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  • In the final of this video i´ve cried.

    Well,actually the history of my dad its not very diferentto the history of Deryck´s fathet.My dad did care about me but he was very bad to my mom.And one day he had a dinner with his friends and when he was coming home he had a car accident and died.I was just 3 year´s old.I was just a little baby :(

    I`M WITH YOU DERYCK;I`M YOUR Nº1 FAN : )

  • the best song they have done and the best vid for it xD

  • really hurts me, for 17 years my parents and relatives hid the truth about me, I am only adopted I dont know who my real parents are they left me since I was a baby.I am still thankful to my parents now even tho they're rude sometimes :|

  • :/

  • I am very thankful that both of my parents are still alive, I would be broken if something happened to one of them.

  • this song makes me think of my father who never bothered to be my dad. i was adopted, and i know my birth mother very well. i don't know who my father is. i've never met him in my life. it honestly wouldn't bother me if i never met him, but i would really like to. i'd like to know if he actually cared, let alone know that i'm his firstborn child. hey Kenny, if you actually know that i'm alive, please say something somehow. i'll be here waiting for any form of contact from you...

  • this just... broke me :c

  • so much depressing comments. clearly shows sum41's sad songs get to you.

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  • my dad left when i was three i havent seen him since i was five and i have a mother who is a bitch so long story short even thought he is a drug addict i still wish i lived with him because maby then i would die sooner cause then i will be a complete unknown

  • @slipknot4694 It must be horrible but please don't ever wish you were dead sooner. Live life knowing that one day you will do something that will make you happy and show you how glad you should be that you are alive. And one day you can prove to everyone that despite at one point you hated life, you persevered and you are better for it(:

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  • My dad remains a complete unknown.

  • i was given up for adoption. I hardly know my birth mother, and I may never know my birth dad. this song goes exactly with my thoughts on my dad.

  • did you notice that ad before the song where the people just got done having sex? why would they put that on a song about dads leaving?..smh

  • my mom is evil. and i don't live with my dad because me evil biological "mother" has custody of me. but my dad tries to be a daqd even though he lives in another state.

  • Fathers no name you deserve....

  • If i get 50 thumbs up

    I will duck tape myself to the wall.

  • 6 people dont know what its like

  • dad left me and my mom, step dad was an abuser. fuck both of you.

  • i don't have a mum but that's 'cause of my dad :(

  • I know my dad, but I really doubt he cares at all. Sometimes I wish that I never knew him, but he is my dad. And i am lucky to have him...

    To everyone else, you're so strong. <3

  • @AstheniaAlways your right on the part that the commenting part of youtube is not a therapist and people get like are pretty bad... but some are here to tell what happened to them even if its 'only youtube' .. this is like a way to talk if we can say like that..

  • my dad is my neighbor but when i was 7 or 8 he left me and my parents were divorced so at the time i couldnt live with any of my parents not even now we lost all the good times right now im 13 but i still feel like i was left cause he never really raised me.

  • Youtube commenting section is not a fucking therapist, quit whining and trying to get likes. It is truly quite pathetic. 

  • @AstheniaAlways whats wrong with you those people are in pain dont be such a jurk and let them express themselves how they want to if you would feel that pain you wouldnt said what you did. for all the other people im really really sorry about your stories be strong and always remember death is a part of the life and you have to move on even when its hard. and if its help you to deal with it keep comenting as much as you want and talk about it with other people it is always helping

  • Dear Father...Thanks for fucking me over. But maybe like Deryck says, "All our truth should be left alone." Thanks dad.

  • message to anyone in the boston area i will help u if ur stepdad is an awful person contact me and for a small fee i will kill him

  • This song just makes me cry:'( and iMiss my dad, it just sukks living a hell with a mom just making you miserable all the time!!!

  • my dad died 5 years ago when i was 11. Im glad me and him fixed things before he left me <3. I love him and I hope hes still watching over me while I graduate and get married <3

  • I guess I'm lucky because I still know my dad, but considering all the pain he caused me and my family (especially my mom), I can never really consider him as someone who would ever look after me. I'm so lucky to have a mom that's so loving and strong, because I don't think anyone could have raised us better. My dad is a stranger I've known my whole life and my mom has been the guiding hand steering me through all the hard times. I love you mom.

  • No joke, how can ANYONE dislike this video??

    Be thankful if you have loving and caring parents...

    I am.

    Im sorry for all of you that have 1 parent or something happened...

    I hope mine and your parents go fast and painless when the time comes... <3

  • My dad's an asshole. Left when i was 5, didn't hear from him for 8 years, than contacted me again. Disappointed me again. My former step dad tried to rape me when i was 10. Now i'm gonna be 15. I think i'm still fucked up.

  • @Fungaaaaah i feel for you man thats horrible :(

  • my dad left me as a child and said he regrets having me cus im a fuck up, well thank you mom for sticking with me through everything and your my world. R.I.P. caring for daddy(:

  • とてもいい曲です

    何回も聞き直してしまう

  • i was raised by my father

    my mother left before i was born

  • @MisterMaker2point0

    so your dad gave birth to you? :S

  • @MisterMaker2point0 hahahaahhaha what the heck that makes no sense

  • @MisterMaker2point0

    LOL wtf

  • sum 41 no matter whatever songs they make it the

    best

  • I love my Dad.

  • my dad left when i was born. ive become bitter towards him and my stepdad because of it.

  • @Buffy5024 yea same thing for me as well. however i still look forward to the day i see my dad

  • Soo manyy people don't give the value of having a father ! Thank god I have a father and I love him ! The human only give value to the things when they left !

  • my dad went to iraq when i was 12. he never came back now im 14 and dont know what to think. Hence the name SGT.betts RIP dad

  • my best friend anthony lost his dad when he was a baby. he tells me every day its hell with no dad and he cries himself to sleep sometimes. he also said its made him the closest anyone can be to their mother.

  • my dad died when i was 7 years old im 19 now and it still hurts sometimes...

  • my dad died when i was 7 years old im 19 now and it still suck

  • My dad left when I was born... I love that I at least have a mother to be there for me... I still love my dad <3

  • I'm glad my dad left, coz' he is a prick.

  • one of the greatest man in the world and he earned it without a father to help him. thats motavation

  • 2 weeks ago my father died . i miss him so damn much, but i know he's better there, and he'll always watch over us..

    i miss you so much daddy!

    24/03/2011 (l) RIP

  • i don;t kno if u care but when i say my goodbye. regret wat and why u had concieved me.

  • I know my dad but he really ignores me,he doesn't see me as an individual I'm 19 now once my mom and dad divorced,they married again.Marrying again was their biggest mistake.

  • this song speaks about God or someones father???

  • @MrTzwrtzhs someones father (the singer's father in this case)

  • @MrTzwrtzhs Lol it says in title "Dear Father" Its talkin about some ones father not god :)

  • @MrTzwrtzhs the singer, Deryck Whibley, was born toa teen mother, and his father left him and he has no idea where he is or who he is.

  • =' ( my dad left when i was 7. he use to beat my mom me my brother and twin sister. i bloked everything out when i was younger cause i cant seem to remember much. the only thing i have is a old home video from 1994 and even then he sounded and looked like a complete ass this song speaks the truth in soo many ways

  • Description says 'Lyrics and Prictures' xD

  • this makes me remember all the times i had with my dad but he's gone, when i listen to this song i cry and smile knowing he looking after me even when he's gone

    i love you

  • @MiCk51295 my sperm donner got arrested and abused me i hate you walter, die

  • Downer..

    :/

    I still Love My Dad.

  • it really blows have only a mom but im lucky and i have a loving mom to make up for not having a dad :/

  • @daveyboy131 same here!!

  • i walking here without my father and i dont care because i just hate that motherfucker!!

    I have never seen him, never knew him..

  • wtf why cant find a music vid to this song?

  • @xIr8drage There's no Music Video to the song O.o

  • @MiCk51295 lol owned

  • it's kinda funny, how i hate him so much and i try to forget him, yet my favorite songs are always dedicated to bitches just like him.

    damn it.

  • my dad loves me.

  • @metsfan31457 dick move...

  • If His father came back i think Deryk would throw a his guitar at him.

  • @MiCk51295 I know what you mean

  • song telceL :D

  • whos the dumbass who made the video? so many wrong lyrics!

  • he broke his spine and his neck and the worst thing is that i saw it.

  • my father died in a car accident cuz he didnt had his seatbelt on -.-

    i was in the backseat on the right side with my seatbelt but the car came from the left side.

    just sharing my story.

    and yes he was a little drunk to drunk to drive.

  • my dad was an alcoholic who beat my mom me and my sister and then walked out when I was five and my mom blames me because she was stupid enough to name me after then son of a bitch just felt like sharing

  • @Gregorious2000 its not your fault man its your dads a real man wouldnt hit a woman no matter what

  • havnt seen my dad since he passed in 03. T_T love u dad <3

  • for those people whoes dad left them dont stress over him. he obviously was to much of a pussy to stay to help you and your mother why would a real man just abondan his kid and girlfriend/wife like that and for those people whoes dad did leave them i feel you for you also i coudn't tell you how much that would suck i love my parents no matter what but no everythings bad is it things all ways better trust me guys. :)

  • I never knew mine He left when i was 1 and a half never want to see him

  • my dad left when i was 8 because of drugs.....he died december 31st 2010(past new years)

    2 days before my 16th birthday.... i still love you dad <3

  • I have a father with those kind of issues right now. I havent talked him in close to a year due to him being abusive with my mom, but the idea of him leaving with world is still hard to think of. If I could hug you like the best friend to have I honestly would. Much love friend, weather you want it or not.

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  • @clumZx3 im vary sorry to hear that

  • @clumZx3 So your dad left you because he was a filthy drug addict, and chose to feed his addiction over his family. He left, fucked you over, and now he's dead. You still love him? Lol.

  • @BLINKD69

    it doesn't matter what he did, he is your father, and that wil never change . <3

  • @vainqueuriloveyouu dude,,, maybe he remains ur father, but i actually dont like my own father for what he did... the things that fathers do.. DO have influence on their children, wether they are a father or not,

  • @timo3582

    My father also died almost 2 months ago. you can better love him, believe me. You'll know what you miss when he isn't there anymore...

  • @clumZx3 i hate it when people write this shit on here noone gives a fuck take that shit to church if you cant hold it in im expecting wonderful hate filled replies from people this should be fun

  • @clumZx3 that sucks. my dad died 3 days before on the same year

  • @SuperBrightside imm sorry to hearr thatt

  • @clumZx3 at least you knew your dad and you knew where he was. i have only seen my dad once when i was 5 and i dont knowif hes in jail or 6ft under. sorry for your loss

  • @gwehabana aw im so sorry to hear that <3

  • @clumZx3 well like they say its a name with a face that is disappearing as the days go by 

  • @clumZx3 Sorry to know..My sympathy with you....

  • @clumZx3 my dad left when i was 7 or 8, my brother was 2, he left because of drugs. he went on rehab, bur he came back last year, i hate him, i don't know why i can't love him.

  • @antobennington aw im sorry about that :( i was like that, but deep down im sure you still love him

  • @MiCk51295

    hey dude calm down my dad is a jobless bum about 1000 miles away and i cant possibly understand what your going through but if it helps jesus loves you :)

  • Oh, and the best part, is when he told my step sister i committed suicide a few year's ago. heh

  • Aint seen my dad in 17 years, this song is interesting soo yeah ^_^

  • I have my Adopted Parents...and then my soon to meet Biological Mom...no Biological Father...I was an 'unwanted' child in my opinion. I think I still am...My own Bio Mom's fam doesn't know about me...I plan to change that soon :)

  • man this song is so sad especially the pics at the end made me cry

  • My dad dumped my mom when I was young. Now im older and the only reason why he is in my life no is because he doesn't want to pay child support.

  • ..I'm getting used to knowing your

    just a name, without a face.

    So powerful

  • It's from the greatest suffering i've seen the greatest beauty born... Take this song for example. If everyone had a perfect happy life, this piece of beautiful expression wouldnt have never existed... of course, I wouldnt wish a broken family on anyone.. but, it's never all bad, is it?

  • @WxIxZEGUY it's always bad...one way or another.

  • It's from the greatest suffering i've seen the greatest beauty born... Take this song for example. If everyone had a perfect happy life, this piece of beautiful expression wouldnt haveever existed... of course, I wouldnt wish a broken family on anyone.. but, it's never all bad, is it?

  • @osmanabdi14 that sucks so much i wouldnt know what to without my mom and dad i love them so much but just keep your head up man things will always get better no matter what

  • yuhh my dad died when i was only 15 and im almost 18 so many people are lucky to just even have one

  • i wonder what happened to punk rock, its a forgotten legacy.....damn shame

  • all respects out to these people that have lost there parents or close 1ns

  • This song makes me so sad... my dad died two years ago this October in a car crash. I'm 14 an he left when i was 2 so I never got to really meet him. I just wanted to know him and see if he wasn't really the bad guy everyone said he was. I wish he hadn't died in that crash, plus the life of his new girlfriend was taken in the crash also. I love this song and Emotionless by Good Charlotte, they help me when I think of him. RIP Donovan Dolph

  • my dad dispeard almost 2 years ago :/ i miss him...

  • @osmanabdi14 omg D:

  • This song is especially sad for me. When i was about 5, my father left my family for a woman besides my mother, not caring what would happen to us. This, along with "Rise Against - From Heads Unworthy" are the two saddest songs to me. both songs bring me to tears every time i watch them. "You're out there somewhere, i don't know if you care. At all. It seems that you don't."

    FUCK YOU, DAD.

  • it sucks not knowing one of ur parents u dont know if u will ever see them or if the care about u it absoulutly sucks

  • @BlackHawkDown875

    That's exactly how Deryck feels. His dad ditched his mom before he could meet him.

  • oh..make me cry when i heard this song.. : (

  • haha... its funny, i know my dad... but i dont really know him...

    we both hide the truth from eachother, but its his fault for abandoning me for 10 years... hes just a face without a soul :)

  • and to this day,the one and only

    you'd remain a complete

    unknow

  • sum 41 ftw.

  • @flamingmachete thats rly heartless

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  • @blodeoner That's not heartless. Heartless is telling your only son that he doesn't have a father and him finding out on his own that he does, then he spends every night of his life in mental agony and being unable to sleep because he has no clue who he is.

  • what the hell is with all of the comments of people complaining about their parents if they know them?! at least you know them and don't have to spend year after fucking year of the mental agony of not knowing them! unless you don't know one or both of your parents then GROW THE FUCK UP! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT! YOU DON'T SPEND YEAR AFTER FUCKING YEAR WONDERING WHO THE HELL THEY ARE OR WHERE THEY LIVE! IF YOU KNOW AND LIVE WITH BOTH YOUR PARENTS AND DON'T LIKE THEM THEN DEAL WITH IT!!

  • @flamingmachete There are all sorts of pain and it takes compassion to understand that. Reach out beyond yourself for goodness sakes. Obviously you've been through something tough, but that's not the only event that can hurt someone. Being constantly criticized, ignored, having been left behind, having huge expectations you can't live up to, no love or understanding, unfair strictness... there is no comparison. I'm sorry for your situation, but extend some empathy to others in pain, please.

  • @Mousie643 I've been through both.I don't know my dad and my mom is an over strict bitch that's never been there for me.She's gone for days at a time sometimes and when she is here she's constantly putting down and ignoring me.She also married a man that did nothing but make my life pure hell.I have sympathy for others, more than many people do, but I've been through more than enough crap for 100 lifetimes. I just don't like that some of these comments are whining more than anything else.

  • @flamingmachete Don't say that about anyone. People that know both their parents can go through a lot of stuff with them. Just because you don't know one or both of your parents, its doesn't mean that you can put down people that have both of their parents in their life. Yes, we all take things for granted and sometimes we take our parents for granted but sometimes people have a good reason not to like their parents. If you don't know their situation, don't criticize them. Just saying,

  • @amandariotTWLOHA i'm not criticizing anyone. everyone that has responded to me has missed my point. i understand the crap people can go through with their parents but i'm trying to make the point that the people that are taking the fact that they know their parents for granted shouldnt complain when it could be so much worse. if you don't understand what i'm trying to say then you shouldn't say a damn word

  • this song is weird to me, i mean i grew up listenin to sum 41 old stuff back when i was in school, im 22 now, and i never met my father, i've always been cool with it, cuz i had an excellent mother but this song is kinda depressive about it

  • i always listen to this music, because my father leave me when i was still a baby, and when i was 12 i started to search him, and i know that 3 days before i start searchin him, he was dead. :/

  • i know my dad,,and ya know he doesnt even know me,,he's ben gone since i was 8 and my siter was 2 months old,,thanks to the bitches who we trusted isnt his fault but i blame him cause he put us in that situations

  • To bad my Dad hates me to much to even call me by my name anymore. Fuck you, I don't need you in my life.

  • Fuck you, you fucking asshole!! I'm always going to be twice the man you'll ever be!!! If any one else feels this way- Thumb up!

  • im getting used to knowing you're just a NAME without a face

  • this song is about derycks father who left before he was born. derycks basically saying: fuck you dad i hope i never meet you.

  • leave it up to sum 41 to make a great song about not having a father and not being stupid about making it. such a good band. emotionless by good charlotte was pathetic, because the first lyrics contradicted the rest of the song.

  • :'( so touching

  • if justin bieber or lady gaga sing this song, this box for views would too small

  • @64324037 damn sum 41 is way better than those 2 combined ....

  • @Shadowslicer13 i know , but i talking about their popularity , and that is relly sad .. this band is wayyyy better. agree ! ;)

  • @64324037 hmm yeah then i definatly agree xp

  • my dads a complete wanker...he doesnt care at all, im fed up with the constant arguing and having a go at me for no reason..i cant do anything without him having to critisise it..and if its good i get nothing for it

    so i wish you weren't in my life cause i have no idea whether you actually give a crap or not

  • I have a father who always calls me names,i feel that he doesnt like or love me,but knowing how some of you dont have fathers is sad,but i have to say that i atleast havea father who supports his family and doesnt cheat,good enough for me.

  • Well, never got to know my real father... The only one that has really been there for me for all of my life is my mom. So, I used to think I have no father at all...

    The sad thing is that I hate him without knowing him, as all I know is that he went on drugs and him and my mom got separated. He basically left her alone and turned his back on her doing so, WITH A LITTLE KID TO GROW WITHOUT A FATHER. So I swore that I'd never become like him, no matter what...

  • I hate both,Mom and Dad.Dad is such a childish person,who often leaves us and let us with the problems alone.He makes me crying every time he leaves us.And Mom is such a horrible person,who behaves like a president of russia........and....she doesn´t respect my wishes .....and she often says that i was a accident and such things...it´s terrible.......

    But

    That´s a great vid.Like it....

  • I could cry when I read your stories,

    But anyway, I love my father <3

    the song is great:)

    Sum41 is great

  • gr8 song, reminds me of my own dad. oh well, i suppose alot of fathers suck. drop dead dad,,,

  • lol almost forgot not only do i live my sister and her awesome fiance i also live w/my neice :)

  • so wat if ur dad left u? thats no excuse to listen to an EPIC song so stfu and listen and yes i have the same parent thing in fact its both parents i live with my sis and her fiance :) and i gotta its a lot better living w/my mom has drugs over me again and again and also better having to wonder wtf iz dad doin iz he still alive? iz he still on meth?

  • Even though you regected me, i will always love you Dad. I miss you.

  • my mom is the only one who has been there for me in all my 15 years since i was born.

    my poem to my father that is so far away and he probably doesnt want anything to do with me anymore:

    when i feel sad, i need someone to comfort me. When I feel scared, i need to someone to tell me "its alright im here". When i feel lonely, i need someones hand to grab onto. But thought you werent there through all those times, I still love you, dad

    Thank god i have my mom by my side.

  • @AngelS773 we share the same story bro, im sorry

  • hey hows that science project going Peter???....... fuck you dad.

  • Fuck you "dad", i hate you.

  • i replace the word father with mother cuz in this sitution this is how i feel about my mom

  • i lost mine last year and im glad to have him for 15 years

    and i feel sorry for all the guys who dont even meet their father

  • lol youtube therapy session FTL

  • its always the damn father that fucks up in a family im not saying i wish my mom the made the mistake or fucked up its just always the father kids need their fathers and mothers not just their mothers

  • i really know how it feels to have an asshole for a dad. and it scares me when i think that i came from him and i have part of him in me forever. but it dosent matter, hes there and im here. fuck the past, live for the future

  • happy fathers day!

  • @182brm lol

  • i hate it when you get people saying ow i hate my parents i wish i never new them they wouldnt last a week without wondering who they were cause it can kill you wanting to no why they didnt want anything to do with thier kids and id like to say:

    fuck every dad and mom out there who were cowards and anbanded their kids but lest you should us how not to act like when we have children of our own cause we will no wat it feels like to be abandoned and want to protect the kids with out lives so FuckU

  • man i feel sorry for all these people commenting.... they all came from a broken home. =/

  • ich wüsste nicht was ich ohne meinen vater machen sollte. er hat zwar schon oft scheiße gebaut aber ich liebe ihn so sehr. er hilft mir immer da ich ein ziemlich angespanntes verhältnis zu meiner mutter habe.

    so dad ? i love u