Why Her..[Monica]

[truliegh10]

still loving this...

[GREENANGELEVA]

Thumbs Up If Your Listening In Twenty Twelve<3 :]

[teamweirdo100]

dnt nooo bodiii gt on bebo noo moe

[busisiweism]

exactly wat u must do to ur man wen hez fucking up! dont let him near you

[taytay123665]

i love dis song

[thesonyakyleshow]

PLAYED THIS SONG AFTER MY HUSBAND CHEATED WITH A FRIEND (NOT!)....AND EVERYONE KNEW BUT ME....DAM! NOW I KNOW I AM THE BADDEST WOMAN I KNOW!

[bunionsx]

@thesonyakyleshow qo head on qirl dnt let one man eva make u think ov yoself as anythinnq less than a jewel firmly planted on this earth cause they are known to do tht...keep ya head up sunshine u deserve so much more

[1msbabygotback]

@thesonyakyleshow sorry to hear that girl..keep your head up!!

[Travthtbytch24]

I LOVE DIS SONG THA WORDS ARE JUS SO REAL

[geegeemapp]

BABY WHY HER (I THOUGHT YOU LOVED ME ONLY) 12 YEARS SO WHY HER????

[MommaOf2DiVas0407]

@geegeemapp this is my life to..i was with my husband for 12 yrs and then he cheated and made a baby with the skank and now he is living with her becuz i kicked his ass out....but its whatever now...he'll be back and I will be gone....STAY STRONG!!!!

[bunionsx]

@geegeemapp cause he a fool tht dnt no what he's qot an jus as the sun rises an sets each day he'll reqret choosin her n you'll be qrateful for her bc she helped u realize tht u had sum1 who ddnt deserve u n you'll land tht 1 man thts crazy abt u n cant imaqine livin anotha moment without ur breath n presense entwining with his stay stronq huns dnt let sum1 so pathetic brake u

[Theboomkimchaloy]

Why her Shannon Brown.

[12riahhlovesyou34]

I love this song...

[iloveemalot1]

lovee this song ,

[latoshabland]

dats wt i be sayin y her.

[Jiigacitylegend]

Thumbs UP if you STILL Listen To This In 2011 :)

[moniqued90]

@Jiigacitylegend yess

[55523jjjaf]

I love dis song!

[55523jjjaf]

WTF

[StarBaeHere]

this is mha song cus imean evertime we break up you go bacq to the fat nasty kunt ass bytch after i did everthing to make you happy ifaught her for you bhut yall will neva end happy cus yall love is a lie......

[emibear12]

@StarBaeHere girll ii feel youu onn thatt i did the samee butt i learnedd dnt ever fight a bitch overr no nigga cuz every nigga iss the samee so fuck them dnt let them waste your time girl do u and if a nigga wanna fuckk with u just sayy uckk that nigga u aint shit but a dog true sit and u just went in ha

[jennifah1010]

i relate... i did everything for my man, good sex whenever he wanted, i never told him no to anything he asked for and now im alone and he's with the neighborhood and when he contracted an STD he had the nerve to ask me did i burn him but the whole time during our relationship he got 4 other women pregnant and did some terrible thing to me and i still held him down in jail but he left and hasnt looked back since :( and sad part is im still in love with him.

[quizziebabyy]

Im Still Listenin To This In 2011

[shawkirby1]

nice nice

[Jazzyboo357]

why her ... should be saying fuck her lol !

[TheSAMOANFINEST]

I LOvEE THISS SONGG ^ . . . Ughhh ikaan eaat ice'creaam & listen to thiss all daaay . . ugh why herr 'faahreo doee . my dude left me foee my cousin what type of shxxt is thaaat .

[emibear12]

@TheSAMOANFINEST wtff he lefteddd uu for yourr cousinn thatss somee grimmie ass shitt i swearr butt thee thingg iss did your cousin go with him after knowing yall were togather to me thats fuckin bogus i dnt date my ex riends or my riends ex none thats just not whats up

[TheSAMOANFINEST]

@emibear12 shxx is shaady &'d thaa funny part is , he got thaa nerve to come to me sayinn she pregnant but it aint mine .. i said STFU . &'d ever since thaat iainn never looked baack ..

[nikeriaanddes]

*/. muah sonq! dis mak so much dayum sence, quhh yhu killed dis shid!

[MsTukeke]

dihss  mahh sonqq

[hottchick907]

this song brings back so many memories, all i wanted to know was why her? i heard this song and now its my favorite.. my husband cheated on me, had this bitch at the hospital after he had our daughter.. he even let her hold my daughter!!! and another gurl we was with the first two weeks of his childs life and didnt even give his family the time of day... Men are such pigs... every single one someway and somehow are alllll pigs!!!

[TRIPLEASTUDENT]

I can relate to this song rite now

[OrangeCountyChick36]

I can't stand women like her!  Btw she's UGLY! WHY HER :(

[OrangeCountyChick36]

My x-bf cheatd on me wit sum HOMEWRECKER n got her pregnant now he has a lil boy n she knew bout me she met me once n the bitch had the nerve 2 shake my hand I didnt knw bout her then. He has been tryN 2 get me bak 4 2yrs now but I just can't although I still only love him :(

[bossladyJSUjsette]

Likes song I can relate my ex/bd left me 4 sum hoe after I had a sick baby and every since then I been asking y her im still wondering

[Star2k15]

this song makes me cry

[rikababy24]

I juz hope whoever she is she hurts you tha way u hurt me

[IamSinCereMusic]

One of my FAV artists!

If u like monica check me out on twitter @Iam_Emani_Sin

ARTIST AND MODEL! CHECK ME OUT!

[Mizzbabyblue12]

This song is the truth!!!! i'm going through this right now

[1mrsancho]

♫ i used to look at him and wonder why her.. but i learned not worry about them living that happy ever after cause that shit was build on a lie i dont even look at him just think WHY EVER YOU♫

[shalanda91]

I love this song!!!!

[theshakita18]

-- wow ! im sure SOOO MANY people kan relate to this song ... its so true . there was once a time wen i kudnt even listen to this song without krying .... now i kan listen to this song , sing along , and smile kuz of the GOOD MAN God has blessed me with ! i love u GLW &hearts;

[liltinything5810]

uu did waht uu did it is waaht it iss ; lovee thiss songg . (:

[ilovemyeagles20]

I will always love this song. 

[laughgurl0004]

"now look at cha, look at us, what's all this for? hope you got the answer to my question... why her?"

[Vanessa53667]

REALEST SHIT EVER!!

[MsKaylaHall]

@keykansing yes we do!

[pRiNCesSTeRRiBabY]

I love this song soo much...I def. Can relate :)

[Nii2410]

i LOVE DISSS SONG!!!!!!!!!!!!

[keykansing]

I LOVE THIS SONG..WE DO SPEND TOO MUCH TIME THINKING..WHY...DNT WE LADIES?

[swagdropitlow2010]

Mhy Ex Cheated With A Ugli Girl ! Nd Im Sittin Here Wondering Ugh . Why Her ?

[bittersweetkuri22]

@swagdropitlow2010 You damn straight, like she said in the other song, what are they doing that she isn't...what the fuck?! omg I'm sooooooo pissed...And it's not one, it's like 4, but you know what they say?? When he cheats with an ugly bitch, it's because they are ugly and have no self esteem and will let anyone fuck...and If ya don't think I'm cute, go to my channel...lol

[SMARTKIDDSWAGG96]

I LOVE THIS SONG

[kieaG]

I love dis song

[BooBANGA1210]

im late watchin this but im still lovin It:)......monica keep doin you!!!!

[HiisWiifey061710]

this is mha song i swear to yuh i love this song to death everytyme ih hea this song ii think about what mha ex did..like he really lost sumthing good.. like ii was alwaysz dea for him nd he dis this bullshxt but it is what it is because the bxtch he wed now cheatin on him and he running badd to me nigga please yuh an neva have this again ! and thatsz a promise !

[kimhisonlylavender]

this song brought me through some rough times

[CSeezyGranGran]

this song describes my boyfriend SOOOOOOO much, it isn't even funny.

he is dating me, likes me, but obviously likes his ex again. but WHY HER?

she got fake her and FAKE EYE COLOR. ahahaha not mention she is a total slut. mmmm, his loss(:

[saraseng19]

theres never a second chance for me no matter how much ii loved him .

[rickytaylor18]

yall niggaz needa get off dat mustard and ketchup

[kaybee730]

im goin thru ot now lord monica knos how to put evathang you wnna say in ah song and you will feel it 4sho!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!

[mochaluv82]

i played this song out when i went thru this shit....i got me a damn good man now so he can keep her!!!!!

[chirsaj]

I lovde dis son been looking for it!!!!! You did what you did it is what iit is LOVE it

[jmuhoro2000]

I want to pay my respect to all girls of all age who been hurt and can not get the ans and thanks to Monica for bringing these to men , let them that have ears and understanding get these message and treat there women with great honour and appreciate the love of a woman in there life .

[fankisha]

This song is the truth. She hit a spot, i believe, their ain't a female in this world who hasn't thought "Why Her" The funny thing is when he leave you for the next chick for what ever reason, the dude almost always come back. That's when you tell that ass "HELL NO"

[seduction60]

hell yea

[UptownCeleb]

love this song; if you know you're a good woman then you should not stress the next chick.

[UniqueBabii13]

OMG , this sonq makes me cry cuz i went throuqh this !

[bellangel63]

@UniqueBabii13 man tell me about it

[Dimonique5364]

The begining kinda souns like dont forget about us by mariah carey smh same wit love all over me and mariah carey's joy ride jermaine dupri must be sampling bc he works with both

[Kapakorn23]

screw the four the people who dont like this record....

every female can relate to it one point in their life.

[TheHottie201048]

I LOVE DIS SONG............

[kraziestprep08]

<3 / x

[000Bump]

this the song

[000Bump]

I love this song

[EXCLUSIVENEXOTIC]

I LOVE THIS SONG

[itsmoix]

We all think why her in her lifes BUT WHY HIM?

we can do better than cheats,loosers and idiots : )

[81kiema]

@itsmoix U soooo right!!!

[101cocobaby]

@itsmoix i know right

[cj06feb]

Oh i could listern to this over and over i simply just cant get enough....

Great track words is so realistic

[09dasiaboo]

Aww Nice Song

[msbe407]

iDK WHY HER\

ACTUALLY i D0\

SHES A W0MEN\

[Rashameka]

this a true song

[TheSassybitch89]

dis da shit.......

[TheLegokid123]

yeah I felt this also, but I reaized why not me, and why not her? They got what they deserved, each other, and the Queen I am, got the King I deserved.. GOD IS AN AWESOME GOD, but yes I felt this song once.

[ttlyloved101]

i k r ! i look ten times better then her !

andd i loved him widd all myy heart bhudd i d k wudd happened !

all he hadd do too do was sayy somethinq - we really couldve workked id out !

bhudd now ids all about her !

- whyy her ? ? ?

-tear;

[iBeyondPrwetty]

I went threw that a year ago, and now im standing here with my head held high and smiling and thanking god that I got threw it. But now I have a good man by my side and I love him with all my heart thank god for replacing the broken pieces and ashes with a saint :)

[swaggsofly21]

Ooh I luv dsi sng so much cuz da past relationship I have been da dog ass nigha cheatd n I askd miself Y her, bt I den cum 2 realize dat hell it wuznt me...lol...Bt na he callin n txtn me lyk krazi bt I luk at hym laugh n ask hym Y HA

[skykey0]

yaaay i used to ask myself why her, and i that i was there for him thats why it hurt.. but... time heals.... jsut do what u wanna do, set goals and go fo them :)

[inherlife]

I love this song

[yourfirstcousin]

why her thats real i like that she good she comes hard some time keep real girl i here u

[MsSwaggalicous]

i lubb dis sonq.... WHY ME???????

[melaniesexyawsome]

luv this song..i can relate but iv found the man of my dreams,, i know hes the one so i know hed never cheat...i love him so much...i love u jon

[xxREDxx303]

whos mad lol ?? are you ..cuz i commented the way i did ?? lol da fuck outta here lame

[xxREDxx303]

who da fuck said i was being negative lol....its called makin ppl tough..stop being a queer smh...

everyone on this bitch lookin for pity...its 2010...stop cryin so dam much

[xxREDxx303]

more than half of u ppl are lame...NO ONE gives a fuck bout the shit u went thru...stop lookin for pity on the net..if u like the song koo if u went thru similar shit koo..but no one wanna read ya life stories...smh

[deasmenc]

@xxREDxx303 sooo tell us why ur really mad. Just like no one gives a fukk about they stories... no one gives a fukk that u r tired of them posting it. Just skip over the comment and listen to the song. smh!

[kayfab26]

@xxREDxx303 nobody told you to read their "shit" as you so eloquently put...if people wanna say how they feel about a song...why not say? negativity has got to stop in 2010! smh!

[neme1582]

luv this song....i love monica she is real r&b....and she dont get the credit dat she deserve

[camerubin20]

this was my theme song in 07!!! I went through EXACTLY what she is singing OMG!!! i have a good man now Thank GOD!!!!

[MsMiya92]

@camerubin20 i can completely agree with you that was my theme song too, im glad you found someone good you give me hope lol

[Redthickshawty]

@camerubin20

[sexyash011]

i am going throught this rite now also he tells me that he loves me and shyt but she aint goin to do da shyt i did for him and his mother dnt even like her and till diz day she calls me her daughter n law what i do to him? how did yall get ova it i just dnt understand WHY HER?

[racquelred]

OMG im going thur this right now..i still dont get it WHY HER

[ladiiduce1]

its fuckin krazii i hear this song n no matter how long its been it still makes me cry... i fuckin hate him n still love him all at the same time... im trying to convince myself that theres nothing i could have done to keep him from cheating but sumtimes its hard not to blame myself idk today would have been are 3 year anniversery.... man y?? WHY HER???!!!!

[TAMMY0TAYLOR]

Im sorry to hear that, but its something you have to weigh out. walkin away isnt always the answr. sometimes we have to face the problem and kill it. anything worth having is worth fighting for.

[sexybabes9999]

Ohh myy... iFeel your pain babygirl, but such is life aye?? It all gets better in time [So they sayyy]

[beajae4859]

dat waz GOOD MONICA go gurl u can SANG!!! hope u n keyshia cole r doin good

[jusme23]

omg this song brings bak memories :(

[tmhunnie2]

so tru....and they always cheat on u wif somebodi dat u look way better than...plz upgrade if u goin cheat nigga do it rite

[TAMMY0TAYLOR]

you need to see the girl! He even admit to me that seh is no where near me in standard (obviously) and she is not someone he would spend his life with, so i am still like why her?

[dodgers637]

haha AMEN!

[TAMMY0TAYLOR]

This is a serious. i WALK UP IN MY MAN HOUSE TWO DAYS AGO AND THE SAME BITCH I SWEAR HE WAS FUCKN WAS LAYN UP IN HIS BED.....this shit really hurts. But HE so claims he loves me so F*&kn much. How? Why her?

[liltoodie1]

wat really hurt is wen u really love somebody nd they claim they love u but is trying to get with sombody else...wtf??? i dont understand...

[TAMMY0TAYLOR]

I know wat u talking about. Love is a serious thing.Stay strong dont  worry about him? Like i told my man i hope it was worth it. cause you just lost your 80 for a 20.

[Cocohoney816]

Goin through this now... Hurts badly :(

[nunukisses]

the 1st time i heard dis song i cried

[neisha2234]

ii WAS D3R3 THATS WHY iiTS HURTiiNG M3

[fullmoon2mitsuki]

story of my present life. lol he left me n now hes comin bk tryna get me n its like im ova it im ova u. it hurt alot but i made it wit out u. and im happy. as for her you can keep her cause im betta off n i kno ill find sum1 betta.

[MrsArmaniExchange]

I think everyone who has fell inlove and it didn't work out want to know why her? why the other women..... Men can be sooo freakn selfish but like monica say... you did what you did, it is what it is.......

Speaking from experience, it hurts......

[crooks2830]

damn the story of my life

[LUVVBABII]

- haa and its so sad bcuuz im qoin thruu this ... well went thruu it .

i still love him tho , buh the mre we tryd taa wrk it ouut the wrse it qot so i said fucc it but why herr ,

[MrsArmaniExchange]

I feel you girl

[Luvlies81]

She speaks the truth. These guys aint shit sometimes. Right now im going threw the same shit. He wan'ts to comeback!!!!! An i aint having it!!!!!!!!!! IT'S OVER BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MusicLuvaification]

im feelin u on dis gal.....lol rain day tune. x

[lollipop3491]

why her

[ashantigirl10]

Damm Monica did it wen she made dis album it is soooooooooooooo true so ladies n guys listen to des words carefully!!!!!!!!! DAMM GIRL!

[babygirl19833096]

msdanielle thats so true  but it always hurts when first happen but thing u move on and they wanna come back when they see ur doing good with out them i him ask the same ? why her

[bedwaerd]

Last TEAR just fell from my eyes Told myself that I wasn't gonna cry no more You did what you did, it is what it is, And that's why I walked out the door Moved on with my life, but not really, Spent too much time wondering, "How could you?" You do this to us, thought we were in love Guess I was thinking too much Always thinking that the sex had you locked You never could get enough 'cause you know I kept it hot I listened to you tell me your dreams and your fears, I wiped your tears

[shetasia]

DhAMN I TOLD MAH SELF I WAZNT GOIN ThEW CRY

[shetasia]

ii LIK THiiSZ SONq THiiSZ SONQ Iz WhATz UhP

[missgouge]

this song is so true!

[MsBlackberry1984]

I LOVE IS SONG..... IT NEVER GETZ OLD

[shawty2much]

i love this song i just love monica period

[johnsongirls4]

man men always go through this shit. i say fuck all them punk ass men that dunt kno what they missin.

[mudeebby93]

THiiS SONG iiS HELLA TRU

I DATED DiiS DUDE FOR A MiiN AND HE LEFT ME FA DiiS NASTY LUKiiN HOE AND NOW HE'S TRYN REAL HARD TA GET ME BACKK

[OhDAMNiTSMiNDiE]

SAME HEREEE! YOU , ME BOTH ; PLAYED.

[PUrPL3KiSS3z19]

ii L0V3 THiiSz S0Nq S000 MUCh &+ ii

S33 WH3r3 SH3 iiSz C0MiiNq 4RM...

[deja4993]

its like all these gay sirls are gay because they were hurt by guys. no offense but its much more than that.

[msdanielle88]

ladies dis shit is so true dont worry bout them living the happy life cause he will b back and trust me i been through dis and now he beggin me to cum back and dis hoe thought she had him she was playin on my phone and all now she sittin there wit dat dick look on her face

[XBlackXHeartacheX]

i am bi now and don'tdate guys anymore cuz theyre all pricks and everyoword they have said to me was a lie. boys suck.

[thikkuhmz]

.she also diid dhiz song tu ii mean shiid why her wen yhu got meeh...

[johnnyluv85]

U kno dis song it makes so much sense because guys dont understand what we women go through emotionally when they cheat. Until it gets done to them. Then they wanna ask us "WHY HIM" and its jus to bad cuz us women r strong and we are so stupid becuz we cry n then later in the future we end up findin sumbodi better while he with that stupid bitxx dealin wit shyt

[apriledenise2009]

yeah you right fuck niggahs dats why im 1000% gay cuz i dnt trust niggahs cuz all they asses aint bout shyt........i aint trying to put niggahs down but hey im just telinbg the truth anyone agree or disagree hit meh up in my messages mz.denise

[bellecheriem1482]

amen i feel you...im 2000% lesbian myself...love the emotions and the care of a woman. been disrespected by men since the age of 7...cant even entertain a nigga in my face. sorry to the nice guys but im good and happy without yall :)

[lishiabug69]

omg im so confuse with love right now but i just listen too this song but i just say 4 get niggas not worth it

[ndia055]

love it! :-)

[MzLugoThe1]

Im sitting here so confused.....

this guy im dating i fell so hard for him

and honestly i did.. but latly he is doing things he hasnt ever done before.He forgets 2 call me and and he only talks 2 me certain times on the phone.And i have this gut feeling im prty sure u know what i mean.But I love him n he looks me in my eyes and says all the right things...And im trying so bad to not let it hurt but it still does..

[poiiuioppi]

same thing wit me ladies. so dnt feel bad. i was one boi rebound and fell n love wit him. i mean i fell so hard for him it wasjus ugh, its een 3 years and i still luv em

[youngdivababy]

My boyfriend of 3 years just told me that he wasn't happy and i got on his nerves just because i refused to send him a picture of me. He told me this other chick he wanted to date was much more than me. I feel like crap because i though he was happy. All those text messages he sent talking about how much he loved me were a lie. losers never win

[lepz69123]

bro fuck slagz there all gronks

[1944sandra]

omg i love this song cause speaking the triyh cause half of the times guys leave a diamonds for bull shit

[cNk3309]

lol @ da kommnts bou qirls being broken heartd by a dude dey loved.listen women; we r fierce.we r the oil tht keeps cars runninq.neva be demeaned by a niqqa or his selfish ways.if he cheated;sit bk n smile.n dnt qet mad at da chik;;get at yuh man,she mite nt hav known he was n a relationship.let dat niqqa qo.if u know n he know that u qawt dat qood qood; he will come back.he'll know that he missed out on a qood thinq.pray fah ya dude n move on.wen 1 door closes anutha 1 opens.stay up ladies.

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[bemetris]

G-SHIT!!!

[Niavah23]

i love this song is tell the true sing it monica that why love is pain&hearts;

[iyanah2033]

loves this song

[SHAIDIE123]

had a boyfriend but we broke up

&& now he with this girl that barely

care.but he text me everyday as if we

still go together.!he did thee 80-20

rule and most likely i was thee 80 and

now his new girl is thee 20.!

[cNk3309]

that suxx for u sweetie.i bet u let it go rite? n that 80-20 rule is a defamer of men and the more that females know about it the more salt it pours on a niqqa's game. but hey u a female.n we strong so i know u pulled through.keep yuh head up.

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[mz803xclusive]

i can relate to this song..my man left me for a...well yall know!!!

[MegamanX23]

same here ,

i was the greatest and loved him so fucking much

really why her ?

especially it bein my now ex best friend. :(

but its tru take out the bad to make room for the good

I LOVE you Lincoln♥

atleast i found my good :)

[Iliketoflywithponies]

is he going out with a girl named latisha now ?

[yoniet]

this tha shit

[pao09tiger]

why him? :P

but forreal, why him?

some ppl i jus dont understand

wut do u get out of them?

[titahbabeh]

baa, dah'ts saad.

did he really do dah't to youu?!

[mslinson0617]

try having 2 kids by him and being with him 4 5 years then he just walks away

[sujags06]

OMG, Sad on his part.

[LunieLuna95]

note to readers of commentS;

this quote helps me threw times when i think 'why her'

"Hold your head up hun. Cause there are alot of people who would love to see it fall"

[BigTeaCH08]

What women have to start to realize is that it is not always about what you did or didn't do. Sometimes things just don't work out. Men have a way of letting things go on and on when really they want to let go. It has nothing to do with the other woman either really. Be grateful that God removed the bad to make room for the good.

[mstynitty]

Please say it again...Amen

[sujags06]

True, but 99% of the men that leave a good women dont run into shit but trash and I been cheated on for trashy niggas that don't have shit on me.

[louchieluche]

ii am realli tired of crying n ii realli want to fuckin kno WHY HER Antwan K Smith why her n not mi 3 mufucking yearz down da fucking drain oh no honey im taking WHAT'Z MINE

[stelladeng]

this is fucking true.

why her? i had everything he needed. i was even more than he deserved. shit man.

heres to 09, ladies!

Why her um. I sit and think about all the ones that hurt me. Yea it hurt but i sure dont won't