I completely agree with dating more than one person...it can become too time consuming to waste large chunks of time on Men that are not committing to you.
Do a video on how you and your hubby met! Better yet do the husband tag that was going arond a while ago! I wanna see him. I am 31 and I got married at 22 and divorced with no children at 26. You are right...your 20's is a time when you should explore..not commit..I had no idea how a marriage work!
Girl you do not look like you are in your 30's. I thought you were 24 at least! Anyway...you give good advice! I've been watching all your videos tonight!
30 isn't old to other women, but it is old to men...men are programmed to want the most reproductively healthy mate, and being past 30 doesn't help this and its even scienifically proven. Doctors even warn women about how much your risks increase with childbearing after 30. the main problem is black women fucking up their prime years with thugs.
@theherdmentality Actually the decrease is at 35 not 30. You statement is inaccurate and obviously you have an issue with black women. This is YOUR opinion! You can think what you want but This is MY CHANNEL and I can say what I want so if you don't like what I say then get off of it.
@anaturalbeauty3 Actually he's right. What matters is what men think of 30, not what women think. There is no persuading a guy to rethink his view of what is old and what is not. Guys think 30 is old.
@Choose1Life Not the guys I know. I don't know what part of the country you are living at or who you are meeting but there are alot of men out here who don't care about that. It's about how you maintain yourself. I know plenty of women pass their 30's who are dating men of all ages. So don't fall into that belief because if you believe that then I will be true to you. but from what I've seen it's just not true.
@anaturalbeauty3 You're completely right. In general, I don't think people should really marry before the age of 32. By then, you've defined yourself as a person, done the stuff you want, and know what you want in life. 30 is not old at all and the pool of guys is still plentiful. After 35 for a woman, I find that it does get a bit difficult...although if the woman looks younger, that definitely helps.
Enjoyed the information you shared in this video. I never considered the roster system, or seeing multiple guys in the dating stage. You are right trying to commit too soon, is a no no, especially if he isn't talking committment. How did you and your husband meet? I love hearing 'how we met stories'.
I agree with you. I think that you should date more than one person at a time. This is how you get to know people....expand your horizons...date people of different cultures and races.
it is true the men i have come across DO NOT DO NOT appreciate women who want to get to know them before sex it f'ed up but I say keep pushin cuz you will find a man that respects your wishes
@swtypiii Good Question! I became exclusive when he leave me a card and told me that he wants me to be his one and only and then he explained in detail why he wants me to be his one and only. This is just one of the things he did for me. He basically went out his way to be with me or do things for me without me asking.
I so agree!!! I definitely continue to date until we become "exclusive." Even then I have been known to go on the odd date while in a relationship... but nothing more! I think it's just being smart and keeping your options open.
I completely agree with dating more than one person...it can become too time consuming to waste large chunks of time on Men that are not committing to you.
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
Men pursue not chase
nomyaw 4 months ago
Do a video on how you and your hubby met! Better yet do the husband tag that was going arond a while ago! I wanna see him. I am 31 and I got married at 22 and divorced with no children at 26. You are right...your 20's is a time when you should explore..not commit..I had no idea how a marriage work!
MsSexyDiva4Lyfe 5 months ago
@MsSexyDiva4Lyfe I can do a video on how we met but due to the nature of his job he can't be on video.
anaturalbeauty3 5 months ago
Girl you do not look like you are in your 30's. I thought you were 24 at least! Anyway...you give good advice! I've been watching all your videos tonight!
MsSexyDiva4Lyfe 5 months ago in playlist More videos from anaturalbeauty3
@MsSexyDiva4Lyfe LOL. Thank you!
anaturalbeauty3 5 months ago
30 isn't old to other women, but it is old to men...men are programmed to want the most reproductively healthy mate, and being past 30 doesn't help this and its even scienifically proven. Doctors even warn women about how much your risks increase with childbearing after 30. the main problem is black women fucking up their prime years with thugs.
theherdmentality 9 months ago
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DIJV79 9 months ago
@theherdmentality Actually the decrease is at 35 not 30. You statement is inaccurate and obviously you have an issue with black women. This is YOUR opinion! You can think what you want but This is MY CHANNEL and I can say what I want so if you don't like what I say then get off of it.
anaturalbeauty3 9 months ago
@anaturalbeauty3 Actually he's right. What matters is what men think of 30, not what women think. There is no persuading a guy to rethink his view of what is old and what is not. Guys think 30 is old.
Choose1Life 8 months ago
@Choose1Life Not the guys I know. I don't know what part of the country you are living at or who you are meeting but there are alot of men out here who don't care about that. It's about how you maintain yourself. I know plenty of women pass their 30's who are dating men of all ages. So don't fall into that belief because if you believe that then I will be true to you. but from what I've seen it's just not true.
anaturalbeauty3 7 months ago
@anaturalbeauty3 You're completely right. In general, I don't think people should really marry before the age of 32. By then, you've defined yourself as a person, done the stuff you want, and know what you want in life. 30 is not old at all and the pool of guys is still plentiful. After 35 for a woman, I find that it does get a bit difficult...although if the woman looks younger, that definitely helps.
11wormbig 7 months ago
Enjoyed the information you shared in this video. I never considered the roster system, or seeing multiple guys in the dating stage. You are right trying to commit too soon, is a no no, especially if he isn't talking committment. How did you and your husband meet? I love hearing 'how we met stories'.
ibyl 1 year ago
Good advice!
HGHGonUTube 1 year ago
I agree with you. I think that you should date more than one person at a time. This is how you get to know people....expand your horizons...date people of different cultures and races.
brnize1969 1 year ago
I'm 44 and I think that this is a good advice! I never thought about the roster thing before.
mpenny226 1 year ago
@mpenny226 Thank you for watching! If one do the roster like that are suppose to it will save one alot of heartbreak!
anaturalbeauty3 1 year ago
it is true the men i have come across DO NOT DO NOT appreciate women who want to get to know them before sex it f'ed up but I say keep pushin cuz you will find a man that respects your wishes
SexyLeo84 1 year ago
When did you become exclusive with your husband? What made you want to drop the roster?
swtypiii 1 year ago
@swtypiii Good Question! I became exclusive when he leave me a card and told me that he wants me to be his one and only and then he explained in detail why he wants me to be his one and only. This is just one of the things he did for me. He basically went out his way to be with me or do things for me without me asking.
anaturalbeauty3 1 year ago 2
I so agree!!! I definitely continue to date until we become "exclusive." Even then I have been known to go on the odd date while in a relationship... but nothing more! I think it's just being smart and keeping your options open.
sylviaadk 1 year ago