crap.
Good points about feminism....but I would say there's a bigger picture involved. Keep in mind that ROCKEFELLER created and heavily funded feminism....that's what Aaron Russo mentioned in an interview following his association with Nick Rockefeller. The two stated aims were collecting taxes (to fund the banks) of now-working women, and getting kids into daycare so they could be indoctrinated by the State. IMHO, there's the added benefit of divide-and-conquer-pitting men and women against other
Good observation. You're correct about the double standard that men are told to "man up", but it's totally un-politically correct to tell women to "act like ladies".
The problem I see with the current control mechanism is that it destroys the self-worth of many men. Ultimately, it is damaging those that they want to exploit and is destroying their desires and will to be productive.
Many men feel as if they were defective from birth under the current propaganda. When someone begins to fell unworthy and has low self esteem it tends to destroy their productivity. The very productivity these misandrists rely on.
@ecm71 Yes, I was born the early 80s, and growing up in the 90s, even as a kid I felt like society/media told us that men were "pigs", stupid, etc...
I never believed it cuz I'm very strong-minded, but I sure as heck FELT it.
It's getting worse and worse, and it's still very taboo to acknowledge it. Like racism and sexism towards women in the past, it will get even WORST before we finally do something about it.
@ecm71 This comment is so spot on that I wish it could be copy/pasted to every feminist and MRA website on the web, and plastered on books in print as well.
This video from Doc Paul underlines one important fact: the real success of feminism lies in that it has created a serious schism between men.
Men have throughout history competed with each other over women. But how does this now translate in our present femininely-driven western societies? Horrendously gratuitous punishments for male miscreants and unfair brutality toward innocent accused men. Male chivalry has once again turned into a form of oppression of men by men. This IS feminism.
@lewtube Feminism has made women oppress other women as well. Any woman that is remotely feminine is looked down upon and thought of as old fashioned or brainwashed by Patriarchy.
Ask a few feminists how they feel about stay at home moms and you'll get my drift. lol
I think it likely that men instinctively use their muscles to right wrongs against women because it is a display of useful prowess that will impress any woman he might want to court. A policeman who uses force against an alleged abuser is exercising the only opportunity he gets to believe he is doing this.
4:10 Very interesting point about how the "useful idiot" men who enforce unjust, anti-male laws think they are being heroes. This in a world that otherwise does everything it can to stop a man from using his muscles to right wrongs. This misuse of men to misuse other men is arguably a cult.
Isn't it funny how the traditional value of protecting women is used to abuse men. If women were oppressed why was it that men protected them, often with their lives?
Id rather be a jerk or an asshole thats NOT against the law. NOT paying child support or maintenance ordered by a judge IS against the law. So I will continue to tell these filthy provider seeking, single mom leeches, delusional independent whores about themselves. That service is free and I wake up every morning with a smile on my face. NO obligations, burdens, large responsibilities. A MAN needs to be who he needs to be for HIMSELF. NOT a bitch. @ Happy Misogynist , MUCH RESPECT.
society is absolutely cookoo and has no consistency with itself whatsoever. In one instance, we're told MEN HAD ALL THE POWER AND WERE OPPRESSING WOMEN. This was supposedly "tradition." In the other instance, we are told, "tradition" was when MEN SACRIFICED THEMSELVES FOR A LADY.
WHICH ONE IS IT ASSHOLES?? You just can't keep consistent with these douchebags. They will never ever admit to their psychotic, neurotic, and illogical modes of ill-thinking. Such double speak is ingrained in people
I am single, unmarried with no kids (LOVE IT) but I've seen enough child support issues to know that efforts need to be made to start making women show receipts for every dollar of child support money they receive and make sure it goes to the welfare of the child. Too many of these broads are playing bingo with dads child support money. If you are a man, let your fuckin nuts hang and get down with the mens rights movement...pussy. Keep the videos coming Misogynist.
I agree with the Misogynist. I googled "what is a real man?" from the perspective of various women and one that stood out to me was "a REAL MAN always puts my needs first".. I'm thinking...are you fucking kidding me? This is the first thing that comes to mind when asked about a real man? It just further illustrates the immensely arrogant sense of entitlement that many women feel today in my generation much of this attitude is a direct result of the feminist movement and slavery to gender roles.
First of all, wouldn't that be "our" offspring and not "my" offspring? Second of all, shouldn't this work both ways? If I am supposed to have a set of guidelines that I am supposed to follow because of my gender, then shouldn't "she" have a similar set of rules to make things equal?
Lastly, if you are referring to an overall situation of being nice and treating others with respect, shouldn't these rules apply to people in general, not just women?
Like I said, chivalry apply to women who deserves it. How can a chevalier possibly love a woman who does not embody all the virtues and graces of her sex? And, if a woman is loved in a courtly way, why would she not be reciprocal about it?
I understand what you are saying, but just disagree. I am not a traditionalist. Traditionalists sat by like cowards as feminists took over.
IF I wanted a woman, and this is a big IF, the only "virtues and graces of her sex" that I would be interested in is self sufficiency, integrity and honor. In other words, a woman who doesn't need or want me to act like her father.
First of all, most of todays women do not deserve it. They want to be equal, so there is no room for chivalry. An exception might be older women, but I would also help an older men.
For the rest it's as you do, I do.
And, in todays world, loving a woman in a courtly way is the perfect attraction killer. The man as provider is dead, he is obsolet. The you go grrl generation does not want a boring provider, they want someone exciting. The rock star, the entertainer, the bad ass thug...
Totally unsound. First, you must understand, that love never requires anyone to place themselves beneath another human being. It may well inspire them to honor each other, but for the subservience of one to the other for the sake of some outmoded romantic code.
I don't think any man that so little values himself as to live on his knees by a code of chivalry, is deep enough as a human being to fully and maturely love someone else.
Really interesting video. I think you make two good points: 1) Women have more fluid gender roles 2) Men enable our own rigid roles by clinging to aspects of supposed masculinity. Men do not have, or give themselves, the options of behaving as they really choose. In many ways, we are, and have always been, where women were 40 years ago - locked into a prescribed role. Years of feminism have given women the ability to take any role they want - men now have to do the same for themselves.
Giving up chivalry is an impossible proposition. My father, my grandfather, and his father all operated on chivalry. I dont think I can give up the code to live that all my forefather practiced so easily in one generation. It is engraved upon my very soul.
Chivalry is not dead, we are just living the wrong era. Similar to the Way of the Samurai, it is obsolete and no longer relevant.
The best course of action, it seems, is to write a new code of chivalry for this era without losing ourselves.
To each his own, but to me this is like hanging on to the idea that the earth is flat. Our forefathers practiced chivalry in an age where it made sense. To me, it doesn't any more.
@TheHappyMisogynist chivalry never made sense. It only made 'sense' because women weren't treated like men. Notice how "women and children first" NEVER applies to only fertile women. It applies to ALL women, over 50 years of age as well who are completely infertile. If it's due to biology, why would they include these women? Society can't keep its story straight. One way it will say because of reproductive necessity, then it will turn around and protect infertile women but not fertile old men
I think it did make sense in the sociobiological sense. Its very plausible to me that non fertile women were included as an extension because in impending, life or death situations, it makes more sense to make quick decisions. So saving "all" women makes a lot more sense than screening them for saving while an attack is underway..
You know what Paul? I gave up on chivalry along time ago. And you know what else? The women respect you more when they realize you`re no pushover. My advise to the men of this world, if you want women to respect you, grow some balls! And when they expect you to cater for their needs, tell them to go fuck themselves! Trust me, it works.
I am not totally sure I buy this one. Eliminating all chivalry from your behavior with women is complicated. I agree totally that having balls with them is a plus and attracts a better class of woman, but sending them the clear message that you will never protect or take care of them in that sense is against programming.
I think your approach makes for better short term relationships. Those will last till the women figure out your serious about no chivalry.
Yes, it is, though I would never call protecting women "chauvinism," Chauvinism and chivalry are two different things. But that is still the direction that the MM has to go to make progress. This battle is largely internal.
The way I look at it is, "If you are sick of the princess, kill the prince."
This is an excellent point that escapes most people. It even escaped me for years, despite my awareness of feminist propaganda, until Warren Farrel explained it in his interview here on youtube, I reject the "official male gender role" and go my own way. Men and women can piss and scream over my non-conformist attitude all they want while I just smirk. :P
We need to break with tradition. Taking care of a woman is a good thing I suppose if there playing field were level. Women have it all the courts, workplace, gender based hiring practices college admissions etc. Tradition is damned and its about time.
In the Movie Cool Hand Luke Paul Newman stated to one of the guards just cause its your job Boss dont make it right Police agencies love to use that line I am just doing my job man Well law enforcement officers that is a line of B/S and we would at least think you would know that by now. When you arrest a Man for domestic violence think about it and stop thinking about boning his old lady when you get off shift.
Women are no more independent than they were before feminist laws instituted in the 70's.
The only thing that has changed is the ways in which women may gain financial support from men.....which is now both in and out of marriage after divorce and at no-fault.
The only thing that has changed is that women have given themselves "choices".
Women have made marriage an exclusive obligation from men to women..As you said Paul women have no obligations to family or society that are not a "choice". These choices for women exist for one reason..They come at the forced responsibility of men to enable them...
Men ourselves have no choices and hold no legal rights in marriage, neither to our children or the rights to the fruits of our working labor to support a woman that is not our wife and a child that has been taken from us.
True. But then they also cast us as whiners and misogynists and abusive bullies. I think we are getting close, VERY close to the time that they will no longer be able to frame the argument in their terms.
The voices of the MRM are getting louder, more frequent and more numerous. They are slipping. We clearly have a long way to go, but I have nothing better to do.
I had one feminist nutjob "diagnose" me as a textbook example of an abuser (over youtube comments).
I had the nerve to argue with "aliveformyself" and she said that she was going to use my comments as a teaching tool in her class about abusers.
And during our youtube comment section argument she made it known that she wished that she could meet me in person so that she could cause me real physical pain and suffering.
Some of these "professionals" really are sadistic basketcases.
The name "aliveformyself" screams egotistical and self-serving. It is people like this one that shows why psychology is considered pseudo-science by many.
Another thing that annoys me is when people claim to be an expert on everything just because they have been educated in psychology.
It is just a way to give thier hair brained opinions more credability, and to assume the role of omniscient guru on all things in the realm of thought and behavior.
Women hold the vote. We must be careful how we understand who is in power here...The male workhorses in political power serve the largest voting block....women. I believe women will continue to not allow equal representation under law for men. Men need representation for our gender at the Federal level RIGHT AWAY..
Women married the State and will continue to do so...See my latest video.....Women have representation for their gender at the Federal level i.e. The Council On Women and Girls.. As such the Stimulus Package was diverted to women and the Council On Women and Girls wants to expand "women first" laws such as Title IX and Affirmative Action to the last places males preside in our colleges....We must not allow this to happen...
Obama & Reich has made it clear that jobs for men is not the plan.
These men r manginas, the best example is a cop who will arrest other males & think he is doing duty as man, this is a classic mangina. I will drink a beer with a sissy fag, before I ever show respect to 1 of these punks. Chivarly is dead, & feminist killed it.
lol ask me about what I did to 1 of these manginas mma style, he was a proud cop, "stood for women" suck my foot in his ass.
Would love to go back 50's but feminst took it to far, they won, no turning back, open your own dam door.
The greatest fallacy of modern gender 'equality' thinking/promotion:
'Equality' is about allowing women to pick and choose aspects from either gender. if an aspect of being a woman is better for a given situation, then she can take that. If an aspect of being a man is better for a given situation, then she can take that. Pure gender 'equality'. For women.
While men on the other hand can only take aspects from being 'men' and are chastised, shamed, ridiculed and even suffer physical punishment for stepping outside of their 'male' boundaries.
While society promotes the idea of being a 'person' and not a gender, this is only done for women. Women are 'people' who deserve the rights and freedoms of such. Men are 'men' and must abide by the restrictions, limitations and requirements of such.
I'm tired of greedy/selfish females not realizing that what they want is not only going to ruin them and anyone who enables them. they cant even address "real" equal rights..nor do they even discuss children until they run out of room to deflect. those John wayne manginas are puch drunk from taking it on the chin from feminists
How many men stand up to feminist pigs when such elements raise their ugly voices and male imitations?
How many of us call out a feminist on the street with pseudo-male features, living a life of fantasy, pretending to be what she is not and cannot become?
How many of us exercise our mind, tact and hormones by showing feminists for what they are... emotional wrecks of vengeance and irrational lust for the male psyche and position, given by God himself?
everytime i go out to eat with a female THEY ALWAYS PAY THE BILL!! lol ... why not? i dont force them, they have the money and frankly i really dont, so i find that interesting, then again i come across beautiful/materialistic (of course those 2 go hand in hand) females, who ask me what i can buy for them or do for them lol needless to say i drop them like a lead balloon (after they see i dont go for that, and start to disrespect me lol) but i digress, remain single and free from tyranny
daleva187goligo 3 weeks ago
As a 25 year old male your videos give me hope in knowing I am not the only one in the world asking "if we are equal than why am I held to different expectations?"
Why am I expected to pay your bills if you have a significant salary?
Why am I expected to make up for your bad financial decisions?
Why can you hit me out of anger and not mention it the next day?
I've cut myself loose of the bonds of traditional expectations, and I've found myself THRIVING like I could have never imagined.
pulmonarykid123 3 months ago 3
you are mostly right but I never met women that act like people say here like don't have responsibility for themself make men care for them financially(like men having to pay for their dinner) and not doing anything for themself having men do everything. women I know aren't this..........................................hmm....................................bitchy? is the word.
CommanderMattShepard 3 months ago
"Feminism is a twisted way and corrupted exploitation of Masculinity" Agreed. Along with almost any other kind of "ism" it is just a perception of reality. Socially we are supporting these ideologies of sex, gender, and race. Tagging these "isms" to them and finding that it is creating an oppression to Men. I think in the present times we need to let go of the past and focus on Individual reason, for man and woman (of all races) to be equal. The best way to start is to get educated.
EspiritoSanto7 4 months ago
Apart from his own immediate family, men should treat EVERYONE (male or female) the same
marcdaddy33 6 months ago
The right for women to become a butch dike, or a housewife has been reserved. The decision for a male to become a house husband or super soldier has already been made by society. It seems more and more men are being oppressed. I would NEVER abuse a woman, I would strike back in self-defense though. A woman can pay her own way on a date, I'm not paying for her. I want to become my own man, not the role society has made for me. Is there a place for me in society?
LutzfromPS2 8 months ago
The happy misogynist puts the heal of his boot on the neck of feminine males everywhere--->Guy's everywhere need a good few doses...
TheAmericanArm 10 months ago
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year1AA 7 months ago
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I'm A feminine male an I hate feminist bitch...
I'm not opening you door unless I absolutly fucking love you an I expect you to me once in A blue Moon...
feminism mean Equality not biological female telling male what to do...
call me A voice for Feminine male.
year1AA 7 months ago
as being a young man, i find that guys my generation and younger, have a short attention span. id suggest that you prepare some basic visuals in your videos to keep it interesting.. i dont know.. it could work =D
kuaitomboblo 1 year ago
4:17 to 4: 25 totally true and right on Paul. However keep in mind that it is also often hipocritical horseshit as well, as cops make up a large percentage of wife-beaters.
Which I am sure has many hidden, untold sides to as well.
Abobojo 1 year ago
0:34 lol do ya not like The Duke Paul?
Abobojo 1 year ago
I'm recently divorced , and I gotta say , I really enjoy your video's and feel much better about pursuing M.GT.O.W. Life style .
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Women have been treated as property of men for thousands of years. It's about time justice is finally being served. Yes, we deserve some recompense I should think. If you'd like, I could fetch a burka for you, dear Misogynist, so you can hide behind it and never have to face all the hordes of women that must be surrounding you and demanding that you pay for their dinner! Pobre de ti!
SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1
When were you ever treated as property? Answer: Never. And I never treated a woman as property, so I owe you exactly jack shit.
If you like fetching things, go fetch the rest of your brain.
TheHappyMisogynist 1 year ago 31
@TheHappyMisogynist
You don't know anything about me. Yes I've been treated as property by men, I've been abused by MANY men, but never women.
You are terribly confused. You accuse women of playing the victim, but that's what you're all about. You have a very limited view. Seriously, I think you would be happier living in Saudi Arabia.
SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 You're a joke...
irken8313 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 You've been treated as property by men, You been abused by MANY men,but never women? Oh you're poor thing. I feel so sorry for you. I suggest you work on your selfesteem rather than accuse men.
kos66t 1 year ago
@kos66t
HA! I love men. I have great self esteem, that why this whole thread is so stinking entertaining. Yeah, I've been abused in just about every way by men, but not women. It's a gender thing. Many (but not all--duh) man feel superior to women. There are many physiological, historical, cultural and religious (depending on the man's religion) reasons for this, but that's how it is. I'm not "accusing" I'm just stating the facts. Women abuse men too. Never said they didn't.
SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 1 year ago
@kos66t Hey you old cunt, are you still ramming your fist up your daughters ass?
theraviolicat 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 ok, can you tell WHY all thise disasters happen to you?
Kenshiroit 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 and lots of women treat men as wallets with legs, whats your point?
Men were treated as a source of money and possessions by women.
Gotta look at both sides of the coin if people are going to take you seriously.
ManSpeakOut 10 months ago 3
@TheHappyMisogynist Rest of it? I didn't think she had any to begin with!
spoogeling 2 months ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 ''It's about time justice is finally served''? You know nothing about justice.And you don't even believe in all this crap yourself. All you want is recompense, revenge,you want to hurt men,to see them being miserable.It's nothing to do with ''justice''as you put it.It's all about gratification of your malice.
kos66t 1 year ago
@kos66t
LOL!!!! I don't know, my fiance is pretty happy.
SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 1 year ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1
Raelly? You're going to demand recompense for something that hasn't happened to you? Apart from being utterly petty and childish it's also incredibly stupid.
Hey my family is Irish so i'm going to demand recompense from the English for how they treated my ancestors!
Moron.
imr22 3 months ago
@SpadaDiSanGiovanna1 Collectivism is ugly and stupefying.
jaybreak 2 weeks ago
This is the second time that your questioning of the role males are supposed to take over has opened my eyes. The first time being when you introduced the zeta male.
For a long time I was bitter, your revolutionary views help me transform the bitterness into action energy.
I'm looking forward to zeta game part 2 and more about the zeta male.
Contemplating and trying to understand is a necessary step, but acting is another!
TheVerySpecialThommy 1 year ago
Women are on there Own, !! Feminism had become So Evil, Because most women made it that way, How I treat a Lady or Women, By respect and too stay far away from them, But still be nice at the same time, Without getting mad at them.
Your Right Chivalry is pure poison, And it's evil by design.
CaptainNemoful 1 year ago
Chivalry is pure poison - the very fuel which propels feminism.
Withdraw chivalry and feminism falls flat instantly.
addvoc8 1 year ago
I think all of these gender issues are being set up to destroy the American family and make people more dependent on the government and/or fill up out jail/prison with the fallout, it's already happening, eventually I think they are going for full blown communism, Feminism and communism have ties that can't be denied. You, sir have very strong arguments, don't you think that we can have our society work without losing peace of mind. Debt and Jail go hand-in-hand with Dating and Sex, not good.
Caretika 1 year ago
I'm a woman and I support MRA all the way.
For me, a real man is who doesn't put me on a pedestal and actually let me do something on my own. That to me means he thinks I'm an equal and believes that I have the strength to do it. Rather than someone being chivalrous.
AbsintheGlasses 1 year ago 3
@AbsintheGlasses
Unofrtunately, that's not the definiton that men have on themselves. Real Men are real men regardless of what women want them to be. let's not confuse equal right with equal roles. I am for equal rights but against equal roles
Sam10947 2 months ago
To many women, a man is like a wrench. One does not enjoy or love a wrench, one uses it. Perhaps this is why the word "tool" is a common pejorative aimed at men.
bigdleffers 1 year ago
We men are our own worst enemies.
haveswordwilltravel 1 year ago
Well done Paul, this is one of your best so far. Keep going mate.
bettyswolloks2 1 year ago
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If you like him you should also check out the Channel "manwomanmyth".
The best videos I have seen about Mra are between them two
spetznas101 1 year ago
Another great video!!!
mindround 1 year ago
Chilvary is dead,the alpha & beta mantality must die out so the Zeta male can rise!
crypter27 2 years ago 2
@crypter27 well spoken brother..
shahminhajuddin 1 year ago
@shahminhajuddin thanks
crypter27 1 year ago
Excellent video.
Saying feminism stands for equality is like saying matriarchy stands for equality. The word itself is gender biased.
Does anybody know how to get a list of corporations that fund feminist organizations - like NOW and whatnot?
sccrow72 2 years ago 3
Great stuff, Paul. Some of us remember how the promise of feminism -- the second wave variety, at any rate -- was that it was going to free BOTH sexes from their traditional roles.
Somehow, once the women got their's (a gentleman always lets the lady go first) they conveniently forgot about upholding their half of the deal.
You're definitely right about how feminism exploits men's inherent nature to protect and coddle and favor females.
Again, great stuff!
MartianBachelor 2 years ago
Let me add another point to my previous post....aside from Rockefeller funding feminism with it's divide-and-conquer effect, there's also the population-reduction aspect of it: if men and women are pitted against each other, there will be fewer kids born from them.
But even more insidious: after divorce courts and other feminist institutions have gotten rid of the men, the women and children will be easy pickings for the new world order to get rid of afterwords.
justiceformen 2 years ago
@justiceformen That is why they went after women. They knew that women are more emotional and would be listened to more. Feminism told women what they should be and thus the disease spreads.
I always tell people of the Rockefeller funding and the CIA crap.
AbsintheGlasses 1 year ago
Good points about feminism....but I would say there's a bigger picture involved. Keep in mind that ROCKEFELLER created and heavily funded feminism....that's what Aaron Russo mentioned in an interview following his association with Nick Rockefeller. The two stated aims were collecting taxes (to fund the banks) of now-working women, and getting kids into daycare so they could be indoctrinated by the State. IMHO, there's the added benefit of divide-and-conquer-pitting men and women against other
justiceformen 2 years ago
'Man up' is the same as telling a woman to "be a lady" and stay in the kitchen.
It promotes an old-fashioned GENDER ROLE.
It wouldn't b politically correct to tell a woman to be a traditional woman so why should it b ok to tell men to be stoic, emotionless, and etc...
jname96 2 years ago 6
@jname96,
Good observation. You're correct about the double standard that men are told to "man up", but it's totally un-politically correct to tell women to "act like ladies".
justiceformen 2 years ago 2
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ORVX 2 years ago
The problem I see with the current control mechanism is that it destroys the self-worth of many men. Ultimately, it is damaging those that they want to exploit and is destroying their desires and will to be productive.
Many men feel as if they were defective from birth under the current propaganda. When someone begins to fell unworthy and has low self esteem it tends to destroy their productivity. The very productivity these misandrists rely on.
ecm71 2 years ago
@ecm71 Yes, I was born the early 80s, and growing up in the 90s, even as a kid I felt like society/media told us that men were "pigs", stupid, etc...
I never believed it cuz I'm very strong-minded, but I sure as heck FELT it.
It's getting worse and worse, and it's still very taboo to acknowledge it. Like racism and sexism towards women in the past, it will get even WORST before we finally do something about it.
jname96 2 years ago
@ecm71 This comment is so spot on that I wish it could be copy/pasted to every feminist and MRA website on the web, and plastered on books in print as well.
ElizabethIsabelle 2 years ago 2
This video from Doc Paul underlines one important fact: the real success of feminism lies in that it has created a serious schism between men.
Men have throughout history competed with each other over women. But how does this now translate in our present femininely-driven western societies? Horrendously gratuitous punishments for male miscreants and unfair brutality toward innocent accused men. Male chivalry has once again turned into a form of oppression of men by men. This IS feminism.
lewtube 2 years ago 26
Spot on correct and comment of the month. We need to wake up to this. My next series of videos will detail this much more.
Thanks, lewtube.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago 6
you're right them men are like zombies
crh2010 2 years ago
@lewtube Feminism has made women oppress other women as well. Any woman that is remotely feminine is looked down upon and thought of as old fashioned or brainwashed by Patriarchy.
Ask a few feminists how they feel about stay at home moms and you'll get my drift. lol
AbsintheGlasses 1 year ago
Another eloquent episode from Paul -- had me in stitches!
lewtube 2 years ago
what did you do.Nothing right just a victim
TheDriftermm 2 years ago
Thank you. My next video will be a 2 or 3 part series on the very social controls you mention. I hope you enjoy.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
god damn howd you get so smart
MrMrbobblehead 2 years ago
Clarifying my previous post:
I think it likely that men instinctively use their muscles to right wrongs against women because it is a display of useful prowess that will impress any woman he might want to court. A policeman who uses force against an alleged abuser is exercising the only opportunity he gets to believe he is doing this.
Boozyscientist 2 years ago
4:10 Very interesting point about how the "useful idiot" men who enforce unjust, anti-male laws think they are being heroes. This in a world that otherwise does everything it can to stop a man from using his muscles to right wrongs. This misuse of men to misuse other men is arguably a cult.
Boozyscientist 2 years ago
Isn't it funny how the traditional value of protecting women is used to abuse men. If women were oppressed why was it that men protected them, often with their lives?
ecm71 2 years ago 3
Id rather be a jerk or an asshole thats NOT against the law. NOT paying child support or maintenance ordered by a judge IS against the law. So I will continue to tell these filthy provider seeking, single mom leeches, delusional independent whores about themselves. That service is free and I wake up every morning with a smile on my face. NO obligations, burdens, large responsibilities. A MAN needs to be who he needs to be for HIMSELF. NOT a bitch. @ Happy Misogynist , MUCH RESPECT.
tttkil 2 years ago
society is absolutely cookoo and has no consistency with itself whatsoever. In one instance, we're told MEN HAD ALL THE POWER AND WERE OPPRESSING WOMEN. This was supposedly "tradition." In the other instance, we are told, "tradition" was when MEN SACRIFICED THEMSELVES FOR A LADY.
WHICH ONE IS IT ASSHOLES?? You just can't keep consistent with these douchebags. They will never ever admit to their psychotic, neurotic, and illogical modes of ill-thinking. Such double speak is ingrained in people
lonewolf1369 2 years ago 6
Exactly! Another perfect example of women being able to cherry pick and make a call on whatever suits her current situation the best.
A woman complaining about inequality in the workforce? "Men have all the power and everything needs to be 'equal'."
A woman likes the idea of men paying for her companionship? "Men paying for dates is 'traditional' and old values should be maintained."
What a crock. And yet this is what the majority of society abide by.
ColonelCosmic 2 years ago
I am single, unmarried with no kids (LOVE IT) but I've seen enough child support issues to know that efforts need to be made to start making women show receipts for every dollar of child support money they receive and make sure it goes to the welfare of the child. Too many of these broads are playing bingo with dads child support money. If you are a man, let your fuckin nuts hang and get down with the mens rights movement...pussy. Keep the videos coming Misogynist.
therealfredhamilton 2 years ago 5
I agree with the Misogynist. I googled "what is a real man?" from the perspective of various women and one that stood out to me was "a REAL MAN always puts my needs first".. I'm thinking...are you fucking kidding me? This is the first thing that comes to mind when asked about a real man? It just further illustrates the immensely arrogant sense of entitlement that many women feel today in my generation much of this attitude is a direct result of the feminist movement and slavery to gender roles.
therealfredhamilton 2 years ago 5
Just apply chivalry to women who deserves it, not feminist squaws.
milkau828 2 years ago 2
Why does any woman deserve me putting my own interests after hers?
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
Because she bears your offspring, because you love her, because she is a honoured person... you name it.
milkau828 2 years ago
First of all, wouldn't that be "our" offspring and not "my" offspring? Second of all, shouldn't this work both ways? If I am supposed to have a set of guidelines that I am supposed to follow because of my gender, then shouldn't "she" have a similar set of rules to make things equal?
Lastly, if you are referring to an overall situation of being nice and treating others with respect, shouldn't these rules apply to people in general, not just women?
ColonelCosmic 2 years ago 3
Like I said, chivalry apply to women who deserves it. How can a chevalier possibly love a woman who does not embody all the virtues and graces of her sex? And, if a woman is loved in a courtly way, why would she not be reciprocal about it?
milkau828 2 years ago
I understand what you are saying, but just disagree. I am not a traditionalist. Traditionalists sat by like cowards as feminists took over.
IF I wanted a woman, and this is a big IF, the only "virtues and graces of her sex" that I would be interested in is self sufficiency, integrity and honor. In other words, a woman who doesn't need or want me to act like her father.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago 3
@milkau828
First of all, most of todays women do not deserve it. They want to be equal, so there is no room for chivalry. An exception might be older women, but I would also help an older men.
For the rest it's as you do, I do.
And, in todays world, loving a woman in a courtly way is the perfect attraction killer. The man as provider is dead, he is obsolet. The you go grrl generation does not want a boring provider, they want someone exciting. The rock star, the entertainer, the bad ass thug...
KnightFrank 2 years ago 2
Totally unsound. First, you must understand, that love never requires anyone to place themselves beneath another human being. It may well inspire them to honor each other, but for the subservience of one to the other for the sake of some outmoded romantic code.
I don't think any man that so little values himself as to live on his knees by a code of chivalry, is deep enough as a human being to fully and maturely love someone else.
Partnership, sir. Partnership or nothing.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
@milkau828 yeah ok there's the rub mlikau you fool. "Chivalry to women who deserves it, not feminist squaws." who are these women who 'deserve' it?
lonewolf1369 2 years ago
Really interesting video. I think you make two good points: 1) Women have more fluid gender roles 2) Men enable our own rigid roles by clinging to aspects of supposed masculinity. Men do not have, or give themselves, the options of behaving as they really choose. In many ways, we are, and have always been, where women were 40 years ago - locked into a prescribed role. Years of feminism have given women the ability to take any role they want - men now have to do the same for themselves.
landfillpoet 2 years ago
Giving up chivalry is an impossible proposition. My father, my grandfather, and his father all operated on chivalry. I dont think I can give up the code to live that all my forefather practiced so easily in one generation. It is engraved upon my very soul.
Chivalry is not dead, we are just living the wrong era. Similar to the Way of the Samurai, it is obsolete and no longer relevant.
The best course of action, it seems, is to write a new code of chivalry for this era without losing ourselves.
EntranceDenied 2 years ago
your new code should be...
If your standards are double, then you're in big trouble.
St37One 2 years ago
To each his own, but to me this is like hanging on to the idea that the earth is flat. Our forefathers practiced chivalry in an age where it made sense. To me, it doesn't any more.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
@TheHappyMisogynist chivalry never made sense. It only made 'sense' because women weren't treated like men. Notice how "women and children first" NEVER applies to only fertile women. It applies to ALL women, over 50 years of age as well who are completely infertile. If it's due to biology, why would they include these women? Society can't keep its story straight. One way it will say because of reproductive necessity, then it will turn around and protect infertile women but not fertile old men
lonewolf1369 2 years ago
I think it did make sense in the sociobiological sense. Its very plausible to me that non fertile women were included as an extension because in impending, life or death situations, it makes more sense to make quick decisions. So saving "all" women makes a lot more sense than screening them for saving while an attack is underway..
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
ok I understand what your saying, and your great at pointing out the problems, but can you give us some solutions also?
Vald1971 2 years ago
It is simple. Don't practice chivalry.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
You know what Paul? I gave up on chivalry along time ago. And you know what else? The women respect you more when they realize you`re no pushover. My advise to the men of this world, if you want women to respect you, grow some balls! And when they expect you to cater for their needs, tell them to go fuck themselves! Trust me, it works.
1WhoSeeks 2 years ago 2
very true!
St37One 2 years ago
I am not totally sure I buy this one. Eliminating all chivalry from your behavior with women is complicated. I agree totally that having balls with them is a plus and attracts a better class of woman, but sending them the clear message that you will never protect or take care of them in that sense is against programming.
I think your approach makes for better short term relationships. Those will last till the women figure out your serious about no chivalry.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
To paraphrase Warren Farrell (i think):
The one thing that feminism and male chauvinism have in common is their goal of protecting women.
Great video.
boxant 2 years ago 3
That's a great quote, paraphrased or not.
menareangrynow 2 years ago
Yes, it is, though I would never call protecting women "chauvinism," Chauvinism and chivalry are two different things. But that is still the direction that the MM has to go to make progress. This battle is largely internal.
The way I look at it is, "If you are sick of the princess, kill the prince."
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
wow man you're dead on here, and i like the way you handled the e-mails.
SwuaveWEB 2 years ago
Another great video.
hpufo 2 years ago
Absolute gold! Great narrative, Paul.
Nerotique 2 years ago 3
I'd love to see that simpering faggot binhthanhvo respond to a video like this.
He'd get the shit hammered out of him.
Yourebuying 2 years ago
@Yourebuying I think I already took care of that. Check out the video on my channel.
Nerotique 2 years ago
I cant stand to watch anything by binhthanhvo.
That guy just makes me cringe, and he threatens my faith in humanity.
St37One 2 years ago
This is an excellent point that escapes most people. It even escaped me for years, despite my awareness of feminist propaganda, until Warren Farrel explained it in his interview here on youtube, I reject the "official male gender role" and go my own way. Men and women can piss and scream over my non-conformist attitude all they want while I just smirk. :P
SpazzzDog 2 years ago
We need to break with tradition. Taking care of a woman is a good thing I suppose if there playing field were level. Women have it all the courts, workplace, gender based hiring practices college admissions etc. Tradition is damned and its about time.
uratrick 2 years ago 2
I suppose there are valid arrests but take that bitch with him after all she is half the problem
uratrick 2 years ago
In the Movie Cool Hand Luke Paul Newman stated to one of the guards just cause its your job Boss dont make it right Police agencies love to use that line I am just doing my job man Well law enforcement officers that is a line of B/S and we would at least think you would know that by now. When you arrest a Man for domestic violence think about it and stop thinking about boning his old lady when you get off shift.
uratrick 2 years ago 3
I enjoy each and evryone of you videos.
Keep up the good work =)
ImperiousViking 2 years ago 2
excellent video 5 stars. Men are just as bad when they treat feminist women as though they are the women of the past.
this is a whole different breed of woman and they should be treated as such
barbarossaaaa 2 years ago 6
You are exactly correct !
uratrick 2 years ago 2
Same ol same ol. Women are "equal" until the check comes at dinner or something goes bump in the night....or if the Titanic sinks lol.
southsideroy 2 years ago 5
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Women are no more independent than they were before feminist laws instituted in the 70's.
The only thing that has changed is the ways in which women may gain financial support from men.....which is now both in and out of marriage after divorce and at no-fault.
The only thing that has changed is that women have given themselves "choices".
Red0660 2 years ago 3
Women have made marriage an exclusive obligation from men to women..As you said Paul women have no obligations to family or society that are not a "choice". These choices for women exist for one reason..They come at the forced responsibility of men to enable them...
Men ourselves have no choices and hold no legal rights in marriage, neither to our children or the rights to the fruits of our working labor to support a woman that is not our wife and a child that has been taken from us.
Red0660 2 years ago 3
The vast majority of MRA's want more responsibility, not less freedom, for women, and real equality of opportunity.
But we are always being cast as macho conservatives who want a return to tradition and who want less freedom and less responsibility for women.
Basically we are iFeminists and libertarians for the most part, because we have the same goals and beliefs.
St37One 2 years ago 3
True. But then they also cast us as whiners and misogynists and abusive bullies. I think we are getting close, VERY close to the time that they will no longer be able to frame the argument in their terms.
The voices of the MRM are getting louder, more frequent and more numerous. They are slipping. We clearly have a long way to go, but I have nothing better to do.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago
I had one feminist nutjob "diagnose" me as a textbook example of an abuser (over youtube comments).
I had the nerve to argue with "aliveformyself" and she said that she was going to use my comments as a teaching tool in her class about abusers.
And during our youtube comment section argument she made it known that she wished that she could meet me in person so that she could cause me real physical pain and suffering.
Some of these "professionals" really are sadistic basketcases.
St37One 2 years ago 12
The name "aliveformyself" screams egotistical and self-serving. It is people like this one that shows why psychology is considered pseudo-science by many.
ecm71 2 years ago 2
"aliveformyself" (who now goes by "thealiveformyself") considers herself to be a "survivor" who advocates for "victims".
I majored in psychology, so I take issue with those sort of misconstruals.
Let me put it this way.
There is Psychology, and then there is Therapy.
Psychology is a very diverse discipline which contains a lot of good science.
It is more of a science than theoretical physics is today (thats not saying much).
Theraputic traditions are mostly BS and "pop psychology".
St37One 2 years ago
Another thing that annoys me is when people claim to be an expert on everything just because they have been educated in psychology.
It is just a way to give thier hair brained opinions more credability, and to assume the role of omniscient guru on all things in the realm of thought and behavior.
Real psychologists are humble.
St37One 2 years ago
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Red0660 2 years ago
Women hold the vote. We must be careful how we understand who is in power here...The male workhorses in political power serve the largest voting block....women. I believe women will continue to not allow equal representation under law for men. Men need representation for our gender at the Federal level RIGHT AWAY..
Red0660 2 years ago
Women married the State and will continue to do so...See my latest video.....Women have representation for their gender at the Federal level i.e. The Council On Women and Girls.. As such the Stimulus Package was diverted to women and the Council On Women and Girls wants to expand "women first" laws such as Title IX and Affirmative Action to the last places males preside in our colleges....We must not allow this to happen...
Obama & Reich has made it clear that jobs for men is not the plan.
Red0660 2 years ago 2
These men r manginas, the best example is a cop who will arrest other males & think he is doing duty as man, this is a classic mangina. I will drink a beer with a sissy fag, before I ever show respect to 1 of these punks. Chivarly is dead, & feminist killed it.
lol ask me about what I did to 1 of these manginas mma style, he was a proud cop, "stood for women" suck my foot in his ass.
Would love to go back 50's but feminst took it to far, they won, no turning back, open your own dam door.
ORVX 2 years ago 2
Fix your flat tire while your at it!
uratrick 2 years ago
The greatest fallacy of modern gender 'equality' thinking/promotion:
'Equality' is about allowing women to pick and choose aspects from either gender. if an aspect of being a woman is better for a given situation, then she can take that. If an aspect of being a man is better for a given situation, then she can take that. Pure gender 'equality'. For women.
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ColonelCosmic 2 years ago 6
While men on the other hand can only take aspects from being 'men' and are chastised, shamed, ridiculed and even suffer physical punishment for stepping outside of their 'male' boundaries.
While society promotes the idea of being a 'person' and not a gender, this is only done for women. Women are 'people' who deserve the rights and freedoms of such. Men are 'men' and must abide by the restrictions, limitations and requirements of such.
This has to change.
ColonelCosmic 2 years ago 7
I'm tired of greedy/selfish females not realizing that what they want is not only going to ruin them and anyone who enables them. they cant even address "real" equal rights..nor do they even discuss children until they run out of room to deflect. those John wayne manginas are puch drunk from taking it on the chin from feminists
blkskin1 2 years ago 7
How many men stand up to feminist pigs when such elements raise their ugly voices and male imitations?
How many of us call out a feminist on the street with pseudo-male features, living a life of fantasy, pretending to be what she is not and cannot become?
How many of us exercise our mind, tact and hormones by showing feminists for what they are... emotional wrecks of vengeance and irrational lust for the male psyche and position, given by God himself?
Rock on, Paul. Well done.
pshinspections 2 years ago 6
The choice is ours put up or shut up!
BigBossCAL83 2 years ago 6
We dont need sacrifice for women any more.
uratrick 2 years ago 15
@uratrick and we won't
Abobojo 1 year ago
So many useful idiots. I blame apathy.
mGoLos 2 years ago 2
LOL, I think that has already happened a few times. That guy is just too stupid to know when he has egg all over his face.
TheHappyMisogynist 2 years ago 2