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  • Well atleast some girl was peepin at you. See im a nice guy,im prolly one of the most down to earth men an woman can ever have but I have ran into women in my life who has took advantage of my kindess,for my weakness an come to find out she took advantage of me from what I had. I mean her friends dared her to date an ugly person like me soo I was played big time

  • @jamare456 It's not so much looks, me as a late bloomer [yes i did say late bloomer] was coming into who I was and didnt know how to handle a woman in general,since im so used to being by myself but one thing i found out, after 5 years have passed since making this video, it's all about how you have respect for yourself and in your mindset. For example, if you feel you are ugly then your mindset will follow and ultimately set you up for failure. You got this!!

  • Not only guys screw up but just as much female does to. Female are more socially orientated whereas males are more action. Thus, female are a great deal more cunning in social situations. It is what it is.

  • So nice guys finish last, what does that mean then?, does that mean nice guys have to go out and murder people and rape children just to fit in to society? whats the exact answer to the nice guys finish last situation?

  • yo my man i feel your pain, no respect to thE females but FUCK THAT BITCH

  • A bitches and bastards go together. Screw her. Let the so-called bad-boys deal with the bullshit. Oh, and that whole alpha-male thing...yeah, it works but a ture alpha respects everyone and does not need to challenge anyone. Women dont realise who is genuine until they get screwed by the charming aloof asshole projecting the alpha image. Let these shallow bitches suffer. They cant be all that great themselves if they like jerk behaviour. Good guys go with good girls. Keep moving forward.

  • @AamirTime PREACH!!!!

  • Just act aloof.Girls dig that shit.

    Don't gaze at them to much.Only look into their eyes when you got something brief to say.Don't smile..especially don't show your teeth...just sneer & mean mug.Wear a fitted cap with a du rag underneath & work on your arms & six pack.Oh yeah, get a tattoo..make sure it's visible.Make sure it's "bold" and not too extreme, just bold.The neck tat gets them every time.Just know that most women are wide eyed/child like until they're about 35 years old.Not all, most

  • @DirtyFaceCapon3 LOL you got me rolling on this one

  • My girl says and Im an asshole and nice at the same time? lol

  • @KirbyPwnz13 How do you do that? [be nice and an asshole at the same time?]

  • lol its funny because im 21 years old now im in the same situation. Got my own business, drive a mustang, about to have my degree. it seems like women just want these poor broke dudes......

  • @anflstory bitches aint shit bruh

  • @anflstory i know whats up with these women wanting poor broke dudes

  • @Thepragmatic123 That is true, which is why learning a language for the destination is a prerequisite. Those chances are DECREASED, but not eliminated once a guy learns the language of the country he plans on visiting.

  • nice guys arent a dying breed, there are more and more of them the way society is going

  • I think you are beautiful =) You remind me of Mos Def and I love your eyes =)

    Peace

  • Man.... Shyt... My ex had a one sided excuse for leaving me for an attempt at my friend just to find out the hard way that he is an asshole nd dosnt want to date her... Long story short, she likes being hurt from what ive seen and the stories she told me about her ex boyfriends nd shyt... she even said i was the nicest... lol. 6 months single nd going strong!

  • i know how u feel soon i met this chick and at first i didnt want anything so i was just like fuck it with her and treated her like w.e. and she liked me alot at the time so i started liking her and treated her like a princess and she gave me the stupid ass excuse to stop seeing me wich was that i was being to nice. i guess girls just like dicks.

  • Nice guys finish last?? tell it to Will Smith, back in the late 80's he dated Salt from Salt & Pepa she dumped him because she said he was too nice, Look at him now a multi-millionaire while she is a hip-hop has been who prolly don't have two dimes to rub together, Success is the best form of revenge.

  • @GarwinEugeneW Are you forreal?

  • @lc400matt VERY!

  • @lc400matt oh yeah

  • @GarwinEugeneW That was the 80's bro. Before Girls grew corrupt with the Thug thurst.

  • @hotwhire Times really haven't changed. remember in the 70's some of them women went after them numbers runners & things like that. But you are right though because that image is more glamourized now than ever before.

  • american woman treat relationships like a game..with that being said a nice guy is like a sports team just letting the opponent score and get easy points..us guys would think..this team sucks..they just letting the other team run over on them..it's like the 07 patriots unless you stop them they will run up the score..and also think of it like this the referees(cops,lawyers,judges,c­ourt system) will give the women the technical fouls,penalites..call the game in their favor..don't be the nice guy

  • @704Hustle Trill words

  • there nothing wrong with having set goals for yourself.......be with someone similiar with is best

  • @Monteriawilder You are so right!

  • @lc400matt thanks

  • @Ic400matt your on point bro i agree with you. I just want a girl that has no kids, virgin, christian, smart, and healthy. I cannot find that out here and they call me shallow for wanting a virgin because i am.

  • You messed with the wrong type of girl bro..

  • @EnvelopedInDarkness We've all messed up a time or two in our time bruh

  • @lc400matt True.

  • Keep on moving towards your goal and I guarantee you she will be calling you back in a few years. Im 25 years old and when I was in my 19 I got involved with a fake ass thug who broke me down... all the while I kept passing the nice guys, but as time went by I started getting tired of the bullshit. I learned to love myself and hold my self accountable for the decisions I made. "Time heals all wounds"

  • @SLIMGOODIES06 i am glad you admitted it.most black women blame everyone else.But you black women just love thug sex and when most have two or three kids by him and he leaves,the mother wants an "nice" guy she would not glance at before.most women are user.all they are care about are three things.1.money 2.well hung men 3.convince themselves and their friends that they are never wrong and it always someone else s fault.

  • Stop looking for a relationship and you won't have that problem. Meet them, fuck them and leave them, end of story.

  • @RoyalThePrince So very true, get some pussy and move on before they play ya.

  • This nigga is lame

  • I am glad I can across your video I had just given of hope on waiting for a good man. Your video has inspired me to hold on! Goodluck and don't stop being a good guy!!

  • What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?

    I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.

    Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)

  • If you are going to get together with a girl that acts of impulse and insticnt, you might as well go marry that monkey in a zoo or go find that bitch on heat roaming through the streets. THAT, good/nice guys, is what makes better genes. The ones that still act on instinct and impulse are simply degenerates deevolving, or in actuality making our gene pool weak. You do not need that. Besides, you have already waited for 8-10 years for that good woman...

  • I deserve someone who 1) is not someone's sloppy 30ths or 40ths, 2) have intellect and don't go off on instinct and impulses like an animal in heat on the jungle, 3) that can take care of themselves and 4) be adventurous. Everything else is negotiable.

    That whole alpha male atraction is true but it shows how degenerate of a person such woman is. We did not become the most dominant species of the world by instinct or impulse; we became such by INTELLECT: the ability to learn and reason.

  • There is no such thing as perfect...but there are limits. I have been labeled for most of my life as the good/nice guy (they really are the same thing; whores and sluts simply perverted the former to have an excuse to keep being what they are). Don't confuse us with the needy or the desperate, please.

  • YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE MY FRIEND......I AM ALSO PART OF THE LAST DYING BREED. NOW MOVING FORWARD TO BUILD MORE

  • dude, she's just one of those "mean girls" that likes to purposely the feelings of good guys like you. you'll find someone soon who accepts you for who you are, i'm sure of it! :)

  • You must be young because you should have left her where she was at. You cannot help someone if you can't help yourself. You are still getting your situation together so how where you giong to help her. She didn't want help anyway she wanted someone to carry her.

  • u way too gud for her yo

  • I know I am SUPER LATE on this video but I had to comment. You are like the male version of me. (I am female) You opened yourself to someone who was not worth your time. 1st of all, you lowered your standards for someone who did not have anything. You have a lot going for yourself. That female was getting in where she fit in. She took the opportunity to take advantage of you. For us people who have something going for ourselves, let us not watse our time with ppl who are not worth it! SERIOUSLY

  • IM 17 AND DOWN HERE IN VA AND NOT A LOT OF GIRLS LIKE ME.

  • bad boys were molested and are not gay but spend their life needing to prove their manhood so they need to prove them self all the time. they are already dead inside so they got nothing to lose.

  • It's sad that very few men like myself have had much better experience w/ women from overseas.

    Nice guys, stop listening to PUA/dating coaches b/c THEY DON'T WORK !!!

    Start going to Russia, Central and S. America, and SE Asia. All of this "nice guys finish last" shit don't work in those regions.

    Just leave these Americunts alone and go overseas.

  • @ApollosInsight Very Good Advice Homie, & I'm Seriously Going To Take That Advice LOL.

  • @ApollosInsight U couldn't be more correct with this one.

  • Everyone watching this needs to stop stressing out about women. Just hit up..

    MackMethods(dot)com ..

    Follow what it says and really, your girl problems will be history. It's just too easy once you got it figured out .. haha

  • Career, future, Life aspirations and goals should be discussed on the first date. Or, in phone conversations coming up to the first date. Men are visual I know, so dont be fooled by a big booty and smile(not referring to all situations). Get as much information as you can out the first two conversations you have with that person.

  • wd-40  lmao!

  • Don't throw your pearls to swine! Never settle for less when you can do better!

  • u legend of bliie jean yourself

  • let me tell you why i think a down to earth guys like you has problems..... ppl like you take things seriously and life (relationship,ppl and stuff) .. and thats great!!!! BUT THE PROBLEM IS young women are allergic to one and one BIG THING and thats commitment to somebody without CONTROL OF THE RELATIONSHIP

    you should pride the fact that YOU cherish those womens without being so attached to them AND THATS THE PROBLEM im no relationship expert but tell me what you think even if this is old

  • A goal oriented guy and a girl with a PO officer is not gonna work count your blessings on that one

  • Im from Houston also & i've been through the drama with these women too.Just keep your head up because they'll appreicate you when you're gone

  • @OmegaShinn We're almost are a dying breed

  • Nice guys don't finish last..It's weak men and strong men. Women take advantage of weak men and respect strong men

  • bro my opinion... treat them on how u would treat ur friend... dont let them disrespect, dont pay for them, dont act so nice, tease em, bust their balls, dont call/text too often, dont care too much :)

    Also be alpha, tough, abuse her when she tries stupid shit and acts stupid, ignore her bullshit and tell her off...

  • @xxMettiXX i agree

  • @xxMettiXX yea they like that shit for some reason

  • this is why i dat ewhite women and im black

  • women want bad boys and big ____k/ that have no morals

  • Nice guys only finish last in the Western world (America, Australia, Canada and the UK) b/c women from these locations shit on the "nice guy" type while worshipping the "asshole" type who treat them like shit.

    If you're considered to be the "nice guy" type go to Russia, Cen+S. America and SE Asia. You don't need any dating advice to date women from these places.

  • You're a hottie and she's an idiot!

  • The reason why us nice guys finish last is b/c women pursue and respect jerks and ignore us nice guys!

    Then when women want to settle down after having 5-6 kids and are broke, then they go for us nice guys, but we're not there b/c we're successful and dating hot foreign women.

    To anyone who's a nice guy:

    Go overseas. Foreign women love us nice guys (just avoid the UK, Canada, and Austraila).

  • Great show. I'm thinking about nursing as well, because the pockets are tight right now. Need a secondary skill too, so nursing maybe a good road towards having some money for my tuition. By the way, you're young try to talk or do as many women as you can, black or white, or even non-black or white.

  • @visionimagify Me and you are the same. We're goal oriented people, moving forward towards the future in the black community, or so called,"community." I agree with you. Don't invest time in women like that. They're just for a good sex, and that's it. Trust me, If you're goal oriented and doing your thing, attraction will come to you right away. It's all about the law of attraction.

  • @visionimagify iam feeling the law of attraction . i have been studying all about it for years now and things r workin out for me.

    stay posetive cuzzy

  • it aint got nothing to do with status..you can have millions and she could still go and cheat.. She's not your type bro. Her ex probably a street dude. Dont be mean. but DO NOT BE overly nice. Have a backbone make her invest time in you. if you invest everything and she does'nt follow up. she will cheat as sure as im on youtube right now. ect ect.

  • They were compatible..Look and listen for the "red flags". It's not a knock on you. There is someone better for you.

  • as you can see you had to pay the price for such a poor choice in a girl, you knew she was ghetto and no good! Always get a woman who is on your level! Women who are on another scale than you will always bring you down. You cannot be a captain save a ho to these women they will use you and give you no respect for they have no self respect themselves! The statics show that girls who come from broken homes have a high chance of wreaking a beautiful marriage, stay away from whores!

  • The problem is, you keep chasing the wrong women! stop chasing these whores! They majority of them come from absent/father broken homes and by that these girls have been through such emotional drama that when you try being nice to them, it;s so foreign to them that they cannot stand ii mean an alcoholic hates drinking himself to death but he's addicted to it because he's done it for long periods of time. A woman will be attracted to a man of the equivalent of how she is feeling, remember that!

  • I feel for you bro but you got to wake up to the cold truth that nothing in life is like what it seems to be like. Nice guys need to man up and gain some self-esteem or some shit don't let these bad boys dog you what is so good about bieng bad. What they do have that most nice guys are lacking is CONFIDENCE! All I got to say is ya'll need to man up and if you a bitch than you don't deserve to breath(the first ghetto commandment).

  • @kdfadaway this statement is false ive seen plenty of good dudes beat these thugs ass.

  • fr3

  • yo u look like tiger woods dogg

  • that girl was pretty silly if she broke up with u.dont know but from what i saw and what u said ur like the perfect guy-type. ull find someone who apreciates u ;) romanian girl, also 21 . bye

  • she wanted ur money. I hate bitches like that.

  • Nice guys gotta find nice girls, and that's usually in other countries. I've been wanting to fly to Japan and live there. Not really just because of the women, but the whole culture. It's an awesome place and the language is interesting. For some reason though, I find Japanese girls very attractive. Personal preference really. It's just something about them, but I can't put my finger on it. Anyways though, just keep doin' your thing and don't let anybody stop you from doing it. peace dawg.

  • @dgk990 so true its all about looks in america.

  • Spit that laced game if she ain't feeling it than its OK just move on to the next one. Don't waste Ur time trying to get a girl to like you when she ain't feeling you, and cut that bullshit with the "we're just friends" be honest to yourself and to her.I know Nice guys want some pussy but being nice isn't gonna get you some until your 30yrs old. The key is to approach a hot chick with the same amount of confidence as you would approach an ugly chicks, who cares about the outcome.

  • @HanibolJeykins Yo that's some real shit that you said and you right fuck that were just friends shit. I don't have time to be waitin on a girl to give in to me. It's either yes or no and if not it's on to the next one. There's to much chicks on this earth to be stressed over one.

  • @alreadycrowning exactly!

  • @HanibolJeykins Hate to break it to ya...I'm a nice guy and I fucked my girl for 8 straight weekends...while being "nice"...It matters abt what type of girl you try to talk to...

  • We as nice guys CAN change the dating game.

    How?

    By dating foreign women! American women KNOW that they can never compete w/ foreign women. That's why when they find out that you have one, they'll raise some serious hell in a heartbeat.

    If all men began to pursue foreign women, american women will change themselves in a hearbeat to get w/ us.

    (women always compete w/ each other, fact of life)

  • Wow... you sound really soft. You met her at the club? Well, sounds like you are kinda needy and you just need a woman in your life. You need to upgrade your game and your standards. Also, stop falling in love with these chicks from the club. There is NO love in the club! After you take this advice, hopefully you'll meet a woman with some sense who will accept you for who you are. Lastly, WD40 your chair playa!

  • lmao from the club

  • There's a difference between a nice guy and a submissive guy. You can be nice AND dominant. in my opinion you should stay the way you are. don't lower your standards for anybody.

  • womens are crazy bitches!

  • I agree !

  • ugh man.... bitches like that will turn me into a woman beater. foreal. and im as nice as they come. OME!

  • You sound like me, too good for sum girls, i dont mean that in a bad way becus honestly, and even if she missed out, im always going to be the one feeling left alone i always end up with the fake smile, but i strongly believe this goes for nice guys and girls, the person we look for is looking for us..

  • You sound too good for her man. it's probably for the best. No point being with a woman that doesn't appreciate.

    a girl left me once for an ugly jerk years ago and it tore me up inside, so i understand where you are coming from.

    peace

  • yeah i feel ya dude. keep ur chin up, im in on the nice guy thing :)

  • Well she's from the club, like you said she has nothing, involved in a dope case (omg really?!!!), 20 tattoos and you didn't think she was going to do you wrong? Don't let your friends throw off your good judgement. That supposed to protect you but i'm sure you know that now lol. A dog will go back to it's puke to lick it up so that's what she did... man? I would kick a chicken to get with a guy like you lol.

  • Thats whats up man. Keep your headed up! Im from Houston, TX also. Good story. Im learned from being a nice guy. Im interested in your clothing. I shoot you a message.

  • Ah i feel sorry for you, I have been in your shoes many times.

  • Bro, heres the thing. Dont play the nice guy game. Youll lose. I'll tell you why, a woman's attraction is based off her emotions, so you cant 'buy' her attraction to you by simply being nice. It carries no value because you're giving it away. Instead, you need to challenge her, stimulate her emotions, her sexuality...that's why bad boys get the girl, they know how to trigger those emotions in her and excite her. My suggestion is to ALWAYS make her work for it. No other way to put it.

  • Hey man fuck that bitch, sounds like you can do a whole lot better then her, trust me you will find the ONE. i can pretty much guarantee she will try get bk with you again or try contact you after she realises she made a costly mistake! If she does, show her the door. Peace dude

  • You got to stay tough cause a lot air headed women would play a man like that.

  • 70% of the people in the world are simply not relationship material. That's all there is to it. DO NOT TRY TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN. WASTE....OF....TIME!

  • Well perhaps ur 70% ignorant. That statement is not true at all.

  • Forgetting for a moment that this was blatant argumentum ad hominem, I actually made three statements. And as you did not specify which statement you were reffering to, this invalidates your argument.

  • Hmm..Well perhaps you should have told her your standards from the beginning. If you had stay true behind your standards I don't think you would have let it escalate that far. Some girls truly are ( Add word here) lol She was not the one for you 4 sure. But don't worry keep being a "good guy" and don't change.

    I have been looking for a good guy for a while., cause i am a good girl : ) Haven't found one yet. I am just glad to have come across your video. You gave me hope.

  • I'm glad to bring hope to you maam

  • long story short,if ya got somethin or someone good in your life dont take it or them for granted

  • @lc400matt i bet your girlfriends were white. coon.

  • @aferg76 LOL at your ignorance

  • It's really upsetting to have to go through stuff like this. Just make sure you learn something.

    My advice: WALK IT OFF. Get up and move forward. There's lots of great girls.

  • Man, like you I'm a good guy but that doesn't really amount to shit. My girl left me because... well she said she can't love me or whatever. End of the day you just have to pick yourself up, as you said just hit the gym get over it and try again. Well that's what I figure

  • Lmao, dude who made this video...it sounds like you got punked LMAO! She rinced your clart, so stop crying and get on with it.

  • you a grown man doing yo thing dont worry thats her lose for you will find a grown woman and when i say grown i mean dont have time for childish thugs an then you two can get that paper togother good luck bro keep your head up

    bro

  • omg i find what you say so true, and being a "african american" i see many females going for the guy who does nothing, has nothing and does not want nothing for themselves! but i love what you said from 5:06 to 5:20 (pretty funny) women need to get it together and realize whats good for them as a person!

  • You sound like you tried to save this Hoe. You were to convienient for this chick and once she was tired of you, she moved on. Dude, you should do the same. You dated down, you need to appreciate it for what it was...move on!

  • 2nd part:

    NOW! i am dating a great girl, cute, smart, BA in art, draws and publishes her own comic books. I am getting use to her now little by little and I am beginning to enjoy her company. The best part is that we are getting to know each other little by little. She is black too btw! i am latino. Point is! go towards women who are around your own league and status. Do not lower your range. peace man!

  • 1st part :

    good video , bro! I went through that just last year and learned hard. I opened by house and my self to a lady, only to have her tell me how she was not attracted to me and what not ( and to think I used to find her ugly and she just grew on me). And like you! i have goals, I am 26 years old, educated, BA in art, going for my masters. I work In education, helping kids learn. In the end, I learn that women like her are useless and go towards what makes them feel safe, broken homes.

  • Look here Kinfolk. If an INVESTOR makes an INVESTMENT in The Stock Market....will he "WALK AWAY" and "LEAVE" that Investment "BEFORE" he receives "A RETURN???" NO YOUNG BLOOD!! HE WON"T!!

    So by the same token, if you get A Woman to INVEST in YOU....MORE than you INVEST in HER....then WHO HAS THE LEVERAGE AND CONTROL??.....YOU NIGGA!!!

    QUESTION: Why don't women LEAVE Dysfunctional Relationships?

    ANSWER; Because they have INVESTED so much TIME & ENERGY!!

    See you gotta MAKE A BITCH PAY!!!

  • haha wow, you remind of my friend, you have a point but. . .

  • @lc400matt WELL LIVE AND LEARN!

    WATER SEEEK ITS ON LEVAL!!

    THE PROBLEM IS NO THE GIRLS WHO LIKE BAD BOYS! TYPES!

    THEY PROBLEM IS THE MEN WHO IS ATTRACTED TO THESE WOMEN WHO LOVE BAD MEN!!

    YOUR A NICE LOOKING INTELLIGENT MAN!

    THIER'S PLENTY GOOD WOMEN OUT THEIR MOST WOMEN DONT DATE BAD MEN!

  • @lc400matt Real talk I understand man. Hey if it looks like a skank and walks like one don't bother

  • @Empha84 i agree with you!

  • preach nigga.

  • good analogy!

  • Like dre and snoop said "bitches anit shit but hoes and tricks"

  • it's her lost. losing a great guy like you

  • good vid, pretty brave putting this up for the whole world to see

  • this has nothing to do with you being NICE... rather with your poor choice in picking a girlfriend... you knew all these things about her BEFORE you dated her and you got played (sorry for my bluntness :o( ) but thats what it looks like from my point of view (again sorry if its sounds harsh)

  • dang my dude im goin through da same thing. im in high school though. im am one of da gud guys. but gurls keep sayin dat im only as a friend type but dey wnt to get to know me better

  • 1.Girl want someone they can complain about!!! 2.Talking shit to her mother is another way to keep her!! 3. Nothing having all your shit together is attract trait for female--don't know why!!! So this is what I call an assholes!!! Remember, female always want something they can try to change!!! I just saying this from experience, because nice guy finish last!!

  • not all but most females look at that as a weakness. my personal opinion is that ur qualities are of god and satan is of the exact opposite. it just pisses me off how they always cry to be treated right then dont want the right guy.

  • eh her loss man.. you seem like a cool guy..

    i'd take the gloves off though.

  • Thanks and for the gloves, i just got done liftin weights, just forgot to take em off. =)

  • yea chicks dont dig the gloves.

  • Im glad someone cant read. Show's how effective our school systems are. =)

  • Um, I do.

  • Thank you whitetigress

  • o well her loss keep on doin ya thing

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  • What I never understood is how do you not give a shit yet try to have at it at the same time?

  • well put my frend

  • I know what you mean, man. Honestly, I've always been the nice guy, always was the one who got dumped (only had 3 gfs). And for a little over a year now, I think I finally have the right girl. Ive been thru alot so the fear of losing her somehow is with me, I just dont want her to know. I never did change though, I still prefer to be the nice guy.

  • only 3 gf? i had none. but im glad you found the right one

  • I agree with gio: the key to a woman's heart is between their legs.

  • very interesting vid

  • to me its all about establishing sexual supremacy

  • ahh going through this right now bro. i feel you :/

  • u hav BIG eyes