Watch out for code words in online profiles: Looking for gentleman, nice guy, real man. These are all code words women use to find men to take care of them where you pay for it all. Stay single, never co-sign, no marriage, don't let them move in, never lend money, be less interested, meet at bookstores/cafe/park instead of dinner & movies, avoid illegal immigrants (google marriage fraud), avoid long distance women, always wear condoms, invest in your education, listen to Tom Leykis
the 1# problem with nice guys, is that, they convince & delude themselves into believing that just because they have THOUGHTS & FEELINGS over a woman, that means they are actually in a real relationship with that woman. nice guys always lose touch with reality, because they are EMOTIONALLY RETARDED, just like forrest gump, who spent his entire life chasing after an alcoholic, drug addicted whore named JENNY, who didn't want him, until she was over the hill & didn't have much time to live.
@gmccord1970 That's good to know. With me, I couldn't respect myself for sleeping with someone who doesn't respect themselves...but I'm also a virgin so...
@HBKFuckingOwns That's good to know as it is apparent in Tom's topics with foreign woman. I am planning on traveling to different countries when I'm older and have graduated college
OK - I get it. Too nice. So how big of a criminal do I have to be? Don't really want to go to jail. How do I build "cred" without really hurting myself?
I think men are particularly vulnerable to women's shit when they are young 15-25 ,they confuse lust with love , get hurt by women ,we all do it , but when you get to a point in your life when youve shagged a truck load of them they don't get to you anymore, and you look back on yourself and can't believe how stupid youve been .
To all you young guys out there that want Tom's type of advice, email me back. I'm in my 30s, slept with about 300 very attractive women, and barely spent any money in the process. I accidentally got married, but am now 100% smarter because of that shitty mistake. Seriously, if you have any questions regarding how to get in someones pants or on how to seduce women, or what to do in a relationship, hit me up. I am more than happy to pick up where Tom left off. Peace.
I think if a woman chooses a low life arsehole over a nice, well-mannered, respectful guy, that says a lot about the confidence and self-esteem of the woman...
@Achilles94627 of course women choose assholes, look who has the most amount of children with the largest group of men, women. It's not just a reflection on women, but people as a whole.
hes right about everything, besides the things he says that are overdone because of his overcompensating for the misfortunes of his life.. this is playerism 101, simple as that.
I don't care if the "best friend" and the girl have every right to do what they want with each other. She used this guy while his "best friend" humiliated him. It is not his job to justify and make excuses for these disgusting people. What they did to this poor guy is wrong. Trying to dissect this situation in order to basically defend their actions is absolutely pathetic. GROW UP PEOPLE! Put yourself in his shoes!
Nice guys do not get laid...not here...and what is the birth rate compared to the death rate for the European race? Is anyone able to turn off American Idol long enough to see that our society is in serious fucking trouble?!
I used to be a nice guy, I used to listen to women and their relationship problems, issues, worries, and used to do favors for some of them. That is! until I met a lady, back in 2008, and we used to hang out every weekend for up to 4 months. In the end, I ended up losing my virginity with these lady and only to have her calling it a pity fuck. I then realized that being nice got me pity lay, being a good guy got me a relationship, a gf now, and got me self respect.
con: Being a good guy got me to have other women notice me. At the same time! I got rid of bad women in my life, and boy! my confidence grew and i was able to move up and make myself better. I tend not to agree with Tom Leykis, but he is right with this talk
About a month ago I had sex with a nice guy. I met him online but still he was very sweet and I made all the moves and took over. He loved it and wants to come over on a regular basis. He was so nice I could tell he wanted to put his hands up my shirt but was too shy to and I had to tell him it was ok for him to do it. Mind you I am 29 years old. I also have been with more aggressive guys but that is besides the point. There are confident girls out there that think nice guys are sweet.
He's right. There is only one word that men today, wait, excuse me, manginas, and that word is "No". Why? Because all they have in their mouth is "Yes". ;D now go out there and be the "No Man!!". Man, I should write a script for a movie. ;D
I used to live in LA and as a ignorant fool, I listened to LICKASS on the radio.
I thought he was entertaining, but he has no breadth, he is very limited in scope.
I was curious when he was speaking at a hotel in public. HE HAD NO CHARISMA, he's FAT and looks real stupid and was wearing a cowboy hat.. TOTALLY out of place and only one word......... A LOSER.....
If the times hadn't changed I would have cursed this guy and would have probably wanted to kill him. But in the present context I think this guy is the biggest boon to mankind. Although I would have preferred to hear much less of swearing or none of it still the message he conveys is incredibly consonant with the truth.
she is wife material... I amnot looking to screw her yet...
I don't need help w/ women.
I need help stealing a woman and insulting her taste in a man that is 8 years olde than she is. She is has not seen my dirty nigga freak side... I will lash out at her taste in a guy that is 8 y/o'er than she is.
When it comes to women, a guy needs to have two things:
1) Balls: You have to make the first move. Girls rarely make the first move, so it's up to you.
2) Indifference: If you get rejected, move on to the next. It's all a numbers game. The more girls you approach, the more success you will get. Ask any guy who does well with women and he will tell you the same thing I posted here.
I'm 21 and still a virgin, can you help me out? So you're saying if I have a 1% chance of a girl liking me I should approach 100 women minimum so maybe 1 will possibly want to have sex with me? I'm always scared of being kicked in the balls though, should I wear a cup just in case?
Try out different ways of talking to girls but always try to be a gentleman. There is nothing wrong with being nice as long as you are letting the girl know you are interested. I'm not that good at math as you but the more girls you talk to, the more likely a girl will reciprocate that interest.
@MisterCool can u explain about being dependable? I just saw a video about this cougar cunt on "12 reasons women can't stand nice guys". U should check it out and cause it confuses the hell out of me :(
I saw the video. I think the best things to take from her video are to always be yourself and to know that you should walk away from a woman who is disrespecting you.
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being nice, if you are being yourself. If you want to do something nice for a girl, then do it. If you don't, then don't do it. I don't get into nice guys-bad boys debates anymore, because at the end of the day, if you aren't yourself, then you've already lost.
Nice guys with "no swagger" don't get laid. Nice guys with no looks, no people skills, no confidence, no height as well. It's the guy who believes in himself who get's laid, jerk, nice guy or not. My advice is get you swag on and watch what happens next. Girls will chase you, not the other way around.
@LeBigMoneyShow cept no one can fucking define what "swag" is. It usually entails treating women like hoes. treat them to a nice diner, shower them with money, dont try to have an intelligent conversation with her. that is what turns a girl on
@ipwnorcs I do not agree.My views on what swag "is" are solely based on attitude, style (personal), ability to be captivating at a drop of a hat and of course being somewhat handsome if not "good-looking." does not hurt. If you can captivate a crowd of people or stand out amongs your friends, then you have swag and are most likely the Alpha amongst them.
@ipwnorcs view my other channel at "mr vees world" on YT. I cover relationships, swag, good guy vs bad guy and does height matter issues. Be sure to drop me a line on your opinion.
I got a better idea... say YES YOU CAN STAY HERE. But at 2:30 AM, GUESS WHAT....throw her ass out in the street!!!!!! You might quote Steve Martin and say "INTO THE MUD SCUM QUEEN!!!'
I had something like this happened to me before in the past and it sucks ass, but now it has made me stronger and I don't take shit from any girl, no matter how hot she looks. Thank God for makeup because if it wasn't for makeup most girls would look like crap.
I agree that the guy got screwed over, but it was his fault to let the girl stay with him and his roommate. When he leaves it will be hard for me to not hit on her. It's almost like taking a girl you like to a club on your first date. It's just sounds bad all over.
OMG!!! Tom Leykis has to be the smartest guy on Earth! This is the first time I've ever listened to him, and he speaks the fukin' truth. I spent waaaay too many years being nice, before I finally smartened up. I wish I had been taken aside by someone like him years ago... it would have saved me lots of heartache. Some of you mention foreign women, I agree: I've traveled out of the country, and know what you're talking about first-hand -- every man should do it at least once in his lifetime.
It takes honor courage and virtue in order to be a man. If like me you're a real man then I've got bad news for you. We're a dying breed, the last of our kind, with no place or purpose in a world that's happy on it's knees....We are the last Samurai!
All I see walking around are 25yr. old little boys thumping their chests "look I'm a hardass" but would rather run away with their tail between their legs than die for their convictions. They'll put me down in a hole before I forsake my dignity.
It takes honor courage and virtue in order to be a man. If like me you're a real man then I've got bad news for you. We're a dying breed, the last of our kind, with no place or purpose in a world that's happy on it's knees....We are the last Samurai!
All I see walking around are 25 year old little boys thumping their chests but would rather run with their tail between their legs than die for their convictions...cowards, all of them. They'll put me down in a hole before I give up my dignity.
The guy writing this letter is a major pussy."My friend stole this girl I really loved" Waaaaa! What a baby!! hahaha Someone needs to tell this guy that there are always "More fish in the sea",and this girl wasnt worth worrying about.
@darkbyke I have to strongly disagree...I had heard of that hypothesis, a number of years ago, in which, if there were 10 guys and 10 girls, the 1 guy from the ten, got to knock up the other 9 girls, while the other 9 guys, had to fight over that 1 girl...even in the "Sodom & Gomorrah" climate that we currently live in, that hypothesis, is still, highly implausible...
Wow, this is not shallow at all....it's pretty much dry land. I guess I'm just much much simpler than the lot of you (or just much older than frat boy/sorority girl age). Pretty much all I look for is something true in another person and the fact that they'll actually BE THERE when I need them most (say if I get hit by a car, for example). It's what it boils down to in life. Not these pointless charades. But hey, whatever float your boat.
the #1 problem with nice guys, is that, nice guys are under the impression that women don't like to fuck just as much as men or love "dick" just as much as men love pussy. and just like forrest gump-nice guys believe in their minds, that just because they have feelings for a girl, that automatically makes her his girlfriend.
doing favors, spending money, always being available to listen to her problems, will not make a woman want you; trust me- i am a recovered "nice guy", takes 1 to know one.
@sasquatch13ja I know exactlly what you mean, I am/was a "nice guy" but after 2 relationships in the past 2 years and just starting to listen to Tom Leykis, its tought me that when you love a girl (or just want to bang her) you cant just give them what they want. you have to draw the line and make sure she knows where that line is and she better not go past that or else. girls dont want nice pushovers, they want strong men that will stand up to anyone including her. everything is a test.
Once you know her or even the first date. Ask her can we go to you place. You be the boss. I did this an got to sleep at her place. I had to talk to her sister in law. It was cool worked out got action same night. I met another give few years later did the same thing. I got a no have roomates. She offer me to take her to Hotel. I said no cost too much. She said motel. We went got action.
I think women are insecure to go after mean men. A real women picks a nice guy and brings out the bad boy in him, LOL! A real woman spoils a nice guy and treats him like a king; that's the only way to be happy.
@AmusedChild what you mean is a fantasy woman spoils a nice guy, a real woman uses nice guys. Nice people finish last, and that's how it is, because most people are self centered and couldn't give a damn about whats right or wrong, only what makes themselves feel good. People are animals and women should be treated as such, not like a lady, like an animal who you are trying to get to perform an act of instinct. So don't fantasize they'er more than this, don't cast pearls before swine.
@AmusedChild fantasy women spoil nice guys, real woman abuse them. The fact of the matter is most people are not good, they are self centered and do whatever makes themselves feel good. Basically they are animals and women should be treated as such, not like a lady, so like an animal you try to get them to preform based on instinct. People are animals, they are not good, this is why nice people finish last and always will, do not cast pearls before swine, take them to slaughter.
@ATENakaATON I do not agree that animals are "beasts" as you seem to think. As someone pretty knowledgeable about evolution, cooperation is an inherent part of being "selfish." Read The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins - it may surprise you. Absolutist, simplistic dichotomies are not realism - they are caricatures of realism.
@AmusedChild most people take up a group for the feeling of security, this causes a reactionary state of mind, instinctual, therefore limiting their ability to comprehend what is going on around them. This drive based on emotions and instinct is their doom, it severely limits their ability to think or learn. In order to receive acceptance in the group they follow the group blindly, faithfully, therefore without any sense of realism. The great majority of the people are blind, beasts of burden.
@AmusedChild I wonder how many dicks have been in you before his was. I'm sure like most women plenty of bad boys squirted you up and got theirs before the nice guy came along and got what was left over, while of course carrying all the baggage your old partners left behind, and paying the heftiest of bills of all the guy who porked you. So what did he get? If it just so happens he was the one and only, you must understand your situation is a rarity, and my advice stands strong for nearly all.
@ATENakaATON Well, you just go ahead and think about that! Mull our business over and over in your mind. Obsess over it until your face turns blue. In the meantime, we will enjoy our lives. What a bitter, cynical, sad comment. Don't seek happiness yourself - that might disprove your little hypotheses! By all means, sit and think about living while other people do it. Bye now!
@AmusedChild yet here you are with me. I have to wonder if what I'm doing is not living then why are you here with me? Perhaps I simply put down the truth and your trying to find away around it, I'm better fit to live my life because I have been thoughtful as to what life is and what my purpose is, while it seems you have been thoughtless. Go on going through life like an animal, it will serve my end that much better.
this is stupid im sorry it just is.... nice guys dont get laid ??? thats the biggest fucking joke ive ever heard is he insinuating that no one is nice anymore ? because youd be hard pressed to find a middle aged who hasnt been laid hes dumb
Nice guys don't attract nasty women. Nice women are attracted to nice guys, unfortunately there is a shortage of both in this world. I can't believe the disgusting shit this guy is saying. He's obviously NOT a nice guy, no wonder he's so bitter.
this dude is spot on but one thing doesn't make sense. if a girl you're tryna bang wants to sleep over your place, why would you stop her? obviously if the dude is a pussy then nothing would happen but letting her sleep over your place seems like a big step in the right direction for anyone, whether they have no game or not
Just to get attention. It's amazing, and then listen to how much she "cares" about everything he says and laughs at every crack, it's a trip. Never allow yourself to get cockblocked, when you see it begin, dump the bitch on his hands. No rides with you, don't pay for shit, if she can't make it home, "suck my cock or you're walking"
Nothing pisses me off more than being around a woman who i am interested in but likes a friend of mine or someone we both know. They always make the little remarks or act all sheepish when you catch them looking at the guy. Wanna see how cunning bitches are? Watch their every move without denial in your mind when you know or think they like someone around you, they ALWAY make sure they are getting noticed by the guy and make up the stupidest shit...
God dam it, this guy is so right. I was a nice guy and gosh, I never got laid. In fact, the girl I was so infatuated with, she slept with my best friend. I wanted to die. Now, if I want to get laid, I have to pay for, which is not the same.
Everyone of of you fucktards on here are a bunch of sexist douche bags. It really ashamed me to see your poor choices in women that has affected your overall view of women in gernal! You guys seem to go for the absent father/broke home girls that have been constant abuse from all parts of life. But what can I can I say, alot of you are low life douchebags who can't even attract a decent ewomen into your life. It's not the woman's fault entirely for your failed relationships, it's you too!!
Guys, do not Listen to this dude. Tom Leykis has no more credibility than A FIRST GRADER . First of all TOM LEYKIS HAS BEEN DIVORCED FOUR TIMES, HAS NO CHILDREN AND IS AN ATHEIST, YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT THIS SLIM BAG HAS CREDIBILITY WITH WOMEN WHEN HE HAS MORE THAN TWO FAILED MARRIAGES? It's wise taking advice from people who live happy lives with their companions than some fat atheist fuck who can't even have one decent marriage, by the way he's single and doesnt have a girlfriend! LOSER!
@Ninox37 everything! Do you realize Atheism has killed more people through out history more than any other religious people? Atheism gave rise to communism,poverty,abortion, and about 150 million + due to your ignorant beliefs!
Let's see, the Crusades, the Arab-Israel War, the constant wars in Africa, the domination of the Catholic Church over Europe and the oppression of millions for 700 years.
And by the way, you have no idea what Communism is due to that little ignorant statement. If anyone is ignorant, it is you. Have you ever read any Marx? And not just been brainwashed by the Imperialist dogmatic principals that tell you to be a quiet little sheep and not question order?
@Ninox37 Those still have not surpassed the killers of Joseph stalin, Mao, and pol pot! They have caused 250 million deaths! Youre communist atheist beliefs encourage broken families,abortion, laziness and Godlessness in nations!
I know what Communism is, it's a Godless secular humanist religion which encourages Laziness and deviancy.
@Ninox37 This western civilization you take for granted for was constructed by Christian influence, without the Morality and standards from God the food, drink, Housing and civilization you live in will be worse than that of a 3rd world country. Hell even the Muslims that all you hate invented mathematics and sciences that we used today to get to the moon!
Take a look at China and North Korea or Russia back in the cold war, these look worse than the so called "Godly" nations.
@Ninox37 maybe economically due to high demand of Cheap labor. But doesnt change the fact it's a dirty 3 world country full of godlessness and poverty. china may be a growing world play economically but military wise, thats just asking for world war 3.
@karlsmith00-It's amerikan women like yourself why men don't want to fuck with these tramp bitches here in this amerikan society!! You sound like A typical amerikan male bashing feminist!!
@startec25 You have to understand, that America is nothing more than a corporation...it is not a nation, because in my definition, a nation is an independent state, with large numbers of people of the same ethnic group, religion, customs, etc...America has never been that, and even more so, in the current age, where consumerism and fear, and ignorance, has run rampant...in fact, the "Pledge of Allegiance" is no longer sung in most schools...
@GemCan78 That's correct and the president is nothing more than the CEO of the Corporation of the United States. That's exactly how the US has been run almost from the beginning.
@bathwhoreE Actually, I'm very disgusted, with the way that morals have gone down the toilet, in America, ever since the late 1960's...with the breakdown of the nuclear family structure in America, with the massive spike in single-parent homes, with the celebration of bad behaviour, with the celebration and encouragement of selfishness and self-centered behaviour...it sickens me, it really does...no wonder the relationship prospects of millions of people, are very bad...
@bathwhoreE I appreciate it...I figured that you would agree with my sentiments...I mean, most people, nowadays, forget that, America is at the very center of Western Civilization...they are totally lost to the fact that, the "Founding Fathers" were students of history, scientists, philosophers, cartographers, landowners, family men and aristocrats...we are a Christian nation, unlike what the current President says...and we're running away from our original principles, like the plague...
@bathwhoreE The problem is, that, most people, male and female alike, are totally confused in their particular gender roles...this shit started in the late 1960's...Liberal freakazoids, exercised a total monopoly over American society, telling untold millions how to live their lives, and the fools, blindly followed...the five pillars of Western Civilization, that is, Parents, Teachers, Clergy, Law Enforcement, and the Military, have all been torn down, because of Liberalism...
@startec25 A man's upbringing has nothing to do with his masculinity. The reason men are more feminine nowadays is because there's now estrogen in our water supply.
@needles1987 How a boy is raised will determine the type of man he will be, a woman can't teach a boy to be a man, a child is like a blank paper, what he see most he will put on the sheet.
Estrogen in the water is not a big factor, men natrually have small levels of estrogen in their bodys, just like womem have small levels of testostorene in their body, most black men don't have a problem bulding muscle mass, which means their still producing enough testostorene.
@needles1987 I don't need someone to teach me to be a a man, because am already a man, but when I was a boy I needed someone to teach me, if you think a boy can teach himself to be a man, or a woman can do it, then your living on another planet.
Kids learn from what they see, when a boy see his dad treat his mother with love and respect, that is life lesson number 1
dad going out to work everyday, life lesson number 2
@startec25 good one! using tiger woods as an example of success because of his father. his father fucked around on his wife too, he sure taught him a great lesson.
fucking moron. do you males think AT ALL before you say or write something? then we wonder why the world is so fucked up.
Ever since the late 1960's, with the rise of Feminism and White Male bashing, there has been a steep climb in the nubmer of single parent homes in America...nowadays, most people, guys and girls alike, want a "fuck buddy"...they don't actively seek out a person who will be a potential "parent" to their children...that's why this society, and the Western World at large, is falling apart, and on the verge of serious collapse...you don't see this breakdown in the Muslim World...
@iolfido Just look at the growing numbers of young children who are being raised in single parent homes...just watch the daily talk shows, like Steve Wilkos, and Maury Povich, and you'll see the crux of all the problem that young teenagers have, is lack of a stable father in the home...a stable home, where both biological parents are present, and G-d fearing, and moralistic, and drug free, is an exception, rather than the norm...
@GemCan78 Glad to see I'm not the only one who sees this. Add this to the fact the rising Superpowers of China, and India compounded with the bad economy. Like the saying goes most empires crumbled from within.
Hell yeah. I'd expect him to. If she's fuckin' other guys that's not the chick I wanna be with. That simple. He's doing me a favor that way. Anyone who see's otherwise is a whiny bitch and is just butthurt because they can't get laid, JUST LIKE THE GUY WHO SENT TOM LEYKIS THAT LETTER!
A few years ago, some dude I knew took a battered chick into his house for 3 months...not once did she give him any pussy, he must have asked her 50X, and every time she said no...whereas, I never let her into my house, and I fucked her twice...Tom Leykis is right, his formula is impeccable, nice guys don't get laid...
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Watch out for code words in online profiles: Looking for gentleman, nice guy, real man. These are all code words women use to find men to take care of them where you pay for it all. Stay single, never co-sign, no marriage, don't let them move in, never lend money, be less interested, meet at bookstores/cafe/park instead of dinner & movies, avoid illegal immigrants (google marriage fraud), avoid long distance women, always wear condoms, invest in your education, listen to Tom Leykis
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DrShitandStank 10 hours ago
the 1# problem with nice guys, is that, they convince & delude themselves into believing that just because they have THOUGHTS & FEELINGS over a woman, that means they are actually in a real relationship with that woman. nice guys always lose touch with reality, because they are EMOTIONALLY RETARDED, just like forrest gump, who spent his entire life chasing after an alcoholic, drug addicted whore named JENNY, who didn't want him, until she was over the hill & didn't have much time to live.
sasquatch13ja 1 week ago
@hcoprdice How did you do it without spending any money! Lol!
SightseerLounge 1 month ago
So would a nice guy get laid in other countries?
larmando22 3 months ago
@larmando22 I did
gmccord1970 2 months ago
@gmccord1970 That's good to know. With me, I couldn't respect myself for sleeping with someone who doesn't respect themselves...but I'm also a virgin so...
larmando22 2 months ago
@larmando22 american women are the dumbest women on earth, they like being treated like crap. foreign women appreciate nice men.
HBKFuckingOwns 2 months ago 2
@HBKFuckingOwns That's good to know as it is apparent in Tom's topics with foreign woman. I am planning on traveling to different countries when I'm older and have graduated college
larmando22 2 months ago
@larmando22 yes
babykevinxoxo 2 months ago
OK - I get it. Too nice. So how big of a criminal do I have to be? Don't really want to go to jail. How do I build "cred" without really hurting myself?
sieracki001 4 months ago
It was wrong of Larry to blame everyone but himself. But it's also wrong for his friend to sleep with his crush.
needles1987 4 months ago
I think men are particularly vulnerable to women's shit when they are young 15-25 ,they confuse lust with love , get hurt by women ,we all do it , but when you get to a point in your life when youve shagged a truck load of them they don't get to you anymore, and you look back on yourself and can't believe how stupid youve been .
TheGlenn9 4 months ago
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To all you young guys out there that want Tom's type of advice, email me back. I'm in my 30s, slept with about 300 very attractive women, and barely spent any money in the process. I accidentally got married, but am now 100% smarter because of that shitty mistake. Seriously, if you have any questions regarding how to get in someones pants or on how to seduce women, or what to do in a relationship, hit me up. I am more than happy to pick up where Tom left off. Peace.
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I think if a woman chooses a low life arsehole over a nice, well-mannered, respectful guy, that says a lot about the confidence and self-esteem of the woman...
Achilles94627 7 months ago
@Achilles94627 of course women choose assholes, look who has the most amount of children with the largest group of men, women. It's not just a reflection on women, but people as a whole.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
hes right about everything, besides the things he says that are overdone because of his overcompensating for the misfortunes of his life.. this is playerism 101, simple as that.
mnypwrrspkt 8 months ago
Nice guys don't get laid: I can attest to that
thisday1 8 months ago 4
Trust no one.
zozma38 8 months ago
I don't care if the "best friend" and the girl have every right to do what they want with each other. She used this guy while his "best friend" humiliated him. It is not his job to justify and make excuses for these disgusting people. What they did to this poor guy is wrong. Trying to dissect this situation in order to basically defend their actions is absolutely pathetic. GROW UP PEOPLE! Put yourself in his shoes!
videoonsight 9 months ago 2
Nice guys do not get laid...not here...and what is the birth rate compared to the death rate for the European race? Is anyone able to turn off American Idol long enough to see that our society is in serious fucking trouble?!
defexorcist 9 months ago
I used to be a nice guy, I used to listen to women and their relationship problems, issues, worries, and used to do favors for some of them. That is! until I met a lady, back in 2008, and we used to hang out every weekend for up to 4 months. In the end, I ended up losing my virginity with these lady and only to have her calling it a pity fuck. I then realized that being nice got me pity lay, being a good guy got me a relationship, a gf now, and got me self respect.
rgchrono 10 months ago
con: Being a good guy got me to have other women notice me. At the same time! I got rid of bad women in my life, and boy! my confidence grew and i was able to move up and make myself better. I tend not to agree with Tom Leykis, but he is right with this talk
rgchrono 10 months ago
About a month ago I had sex with a nice guy. I met him online but still he was very sweet and I made all the moves and took over. He loved it and wants to come over on a regular basis. He was so nice I could tell he wanted to put his hands up my shirt but was too shy to and I had to tell him it was ok for him to do it. Mind you I am 29 years old. I also have been with more aggressive guys but that is besides the point. There are confident girls out there that think nice guys are sweet.
Goobian 10 months ago
He's right. There is only one word that men today, wait, excuse me, manginas, and that word is "No". Why? Because all they have in their mouth is "Yes". ;D now go out there and be the "No Man!!". Man, I should write a script for a movie. ;D
TecHipRock 10 months ago
I used to live in LA and as a ignorant fool, I listened to LICKASS on the radio.
I thought he was entertaining, but he has no breadth, he is very limited in scope.
I was curious when he was speaking at a hotel in public. HE HAD NO CHARISMA, he's FAT and looks real stupid and was wearing a cowboy hat.. TOTALLY out of place and only one word......... A LOSER.....
Mi37591 10 months ago
@Iwillnotbsilenced You are talking total bullshit, there are so many people around who can confirm the findings of this intelligent man.
nisheeth16 10 months ago
If the times hadn't changed I would have cursed this guy and would have probably wanted to kill him. But in the present context I think this guy is the biggest boon to mankind. Although I would have preferred to hear much less of swearing or none of it still the message he conveys is incredibly consonant with the truth.
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StraightFashionMan 10 months ago
Tom Leykis has ZERO sex appeal, he has to PAY to GET LAID.
Mi37591 10 months ago
@Mi37591 Said the nice guy that wishes that a guy like Tom can't get laid.
ogrish84 10 months ago
he is right
I don't want to screw Betty Sue Whittaker...
this BF she has is 8 years older...
we have chemistry that is perfect.
she is wife material... I amnot looking to screw her yet...
I don't need help w/ women.
I need help stealing a woman and insulting her taste in a man that is 8 years olde than she is. She is has not seen my dirty nigga freak side... I will lash out at her taste in a guy that is 8 y/o'er than she is.
any tips gentleman?
WhiteWesWelker 11 months ago
Saying "no" to a girl doesn't make you a jerk at all.
needles1987 11 months ago 3
When it comes to women, a guy needs to have two things:
1) Balls: You have to make the first move. Girls rarely make the first move, so it's up to you.
2) Indifference: If you get rejected, move on to the next. It's all a numbers game. The more girls you approach, the more success you will get. Ask any guy who does well with women and he will tell you the same thing I posted here.
MisterCool 1 year ago 43
@MisterCool Totally!!
averypack13 1 year ago
@MisterCool
I'm 21 and still a virgin, can you help me out? So you're saying if I have a 1% chance of a girl liking me I should approach 100 women minimum so maybe 1 will possibly want to have sex with me? I'm always scared of being kicked in the balls though, should I wear a cup just in case?
ltt989 10 months ago
@ltt989
Try out different ways of talking to girls but always try to be a gentleman. There is nothing wrong with being nice as long as you are letting the girl know you are interested. I'm not that good at math as you but the more girls you talk to, the more likely a girl will reciprocate that interest.
MisterCool 10 months ago
@MisterCool
hmmm, ok, I think I tried quite a few ways, but ok, I won't hide my intent anymore like you said
ltt989 10 months ago
@MisterCool First move in approaching or first move in escalating attraction and flirting etc etc.
I've found that women have been approaching me or trying to talk to me but I'd have to do the flirting and making the physical moves on them
TheHazcam 8 months ago
@TheHazcam
I meant both but in your case, girls are actually making the first move in approaching, which means less work for you. Yay!
MisterCool 8 months ago
@MisterCool that is the most consise summing up ive ever seen, well done.
mnypwrrspkt 8 months ago
@MisterCool can u explain about being dependable? I just saw a video about this cougar cunt on "12 reasons women can't stand nice guys". U should check it out and cause it confuses the hell out of me :(
kgp8 1 month ago
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MisterCool 1 month ago
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@kgp8
I saw the video. I think the best things to take from her video are to always be yourself and to know that you should walk away from a woman who is disrespecting you.
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with being nice, if you are being yourself. If you want to do something nice for a girl, then do it. If you don't, then don't do it. I don't get into nice guys-bad boys debates anymore, because at the end of the day, if you aren't yourself, then you've already lost.
MisterCool 1 month ago
IS THIS GUY BACK ON THE AIR??
neoimean7 1 year ago
@neoimean7 He should be back on in April 2012. Damn no-compete clause.
ConspectuMortis 1 year ago
@ConspectuMortis damn, i need my leykis 101
neoimean7 1 year ago
Nice guys with "no swagger" don't get laid. Nice guys with no looks, no people skills, no confidence, no height as well. It's the guy who believes in himself who get's laid, jerk, nice guy or not. My advice is get you swag on and watch what happens next. Girls will chase you, not the other way around.
LeBigMoneyShow 1 year ago
@LeBigMoneyShow cept no one can fucking define what "swag" is. It usually entails treating women like hoes. treat them to a nice diner, shower them with money, dont try to have an intelligent conversation with her. that is what turns a girl on
ipwnorcs 11 months ago
@ipwnorcs I do not agree.My views on what swag "is" are solely based on attitude, style (personal), ability to be captivating at a drop of a hat and of course being somewhat handsome if not "good-looking." does not hurt. If you can captivate a crowd of people or stand out amongs your friends, then you have swag and are most likely the Alpha amongst them.
LeBigMoneyShow 11 months ago
@ipwnorcs view my other channel at "mr vees world" on YT. I cover relationships, swag, good guy vs bad guy and does height matter issues. Be sure to drop me a line on your opinion.
LeBigMoneyShow 11 months ago
I got a better idea... say YES YOU CAN STAY HERE. But at 2:30 AM, GUESS WHAT....throw her ass out in the street!!!!!! You might quote Steve Martin and say "INTO THE MUD SCUM QUEEN!!!'
sieracki001 1 year ago
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Men Have Rights Too.
bathwhoreE 1 year ago
I had something like this happened to me before in the past and it sucks ass, but now it has made me stronger and I don't take shit from any girl, no matter how hot she looks. Thank God for makeup because if it wasn't for makeup most girls would look like crap.
velocity8900 1 year ago
Nice guys finished last and they don't get laid end of story.
therater2008 1 year ago 12
The sexless inkeeper.
felixduhcat89 1 year ago
248 men, 16 women or manginas! :-)
hairbandfan1967 1 year ago
I agree that the guy got screwed over, but it was his fault to let the girl stay with him and his roommate. When he leaves it will be hard for me to not hit on her. It's almost like taking a girl you like to a club on your first date. It's just sounds bad all over.
freshjive2002 1 year ago
OMG!!! Tom Leykis has to be the smartest guy on Earth! This is the first time I've ever listened to him, and he speaks the fukin' truth. I spent waaaay too many years being nice, before I finally smartened up. I wish I had been taken aside by someone like him years ago... it would have saved me lots of heartache. Some of you mention foreign women, I agree: I've traveled out of the country, and know what you're talking about first-hand -- every man should do it at least once in his lifetime.
runawaypark 1 year ago
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It takes honor courage and virtue in order to be a man. If like me you're a real man then I've got bad news for you. We're a dying breed, the last of our kind, with no place or purpose in a world that's happy on it's knees....We are the last Samurai!
All I see walking around are 25yr. old little boys thumping their chests "look I'm a hardass" but would rather run away with their tail between their legs than die for their convictions. They'll put me down in a hole before I forsake my dignity.
King88David 1 year ago
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It takes honor courage and virtue in order to be a man. If like me you're a real man then I've got bad news for you. We're a dying breed, the last of our kind, with no place or purpose in a world that's happy on it's knees....We are the last Samurai!
All I see walking around are 25 year old little boys thumping their chests but would rather run with their tail between their legs than die for their convictions...cowards, all of them. They'll put me down in a hole before I give up my dignity.
King88David 1 year ago
The guy writing this letter is a major pussy."My friend stole this girl I really loved" Waaaaa! What a baby!! hahaha Someone needs to tell this guy that there are always "More fish in the sea",and this girl wasnt worth worrying about.
mrbrianmccarthy 1 year ago
@mrbrianmccarthy There's more out there in the world than you think. 90% of men are betas. The other 10% are getting all the pussy.
darkbyke 1 year ago
@darkbyke I have to strongly disagree...I had heard of that hypothesis, a number of years ago, in which, if there were 10 guys and 10 girls, the 1 guy from the ten, got to knock up the other 9 girls, while the other 9 guys, had to fight over that 1 girl...even in the "Sodom & Gomorrah" climate that we currently live in, that hypothesis, is still, highly implausible...
GemCan78 1 year ago
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For being a nice guy, i hope is why you feel sorry for him @ Foreseer
Sgballer05 1 year ago
Tell your best friend to fuck off. And stop being a nice guy, end of story.
isair81 1 year ago
A co-worker randomly recommended me to listen to this guy....talk. Fascinating. I feel completely sorry for my co-worker.
F0reseer 1 year ago
Wow, this is not shallow at all....it's pretty much dry land. I guess I'm just much much simpler than the lot of you (or just much older than frat boy/sorority girl age). Pretty much all I look for is something true in another person and the fact that they'll actually BE THERE when I need them most (say if I get hit by a car, for example). It's what it boils down to in life. Not these pointless charades. But hey, whatever float your boat.
gariadara 1 year ago
the #1 problem with nice guys, is that, nice guys are under the impression that women don't like to fuck just as much as men or love "dick" just as much as men love pussy. and just like forrest gump-nice guys believe in their minds, that just because they have feelings for a girl, that automatically makes her his girlfriend.
doing favors, spending money, always being available to listen to her problems, will not make a woman want you; trust me- i am a recovered "nice guy", takes 1 to know one.
sasquatch13ja 1 year ago
@sasquatch13ja I know exactlly what you mean, I am/was a "nice guy" but after 2 relationships in the past 2 years and just starting to listen to Tom Leykis, its tought me that when you love a girl (or just want to bang her) you cant just give them what they want. you have to draw the line and make sure she knows where that line is and she better not go past that or else. girls dont want nice pushovers, they want strong men that will stand up to anyone including her. everything is a test.
Argarna 1 year ago
Mr Leykis nails it.
GjVj 1 year ago
Once you know her or even the first date. Ask her can we go to you place. You be the boss. I did this an got to sleep at her place. I had to talk to her sister in law. It was cool worked out got action same night. I met another give few years later did the same thing. I got a no have roomates. She offer me to take her to Hotel. I said no cost too much. She said motel. We went got action.
rob92376 1 year ago
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
emuholic 1 year ago
I think women are insecure to go after mean men. A real women picks a nice guy and brings out the bad boy in him, LOL! A real woman spoils a nice guy and treats him like a king; that's the only way to be happy.
AmusedChild 1 year ago 25
@AmusedChild true...I never thought of it in these terms.. hmmm something to consider
XoJackieLuvsRonniexo 10 months ago
@AmusedChild what you mean is a fantasy woman spoils a nice guy, a real woman uses nice guys. Nice people finish last, and that's how it is, because most people are self centered and couldn't give a damn about whats right or wrong, only what makes themselves feel good. People are animals and women should be treated as such, not like a lady, like an animal who you are trying to get to perform an act of instinct. So don't fantasize they'er more than this, don't cast pearls before swine.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
@AmusedChild fantasy women spoil nice guys, real woman abuse them. The fact of the matter is most people are not good, they are self centered and do whatever makes themselves feel good. Basically they are animals and women should be treated as such, not like a lady, so like an animal you try to get them to preform based on instinct. People are animals, they are not good, this is why nice people finish last and always will, do not cast pearls before swine, take them to slaughter.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
@ATENakaATON I do not agree that animals are "beasts" as you seem to think. As someone pretty knowledgeable about evolution, cooperation is an inherent part of being "selfish." Read The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins - it may surprise you. Absolutist, simplistic dichotomies are not realism - they are caricatures of realism.
AmusedChild 4 months ago
@AmusedChild most people take up a group for the feeling of security, this causes a reactionary state of mind, instinctual, therefore limiting their ability to comprehend what is going on around them. This drive based on emotions and instinct is their doom, it severely limits their ability to think or learn. In order to receive acceptance in the group they follow the group blindly, faithfully, therefore without any sense of realism. The great majority of the people are blind, beasts of burden.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
@ATENakaATON Incidentally, I am a woman. My man is happy and so am I, so take your advice elsewhere.
AmusedChild 4 months ago
@AmusedChild I wonder how many dicks have been in you before his was. I'm sure like most women plenty of bad boys squirted you up and got theirs before the nice guy came along and got what was left over, while of course carrying all the baggage your old partners left behind, and paying the heftiest of bills of all the guy who porked you. So what did he get? If it just so happens he was the one and only, you must understand your situation is a rarity, and my advice stands strong for nearly all.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
@ATENakaATON Well, you just go ahead and think about that! Mull our business over and over in your mind. Obsess over it until your face turns blue. In the meantime, we will enjoy our lives. What a bitter, cynical, sad comment. Don't seek happiness yourself - that might disprove your little hypotheses! By all means, sit and think about living while other people do it. Bye now!
AmusedChild 4 months ago
@AmusedChild yet here you are with me. I have to wonder if what I'm doing is not living then why are you here with me? Perhaps I simply put down the truth and your trying to find away around it, I'm better fit to live my life because I have been thoughtful as to what life is and what my purpose is, while it seems you have been thoughtless. Go on going through life like an animal, it will serve my end that much better.
ATENakaATON 4 months ago
@AmusedChild thats true
TheGlenn9 4 months ago
I say no to women all the time and I still never get laid.
needles1987 1 year ago
@needles1987 at least you're honest. honest males are practically nonexistent.
karlsmith00 1 year ago
@karlsmith00
You're probably the least expert individual when it comes to males, I've ever had the entertaining fortune to witness.
I've seen the attitude you take to males that say something honest, instead of what you want to hear.
Hzqi 1 year ago
this is stupid im sorry it just is.... nice guys dont get laid ??? thats the biggest fucking joke ive ever heard is he insinuating that no one is nice anymore ? because youd be hard pressed to find a middle aged who hasnt been laid hes dumb
FunnyStuff1234123 1 year ago
@FunnyStuff1234123 no the thing is as a nice guy u might get laid maybe and only maybe once per 2 year is this worthy dont u feel u deserve more
mohamed724 1 year ago
@mohamed724 Anyone can get laid all they need is money nice or a jerk dont matter
FunnyStuff1234123 1 year ago
What is a nice guy? Am I a nice guy, if I whip it out and piss on your car?
berlinbrown03 1 year ago
why is this guy off the radio!!!????
FlankerVT 1 year ago
The Truth Hurts
thompsoncorey 1 year ago
Nice guys don't attract nasty women. Nice women are attracted to nice guys, unfortunately there is a shortage of both in this world. I can't believe the disgusting shit this guy is saying. He's obviously NOT a nice guy, no wonder he's so bitter.
CanadiaNecro1 1 year ago
love it!
glova84 1 year ago
Larry never once said that he never gets laid. Tom shouldn't make assumptions like that.
needles1987 1 year ago
dicks go into pussies. In order to get in a pussy you have to be a "dick"
gmccord1970 1 year ago
I hear rapists get laid a lot
Frankenpalin 1 year ago
this dude is spot on but one thing doesn't make sense. if a girl you're tryna bang wants to sleep over your place, why would you stop her? obviously if the dude is a pussy then nothing would happen but letting her sleep over your place seems like a big step in the right direction for anyone, whether they have no game or not
S1LENTx1 1 year ago
this guys a fucking genius
rhcprxbandits 1 year ago
What am I suposed to do about a guy who actually listens to all this advice?
lilsweeti13 1 year ago
@lilsweeti13 fuck him, because that's what you are going to do anyway.
n0s1r 1 year ago
Just to get attention. It's amazing, and then listen to how much she "cares" about everything he says and laughs at every crack, it's a trip. Never allow yourself to get cockblocked, when you see it begin, dump the bitch on his hands. No rides with you, don't pay for shit, if she can't make it home, "suck my cock or you're walking"
N1k1mon 1 year ago
Nothing pisses me off more than being around a woman who i am interested in but likes a friend of mine or someone we both know. They always make the little remarks or act all sheepish when you catch them looking at the guy. Wanna see how cunning bitches are? Watch their every move without denial in your mind when you know or think they like someone around you, they ALWAY make sure they are getting noticed by the guy and make up the stupidest shit...
N1k1mon 1 year ago
God dam it, this guy is so right. I was a nice guy and gosh, I never got laid. In fact, the girl I was so infatuated with, she slept with my best friend. I wanted to die. Now, if I want to get laid, I have to pay for, which is not the same.
This guy, Tom, speaks the NAKED truth.
ntoiyt 1 year ago
@ntoiyt Your best friend wasn't a real friend.
needles1987 1 year ago
my fucking childhood friend just got with my x and it pisses me off even though i dont have feelings for the bitch anymore what do you guys think?
FatalBlueFlame 1 year ago
Everyone of of you fucktards on here are a bunch of sexist douche bags. It really ashamed me to see your poor choices in women that has affected your overall view of women in gernal! You guys seem to go for the absent father/broke home girls that have been constant abuse from all parts of life. But what can I can I say, alot of you are low life douchebags who can't even attract a decent ewomen into your life. It's not the woman's fault entirely for your failed relationships, it's you too!!
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
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Guys, do not Listen to this dude. Tom Leykis has no more credibility than A FIRST GRADER . First of all TOM LEYKIS HAS BEEN DIVORCED FOUR TIMES, HAS NO CHILDREN AND IS AN ATHEIST, YOU MEAN TO TELL ME THAT THIS SLIM BAG HAS CREDIBILITY WITH WOMEN WHEN HE HAS MORE THAN TWO FAILED MARRIAGES? It's wise taking advice from people who live happy lives with their companions than some fat atheist fuck who can't even have one decent marriage, by the way he's single and doesnt have a girlfriend! LOSER!
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
What the fuck does being atheist have to fo with anything? You Imperialist prick.
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37 everything! Do you realize Atheism has killed more people through out history more than any other religious people? Atheism gave rise to communism,poverty,abortion, and about 150 million + due to your ignorant beliefs!
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
Let's see, the Crusades, the Arab-Israel War, the constant wars in Africa, the domination of the Catholic Church over Europe and the oppression of millions for 700 years.
And by the way, you have no idea what Communism is due to that little ignorant statement. If anyone is ignorant, it is you. Have you ever read any Marx? And not just been brainwashed by the Imperialist dogmatic principals that tell you to be a quiet little sheep and not question order?
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37 Those still have not surpassed the killers of Joseph stalin, Mao, and pol pot! They have caused 250 million deaths! Youre communist atheist beliefs encourage broken families,abortion, laziness and Godlessness in nations!
I know what Communism is, it's a Godless secular humanist religion which encourages Laziness and deviancy.
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
Well, you're too far gone. Pity.
Sad what religion can do to a once sane individual, really sad.
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37 it's sad how atheism can make someone such a godless douchebag! You need jesus buddy or some deity to set you right!
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
You're truly an idiot. People like you are why Humanity will never progress.
I bet if the concept of God never came fourth, Humanity would've landed on the Moon centuries ago.
You sound like a person who calls for Theocracy. Take a good look at Iran.
And I respectfully ask for you to stop shoving your religion down other's throats.
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37 This western civilization you take for granted for was constructed by Christian influence, without the Morality and standards from God the food, drink, Housing and civilization you live in will be worse than that of a 3rd world country. Hell even the Muslims that all you hate invented mathematics and sciences that we used today to get to the moon!
Take a look at China and North Korea or Russia back in the cold war, these look worse than the so called "Godly" nations.
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
So? You honestly think you're going to change how I think? Take your fascism somewhere else.
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37
And by the way, I am taking a look at China; they are going to surpass the United States as a superpower very soon.
Ninox37 1 year ago
@Ninox37 maybe economically due to high demand of Cheap labor. But doesnt change the fact it's a dirty 3 world country full of godlessness and poverty. china may be a growing world play economically but military wise, thats just asking for world war 3.
GPCJordanDowns 1 year ago
@GPCJordanDowns
Already, the combined forces of the European Union can overshadow the United States.
Sweden - about 80% atheist.
Uganda - about 83% Christian
Coincidence?
Ninox37 1 year ago
I miss Tom!
EliteDoomer 1 year ago
@karlsmith00-It's amerikan women like yourself why men don't want to fuck with these tramp bitches here in this amerikan society!! You sound like A typical amerikan male bashing feminist!!
1blackmass 1 year ago
pure game by leykis!
basketballjones 1 year ago
A boy needs a man around to show him how to be a man, a woman can't do it.
They have taken the importants out of have a man in the home, and alot of women belived they could do it on their own.
But what they have done is raised a bunch of sissy.
startec25 1 year ago 4
@startec25 You have to understand, that America is nothing more than a corporation...it is not a nation, because in my definition, a nation is an independent state, with large numbers of people of the same ethnic group, religion, customs, etc...America has never been that, and even more so, in the current age, where consumerism and fear, and ignorance, has run rampant...in fact, the "Pledge of Allegiance" is no longer sung in most schools...
GemCan78 1 year ago 15
@GemCan78 That's correct and the president is nothing more than the CEO of the Corporation of the United States. That's exactly how the US has been run almost from the beginning.
JediMasterRich 1 year ago
@GemCan78 You sound Anti-American.These are not Positive comments about America.Do you hate America?
bathwhoreE 1 year ago
@bathwhoreE Actually, I'm very disgusted, with the way that morals have gone down the toilet, in America, ever since the late 1960's...with the breakdown of the nuclear family structure in America, with the massive spike in single-parent homes, with the celebration of bad behaviour, with the celebration and encouragement of selfishness and self-centered behaviour...it sickens me, it really does...no wonder the relationship prospects of millions of people, are very bad...
GemCan78 1 year ago 2
@GemCan78 Very Cool.I agree with everything you just said.
bathwhoreE 1 year ago
@bathwhoreE I appreciate it...I figured that you would agree with my sentiments...I mean, most people, nowadays, forget that, America is at the very center of Western Civilization...they are totally lost to the fact that, the "Founding Fathers" were students of history, scientists, philosophers, cartographers, landowners, family men and aristocrats...we are a Christian nation, unlike what the current President says...and we're running away from our original principles, like the plague...
GemCan78 1 year ago
@bathwhoreE The problem is, that, most people, male and female alike, are totally confused in their particular gender roles...this shit started in the late 1960's...Liberal freakazoids, exercised a total monopoly over American society, telling untold millions how to live their lives, and the fools, blindly followed...the five pillars of Western Civilization, that is, Parents, Teachers, Clergy, Law Enforcement, and the Military, have all been torn down, because of Liberalism...
GemCan78 1 year ago
@startec25 A man's upbringing has nothing to do with his masculinity. The reason men are more feminine nowadays is because there's now estrogen in our water supply.
needles1987 1 year ago
@needles1987 How a boy is raised will determine the type of man he will be, a woman can't teach a boy to be a man, a child is like a blank paper, what he see most he will put on the sheet.
Estrogen in the water is not a big factor, men natrually have small levels of estrogen in their bodys, just like womem have small levels of testostorene in their body, most black men don't have a problem bulding muscle mass, which means their still producing enough testostorene.
startec25 1 year ago
@startec25 I can honestly say that some of my friends who grew up with single moms are manlier than I am. It's not upbringing, it's hormones.
needles1987 1 year ago
@startec25 If you need someone to teach you to be a man, then you probably aren't much of a man to begin with.
needles1987 1 year ago
@needles1987 I don't need someone to teach me to be a a man, because am already a man, but when I was a boy I needed someone to teach me, if you think a boy can teach himself to be a man, or a woman can do it, then your living on another planet.
Kids learn from what they see, when a boy see his dad treat his mother with love and respect, that is life lesson number 1
dad going out to work everyday, life lesson number 2
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needles1987 1 year ago
@needles1987 It's called rite of passage, for thousand of years men have taught their sons to hunt, because thats is what is required of men,
Do you think tiger woods will be there without his dad, and lewis hamilton.
startec25 1 year ago
@startec25 I'm a man and I grew up with a dad. My dad didn't teach me shit.
needles1987 1 year ago
@startec25 good one! using tiger woods as an example of success because of his father. his father fucked around on his wife too, he sure taught him a great lesson.
fucking moron. do you males think AT ALL before you say or write something? then we wonder why the world is so fucked up.
karlsmith00 1 year ago
@needles1987 The reason men are more feminine now is because the media and feminazis have convinced them it will get them laid.
n0s1r 1 year ago 2
@n0s1r No, it's hormones. And it actually has gotten them laid.
needles1987 1 year ago
Ever since the late 1960's, with the rise of Feminism and White Male bashing, there has been a steep climb in the nubmer of single parent homes in America...nowadays, most people, guys and girls alike, want a "fuck buddy"...they don't actively seek out a person who will be a potential "parent" to their children...that's why this society, and the Western World at large, is falling apart, and on the verge of serious collapse...you don't see this breakdown in the Muslim World...
GemCan78 1 year ago 5
@GemCan78 your right the main problem is the western women have failed at being women, and now they want to act like a men,
And alot of men have failed at being men, and now want to act like women.
startec25 1 year ago 21
Yeha in the muslim world you can have 4 wives and beat them all, hmmm so much better, NOT...losers
Ogre2011 1 year ago
@Ogre2011 That would be pretty cool.
n0s1r 1 year ago
@GemCan78 yeah because they can have 4 wives! lol
iolfido 1 year ago
@iolfido Just look at the growing numbers of young children who are being raised in single parent homes...just watch the daily talk shows, like Steve Wilkos, and Maury Povich, and you'll see the crux of all the problem that young teenagers have, is lack of a stable father in the home...a stable home, where both biological parents are present, and G-d fearing, and moralistic, and drug free, is an exception, rather than the norm...
GemCan78 1 year ago
@GemCan78 Glad to see I'm not the only one who sees this. Add this to the fact the rising Superpowers of China, and India compounded with the bad economy. Like the saying goes most empires crumbled from within.
bishop102 1 year ago
dick
adeadlyn3rotoxin11 1 year ago
This is why I call Tom Leykis my "Father".
I wish my dad had the balls to tell me this!!
papeluso 1 year ago
I would never call Tom Leykis my "Father." I have my own father.
needles1987 1 year ago
@papeluso same, would have saved me a lot of heartache and money. Im gonna tell my kid this for sure.
ALshow1989 1 year ago
Hell yeah. I'd expect him to. If she's fuckin' other guys that's not the chick I wanna be with. That simple. He's doing me a favor that way. Anyone who see's otherwise is a whiny bitch and is just butthurt because they can't get laid, JUST LIKE THE GUY WHO SENT TOM LEYKIS THAT LETTER!
BadBillboard 1 year ago
I would never sleep with a girl my best friend likes. No matter how hot she is, I would not do it.
needles1987 1 year ago 5
@needles1987 Pffft I would, but I don't hang out with little bitches who care about that shit.
BadBillboard 1 year ago
Do you think your best friend would sleep with a girl you like if he was given the chance?
needles1987 1 year ago
that makes no sense
if it was his house why didnt he say you can sleep in my room or get out, why did he let her sleep in his friends room
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago
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jerrijenkins333 1 year ago
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needles1987 2 years ago
So true
DarylWashingtonV4 2 years ago
That's 'cause nice guys are like bank accounts rolled-up in a doormat: wipe your feet on your way in, and get the money on your way out.
maugustyniak 2 years ago
A few years ago, some dude I knew took a battered chick into his house for 3 months...not once did she give him any pussy, he must have asked her 50X, and every time she said no...whereas, I never let her into my house, and I fucked her twice...Tom Leykis is right, his formula is impeccable, nice guys don't get laid...
Kingbub09 2 years ago